20 Life Lessons (I learned the hard way)

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  • @rosevv2774
    @rosevv2774 8 місяців тому +311

    Please see the doctor and take care of the spot on your nose. Another favorite UA-camr of mine, Pat Sloan, had skin cancer on her nose. She had it removed and she carried on with her daily videos with a bandage. I really don’t think anyone was bothered by that. She shared her journey and that helped other people! Please take care of yourself. 🤗

    • @kerribeck7929
      @kerribeck7929 8 місяців тому +6

      Gratitude!!!

    • @intherockies
      @intherockies 8 місяців тому +12

      My mom had skin cancer on her nose too. It was taken care of without any long term problem.

    • @troubleshooter166
      @troubleshooter166 8 місяців тому +6

      Reba McIntire filmed a video with bandages that costume lady disguised with hats etc

    • @rebeccarusk7762
      @rebeccarusk7762 8 місяців тому +1

      Please take care of your nose.

    • @Marjorie-oh4oj
      @Marjorie-oh4oj 8 місяців тому

      Nasty

  • @dsg3213
    @dsg3213 8 місяців тому +78

    It's not your nose we come for Cas. It's your smile, your sense of humor, and of course your advice. Take care of it!

  • @shellyroberts2101
    @shellyroberts2101 8 місяців тому +50

    Cas my friend passed away from skin cancer in her 40s because it spread to her brain 🧠 please get it treated and we will love you no matter what your nose looks like - your personality is beautiful and will always shine through - just do it!!

    • @AUSTIN-ss2zd
      @AUSTIN-ss2zd 2 місяці тому

      Air pods cause brain and skin cancer

  • @stephaniebart-horvath1382
    @stephaniebart-horvath1382 8 місяців тому +131

    Please please please get it removed this week! Do not wait!
    My best friend had a spot on the back of her hand that looked very odd. The people she worked with begged her to see a doctor. She was 23. She waited a little too long before she had it removed. She died 5 years later. We were the same age-I’m 71 now, she is forever 28.
    We will live you no matter what. Worry about the plastic surgery later.
    You are beautiful inside and out-that will never change.

    • @rachelm9925
      @rachelm9925 8 місяців тому +16

      😢 thank you for sharing- I hope this message works. I completely agree about getting it treated without delay.

    • @Anon-vx7kr
      @Anon-vx7kr 8 місяців тому +12

      I am sitting here healing from the surgery you fear. My problem area was on my cheek. The cosmetic part of the problem does stink. Is it as bad as I thought it would be? No. Will I ask about my options to make it even better at my last follow up appointment? Of course. Do I feel better emotionally? As you would say, "abso-freakin-lutely." Cass, get busy and get it treated. Call tomorrow. Ok, I'll cut you a break until Monday if you read this on the weekend.

    • @stephaniebart-horvath1382
      @stephaniebart-horvath1382 8 місяців тому +5

      @@Anon-vx7kr I’m so glad you took care of it and that you are on the mend. Good luck to you ❤️

    • @rachelm9925
      @rachelm9925 8 місяців тому +3

      @@Anon-vx7kr thank you for sharing, I hope you heal quickly ❤️

  • @Jess-Gonzales
    @Jess-Gonzales 8 місяців тому +14

    Take your own advice Cass!! DO IT SCARED Don't give into anxiety! the more you procrastinate the procedure the more they will have to take. DO IT RIGHT AWAY!

  • @kimk9124
    @kimk9124 8 місяців тому +10

    My son was diagnosed with cancer in 2005. I lost 10 pounds quick. One of the ways I dealt with the stress of diagnosis and his surgery was walking on the treadmill and watching Cass. You made me laugh. I felt better after binge watching your videos. You were doing daycare those days.
    You have helped so many people in ways you'll never know. Beyond cleaning and organizing. Just being you. My son walks with a limp but is cancer free.
    Thanks Cass.

  • @trishferrer8209
    @trishferrer8209 8 місяців тому +71

    Cas, we love you. Please treat your beautiful face and body just as you would a precious little child, because everyone is still a little child inside, and needs TLC. Keep us posted. I promise to keep using daily sunscreen. I am a gardener, and I have forgotten to put it on, SO many times, but I will do it every time I go out, in your honor. ❤

    • @malualf
      @malualf 7 місяців тому

      We are drawn to people who make us feel comfortable, sometimes we all share the things that make us feel the same ways. When we change life moves us to likeminded individuals. Don’t put the blame outside.

  • @donnagoodale9105
    @donnagoodale9105 8 місяців тому +46

    Smiles and kindness are a currency you'll never go broke on so give them all away.

