Crafting Resilience Through Low Expectations

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  • @sherrischwartz6844
    @sherrischwartz6844 4 місяці тому +111

    We tell our stories for ourselves NOT YOU, yep!

  • @dshepherd107
    @dshepherd107 4 місяці тому +82

    Now that’s a dressing down that deserves a 🏆. Nicely done Slim Sherri, nicely done indeed.

    • @loosilu
      @loosilu 4 місяці тому +1

      And not a participation trophy, either!

    • @dshepherd107
      @dshepherd107 2 місяці тому

      @@loosilu 😂😂 Right!

  • @d.shannon261
    @d.shannon261 4 місяці тому +56

    Dang, girl. Nailed it!🎉

  • @valeriesanderson6171
    @valeriesanderson6171 4 місяці тому +46

    We speak our truth for our selves, not to be judged by some a$$ hole.

  • @UnashamedCaliforniagirl
    @UnashamedCaliforniagirl 4 місяці тому +33

    Every time I have expectations of any kind I become disappointed
    .. then I remember that I am a Gen X er 😂 and remind myself to stop expecting anything from anyone and I am happy again 😂

  • @TheBorderRyker
    @TheBorderRyker 4 місяці тому +29

    Holy Sh!t. I’m glad you’re on our side Sherri. That was fearsome! 👌🏻🤣

  • @susannpatton2893
    @susannpatton2893 4 місяці тому +34

    Right after watching this earlier today, I heard 1 of our call to arms songs. Eye of The Tiger.

    • @m_d1905
      @m_d1905 4 місяці тому +4

      The would make great background music to this video.

  • @gracielalemus1550
    @gracielalemus1550 4 місяці тому +17

    Gen x tell their stories if you want to learn from them. Whether you want to learn from them or not we really don’t give a shitz, it’s all up to you.

  • @kimnenninger7226
    @kimnenninger7226 4 місяці тому +53

    Thank you for "you want Gen X to do better, take a look in the mirror".
    I am not a Gen X but I am tired of hearing all of the whining about all of the different generations. Half of the people who are complaining don't even know when the generation that they are complaining about lived.

    • @tmusa2002
      @tmusa2002 4 місяці тому

      Pretty much if you try to give any of them some logical advice, you’re a boomer.

    • @craffte
      @craffte 4 місяці тому +1

      Somebody (30's) on reddit called a 52 yr old a Boomer. LOL Nope. Sorry.

    • @tyjohnston8573
      @tyjohnston8573 4 місяці тому +3

      @@craffte I'm 54 and game online with guys in their late 20s and early 30s, and they call me Boomer all the time. And I correct them. Every. Single. Time.

  • @Essex121514
    @Essex121514 4 місяці тому +15

    For real kid. We just don't care what you think. 😂😂😂

  • @Ferretlover64
    @Ferretlover64 4 місяці тому +18

    And this is why she’s my hero

  • @m_d1905
    @m_d1905 4 місяці тому +29

    Two life lessons from my mother, silent generation, lived through WWII, Korean War, and Vietnam War eras:
    1) Life is hard, get over it
    2) The world owes you jack shit
    Love you mom.

    • @IzReal-ot2ll
      @IzReal-ot2ll 4 місяці тому

      That is so true 💯. Let the babies cry, thinking life owes them something, no one owes them shit 👍

    • @morghana3775
      @morghana3775 23 дні тому

      Oh, so you have met my mother.. LOL!!

    • @blackjac5000
      @blackjac5000 15 днів тому +1

      My own mom said "what you think is important, nobody else does."

  • @jenniferestes5293
    @jenniferestes5293 4 місяці тому +18

    Gen X did leave the world a better place. We gave you Nirvana.

    • @vincentlussier8264
      @vincentlussier8264 4 місяці тому

      How did Nirvana make a better world ? Did they bring down inflation ,build affordable housing,lower the crime rate, create bigger job markets and stop war?

