Stop Accepting Disrespect | Trent Shelton

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  • @tameka4realz590
    @tameka4realz590 3 роки тому +624

    Stop seeing your value through someone’s eyes who doesn’t see your value 🥺

    • @gregflores8959
      @gregflores8959 3 роки тому +6

      Love how you put it into words, excellent!

    • @arethaminor2944
      @arethaminor2944 3 роки тому +12

      @@gregflores8959 yes I cut out alot of ppl. The disrespect 😤is heavy

    • @Sexysinger123
      @Sexysinger123 3 роки тому +4

      Straight Facts

    • @Makeupandmuscles827
      @Makeupandmuscles827 3 роки тому +4

      wow. that is what I am discovering during my healing from codependence from childhood trauma.

    • @gelsm8709
      @gelsm8709 3 роки тому +2

      Facts

  • @tameka4realz590
    @tameka4realz590 3 роки тому +512

    Every time you settle for less you lose a piece of your soul .... 😔

    • @fpitts8025
      @fpitts8025 3 роки тому +5

      So true!!!

    • @emperormajestybiggzigg5174
      @emperormajestybiggzigg5174 3 роки тому +5

      HONEY! KNOW YOUR WORTH! AND BECAUSE YOUR HERE WITH US SHOWS THAT YOUR PRICELESS! HONEY! AND I AM HERE TO TELL YOU. EVERYBODY HERE WILL BACK ME UP.....

    • @54andcounting17
      @54andcounting17 3 роки тому +2

      AMEN

    • @ladylaura93
      @ladylaura93 3 роки тому +7

      That was a powerful nugget he dropped on us!! What does it benefit us to gain everyone's approval and lose our SOUL??? Hmmmm! Food for thought🗣🗣🗣

    • @112stace
      @112stace 3 роки тому +2

      That’s I how I feel

  • @frankiegiltner6163
    @frankiegiltner6163 3 роки тому +304

    "When someone shows you who they are, believe them." - Maya Angelou

  • @megamaamatv9158
    @megamaamatv9158 3 роки тому +552

    "I'd rather live cold-hearted, than broken-hearted" that spoke to me!

  • @samk6820
    @samk6820 3 роки тому +373

    We are called to forgive.
    We are not called to reconcile the relationship with everyone.

  • @GypsyMaeRose
    @GypsyMaeRose 3 роки тому +42

    "Better to be alone than in bad company"
    - George Washington

  • @juniorabreu6476
    @juniorabreu6476 3 роки тому +266

    That’s why I disconnected all my friends in my life

    • @Welcome_2_the_candy_shop
      @Welcome_2_the_candy_shop 3 роки тому +21

      Me too. I just did that yesterday cant deal with it nomore 🅿

    • @dovetales3
      @dovetales3 3 роки тому +38

      these people were not friends....use that term loosely!

    • @gmack8138
      @gmack8138 3 роки тому +8

      Wow that’s deep.

    • @yolanda5756
      @yolanda5756 3 роки тому +26

      👏👏👏👏I had to disconnect a couple of family members! Cut em loose ✂️👋

    • @mesozoicperiodvlogs8323
      @mesozoicperiodvlogs8323 3 роки тому +4

      Me too

  • @madelinemaldonado7932
    @madelinemaldonado7932 3 роки тому +168

    "When you settle for less you lose a piece of your soul" 👏👏👏👏

    • @emperormajestybiggzigg5174
      @emperormajestybiggzigg5174 3 роки тому +3

      SOMETIMES LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH!!!

    • @fawnpalombit1007
      @fawnpalombit1007 3 роки тому +1

      I understand your completely
      I have been through that and it hurts pretty bad..I just hope God heals you like he did to me.still waiting for my God sent

    • @dinastrong7348
      @dinastrong7348 5 місяців тому

      Yes it’s so true, I been going through it, with co- worker and then come home and go through it with my husband and my grandkids it’s like they’re mess up my house on a daily I have to make them clean up their mess , then dealing with my smart mouth husband and tired of it all. 😢

  • @Merahivch
    @Merahivch 3 роки тому +752

    I was over here crying because I just ended a very toxic relationship. Opened UA-cam to find this video. Thank you! I feel better now. God Bless you!

    • @MissUnderstoodasAlways
      @MissUnderstoodasAlways 3 роки тому +3

      🥺🤗

    • @genstaroxxs
      @genstaroxxs 3 роки тому +20

      I am glad you are moving forward!

    • @Calicandyy
      @Calicandyy 3 роки тому +12

      Same sis ❤️❤️🤗

    • @debbiebramwell
      @debbiebramwell 3 роки тому +20

      I am so happy you ended the relationship. Good for you! You deserve better. Don't accept less. I am out of one too and it's the best choice I made.( after giving my life to Christ. He is a healer, for real!) God bless you.

