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ive been through a lot. people ask the teachers if im okay. the truth is: i feel like a freak without feelings. i cut. i wanna die. but people cant just tell me to stop it right away. its like telling an alcoholic to stop drinking forever. it takes time.
2022 and 37 years old. I'm having the hardest time in my life. I know I'm not the only one going through a tough time. I pray that we can all get through it gracefully and peacefully. I pray that we can all heal. ❤️
@@deborahalfonso270 Deborah, thank you kindly for the well wishes. Today, has been better than other days. I've been learning how to cope with the hardships. I've been feeling isolated having 4 children that I love deeply. Ever since the pandemic and being home I haven't been able to find myself. I struggle with social anxiety now. Wanting to get back to work but I find myself backing out as soon as I get an interview. I used to help others coping with their mental health. Now that I'm dealing with it, I feel so stuck. I feel there's so much more to my depression but I've yet to figure it out. It's not a great feeling when you feel unsure. Thank you for sharing your story. I'm praying and rooting for you. You will overcome it. Keep fighting! You got this! Prayers and we'll wishes to you. 🙏❤️
I'm 39, I have 3 kids, and 2 grandkids, and I too am going through the hardest time in my life. I don't even know where I went wrong, to end up where I'm at now. 😞 I pray that we can both get through this hard part, quickly. Sending you many hugs....we will be ok soon. 😏
Your parents were in your shoes once. Grown ups were not always grown. They can not read your mind, you have to open up and let them know if you are not ok. If they still don't understand or do not take it seriously, there are people out there who will listen to you. Extended family, teachers, medical professionals, police, crisis helpline, pastor if you go to church. If you don't they will still listen if you go to them. There are people out there who care and who can help. I promise.
@@yves_santa7 Pain is relative. I've never been a fan of "Other people have it worse". Just because someone may be going through something harder or worse, doesn't make what you are going through any less important. It also can't be compared to others. What I can handle is completely different from what you or Angie or anyone else here can handle and vice versa.
Its so hard:/ i relate to this song in so many ways , ive never felt wanted or loved by anyone from relationships to friendships and even family, its like my brain goes into overdrive and all i do is overthink everything its like a slideshow of problems and it's going way to fast for me to deal with:(( anyone else?
My fiancé died 21 days ago today. We were getting married in 2 months, on October 10th. Every single bone in my body aches for his presence. Thank you for this song. It reminds me of better days, dancing around our living room together without a care in the world 💛
I’m sorry. And if you’re wondering if it’ll ever go away.. know, the pain? It doesn’t, because grief is just love with no place to go.. and It hurts. It physically fucking hurts and I’m sorry. I’m just really, really sorry. I’ve lost and lost and fucking lost, and the only way to keep going is to do it. just do it. Feel that fucking anger in that emptiness just above your stomach, and keep feeling it. Eventually, it’ll become apart of your soul. Just survive it and one day you’ll realize that it may be apart of who you are; it may even define you and bring you to your knees but you’re still here to feel it and remember the “before”. That’s gotta be the worth something; if not everything and he wouldn’t want it any other way (you still keeping on). I’m sorry I’m sorry, I’m sorry.
@@adriannamaiullo2947that was a very beautiful & perfectly worded message! One that can only come from experience. I’m so sorry that you’ve known that hurt too. ❤
Some friends and family Never know everything about someone!! No matter how long or little you had with them. Sadly I'm 43 yr old woman and I never told anyone all I survived on my own... right here in Oregon. We all have prayed we all tried and we all are fighters for those we love!! We will never know why but know this GOD only knows why... You're loved and needed that's why we are here!
The loneliest people are to kindest. The saddest people smile the brightest. The most damaged people are the wisest. All because they dont want to see anyone suffer the way they do.
Facts. I applaud anyone who this applies to. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 In my book, these types of people are real champs🏆 The best people this world has to offer. Earth’s strongest 🏆🏆👏🏼
Your still that girl ,your just as strong you can be that person again it takes a lot of work n step by step effort ,you got this.keep saying out loud "I GOT THIS "!!! everyday and look in the mirror .i can say this from experience dont listen to the bad thoughts ,the bad compliments your give yourself ,your doubts .YOU CAN DO THIS!!YOUR AN OVERCOMER YOUR A SURVIVOR !! LOVE FROM NEW JERSEY
I don't even know when was the last time I laugh my heart out and waking up peacefully. Tired of hearing " We know you very well" when in fact they don't know even a slight idea about me.
Those who say they know us well and we were never like this, hurt us more cause they never even tried to see our true self. They blame us for our own pain and depression. They want to only see our pretend happy self for ever cause that helps them take advantage of us.
It hurts me to read how many people are going through so much and listening to this song brings us all together with our misery. Love you all and stay strong ❤
I just realized how much I miss my old self. The one can laugh freely and smile without faking it. The one who always believe her life is bright. But she already gone and never come back.
You're in a season. When it passes and you get through this period. When you trust God and let him prosper you, you will become you again. A beautiful butterfly meant to make a difference. Lol might sound cheesy but...
I know how, and it's pretty easy you just have to enjoy the most little things in life make it huge and or can be everything it can be the sunlight it can be the flowers you see it even can be rain enjoy every little thing you have and make those things huge for yourself and smile and then things start get easier I promise. Good luck.
I know you've got the best intentions Just trying to find the right words to say I promise, I've already learned my lesson But right now, I wanna be not okay I'm so tired, sitting here waiting If I hear one more "Just be patient" It's always gonna stay the same So let me just give up So let me just let go If this isn't good for me Well, I don't wanna know Let me just stop trying Let me just stop fighting I don't want your good advice or reasons why I'm alright You don't know what it's like You don't know what it's like Can't stop these feet from sinking And it's starting to show on me You're staring while I'm blinking But just don't tell me what you see I'm so over all this bad luck Hearing one more "Keep your head up" Is it ever gonna change? So let me just give up So let me just let go If this isn't good for me Well, I don't wanna know Let me just stop trying Let me just stop fighting I don't want your good advice or reasons why I'm alright You don't know what it's like You don't know what it's like Don't look at me like that Just like you understand Don't try to pull me back Let me just give up Let me just let go If this isn't good for me Well, I don't wanna know Let me just stop trying Let me just stop fighting I don't want your good advice or reasons why I'm alright You don't know what it's like You don't know what it's like You don't know, you don't know You don't know You don't know what it's like You don't know what it's like You don't know, you don't know You don't know what it's like You don't know what it's like
This is my first time hearing this song. For me it's dealing with flashbacks almost every day of horrible things I've been through as a child. People try to help but it's not the same when the one person that should and is supposed to help you doesn't believe a thing. It just hurts.
Hi I wanna tell you Jesus Loves You So Much He Gave His Life for our sins so we can be forgiven from our sins and Go To Heaven! Gods Love For Us Is Unconditonal ✝️✝️
I know exactly how you feel I'm 39, and a lot of things that happened in my childhood are just now coming back to me, and it's all I can think about all day. And the one person that should be there for me, doesn't even want to hear it. Instead, I'm told I'm almost 40, and I need to get over it. She doesn't seem to understand how my childhood is affecting me now as an adult....my life could have been so different...I could have been so different. 😞 You're not alone, I understand how you feel. And for what its worth, neither one of us deserved to go through what we went through as a children. Its not fair, but we will be ok ❤️
Just wish these virtual hugs could feel like the real ones but even if somehow they could be felt as real they won't b enough bcz they could never b from the person v r craving from!
Beautiful voice the message hit home for me I remember wanting to just crumble to the floor but love shined down on me from God and my sons . I cried went to bed slept and next morning got up feeling a little stronger , just keep pushing through It does get better.❤🙏🌹
You know...sometimes I think strangers can be better than your friends and family Edit: I'm feeling a lot better now, thanks for all the good things you guys said and i'm sorry if I offended some people.
Yeah… It's easier to talk to somebody who doesn't have any conceptions of who you are, rather than people who will say 'Heh. You're funny. That's not true.' when you admit your problems...
My parents: get over it and smile Me: *fake smiles* My parents: see it is easy Me: ye 20 hr’s later 4:00 am! I am still trying to stop crying my self to sleep
Hey guys, I know it might seem so impossible to believe, but I care. So much. I may not have gone through the same suffering as you, I don’t know the depth of your pain since I’m not you, but I know that feeling. That feeling where you want to abandon yourself just as others had done but the only problem is, you can’t. Like nobody is on your side. But I’m here for you guys and I sincerely hope you’re coping with things
There’s nothing wrong with you, the world is just a cruel place to live in. And you’re all so brave and strong for choosing to live despite how painful it is. Don’t hate yourselves, you’re an artwork of love, a wonderful masterpiece. You might get dirt on you, but that doesn’t change the fact that you are beautiful. You are loved
I wish I could 👍 this 10,000 times. This song touched my soul! Not only is her voice beautiful, but the words touch anybody that has been in that mind set! Kudos 👏
This song helped me a lot 3 years ago when I was depressed. Then someone came and saved me and now that we broke up, the song popped up again and I realised how these lyrics can be so relatable in so many situations in you life.
you feel like your alone and no one cares abt you. I always feel that way, and I keep on asking myself what was wrong? what happened to you? why do we need to feel some shitty things without reasons? and after that, the freaking reality slaps me saying "your feeling like shits cause you're a worthless crazy creature."
