"It's not a good sign if you are confused because you are overly depending on what you sense God is saying compared to what the evidence is telling you God is saying." Applied to me perfectly - so helpful!
@@uchexoThis person is using the concepts given in this video to justify not being a Christian. Faith is a grace and it's not a good sign when you imply that it's not good for you.
You are a Christian by virtue of the fact that you choose to be. Now let Him help you. Learn your Father's voice as does a child and grow, including the growing pains, as a child does. Listen to your Father through your conscience, which is His Law written upon the human heart and ask Him to help you form your conscience as you do so. From your Catholic Christian brother, -Jesse God love you and bless you
When I felt that God had revealed the one girl for me during prayer time (she was from my youth group) I didn't over-interpret anything or dig deeper into it I just simply grew more in God and I knew, because the bible says, that trust in God and he'll bless you. So I did. To this day I still haven't thought about it as much as I have done with other girls in the past because if it really was from God then I know it'll happen in his timing and if I obsess over it then firstly, it may take longer for God to deliver and secondly, it won't allow me to grow further in God. So, if you feel God has revealed something big in your life to you pray and don't think too much of it because chances are, it won't be the next day or in the next week. Maybe in the next year or few. The point is you don't know when it'll happen so why obsess over it now when you could be focussing on God and what he wants you to do now. In doing this, it may be closer than you think.
I agree. We need to concentrate more on God because if we won't then waiting for that person who you know is the one can cause depression and impatience and toxic thoughts. Always have faith and keep Jesus above everything.
I had a choice between my crush and god one day ... Even tho I didint know I followed god's voice and let her go to another man.... God helped me grow so much that she didint recognise me when she saw me . I wasn't ready then .. Maybe I'm not yet but I will follow god over everything!!!
Never elevate a person's bad behavior above God! Put God first and you will have the strength to call out a person's inappropriate behavior and even walk away when things get terrible.
I honestly wish I had this info 4 years ago. I got into a bad, abusive marriage to a toxic, narcissistic woman who somehow hid the bulk of her issues till after the wedding. She was also bi-polar and refused to get help, so it went completely unchecked. Some of the signs were there, however I had never dealt with any of that in relationships before on that level. God had to rescue me in a crazy way. If I could send this video to my younger, more naive self, I would. You probably just saved someone's life with this one. Thank you so much.
Hey Christopher can I ask what kind of signs you noticed and what sort of abuse you experienced? I'm curious because I think someone might be going through something similar.
Chris Im experiencing the very similar relationship without the marriage so blessed to read your story and thanks mark for taking the time to make the video. God bless all see y'all in the clouds
This is why I’m still single. I’m not saying that I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who God truly wants me to be with but I don’t want to get my hopes up and go with my feelings but to really be led by the Holy Spirit to not fall into sexual sin again. Honestly it’s hard to find someone who loves God wholeheartedly without being forced to compromise my faith and purity. Either way I’m happy whether if He blesses me with a good godly man or not. I’m going to do my best to put God first. No matter how I feel. Thank you so much for your videos. Keep up the good work! 😊 God bless. 🙏
I think God would always want us to be happy with someone, your feelings to matter! And God loves you, He would never want you to be with someone who you don't like/love and also find atractive. God wants someone for you who will fit perfectly. Don't settle. just wait.
Sandy you are right it can be hard to walk by faith especially when you're starting to follow him will. Walking by faith and not by sight means your faith will be tested during the faith walk. Praise God and keep enduring test because after it's tested and you conquer whatever the devil throws at you and don't fail to temptation... you'll receive an reward afterwards. Be patient and seek him in everything. He's knows the knows about us. When all don't truly know ourselves. God truly knows his creations. He created us
This verse helped me a lot when I started to look for signs about particular relationships. “For in many dreams and in many words there is emptiness. Rather, fear God.” Ecclesiastes 5:7 NASB
@Jerry S. You asked this a while ago, but I’ll answer, anyway: There’s nothing Biblical either way that I’m aware of, but from a red pill perspective, it’s not wise. Just YT search “never date a single mother”.
I have known my husband my whole life. He came to me while leaving his wife. Looking back.. God would never send a married man to me! Even my mother who is a devout Christian was telling me he was the one. Now he’s divorcing me. After 3 yrs of emotional abuse. But he’s a good dad to my 3 kids & they love him. So even after he surprised me w divorce papers, I still fought to save my marriage. Even went to counseling after he filed. But he wouldn’t do the work & I guess it was just so he could hurt me again. Satan is in charge of my husbands life & I was so deceived. Please pray for me. I’ve chosen 3 evil men to marry now & I really thought I had healed when I met this one. He seemed so different. Until he told me he loved me after 2 wks.. guess I missed the red flags
We have all been deceived. America has been deceived. The devil wants to destroy families but he won't win. He knows that he is doomed. He is just looking for souls to drag us down with him
About a month ago, I broke up with a girl that I dated for 2 months. She was the first girl that I dated so it was quite special for me but I dated her knowing she wasn't a believer, idolised kpop stars, and even identifying herself as a bisexual. At first I thought we could have a serious relationship and there i would try convincing her to turn to Christ but I knew it is never a good idea to missionary date someone and even 2 Cor. 6:14 talks about it. I had to broke up with her and it still feels painful and sad for me to leave such a sweet girl but I know God has a plan for me and that I should deny myself and wait for His plans for me. Amen!
I was married for 31 years to an abusive man! I'm now divorced! Satan deceived me long enough!!! I married someone just like my dad because we marry what we think we are worth. I didnt ever know anything different! I'm so glad that God spoke to me and woke me up! Sometimes God breaks our heart to fix our vision!