    • @graceandmarvellouswonders6249
      @graceandmarvellouswonders6249 3 роки тому +6

      Good for you!!

  • @mramirez5239
    @mramirez5239 3 роки тому +5

    Forgiveness does not equal another chance.

  • @ceehong7968
    @ceehong7968 3 роки тому +375

    Nobody can give you disrespect without your concern. Stop giving people another chance.

    • @shakurwonders5216
      @shakurwonders5216 3 роки тому +21

      That hit different when u ve been there

    • @xxbublebee123
      @xxbublebee123 3 роки тому +6

      Hey God bless :) God bless. God and Jesus are here and they love you im sure. God bless:) love and good and good change to you. You're not a good person and you can change. God is here and he is listening and hears you. If you need to change please go to God and he can save you. God bless you

    • @dorothyoneal6759
      @dorothyoneal6759 3 роки тому

      One day may need that

    • @dorothyoneal6759
      @dorothyoneal6759 3 роки тому

      @Jack Mikeson you are to need that one day my man

    • @dorothyoneal6759
      @dorothyoneal6759 3 роки тому

      @Jack Mikeson you were made by god to with a lady

  • @patriciawilliams5519
    @patriciawilliams5519 3 роки тому +113

    Nope. No disrespect from family, friends, associates, coworkers, church members or anyone!!!!💎⭐⚓💎

    • @vernesiasamuels9435
      @vernesiasamuels9435 3 роки тому +3

      Amen' Amen' Amen

    • @youwishyouwere1ofone709
      @youwishyouwere1ofone709 3 роки тому +5

      It's a lonely road to travel but I will never continue to take disrespect from anyone knowing that I would never treat anyone that way

  • @devotheambivert9875
    @devotheambivert9875 3 роки тому +291

    Trent is speaking realness. Real boundaries have to be set.

  • @wealthychildofgod777
    @wealthychildofgod777 3 роки тому +3

    Some people suck at relationships...but some people just suck period!

  • @mikemcternan8249
    @mikemcternan8249 3 роки тому +205

    If you give respect expect the same in return. Or walk away!

  • @EarthAngel8989
    @EarthAngel8989 3 роки тому +169

    I have tolorated disrespect from my grown sons for the last 10 years..trying to be be there for them..I have given them chance after chance after chance and they have disrespected me time and time again...as of Sunday..no more..I am moving on with my life and I WILL NOT TAKE ANYMORE DISRESPECT!!!!!
    I WISH THEM THE BEST...
    BUT I AM MOVING ON WITH MY LIFE..
    I HAVE HAD ENOUGH!!!!!

    • @patriciajohnson6928
      @patriciajohnson6928 3 роки тому +11

      Cut the cord

    • @EarthAngel8989
      @EarthAngel8989 3 роки тому +12

      @@patriciajohnson6928 it's cut✂️

    • @markhernandez3908
      @markhernandez3908 3 роки тому +16

      Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.
      For yourself.

    • @Jesus-saves732
      @Jesus-saves732 3 роки тому +14

      Same here with my adult daughter's as of this day,I can't allow it anymore. I love them but I've had enough.

    • @EarthAngel8989
      @EarthAngel8989 3 роки тому +11

      @@Jesus-saves732 Good for you..it's a bitter pill to swallow..but we must do it.. Good luck to you ☺️

  • @TheSolitary1
    @TheSolitary1 3 роки тому +221

    This is why i have disconnected from many. I recently loaned a so called friend some money and they figured " oh she'll be alright" and then blocked me without paying back. The thoughts i had in my mind regarding revenge scared me so i let it go and moved on. Simply tired of evil people

    • @newjerseylove1373
      @newjerseylove1373 3 роки тому +6

      TAKE THEM TO COURT #JudgeMathis 🤔

    • @reeree9864
      @reeree9864 3 роки тому +7

      Autumn W I just went thru the same thing last month wit my so called BFF 30+ yrs, always treated her like a sister, but come on now, how I give you money, you stop answering my calls, then give me the run around, that's fine, but how you don't expect to get the business brought to you and have nerve to get mad after you purposely take my money and refuse to give it back like promised. I lit her a** up and put her on blast, then she said I hate people like you amongst other things, turned it all around on me, cudn't take it, but dish it out, another time she owed me, dropped it in the mailbox, didn't let me know and stopped calling me. I know what you mean about the thoughts, I had to leave it alone too and her alone...Thanks for the fish!!!

    • @goodmorningsundaymorning4533
      @goodmorningsundaymorning4533 3 роки тому +3

      Judge Judy

    • @amazinggrace313
      @amazinggrace313 3 роки тому +12

      I know all about those evil revenge thoughts and yes they are scary. Letting go is always best because we not going to prison for anybody over the anger we feel for their actions.

