Ep. 68: NURSE BULLYING: My 7 Experiences With 7 Bullies As A Registered Nurse
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- Опубліковано 17 лип 2024
- Hi guys my name is George and this is my 68th UA-cam video! Bullying is everywhere! Any school, any workplace, EVERYWHERE! Do not think the hospital is an exception! Bullying seems to be a real issue in the medical setting if you ask me! Let you tell you about 7 bullies I have encountered over the 10 years I have been a registered nurse! I have met more than 7 but we would be here all day LOL Are you ready for it, HUNNI? Hope you enjoy!
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00:00 | Intro
03:37 | BULLY 1 The PowerHungry Princess Hypocrite
07:52 | BULLY 2 The Phony Practicum Princess
12:08 | BULLY 3 The Bilingual Blubbery Bastard
16:10 | BULLY 4 The Giant GiraffeLooking Judgemental Jalopy
21:14 | BULLY 5 The Superior Smug Stepdown Snob
23:29 | BULLY 6 The InTheCloset Intentional Ignoramus
25:55 | BULLY 7 The Continually Criticizing Creep
28:45 | FINAL THOUGHTS
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So relatable…during orientation at my very first nursing job, one of the nurses jokingly told me “we’re a team here and nurses don’t eat their young”. This same nurse bullied me multiple times throughout that year…It was definitely a wake up call to not always trust what they say 💁🏻♀️
Oh My God I’m so sorry that happened to you. Nurses still eat their young.
I wish more people would understand that keeping a healthy work environment is really important.
Nursing is a perfect front for the bullies type. High school bullies to nurses pipeline is real.
I always see on TikTok the “where did all the mean girls in high school go… they became nurses” trend. Which is sad because I’ve meet some AMAZING, PROFESSIONAL, COMPASSIONATE Nurses!
Yeah, as a person who's been in the hospital since March 2020 up until about June 2023: probably 50% of nurses are just high school bullies who got a job. A lot of nurses are just professional "mean girls", in my opinion. 😒
😮! So disappointing to hear bc I’m interested in going into nursing after a military career! I have dealt with this in the high school climate military and I would think higher in healthcare due to the amount of education & skill needed to be good.
I just got out of a long-term care home last summer where the nurses were like that, and I made the exact same observation. In my opinion, probably 50% of nurses are like that. I've even seen nurses make this observation about other nurses.
They also treat patients differently depending on how wealthy they are, I noticed.
@Hollyucinogen that’s really unfortunate
The reason bullying continues is because we tolerate it. We shouldn't be telling anyone to just get used to it. Its toxic behavior that impacts patient care and our health and well-being.
Nurses still eat their young to this day and it’s unfortunate. I don’t know but I believe it is an insecurity within the person doing the bullying. Every situation is different but hurting people just so you feel better about yourself is never the answer.
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🤷 Department of health or Dept of Labor employees rights
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People life's 🤷
The administration department of any Company
Are the one's that gotta act seriously against these matter s
@Carmen-dd4lb Oh My God
I worked as a CNA when I was 18 to see if I was going to like being an RN, NO THANK YOU!!! TOO MUCH DRAMA, TOO MUCH NEGATIVITY!!!
It’s a tough (but rewarding) profession
I got bullied by a nurse once when I was in ER as a patient and had my mom bring me cause she had a car and I needed help cause the pain got so bad at one point I could barely stand. They made fun of me saying that I'm a "mommy's girl" and how I'm childish and immature for having my mom take me there. The nurses kept talking about it for like an hour and I could hear everything cause I was near. There were literally people my age (early 20's) with their boyfriends and some older folks in their 40's accompanied by their friends. It made me feel really bad for many months after the incident but I now don't think it was wrong. I would have done the same for my mom. We're family and I love my parents.
Oh My God that’s awful. I’m sorry you had to go thru that.
They infuriate me…from someone who is a grown a$$ adult who loves their parents, I’m so sorry you experienced their wickedness. They’re the ones who have the emotional immaturity and need to grow up, not you because you have a loving family.
A lot of nurses are nasty to each other and patients
Omg nurses can be so mean it’s disappointing, we all are new at some point in our career. Why can’t we just be cool and learn from one another. I try to make new nurses feel comfortable in our department. We all need each other on the unit.
I know! I could literally make a part 2 with all the horrible people I’ve met just by being a nurse!
So many shady people!
Positive vibes only !