  • @ladygrndr9424
    @ladygrndr9424 8 місяців тому +89

    Please get it treated sooner rather than later! The quicker you get on that, the less they have to remove, or the better it reacts to the treatments!!

    • @njmaryannez
      @njmaryannez 8 місяців тому +7

      There are dermatologist-surgeons who will excise the cancer and not take so much skin. But DO IT NOW!!

    • @Lisa-jm3nk
      @Lisa-jm3nk 8 місяців тому +4

      Please take into consideration where she lives. Canadian system is very overstretched and she may have challenges being seen and getting scheduled for this. Cass if you are reading this, urge you to get a second opinion in the US even if you have to pay out of pocket to do so. Please don’t mess around or wait.

    • @TurquoiseInk
      @TurquoiseInk 8 місяців тому

      She stated she hasn't pursued getting the cancer resilved​@@Lisa-jm3nk

    • @claresmyth9645
      @claresmyth9645 7 місяців тому +1

      Our system may be overstretched but skin cancer is taken very seriously. She will be seen quickly, one of my besties was treated very quickly when she asked about a "weird spot" on her nose. She has a small scar now but we don't love her any less ❤

  • @lytaylor1204
    @lytaylor1204 8 місяців тому +55

    I always have that one quote from Mythbusters hanging in my cubicle: "Failure is ALWAYS an option." It gives me permission to try. Because even if I do fail, what I gain is DATA: what I like, what I don't like, how I like to work, what worked out and what didn't learning new skills, figuring out new habits that I should adopt, etc. And those data are always helpful.

  • @cindythurman1389
    @cindythurman1389 8 місяців тому +38

    Cass, you need to follow#3! Do it scared,Don't give in to anxiety! You say on #6 wear sunscreen that you are scared to get it taken care of. We all love you and will follow you no matter what!

  • @ruthmanor70
    @ruthmanor70 8 місяців тому +25

    "Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken." We love who you are, Cas. Life Lesson: We teach people how to treat us by what we allow.

    • @mattandjennybarber9666
      @mattandjennybarber9666 7 місяців тому

      Thank you for the advice. I have to apply this with my children, for their own good, and mine.

  • @KlutterFreeKulps
    @KlutterFreeKulps 8 місяців тому +13

    You are the #1 person in your life, Cas. You are always telling us that we would never go make a mess in someone else’s kitchen and not clean it up cause that would be so rude, so we shouldn’t do that to ourselves. And you are 100% right. And you would never tell one of your children, “oh you probably have skin cancer on your nose? That’s okay, I know you are scared so we will just pretend it’s not there.” You would never do that. Please, go get it taken care of. Because you are worth it and this world needs more people like you who are beautiful inside and out, no matter what. ❤

  • @mauras7579
    @mauras7579 8 місяців тому +28

    Cass.....please tke care of your health. We all love you so much, go take care of your skin!!!! We couldn't care less what you look like.....don't be scared...we've got your back.

  • @HeikeCramer-jh3uo
    @HeikeCramer-jh3uo 8 місяців тому +7

    Hi Cas, from one skincancer patient to another: get the surgery ASAP. I was diagnosed when I was 22. I am celebrating my 61 birthday soon. Find a surgeon who specialices in reconstructive surgery - I was so lucky that even though my scar ist enormous you can hardly see it. The longer you wait the more invasiv the surgery will become. A big hug from Germany , Heike

  • @ashcraft555
    @ashcraft555 8 місяців тому +12

    I feel you so much on others finding you weird and off-putting. I'm in my 40s and have spent my entire life being told I was too everything - too weird, too strange, too curious, too clueless, too messy, too literal, too open, too honest, too raw, too loud, too big, too much. I don't ever remember a time when I felt like I was around someone who was fine with me as I am. In the past few years, I've finally reached a point where I've decided that all those people can go screw themselves. I'd rather be alone than belittle myself to fit their mold. Instead of wasting my time trying to get them to like me, I'm going to focus on liking myself and on letting others in the same position know there's nothing wrong with them just because they've grown up in a world that doesn't appreciate them. We're valuable people and for anyone who can't see that, it's their loss.

  • @OurGreenAcreHomestead
    @OurGreenAcreHomestead 8 місяців тому +34

    As an oncology NP, I expect the update soon that you got it taken care of. Cancer does not respect your denial.

    • @AUSTIN-ss2zd
      @AUSTIN-ss2zd 2 місяці тому +1

      Any advice on dealing in securities? I promised my Freemason neighbor I’d teach him how to write a security but I didn’t. Please teach me. Thanks bro or sis

    • @AUSTIN-ss2zd
      @AUSTIN-ss2zd 2 місяці тому

      33rd like lol

    • @AUSTIN-ss2zd
      @AUSTIN-ss2zd 2 місяці тому +1

      Also, do u watch Andrew Tate? I saw a surgeon get top comment on a Tate video that’s he’s in the top echelons of society

  • @laureendonato5838
    @laureendonato5838 8 місяців тому +31

    At 98, my Dad always said, “Keep life simple, you’ll be happier”.