    • @diamondgold5277
      @diamondgold5277 3 роки тому +7

      You don't have to do anything the universe has way, and it will cost her more than you loaned her, just put it in your mind I let her have it because she needed more than me💪🏼

  • @felishajohnson1383
    @felishajohnson1383 3 роки тому +3

    Another chance doesn't exist...period

  • @devotheambivert9875
    @devotheambivert9875 3 роки тому +165

    Self-respect is important to have. Self-respect does not equate to hate for others.

  • @susanoneill-ward2233
    @susanoneill-ward2233 3 роки тому +157

    I needed to hear this even though it hurts. My husband now my ex left me for someone half our age 2 years ago and I was letting him still come and hang out hoping he'd come back to me. That stops now. Thank you so much. I'm done being used by years. 20 years together doesn't give him the right to disrespect me. I divorced him. Time to start acting like it.

    • @corimoon3360
      @corimoon3360 3 роки тому +6

      Your ex-husband sounds like a predator and needs to be in jail.

    • @emperormajestybiggzigg5174
      @emperormajestybiggzigg5174 3 роки тому +4

      In the bigger picture you
      May see the way things go
      Your way sometimes but
      Overwelming situations
      Understand its good
      Remember to embrace
      Pleasure to the one your
      Intimute with desire to
      Make him happy no matter the
      Price you will be rewarded for your
      Behavior and given passion and desire
      In ways you could not comprehend
      Thank and embrace him with affection
      Cherish his preasence and dominance
      Help make your king great be his queen
      !

    • @F.H.
      @F.H. 3 роки тому +7

      Im sorry for your hurt and pain. I hope someone mature and loving will come along in your life. From all of the people that I have spoken to, who have gone through the same situation as this (n the marriages ranged between 28yrs to 7yrs) they have ALL said the 2nd marriage is much better than the 1st. Look FORWARD darling 🤗

    • @fawnpalombit1007
      @fawnpalombit1007 3 роки тому +3

      I understand your completely
      I have been through that and it hurts pretty bad..I just hope God heals you like he did to me.still waiting for my God sent

    • @karinsmith7613
      @karinsmith7613 2 роки тому +2

      You Go Girl!!!!

  • @stevenminor2241
    @stevenminor2241 3 роки тому +23

    SAY NO TO DRAMA!!!!!

  • @amycarr2916
    @amycarr2916 3 роки тому +10

    "I'd rather be viewed as cold-hearted than to live broken-hearted"
    👏👏👏👏

  • @courtneyc4869
    @courtneyc4869 3 роки тому +121

    i can’t feel bad for myself because of they treated me. i let them do that to me and now im dealing with the consequences of accepting less and not loving myself. no more. they can not come back and disrespect me anymore.

    • @teggypooh
      @teggypooh 3 роки тому +4

      Same here.

    • @xxbublebee123
      @xxbublebee123 3 роки тому +2

      @@teggypooh hey God bless :) its not over yet we still have time. Bless and goodband love to you. You are powerful.

    • @williambricks7463
      @williambricks7463 3 роки тому +2

      It is really true
      Though life is very hard right now
      I believe I will go through
      Ever since my ex wife hurt me
      It been really hard on me but I believe God will send someone to me
      I believe

    • @fro3seats242
      @fro3seats242 3 роки тому +3

      Don't feel bad for yourself anymore and don't push them away, they're your children. Show them how to treat you and don't back down. They will either accept it or THEY will move on. You would have finished your complete training. They will KNOW what behavior Mama won't and don't take.

    • @sarahlloyd1999
      @sarahlloyd1999 2 роки тому

      @@williambricks7463 I feel the same way! God bring that good man to me! He will do it!

  • @terrismith4493
    @terrismith4493 3 роки тому +24

    I ENDED A RELATIONSHIP. BECAUSE OF DISRESPECT. HE THOUGHT I WAS PLAYING BUT FOUND OUT I WAS SERIOUS. YOUR VIDEO IS ON POINT. THANKS.

  • @k.m.8516
    @k.m.8516 3 роки тому +95

    They call me "Ice Cold." The last thing I tell them is, "I'm going to treat you how you treat me. Peace." There are so many talking/texting into cyberspace right now... BLOCKED and DELETED. 🤣

    • @greaterishe7197
      @greaterishe7197 3 роки тому +4

      Into cyberspace...whew!! Lol!!!

    • @k.m.8516
      @k.m.8516 3 роки тому +2

      @@greaterishe7197 🤗🤗🤗

    • @k.m.8516
      @k.m.8516 3 роки тому +1

      @@fallen177 😇😇😇

  • @TheEyzes
    @TheEyzes 3 роки тому +29

    I walked away after 26 years and I’m glad I did! It’s never too late!

  • @wealthychildofgod777
    @wealthychildofgod777 3 роки тому +509

    God will also correct them!