    • @edstar83
      @edstar83 Місяць тому

      Gen x invented social (media in the 90s), later my space, friendster (long before facebook) UA-cam. Gen x invented bittorrent, Napster, plex media server just to name a few things. Oh and Elon Musk is Gen X.
      All the band members from all the cool bands from the 90s and 2000's were Gen X, Linkin Park, korn, Limp Bizkit, Alanis Morissette, Greenday, Blink 182, red hot chilli peppers, (are actually boomers) oasis, foo fighters, no doubt, the Offspring, Silverchair, Nirvana, the smashing pumpkins, nine inch nails, creed, rage against the machine, Eminem, vanilla ice.. just to name a few off the top of my head.

  • @MoxieDVine
    @MoxieDVine 4 місяці тому +11

    Preach on Sherri! Couldn't make it any clearer 😊

  • @carolcatanzaro7811
    @carolcatanzaro7811 4 місяці тому +15

    What she said ✅️ correct 👏

  • @Magnificent_Mustang
    @Magnificent_Mustang 4 місяці тому +9

    I’m playing the SMALLEST violin for that child. Someone give him his bottle & blanket. He needs a nap.😂😅

  • @sherrischwartz6844
    @sherrischwartz6844 4 місяці тому +21

    Hell yeah!

  • @tavapaschos3136
    @tavapaschos3136 4 місяці тому +15

    PREACH

  • @ArcadiaOccult
    @ArcadiaOccult 4 місяці тому +10

    Rock on my sister!!!🤘

  • @m0L3ify
    @m0L3ify 2 місяці тому +1

    Someone recently asked me what the price of hope was and I said "disappointment." If you never have hope, you can't be disappointed.

  • @nowwhat33
    @nowwhat33 4 місяці тому +2

    😂😂😂. Born in 1966 .
    You go girl! You are exactly right: at the age of 14 (if you were slow), we didn’t have any expectations anymore. Now that’s where freedom kicks in. As well as true autonomy.
    Route 66 for me. Gen X.

  • @nicolebyers5651
    @nicolebyers5651 4 місяці тому +9

    Shari, you said that with your chest!
    ❤😂

  • @GgZoo-iK3to
    @GgZoo-iK3to 4 місяці тому +10

    100%

  • @rieriec.36
    @rieriec.36 4 місяці тому +1

    No one owes anyone else a thing in this world! Point blank period!!!
    you have to get yours for yourself.
    It's like the song says mama may have, Daddy may have, but God bless the child that's GOT HIS OWN.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @sherrischwartz6844
    @sherrischwartz6844 4 місяці тому +10

    Que Man in the Mirror by Michael Jackson. 🙂

  • @HeatherBehanEgan1974
    @HeatherBehanEgan1974 4 місяці тому +3

    Nothing better than starting your morning by snorting coffee all over your phone screen courtesy of Sherri 😂❤

  • @cg4119
    @cg4119 4 місяці тому +1

    Damn. Today's sermon was a righteous one! Hallelujah!

  • @MagnoliaPantherWoman
    @MagnoliaPantherWoman 4 місяці тому +3

    Oh my word, too true on expecting others to create what they want. It's rampant. I tell people if they want that, then they can go create it themselves, not assume I'll do it for them.

  • @Digitalhunny
    @Digitalhunny 4 місяці тому +7

    Love & hate are not opposites, they are in fact both *very strong* & closely related emotions. Knowing this makes indifference the opposite emotion for love, hate & how GenX feels about BS. Indifference IS our super power, to not be able to care any less than we already do. 😂😂😂😂

    • @blackjac5000
      @blackjac5000 15 днів тому

      The true opposite of love is indifference. Hate requires you pay attention to something, and you don't pay attention to things you don't like.

    • @Digitalhunny
      @Digitalhunny 15 днів тому

      @@blackjac5000 Um, yes you do! Ever hear of revenge? You don't do that to someone you love! 🤣

  • @gracielalemus1550
    @gracielalemus1550 4 місяці тому +4

    Exactly 💯

  • @a.randolph8112
    @a.randolph8112 4 місяці тому +4

    PREACH!!!

  • @jorynickila7760
    @jorynickila7760 4 місяці тому +2

    We tell our stories to each other the same way two marines would tell war stories to each other at the VFW! And usually, we tell them, trying 2 1up each other!