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger please pray for me! I'm disabled from ex- husband and living with my abusive dad. My ex husband commited perjury and I got almost nothing after 31 years. I'm praying that God will replace everything that I lost!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 God is a way- maker,miracle worker,light in the darkness!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@@mirjanabosnjak8064 God does not want women to be abused in a marriage. He told men to love their wives, not harm them physically or emotionally. Your comment is dangerous and it’s a comment that keeps many of us in abusive marriages believing we are sinful to ever leave them. But the truth is, a man who abuses his wife is NOT a saved man. When you are saved by Christ, you have conviction. Abusive men do not have conviction. I would know, I’m married to one and looking to exit as soon as I can. He has never physically harmed me, but he has emotionally caused me such distress that it has made me physically sick and it is destroying my mind and body. My body is God’s. I need to take care of it. My heart is God’s. I need to take care of it. Please do not continue to say things like this. There is a whole book I recommend if you believe someone should stay in a marriage regardless of the treatment within it. It is called “Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage” it’s by Natalie Hoffman.
While we all want to meet 'The One', let's not over idealize to the extent of losing touch with reality. Young men & ladies have lost excellent potential partners due to unrealistic perfectionism. In all these, BALANCE remains the watchword
When you have wishful thinking in your heart, BUT God sends you visions of your ACTUAL FUTURE if you don't submit... Don't lean towards your own understanding... It's less painful if you Accept and Surrender. 💯💯💯💯
I so needed this. This is confirmation on what I've been dealing with. God is not the author of confusion, so I don't need to continue to wonder in my head to cause my heart to become sick. Continue to keep me in prayer! Thank you for this.
Please pray for me friends at church are married and have kids. Yet I am still single. Please pray for me that God will provide a Godly beautiful wife as I would like to have kids🙏🙏🙏 as I would like to serve God with her together 🙏
@@justinscott9733 waaaooo so kind of you thanku for very encouraging words yes it's good to keep on waiting upon the Lord n surely He gonnah do exceedingly more than we imagn.Be blessed n stay safe am also waiting upon the Lord.
Wow this was so timely and spoke to me. My ex recently reached out to me and although I shut it down right away, his simple text was enough to give me second thoughts and made me doubt if I had made a mistake in ending the relationship and if I let go of “the one” even though It happened months ago and I never had these doubts and thoughts until now - the enemy is really trying to confuse me! Praise God because this video reminded me of how ungodly the relationship was and really helped reaffirm my decision to stay away from him 🙏🏼
My crush is with a guy I know 8 years as much as I love her I would never do anything to make her doubt that I was the one.. because I love her. It's he's not the one for her I only pray to God that she will figure this out.
Thank you so much I’m single for long but what I believe God will connect me with a Good man, I’m a Christian who pray everyday, I know God loves me so much
Anything that tempts us in an area that's not scriptural is not God's will for your life. It's really just that simple. If someone is intentionally tempting you sexually to fornicate before making a covenant of commitment in marriage, you know this isn't God's will for your life. Therefore, he or she is not the one. Why? Because they arrogantly put what they think is right in front of what God says is right. So who's right? Man or God? GOD OBVIOUSLY.
6:29 Yes that's what the fruit of the spirit is! I thank God that everytime Im under attack by demonic people trying to get me to believe the One is somewhere in the shadows that its All a GAME. Thank you Lord for your discernment! In Jesus Mighty Name Amen
Thank you for showing me signs although its hard for me to digest and painful ....but the pain I feel today cant compare to the joy that is coming tomorrow amen Hallelujah! !
WOW ! thank God none of these apply. i was praying about this last night. i felt like i was following what the devil wanted for me rather than God. i really think my bf is who God has for me. i can see us in the future in ministry together and i am just so excited for it. thank you mark :)
Thank you! God Bless you! When I was listening to an revival tonight while on the phone with my boyfriend, I yelled out that I want God to bring everything new into my life. And my boyfriend hung up and texted that he hopes all of my wishes comes through.
@@kimbae11 Exactly. My ex pretended to love me and the Lord so he could try to get me into sexual sin. It didn't work. The enemy is upping the ante. Be cautious.
Brother Mark thank you so much. I am presently seeing someone and things are progressing fast in a way that we both have been introduced to each other's family. And today this video came up. I need prayer support....
I forced myself to be with this person because of the love that I had which was very blind and stayed for 42 years and took all sorts of abuse including several adulterous behaviors but not anymore I'm breaking loose and in a few months I will be filing for divorce. now I realize that God does not want me in a relationship where I am constantly worried if he will be unfaithful to me. this video really helped me out to realize that.
Thank you so much Mark! I needed this. It’s confirmation for me and so I’ve already l stopped all communication. I’m obedient. I’m not ashamed for putting this out here as I know I’m not the only one. It’s life and why we go to our Father for guidance. Thank you God for answering my prayers on this. Thank you Mark god delivering this message. May God continue to bless you and deliver his word. 💐🙏🏽🎶
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16 KJV, Jesus Christ is the only way
I am so glad you did this. Because too many people are saying these men who got married were disobedient. What? Too many women are saying this. No you heard wrong. That's what happened to me. I projected my idolatry for marriage on this person. Until the dreams started to occur proving opposite with scripture. God said, "No."
Respect and Praise to the most high for Calling out verbal, physical or emotional abuse. The world and religion has misguided others and they themselves have been mislead.
Great video. I wish I could have seen it years before I married my emotionally abusive husband. I’ve endured so many years and I’m so tired. It’s so draining. We’re separated now, heading towards divorce. Do you have any videos on divorcing abusive spouses? Or any on divorce and remarriage?