    • @HansfordCustomDesign
      @HansfordCustomDesign 3 роки тому +16

      That is so true

    • @louiseottley4995
      @louiseottley4995 3 роки тому +34

      And believe me God correction is is real

    • @Welcome_2_the_candy_shop
      @Welcome_2_the_candy_shop 3 роки тому +44

      Yes!! GOD will handle it thats why im NOT doing no revenge.. Let them regret losing you.

    • @jillberry2066
      @jillberry2066 3 роки тому +6

      No he wont, he's got starving abbused babies to worry about!

    • @wealthychildofgod777
      @wealthychildofgod777 3 роки тому +15

      @@jillberry2066 you sound really silly. If you dont have intelligence, don't reply!

  • @JFredric
    @JFredric 3 роки тому +27

    A big one “ never accept behavior from somebody else that you yourself would not do out of respect for them “

  • @corinne777
    @corinne777 3 роки тому +104

    No one can disrespect you without your permission. Stuck up for myself and others against a toxic person at work! Had enough of this person for months. People, stand up for yourself and others who are too afraid to speak up👍😄Everyone needs help. Thank you Trent

  • @usefulltipstoknow.4230
    @usefulltipstoknow.4230 3 роки тому +36

    DISRESPECT=END OF RELATIONSHIP!NO HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE BUILT ON A FOUNDATION OF DISRESPECT!DISRESPECT IS NOT LOVE!

  • @pinklove5267
    @pinklove5267 3 роки тому +68

    God really used you to deliver this message right on time

  • @thesamson1091
    @thesamson1091 2 роки тому +1

    don't let anyone disrespect you

  • @americasactivism1976
    @americasactivism1976 3 роки тому +85

    Consistent Disrespect Is A Form Of Abuse. Apology Without Change Is Feeding The Devil. I started calling people out who use abuse and disrespect me and my kids. It took my skull being cracked a second time to snap out of it and wake up. My problem was my pride. I was embarrassed I had retrograde amnesia. The stuff I couldn't remember hurt me deeply and telling people left me vulnerable and exposed. I thought the people around me who knew about my amnesia were helping me when in reality, they were using me and my medical situation to literally hold me hostage and exploit me. It wasn't easy removing these people from my life. They didn't leave quietly. They were so angry about not being able to use and abuse me anymore, they did everything they could on the way out to destroy me and everything Surrounding me. I went threw this twice. Im in a position now where I feel I can't have nothing because others will either destroy what I have or take what I have. I no longer feel emotional attachment because EVERY TIME I do, it is used against me to hurt me. I have had my kids wrongfully removed twice and my property wrongfully taken over and over again. Where does ot end. It didn't matter if I told or not, they won't stop until the Courts Make Them.

    • @louveniamaxwell9737
      @louveniamaxwell9737 3 роки тому +6

      Stay strong! Talk to God and ask Him to show you what you need to do! Praying for you! You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you!!

    • @chrismorris3864
      @chrismorris3864 3 роки тому +7

      I'm praying for you, your, kids, property, and all else in your life and in agreement you and I REBUKE THE DEVIL AND ANY SATANIC FORCES that come against you, IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME!!!! DONNA MORRIS IN MOBILE ALABAMA. MAY GOD TRULY BLESS YOU AND YOURS.

    • @fawnpalombit1007
      @fawnpalombit1007 3 роки тому +2

      I understand your completely
      I have been through that and it hurts pretty bad..I just hope God heals you like he did to me.still waiting for my God sent

  • @VicTORIousLyfe
    @VicTORIousLyfe 3 роки тому +50

    “The only closure that you need, is realizing you deserve better”!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    This WILL be my mantra the next time someone thinks they can disrespect me and still be in my life!❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @wogbornagain
    @wogbornagain 3 роки тому +113

    I DEMAND RESPECT and that's just what it is 💯💯💯

    • @sheliarossell3162
      @sheliarossell3162 3 роки тому +2

      Yes

    • @Kubwayo10
      @Kubwayo10 3 роки тому +4

      Remember respect is learn not given. The best is leave them alone and focus on you. Never demand respect.

    • @sheliarossell3162
      @sheliarossell3162 3 роки тому +2

      @@Kubwayo10 So true

    • @wogbornagain
      @wogbornagain 3 роки тому +2

      @@Kubwayo10 I focus on me, God, and my kids😇😁
      I think YOU should NOT FOCUS on others comments but instead focus on your spelling 🤣
      By the way, I don't focus on DISRESPECTFUL FOLKS
      I CUT OFF DISRESPECTFUL FOLKS 🤨💯

    • @heatherblanchard5492
      @heatherblanchard5492 3 роки тому +1

      God will give you strength to stand up for yourself

  • @partridgewells6819
    @partridgewells6819 3 роки тому +32

    I had decided to move on and stop accepting anything a toxic person was dishing out to me..then I hear this ...Confirmation! Thank you

  • @franceswiley5715
    @franceswiley5715 3 роки тому +130

    So true you have to stand for something, sometimes love is not worth it. Love is not always enough

    • @emperormajestybiggzigg5174
      @emperormajestybiggzigg5174 3 роки тому +5

      You are a special person with
      Endless possibilities in store
      Stay focused and on your path
      Make the most of you time
      And use it wisley keep your
      Self surrounded with
      Those who love and cherish
      Every minute with you and
      Remember LOVE! is powerful
      !