If you are reading this comment I hope and pray that you will be okay, maybe not now but soon and always remember that everything happens for a reason and everything has its own purpose so live your life to the fullest so that in the end you won't regret about not doing anything
i guess in the end, the saddest thing is that the people who constantly tear themselves apart to save other people, are the ones that get torn apart because nobody will save them too.
Agreed.. everyone expects us to be the "happy" ones for them to rant to, but we're too scared to open up about our problems because we're scared of what they'll say or how they'll react. So we stay quiet and try to stay positive on the outside but on the inside we can't hold it in much longer, but we try to..we try to do things to make ourselves stay hApPy and PoSiTivE about everything. It hurts..it really does. We take people's problems onto ourselves and it makes them feel better about themselves while we drift further into dirt. I'm sorry for typing so much, I just had to speak up for the people who go through these things. I'm sorry if I ruined your day or something, but I had to stand up for the rest of these people and myself. I don't mean to make the people who open up to people feel bad about themselves...I'm sorry if I did.
Hey there i might dnt know u but i care be strong ,u are special ,i might dnt know what u having thru nor what your problem is but trust me u are still alive now for a reason , be positive u are precious❤😊
Don't worry buddy. I can't say everything will be fine, but I can let you have the remedy I have by myself. Go listen to songs like run BTS..and many other songs that will cure u. Everything will be ok💕
I’m 34 years old and this song still hits hard. My parents grew up in a time that mental illness was something to be ashamed of and getting help was looked down on. They worry that my 13 yr old son is going to be harmed from getting help. He wanted a therapist so I got him one. They worry he won’t be able to get a good job or will have people look at him wrong. My dad always said everyone gets sad but that you had to just let it roll off your back. It took me getting married before I got the help I needed years before hand. I keep so many things inside that I was taught was shameful. I try to do the opposite of what I was taught to do. If I’m depressed I try to seek help cause the worst thing about depression is you feel like you are on your own. A sick mind will even tell you that you aren’t strong enough to get better that if you fall victim to it over and over that you are worthless and there is no place for you to feel safe and loved. I want to reach out to anyone who feels this way cause on my very bad days all I need is someone who gets it and to have that open conversation with. I want to be that person for anyone who needs it. It’s okay to not be okay. Just know that someone cares and gets it. This is something I will survive. Every time it comes back I will fight cause people need me. People also need you
God knows what's it like so he told us to talk to him through all means (Prayer, tears, music, laughter) he will answer us all. 🤗😘 to all the people hurting.
Can’t tell your parents cuz you know they’ll be disappointed, too much expectations, too much pressure. Sometimes I wanna die but I’m scared to hurt people around me. I feel so alone sometimes, nobody understands. It’s hard to let go.
Yeah, not really going great. People whom I trusted with my secrets literally told everyone just because they were “drunk” like bruh. I feel so broken but still gotta live😂 but yeah, I’m managing somehow. Thanks for the concern😊😊😊
Whenever someone said that they are depressed everyone reacts like, "Don't be overreacting. It's nothing. It's not depression. It'll pass, etc" But they don't know what it's like
Same.I was caught in class cutting myself since i felt so angry and upset.Then one of my friends told the teacher but she told me to not overreact and to not disturb the class.I felt so heartbroken i have never heard my teacher that said something which made me cry even more.I still cant get over what happened.Even though it happened last two years ago.
@@ykc2189 That is BS. I WORKED for the school bus service. This girl from jr high would get on sit across from me and always looked so sad. I was wearing short sleeves one day and finally after 3months of never talking she looked over and noticed scars from when I was cutting. I looked at her. She pushed up her sleeve and had cut marks. Its sad but thats how I made a connection with her. After that she would talk to me when she had a bad day or was getting bullied or just needed someone to tell I know how you feel and try this tofeel better instead of cutting. All the kids were special needs some emtional some physical or behavioral. Once I learned what triggered them and what to do to help them it was the best feeling in the world. I loved that job
They say to smile They say you can make friends just start a conversation They say that you can have a good life if you work hard They say that but it’s not that easy Empathy is a thing feel it more to the people who need it :)
You ever just lay in your bed in the dark? Hoping no one hears you crying and pleading for the only person who makes you feel safe, happy, loved? Yeah...me too
Just reading the comments and realising that there are so many people in this world who have dealt with mental issues and heartbreak is saddening and gratifying at the same time.
And there are some people that trying to get rid of those feelings maybe by singing 🎵 i do that and it's makes me happy , can you please check this: ua-cam.com/video/aMu6tvHc-Bg/v-deo.html
My Mom take a picture of me with the whole mess in my room, She sends it to me For me to feel embrassed, little did she know , I'm dying inside :) I can't clean it because my head is full of things, Little did she know when she's not home I clean the whole house, wash the dishes, While my mind is full of things, Tbh I'm tired :) I grew up with my Dad and Mom argue all the time , My Dad get home always drunk at night , Glasses breaks , the TV the things around , I'm just tired , They say everything will get better when u Age but I guess it's not :)
To every single one of you. It's gonna get better. I know everybody says that and it feels like nobody understands this feeling of your whole world crumbling down before your eyes but I know it. I've been there. And it took me many painful years to get better. But now I have the life I would never even dream of. And I'm thankful every day that I didn't do it. And of course, there are still times when I don't want to go out of my bed and face the world, but then I always remind myself of all the beautiful moments I was a part of and how they would never happen if I took my life away back then. So please, keep on fighting! I'm with and I know you are going to survive all of this. And don't be afraid to ask for help or to simply cry on somebody's shoulder. You are all beautiful people and I would love to meet you and hug you.
Hey ,life is garbage ,I know ,society sucks but I want to help everyone who needs it ,if you wanna have a lil chat just tell me and I'll give you my Insta or number
How is that bad? You're converting your anger, stress into tears. Crying is a great way to get rid of your anger. It's better than taking out your anger on someone who doesn't deserves it. Crying is not weak or anything like that, it's what society makes it look like. But crying is actually pretty flipping cool! I'm proud that you're crying and when you're done, you will get up and move on.
hey hon, I know what it's like. ;) only i don't think my body fights to live anymore either... but I made it like that... but I know what you mean. It's been so long and I'm still here. why? I don't know. But you are too, and there's a reason for that too. Keep holding on... I can't say it to myself but I can to you, just hold on. I think everyone should live, just by virtue of being born. obviously I feel like I'm the exception to that, and you probably do too, but you're not. We're not. keep holding on. Don't ever give up. sending love, I'm here with you.
This song is beautiful it says all the right words! I’m 44 years old now and I want to tell who’s ever reading this there’s a simple answer to all the suffering you’re going through all the depression, loneliness, fear, and every negative emotion that you can think of or that you feel. It’s simple and easy. It’s not finding a Church or a religion. it’s simply having a personal relationship with God the father, Jesus Christ his son & the Holy Spirit. Please Don’t let it take you as long as it took me to find God. Because The longer you wait the harder your heart gets & the harder it gets it’s not easy to break through all that hardness. so don’t wait any longer if you’re looking for a sign then this is it this is your sign to either come back to him or get to know him and start having that relationship because he’s been waiting for you your entire life and the reason your life has been so hard is because he’s not in it. I promise you once you start walking with Jesus and not against him your life will be easier and more joyful than you could ever imagine. I suffered 40yrs of extremely painful traumatic abusive mentally and physical. I started searching for God and not a religion Or a church online or in my hometown. (yes you will need fellowship later but first focus on the relationship with God) Because when I realized that I just needed a personal relationship with him everything started changing for me. Yes some things changed overnight but other things I had to work on with the help of the Holy Spirit. So, I challenge the person/persons reading this to talk to Jesus. Just Call out to him even if you think you don’t know what to say. He will still hear you. And I promise you that if you just start searching for him all your pain and suffering loneliness depression whatever you’re going through he wants to take it all the way. you just have to begin. God loves you so much!!! I can’t stress this enough! Think of it this way all the stuff you’ve gone through all the pain and all that yucky stuff I’m sure you’ve tried regular doctors and medication‘s or therapy why not give this a shot see if it works. There’s a really cool quote that says God will put you back together right in front of the people who broke you. So maybe that will give you the motivation to reach out to him maybe you’re like me and somebody broke you so completely that you were almost not a person anymore what God‘s putting me back together right in front of them.
