My ex-wife threatened to file for sole custody of our son after I caught her cheating on me... I told her that I'd see her in hell before I let her get away with it... she knew I was serious and now fast forward 10 years, our son prefers being me with me anyway... patience is a virtue and remember to play the long game, my brothers...
My mum kept me away from my dad cause she hated him I haven't seen my dad since I was 2 I can't remember what he looks like or sounds and I hate my mother for that now my dad's dead I'll never get to meet him
I am sorry to hear that, my son is kept away from me too, so I have multiple social media profiles so I am easy to find, but his mother has been social media stalking me and trying to get family court to shut down all my social media profiles, but she failed, but I keep a distance due to threats of false allegations from his mother, and cannot risk my career as I know what she is like. But when he gets old enough I hope he reaches out to me or find the various trails of information I have left for him to find me or his other relatives that all love him, and realize his mother was lying.
I feel your pain, my son is still kept from me, and I have no criminal history, and never been a risk, and come from a good family, and have a good stable job. The courts do nothing in Australia. Who ever alienates the child the longest in Australia wins.
The system is at fault for siding with one parent. 1 daughter is a junkie just like her mother and now her grandmother is an alderman . They raised her and enabled it all.
Sadly that sounds good, but my experience is the judge will act sternly when he tells the woman to obey the order, but then turns his back and does nothing to enforce it.
Both genders do it but statistically it's more likely to be the woman that does it, and make false allegations to make it happen and usually for greed and revenge. But the feminist movements and left wing woke groups don't care about male victims or children being isolated from their dads.
The exceptions do not condone the rule and majority that women play this alienation game against men. Men are the major victims, not women. The only sexism, if any, is against the men. It is sickening that women perpetrate these sick games against men and pretend to be the victims by default, not just with parental alienation but with other false claims of sexual abuse, misogyny, child molestation, etc. against men.
Child abuse is a different issue all together this is more about when the parent alienating the child does it out of spite and revenge and for money and uses the child as a pawn then it is child abuse
What the hell lady this has nothing to do with what was brought up in this video this is about custody and parental alienation from single moms to fathers, this is not an open discussion about your nephew's meth problem sorry about hearing about it but no one cares
This has nothing to do with the question at hand. If you made the decision to have a child with a meth-head, then you are at LEAST half the problem, and you definitely do not get the moral high ground in the discussion of who will guide a child toward making good decisions.
@kristingallo2158 What's that got to do with anything? The clear implication being that the nephew in question is the exception to the rule that fathers have rights. He is not, and certainly not on the strength of a conviction in the court of public opinion, sat in judgement by those with a clear bias against him. I truly hope that if ever you find yourself in a situation of questionable legal standing, that your jury is comprised of people like me and the channel creator, and not by folks like yourself and the OP.
Please don't mix good fathers with drug addicts and abusers. It is reckless to equate good non custodial fathers with drug addicts and abusers. You would not categorize all single mothers as tramps. You are actually supporting this stereotyping of fathers by making this comment. There is a real problem in the court system of alienating good fathers from their children based on the mothers petty vengeance. Yes, the courts need to recognize the rights of children to have the benefit of both parents. However, if the father or mother is drug addicted or has a history of abuse, the child should not be subjected to that behavior. The child also has the right to two stable, loving, caring parents. If one or both biological parents can not provide the environment, the child needs to be protected from abuse. It should always be about the well-being of the child first.
Good points, alot of the time the child is taken from the father in family court with no actual evidence and by vengeful women trying maximize their money or isolate the child from the father out of spite where parental alienation is occurring.
I am currently going through a custody with my ex who is using parental alienation against me and my child. I have not seen my daughter for 175 days consistently and I have a lawyer that I have to use to contact my ex because apparently I am too toxic to talk to. My lawyer and I both agree that what I am doing is telling my ex the truth and not being toxic. Just to give you a heads up I worked at least 60 to 70 hours a week while my ex stayed home did not clean did not take care of my daughter did not cook and sure as hell didn't do anything. In the day that we had separated and she began losing the argument she called the cops on me saying that I was being unreasonably insane in physically violent. Obviously this was not true because I am not in jail or prison right now. Also I've been fighting to be able to have time with my daughter but my ex keeps pushing that I need to be supervised in order for my child's safety which is complete bulshit because I was the one taking care of our child when I was not at work. Also my ex likes to say things to me and my lawyer through email like she wants me to be involved with my daughter but at the same time she has nervous about me being involved with her life.
Sounds like a similar story all over Australia, where first the relationship will be good or the woman is the abuser, then moment the father tries to escape and end the relationship or the woman decides to end it, the woman makes false allegations of domestic violence to kick him out of the house and isolate him from his children, drags him through court with the police with false allegations, and with the delays in the court system in New South Wales Australia that could be a year or two hearing a violence order against him. Meanwhile he is isolated from the child / children. If he gets passed this, the next thing will be fake child protection reports to try another strategy for isolating him from the children, and meanwhile will be claiming child support and getting extra support from feminist services to destroy the father of the child. Then it will end up in family court, with the father paying child support and now potentially being homeless if he has no family support, his mental health declines rapidly, he potentially looses his job, and then can't afford to fight in the family court where his x wife is getting supported by feminist services. The guys either harm themselves, or worse, or give up, and then after that are labelled as a bad dad. Then child grows up believing the toxic lies told to him. Australia is pretty much the capital for false allegations for there being no punishment for making false allegations or consequences in the family court, and worse parental alienation is legalized and new domestic violence laws means he can pretty much just try to put healthy boundaries in place and be charged under coercive control laws.