  • @barbkandel777
    @barbkandel777 8 місяців тому +20

    Cas, you must get rid of it quickly, so that it will do the least amount of damage. You can request that they use a plastic surgeon for the surgery. Please don't wait. Even if you take 6 months off, we'll all be here when you get back! ❤😊

  • @Spmama444
    @Spmama444 8 місяців тому +30

    Praise Report…I started decluttering with you about a year ago and dedicated 20 minutes to do one small spot every morning and any spare time I had and now Prep Day (Friday before sundown) I am not stressed to get all the cleaning done. In fact last week it was so clean all week upstairs that I went skiing (boys had the day off) and got home in time to make dinner with at 15 minute tidy up!!!!
    This has changed my life 20 minutes a day. And 1-2 major clean outs a month like a whole Sunday or something

  • @J316girl
    @J316girl 8 місяців тому +13

    My dad had the same thing on his nose. They did plastic surgery/graft after it was removed! Also, they sell heavy duty makeup that hides scars. Prayers for total healing and restoration. God speed, Cas. Try incorporating live fruits and vegetables in smoothies with lots of fresh or frozen greens, berries/cherries and other fruit you like. It will help reduce inflammation and pain in your body.

  • @CB-yi4hh
    @CB-yi4hh 8 місяців тому +8

    Getting the skin cancer removed is very scary but the body has an amazing capacity to heal and within a few months will just be a fine line. Mohs Surgery is the way to go to ensure they get it all and your doctor will use a skin flap to cover the hole if there is one. I just had this done in January - hole on the end of my nose and not so bad now. You know it is important to get this done and not to wait - follow your own advice regarding anxiety. ❤

  • @lonap3641
    @lonap3641 8 місяців тому +11

    And…. My dad always said don’t do anything you can’t live with because everywhere you go….there you are!

  • @jsmith4181
    @jsmith4181 8 місяців тому +10

    Some wisdom on not comparing yourself to others, "Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today." - Jordan Peterson

  • @creativealchemy5452
    @creativealchemy5452 8 місяців тому +9

    My dear old aunt got a spot under her eye. It kept getting bigger, went into her brain. She got a brain tumor. It killed her. She died recently. I miss her. Wonky nose is better than dead and these days plastic surgery can fix that.
    Have fun ... wear a groucher marx nose while its healing :)
    ...and remember - we love you no matter what you look like!

  • @peggyboss1925
    @peggyboss1925 8 місяців тому +4

    My best friend had a large piece of her nose removed and now, 6 months after reconstructive surgery, one can barely tell! Sure, it took a while to heal, but it’s amazing. As I say, feel the fear and do it anyway! Get after it, we need your voice. ❤

  • @kathleen.rogers1442
    @kathleen.rogers1442 8 місяців тому +19

    Yes please take care of that spot!!! Pat Sloan also had skin cancer on her nose and she continued to make her videos and her channel grew! She is amazing and keeps smiling through everything!! Take care of it Cas please, hugs and prayers for you 😊

  • @Teresa-K
    @Teresa-K 8 місяців тому +33

    “Your mind is a garden. You can grow flowers or you can grow weeds.”

  • @tbryan5437
    @tbryan5437 8 місяців тому +3

    Take responsibility for your own health. My daughter's doctor called in a prescription for her to change her medication. She sent it in for a higher dosage. My daughter told me that it should be a lower dosage based on her lab results. I called the doctor to confirm it was correct. Got a call back that they made an error and called in the right dosage. If my daughter hadn't looked at her labs and take the time to understand what they mean, she would have taken a detrimental dosage. Lesson learned.

  • @WizardOfOrgCyndi
    @WizardOfOrgCyndi 8 місяців тому +20

    Feel the fear and do it anyway!!!! We all love you Cas!

  • @PatriciaCarrier
    @PatriciaCarrier 8 місяців тому +3

    Refuse to pay interest wow! I hope the whole world is listening.
    This is so so so true. Quick story around 15 years ago my daughter asked me: How do you write a cheque?
    How does credit card work? etc I did not believe my own ear but she did not know and I taught her in and out of banking.
    The next day she goes to school and she mentionned it to her close friend, they were all fascinated by it and they asked my daughter if I could teach them. The other day I met one of her friend and she remind me of it. She told me because of me, she did not accept a credit card at college.
    She was thankful that I save her thousand of $$$.
    Thank you for this video. With gratitude 🙌💟

  • @sj6728
    @sj6728 8 місяців тому +9

    My life advice. I retired from my career at 65 and started my own business. I am the happiest I have ever been. For the first time in my life I do not worry about making ends meet. Also I have downsized to a 12 x 11 bedroom. The rest of the home is occupied by my Granddaughter and her Hubby. Soon I will welcome my Great Grandson into my life.