I’m a student extern in the OR. We are basically the surgeons b****es 🙂…also the amount of times anesthesia and scrub techs has looked at me weird and basically act like I’m an idiot bc I don’t understand when they are pointing at things &idk wtf they are talking about. Some surgeons walk in and out you are expected to know if they are scrubbing in & have their glove size ready… they also talk low and if you ask what they said they will look at you dumb… like my presence just feels like a bother to them. And this is just normalized. I would’ve talked back or said something already but because I don’t want my amazing and kind preceptor to get involved in a messy situation I just suck it up. I’m reconsidering the OR for this reason, but it seems like bullying is just everywhere…
Oh man I’m sorry you are having to deal with this. I know how that feels! Some of the doctors always look down on the nurses and have such an ego on them! It’s funny when people forget they were new in the beginning too. People think experience gives them the OK to treat people in whatever way they see fit. Keep fighting for what you want whether it is OR or another speciality! Life is too short to be stuck somewhere you are not appreciated. Don’t give up!
@@ThisIsGeorgeMatthew thank you so much! Yes people often forget we all start somewhere and they need to understand IM TRYING!!
Surgery is the worst. Worked as an OR many years ago and left for this very same reason
@@EplusE5 Oh My God that’s awful
I love your personality. I feel like we would’ve worked so well together and had so much fun. I have a nervous breakdown giving report to other aides bc I know they Will purposely huff and puff that I didn’t get someone up.
Yaaassss
This video was so good! I hope you make this a series because I think you will deff gain more traction on UA-cam. These type of videos do well! Great content!
Awww thank you for this!!!! I wasn’t doing this for the views but this video was more… a venting session 😂😂😂 thank you for watching !
@ThisIsGeorgeMatthew ok I get it. I guess I would like to say mainly I loved the video and would love to see more. Your experiences were very interesting! Thank you!
@bbustin4602 honestly, I have enough years of nursing to make a few more videos about nurse bullying haha that’s sad but true 🤷 I’ve encountered a lot of not so nice people so who knows maybe in the future part 2, 3, 4 haha
Yeah, as a former patient in a hospital for about 3 years, a lot of nurses are basically just high school bullies who got a job. Younger nurses and female nurses are especially bad.
A lot of people think mean girls become nurses. I have met some really nice caring, compassionate, loving nurses…. And also met the total opposite …
@@ThisIsGeorgeMatthew I mean, so have I. But I've seen this trend in 2 different hospitals and 1 long-term care home since March 2020. I doubt that it's a coincidence. Even nurses themselves are leaving the field because of bad nurses.
I've also noticed that they treat patients differently depending on how wealthy they are. For example, I used to live in a long-term care home. Because I refused to get a 3rd C-19 vaccine, they took away all of my clothes (I was wearing a hospital gown), my iPad, my blanket, and wouldn't let me shower for 4 days. But another wealthier patient got to go shopping on the same day that I wasn't allowed to shower or wear clothes. My Dad ended up threatening to sue them and got some of the nurses fired.
The cell phone number 😂 priceless
What part was this? I’m so confused LOL
giving out the personal cell phone number just killed me that is the ultimate payback XD@@ThisIsGeorgeMatthew
@@ThisIsGeorgeMatthewlol the part where you gave the patient's family the physician's phone number lol
@chinaarlene7035 rookie mistake 😂
lol 😂 this video is hilarious, but sad at the same time because this mean girl stuff in the nursing field is so true
Dept of Labor or Dept of personell administration of any company
Should take these matter's very seriously
HR
@@ThisIsGeorgeMatthewHR works the company, not the workers. We have to start learning from Employment Attorneys how to protect and stand up for our rights and not just get used to (and permit) these toxic environments or leave ❤️🩹
@@jesstiss222 absolutely
thank you
Never thought about it that way. Thank you!
Thank You for this information
Its in many jobs and its not healthy
It is not healthy
I was cracking up at the first one😂😂😂
Any time a defined group is heavily imbalanced in any one way or another, there’s going to be conflict. For awhile it seemed as though Nursing was becoming more broadly composed insofar as the people coming into it, ie more men, more backgrounds, different ages, and that was hopeful. I believe we need active efforts to continue that trend, to continue making it more representative of the makeup of society. Only then will the people who already have a propensity to behave in certain counterproductive ways when together in a large, contained group with considerable power in the institution they find themselves in, be evened-out to a level at which their behavior is overall less damaging. If we can throw around the term ‘toxic masculinity’ without a second thought, even when it’s grossly inappropriate to the situation, we should at least be able to acknowledge the existence of ‘toxic femininity’, especially when it is appropriate.