SO GLAD THE LORD TAKES THE WHEEL EVERYTIME AND SETS US FREE AND BACK TO WHERE WE BELONG WHEN WE NEVER FORSAKE HIM HOWEVER DEVISTATING THE SEPARATION MAY BE AT FIRST IT'S DIFFICULT AT TIMES TO FIND THE TRUTH AND TRUE BALANCE OF LOVING AND ESTEEMING OTHERS BEFORE YOURSELF
Thank you. And yes I have been in a certain relation and I thank God by his knowledge and wisdom he gave me, I'm free from the person. I have no choice but divorce. Do remember me people of God in your Prayer. May God contd to bless you and your ministry in Jesus name Amen
@@graceibelegbu189 In that dream, I told that guy that we can’t be together because there was too much damage to repair. There’s so much more that went on, which broke my heart like no one else. At the same time, I no longer want that guy in my life. I learned to cope with trauma and ended up happier without him. I also needed to resolve some unaddressed fears for the person I currently like
@@daft_j , sounds so much like my case. Too much damage that my heart couldn't bear, because I'm human. Though I kept seeing in the dream that the guy isn't bad in the core. But I just decided to go for a new person.
@@graceibelegbu189 I wonder why we as humans always want to seek new people. Is it so bad to just stay alone? If that is what God desires for us at a certain stage? Too many people are jumping from relationship to relationship.
I don't know if this is a coincidence or not but someone had just texted me the verses Galatians 5:24 - 25. It was about the time I started this video and the video does speak about verses from Galatians 5:19 - 23. God, I pray unto you. Bless me father and annoint me with your word so that I can always walk on the path you've chosen for me.
I think that sometimes the "one" can also be a person who is stuck in a toxic cycle with another person and may actually marry that person in spite of the level of toxicity that is present because children are involved. I think in this event, it would be better to focus on "your" walk with God and pray about it. Sometimes, that person is still your person, but they and you just aren't ready for each other yet. I know this because this was me. I thought I had to deny my own heart instead of choose it, get away from that abusive person, and heal so I would be a healthy version of myself in my walk with God. for my kids as well as the both of us.
2 years now after my 1st break up, I am still single. Still am in touch with my ex, but i just don't have those strong feelings towards him anymore. I do want to get married and have a family but i am still not sure who is the person i will share my life with. Already in my late twenties. Please pray for us who are still in a confused state🙏🙏
It true! I had been tricked 10 years ago with my ex-boyfriend. I thought he was the one who is my true love, but at the end I know he doesn't love me as I thought. I decided to walk away after 10 years. I wasted my 10 years with him without loved. It was tricked by Satan. Now, I found myself trueself from God..and I am still waiting for God to bless me with a true love from the Lord. Satan sometime tried to tricked you fall into trap. Thank you for the video... God bless!
I’m not religious, I’m not even Christian actually, I’m born to a Jewish family but we are not religious therefore don’t pray. But I am in a weird and struggling situation with a man who is older than me, the situation with him made me feel hopeless and very very low, I would cry everyday for a month because of the man. My only solution was to pray, in my bed, late at night. I would close my eyes and desperately with my all heart ask god, and my angels to help me, to give me signs, to remove this relationship if it’s not meant for me. It has been a few days, and this channels videos started to being recommended to me on UA-cam. I have never searched for anything of that sort, but those videos kept showing up on my front page. I believe it’s a sign from god. These days, I had a fight with this man and he was acting very ugly towards me, I finally realized his true colors. As if something suddenly made sense. I started feeling negativity from him, and these days I decided I would block him from my life and move on. I also noticed, god made it easier for me to move on finally, he helped me to see this mans true colors, which I am very grateful. I am hurting, but atleast now I know this man is not perfect as I’ve been blinded all this time. Thank you god.
Great video, I learnt so much, thank you so much however I’d also like to add that it’s not always that straight forward, there are times when God wants two people together but spiritual forces throw some of what you mentioned at them as attach to keep them apart.
The girl I thought was the one let me down and became toxic and she’s out of my life now but I still kept clinging onto false hope knowing she’s out of my life but I was still hoping she would come back and change and all wrongs would be undone but in reality I knew to let go and god was telling me to also but I just hate that I have that feeling that wants to overlook it and go back in time but this video was the coffee I smelled that woke me up , thank you so much. Your content has given me so much help and clarity that she could never. Thank you and glory to god. I love your channel so much man , you always show up on my feed at the right time
First, thank you to my Lord and Savior, Jesus, for directing me to this ministry. Second, thank you Mark for giving me the biblical perspective I have been so desperately looking for. I have had passive suicidal depression for at least 9 months now, after leaving a 10 year marriage to my "soul mate" whom I painfully discovered to be a narcissistic abuser. Your videos quite literally have saved my life. God bless you and again, thank you from the bottom of my (now mending 😄, broken) heart.
Ex even said to confuse me.......look....noone is perfect to get me to keep him..... My boundaries were set to him last time....and he got worse from that
I wish I had seen this video earlier. Would have saved me from making so many mistakes in my previous relationship and realize I needed to stop holding on and letting go. Four years later, I met a really nice man and I felt more at peace with my decision on marrying him. I wasn’t questioning God everyday and crying. I’m happy with the decision made.
We just need to pay attention to the Holy Spirit more. We don't need to have a video tell us what we already know. We just choose to ignore what we know. Because we feel like we have to have that person.