  • @shiwanisingh1575
    @shiwanisingh1575 8 місяців тому +4

    Just reading all the comments warmed my heart. This is such a beautiful community ❤ God bless you all

  • @jessica79m
    @jessica79m 8 місяців тому +6

    25/10. I have BAD attention problems and I came across this gem. Get your phone timer set for 25 minutes! Then! Rest 5, 10 minutes! Set the timer 10 min. Then back to 25 min timer & work. You can do it all day and not get massively distracted spending the whole day doing everything else in the world but getting your house under control. Love it. 25/10.

  • @karenstringfellow4862
    @karenstringfellow4862 8 місяців тому +2

    You never seem weird Cas. I have been watching you from the start. Don’t care!!!! You are cool!! 😎

  • @kathymarvin9565
    @kathymarvin9565 8 місяців тому +10

    Crossing off items on a to-do list is so satisfying!

  • @HappyHarryX5
    @HappyHarryX5 8 місяців тому +7

    I never compare people’s YT channels as everyone has a unique personality and delivery style, processes, wisdom and passion for their subject. I came up with my own design process and ended up writing 3 books at once because I had the passion, and believed I couldn’t write (hated assignments at school). I wanted to be remembered for something in life and writing the main book changed how I look at learning everything and now I thoroughly enjoy learning. The best thing I learn is “I can do that, or I did it!” ❤

  • @bumblebee_ms
    @bumblebee_ms 8 місяців тому +11

    CASS, I'm weird and I am older than you (only by a little), and I'm only now embracing my weird. I put my hand up to be part of your tribe from Australia. I have no friends either, or partner. You always inspire me even if you don't give yourself enough praise.
    Also, please look after your health first (your nose issue). Cheers lovely xx

  • @dianehand1396
    @dianehand1396 8 місяців тому +4

    Mohs for the win! Think of the band-aid styles you'll set! Seriously, you are loved, and you have changed so many lives.❤

  • @lisajoy9588
    @lisajoy9588 8 місяців тому +3

    I have had several skin cancers removed. Scary, absolutely, but the faster you get it out the smaller it is. I have some tiny scars because I jumped on it quickly, I have larger scars for ones I let go too long. Just do it girlfriend! We love you no matter what and we want you healthy.

  • @HappyHarryX5
    @HappyHarryX5 8 місяців тому +5

    Once you get out of an abusive relationship, and start to trust your own judgment, those around you will think you’re crazy and tell you so and what you should do. It will wear you down. Trust your instincts, it’ll give you the confidence you need. You’ll probably still make a mistake now and then but they’re yours to make and don’t think for a moment those giving you their advice has never made one. Just learn from them, be kind to yourself and trust yourself and you’ll shine. ❤

  • @Simply-sixx
    @Simply-sixx 8 місяців тому +7

    Please take care of your skin cancer! My mom is a chemo nurse and your situation is nothing to take lightly. We all love you and you’ll always be beautiful no matter what! And you are so awesome, you could totally rock some bandages like a badass! ❤❤❤

  • @vero1mart
    @vero1mart 8 місяців тому +6

    You are hilarious and I love watching/listening to you . . But PLEASE!!!!! Deal with the skin problem so that you can keep bringing many people joy and great tips for years to come!! God help you and heal you! ❤

  • @stephaniebart-horvath1382
    @stephaniebart-horvath1382 8 місяців тому +12

    BYW: your show is my favorite of its type. I’ve learned so much from you. ❤

  • @intherockies
    @intherockies 8 місяців тому +12

    You are not your mom so go to the doctor and let them treat it. Your life is more important than whatever it looks like after its treated. On a lighter note, I cracked up laughing at your "braid cat hair" comment. BTW you are an inspiration and this was a great video as always.

  • @jillm6396
    @jillm6396 8 місяців тому +3

    I am telling you that you are made this way so you could help all of us. I am 52 and get inspiration from your journey. I am a fan(atic) about you now and I want to just give you a big hug. You make me feel so happy, I enjoy your little snippets at the end of your videos, I laugh so hard I could pee my pants. Please go to the doctor and you will be an inspiration for people with skin cancer and will help all of us be better with our health also. ***Side note-I want you to read your book. The narrator of your audiobook is sooooo boring, I would have to picture you getting excited and smiling and laughing at yourself to make it enjoyable.

