I understand your completely I have been through that and it hurts pretty bad..I just hope God heals you like he did to me.still waiting for my God sent
Yes it’s so true, I been going through it, with co- worker and then come home and go through it with my husband and my grandkids it’s like they’re mess up my house on a daily I have to make them clean up their mess , then dealing with my smart mouth husband and tired of it all. 😢
I am so happy you ended the relationship. Good for you! You deserve better. Don't accept less. I am out of one too and it's the best choice I made.( after giving my life to Christ. He is a healer, for real!) God bless you.
Hey God bless :) God bless. God and Jesus are here and they love you im sure. God bless:) love and good and good change to you. You're not a good person and you can change. God is here and he is listening and hears you. If you need to change please go to God and he can save you. God bless you
I have tolorated disrespect from my grown sons for the last 10 years..trying to be be there for them..I have given them chance after chance after chance and they have disrespected me time and time again...as of Sunday..no more..I am moving on with my life and I WILL NOT TAKE ANYMORE DISRESPECT!!!!! I WISH THEM THE BEST... BUT I AM MOVING ON WITH MY LIFE.. I HAVE HAD ENOUGH!!!!!
This is why i have disconnected from many. I recently loaned a so called friend some money and they figured " oh she'll be alright" and then blocked me without paying back. The thoughts i had in my mind regarding revenge scared me so i let it go and moved on. Simply tired of evil people
Autumn W I just went thru the same thing last month wit my so called BFF 30+ yrs, always treated her like a sister, but come on now, how I give you money, you stop answering my calls, then give me the run around, that's fine, but how you don't expect to get the business brought to you and have nerve to get mad after you purposely take my money and refuse to give it back like promised. I lit her a** up and put her on blast, then she said I hate people like you amongst other things, turned it all around on me, cudn't take it, but dish it out, another time she owed me, dropped it in the mailbox, didn't let me know and stopped calling me. I know what you mean about the thoughts, I had to leave it alone too and her alone...Thanks for the fish!!!
I know all about those evil revenge thoughts and yes they are scary. Letting go is always best because we not going to prison for anybody over the anger we feel for their actions.
You don't have to do anything the universe has way, and it will cost her more than you loaned her, just put it in your mind I let her have it because she needed more than me💪🏼
I needed to hear this even though it hurts. My husband now my ex left me for someone half our age 2 years ago and I was letting him still come and hang out hoping he'd come back to me. That stops now. Thank you so much. I'm done being used by years. 20 years together doesn't give him the right to disrespect me. I divorced him. Time to start acting like it.
In the bigger picture you May see the way things go Your way sometimes but Overwelming situations Understand its good Remember to embrace Pleasure to the one your Intimute with desire to Make him happy no matter the Price you will be rewarded for your Behavior and given passion and desire In ways you could not comprehend Thank and embrace him with affection Cherish his preasence and dominance Help make your king great be his queen !
Im sorry for your hurt and pain. I hope someone mature and loving will come along in your life. From all of the people that I have spoken to, who have gone through the same situation as this (n the marriages ranged between 28yrs to 7yrs) they have ALL said the 2nd marriage is much better than the 1st. Look FORWARD darling 🤗
I understand your completely I have been through that and it hurts pretty bad..I just hope God heals you like he did to me.still waiting for my God sent
i can’t feel bad for myself because of they treated me. i let them do that to me and now im dealing with the consequences of accepting less and not loving myself. no more. they can not come back and disrespect me anymore.
It is really true Though life is very hard right now I believe I will go through Ever since my ex wife hurt me It been really hard on me but I believe God will send someone to me I believe
Don't feel bad for yourself anymore and don't push them away, they're your children. Show them how to treat you and don't back down. They will either accept it or THEY will move on. You would have finished your complete training. They will KNOW what behavior Mama won't and don't take.
They call me "Ice Cold." The last thing I tell them is, "I'm going to treat you how you treat me. Peace." There are so many talking/texting into cyberspace right now... BLOCKED and DELETED. 🤣
No one can disrespect you without your permission. Stuck up for myself and others against a toxic person at work! Had enough of this person for months. People, stand up for yourself and others who are too afraid to speak up👍😄Everyone needs help. Thank you Trent
Consistent Disrespect Is A Form Of Abuse. Apology Without Change Is Feeding The Devil. I started calling people out who use abuse and disrespect me and my kids. It took my skull being cracked a second time to snap out of it and wake up. My problem was my pride. I was embarrassed I had retrograde amnesia. The stuff I couldn't remember hurt me deeply and telling people left me vulnerable and exposed. I thought the people around me who knew about my amnesia were helping me when in reality, they were using me and my medical situation to literally hold me hostage and exploit me. It wasn't easy removing these people from my life. They didn't leave quietly. They were so angry about not being able to use and abuse me anymore, they did everything they could on the way out to destroy me and everything Surrounding me. I went threw this twice. Im in a position now where I feel I can't have nothing because others will either destroy what I have or take what I have. I no longer feel emotional attachment because EVERY TIME I do, it is used against me to hurt me. I have had my kids wrongfully removed twice and my property wrongfully taken over and over again. Where does ot end. It didn't matter if I told or not, they won't stop until the Courts Make Them.