    • @lleeaanee
      @lleeaanee 3 роки тому +1

      Truth! Love is not always enough

    • @emperormajestybiggzigg5174
      @emperormajestybiggzigg5174 3 роки тому +2

      @@lleeaanee
      Perfection is your natural state
      Accompined by your shear talent
      Skill and soul truth are your
      Staples you have a charm thats
      Intense and your PASSION! is
      Overwelming and overflowing
      Never take no for an answer
      Faith in ones self is all you need
      Overflowing with LOVE ENERGY!
      Remain who you are stay true
      Original and blaze your own trail
      Never settle for anything thats
      Lower then your absolute best
      You deserve it you have
      Made a name for yourself
      Embrace the LOVE your given
      !

    • @paytcpaythecreator7264
      @paytcpaythecreator7264 3 роки тому +2

      I agree, we must stand for something. However, I disagree that love is not always enough. Because love is always full. People have selfish and faulty intent. God is love. We must stop looking for others to supply love. Dr. Barbara De Angelis once said, "All others can do is shine the light on and/ or put you in touch with the love you have within." Love can be found with or without someone else.

    • @nhlanhlamqwashu9657
      @nhlanhlamqwashu9657 3 роки тому

      Hi

  • @Baby143Blue
    @Baby143Blue 3 роки тому +32

    You'll never be the same when you let them back in your life. You choose to be better... Or worse

  • @brandicrosby6256
    @brandicrosby6256 3 роки тому +24

    This Young Man is very intelligent. I'm so proud to hear a young man speaking like this.

  • @myalah8212
    @myalah8212 3 роки тому +2

    “everytime you settle for less you lose a piece of yourself” I needed to hear thattt.

  • @dorin6861
    @dorin6861 3 роки тому +18

    Amen. Like my mom told me. "Misery loves company."

  • @bettyyoung4926
    @bettyyoung4926 3 роки тому +28

    You are correct, I had the wrong view of forgiveness. I had the wrong view of loyalty, I was loyal to those who were not loyal to me and what I notice about those people is they are liars. We have to be responsible for ourselves , don't lie to yourself , cut those disrespectful people out of your life. 👍👍👍

    • @bettyyoung4926
      @bettyyoung4926 3 роки тому +1

      @karla villasenor we thought we were being kind , understanding, loving ...... we were confused because of the lying. We would never treat them the way they have treated us. The reason we never saw it is we don't think the way they do. They are selfish, we are giving.... we just need to stop look and listen before we give. We need to be more selective. From childhood I was rejected because I reminded my parents of a dishonesty they were hiding and because of my honesty I was hated . Don't let them gaslight you into beleaving that you are the problem , we are the truthful ones who were tricked and have nothing to be ashamed of. We just need to learn the skills to better protect ourselves , stay safe 😉😊😚

  • @pezmesu
    @pezmesu 3 роки тому +8

    I'm quitting my job tomorrow to start living my own dreams. I'm destined for so much more than what they have held me to. It is MY CHOICE and i am choosing better. Thank you for this motivation. I AM making the best decision for ME

  • @sammyidris1002
    @sammyidris1002 3 роки тому +19

    Straight facts man
    Disrespect should never be tolerated by anyone

  • @kellyreilan
    @kellyreilan 3 роки тому +7

    I’ve been with a high functioning alcoholic for 18 years. I feel disrespected because I have tolerated it for so, so long. Please pray for me to see my self worth, and value! Thank you! ❣️

    • @Curiosity83
      @Curiosity83 2 роки тому +2

      Praying for you sis! I know your pain. I left three years ago! You will gain strength and find what you deserve. Your voice deserves to be heard

    • @boogletz
      @boogletz Рік тому

      🙏🙏🙏

  • @TryLuv2
    @TryLuv2 3 роки тому +5

    That’s exactly what they did. When I began to speak up for myself I was shunned. A repeated cycle for years over and over again.

  • @purplemist8129
    @purplemist8129 3 роки тому +41

    I am choosing my greater and not allowing nothing less than what I am worth.

  • @lorrainemcdonald7982
    @lorrainemcdonald7982 3 роки тому +10

    You teach people how to treat you!!!🙏🏾

  • @reneewaley5073
    @reneewaley5073 3 роки тому +14

    Any time when someone disrespects you it’s like saying you’re stupid

    • @msliberated3899
      @msliberated3899 2 роки тому

      That’s what they think, you’re sometimes just unaware but yes they think your stupid, that’s why they are cut and done and no turning back after that. Forgive but no reconciliation or relationship. God hate’s disrespect and so should you, he kicked Satan out in a blink of an eye.