So I want to tell you that this song actually saved my life. I lost my kids dad two and a half weeks before my daughter was born. I found this song right after it happened. And I actually felt like someone finally knew what I was going through. You made me not feel completely alone in the world. So I just wanted to say thank you. I know you wrote it about depression but I feel like it works for grief because it goes hand in hand with depression. So yeah I really just wanted to say thank you. I will always remember this song as the one that helped me get through the nights when I felt like I was just going to die if I had to live a minute longer. Thank you so much. Really
Hello strangers. I just want you to know that you actually will be fine. Will be okay. But please hold on. I don't know what it's like being in your shoes. Don't give up. Keep trying. Be strong even just enough. Strangers, I really don't have any wise words to say to you. I've been there before, feeling the pain. It hurt so much. Maybe not pain as you. Make yourself busy. Eat well. Don't go to bed late. Sleep early. Talk to your friends. Just cry if you feel so heavy in your chest. Your heart needs to heal. Need to free from that heavy feels. Strangers, I love you.
@@penutbuttercup440 if you want to listen to them, listen to it. Listen to it over and over. But please eat well. Stay healthy. If going to bed late is the better choice, then do it. If you wanna cry, then cry. But, whatever it is, be strong even just enough.
I feel you I just hate how people say its easy when they usally aren't even struggling and Its just kinda annoying like some people say they have that because they cry when sombody calls them rude or slow.
It's been almost two years I've been listening this song, again and again. Read every comments and I always realize that I'm not alone, that's why I should survive. Whatever how much I got this pain, and nobody ever asked me 'Are you okay ?' until I realized 'that word' doesn't matter anymore. But this song and all those comment is so important for me.
Yea me too I feel that too ('that word' it doesn't matter anymore) , I still came here when my anxiety attacks me out of blue then read comments like ok were getting and getting more people here and readinv whats on their mind people telling their feelings while listening to the song
Stop telling me I'm fine. Stop telling me I'll be okay. Stop telling me it will get better. Stop looking at the brightside because you cant handle the darkness Stop asking me what's wrong just to dismiss my feelings. Stop ignoring that I'm hurting. Just. Stop.
I feel what ur saying. But the thing is u have to believe u will if not u never will. Trust me ur last hope right now is to believe ❤️❤️. Our last hope is just to believe even though we're broken
My family doesn't believe in depression and if i get depressed they tell me there is no such thing so stop being a nuisance and they don't believe in LGBTQ+ but i am Pansexual so i get slapped for even mentioning it because they are homophobic
@@EfeAikpokhio believe.?well there is no one who cares for me.. My family?? They will blame me won't understand me or my feelings. I don't have any friends to talk to. So tell me to whom I believe? I jst can't die because I'm scared.
"Are you okay?" "Yes" *No, I'm not* "I'm glad you're okay" "I’m always okay" *I'm not, I'm suffering* "Are you depressed?" "No, I'm fine. Why did you ask?" *Yes, I have no one to talk to. I feel worthless* *People need to understand that depression isn't just being sad, and having anxiety. It's something way worst. It's were you feel like you're the reason for everyone's madness, the reason they're angry, the reason they’re sad. You feel like someone's judging you constantly, you feel like people are laughing at you, you feel like people are talking (bad) about you. When you have anxiety, You'll know what depression is. The anxiety builds up more and more.. You cut, you try to commit suicide, you feel like you've lost your fight. No one understands you, no one gets you.. We feel traped inside this cage that has nothing but negativity in it. Depression isn’t something to make fun of, it’s something that needs to be taken seriously. That’s the best I can explain depression..* The world is so cruel now. Why can’t we just be nice and not mentally and physically hurtful? It’s not hard to give someone a compliment. You don’t have to mean it but you could’ve just made their day. I once was depressed but these two people helped me threw it. I know it’s hard to find someone but trust me..You will. Just know you’re worth it and you’re beautiful inside and out. You’re unique, not weird. 💜♥️ My Instagram is @Isabela.KTHV95 if you need someone to talk to 💕
Nobody can explain depression, only the people who have/had depression know how it's like to be depressed... even the people who have/had depression can't explain or describe how depression is be like, depression isn't something you can explain, depression is just something you can feel...
I guess I'm suck at finding true and real friends. Because of them I made up my mind that I'll not trust anyone in this world including my family. I'm so exhausted, depressed at the same time. I'm sick of all of this
True!!! I'm kinda giving hints to people around me that I'm not okay, but all they say is don't think too much everything will be alright, everyone just thinks that I'm exaggerating 😢
My parents: get over it and smile Me: *fake smiles* My parents: see it is easy Me: ye 10 hr later 4:00 am! I am still trying to stop crying my self to sleep
Isn't it great when you have to turn all the lights off, blow the candles, turn your phone upside down and put on headphones so you can listen to music and cry alone while everyone thing you're soundly sleeping and you wanna tell them you're not alright but you can't? Yeah, it's awesome
I feel so lost and empty. Everyday the world is making me realize how fucked up I am. I'm in so much pain right now and I don't know how to function anymore. I'm way out of my track and I want to give up because that is the easy way. But still, here I am fighting because I am hoping that one day I will be getting the happiness I deserved.
I hear u sweetheart and I hope u are still here. U are not alone, please keep fighting. I can't say it will get better because i honestly dont know but I am praying for u and that peace find u
I feel the same sometimes I wanna hurt myself but everytime i wanted to i would think of God if i would hurt myself God will not like this He will be dissapointed at me if ever i hurt myself. I'm His child and He will do everything to protect me thats why I put all my faith and trust to Him . Thats why I want you to also put your faith and trust to God that He will also protect you from all of this and heal you from feeling this. I believe that God is with us because He always hears my prayer ...as your sister in Christ I will pray for you...
If your heart is still beating, you are still breathing then it didn't hurt enough for you to keep worrying about it. Pain is temporary, dwelling on it is foolish. Caring about who hurt is useless. Let go of what hurt you, change it, or destroy it. Pick one and move on.
Life is just so hard right now and there's nobody I can talk to about it that actually understand what I'm going through... I relate to this song so much...
I'm 36..I take care of my adopted grandparents.... I will never be good enough for them, They seem to love to remind of this fact.... But I can't let leave them uncared for. My grand parents are 82-85 years old. And refuse to change or accept that they could ever be wrong... Even if I could prove it to them. But they took me in when they didn't have to.... For that one singular action... I am forever grateful. Even if you wish me gone now. I tried...
Some parents really do care do understand what it's like but they don't know how to help, they feel helpless they want to just take the pain all away cause they get choked up that you feel like they do , but as a child they felt the same way but didn't know how to get it out or tried to talk but were told to be quiet. Be strong. Dont trust Noone so now all they been taught how to deal with feelings is not working and they wanna just scream out how they feel , so baby girl scream it out someone will understand but be very cautious to who you scream your pain out too. Some people prey on those feelings and that your vulnerable. And yes be strong cause maybe your mother or father understand you completely they are just not sure how to say it ...sending you love strength and the power to speak who you are ❣️💝
1st i can be ur friend. 2nd people r beautiful in their own way. 3rd, dont mind the hate just mind that they're fams. Lastly, schools suck lol. Thats all i can say, and thank you for always smiling and never give up.. cheer up
Everyone has pain, sadness, depression, fears, anxiety, or doesn't care, and even when they laugh or smile deep down they are crying waiting for you to realise what is really going on. Even bullies are in pain. I know how you feel I have been bullied and betrayed before. Anyway God bless♡ Who is here in 2020~
for anyone who can relate to this song including me ols keep going and maybe even write your own songs that people who think they are alone in a dark place can relate to and find comfort from😊❤
When the voices and hallucinations of your depressions take over and everything just turns into shapes and you cant come out of your home because your afarid you may hurt someone or yourself please if anyone can hear me i need hugs........♡♡♡♡♡
I know this feeling. Know you are loved. Feel it sink in. I’m a stranger but I’ve been here before. And I know the anxiety it causes. You will be fine. It’s anxiety and it will cease as your stress is lessor. You will be ok. It’s a challenge but you will overcome. I did. And if I can, you definitely can also. 💜 from a stranger
Same. It hurts so much. I’m just so tired of pretending that I’m not already dead inside. That I wasn’t secretly hating that My body was revived. Why couldn’t I be allowed to leave this all behind
I've realized alot of parents don't know or understand their own children. That's my main purpose w/my daughter. There's many confused people out there...many adults don't understand themselves. A parents role in life should always be LOVE, PATIENCE & UNDERSTANDING.
Who said it was about finding someone else. I listen to this because I have a chronic illness that causes me a lot of depression...my husband is pretty much as close to perfect as a human being can be.
When I told my mom I had depression she was like, "But your life is fine! You have no reason to be sad." Literally, she has absolutely no idea how much that hurt, especially when everyone is always like "There's starving kids in Africa, stop feeling sorry for yourself." All that ever does is make me feel worse about myself. I wish I could show this to my parents and make them understand, but I have a feeling they wouldn't care anyway. Heh, yay depressing comments, right?
Well this hurts When your mom says "you are selfish!" When your best friend says"you are selfish and you have betrayed me".. where I have given up so many things just for them..... Now my father also say "you are selfish"..