I'm praying for you, your, kids, property, and all else in your life and in agreement you and I REBUKE THE DEVIL AND ANY SATANIC FORCES that come against you, IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME!!!! DONNA MORRIS IN MOBILE ALABAMA. MAY GOD TRULY BLESS YOU AND YOURS.
I understand your completely I have been through that and it hurts pretty bad..I just hope God heals you like he did to me.still waiting for my God sent
“The only closure that you need, is realizing you deserve better”!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This WILL be my mantra the next time someone thinks they can disrespect me and still be in my life!❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@Kubwayo10 I focus on me, God, and my kids😇😁 I think YOU should NOT FOCUS on others comments but instead focus on your spelling 🤣 By the way, I don't focus on DISRESPECTFUL FOLKS I CUT OFF DISRESPECTFUL FOLKS 🤨💯
You are a special person with Endless possibilities in store Stay focused and on your path Make the most of you time And use it wisley keep your Self surrounded with Those who love and cherish Every minute with you and Remember LOVE! is powerful !
@@lleeaanee Perfection is your natural state Accompined by your shear talent Skill and soul truth are your Staples you have a charm thats Intense and your PASSION! is Overwelming and overflowing Never take no for an answer Faith in ones self is all you need Overflowing with LOVE ENERGY! Remain who you are stay true Original and blaze your own trail Never settle for anything thats Lower then your absolute best You deserve it you have Made a name for yourself Embrace the LOVE your given !
I agree, we must stand for something. However, I disagree that love is not always enough. Because love is always full. People have selfish and faulty intent. God is love. We must stop looking for others to supply love. Dr. Barbara De Angelis once said, "All others can do is shine the light on and/ or put you in touch with the love you have within." Love can be found with or without someone else.
You are correct, I had the wrong view of forgiveness. I had the wrong view of loyalty, I was loyal to those who were not loyal to me and what I notice about those people is they are liars. We have to be responsible for ourselves , don't lie to yourself , cut those disrespectful people out of your life. 👍👍👍
@karla villasenor we thought we were being kind , understanding, loving ...... we were confused because of the lying. We would never treat them the way they have treated us. The reason we never saw it is we don't think the way they do. They are selfish, we are giving.... we just need to stop look and listen before we give. We need to be more selective. From childhood I was rejected because I reminded my parents of a dishonesty they were hiding and because of my honesty I was hated . Don't let them gaslight you into beleaving that you are the problem , we are the truthful ones who were tricked and have nothing to be ashamed of. We just need to learn the skills to better protect ourselves , stay safe 😉😊😚
I'm quitting my job tomorrow to start living my own dreams. I'm destined for so much more than what they have held me to. It is MY CHOICE and i am choosing better. Thank you for this motivation. I AM making the best decision for ME
I’ve been with a high functioning alcoholic for 18 years. I feel disrespected because I have tolerated it for so, so long. Please pray for me to see my self worth, and value! Thank you! ❣️
That’s what they think, you’re sometimes just unaware but yes they think your stupid, that’s why they are cut and done and no turning back after that. Forgive but no reconciliation or relationship. God hate’s disrespect and so should you, he kicked Satan out in a blink of an eye.
Amen that disrespect can even be given by family. I will not accept that from them as well. I did tough love and it hurt at first now I can go on with my life.
Exactly!!! God definitely is using him to speak to others that are going through the same struggles and hardships. I've been falllowing him this past year and everytime he post, its like a gut punch 😳 and I'm in the middle of the exact topic he's schooling me on. I truly appreciate all the wisdom he shares and it has helped me immensely 🙏
This hit so hard for me! When we lower our standards, we also open the door for control, deceipt and manipulation. I learned this. Thank you for this. I really needed to hear this.
I am 23 years old and I am so blessed and grateful with the fact that I am in tune with myself at a young age. I 100% agree with you, when you allow negative or toxic people in your life, it is going to reflect on you whether you choose to believe it or not. I made a commitment to block toxic people moving forward.
Yes! I needed this!! "Faith without works is dead; you cannot heal your heart when staying in the pain thats destroying your life. Period" thank you, be blessed!