  • @dwenisedavis8631
    @dwenisedavis8631 3 роки тому +14

    Amen that disrespect can even be given by family. I will not accept that from them as well. I did tough love and it hurt at first now I can go on with my life.

    • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
      @peaceofmindofpeace1650 3 роки тому +3

      I did the same with my family it hurts and I felt guilty sometimes but I had to be free from stabs.

  • @jollyrancher2225
    @jollyrancher2225 3 роки тому +63

    Are you watching me? 😭 because your videos be coming at the RIGHT time ALL the time...

    • @sunshinesunflowerz1647
      @sunshinesunflowerz1647 3 роки тому +3

      Like seriously....

    • @SondraGeneral
      @SondraGeneral 3 роки тому +2

      Right! I thought the same.🙌🏼

    • @adrienneallen4817
      @adrienneallen4817 3 роки тому

      Exactly!!! God definitely is using him to speak to others that are going through the same struggles and hardships. I've been falllowing him this past year and everytime he post, its like a gut punch 😳 and I'm in the middle of the exact topic he's schooling me on. I truly appreciate all the wisdom he shares and it has helped me immensely 🙏

  • @AroundTheWayGirl88
    @AroundTheWayGirl88 3 роки тому +34

    This hit so hard for me! When we lower our standards, we also open the door for control, deceipt and manipulation. I learned this. Thank you for this. I really needed to hear this.

  • @zoezippy3003
    @zoezippy3003 3 роки тому +9

    I am 23 years old and I am so blessed and grateful with the fact that I am in tune with myself at a young age. I 100% agree with you, when you allow negative or toxic people in your life, it is going to reflect on you whether you choose to believe it or not. I made a commitment to block toxic people moving forward.

  • @fro3seats242
    @fro3seats242 3 роки тому +1

    Speak My Brutha...I call it don't give away your personal power to anyone.

  • @TheMrsgoossen
    @TheMrsgoossen 3 роки тому +21

    Yes! I needed this!! "Faith without works is dead; you cannot heal your heart when staying in the pain thats destroying your life. Period" thank you, be blessed!

  • @amandagarcia9022
    @amandagarcia9022 3 роки тому +1

    I’ve lost many pieces, but I’m ready to be rebuilt.

  • @mrsemilyg74
    @mrsemilyg74 3 роки тому +3

    As I’ve been serving God, people have shown disrespect passive aggressively. I don’t tolerate & call them out they play stupid like it never happened and stay absolutely quiet 🤫

  • @AngelaHorne-b6c
    @AngelaHorne-b6c 10 місяців тому

    Totally agree true..I let go all left behind in last year.. this was my new year and came doing great better & blessed stay away from toxic people and anyone yes💯🥰😇🙏

  • @izzcarrasco
    @izzcarrasco 3 роки тому +12

    Know your worth and then charge tax. Do not accept disrespect. Stop seeing your value from someone's eyes that can't see your value. Although I am on my journey to putting myself first, or better yet Restoration. I needed this.🇩🇴🔥🔥🔥👊

  • @AngelaHorne-b6c
    @AngelaHorne-b6c 10 місяців тому

    I was tired of being disrespected and disagree to keep & put up with it all..🥰😇🙏

  • @edgardocardona1060
    @edgardocardona1060 3 роки тому +7

    Learn to set healthy, godly, appropriate, and wise boundaries. The only way to learn to do that is when you learn to love yourself, respect yourself, care about yourself, and care for yourself.

  • @antoinetinker690
    @antoinetinker690 3 роки тому +2

    💯 disrespect is no laughing matter. 🙌🏾👍🏾

  • @catherineferreira2892
    @catherineferreira2892 3 роки тому +9

    God sent me this video when I asked Him for help in my present crisis... He answers you when call ... Praise God , Jesus Christ..🕊💥

  • @Arnold240
    @Arnold240 2 роки тому +1

    Ppl always disrespect me so I’m isolate

  • @johnlyndsay
    @johnlyndsay 3 роки тому +5

    Yup, I’m all about forgiveness and second chances, but by the time I leg go and say goodbye, you’ve exhausted all of your second chances. There is no coming back.

  • @trumpisatruepatriot3431
    @trumpisatruepatriot3431 2 роки тому +1

    Sometimes we need to listen to this young man multiple times. His Advice is profound.