I dont think they realize what being tired means like I am not physically tired I am tired in every sense of the word and I dont know if I can keep getting up everyday and pretending to be okay...that is exhausting
I just want to say to everyone who is going through something right now that I love you, I need you, I want you, so please don’t give up, let me be selfish and ask you to keep fighting and holding on for me. I may be a stranger but I may know you better than you think. So don’t stop here, leave a mark on the world. I don’t need to see you, hear you, or even know your name but I know that you are beautiful and an amazing person who is needed. So please for the selfish stranger. Don’t stop now.
Whenever, I hear this songs ... I am seeing myself that I am no longer same ... Tough times, different paths or difficult desicion... Life has changed me so much... Not a soft person anymore
Same here .but when I think like that I always tell myself if u r thinking this u already have mind blowing;good awesome heart and mind that u r already thinking like that .but I know u r a good person that's why u r thinking that
The worst kind of pain is when you're just there. You can't cry, you're in pain, no tears are coming out, you're just numb.
Yes exactly
Worst pain ever
I tried to cut myself just to feel something other than numbness...
@sarah granger me too.... i want to experience pain, not just numbness......
Honestly I could use numb right now
For those who are listening while scrolling through these sad comments and u feels much pain, i pray that things get better for you :)
kygjo aww tysm means lot at this moment 😭 🥺
Thanks but it won't do anything..
@@yoyo-nf1ww im soryy to heard tht. but im here to be your shoulder
@@beabeee8512 my pleasure dear ❤️
Bawling my eyes out, I cant do this anymore.😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I'm ready to end it
*Who is scared of death but tired of living...*
Don’t be scared it’s inevitable each one of us will die,
Me
Me
Me
me 100% *as I'm balling*
This song hits you in those dark places of your heart where no light enters
That’s almost my entire body.
Our butts, nostrils, behind our ears wth???
trying going blind from a11year brain tumor and still having to fight for your disability check ... hello I am blind
It really does
Truth
I’m not depressed... I just don’t know how to be happy anymore
same energy 😔
Army?
Nisreen Ghassan YESSSSS !!!!! U too ?
Suga Agust D yaas
@@nisreenghassan9464 the way bts is our only mental and emotional support
"We're just suicidal kids telling other suicidal kids that suicide isn't the answer."
That fact that this is true is sad 😢
yep
i agree with u
ive been through a lot. people ask the teachers if im okay. the truth is: i feel like a freak without feelings. i cut. i wanna die. but people cant just tell me to stop it right away. its like telling an alcoholic to stop drinking forever. it takes time.
Naomi Chan Gacha life it takes time and it’s alright but remember that it’s worth trying life is beautiful even to the ones that want to give up...me.
2022 and 37 years old. I'm having the hardest time in my life. I know I'm not the only one going through a tough time. I pray that we can all get through it gracefully and peacefully. I pray that we can all heal. ❤️
Amen🥺🥺
Amen
@@deborahalfonso270 Deborah, thank you kindly for the well wishes. Today, has been better than other days. I've been learning how to cope with the hardships. I've been feeling isolated having 4 children that I love deeply. Ever since the pandemic and being home I haven't been able to find myself. I struggle with social anxiety now. Wanting to get back to work but I find myself backing out as soon as I get an interview. I used to help others coping with their mental health. Now that I'm dealing with it, I feel so stuck. I feel there's so much more to my depression but I've yet to figure it out. It's not a great feeling when you feel unsure.
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm praying and rooting for you. You will overcome it. Keep fighting! You got this! Prayers and we'll wishes to you. 🙏❤️
I'm 39, I have 3 kids, and 2 grandkids, and I too am going through the hardest time in my life. I don't even know where I went wrong, to end up where I'm at now. 😞 I pray that we can both get through this hard part, quickly. Sending you many hugs....we will be ok soon. 😏
I hope you are well ❤
i remember when i was younger i would sing this song non stop, it now has become my comfort song surprisingly c:
Hey me too😁
"surprisingly"😂
Songs are magic to the mind, ...lovely magic 😊💙😇
It’s always so strange to me that something so sad can bring so much comfort. I know exactly what you mean
It's amazing how our own parents don't really know what's going on with us
Angie Zelaya yeah 😭😭I cant keep it in anymore...
mayb we dont know what parents go thru they just hide it
Your parents were in your shoes once. Grown ups were not always grown. They can not read your mind, you have to open up and let them know if you are not ok. If they still don't understand or do not take it seriously, there are people out there who will listen to you. Extended family, teachers, medical professionals, police, crisis helpline, pastor if you go to church. If you don't they will still listen if you go to them. There are people out there who care and who can help. I promise.
Atleast you have parents
@@yves_santa7 Pain is relative. I've never been a fan of "Other people have it worse". Just because someone may be going through something harder or worse, doesn't make what you are going through any less important. It also can't be compared to others. What I can handle is completely different from what you or Angie or anyone else here can handle and vice versa.
I tried saving everyone around me but I lost myself in the process
Me af:"
Me too :/
Its so hard:/ i relate to this song in so many ways , ive never felt wanted or loved by anyone from relationships to friendships and even family, its like my brain goes into overdrive and all i do is overthink everything its like a slideshow of problems and it's going way to fast for me to deal with:(( anyone else?
This comment hits hard
Yep........
sister: why do you like sleep so much?
me: I get to escape from reality a bit. I'm free from the stress, expectations I'm just....free from everything
Ikr also I love you😊❤️
@@blesstheglock aww ily too😊
Same
Me too exactly
Well when you are in Constant agonizing pain, sleep is your friend 😴
Sad fact: People never understand you when you're broken because you always keep a smile on your face
That's SO TRUE 😮💨 I don't know you or what your situation is 😢. But you pegged it 💔😮💨
True!
Love you sissy.... I
7.58pm😢that says it all the sadness behind my smile is just killing me
@@CindyDrew-hb1xy 😳😳😳 Sweetie? Are you doing alright?! The way you have put your words has me frightened 🥺💔🥺💔!
The hardest part is when you can’t even explain why your depressed, you just are and nothing makes it better.
I know exactly what you mean. Im going through the same. Just know you are loved. And you won't have to swim forever sean...❤.. peace and light
Oh my gosh, thank you!! That's exactly how I feel!! You can't put depression in words, it's majorly feelings
That's what I'm dealing with right now again. I'm so sick of it
I feel ya
And it's going wors
Sometimes the ones who give good advices are those who's dying inside, they tell other people how not to be like them 🥀
Because we know how hard and painful it is to be like that and the ironic part is we tell them advices that we cant even practice ourselves :
Anonymous Voice Omg. Sooo true!! 😘😘😘
Yeah. While watching myself fall apart trying to hold everyone together :)
It’s also the ones with the brightest smiles, and the loudest laughs... have the most painful past🍁 :(:
@@miametzger4849 its true :( if any of y'all need to talk to someone I'm always here just Kik me : @mewwwuuuu or insta @anik.a334.
Wish y'all well
our parents have no idea what we go through everyday, cause nobody cares until you’re gone
People do care and do try to help.but when one cannot believe what we see in them no one can help them but themselves.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
My fiancé died 21 days ago today. We were getting married in 2 months, on October 10th. Every single bone in my body aches for his presence. Thank you for this song. It reminds me of better days, dancing around our living room together without a care in the world 💛
I'm so sorry ❤
My heart goes out to you. I can’t imagine the pain you feel.God bless you
I’m sorry. And if you’re wondering if it’ll ever go away.. know, the pain? It doesn’t, because grief is just love with no place to go.. and It hurts. It physically fucking hurts and I’m sorry. I’m just really, really sorry. I’ve lost and lost and fucking lost, and the only way to keep going is to do it. just do it. Feel that fucking anger in that emptiness just above your stomach, and keep feeling it. Eventually, it’ll become apart of your soul. Just survive it and one day you’ll realize that it may be apart of who you are; it may even define you and bring you to your knees but you’re still here to feel it and remember the “before”. That’s gotta be the worth something; if not everything and he wouldn’t want it any other way (you still keeping on). I’m sorry I’m sorry, I’m sorry.
@@adriannamaiullo2947that was a very beautiful & perfectly worded message! One that can only come from experience. I’m so sorry that you’ve known that hurt too. ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss😢
Depression, anxiety, family problems, no friend to talk.
and corona
Wtf.ananya on Instagram.. I'm going through the same so dm me whenever you wanna talk:)
hai akmal, jangan sedih. you can dm me
Muhammad Akmal im here for you
Aiman Nurra how ?
that moment when you wanted to cry but no tears are coming out.
Kimberly Español you feel so numb, you feel this pain in your chest but nothing comes out, not a single tear, i hate this feeling
@@nejl.4039 Ever so often this occurs and it hurts like hell
I wonder how I'm seen as cold-hearted by the people I live with
Or when you're too numb to cry again
I'm feeling the same right now and from the very start of my 7th standard till now 9th standard.just feel hopeless..,....