Thanks for sharing this mark. My sister is in a relationship my family and I don’t agree with. This man is using her and they had dated for 3 months and he had broke it off and was with someone for a while and then they became friends quote unquote. So now they have decided to move in together and are looking for a place. He told her that he had only seen her as a sister or friend and once she told him that she couldn’t remain just friends because she loved him only then did he claim to love her back and also told her that he wasn’t attracted to her initially because of her weight. But now can look past that. Please pray for me and my family. This is very difficult.
Thanks for this wondering vedio i asked God about the man am dating he showed me unriped mangoes on the tree I interpreted as to be patient with him such that the fruit can ripe..
I really thank you for doing these I haven't come across any content like yours and God bless you because I have questioned myself so many times even though I knew that I was abused. This type of information is so mundane and so crucial since we all are living real lives. Not many people either believe these or even though they have the information they use it to make their own lives better and share such knowledge to very little. You have no idea how much you have helped. Thank you!
I was asking God to give me a sign yesterday n u know what I got it now...... TNK u GOD JESUS YESHUA N happy new year to all my dear brothers n sisters in Christ. God bless Amen
If you are watching now, Jesus Loves you, Loves you, Loves you... Even when you don't feel it He does love you
Amen. Thank you!
Thank you, I needed to hear this
Ok thank u I needed it😭😭😭😭😭😣😣😣😣😣
Thank you!
Praise The Lord!
Thank You soooo much🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😢😢♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
"It's not a good sign if you are confused because you are overly depending on what you sense God is saying compared to what the evidence is telling you God is saying." Applied to me perfectly - so helpful!
I'm so glad it was helpful!
So true.
Grande hermana
Reminds me of when I left Christianity. I was trying so hard to make Christianity work, but all the evidence was telling me otherwise.
@@uchexoThis person is using the concepts given in this video to justify not being a Christian. Faith is a grace and it's not a good sign when you imply that it's not good for you.
Dear Lord
Take Away My Scars
Take My Heart
Turn Me Into a Christian
Amin
Amen 🙏
You are a Christian by virtue of the fact that you choose to be. Now let Him help you. Learn your Father's voice as does a child and grow, including the growing pains, as a child does. Listen to your Father through your conscience, which is His Law written upon the human heart and ask Him to help you form your conscience as you do so. From your Catholic Christian brother,
-Jesse
God love you and bless you
Amen 🙏🏼✝️❣️
In the powerful name of Jesus 🙏🏽
When I felt that God had revealed the one girl for me during prayer time (she was from my youth group) I didn't over-interpret anything or dig deeper into it I just simply grew more in God and I knew, because the bible says, that trust in God and he'll bless you. So I did. To this day I still haven't thought about it as much as I have done with other girls in the past because if it really was from God then I know it'll happen in his timing and if I obsess over it then firstly, it may take longer for God to deliver and secondly, it won't allow me to grow further in God.
So, if you feel God has revealed something big in your life to you pray and don't think too much of it because chances are, it won't be the next day or in the next week. Maybe in the next year or few. The point is you don't know when it'll happen so why obsess over it now when you could be focussing on God and what he wants you to do now. In doing this, it may be closer than you think.
Amen. Thank you so much for this. I so need to hear this. God bless you even more. Be safe always.
Thanks for this
I agree. We need to concentrate more on God because if we won't then waiting for that person who you know is the one can cause depression and impatience and toxic thoughts. Always have faith and keep Jesus above everything.
I had a choice between my crush and god one day ... Even tho I didint know I followed god's voice and let her go to another man....
God helped me grow so much that she didint recognise me when she saw me .
I wasn't ready then ..
Maybe I'm not yet but I will follow god over everything!!!
Amen!!!
Never elevate a person's bad behavior above God! Put God first and you will have the strength to call out a person's inappropriate behavior and even walk away when things get terrible.
true
Agreed
That's good.
I did walk....... Now I feel lonely..............
@@franceshaggitt3104 better to be lonely than in a sinful relationship. May God fill every void in your heart and life❤️
I honestly wish I had this info 4 years ago. I got into a bad, abusive marriage to a toxic, narcissistic woman who somehow hid the bulk of her issues till after the wedding. She was also bi-polar and refused to get help, so it went completely unchecked. Some of the signs were there, however I had never dealt with any of that in relationships before on that level. God had to rescue me in a crazy way. If I could send this video to my younger, more naive self, I would. You probably just saved someone's life with this one. Thank you so much.
So glad you found this useful, I do hope it's helpful to people, God bless!
Hey Christopher can I ask what kind of signs you noticed and what sort of abuse you experienced? I'm curious because I think someone might be going through something similar.
Chris Im experiencing the very similar relationship without the marriage so blessed to read your story and thanks mark for taking the time to make the video. God bless all see y'all in the clouds
@@samsnowman6668 probably classic gaslighting as they call it. I call it simply being deceived.
I would really love to hear your story. Hoping u cud share to us ur testimony in video someday
PLEASE PRAY FOR MY SISTER AND THAT SHE HAS MORE FAITH IN GOD
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This is why I’m still single. I’m not saying that I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who God truly wants me to be with but I don’t want to get my hopes up and go with my feelings but to really be led by the Holy Spirit to not fall into sexual sin again. Honestly it’s hard to find someone who loves God wholeheartedly without being forced to compromise my faith and purity. Either way I’m happy whether if He blesses me with a good godly man or not. I’m going to do my best to put God first. No matter how I feel. Thank you so much for your videos. Keep up the good work! 😊 God bless. 🙏
Same!
Stay strong with the Lord!! Don't compromise your standards or Christian beleifs! -from your brother in Christ🎚
Thanks for sharing this Sandy and God bless as you follow the Lord's will for your life!