As I’ve been serving God, people have shown disrespect passive aggressively. I don’t tolerate & call them out they play stupid like it never happened and stay absolutely quiet 🤫
Totally agree true..I let go all left behind in last year.. this was my new year and came doing great better & blessed stay away from toxic people and anyone yes💯🥰😇🙏
Know your worth and then charge tax. Do not accept disrespect. Stop seeing your value from someone's eyes that can't see your value. Although I am on my journey to putting myself first, or better yet Restoration. I needed this.🇩🇴🔥🔥🔥👊
Learn to set healthy, godly, appropriate, and wise boundaries. The only way to learn to do that is when you learn to love yourself, respect yourself, care about yourself, and care for yourself.
Yup, I’m all about forgiveness and second chances, but by the time I leg go and say goodbye, you’ve exhausted all of your second chances. There is no coming back.
Great Advice!!! I have put up with disrespect my whole life!! The last two years I've blocked, blocked, restraing order, block block and I'm done with especially disrespectful family members!! I'm going it alone with the Best of the Best God Almighty!! 🙏💖🕊🍃
PERIODT WE DON'T HAVE TO LIKE EACH OTHER AGREE WITH EACH OTHER BUT WE DO NOT HAVE TO DISRESPECT EACH OTHER!! NO IGNORANCE OR VIOLATION WILL NOT BE TOLERATED! 💯🙏🏽
God can give you everything you need! No one can fill His spot! God would never want you to accept disrespect! Trent your video rocks. Way to speak out. God bless you!
I'm going to listen to this everyday till I heal... I broke up with him cause I said enough of his disrespect and taking me for granted and he didn't meet my standards. Now, it's time to heal and move on 🙏🙏🙏
Wow, wow, wow.....I have learned standing up for respect it will cost you every thing.... It shouldn't be that way but it was defending your body, soul and spirit....and that is priceless
Came right on time🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😊😊😊 just cut my friend of 4 years off. She kept allowing her past trauma to affect her in the present. She kept consistently disrespecting me and taking advantage of my kindness. even after i took her back multiple times and i finally walked away and cut her off for good. Thank god
I have Been disrespected by my kids this mothers Day I was so sad and hurt I came back to the shelter in waynesville nc where I'm staying I'm ready to move on Trent my kids need to know mom want take the disrespect they grown now I need a home of my own now tired being in a shelter I thank God for it its roof over my head for now I really want a place of my own .. I can have piece of mind and to pray ..Thank you for your message I need It..
Yes they always project it on you as if you are the selfish one. Someone told me: you are not the one taking distance from them. They already took distance from you by not letting you be who you are or by closing up emotionally. It was just mentally. Now I had taken 'physical' /phone distance. Some friends would come and go but without any explanation. I would go through heart ship without support. Months later my friend suddenly texted me hi I never replied. One day I woke up thinking would I do this to a person. The answer was no. I decided to change the game and dissappear forever. You have to give eachother room to breath I love my freedom too but going quiet on a friend without any word is another story. I went no contact with family and friends from the past but they know why. I told them I had to go my way. It's impossible to tell them I felt manipulated or disrespected bc they would deny.
I acknowledge what you're stating. I've always been a force to be reckon with....Strong Willed, Out-Spoken, and have never accepted Disrespect from anyone ! People will treat you the way ....You allow them to treat you ! Stand up and be heard and put them in check ! ❣❣❣❣❣❣❣
Imagine being so petty to actually thumbs this down 😂 Embarrassing to be the actual person to claim "first" haha. Just goes to show, no matter what you do you can't please everyone. Thank you for the inspiring message Trent!
When I saw the title of the video I immediately clicked it. I sent this to my daughter as she does not listen to me but I know she will listen to this. This came right on time as she finally got rid of her toxic and abusive so-called boyfriend but when I asked her not to communicate with him ever so he can ease his way back in her life she said mom I got to talk to him, he's the father of my two kids. Which he does nothing for. Not even child support funds. This will wake her dumb self up! As she allows him to disrespect her and if she get back with him. I will disown her until she get right with God Almighty! She has a "Choice"! Thank you for this beautiful video my Brother in Jesus Christ! Hallelujah! Amen.😊🙏
I very much agree I just did a closure to a relationship.when my ex- man came to take care of me when I was sick from coronavirus. He totally disrespected by vialating me. God, gave me the strength to say my peace and move on with my life.
Seeing this rite on time. I have been accepting disrespect for way to long. I have had enough. I’m moving on and moving out from a marriage of 26yrs. I was told I won’t make it on my own.
Pray for me I'm being disrespected by many. All I can do pray and ignore them. I reported the situation and it turned on me. I have always left negative people alone. But they follow me. 🙏🏾 for me as I shall pray for you. In JESUS name AMEN
I needed to hear this, right this moment in my life. Im so guilty of forgiving people that just continue to disrespect me, then I complain about it. How can I complain when im the one that allows it over and over again. Thank you for this, Im gonna try to force myself to stat standing up for me and not allowing people to keep doing this to me
You WILL know when you are sick and tired of being sick and tired. TRUST you WILL NOT have to force yourself to stand up for yourself at that point. It will be like an internal instinct. Be blessed.