  • @brendabucklew8847
    @brendabucklew8847 4 місяці тому +1

    The more I listen to you the more I realize how Gen x I really am. Keeping those expectations low! 😅

  • @starfallin17
    @starfallin17 4 місяці тому +2

    What can I say , you Sherri r the reason y we r legends
    🥇🌟💫
    A sister indeed 🙏

  • @tjwalker960
    @tjwalker960 4 місяці тому +1

    GenX for “extreme”. I only recently (yesterday) discovered you, but you are my new favorite UA-camr. Been watching “what a GenX thinks” channel for a while, and enjoyed it. But you? You speak for me and I do t have the desire to create my own channel - you’ve done it for me. Thank you. My wife and I think you’d be awesome to hang out with. What a crazy party that’d be.

  • @mstanley97
    @mstanley97 4 місяці тому +2

    This was very satisfying to listen too. GEX X Salutues you!

  • @vickiepickett4087
    @vickiepickett4087 4 місяці тому +1

    We were told, life isn’t fair and the world doesn’t revolve around you, the sooner you accept that, the happier you’ll be! I think that message has been lost!

  • @parinthianquattropani9071
    @parinthianquattropani9071 4 місяці тому +4

    ❤️

  • @supremacy2040
    @supremacy2040 3 місяці тому +1

    Understate, play down & over deliver. That way you never disappoint.

  • @snjones99
    @snjones99 4 місяці тому +2

    Nobody breaks it down like you!

  • @vicckig60
    @vicckig60 4 місяці тому

    I am not an Xer, I am a Gen. Jones. But, I appreciate you, so preach on Sister. Thank you.

  • @donaldweaver6849
    @donaldweaver6849 Місяць тому

    We love our Sheri. Great job putting this smuck in his place.

  • @royalpitamamma
    @royalpitamamma 4 місяці тому +1

    I love this! Yes. This is why I never fully expect anything until it is in my hands. Also, why I always have like 10 plans to get what I want if the first 7 or 8 don't work. My life has been a set of failures and I learned if you don't get your hopes up, failure doesn't hurt.

  • @Loraann54fi10
    @Loraann54fi10 22 дні тому

    If something good happens, I'm happy. If nothing happens, I'm happy. If something bad happens, I'm still kinda happy. Unless someone like this is around me, then there is a problem.

  • @Earthangel63
    @Earthangel63 4 місяці тому +3

    Yeah, what she said !!!!!🤗

  • @HmRm10xx
    @HmRm10xx 4 місяці тому +2

    Don't forget the merthiolate/mercurochrome we had spread on all of our wounds!!!!

  • @PamelaPhillips-ed9sl
    @PamelaPhillips-ed9sl 2 місяці тому

    Grumpy Grandpa here. Never expect anything. That way you will never be disappointed.🤔

  • @LJSR26
    @LJSR26 3 місяці тому

    Preaching it mama. Yes, yes Indeed. Welcome to "a real GenX" video!🤘

  • @ang3lod3ath99
    @ang3lod3ath99 3 місяці тому

    1971 here & i repeatedly told my ex & his mom the same thing for years (til i finally escaped) - keep your standards high, but set your expectations low to avoid disappointment. they never heeded & were continually & forever finding themselves disappointed... meh... horse water drink yada yada... ;)

  • @carolwest6095
    @carolwest6095 4 місяці тому +1

    You're Perfect😂🤣🤣 Yes, tell them what they need to hear.

  • @Maeglin7936
    @Maeglin7936 3 місяці тому

    My expectations are so low that a snake has to shimmy to get under it. Seriously, having high expectations leads to disappointment, sadness, anger etc... and I just don't have the time or energy to deal with all that.