  • @Momdoingmomthings
    @Momdoingmomthings 8 місяців тому +4

    Cass, I love you! You have inspired me to do so many things! You are beautiful inside and out, please, please get your cancer taken care of, I want you to be all better!

  • @lonap3641
    @lonap3641 8 місяців тому +5

    Social media and comparisons…a real joy killer! I’m careful about UA-cam. I still watch you cause you’re one of my favorite UA-camrs! I seldom go on Facebook. Always felt the rest of the world was doing better, traveling, having more fun etc. I’m much happier avoiding it except for keeping up with some close family….I enjoy pics of the grands! I feel for the younger people….if we’re affected and know better, think how much harder it is for them. Enjoyed the life lessons so much!

  • @ginaworthy6240
    @ginaworthy6240 8 місяців тому +6

    Hi Cas. Been watching you for years. You rock!!

  • @ChelWagz
    @ChelWagz 8 місяців тому +1

    Your realness and vulnerability and sense of humor is worth 10,000 extra curated, saccharine aspirational feeds. I don't do FB, only watch gardening reels on insta, and watch about 3 UA-camrs (You, Dawn, and Caroline Winkler- whom you would LOVE). This is what I've whittled it down to as a mental-health first approach to social media. Ok, my best advice lately is to read a book on ACT, acceptance and commitment therapy, if you've had any struggles with anxiety or panic. The Happiness Trap and DARE changed my life. Keep trucking, mama. We adore you!

  • @robinyoung7960
    @robinyoung7960 8 місяців тому +2

    One more thing...can I just tell you that I found your UA-cam videos on my Roku about 2 yrs ago. Ever since, Ive been spending every spare minute watching your videos...going back to when Milo was a baby. I have made so many positive changes in my entire life thanks to you. I even have bariatric surgery scheduled for next Tuesday 4/16/24, watching your bravery to attack your weight issues head on. Please rememer how brave you are!

  • @Bestamourof8
    @Bestamourof8 8 місяців тому +9

    The sooner you take care of it the less they have to do. Please take care of it as soon as you can.

  • @Liamsmom06
    @Liamsmom06 8 місяців тому +3

    Cas! We love you and want you around a long time! Please take care of your health! ❤🙏

  • @susansweat9125
    @susansweat9125 8 місяців тому +25

    "This too shall pass" this saying applies to bad times but also good times.

  • @Liren26
    @Liren26 8 місяців тому +3

    I know this post might get buried, and I'm so bummed I missed the livestream, but holy crap, both your financial advice and overall life lessons really hit home. And then going into the 'embrace the weird' just made me feel so much better for being weird. My entire family isn't like me in that sense, but my husband supports my weird. You brought good tears to my eyes today. Thank you for seriously doing this! Can't wait for your next videos

  • @emfblockinghatsbyalana
    @emfblockinghatsbyalana 8 місяців тому +4

    I have ADHD too and I create too many comparisons with other people, and I always end up feeling bad about myself. Thank you for bringing awareness to it!

    • @sj6728
      @sj6728 8 місяців тому

      I do the same thing. I am 68 and still have issues with that.

  • @chrisholzhauer3698
    @chrisholzhauer3698 8 місяців тому +1

    I just appreciate someone sharing this stuff, these are all lessons I've unfortunately learned the hard way, too. I totally hear what you're saying about embracing your weird and doing what works for you. I get struggling with the sunscreen- I've got sensory issues and the texture on my skin drives me crazy. Young neurodivergent mom with auto immune issues here and I'm a long term subscriber here because of you letting your weird and your adhd out! That's why I'm here! I can get the organizing content anywhere on youtube. Please be cool with being you.

  • @Teresa-K
    @Teresa-K 8 місяців тому +13

    Cassy, please have your nose spots looked at by a dermatologist. I had skin cancer on my nose and ear. I had to have MOS surgery where they take a layer and look under a microscope and then take a layer at a time until they find no cancer skin. You can barely tell my scar. The key is getting to it early and of course as you said to wear sunscreen.

  • @evawilson6735
    @evawilson6735 8 місяців тому +12

    Be careful who you share your deepest secrets.......some need to go to the grave unspoken.......while others might find healing thru sharing !

    • @nancycerreta5629
      @nancycerreta5629 8 місяців тому

      So much truth to that. Keeping your gravest secrets can save so many people.