I agree and I don’t tolerate disrespect from anyone I know who I am and I want that friend of my to know that I want them to respect me and not disrespecting me without my permission
Stop seeing your value through someone’s eyes who doesn’t see your value 🥺
Love how you put it into words, excellent!
@@gregflores8959 yes I cut out alot of ppl. The disrespect 😤is heavy
Straight Facts
wow. that is what I am discovering during my healing from codependence from childhood trauma.
Facts
Every time you settle for less you lose a piece of your soul .... 😔
So true!!!
HONEY! KNOW YOUR WORTH! AND BECAUSE YOUR HERE WITH US SHOWS THAT YOUR PRICELESS! HONEY! AND I AM HERE TO TELL YOU. EVERYBODY HERE WILL BACK ME UP.....
AMEN
That was a powerful nugget he dropped on us!! What does it benefit us to gain everyone's approval and lose our SOUL??? Hmmmm! Food for thought🗣🗣🗣
That’s I how I feel
"When someone shows you who they are, believe them." - Maya Angelou
Yes
❤️
Exactly!
Good and bad. I accept both understanding good and bad are defined by each person uniquely
True facts
"I'd rather live cold-hearted, than broken-hearted" that spoke to me!
This IS the bomb statement!!!
Me too
Deep !
Choose neither
Yessssss Sir!!!👈👈👈👈
We are called to forgive.
We are not called to reconcile the relationship with everyone.
True... So many people don't make that distinction
Yes, forgiveness is a one person exercise.
🔥
Amen
FAAAAAAACCCCCTTTTTSSS
"Better to be alone than in bad company"
- George Washington
That’s why I disconnected all my friends in my life
Me too. I just did that yesterday cant deal with it nomore 🅿
these people were not friends....use that term loosely!
Wow that’s deep.
👏👏👏👏I had to disconnect a couple of family members! Cut em loose ✂️👋
Me too
"When you settle for less you lose a piece of your soul" 👏👏👏👏
SOMETIMES LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH!!!
I understand your completely
I have been through that and it hurts pretty bad..I just hope God heals you like he did to me.still waiting for my God sent
Yes it’s so true, I been going through it, with co- worker and then come home and go through it with my husband and my grandkids it’s like they’re mess up my house on a daily I have to make them clean up their mess , then dealing with my smart mouth husband and tired of it all. 😢
I was over here crying because I just ended a very toxic relationship. Opened UA-cam to find this video. Thank you! I feel better now. God Bless you!
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I am glad you are moving forward!
Same sis ❤️❤️🤗
I am so happy you ended the relationship. Good for you! You deserve better. Don't accept less. I am out of one too and it's the best choice I made.( after giving my life to Christ. He is a healer, for real!) God bless you.
Good for you!!
Forgiveness does not equal another chance.
Nobody can give you disrespect without your concern. Stop giving people another chance.
That hit different when u ve been there
Hey God bless :) God bless. God and Jesus are here and they love you im sure. God bless:) love and good and good change to you. You're not a good person and you can change. God is here and he is listening and hears you. If you need to change please go to God and he can save you. God bless you
One day may need that
@Jack Mikeson you are to need that one day my man
@Jack Mikeson you were made by god to with a lady
Nope. No disrespect from family, friends, associates, coworkers, church members or anyone!!!!💎⭐⚓💎
Amen' Amen' Amen
It's a lonely road to travel but I will never continue to take disrespect from anyone knowing that I would never treat anyone that way
Trent is speaking realness. Real boundaries have to be set.
Some people suck at relationships...but some people just suck period!
If you give respect expect the same in return. Or walk away!
Exactly
I agree
Hmmm you are right 👍
Mike M- That says it all, and when you are gone, stay gone.
I have tolorated disrespect from my grown sons for the last 10 years..trying to be be there for them..I have given them chance after chance after chance and they have disrespected me time and time again...as of Sunday..no more..I am moving on with my life and I WILL NOT TAKE ANYMORE DISRESPECT!!!!!
I WISH THEM THE BEST...
BUT I AM MOVING ON WITH MY LIFE..
I HAVE HAD ENOUGH!!!!!
Cut the cord
@@patriciajohnson6928 it's cut✂️
Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.
For yourself.
Same here with my adult daughter's as of this day,I can't allow it anymore. I love them but I've had enough.