I think God would always want us to be happy with someone, your feelings to matter! And God loves you, He would never want you to be with someone who you don't like/love and also find atractive. God wants someone for you who will fit perfectly. Don't settle. just wait.
Sandy you are right it can be hard to walk by faith especially when you're starting to follow him will. Walking by faith and not by sight means your faith will be tested during the faith walk. Praise God and keep enduring test because after it's tested and you conquer whatever the devil throws at you and don't fail to temptation... you'll receive an reward afterwards. Be patient and seek him in everything. He's knows the knows about us. When all don't truly know ourselves. God truly knows his creations. He created us
Another pastor said - rather than being focused on finding the one, focus on becoming the 'one' for your future spouse. So true
Great advice!
"Life gets complicated when we go our own ways"
Do u like movies where the good guy shoots the bad guy and then he walks away with an explosion in the background and puts his sun glasses on?
No man can keep apart what God has brought together. Pray and ask God for wisdom and discernment. He will reveal it all.🙏
Put God first and everything will come after. Thanks so much for sharing Mark!
This verse helped me a lot when I started to look for signs about particular relationships.
“For in many dreams and in many words there is emptiness. Rather, fear God.” Ecclesiastes 5:7 NASB
Amen, great reference!
There are so much evidences that can’t be ignored in this video! Once again, God bless you Mark!
God bless you too David, so glad it was relevant to you!
You look nice 🥰😍
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger what if someone is not married but has children with someone else, is that a clear sign?
@Jerry S. You asked this a while ago, but I’ll answer, anyway: There’s nothing Biblical either way that I’m aware of, but from a red pill perspective, it’s not wise. Just YT search “never date a single mother”.
I have known my husband my whole life. He came to me while leaving his wife. Looking back.. God would never send a married man to me! Even my mother who is a devout Christian was telling me he was the one. Now he’s divorcing me. After 3 yrs of emotional abuse. But he’s a good dad to my 3 kids & they love him. So even after he surprised me w divorce papers, I still fought to save my marriage. Even went to counseling after he filed. But he wouldn’t do the work & I guess it was just so he could hurt me again. Satan is in charge of my husbands life & I was so deceived. Please pray for me. I’ve chosen 3 evil men to marry now & I really thought I had healed when I met this one. He seemed so different. Until he told me he loved me after 2 wks.. guess I missed the red flags
Bless you and I hope everything works out well for you. Amen 😟🙏💗
We have all been deceived. America has been deceived. The devil wants to destroy families but he won't win. He knows that he is doomed. He is just looking for souls to drag us down with him
About a month ago, I broke up with a girl that I dated for 2 months. She was the first girl that I dated so it was quite special for me but I dated her knowing she wasn't a believer, idolised kpop stars, and even identifying herself as a bisexual. At first I thought we could have a serious relationship and there i would try convincing her to turn to Christ but I knew it is never a good idea to missionary date someone and even 2 Cor. 6:14 talks about it. I had to broke up with her and it still feels painful and sad for me to leave such a sweet girl but I know God has a plan for me and that I should deny myself and wait for His plans for me. Amen!
Stay strong Papa, it is not easy.
@@kuntakinte112 I will, thanks :)
Aameen
No missionary dating. I feel your pain, booboo.
I was married for 31 years to an abusive man! I'm now divorced! Satan deceived me long enough!!! I married someone just like my dad because we marry what we think we are worth. I didnt ever know anything different! I'm so glad that God spoke to me and woke me up! Sometimes God breaks our heart to fix our vision!
God bless Candy!
Your husband is the one for you, marriage is until death
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger please pray for me! I'm disabled from ex- husband and living with my abusive dad. My ex husband commited perjury and I got almost nothing after 31 years. I'm praying that God will replace everything that I lost!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 God is a way- maker,miracle worker,light in the darkness!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Candy Willins I was in the same situation. It really is very Hurtful, when life goes wrong. But God has moved me on with my life. I am happier now.
@@mirjanabosnjak8064 God does not want women to be abused in a marriage. He told men to love their wives, not harm them physically or emotionally. Your comment is dangerous and it’s a comment that keeps many of us in abusive marriages believing we are sinful to ever leave them. But the truth is, a man who abuses his wife is NOT a saved man. When you are saved by Christ, you have conviction. Abusive men do not have conviction. I would know, I’m married to one and looking to exit as soon as I can. He has never physically harmed me, but he has emotionally caused me such distress that it has made me physically sick and it is destroying my mind and body. My body is God’s. I need to take care of it. My heart is God’s. I need to take care of it. Please do not continue to say things like this. There is a whole book I recommend if you believe someone should stay in a marriage regardless of the treatment within it. It is called “Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage” it’s by Natalie Hoffman.
Spot on. Thank you. I plead with anyone in a toxic relationship to tune in to God, respect Him and yourself by getting out now!
Amen Gina!
While we all want to meet 'The One', let's not over idealize to the extent of losing touch with reality.
Young men & ladies have lost excellent potential partners due to unrealistic perfectionism.
In all these, BALANCE remains the watchword
Girl I agreee but at the same time if someone doesn’t meet the requirements from God, don’t they need to go
We are all fearfully , wonderfully made in the Image of God( psalm 139:14). God spent good time on each and every one of you!❤️
When you have wishful thinking in your heart, BUT God sends you visions of your ACTUAL FUTURE if you don't submit... Don't lean towards your own understanding... It's less painful if you Accept and Surrender. 💯💯💯💯
Proverbs 3:5;6
Luke 17:6-12
I so needed this. This is confirmation on what I've been dealing with. God is not the author of confusion, so I don't need to continue to wonder in my head to cause my heart to become sick. Continue to keep me in prayer! Thank you for this.