  • @Rose-dl6xg
    @Rose-dl6xg 3 роки тому +5

    Great Advice!!! I have put up with disrespect my whole life!! The last two years I've blocked, blocked, restraing order, block block and I'm done with especially disrespectful family members!! I'm going it alone with the Best of the Best God Almighty!!
    🙏💖🕊🍃

  • @jpowell2603
    @jpowell2603 3 роки тому +2

    "You gotta know your worth baby and then charge tax!" Lol funny but absolutely true!🤣🤣

  • @miracle7530
    @miracle7530 3 роки тому +9

    PERIODT WE DON'T HAVE TO LIKE EACH OTHER AGREE WITH EACH OTHER BUT WE DO NOT HAVE TO DISRESPECT EACH OTHER!! NO IGNORANCE OR VIOLATION WILL NOT BE TOLERATED! 💯🙏🏽

  • @dontsettle4243
    @dontsettle4243 3 роки тому +2

    "I'm not gonna be nobody's convince goal" -- Powerful!!!

  • @4globalpeacedotcom
    @4globalpeacedotcom 3 роки тому +3

    LIVE COLD HEARTED RATHER THAN. BROKEN HEARTED, THATS A GOOD ONE! NOTHING WRONG WITH BOUNDARIES !

  • @MrLcbrownjr
    @MrLcbrownjr 3 роки тому +2

    Including family. Wives, siblings, children and parents.

  • @anitamarie9056
    @anitamarie9056 3 роки тому +4

    Start with family!!! At best !!!

  • @viamarisortiz3110
    @viamarisortiz3110 3 роки тому +2

    That's so true. People are very disrespectful out there and if you aloud it they will keep in with the bullshit

  • @debbiebramwell
    @debbiebramwell 3 роки тому +7

    God can give you everything you need! No one can fill His spot! God would never want you to accept disrespect!
    Trent your video rocks. Way to speak out. God bless you!

  • @taharadoberman1749
    @taharadoberman1749 2 роки тому +1

    I'm going to listen to this everyday till I heal... I broke up with him cause I said enough of his disrespect and taking me for granted and he didn't meet my standards. Now, it's time to heal and move on 🙏🙏🙏

  • @ScorpionMaiden75
    @ScorpionMaiden75 3 роки тому +49

    Thank you!!! I needed to hear this very message 💖💪🔥👑🔥💪💖

    • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
      @peaceofmindofpeace1650 3 роки тому +2

      Me too thank God there is you tube when no one's there to add and connect the dots.

  • @jacquettajohnson4668
    @jacquettajohnson4668 2 роки тому +1

    Amen. Thank you.

  • @talentthedancer4813
    @talentthedancer4813 3 роки тому +12

    So handsome and has wisdom so cool. Moving on is easy when u know ur worth. TMH got us

  • @sheilamurry9875
    @sheilamurry9875 2 роки тому +1

    Wow, wow, wow.....I have learned standing up for respect it will cost you every thing....
    It shouldn't be that way but it was defending your body, soul and spirit....and that is priceless

  • @Justmelanin
    @Justmelanin 3 роки тому +3

    Came right on time🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😊😊😊 just cut my friend of 4 years off. She kept allowing her past trauma to affect her in the present. She kept consistently disrespecting me and taking advantage of my kindness. even after i took her back multiple times and i finally walked away and cut her off for good. Thank god

  • @sandrahenson4045
    @sandrahenson4045 3 роки тому +2

    I have Been disrespected by my kids this mothers Day I was so sad and hurt I came back to the shelter in waynesville nc where I'm staying I'm ready to move on Trent my kids need to know mom want take the disrespect they grown now I need a home of my own now tired being in a shelter I thank God for it its roof over my head for now I really want a place of my own .. I can have piece of mind and to pray ..Thank you for your message I need It..

    • @latoyatv9678
      @latoyatv9678 3 роки тому

      Hey dear,
      I’m sorry to hear that why you in the shelter get closer to God you about to get your own place.

  • @leahgolden7242
    @leahgolden7242 3 роки тому +30

    Rehab time baby let’s get it ❤️ super fan right here! I’ve read all his books and love his channel!

  • @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan
    @ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan 2 роки тому +1

    I never accept things others don't allow into themselves

  • @sharonbell8135
    @sharonbell8135 3 роки тому +8

    Amen!!! Preach Trent! That’s rt people call me mean because I set boundaries and cut off people who are selfish and hurtful. Peace is priceless.

    • @peaceofmindofpeace1650
      @peaceofmindofpeace1650 3 роки тому +2

      Yes they always project it on you as if you are the selfish one.
      Someone told me: you are not the one taking distance from them. They already took distance from you by not letting you be who you are or by closing up emotionally.
      It was just mentally. Now I had taken 'physical' /phone distance.
      Some friends would come and go but without any explanation.
      I would go through heart ship without support.
      Months later my friend suddenly texted me hi
      I never replied.
      One day I woke up thinking would I do this to a person.
      The answer was no.
      I decided to change the game and dissappear forever.
      You have to give eachother room to breath I love my freedom too but going quiet on a friend without any word is another story.
      I went no contact with family and friends from the past but they know why. I told them I had to go my way.
      It's impossible to tell them I felt manipulated or disrespected bc they would deny.