  • @boomingbaby4502
    @boomingbaby4502 4 місяці тому +1

    Hit it hard with the hammer of truth. Way to go Sherri. Made my day. 😅

  • @Rooportland
    @Rooportland 4 місяці тому

    I was forced not to care, anytime i cried about anything my dad would yell at me. "WHY ARE YOU CRYING?! NOBODY'S PICKING ON YOU! KNOCK THAT SHIT OFF BEFORE I GIVE YOU SOMETHING TO CRY ABOUT"!! kind of got rid of any of my emotions and feeling for the most part. Plus he would encourage me to fight neighborhood baby boomer bullies who were all 3 yrs or more older than me. (3 yrs makes a difference when you're 7. ) by telling me if i don't fight back he was going to beat my ass worse than the bullies can do. No i don't have any resentments. Lol also ive told my kids if you keep your expectations low than you don't have far to fall.

  • @HmRm10xx
    @HmRm10xx 4 місяці тому +1

    Don't forget the merthiolate/mercurochrome that was spread on all of our wounds!!!!

  • @HappyTraditionalWife
    @HappyTraditionalWife 3 місяці тому

    At least we have respect for our elders who made us feral and gave us no ❤

  • @kchaney56
    @kchaney56 Місяць тому

    I am a boomer but I love you slim. I come from the middle of the pack, 1956

  • @mickeythered
    @mickeythered 4 місяці тому

    Agreed! You tell it Sherri! As if we care what people think. 😂

  • @Paula-133
    @Paula-133 4 місяці тому

    I love your answer! I'm 73. And I guess I missed the memo that says i am supposed to hate on people younger or older than me. I don't remember what or who each generation is called and I don't care. They whoever, "they" is say I'm a Boomer "they" used to call us the "Pepsi Generation" ( Oh, God). I just take people as the come. Most of my friends are in the late 30's 40's 50's and 60's. We are all very different don;'t always agree but learn from each other and actually listen to each other. And no we are not related and don't go to the same church or something. I like and respect my younger friends and I know the feel the same. I don't know any A-holes like the guy in the intro. He comes across as isolated and totally pathetic. Anyway we all need eachother to make it through. I'm out here trying to care about others regradless of age. And I'll always try so Peace.

  • @tmusa2002
    @tmusa2002 4 місяці тому

    0:35 RIGHT HERE, GOLD!

  • @xxazrexx
    @xxazrexx 4 місяці тому

    My mother and I love you Slim Sherri ❤.

  • @WendyKaye-si8co
    @WendyKaye-si8co 4 місяці тому

    Dang Sherri you’re a genius and super underrated ❤ and the best part is you don’t care if I think that or not 😎

  • @chrystalhenthorne8209
    @chrystalhenthorne8209 4 місяці тому +1

    The best yet

  • @Conscious-Daughter-CD
    @Conscious-Daughter-CD 4 місяці тому +4

    He looks older than he's claiming.

    • @catcolb11
      @catcolb11 4 місяці тому +1

      Bitterness ages a guy.

  • @AngryFlamingo232
    @AngryFlamingo232 4 місяці тому +1

    Love it!!!❤😄😄

  • @timokeefe8476
    @timokeefe8476 4 місяці тому

    Just jumped over for "the tok" ! ! ! Glad you mentioned you were here. ❤🎉

  • @WireHedd
    @WireHedd Місяць тому

    PREACH! Oh HELL YEAH!

  • @scifimaji
    @scifimaji 4 місяці тому

    AWESOME...Boom goes the mic🫸🙊🫷😂

  • @yvonnem6361
    @yvonnem6361 3 місяці тому

    Facts!! Thank You! 🤙

  • @patriciacharron8529
    @patriciacharron8529 4 місяці тому

    It’s a Tribe call..i’d say it’s Tribe thing😜🤘
    Reaching out to our members only Tribe club..🤟😎makes us all laugh😅😂🤣Sooo Kids STOP IT! Stop trolling🫵why would you put yourself threw this non-sens-all-kinda-feels about it!😝when we’re definitely not for everyone!! Lollll 🌸☺️✌️☀️Bye!

  • @sirisampurankaur3133
    @sirisampurankaur3133 3 місяці тому

    We used to casually call each others sissis just for the fun of it.
    Is this dude trying this word for an online trigger?
    Lol. Cracking up😂😂😂😂

  • @dannawalthall3023
    @dannawalthall3023 4 місяці тому

    That was amazing girl!!!
    I wish I had your elequence!!
    Keep it coming!!