That feeling is new for me, and that's so strange.. crying without tears.
God knows all hearts . He send Jesus as our answer instead of living in misery. Jesus sets free, free indeed . Amen ❤️ 🙏
It's easier said than believing that in that moment where u breakdown n smile afterwards 😢
Some friends and family Never know everything about someone!! No matter how long or little you had with them. Sadly I'm 43 yr old woman and I never told anyone all I survived on my own... right here in Oregon. We all have prayed we all tried and we all are fighters for those we love!! We will never know why but know this GOD only knows why... You're loved and needed that's why we are here!
The loneliest people are to kindest.
The saddest people smile the brightest.
The most damaged people are the wisest.
All because they dont want to see anyone suffer the way they do.
True but give credit to the original person
*when you're all three*
So me
Yeah thats me
Facts. I applaud anyone who this applies to. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 In my book, these types of people are real champs🏆 The best people this world has to offer. Earth’s strongest 🏆🏆👏🏼
The girl who was always positive, cheerful, and happy, I wish I could get her back, because she’s long gone.
Me too
Too..I miss her
But people are just saying her to give up pretending and be herself. And they says she is OK when she isn't. She is in pain...
I miss her so much. I want her back....
Your still that girl ,your just as strong you can be that person again it takes a lot of work n step by step effort ,you got this.keep saying out loud "I GOT THIS "!!! everyday and look in the mirror .i can say this from experience dont listen to the bad thoughts ,the bad compliments your give yourself ,your doubts .YOU CAN DO THIS!!YOUR AN OVERCOMER YOUR A SURVIVOR !!
LOVE FROM NEW JERSEY
I don't even know when was the last time I laugh my heart out and waking up peacefully. Tired of hearing " We know you very well" when in fact they don't know even a slight idea about me.
Those who say they know us well and we were never like this, hurt us more cause they never even tried to see our true self. They blame us for our own pain and depression. They want to only see our pretend happy self for ever cause that helps them take advantage of us.
It hurts me to read how many people are going through so much and listening to this song brings us all together with our misery. Love you all and stay strong ❤
I just realized how much I miss my old self. The one can laugh freely and smile without faking it. The one who always believe her life is bright. But she already gone and never come back.
Same
You can still find that just believe don't give up💕
You're in a season. When it passes and you get through this period. When you trust God and let him prosper you, you will become you again. A beautiful butterfly meant to make a difference. Lol might sound cheesy but...
Listen if you want your old self to come back show it because you are you ok
I felt that...sending love and hope...💛💛💛
I'm not depressed, I'm not anxious. It just most part of me is missing. I can't be truly happy anymore I just don't know how.
It’s hard to find the missing part..i feel it 🥺 but you gonna be alright..keep struggling to find happiness okay?? There’s rainbow after rain 😊
I'll hug you
find gurl lol
Broken soul
I know how, and it's pretty easy you just have to enjoy the most little things in life make it huge and or can be everything it can be the sunlight it can be the flowers you see it even can be rain enjoy every little thing you have and make those things huge for yourself and smile and then things start get easier I promise. Good luck.
I know you've got the best intentions
Just trying to find the right words to say
I promise, I've already learned my lesson
But right now, I wanna be not okay
I'm so tired, sitting here waiting
If I hear one more "Just be patient"
It's always gonna stay the same
So let me just give up
So let me just let go
If this isn't good for me
Well, I don't wanna know
Let me just stop trying
Let me just stop fighting
I don't want your good advice or reasons why I'm alright
You don't know what it's like
You don't know what it's like
Can't stop these feet from sinking
And it's starting to show on me
You're staring while I'm blinking
But just don't tell me what you see
I'm so over all this bad luck
Hearing one more "Keep your head up"
Is it ever gonna change?
So let me just give up
So let me just let go
If this isn't good for me
Well, I don't wanna know
Let me just stop trying
Let me just stop fighting
I don't want your good advice or reasons why I'm alright
You don't know what it's like
You don't know what it's like
Don't look at me like that
Just like you understand
Don't try to pull me back
Let me just give up
Let me just let go
If this isn't good for me
Well, I don't wanna know
Let me just stop trying
Let me just stop fighting
I don't want your good advice or reasons why I'm alright
You don't know what it's like
You don't know what it's like
You don't know, you don't know
You don't know
You don't know what it's like
You don't know what it's like
You don't know, you don't know
You don't know what it's like
You don't know what it's like
This is my first time hearing this song. For me it's dealing with flashbacks almost every day of horrible things I've been through as a child. People try to help but it's not the same when the one person that should and is supposed to help you doesn't believe a thing. It just hurts.
Hi I wanna tell you Jesus Loves You So Much He Gave His Life for our sins so we can be forgiven from our sins and Go To Heaven! Gods Love For Us Is Unconditonal ✝️✝️
♥️♥️♥️
Same here!
Me too
I know exactly how you feel I'm 39, and a lot of things that happened in my childhood are just now coming back to me, and it's all I can think about all day. And the one person that should be there for me, doesn't even want to hear it. Instead, I'm told I'm almost 40, and I need to get over it. She doesn't seem to understand how my childhood is affecting me now as an adult....my life could have been so different...I could have been so different. 😞 You're not alone, I understand how you feel. And for what its worth, neither one of us deserved to go through what we went through as a children. Its not fair, but we will be ok ❤️
It hurts more when your crying silently at night...
... but silentscreaming while you're in pain, crying your eyes out at night hurts more.
Everyday :''))
Im doing it now
@@lunad5569 BTS army....Hi tho
@@talhahassan9412 hi! Are u army too?💜
Virtual hugs to everyone who are fighting with themselves 💕
Just wish these virtual hugs could feel like the real ones but even if somehow they could be felt as real they won't b enough bcz they could never b from the person v r craving from!
Thank u
aw ure so sweet
Can you please check this and make me happy😶 ua-cam.com/video/aMu6tvHc-Bg/v-deo.html
Thank u! Really needed that
I started crying. Finally, I found a song that describes me completely
Beautiful voice the message hit home for me I remember wanting to just crumble to the floor but love shined down on me from God and my sons . I cried went to bed slept and next morning got up feeling a little stronger , just keep pushing through It does get better.❤🙏🌹
You know...sometimes I think strangers can be better than your friends and family
Edit:
I'm feeling a lot better now, thanks for all the good things you guys said and i'm sorry if I offended some people.
Uhm no
I feel you.. They just have when we are happy.. Not when our hard times..when our hard times? No one there...
It just means that you haven't found true friends ✊
Don't give up some people are waiting for you !!!
Thats trueeee i feel the same
Yeah… It's easier to talk to somebody who doesn't have any conceptions of who you are, rather than people who will say 'Heh. You're funny. That's not true.' when you admit your problems...
Having depressed is not what hurts
Having anxiety is not what hurts
-the fact that noone cares is what hurts-
My parents: get over it and smile
Me: *fake smiles*
My parents: see it is easy
Me: ye
20 hr’s later 4:00 am! I am still trying to stop crying my self to sleep
Hey guys, I know it might seem so impossible to believe, but I care. So much. I may not have gone through the same suffering as you, I don’t know the depth of your pain since I’m not you, but I know that feeling. That feeling where you want to abandon yourself just as others had done but the only problem is, you can’t. Like nobody is on your side. But I’m here for you guys and I sincerely hope you’re coping with things
There’s nothing wrong with you, the world is just a cruel place to live in. And you’re all so brave and strong for choosing to live despite how painful it is. Don’t hate yourselves, you’re an artwork of love, a wonderful masterpiece. You might get dirt on you, but that doesn’t change the fact that you are beautiful. You are loved
Yow giyu , u r not alone .
I care , please don’t give up , you have no idea how much you matter ♥️
I wish I could 👍 this 10,000 times. This song touched my soul!
Not only is her voice beautiful, but the words touch anybody that has been in that mind set!
Kudos 👏
Hi Mary
@@andybetz.9978 Hello👋
This song helped me a lot 3 years ago when I was depressed. Then someone came and saved me and now that we broke up, the song popped up again and I realised how these lyrics can be so relatable in so many situations in you life.
You have to save yourself! You don’t need a man to save you. Learn to be happy With yourself and by yourself.
Woah, why did the exact same thing happen to me?
No one notices the *PAIN*
No one notices the *SADNESS*
No one notices the *TEARS*
But they do notice the *MISTAKES*
100% on point
😢
Yeah I know☹️😖😣 😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
The only time they don't criticize you is when you're dead.
@@lidiareyes7048 True
There are times when i don't even know why im crying. How can they understand me why i don't even know myself.
Gum Dum i felt that one
Yeah.. We're same
you feel like your alone and no one cares abt you. I always feel that way, and I keep on asking myself what was wrong? what happened to you? why do we need to feel some shitty things without reasons? and after that, the freaking reality slaps me saying "your feeling like shits cause you're a worthless crazy creature."