Please pray for me friends at church are married and have kids. Yet I am still single. Please pray for me that God will provide a Godly beautiful wife as I would like to have kids🙏🙏🙏 as I would like to serve God with her together 🙏
This may help: ua-cam.com/video/mT1U5JwTEys/v-deo.html
God will give you a good wife just hang in there.. I'm looking for a good husband also
Ill pray for self control and discipline for you in case you meet her later in life or not at all if God wants you dedicated to himself.
He will! I’m still waiting for God to send a girl in my life. Just remember if God makes you wait then be prepared to receive more than you asked for.
@@justinscott9733 waaaooo so kind of you thanku for very encouraging words yes it's good to keep on waiting upon the Lord n surely He gonnah do exceedingly more than we imagn.Be blessed n stay safe am also waiting upon the Lord.
Wow this was so timely and spoke to me. My ex recently reached out to me and although I shut it down right away, his simple text was enough to give me second thoughts and made me doubt if I had made a mistake in ending the relationship and if I let go of “the one” even though It happened months ago and I never had these doubts and thoughts until now - the enemy is really trying to confuse me! Praise God because this video reminded me of how ungodly the relationship was and really helped reaffirm my decision to stay away from him 🙏🏼
Amen Bianca! It's easy to look back and see things differently! But then God will help us see the truth again when we submit to him :)
My crush is with a guy I know 8 years as much as I love her I would never do anything to make her doubt that I was the one.. because I love her.
It's he's not the one for her I only pray to God that she will figure this out.
Are you ok now..
This video came in the right moment. I have a crush on a atheist, but i told her not to talk to me... But it really hurts.
Bring her into Jesus Christ 🙏💛
I know the sinner God took me away from is not the one, but devil wants me to think she is. No way falling for it.
God bless as you seek the Lord
@@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger bless you too o my soul ✝️🖤🖤
Amen, Im right there with you brother.
Thank you Jesus for loving me even though I am not worthy
Thank you so much I’m single for long but what I believe God will connect me with a Good man, I’m a Christian who pray everyday, I know God loves me so much
I got scammed with a toxic friendship 4 times in a row now.
And now, I must be super duper careful with any kind of relationship.
Yes, it's wise to learn from the past
B Anxious 4 Nothing!
God will give confirmation and remember:
God's Word=
God's Will👍🛡️
God is always there for you. When I realised that, boy! I'm super happy.
I just found out it's a literal command to guard our hearts.
They're "the one" alright, the one to destroy your life.
lmao
Why is this funny?
Anything that tempts us in an area that's not scriptural is not God's will for your life. It's really just that simple. If someone is intentionally tempting you sexually to fornicate before making a covenant of commitment in marriage, you know this isn't God's will for your life. Therefore, he or she is not the one. Why? Because they arrogantly put what they think is right in front of what God says is right. So who's right? Man or God? GOD OBVIOUSLY.
Yes, we must follow the Lord always
AMEN AMEN AMEN. SO WELL EXPLAINED. 🙏
needed this.....
Right on !! Currently I went through a similar situation but thank God he pulled me out of a situation that was bringing my relationship with God down
@@Queenteethtapper SAME HAS HAPPENED WITH ME DEAR SISTER. I WENT THRU SO MUCH STRUGGLES FEAR ANXIETY. ONLY GOD DELIVERED ME FULLY. 🙏
6:29 Yes that's what the fruit of the spirit is! I thank God that everytime Im under attack by demonic people trying to get me to believe the One is somewhere in the shadows that its All a GAME. Thank you Lord for your discernment! In Jesus Mighty Name Amen
This is my current relationship.....you just showed me that I’m really with the wrong one.....Thank you soooo much for this video
Did you ever end your relationship? The only reason I ask is women I know always say the same thing but never end them.
A person may not be saved when you first get together, but they may give their lives to Christ
I believe this but church people will feel like we can’t
Are you reading my mind god bless you and this channel
lol! So glad this was relevant!
Felt that 😭
Getting lots of good conviction and wisdom by this video! It’s confirmation on what God was already saying to me.
Thank you for showing me signs although its hard for me to digest and painful ....but the pain I feel today cant compare to the joy that is coming tomorrow amen Hallelujah! !
WOW ! thank God none of these apply. i was praying about this last night. i felt like i was following what the devil wanted for me rather than God. i really think my bf is who God has for me. i can see us in the future in ministry together and i am just so excited for it. thank you mark :)
God bless Karis!
Thank you! God Bless you! When I was listening to an revival tonight while on the phone with my boyfriend, I yelled out that I want God to bring everything new into my life. And my boyfriend hung up and texted that he hopes all of my wishes comes through.
Keep trusting the Lord and putting him first, his plan is better than ours!
Your not a girlfriend, your a wife. If he's not being intentional. Moving towards marriage, you must walk away.
@@danilaroche1156 Thank God I’m no longer with him
@@kimbae11 Exactly. My ex pretended to love me and the Lord so he could try to get me into sexual sin. It didn't work. The enemy is upping the ante. Be cautious.
Thanks Pastor Mark for the revelation. The "debatable signs" is one have been battling with.
Amen Jacob, focus on the word of God most of all and pay attention to the actual events in life rather than just feelings and hopes in us
This is all the clarity I needed
Let go and let God intervene
Amen!
Brother Mark thank you so much. I am presently seeing someone and things are progressing fast in a way that we both have been introduced to each other's family. And today this video came up. I need prayer support....
Thank you Mark your ministry has been great to me.. pray for me so I can find the right one that God has plan for me..