@@Jesus-saves732 Good for you..it's a bitter pill to swallow..but we must do it.. Good luck to you ☺️
This is why i have disconnected from many. I recently loaned a so called friend some money and they figured " oh she'll be alright" and then blocked me without paying back. The thoughts i had in my mind regarding revenge scared me so i let it go and moved on. Simply tired of evil people
TAKE THEM TO COURT #JudgeMathis 🤔
Autumn W I just went thru the same thing last month wit my so called BFF 30+ yrs, always treated her like a sister, but come on now, how I give you money, you stop answering my calls, then give me the run around, that's fine, but how you don't expect to get the business brought to you and have nerve to get mad after you purposely take my money and refuse to give it back like promised. I lit her a** up and put her on blast, then she said I hate people like you amongst other things, turned it all around on me, cudn't take it, but dish it out, another time she owed me, dropped it in the mailbox, didn't let me know and stopped calling me. I know what you mean about the thoughts, I had to leave it alone too and her alone...Thanks for the fish!!!
Judge Judy
I know all about those evil revenge thoughts and yes they are scary. Letting go is always best because we not going to prison for anybody over the anger we feel for their actions.
You don't have to do anything the universe has way, and it will cost her more than you loaned her, just put it in your mind I let her have it because she needed more than me💪🏼
Another chance doesn't exist...period
Self-respect is important to have. Self-respect does not equate to hate for others.
I needed to hear this even though it hurts. My husband now my ex left me for someone half our age 2 years ago and I was letting him still come and hang out hoping he'd come back to me. That stops now. Thank you so much. I'm done being used by years. 20 years together doesn't give him the right to disrespect me. I divorced him. Time to start acting like it.
Your ex-husband sounds like a predator and needs to be in jail.
In the bigger picture you
May see the way things go
Your way sometimes but
Overwelming situations
Understand its good
Remember to embrace
Pleasure to the one your
Intimute with desire to
Make him happy no matter the
Price you will be rewarded for your
Behavior and given passion and desire
In ways you could not comprehend
Thank and embrace him with affection
Cherish his preasence and dominance
Help make your king great be his queen
!
Im sorry for your hurt and pain. I hope someone mature and loving will come along in your life. From all of the people that I have spoken to, who have gone through the same situation as this (n the marriages ranged between 28yrs to 7yrs) they have ALL said the 2nd marriage is much better than the 1st. Look FORWARD darling 🤗
I understand your completely
I have been through that and it hurts pretty bad..I just hope God heals you like he did to me.still waiting for my God sent
You Go Girl!!!!
SAY NO TO DRAMA!!!!!
Amen! Life is to short for drama!
"I'd rather be viewed as cold-hearted than to live broken-hearted"
👏👏👏👏
i can’t feel bad for myself because of they treated me. i let them do that to me and now im dealing with the consequences of accepting less and not loving myself. no more. they can not come back and disrespect me anymore.
Same here.
@@teggypooh hey God bless :) its not over yet we still have time. Bless and goodband love to you. You are powerful.
It is really true
Though life is very hard right now
I believe I will go through
Ever since my ex wife hurt me
It been really hard on me but I believe God will send someone to me
I believe
Don't feel bad for yourself anymore and don't push them away, they're your children. Show them how to treat you and don't back down. They will either accept it or THEY will move on. You would have finished your complete training. They will KNOW what behavior Mama won't and don't take.
@@williambricks7463 I feel the same way! God bring that good man to me! He will do it!
I ENDED A RELATIONSHIP. BECAUSE OF DISRESPECT. HE THOUGHT I WAS PLAYING BUT FOUND OUT I WAS SERIOUS. YOUR VIDEO IS ON POINT. THANKS.
🤣🤣Oh they thought this was a Game!
They call me "Ice Cold." The last thing I tell them is, "I'm going to treat you how you treat me. Peace." There are so many talking/texting into cyberspace right now... BLOCKED and DELETED. 🤣
Into cyberspace...whew!! Lol!!!
@@greaterishe7197 🤗🤗🤗
@@fallen177 😇😇😇
I walked away after 26 years and I’m glad I did! It’s never too late!
God will also correct them!
That is so true
And believe me God correction is is real
Yes!! GOD will handle it thats why im NOT doing no revenge.. Let them regret losing you.
No he wont, he's got starving abbused babies to worry about!
@@jillberry2066 you sound really silly. If you dont have intelligence, don't reply!
A big one “ never accept behavior from somebody else that you yourself would not do out of respect for them “
No one can disrespect you without your permission. Stuck up for myself and others against a toxic person at work! Had enough of this person for months. People, stand up for yourself and others who are too afraid to speak up👍😄Everyone needs help. Thank you Trent
DISRESPECT=END OF RELATIONSHIP!NO HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE BUILT ON A FOUNDATION OF DISRESPECT!DISRESPECT IS NOT LOVE!
Absolutely the truth.