So you cry for no reason at all ? Go see a doctor
Heh..same here...😔
I cried till the bags under my eyes got worse
I cried till my nose went red
I cried till i have no more tears left
If you are reading this comment I hope and pray that you will be okay, maybe not now but soon and always remember that everything happens for a reason and everything has its own purpose so live your life to the fullest so that in the end you won't regret about not doing anything
i guess in the end, the saddest thing is that the people who constantly tear themselves apart to save other people, are the ones that get torn apart because nobody will save them too.
It's so sad that this explains me.
Because we're always happy and theres nothing wrong with us and our lives
Ouch this one hurt
Agreed.. everyone expects us to be the "happy" ones for them to rant to, but we're too scared to open up about our problems because we're scared of what they'll say or how they'll react. So we stay quiet and try to stay positive on the outside but on the inside we can't hold it in much longer, but we try to..we try to do things to make ourselves stay hApPy and PoSiTivE about everything. It hurts..it really does. We take people's problems onto ourselves and it makes them feel better about themselves while we drift further into dirt.
I'm sorry for typing so much, I just had to speak up for the people who go through these things.
I'm sorry if I ruined your day or something, but I had to stand up for the rest of these people and myself. I don't mean to make the people who open up to people feel bad about themselves...I'm sorry if I did.
The main reason I do that is because I don't want to burden them with my problems. I'm just not fucjing strong enough anymore...
When your parents doesnt know that you have depression and now you've been keeping it all with yourself
Hey there i might dnt know u but i care be strong ,u are special ,i might dnt know what u having thru nor what your problem is but trust me u are still alive now for a reason , be positive u are precious❤😊
Don't worry buddy. I can't say everything will be fine, but I can let you have the remedy I have by myself. Go listen to songs like run BTS..and many other songs that will cure u. Everything will be ok💕
Here I am, my friend.. we can fight this together... you are special and be positive 😊
I love 381 and when they find out they say “do you even KNOW what depression is? It’s a mental illness not a joke”
They really don’t understand
no u
I’m 34 years old and this song still hits hard. My parents grew up in a time that mental illness was something to be ashamed of and getting help was looked down on. They worry that my 13 yr old son is going to be harmed from getting help. He wanted a therapist so I got him one. They worry he won’t be able to get a good job or will have people look at him wrong. My dad always said everyone gets sad but that you had to just let it roll off your back. It took me getting married before I got the help I needed years before hand. I keep so many things inside that I was taught was shameful. I try to do the opposite of what I was taught to do. If I’m depressed I try to seek help cause the worst thing about depression is you feel like you are on your own. A sick mind will even tell you that you aren’t strong enough to get better that if you fall victim to it over and over that you are worthless and there is no place for you to feel safe and loved. I want to reach out to anyone who feels this way cause on my very bad days all I need is someone who gets it and to have that open conversation with. I want to be that person for anyone who needs it. It’s okay to not be okay. Just know that someone cares and gets it. This is something I will survive. Every time it comes back I will fight cause people need me. People also need you
❤❤❤
👍Well stated!!!
God knows what's it like so he told us to talk to him through all means (Prayer, tears, music, laughter) he will answer us all. 🤗😘 to all the people hurting.
Can’t tell your parents cuz you know they’ll be disappointed, too much expectations, too much pressure. Sometimes I wanna die but I’m scared to hurt people around me. I feel so alone sometimes, nobody understands. It’s hard to let go.
I understand you
Ur not alone.
You have to talk with someone. I'm sure that they won't be disappointed. Stay strong. You are not alone. 💖
It's been 2 months. Hope you're okay now
Yeah, not really going great. People whom I trusted with my secrets literally told everyone just because they were “drunk” like bruh. I feel so broken but still gotta live😂 but yeah, I’m managing somehow. Thanks for the concern😊😊😊
Whenever someone said that they are depressed everyone reacts like, "Don't be overreacting. It's nothing. It's not depression. It'll pass, etc"
But they don't know what it's like
It's not something you can just snap out of. It's a roller coaster that you can't get off.
😩😩😥😥😥
It’s been two years ever since it started. And it’s still there, standing over my shoulder, just waiting for its next chance to strike.
Same.I was caught in class cutting myself since i felt so angry and upset.Then one of my friends told the teacher but she told me to not overreact and to not disturb the class.I felt so heartbroken i have never heard my teacher that said something which made me cry even more.I still cant get over what happened.Even though it happened last two years ago.
@@ykc2189 That is BS. I WORKED for the school bus service. This girl from jr high would get on sit across from me and always looked so sad. I was wearing short sleeves one day and finally after 3months of never talking she looked over and noticed scars from when I was cutting. I looked at her. She pushed up her sleeve and had cut marks. Its sad but thats how I made a connection with her. After that she would talk to me when she had a bad day or was getting bullied or just needed someone to tell I know how you feel and try this tofeel better instead of cutting. All the kids were special needs some emtional some physical or behavioral. Once I learned what triggered them and what to do to help them it was the best feeling in the world. I loved that job
They say to smile
They say you can make friends just start a conversation
They say that you can have a good life if you work hard
They say that but it’s not that easy
Empathy is a thing feel it more to the people who need it :)
👍
“right now, i wanna be not okay.” i cant stop crying.
Hi, if you need anyone to talk to you can reply to this comment and I’ll gladly hear you out
I feel that :I All you want is a hug someone telling that its all okay:)
@@emilylagrange5708 Do u maybe have hangouts or something?
Emily LaGrange I feel hun
What, what's it like....I'm crying for you.
I'm praying for you, wishing for you.
You ever just lay in your bed in the dark? Hoping no one hears you crying and pleading for the only person who makes you feel safe, happy, loved? Yeah...me too
yeah i do all the time, but there gone.
... :/ ❤️
That person for me is just a character in a book, because they are the only ones who will never leave you, as long as you don't forget the book.
Just the girl what if no one makes me happy?
Yep did it last night for a couple hours
I’m so tired of having to meet people’s expectations even if i don’t like it anymore
Just reading the comments and realising that there are so many people in this world who have dealt with mental issues and heartbreak is saddening and gratifying at the same time.
And there are some people that trying to get rid of those feelings maybe by singing 🎵 i do that and it's makes me happy , can you please check this: ua-cam.com/video/aMu6tvHc-Bg/v-deo.html
"I want to die.... But I am afraid of death"
-Me...
You deserve to stay alive , your better days are coming
I want to be too
I want to die to
Me too
I want to die but i don't wanna hurt ppl who want me to stay😢
My Mom take a picture of me with the whole mess in my room, She sends it to me For me to feel embrassed, little did she know , I'm dying inside :) I can't clean it because my head is full of things, Little did she know when she's not home I clean the whole house, wash the dishes, While my mind is full of things, Tbh I'm tired :) I grew up with my Dad and Mom argue all the time , My Dad get home always drunk at night , Glasses breaks , the TV the things around , I'm just tired , They say everything will get better when u Age but I guess it's not :)
It's OK to put a - :(. wish the best love
Same💔
Same but now my parents seperated and i live alone i think its better to be alone sometimes
@@crazyfortaebooty but you don't have to be:) if you ever need someone to talk to I'm here
@@kayashainiem2281 thank u 😊
To every single one of you. It's gonna get better. I know everybody says that and it feels like nobody understands this feeling of your whole world crumbling down before your eyes but I know it. I've been there. And it took me many painful years to get better. But now I have the life I would never even dream of. And I'm thankful every day that I didn't do it. And of course, there are still times when I don't want to go out of my bed and face the world, but then I always remind myself of all the beautiful moments I was a part of and how they would never happen if I took my life away back then. So please, keep on fighting! I'm with and I know you are going to survive all of this. And don't be afraid to ask for help or to simply cry on somebody's shoulder. You are all beautiful people and I would love to meet you and hug you.
Thank you
the worst part is when my anger turns into tears
Hey ,life is garbage ,I know ,society sucks but I want to help everyone who needs it ,if you wanna have a lil chat just tell me and I'll give you my Insta or number
Same thing happens here
I'm gonna cry if i feel very angry 🙂🥀
@@roseelfnna2474 das what I said ;-;"??
How is that bad? You're converting your anger, stress into tears. Crying is a great way to get rid of your anger. It's better than taking out your anger on someone who doesn't deserves it. Crying is not weak or anything like that, it's what society makes it look like. But crying is actually pretty flipping cool! I'm proud that you're crying and when you're done, you will get up and move on.
I live in a body that fights to live.
*and a mind that wants to die*
Me too
:'(
Ok cool
Hey sunshine..I will be always with u. .. just hang on..
hey hon, I know what it's like. ;) only i don't think my body fights to live anymore either... but I made it like that... but I know what you mean. It's been so long and I'm still here. why? I don't know. But you are too, and there's a reason for that too. Keep holding on... I can't say it to myself but I can to you, just hold on. I think everyone should live, just by virtue of being born. obviously I feel like I'm the exception to that, and you probably do too, but you're not. We're not. keep holding on. Don't ever give up. sending love, I'm here with you.