God bless Sharon as you follow the Lord!
I forced myself to be with this person because of the love that I had which was very blind and stayed for 42 years and took all sorts of abuse including several adulterous behaviors but not anymore I'm breaking loose and in a few months I will be filing for divorce. now I realize that God does not want me in a relationship where I am constantly worried if he will be unfaithful to me. this video really helped me out to realize that.
Thank you so much Mark! I needed this. It’s confirmation for me and so I’ve already l stopped all communication. I’m obedient. I’m not ashamed for putting this out here as I know I’m not the only one. It’s life and why we go to our Father for guidance. Thank you God for answering my prayers on this. Thank you Mark god delivering this message. May God continue to bless you and deliver his word. 💐🙏🏽🎶
Amen, God's grace is sufficient!
Thank you, will look out for the sighns, God always protect His children
Thank you Mark, God bless your ministry and your family!
Thank you and God bless you too!
Thank you so much Mark for being inspired by the Holy Spirit to speak to me and so many of us.
So glad you are enjoying the channel, God bless!
For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16 KJV, Jesus Christ is the only way
Last night I had a dream so this is perfect.
God bless!
I am so glad you did this. Because too many people are saying these men who got married were disobedient. What? Too many women are saying this. No you heard wrong. That's what happened to me. I projected my idolatry for marriage on this person. Until the dreams started to occur proving opposite with scripture. God said, "No."
Respect and Praise to the most high for Calling out verbal, physical or emotional abuse.
The world and religion has misguided others and they themselves have been mislead.
I need your prayers I was in this kind of relationship for years, I finally got to break up but now after eight months I can't love anyone else.
These videos may help: ua-cam.com/video/DP7uIW0irCM/v-deo.html
God bless you!
God bless you too!
Great video. I wish I could have seen it years before I married my emotionally abusive husband. I’ve endured so many years and I’m so tired. It’s so draining. We’re separated now, heading towards divorce.
Do you have any videos on divorcing abusive spouses? Or any on divorce and remarriage?
SO GLAD THE LORD TAKES THE WHEEL EVERYTIME AND SETS US FREE AND BACK TO WHERE WE BELONG WHEN WE NEVER FORSAKE HIM HOWEVER DEVISTATING THE SEPARATION MAY BE AT FIRST IT'S DIFFICULT AT TIMES TO FIND THE TRUTH AND TRUE BALANCE OF LOVING AND ESTEEMING OTHERS BEFORE YOURSELF
Thank you. And yes I have been in a certain relation and I thank God by his knowledge and wisdom he gave me, I'm free from the person. I have no choice but divorce. Do remember me people of God in your Prayer. May God contd to bless you and your ministry in Jesus name Amen
Growing into a relationship with someone I’ve been friends for a while, but recently dreamt of letting go of a guy who broke my heart years ago.
God bless as you keep seeking the Lord and following him through all this
The dream signifies the need to completely let go.
So you can move on
@@graceibelegbu189 In that dream, I told that guy that we can’t be together because there was too much damage to repair. There’s so much more that went on, which broke my heart like no one else. At the same time, I no longer want that guy in my life. I learned to cope with trauma and ended up happier without him. I also needed to resolve some unaddressed fears for the person I currently like
@@daft_j , sounds so much like my case.
Too much damage that my heart couldn't bear, because I'm human.
Though I kept seeing in the dream that the guy isn't bad in the core.
But I just decided to go for a new person.
@@graceibelegbu189 I wonder why we as humans always want to seek new people. Is it so bad to just stay alone? If that is what God desires for us at a certain stage? Too many people are jumping from relationship to relationship.
I don't know if this is a coincidence or not but someone had just texted me the verses Galatians 5:24 - 25. It was about the time I started this video and the video does speak about verses from Galatians 5:19 - 23.
God, I pray unto you. Bless me father and annoint me with your word so that I can always walk on the path you've chosen for me.
I think that sometimes the "one" can also be a person who is stuck in a toxic cycle with another person and may actually marry that person in spite of the level of toxicity that is present because children are involved. I think in this event, it would be better to focus on "your" walk with God and pray about it. Sometimes, that person is still your person, but they and you just aren't ready for each other yet. I know this because this was me. I thought I had to deny my own heart instead of choose it, get away from that abusive person, and heal so I would be a healthy version of myself in my walk with God. for my kids as well as the both of us.
2 years now after my 1st break up, I am still single. Still am in touch with my ex, but i just don't have those strong feelings towards him anymore. I do want to get married and have a family but i am still not sure who is the person i will share my life with. Already in my late twenties. Please pray for us who are still in a confused state🙏🙏
Yes, the one is rarely an ex. For others you won't know who is the one until you have more relationship experiences with them in dating. God bless!
“As for me and my house we will serve the lord”
It true! I had been tricked 10 years ago with my ex-boyfriend. I thought he was the one who is my true love, but at the end I know he doesn't love me as I thought. I decided to walk away after 10 years. I wasted my 10 years with him without loved. It was tricked by Satan. Now, I found myself trueself from God..and I am still waiting for God to bless me with a true love from the Lord. Satan sometime tried to tricked you fall into trap. Thank you for the video... God bless!
TIMELY! Thank you!
You're so welcome! All glory to God!
I’m not religious, I’m not even Christian actually, I’m born to a Jewish family but we are not religious therefore don’t pray.
But I am in a weird and struggling situation with a man who is older than me, the situation with him made me feel hopeless and very very low, I would cry everyday for a month because of the man. My only solution was to pray, in my bed, late at night. I would close my eyes and desperately with my all heart ask god, and my angels to help me, to give me signs, to remove this relationship if it’s not meant for me.