  • @kyliewoodings9165
    @kyliewoodings9165 8 місяців тому

    Just what I needed to hear today. Keep embracing your weird - your weird is wonderful ❤

    • @Clutterbug
      @Clutterbug  8 місяців тому

      Thank you so much for your kindness and support! ❤️

  • @kathyruemler2621
    @kathyruemler2621 8 місяців тому +1

    I love, love to watch your videos/podcasts - when you add that special section at the end, it Always makes me smile!!! I'm a retired Oncology RN - Please, Please get your nose checked!!!! When it's addressed early on, a person fairs way better!! Trust me. And, if you have to have surgery, you could end up with the nose of your dreams!!
    Like you said 'Take Care of Your Body'!! Hugs

  • @kellyepperson8144
    @kellyepperson8144 8 місяців тому +1

    There is nothing weird about you! I find you charming and inspiring! All of your followers are your tribe!

  • @cecilemathes1149
    @cecilemathes1149 8 місяців тому +13

    Normal’s over rated!!! You are a joy to watch!!! ❤

  • @karenborden1620
    @karenborden1620 8 місяців тому +1

    Dear sister, your message is clear and powerful and I need you to embrace your own wisdom FIRST. You open with encouraging people to do things afraid, but you're procrastinating with your nose. Don't put the opinions of people who do not know you before your health/life. You are so valuable and there is nose reconstruction if you want that! I'm praying for you!

  • @pamnicholas5421
    @pamnicholas5421 8 місяців тому +19

    Cas, hi,
    Please, please get that treated on your nose. You are giving info on life lessons that you learned the hard way! Please learn from your life lesson today, which was FACE YOUR FEAR!!!!
    One of your favorite sayings is, JUST DO IT!!!
    PLEASE, DO IT FOR YOUR CHILDREN, FOR YOUR HUBBY, FOR YOURSELF, FOR YOUR PETS, FOR YOUR FOLLOWERS!!
    IF IT GETS TO BIG YOU WILL not be happy anyway, so you might as well take care f it while it is at its BEST!
    INSURANCE WIL PAY FOR COSMETIC SURGERY. MY FATHER-IN-LAW had a pretty large piece taken off of his nostril. They did reconstructive surgery, and I cannot even tell!!
    While you get procedure done, just keep us somewhat updated, and we, as followers, will return when you are back to your podcasts! Please for the love of everyone you care about, GET TO THE DOCTOR! MUCH LOVE AND SUPPORT TO YOU!!

  • @pamelaarrissa
    @pamelaarrissa 8 місяців тому +8

    My fiance has had several skin cancer procedures on his face and you cannot even tell. He had a very deep one and you cannot see it! Get it treated! It grows faster than you think!

  • @auntblingsgratefullife4480
    @auntblingsgratefullife4480 8 місяців тому +2

    Retail Therapy can be such an addiction. When I worked a second job cashiering at Goodwill there were shopping addicts (and resellers too) that would be in the store for hours, some with their (some sad) children. Also, one lady who really did not like her life (personal conversations with her) would escape her house, buy a ton of stuff (2 shopping carts) and then a few days later she would return at least half of the ton of stuff she bought and then go shopping again. I even saw her shopping in other stores. That happened for years. She was hiding things in her van and everywhere in hopes that her husband would not see it all. Then the COVID shutdowns hit, all the employees were let go and I never went back so I don't know if she returned again after the stores reopened. I pray she got the help she needed instead of switching to on-line shopping. I'm glad you were able to identify an issue with retail therapy, but shopping is still fun. 😊😊

  • @elizabethjones2521
    @elizabethjones2521 8 місяців тому +1

    👍👍🏽👍🏾👍🏼💞🙏🙋‍♀️ Thank You for being So open and helpful to Everyone of Us Cas💖🌞💪🏽🙏🏽

  • @annaread3829
    @annaread3829 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for this Cass! So helpful! Please take care of your cancer now!!! The world needs you and your gifts! We love you, please,please,please make a Dr appointment this week and take care of this!❤

  • @janicerice8810
    @janicerice8810 8 місяців тому +1

    Heh Cas, take a look at how many followers you have and then say no one likes you! You are a super star! So inspirational, wise, strong! Your message has come at the exact right time. I am going to an open mic session tomorrow. I have been taking singing lessons and am so inexperienced, but I am gonna do this scary thing and will probably bomb! But I am gonna do it anyways in hope it will make me stronger!