God really used you to deliver this message right on time
So true for me too!!
don't let anyone disrespect you
Consistent Disrespect Is A Form Of Abuse. Apology Without Change Is Feeding The Devil. I started calling people out who use abuse and disrespect me and my kids. It took my skull being cracked a second time to snap out of it and wake up. My problem was my pride. I was embarrassed I had retrograde amnesia. The stuff I couldn't remember hurt me deeply and telling people left me vulnerable and exposed. I thought the people around me who knew about my amnesia were helping me when in reality, they were using me and my medical situation to literally hold me hostage and exploit me. It wasn't easy removing these people from my life. They didn't leave quietly. They were so angry about not being able to use and abuse me anymore, they did everything they could on the way out to destroy me and everything Surrounding me. I went threw this twice. Im in a position now where I feel I can't have nothing because others will either destroy what I have or take what I have. I no longer feel emotional attachment because EVERY TIME I do, it is used against me to hurt me. I have had my kids wrongfully removed twice and my property wrongfully taken over and over again. Where does ot end. It didn't matter if I told or not, they won't stop until the Courts Make Them.
Stay strong! Talk to God and ask Him to show you what you need to do! Praying for you! You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you!!
I'm praying for you, your, kids, property, and all else in your life and in agreement you and I REBUKE THE DEVIL AND ANY SATANIC FORCES that come against you, IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME!!!! DONNA MORRIS IN MOBILE ALABAMA. MAY GOD TRULY BLESS YOU AND YOURS.
I understand your completely
I have been through that and it hurts pretty bad..I just hope God heals you like he did to me.still waiting for my God sent
“The only closure that you need, is realizing you deserve better”!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This WILL be my mantra the next time someone thinks they can disrespect me and still be in my life!❤️❤️❤️❤️
I DEMAND RESPECT and that's just what it is 💯💯💯
Yes
Remember respect is learn not given. The best is leave them alone and focus on you. Never demand respect.
@@Kubwayo10 So true
@@Kubwayo10 I focus on me, God, and my kids😇😁
I think YOU should NOT FOCUS on others comments but instead focus on your spelling 🤣
By the way, I don't focus on DISRESPECTFUL FOLKS
I CUT OFF DISRESPECTFUL FOLKS 🤨💯
God will give you strength to stand up for yourself
I had decided to move on and stop accepting anything a toxic person was dishing out to me..then I hear this ...Confirmation! Thank you
So true you have to stand for something, sometimes love is not worth it. Love is not always enough
You are a special person with
Endless possibilities in store
Stay focused and on your path
Make the most of you time
And use it wisley keep your
Self surrounded with
Those who love and cherish
Every minute with you and
Remember LOVE! is powerful
!
Truth! Love is not always enough
@@lleeaanee
Perfection is your natural state
Accompined by your shear talent
Skill and soul truth are your
Staples you have a charm thats
Intense and your PASSION! is
Overwelming and overflowing
Never take no for an answer
Faith in ones self is all you need
Overflowing with LOVE ENERGY!
Remain who you are stay true
Original and blaze your own trail
Never settle for anything thats
Lower then your absolute best
You deserve it you have
Made a name for yourself
Embrace the LOVE your given
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I agree, we must stand for something. However, I disagree that love is not always enough. Because love is always full. People have selfish and faulty intent. God is love. We must stop looking for others to supply love. Dr. Barbara De Angelis once said, "All others can do is shine the light on and/ or put you in touch with the love you have within." Love can be found with or without someone else.
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You'll never be the same when you let them back in your life. You choose to be better... Or worse
This Young Man is very intelligent. I'm so proud to hear a young man speaking like this.
“everytime you settle for less you lose a piece of yourself” I needed to hear thattt.
Amen. Like my mom told me. "Misery loves company."
You are correct, I had the wrong view of forgiveness. I had the wrong view of loyalty, I was loyal to those who were not loyal to me and what I notice about those people is they are liars. We have to be responsible for ourselves , don't lie to yourself , cut those disrespectful people out of your life. 👍👍👍
@karla villasenor we thought we were being kind , understanding, loving ...... we were confused because of the lying. We would never treat them the way they have treated us. The reason we never saw it is we don't think the way they do. They are selfish, we are giving.... we just need to stop look and listen before we give. We need to be more selective. From childhood I was rejected because I reminded my parents of a dishonesty they were hiding and because of my honesty I was hated . Don't let them gaslight you into beleaving that you are the problem , we are the truthful ones who were tricked and have nothing to be ashamed of. We just need to learn the skills to better protect ourselves , stay safe 😉😊😚
I'm quitting my job tomorrow to start living my own dreams. I'm destined for so much more than what they have held me to. It is MY CHOICE and i am choosing better. Thank you for this motivation. I AM making the best decision for ME
Straight facts man
Disrespect should never be tolerated by anyone
I’ve been with a high functioning alcoholic for 18 years. I feel disrespected because I have tolerated it for so, so long. Please pray for me to see my self worth, and value! Thank you! ❣️
Praying for you sis! I know your pain. I left three years ago! You will gain strength and find what you deserve. Your voice deserves to be heard
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That’s exactly what they did. When I began to speak up for myself I was shunned. A repeated cycle for years over and over again.