It has been a few days, and this channels videos started to being recommended to me on UA-cam. I have never searched for anything of that sort, but those videos kept showing up on my front page. I believe it’s a sign from god.
These days, I had a fight with this man and he was acting very ugly towards me, I finally realized his true colors. As if something suddenly made sense.
I started feeling negativity from him, and these days I decided I would block him from my life and move on.
I also noticed, god made it easier for me to move on finally, he helped me to see this mans true colors, which I am very grateful.
I am hurting, but atleast now I know this man is not perfect as I’ve been blinded all this time.
Thank you god.
Great video, I learnt so much, thank you so much however I’d also like to add that it’s not always that straight forward, there are times when God wants two people together but spiritual forces throw some of what you mentioned at them as attach to keep them apart.
true, relationships are messy but sometimes they are just not meant to be too :) We all have to walk with God and be humble to hear :)
Amen🙏🏼 let God takes us to his Love. God bless you 🥰
God bless you too Reyna!
The girl I thought was the one let me down and became toxic and she’s out of my life now but I still kept clinging onto false hope knowing she’s out of my life but I was still hoping she would come back and change and all wrongs would be undone but in reality I knew to let go and god was telling me to also but I just hate that I have that feeling that wants to overlook it and go back in time but this video was the coffee I smelled that woke me up , thank you so much. Your content has given me so much help and clarity that she could never. Thank you and glory to god. I love your channel so much man , you always show up on my feed at the right time
I'm so glad the channel has been helpful!
First, thank you to my Lord and Savior, Jesus, for directing me to this ministry.
Second, thank you Mark for giving me the biblical perspective I have been so desperately looking for. I have had passive suicidal depression for at least 9 months now, after leaving a 10 year marriage to my "soul mate" whom I painfully discovered to be a narcissistic abuser. Your videos quite literally have saved my life. God bless you and again, thank you from the bottom of my (now mending 😄, broken) heart.
Ex even said to confuse me.......look....noone is perfect to get me to keep him..... My boundaries were set to him last time....and he got worse from that
Awesome blessed content Mark. Amazing how The Lord has used you with this ministry. Praise God.
So glad you are enjoying this! All glory to God!
.. fleeing fornication helps save sound mind's clarity & avoid being tricked by devil...
I wish I had seen this video earlier. Would have saved me from making so many mistakes in my previous relationship and realize I needed to stop holding on and letting go. Four years later, I met a really nice man and I felt more at peace with my decision on marrying him. I wasn’t questioning God everyday and crying. I’m happy with the decision made.
I wish i had such a video in 2017, it would have saved me from a lot of pain and heartache
We just need to pay attention to the Holy Spirit more. We don't need to have a video tell us what we already know. We just choose to ignore what we know. Because we feel like we have to have that person.
@@ladennayoung2939 very true. 💯
Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.
I'm so glad it's been helpful, all glory to God!
Thanks for sharing this mark. My sister is in a relationship my family and I don’t agree with. This man is using her and they had dated for 3 months and he had broke it off and was with someone for a while and then they became friends quote unquote. So now they have decided to move in together and are looking for a place. He told her that he had only seen her as a sister or friend and once she told him that she couldn’t remain just friends because she loved him only then did he claim to love her back and also told her that he wasn’t attracted to her initially because of her weight. But now can look past that. Please pray for me and my family. This is very difficult.
GREAT message brother !✝️ Thanks ☺️ Blessings for you and your family
So glad it was helpful! All glory to God and may he bless you too!
Thank you Mark. This was life changing.
Thanks for your relationship advice God bless you
Thanks for this wondering vedio i asked God about the man am dating he showed me unriped mangoes on the tree I interpreted as to be patient with him such that the fruit can ripe..
God bless as you seek the Lord!
This is a really really good one!!
So glad it was helpful!
I’m a overthinker as well. I’m isolated. I only leave when I have to.I’m alone and I have to be in waiting season.
I keep seeing conflicting videos like to wait then to move on & some of both points are true.
I needed to hear this ❤️
Thats why Im here Im watching. :) Thank you, Lord.
Satan is liar. FalseHope!
This video definitely cleared somethings up for me about an ex of mine, thank you for posting this.
Where was this video several months ago??? Lol so much could’ve been avoided 😫
Great explanation of this
This video is pure blessing I NEEDED that
Thank you Mark..Start my day with this video.God Bless.from Hongkong with❤
So glad it was helpful Kristine! I hope you have a great day!
Thank you, I so wanted clarity on this topic.
All glory to God!
GOD BLESS YOU SO MUCH BRO 🙏
ALL GLORY BE TO JESUS.❤️
Amen, all glory to God!
I really thank you for doing these I haven't come across any content like yours and God bless you because I have questioned myself so many times even though I knew that I was abused. This type of information is so mundane and so crucial since we all are living real lives. Not many people either believe these or even though they have the information they use it to make their own lives better and share such knowledge to very little. You have no idea how much you have helped. Thank you!
Thank you kindly for this video!
God bless you!
Praise The Lord for all His care!
Super timely lol
So glad it was helpful!
Yes it was very helpful 😊
I was asking God to give me a sign yesterday n u know what I got it now......
TNK u GOD JESUS YESHUA
N happy new year to all my dear brothers n sisters in Christ.
God bless
Amen
God bless you too Stella!
This video is 7:11 long too...isa 7:11
Grabe ang galing same na same kami ng feeelings and experiance God bless for this videooo keeep it uppp🙌🙏👍👏
Needed this 🤍🤍
Without a seed of doubt n so shall it b.