  • @lyndarussell241
    @lyndarussell241 8 місяців тому +3

    My sister-in-law always says that “expectations are pre-mediated resentments “

  • @sandravandewater1998
    @sandravandewater1998 Місяць тому

    I tried your 15 min a day, and yesterday got the top shelf of our fridge cleaned.
    Today I’ll do the next shelf. Yay for 15 min a day. I had been putting it off because I knew it was a big job. Thank you Cas

  • @emotionalstability
    @emotionalstability 8 місяців тому +1

    You are a breath of fresh air. I’ve always loved your personality and humor. No more masking. 😊❤

  • @tamrawilliams7836
    @tamrawilliams7836 6 місяців тому

    My mom had cancer removed on her nose that was also big and the reconstruction was amazing you cannot tell she had it removed. She is in her 80’s and looks good. Please get this taken care of ! We love you so much!🙏

  • @barbarajameson1739
    @barbarajameson1739 8 місяців тому +6

    Yes I agree about how your home affects you!

  • @coleenbrugh7953
    @coleenbrugh7953 8 місяців тому +1

    Cas, I just love everything about you! Your quirkiness and honesty are beautiful! Love all the life advice you shared as well as watching you read others. I wish I could have had access to this shared content when I was younger, but so thankful to have it now. #20: Communication BUILDS relationships (not sure where I read, but stuck with me) I focus my energies on nuturing this with others who respect this. It takes both parties as we are both deserving of each others time. And.....LOVE is the goal. Keep life simple and live in LOVE (people, things, thoughts)❤

  • @shelleyjackson619
    @shelleyjackson619 8 місяців тому

    I love this advice. I am a survivor and have learned that the best way for me to move on from an obstacle is to grab it by the horns and shake for all I’m worth. I kind of go all braveheart like in a solid attempt to tackle problems. I am still scared but I’m a survivor… I survived… and I am stronger even when I’m scared or nervous. I’m not goin to let fear win when I can ride out the waves - from gentle waves to tidal waves. In one motion or step at a time.

  • @melaniecummings1954
    @melaniecummings1954 7 місяців тому

    I love this so much. I've commented re getting your cancer seen to and I hope that I wasn't too harsh; I've since reminded myself that it's not up to me to 'fix the situation '! I really love your weird, and am the same in a lot of ways. Your energy is wonderful and its always a joy to watch your videos x

  • @lawrente
    @lawrente 8 місяців тому +1

    You're right! We love you just as you are. Follow your rule. Do it even if you're scared. Love these tips. 😊

  • @purplemax2493
    @purplemax2493 8 місяців тому +5

    Ever heard the saying 16:51 16:53 "practice what you preach"? Get it tended to.

  • @SuzySylvania
    @SuzySylvania 8 місяців тому

    Cas! You keep doing this channel your way! I watch, listen to, and read EVERYONE on the subject of decluttering, cleaning, and organizing. For 40 years!!!! You are my favorite to watch and listen to! I have a few that are right up there, but there is something about your straightforwardness, warmth and kookiness that just hits the spot!!!❤

  • @lisamcculloh9584
    @lisamcculloh9584 8 місяців тому

    I have a bunch of medical issues, too. I just have to remind myself daily that I’m still independent. My issues aren’t outwardly visible, so, unless someone knows me, they have no idea. I remind myself that there are other people who have worse medical issues than I do. It’s not easy, especially when you’re having a bad day. But honestly, if you give yourself a break from constantly beating yourself up, it gets easier. Listening to your videos I realize how alike we are. And then, as I thought about it, maybe there are a lot of people out there in UA-cam land who are like you and I! That’s what makes your videos so important! When I watch them I realize I’m not alone! I always believed I was just lazier or not as smart as other people. Then, I found your channel! Watching your videos has given me a whole new way to look at my life. You’ve changed the way I perceive myself! I’m 67, almost 68, and it makes me crazy that it has taken so long for me to find you! But I’m so happy I did! You’re so honest and forgiving. You help so many people, yet you are so hard on yourself! You’ve helped so many people! You need to turn the kindness and patience you give others back on yourself! But, you don’t seem to think you’re worthy of your own advice! Don’t you deserve the care you give away? I wish I, and others that follow you, could FaceTime you! Or talk face to face on a Zoom call! Someone needs to support you the way you support us. You have made a difference in so many people’s lives! How can we reciprocate that?

  • @tamiwalker8985
    @tamiwalker8985 7 місяців тому

    I really enjoy listening to you because you are down to earth and real. I think you have a big enough following that you don’t need to worry about how your nose looks.
    Get it taken care of. Thanks for being real. That inspires people more than a person who portrays that everything is perfect.

  • @johnclaybaugh9536
    @johnclaybaugh9536 15 днів тому

    The part about failing is so true. And maybe the best part is that we can learn from our failures and that could lead to great success later. Sometimes success feels better after we have failed once or twice.