This song is beautiful it says all the right words!
I’m 44 years old now and I want to tell who’s ever reading this there’s a simple answer to all the suffering you’re going through all the depression, loneliness, fear, and every negative emotion that you can think of or that you feel. It’s simple and easy.
It’s not finding a Church or a religion. it’s simply having a personal relationship with God the father, Jesus Christ his son & the Holy Spirit.
Please Don’t let it take you as long as it took me to find God. Because The longer you wait the harder your heart gets & the harder it gets it’s not easy to break through all that hardness. so don’t wait any longer if you’re looking for a sign then this is it this is your sign to either come back to him or get to know him and start having that relationship because he’s been waiting for you your entire life and the reason your life has been so hard is because he’s not in it. I promise you once you start walking with Jesus and not against him your life will be easier and more joyful than you could ever imagine.
I suffered 40yrs of extremely painful traumatic abusive mentally and physical. I started searching for God and not a religion Or a church online or in my hometown. (yes you will need fellowship later but first focus on the relationship with God)
Because when I realized that I just needed a personal relationship with him everything started changing for me. Yes some things changed overnight but other things I had to work on with the help of the Holy Spirit. So, I challenge the person/persons reading this to talk to Jesus. Just Call out to him even if you think you don’t know what to say. He will still hear you. And I promise you that if you just start searching for him all your pain and suffering loneliness depression whatever you’re going through he wants to take it all the way. you just have to begin.
God loves you so much!!! I can’t stress this enough! Think of it this way all the stuff you’ve gone through all the pain and all that yucky stuff I’m sure you’ve tried regular doctors and medication‘s or therapy why not give this a shot see if it works. There’s a really cool quote that says God will put you back together right in front of the people who broke you. So maybe that will give you the motivation to reach out to him maybe you’re like me and somebody broke you so completely that you were almost not a person anymore what God‘s putting me back together right in front of them.
So I want to tell you that this song actually saved my life.
I lost my kids dad two and a half weeks before my daughter was born. I found this song right after it happened. And I actually felt like someone finally knew what I was going through. You made me not feel completely alone in the world. So I just wanted to say thank you. I know you wrote it about depression but I feel like it works for grief because it goes hand in hand with depression. So yeah I really just wanted to say thank you. I will always remember this song as the one that helped me get through the nights when I felt like I was just going to die if I had to live a minute longer. Thank you so much. Really
Hello strangers. I just want you to know that you actually will be fine. Will be okay. But please hold on. I don't know what it's like being in your shoes. Don't give up. Keep trying. Be strong even just enough.
Strangers, I really don't have any wise words to say to you. I've been there before, feeling the pain. It hurt so much. Maybe not pain as you. Make yourself busy. Eat well. Don't go to bed late. Sleep early. Talk to your friends. Just cry if you feel so heavy in your chest. Your heart needs to heal. Need to free from that heavy feels.
Strangers, I love you.
The only thing I do is go to bed late so I can listen to depressing music and Debate if I’m gonna stay clean or not
@@penutbuttercup440 if you want to listen to them, listen to it. Listen to it over and over. But please eat well. Stay healthy. If going to bed late is the better choice, then do it. If you wanna cry, then cry. But, whatever it is, be strong even just enough.
Ernie M. Thanks..
Buttercup T same
This is just amazing👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
did you know how anxiety and depressed is?
you have a body that wanna fight and and a mind that wanna die
so stop saying that it was easy, man
I feel you I just hate how people say its easy when they usally aren't even struggling and Its just kinda annoying like some people say they have that because they cry when sombody calls them rude or slow.
I'm exactly in this position right now but can't tell anyone bc they just don't understand
@@KramerJuliette hey mate, don't give up okay? We fight together im here for you
Other said that it cause we do not near by God. Hmmmm, so if you got fever, you do not near with your god too?
Thanks mate.. Pray for me
I haven't heard this song in like years and yet I still somehow know all the words
Magical AF!!!! We should all appreciate God for creating such a beautiful talented soul like this man!!! 🫶🏻
✌🏻💜🎧
It's been almost two years I've been listening this song, again and again. Read every comments and I always realize that I'm not alone, that's why I should survive. Whatever how much I got this pain, and nobody ever asked me 'Are you okay ?' until I realized 'that word' doesn't matter anymore. But this song and all those comment is so important for me.
Yea me too I feel that too ('that word' it doesn't matter anymore) , I still came here when my anxiety attacks me out of blue then read comments like ok were getting and getting more people here and readinv whats on their mind people telling their feelings while listening to the song
Please don't ever give up. Cz u r the one who needs you. Keep fighting. Don't get sick. I hope you're completely fine now!!
Stop telling me I'm fine.
Stop telling me I'll be okay.
Stop telling me it will get better.
Stop looking at the brightside because you cant handle the darkness
Stop asking me what's wrong just to dismiss my feelings.
Stop ignoring that I'm hurting.
Just. Stop.
I feel this right now 💔💔💔💔💔💔
I feel what ur saying. But the thing is u have to believe u will if not u never will. Trust me ur last hope right now is to believe ❤️❤️. Our last hope is just to believe even though we're broken
My family doesn't believe in depression and if i get depressed they tell me there is no such thing so stop being a nuisance and they don't believe in LGBTQ+ but i am Pansexual so i get slapped for even mentioning it because they are homophobic
@@ariesmead1341 that is so fucked up, there is nothing wrong with being apart of the LGBTQ+ community, want my snap? We can be friends?
@@EfeAikpokhio believe.?well there is no one who cares for me..
My family?? They will blame me won't understand me or my feelings.
I don't have any friends to talk to. So tell me to whom I believe? I jst can't die because I'm scared.
God I haven’t heard this song in 2 years it just popped back up on my UA-cam recommendation again and how do I still relate
Gosh her voice is amazing
"Are you okay?"
"Yes" *No, I'm not*
"I'm glad you're okay"
"I’m always okay" *I'm not, I'm suffering*
"Are you depressed?"
"No, I'm fine. Why did you ask?" *Yes, I have no one to talk to. I feel worthless*
*People need to understand that depression isn't just being sad, and having anxiety. It's something way worst. It's were you feel like you're the reason for everyone's madness, the reason they're angry, the reason they’re sad. You feel like someone's judging you constantly, you feel like people are laughing at you, you feel like people are talking (bad) about you. When you have anxiety, You'll know what depression is. The anxiety builds up more and more.. You cut, you try to commit suicide, you feel like you've lost your fight. No one understands you, no one gets you.. We feel traped inside this cage that has nothing but negativity in it. Depression isn’t something to make fun of, it’s something that needs to be taken seriously. That’s the best I can explain depression..*
The world is so cruel now. Why can’t we just be nice and not mentally and physically hurtful? It’s not hard to give someone a compliment. You don’t have to mean it but you could’ve just made their day. I once was depressed but these two people helped me threw it. I know it’s hard to find someone but trust me..You will. Just know you’re worth it and you’re beautiful inside and out. You’re unique, not weird. 💜♥️
My Instagram is @Isabela.KTHV95 if you need someone to talk to 💕
Nobody can explain depression, only the people who have/had depression know how it's like to be depressed... even the people who have/had depression can't explain or describe how depression is be like, depression isn't something you can explain, depression is just something you can feel...
I losing my grip. Not even death can make me feels better
Anthony Ajing please stay. Things will get better. It may take years but trust me ♥️
I guess I'm suck at finding true and real friends. Because of them I made up my mind that I'll not trust anyone in this world including my family. I'm so exhausted, depressed at the same time. I'm sick of all of this
This is so heartworming the one preson who actually has good advice
Sometimes what we truly want isn't to disappear, but to be found...
True!!! I'm kinda giving hints to people around me that I'm not okay, but all they say is don't think too much everything will be alright, everyone just thinks that I'm exaggerating 😢
no u
Yes 🙁
When people get hurt they learn to hate feel like someday i will leave and never come back again
This song hits so hard... Explains exactly how I feel... Life sucks
My parents: get over it and smile
Me: *fake smiles*
My parents: see it is easy
Me: ye
10 hr later 4:00 am! I am still trying to stop crying my self to sleep
Astro 1 get over it and smile
Me2
My parents : Be happy , make yourself happy .
Me : You don't know what it feels...I can't..
My parents : Be happy .
Me : *Sigh*You don't know...
I feel this so bad
Astro’s place ! ❤️❤️
Isn't it great when you have to turn all the lights off, blow the candles, turn your phone upside down and put on headphones so you can listen to music and cry alone while everyone thing you're soundly sleeping and you wanna tell them you're not alright but you can't?
Yeah, it's awesome
Sounds oddly familiar
Me rn
Sadly, I know this feeling all too well...