  • @jeaguiardod
    @jeaguiardod 3 місяці тому

    You said it right honey!

  • @altspecs342
    @altspecs342 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for posting Sherri
    ❤️

  • @lovinglife69
    @lovinglife69 4 місяці тому

    Jokes on him!!
    Love you SlimSherry!!
    😂😂

  • @xman6717
    @xman6717 4 місяці тому

    BRAVO!!! BRA...VO!!! 👏👏👏😎

  • @TintarellaDiLuna64
    @TintarellaDiLuna64 4 місяці тому

    That guy: Blaa blaa blaa..😫
    Where's my coffee?

  • @myfmc73
    @myfmc73 4 місяці тому

    Level 50 Truth and Slayer.

  • @ophion75
    @ophion75 3 місяці тому

    Preach girl❤

  • @ginlyn7795
    @ginlyn7795 4 місяці тому +1

    Mic Drop!!!

  • @dizzywordninja
    @dizzywordninja 2 місяці тому

    Solid facts.

  • @IzReal-ot2ll
    @IzReal-ot2ll 4 місяці тому

    Damn right Sherri. You go girl 😅

  • @uoabigaillevey
    @uoabigaillevey 4 місяці тому

    LOL once they have lived another 20 years I will have a little ore of an ear for whatever they have to say.. b/c they will start to be where we are now. Truthfully though.. I am more interested in what Gen Alpha has to say.. as they are basically us... but with better toys to choose from thanks to all of the progress that WE have made. Gen Alpha are the new upstarts and will be the thorn in the sides of Millennials and GenZ that we can never be.

  • @evatensley3866
    @evatensley3866 4 місяці тому

    I just love you I'm a 53 year old black women but you really love you....

  • @tanjatorchia2284
    @tanjatorchia2284 4 місяці тому

    Amen!

  • @Runswithwolves6323
    @Runswithwolves6323 3 місяці тому

    Tell him mama!!!😂😂❤️❤️❤️

  • @michaeldavis3819
    @michaeldavis3819 2 місяці тому

    In the words of my Boomer Dad, "Wish in one hand, and shit in the other. See which one fills up first." If you didn't earn it, nobody owes you anything.

  • @acmcbride-olson9320
    @acmcbride-olson9320 4 місяці тому

    I was surprised to find he was a millennial. I would’ve guessed him as more a 1959-1963 baby

  • @b.a.k9452
    @b.a.k9452 Місяць тому

    Fooking ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ everything you just said!!

  • @championwon
    @championwon 4 місяці тому

    Smartest thing said on the internet!

  • @Brettster107
    @Brettster107 2 місяці тому

    Damn.. love your truth
    I'm just a bit before you, I think we are called Xenrials or something
    I'm intrigued. What you are saying in this clip is for all generations to use

  • @jamiemoore9275
    @jamiemoore9275 4 місяці тому

    I could not have said that any better. 😂

  • @Victoriom4
    @Victoriom4 2 місяці тому

    F yeah - nicely stated 👊🏼

  • @RisingSon9117
    @RisingSon9117 4 місяці тому

    🙌🙌🙌

  • @lostmama08
    @lostmama08 3 місяці тому

    nailed it! love you big!!!!

  • @kristyhall2068
    @kristyhall2068 4 місяці тому

    Mike drop, you go girl

  • @KovuJenkai
    @KovuJenkai 4 місяці тому

    We have avocado toast...And it's good with some black pepper
    BUT GEN X MADE *BREAD* WITH AVOCADOS! YOU DID IT FIRST!
    God I bet it's still good though... I wanna make avocado bread :(

  • @MagnoliaPantherWoman
    @MagnoliaPantherWoman 4 місяці тому

    GenX squares up. She took him down. Ha!

  • @ninis810
    @ninis810 4 місяці тому

    Love it!

  • @ophion75
    @ophion75 3 місяці тому

    now this is wisdom strenght courage aaah fck it takes to long......love your content and your vibe....

  • @justz3973
    @justz3973 4 місяці тому +1

    What part of Gen X doesn't give a fuck what you think about us does he not get?
    We are the generation of I don't give a fuck what you think about me!