Your statement that nurses are already treated like less-than not only in the hospital but also perhaps by larger American culture is a perfect example- any average, intelligent bystander would infer that we have objectives clearly set in front of us as a profession- increase professional respect through good evidenced-based practice, good communication, clinical excellence and staying cohesive. Instead, we find BSNs trying to invalidate ADNs, the ‘popular’ ones bullying the newbies, etc- all of which is the professional equivalent of shooting ourselves in the face. That’s not something that just happens naturally in groups. That’s something that happens in groups composed very specifically. The sooner it ends, the better- for patients, hospitals, outcomes, all of it.
Nurses are tough and we are resilient!
Im so sorry you went through that❤
It made me stronger !
Definitely we need to be strong in this world,I love your energy, you're awesome
@f.maria7835 Oh My God thank you! I had the worse 2 shifts the last time I worked! I needed this!
@@ThisIsGeorgeMatthew lol make sure you make yourself happy by doing the things that you love on your days off.... You are a beautiful human being and I'm glad we have people like you here......
I’m not a nurse, BUT I get sick of the mentality of “grow thick skin”! Yes, sometimes, but time after time after time someone will eventually break when bullied or trampled with toxic leadership!
Everyone has a breaking point!
I've had some try to bully, but they were never successful at it because I don't tolerate it! You're gonna act like you have some sense when you're talking to me, or you won't be. PeriODtPOOH 💅🏾
Yaaaassss Queen
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Do any of you out there find the bullying bad enough to not recommend folks to go into nursing?
I’m currently in the military and am also sick of the high school behavior.
Nursing is a great profession but the toxicity of nursing between coworkers is so awful.
I've seen a ton of UA-cam videos made by nurses explaining why they quit their jobs, actually, and this is always one of this biggest reasons why. How nurses eat their young, how bad nurses bully good nurses, how often bad nurses get away with doing crappy things to their patients and each other, etc.
I was in a long-term care home last summer where probably half of the nurses were like that.
The high school bully to nursing pipeline is real.
@Hollyucinogen sad but true
I feel like there is a mean girl to nurse piepline.
Everyone says that on TikTok! There is a trend that goes something like “all the mean girls in high school became nurses!”
I would save some money immediately start a second self creation business
Until free from all this
Thats not right for no one
to maintain in that type of work environment
Yaaaassss
appreciate the defense of RT
we're all hear for patient care
i would be aggravated if a nurse charted they gave one of the nebs i'm responsible for and they hadn't. it's put me in an uncomfortable situation now.
We love RTs on this channel! Thank you for all you do!
Oh god I'm in school with that #2.. said she didn't have that problem, after hearing some of us are parents... omg girl you have to have someone who really wants you first!
Then I said, " it's not a problem!" But my sons are amazing humans. Parents probably told her she was awesome, yeah she's not. Mean girl. Ugly human who was told she will be rich as a nurse... lol 😂
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God what is happening to the patients? They are all fighting and people are dying?
This is one of the most ignorant comments I have ever seen
hi, are you filipino by origin?
Yes
Nurses think they safe because they in the hospital.
Hospitals, skilled nursing facilities, assisted living facilities, etc no matter where you work bullies can be found everywhere. It is pretty sad to be honest…
@@ThisIsGeorgeMatthew I’m saying outside of work they can get hit. Just because you are a nurse don’t mean you can’t get that ass whipped when you get off
I have no idea why I keep getting Teacher and Nurse bullying videos on my feed. What in the world did the world do to solve their work issues before social media such as TikTok, UA-cam, and Facebook. Oh my gosh, just about everyone has been bullied at some time in their lives. I wish people would stop making videos of it. We live in such a soft society today.
Then don’t watch the video; it’s that simple.
@@ThisIsGeorgeMatthew😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The noise during the "please stand by" thingies is WAAAAY too loud. I didn't even have headphones on and it was painful. Please dont destroy your listeners ears like this, we want to hear what you're saying.
I’m definitely going to take all your advice.
Thats pretty crazy the voices you can do...
The magic of editing
We as RTs are so unappreciated and undervalued. I actually had to go through the same training as a nurse at my school and I know some don’t but I did.
I luv my RTs!!!!!