I was scared but now i know our Savior and i just wanna go home
Soon beloved 🤍
These lyrics are EVERYTHING I feel all the time...😳😳💯💯
I feel so lost and empty. Everyday the world is making me realize how fucked up I am. I'm in so much pain right now and I don't know how to function anymore. I'm way out of my track and I want to give up because that is the easy way. But still, here I am fighting because I am hoping that one day I will be getting the happiness I deserved.
keep fighting darling. i promise things will get better.
I hear u sweetheart and I hope u are still here. U are not alone, please keep fighting. I can't say it will get better because i honestly dont know but I am praying for u and that peace find u
I feel the same sometimes I wanna hurt myself but everytime i wanted to i would think of God if i would hurt myself God will not like this He will be dissapointed at me if ever i hurt myself. I'm His child and He will do everything to protect me thats why I put all my faith and trust to Him . Thats why I want you to also put your faith and trust to God that He will also protect you from all of this and heal you from feeling this. I believe that God is with us because He always hears my prayer ...as your sister in Christ I will pray for you...
Yes ofc u deserve happines dear .
I feel your pain, all I am sending is love❤️
I’m not depressed… I’ve just been hurt and don’t know if I’ll be ok.
You will! Love you!!!
The realisation that you are hurt and a hope of getting over it! Makes you okay already!
Nothing is worth your mental peace!
Stay strong mate!
If your heart is still beating, you are still breathing then it didn't hurt enough for you to keep worrying about it. Pain is temporary, dwelling on it is foolish. Caring about who hurt is useless. Let go of what hurt you, change it, or destroy it. Pick one and move on.
You will be okay. Don't worry. Be strong. Don't stop fighting... ❤
Life is just so hard right now and there's nobody I can talk to about it that actually understand what I'm going through... I relate to this song so much...
I'm 36..I take care of my adopted grandparents.... I will never be good enough for them, They seem to love to remind of this fact.... But I can't let leave them uncared for. My grand parents are 82-85 years old. And refuse to change or accept that they could ever be wrong... Even if I could prove it to them. But they took me in when they didn't have to.... For that one singular action... I am forever grateful. Even if you wish me gone now. I tried...
I wish i can say to my parents “Can i do my own decisions and what i need is your support”.
Jell Sunfla i feel you 😢
Well, I wish I had a different mom..
Instead of some overprotective golddigger who's barely home.
@@scrunklymansoren Overprotective but never home ???
Then do it
@@sko3925 yes
Smiling infront friend and family but inside crying like hell it's very painful
I totally understand!!!!!
Some parents really do care do understand what it's like but they don't know how to help, they feel helpless they want to just take the pain all away cause they get choked up that you feel like they do , but as a child they felt the same way but didn't know how to get it out or tried to talk but were told to be quiet. Be strong. Dont trust Noone so now all they been taught how to deal with feelings is not working and they wanna just scream out how they feel , so baby girl scream it out someone will understand but be very cautious to who you scream your pain out too. Some people prey on those feelings and that your vulnerable. And yes be strong cause maybe your mother or father understand you completely they are just not sure how to say it ...sending you love strength and the power to speak who you are ❣️💝
Beautiful singing with such emotion, it went straight to my heart 😢❤
I don't have any friends
I'm ugly
My family hates me
At school I don't talk to anyone
And yet... I still smile💔💔
1st i can be ur friend. 2nd people r beautiful in their own way. 3rd, dont mind the hate just mind that they're fams. Lastly, schools suck lol. Thats all i can say, and thank you for always smiling and never give up.. cheer up
@@shakkitooth8725 ok I'll try
Chim chim loves Pie I’m here if you need to talk.
Hey there... U will be fine ..i know school feels like forever.. But it will end.. Focus on your career...
Ughhh... relatable
Everyone has pain, sadness, depression, fears, anxiety, or doesn't care, and even when they laugh or smile deep down they are crying waiting for you to realise what is really going on. Even bullies are in pain. I know how you feel I have been bullied and betrayed before. Anyway God bless♡
Who is here in
2020~
for anyone who can relate to this song including me ols keep going and maybe even write your own songs that people who think they are alone in a dark place can relate to and find comfort from😊❤
When the voices and hallucinations of your depressions take over and everything just turns into shapes and you cant come out of your home because your afarid you may hurt someone or yourself please if anyone can hear me i need hugs........♡♡♡♡♡
Hope ur doing fine♥♥♥sending virtual hugs xd
I know this feeling. Know you are loved. Feel it sink in. I’m a stranger but I’ve been here before. And I know the anxiety it causes. You will be fine. It’s anxiety and it will cease as your stress is lessor. You will be ok. It’s a challenge but you will overcome. I did. And if I can, you definitely can also. 💜 from a stranger
Who is here in 2020 cuz somehow its only gotten worse from when this song came out
Im here! Lets go through this together❤
@@SarahJane_Sings sure :3
Here
We're stuck haha
✋🏻
Everyone is commenting, "I miss him" or "I love him". And I'm just over here admiring how she perfectly depicted my depression into a song.
Augustus Griffin omg same
Same
Same. It hurts so much. I’m just so tired of pretending that I’m not already dead inside. That I wasn’t secretly hating that My body was revived. Why couldn’t I be allowed to leave this all behind
Augustus Griffin I've never heard a song which describes exactly what I feel. This one did it perfectly.
I haven’t seen any comments about that and most of people are commenting about their depression
I've realized alot of parents don't know or understand their own children. That's my main purpose w/my daughter. There's many confused people out there...many adults don't understand themselves. A parents role in life should always be LOVE, PATIENCE & UNDERSTANDING.
Damn girl...trust me I know this I've lived that shit and it sucks. Just keep your head up you will find someone great for you.....
*"If this isn't good for me, well I don't want to know."*
@@mrs.malfoy1239 stdetjskfusgsbctf grn
"Someone Great", no no no ,it can only come from. Within. ❤
Who said it was about finding someone else. I listen to this because I have a chronic illness that causes me a lot of depression...my husband is pretty much as close to perfect as a human being can be.
I don't know what it's like, but, please, never stop fighting...
Bruna Lima well I just hope you never have to feel it !! Good luck !
Bruna Lima it not as easy as you think
Im getting trapped im giving up its the only way out
Bruna Lima it's hard. Trust me
im hoping for u to never feel like this..its the worst feeling ever..its something u just cant stop..
When I told my mom I had depression she was like, "But your life is fine! You have no reason to be sad." Literally, she has absolutely no idea how much that hurt, especially when everyone is always like "There's starving kids in Africa, stop feeling sorry for yourself." All that ever does is make me feel worse about myself. I wish I could show this to my parents and make them understand, but I have a feeling they wouldn't care anyway. Heh, yay depressing comments, right?
Sage Billings same here 🖑💔 but I didn't try to say cause IK 😞
Yeah, I just wish parents could at least TRY to understand.
Sage Billings All wish 😔
Sage Billings true
Kaz_Adams Inshallah you'll be good .. All adults can never understand
Sometimes reading comments make me feel like I have friends
Well this hurts
When your mom says "you are selfish!"
When your best friend says"you are selfish and you have betrayed me".. where I have given up so many things just for them.....
Now my father also say "you are selfish"..
Them: Are u ok?
Me: I'm tired
Them: then, rest..
Inner me: you don't know what it's like
I dont want your good advice
🌏🎧
I dont think they realize what being tired means like I am not physically tired I am tired in every sense of the word and I dont know if I can keep getting up everyday and pretending to be okay...that is exhausting
Insomnia: bish I’m back
I just want to say to everyone who is going through something right now that I love you, I need you, I want you, so please don’t give up, let me be selfish and ask you to keep fighting and holding on for me. I may be a stranger but I may know you better than you think. So don’t stop here, leave a mark on the world. I don’t need to see you, hear you, or even know your name but I know that you are beautiful and an amazing person who is needed. So please for the selfish stranger. Don’t stop now.
Aw I cried reading this 😢I love you and yaa I'll keep going.Dear selfish stranger 💓
thank u. i love u too :)
I love you too savanna... If only the world had more people like you in it. ❤
Thank you! I’ve been wanting to here something like this to cheer me up. Stay safe!
This is- this just made my day thank you so much
Whenever, I hear this songs ... I am seeing myself that I am no longer same ... Tough times, different paths or difficult desicion... Life has changed me so much... Not a soft person anymore
Can't wait to hear more from this talented beautiful soul!
Time never heal anything, it just teach us how to live with pain
cutie Pups 😢
That's so true... :(
I don't think you know. Because I'm pretty sure that you don't understand 'time'. :-)
Tony Robbins quote "Understanding Life is happening for us and not to us. Game Over! All pains and suffering disappear."
A 2Z true.
I just can’t love myself , it’s like i will never be good enough , no one will ever love me enough , i feel numb .
I feel that all too well. Its like im not enough for anyone and never will be..
Exactly how I feel.
Same here .but when I think like that I always tell myself if u r thinking this u already have mind blowing;good awesome heart and mind that u r already thinking like that .but I know u r a good person that's why u r thinking that