  • @lyndarussell241
    @lyndarussell241 8 місяців тому

    YOU ARE AMAZING! You are amazing at your UA-cam videos. You are an amazing woman who is absolutely beautiful on the inside and the outside! You, Cas, are wonderful and you need to realize how extremely much we love you. I admire you immensely. I also have an autoimmune disease and I have for 32 years. Mine WILL kill me, but I am doing my very best job living life that I can. I am almost 56 and I recently became active after a very sedentary lifestyle. I will always use my recumbent stepper every day. I worked hard to get here and refuse to go back. I love all you life lessons. I appreciate your honesty. Love you and have a Blessed day! ❤️

  • @stephaniebart-horvath1382
    @stephaniebart-horvath1382 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanks!

    • @Clutterbug
      @Clutterbug  8 місяців тому +1

      Wow! Thank you so much!

    • @stephaniebart-horvath1382
      @stephaniebart-horvath1382 8 місяців тому

      There were so many things you said in this podcast that I can relate to.
      I even did the credit card thing right out of college-what a mess of debt I got myself in to, and that wasn’t the only time!
      Here’s one of my favorite sayings:
      Yesterday is history
      Tomorrow is a mystery
      Today is a gift for you to unwrap

  • @andreahall6709
    @andreahall6709 8 місяців тому +2

    You are helping me so your health is so important in order for you to keep helping people. There are so many advancements in plastic surgery that can help you in your recovery process to still help you feel like yourself.

  • @survivor2530
    @survivor2530 8 місяців тому

    I feel your pain but you're not a weirdo you are unique. If everyone was the same life would be so boring & you should be proud of yourself.Despite your difficulties you have achieved so much. Glad you're starting to to embrace your uniqueness.Love you & your channel

  • @sandy96150
    @sandy96150 8 місяців тому +1

    #1. Kindness ALWAYS matters. Be kind! 2. Look for the good always/ live in gratitude.

  • @HappyHarryX5
    @HappyHarryX5 8 місяців тому +4

    Never marry or keep a narcissist in your life. You deserve someone who loves, cares for and respects you. Keep your boundaries in tact and seek help. ❤

  • @CristinaIsKingKali
    @CristinaIsKingKali 8 місяців тому

    Appreciate you!! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences.
    🙏💜🌸

  • @leighhyatt1225
    @leighhyatt1225 8 місяців тому +6

    Please please deal with the skin cancer!!! We love you and it’s just going to get worse!

  • @Pthalogreen
    @Pthalogreen 8 місяців тому +2

    Cas your dermatologist can send you to a plastic surgeon for treatment/removal because they can give better cosmetic outcome. Not all plastic surgery or surgeons work for cosmetic purposes only. They help skin cancer patients by removing cancer and repair. This is what we do at our derm office when we deal with skin cancers on face. The face heals very nice due to the blood supply.
    Post procedure: aquaphor and massaging the area once its healed 10 min daily helps as well.
    You have been through so much and you already know you can get through this too.

  • @lindahill1199
    @lindahill1199 8 місяців тому +1

    I have to jump on the bandwagon too Cas! Get in to the doctor and take care of your nose so you can live a longer life. Do it for your kids!

  • @stevejodifaber5509
    @stevejodifaber5509 8 місяців тому

    Cass, you are amazing and you have your own set of talents to share with the world. None of us are exactly the same and THANK GOD! We can all help each other with the things we are good at. We all have talents and shortcomings. It’s what makes us human. Keep inspiring us!

  • @debbiepeters1647
    @debbiepeters1647 8 місяців тому +2

    1. Good health is everything 2. Relationships are the most important thing in the world, next to good health. 3. Think of communication as an art form and keep practicing. 4. Having peace is also everything. 5. Choose your battles. 6.Don't give up, you never know what's around the corner. And 2 little tidbits... Keep a small pair of scissors in each room. You'll be glad you did. 2 oz. containers are a must to keep at home. They can be used for sooo many things.

  • @MaryGunderson-ir1ml
    @MaryGunderson-ir1ml 8 місяців тому +1

    I totally get you I'm going through the same thing especially with my nose and now my chin. But I can't stop watching you because you inspire me everyday to do better and to make myself feel better by doing what I need to do. 😘

  • @Simone-rq5pc
    @Simone-rq5pc 7 місяців тому

    Help is the sunny side of
    control. Respect others enough to allow them their own failures

  • @donnawagner8865
    @donnawagner8865 8 місяців тому +1

    My husband had a cancer removed from his ear andthe recommended treatment after was vasiline and bandage until it was totally healed. He has NO scar . Diligence of daily applications works!!!

  • @shabbysalman602
    @shabbysalman602 8 місяців тому

    You are so amazing . I am your follower since Melrose 9 to clutter bug. learned so much from you. Thank you for all you do.

    • @Clutterbug
      @Clutterbug  8 місяців тому +1

      You're so welcome! Thank for following along with my journey!