    • @sharonbell8135
      @sharonbell8135 3 роки тому +1

      @@peaceofmindofpeace1650
      Good for you. People don’t like people with standards and Boundaries. Peace and blessings to you 🙏

  • @jaz1elise
    @jaz1elise 3 роки тому +1

    This video spoke to me! I have to stop accepting disrespect from my toxic relatives, and continue to set healthy boundaries. I need to let them go!

  • @avadaley2647
    @avadaley2647 3 роки тому +5

    Powerful words....every time you settle for less you lose a piece of our soul🙏❤🙏❤🙏❤

  • @detectiveshonburras1268
    @detectiveshonburras1268 3 роки тому +7

    I acknowledge what you're stating. I've always been a force to be reckon with....Strong Willed, Out-Spoken, and have never accepted Disrespect from anyone ! People will treat you the way ....You allow them to treat you ! Stand up and be heard and put them in check ! ❣❣❣❣❣❣❣

  • @jackieocean3511
    @jackieocean3511 3 роки тому +30

    Imagine being so petty to actually thumbs this down 😂 Embarrassing to be the actual person to claim "first" haha. Just goes to show, no matter what you do you can't please everyone. Thank you for the inspiring message Trent!

    • @animemaster9309
      @animemaster9309 3 роки тому +4

      😂 ego is a B

    • @cg.iverson1097
      @cg.iverson1097 3 роки тому +4

      The ones thumbing it down are the ones who are disrespectful to others and hate the truth.

    • @goodmorningsundaymorning4533
      @goodmorningsundaymorning4533 3 роки тому +3

      The abusers can't stand the exposure. Pathetic when you really think about their kind of mentality 😂

  • @tilisakay
    @tilisakay 3 роки тому +1

    So many people need this message! Including me, no Respect- NO RELATIONSHIP, Period-T! Thanks for sharing.

  • @jessicagerou4132
    @jessicagerou4132 3 роки тому +7

    On point brother! No more nonsense. I choose to love myself and my Lord Jesus!

  • @clydeswinfield1556
    @clydeswinfield1556 3 роки тому

    When I saw the title of the video I immediately clicked it. I sent this to my daughter as she does not listen to me but I know she will listen to this. This came right on time as she finally got rid of her toxic and abusive so-called boyfriend but when I asked her not to communicate with him ever so he can ease his way back in her life she said mom I got to talk to him, he's the father of my two kids. Which he does nothing for. Not even child support funds. This will wake her dumb self up! As she allows him to disrespect her and if she get back with him. I will disown her until she get right with God Almighty! She has a "Choice"! Thank you for this beautiful video my Brother in Jesus Christ! Hallelujah! Amen.😊🙏

  • @tarrasashurst6788
    @tarrasashurst6788 3 роки тому +10

    I very much agree I just did a closure to a relationship.when my ex- man came to take care of me when I was sick from coronavirus. He totally disrespected by vialating me. God, gave me the strength to say my peace and move on with my life.

  • @lisaricks2010
    @lisaricks2010 3 роки тому +1

    Seeing this rite on time. I have been accepting disrespect for way to long. I have had enough. I’m moving on and moving out from a marriage of 26yrs. I was told I won’t make it on my own.

  • @cynthiabillups125
    @cynthiabillups125 3 роки тому +7

    Pray for me I'm being disrespected by many. All I can do pray and ignore them. I reported the situation and it turned on me. I have always left negative people alone. But they follow me. 🙏🏾 for me as I shall pray for you. In JESUS name AMEN

  • @Diza519
    @Diza519 3 роки тому +4

    “Stop expecting a miracle when you don’t change your life” awesome truth!! Thank You, Trent! 💪🏼🙏🏼

  • @kenyaharris8051
    @kenyaharris8051 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you Jesus, I receive this 💯

  • @kelliejackson8152
    @kelliejackson8152 2 роки тому

    Love that “you got to know your worth and then charge tax” so true xx

  • @joleencox5900
    @joleencox5900 3 роки тому +17

    I needed to hear this, right this moment in my life. Im so guilty of forgiving people that just continue to disrespect me, then I complain about it. How can I complain when im the one that allows it over and over again. Thank you for this, Im gonna try to force myself to stat standing up for me and not allowing people to keep doing this to me

    • @greaterishe7197
      @greaterishe7197 3 роки тому +5

      You WILL know when you are sick and tired of being sick and tired. TRUST you WILL NOT have to force yourself to stand up for yourself at that point. It will be like an internal instinct. Be blessed.

    • @kemilahenry1550
      @kemilahenry1550 3 роки тому +3

      I am in the same situation. I always allow them back in. I need to stop

    • @nataliad.9464
      @nataliad.9464 3 роки тому

      @@kemilahenry1550 me 2

  • @robertc5296
    @robertc5296 2 роки тому +2

    I agree and I don’t tolerate disrespect from anyone I know who I am and I want that friend of my to know that I want them to respect me and not disrespecting me without my permission