I am choosing my greater and not allowing nothing less than what I am worth.
You teach people how to treat you!!!🙏🏾
Any time when someone disrespects you it’s like saying you’re stupid
That’s what they think, you’re sometimes just unaware but yes they think your stupid, that’s why they are cut and done and no turning back after that. Forgive but no reconciliation or relationship. God hate’s disrespect and so should you, he kicked Satan out in a blink of an eye.
Amen that disrespect can even be given by family. I will not accept that from them as well. I did tough love and it hurt at first now I can go on with my life.
I did the same with my family it hurts and I felt guilty sometimes but I had to be free from stabs.
Are you watching me? 😭 because your videos be coming at the RIGHT time ALL the time...
Like seriously....
Right! I thought the same.🙌🏼
Exactly!!! God definitely is using him to speak to others that are going through the same struggles and hardships. I've been falllowing him this past year and everytime he post, its like a gut punch 😳 and I'm in the middle of the exact topic he's schooling me on. I truly appreciate all the wisdom he shares and it has helped me immensely 🙏
This hit so hard for me! When we lower our standards, we also open the door for control, deceipt and manipulation. I learned this. Thank you for this. I really needed to hear this.
Amen!
I am 23 years old and I am so blessed and grateful with the fact that I am in tune with myself at a young age. I 100% agree with you, when you allow negative or toxic people in your life, it is going to reflect on you whether you choose to believe it or not. I made a commitment to block toxic people moving forward.
Proud of you!
Exactly blessed to have that wisdom at your young age enjoy the journey 😊😇🙏
Speak My Brutha...I call it don't give away your personal power to anyone.
Yes! I needed this!! "Faith without works is dead; you cannot heal your heart when staying in the pain thats destroying your life. Period" thank you, be blessed!
I’ve lost many pieces, but I’m ready to be rebuilt.
As I’ve been serving God, people have shown disrespect passive aggressively. I don’t tolerate & call them out they play stupid like it never happened and stay absolutely quiet 🤫
Totally agree true..I let go all left behind in last year.. this was my new year and came doing great better & blessed stay away from toxic people and anyone yes💯🥰😇🙏
Know your worth and then charge tax. Do not accept disrespect. Stop seeing your value from someone's eyes that can't see your value. Although I am on my journey to putting myself first, or better yet Restoration. I needed this.🇩🇴🔥🔥🔥👊
I was tired of being disrespected and disagree to keep & put up with it all..🥰😇🙏
Learn to set healthy, godly, appropriate, and wise boundaries. The only way to learn to do that is when you learn to love yourself, respect yourself, care about yourself, and care for yourself.
💯 disrespect is no laughing matter. 🙌🏾👍🏾
God sent me this video when I asked Him for help in my present crisis... He answers you when call ... Praise God , Jesus Christ..🕊💥
Amen!
Ppl always disrespect me so I’m isolate
Yup, I’m all about forgiveness and second chances, but by the time I leg go and say goodbye, you’ve exhausted all of your second chances. There is no coming back.
Sometimes we need to listen to this young man multiple times. His Advice is profound.
Great Advice!!! I have put up with disrespect my whole life!! The last two years I've blocked, blocked, restraing order, block block and I'm done with especially disrespectful family members!! I'm going it alone with the Best of the Best God Almighty!!
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"You gotta know your worth baby and then charge tax!" Lol funny but absolutely true!🤣🤣
PERIODT WE DON'T HAVE TO LIKE EACH OTHER AGREE WITH EACH OTHER BUT WE DO NOT HAVE TO DISRESPECT EACH OTHER!! NO IGNORANCE OR VIOLATION WILL NOT BE TOLERATED! 💯🙏🏽
"I'm not gonna be nobody's convince goal" -- Powerful!!!
LIVE COLD HEARTED RATHER THAN. BROKEN HEARTED, THATS A GOOD ONE! NOTHING WRONG WITH BOUNDARIES !
Including family. Wives, siblings, children and parents.
Start with family!!! At best !!!
That's so true. People are very disrespectful out there and if you aloud it they will keep in with the bullshit
God can give you everything you need! No one can fill His spot! God would never want you to accept disrespect!
Trent your video rocks. Way to speak out. God bless you!
I'm going to listen to this everyday till I heal... I broke up with him cause I said enough of his disrespect and taking me for granted and he didn't meet my standards. Now, it's time to heal and move on 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you!!! I needed to hear this very message 💖💪🔥👑🔥💪💖
Me too thank God there is you tube when no one's there to add and connect the dots.
Amen. Thank you.
So handsome and has wisdom so cool. Moving on is easy when u know ur worth. TMH got us
Wow, wow, wow.....I have learned standing up for respect it will cost you every thing....
It shouldn't be that way but it was defending your body, soul and spirit....and that is priceless
Came right on time🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😊😊😊 just cut my friend of 4 years off. She kept allowing her past trauma to affect her in the present. She kept consistently disrespecting me and taking advantage of my kindness. even after i took her back multiple times and i finally walked away and cut her off for good. Thank god
I have Been disrespected by my kids this mothers Day I was so sad and hurt I came back to the shelter in waynesville nc where I'm staying I'm ready to move on Trent my kids need to know mom want take the disrespect they grown now I need a home of my own now tired being in a shelter I thank God for it its roof over my head for now I really want a place of my own .. I can have piece of mind and to pray ..Thank you for your message I need It..
Hey dear,
I’m sorry to hear that why you in the shelter get closer to God you about to get your own place.
Rehab time baby let’s get it ❤️ super fan right here! I’ve read all his books and love his channel!
I never accept things others don't allow into themselves
Amen!!! Preach Trent! That’s rt people call me mean because I set boundaries and cut off people who are selfish and hurtful. Peace is priceless.
Yes they always project it on you as if you are the selfish one.
Someone told me: you are not the one taking distance from them. They already took distance from you by not letting you be who you are or by closing up emotionally.
It was just mentally. Now I had taken 'physical' /phone distance.
Some friends would come and go but without any explanation.
I would go through heart ship without support.
Months later my friend suddenly texted me hi
I never replied.
One day I woke up thinking would I do this to a person.
The answer was no.
I decided to change the game and dissappear forever.
You have to give eachother room to breath I love my freedom too but going quiet on a friend without any word is another story.
I went no contact with family and friends from the past but they know why. I told them I had to go my way.
It's impossible to tell them I felt manipulated or disrespected bc they would deny.
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Good for you. People don’t like people with standards and Boundaries. Peace and blessings to you 🙏
This video spoke to me! I have to stop accepting disrespect from my toxic relatives, and continue to set healthy boundaries. I need to let them go!
Powerful words....every time you settle for less you lose a piece of our soul🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤
I acknowledge what you're stating. I've always been a force to be reckon with....Strong Willed, Out-Spoken, and have never accepted Disrespect from anyone ! People will treat you the way ....You allow them to treat you ! Stand up and be heard and put them in check ! ❣❣❣❣❣❣❣
Imagine being so petty to actually thumbs this down 😂 Embarrassing to be the actual person to claim "first" haha. Just goes to show, no matter what you do you can't please everyone. Thank you for the inspiring message Trent!
😂 ego is a B
The ones thumbing it down are the ones who are disrespectful to others and hate the truth.
The abusers can't stand the exposure. Pathetic when you really think about their kind of mentality 😂
So many people need this message! Including me, no Respect- NO RELATIONSHIP, Period-T! Thanks for sharing.
On point brother! No more nonsense. I choose to love myself and my Lord Jesus!
When I saw the title of the video I immediately clicked it. I sent this to my daughter as she does not listen to me but I know she will listen to this. This came right on time as she finally got rid of her toxic and abusive so-called boyfriend but when I asked her not to communicate with him ever so he can ease his way back in her life she said mom I got to talk to him, he's the father of my two kids. Which he does nothing for. Not even child support funds. This will wake her dumb self up! As she allows him to disrespect her and if she get back with him. I will disown her until she get right with God Almighty! She has a "Choice"! Thank you for this beautiful video my Brother in Jesus Christ! Hallelujah! Amen.😊🙏
I very much agree I just did a closure to a relationship.when my ex- man came to take care of me when I was sick from coronavirus. He totally disrespected by vialating me. God, gave me the strength to say my peace and move on with my life.
What u mean
Seeing this rite on time. I have been accepting disrespect for way to long. I have had enough. I’m moving on and moving out from a marriage of 26yrs. I was told I won’t make it on my own.
You will.
Pray for me I'm being disrespected by many. All I can do pray and ignore them. I reported the situation and it turned on me. I have always left negative people alone. But they follow me. 🙏🏾 for me as I shall pray for you. In JESUS name AMEN
“Stop expecting a miracle when you don’t change your life” awesome truth!! Thank You, Trent! 💪🏼🙏🏼
Thank you Jesus, I receive this 💯
Love that “you got to know your worth and then charge tax” so true xx
I needed to hear this, right this moment in my life. Im so guilty of forgiving people that just continue to disrespect me, then I complain about it. How can I complain when im the one that allows it over and over again. Thank you for this, Im gonna try to force myself to stat standing up for me and not allowing people to keep doing this to me
You WILL know when you are sick and tired of being sick and tired. TRUST you WILL NOT have to force yourself to stand up for yourself at that point. It will be like an internal instinct. Be blessed.
I am in the same situation. I always allow them back in. I need to stop
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I agree and I don’t tolerate disrespect from anyone I know who I am and I want that friend of my to know that I want them to respect me and not disrespecting me without my permission