I'm sorry you are going through that. Your ex sounds like quite the piece of work. Stay strong and don't give up. I really hope things get better for you.
Kids need their dads.
totally agree
There is never a reason to weaponize a child.
Totally agree
My ex-wife threatened to file for sole custody of our son after I caught her cheating on me... I told her that I'd see her in hell before I let her get away with it... she knew I was serious and now fast forward 10 years, our son prefers being me with me anyway... patience is a virtue and remember to play the long game, my brothers...
I can attest to that I've not seen my daughter for 30 years when she was six. She's a huge problem now with no guidance or direction
Yes children raised by single parents especially single mums often have alot of problems when they have been alienated from the other parent.
My son in law is the best dad! He is more if a mother to the kids then the mom!
I hope he is seeing his child.
Well said !
yes :-)
My children’s father married my son’s teacher & THEY ALIENATED ME!!! Welcome to California.
My kids are grown now & the damage has been done 😢
I dont agree with parental alienation unless there is clear risks to the child.
And all of it because we won't let them cheat in peace
That's part of it, they don't like healthy boundaries
My mum kept me away from my dad cause she hated him I haven't seen my dad since I was 2 I can't remember what he looks like or sounds and I hate my mother for that now my dad's dead I'll never get to meet him
I am sorry to hear that, my son is kept away from me too, so I have multiple social media profiles so I am easy to find, but his mother has been social media stalking me and trying to get family court to shut down all my social media profiles, but she failed, but I keep a distance due to threats of false allegations from his mother, and cannot risk my career as I know what she is like. But when he gets old enough I hope he reaches out to me or find the various trails of information I have left for him to find me or his other relatives that all love him, and realize his mother was lying.
My daughter was kept from me for almost 8 years!
I feel your pain, my son is still kept from me, and I have no criminal history, and never been a risk, and come from a good family, and have a good stable job. The courts do nothing in Australia. Who ever alienates the child the longest in Australia wins.
The system is at fault for siding with one parent. 1 daughter is a junkie just like her mother and now her grandmother is an alderman . They raised her and enabled it all.
You got a junky pregnant though.
Sadly that sounds good, but my experience is the judge will act sternly when he tells the woman to obey the order, but then turns his back and does nothing to enforce it.
Yes I have seen that alot in Australia, they get given way to many chances
That's pretty sexist. My sisters husband alienated her during her divorce
Both genders do it but statistically it's more likely to be the woman that does it, and make false allegations to make it happen and usually for greed and revenge. But the feminist movements and left wing woke groups don't care about male victims or children being isolated from their dads.
The exceptions do not condone the rule and majority that women play this alienation game against men. Men are the major victims, not women. The only sexism, if any, is against the men. It is sickening that women perpetrate these sick games against men and pretend to be the victims by default, not just with parental alienation but with other false claims of sexual abuse, misogyny, child molestation, etc. against men.
I agree parental alienation and false allegations are made by abusive and sick parents and often narcissistic parents
Not if their a meth head like my nephew and he is all ways high , the guy sold their pc school computers during covid
Child abuse is a different issue all together this is more about when the parent alienating the child does it out of spite and revenge and for money and uses the child as a pawn then it is child abuse
What the hell lady this has nothing to do with what was brought up in this video this is about custody and parental alienation from single moms to fathers, this is not an open discussion about your nephew's meth problem sorry about hearing about it but no one cares
This has nothing to do with the question at hand. If you made the decision to have a child with a meth-head, then you are at LEAST half the problem, and you definitely do not get the moral high ground in the discussion of who will guide a child toward making good decisions.
@@johnhildenbrand2642she literally said her nephew.
@kristingallo2158 What's that got to do with anything? The clear implication being that the nephew in question is the exception to the rule that fathers have rights. He is not, and certainly not on the strength of a conviction in the court of public opinion, sat in judgement by those with a clear bias against him. I truly hope that if ever you find yourself in a situation of questionable legal standing, that your jury is comprised of people like me and the channel creator, and not by folks like yourself and the OP.
Please don't mix good fathers with drug addicts and abusers. It is reckless to equate good non custodial fathers with drug addicts and abusers. You would not categorize all single mothers as tramps. You are actually supporting this stereotyping of fathers by making this comment. There is a real problem in the court system of alienating good fathers from their children based on the mothers petty vengeance. Yes, the courts need to recognize the rights of children to have the benefit of both parents. However, if the father or mother is drug addicted or has a history of abuse, the child should not be subjected to that behavior. The child also has the right to two stable, loving, caring parents. If one or both biological parents can not provide the environment, the child needs to be protected from abuse. It should always be about the well-being of the child first.
Good points, alot of the time the child is taken from the father in family court with no actual evidence and by vengeful women trying maximize their money or isolate the child from the father out of spite where parental alienation is occurring.
I am currently going through a custody with my ex who is using parental alienation against me and my child. I have not seen my daughter for 175 days consistently and I have a lawyer that I have to use to contact my ex because apparently I am too toxic to talk to. My lawyer and I both agree that what I am doing is telling my ex the truth and not being toxic. Just to give you a heads up I worked at least 60 to 70 hours a week while my ex stayed home did not clean did not take care of my daughter did not cook and sure as hell didn't do anything. In the day that we had separated and she began losing the argument she called the cops on me saying that I was being unreasonably insane in physically violent. Obviously this was not true because I am not in jail or prison right now. Also I've been fighting to be able to have time with my daughter but my ex keeps pushing that I need to be supervised in order for my child's safety which is complete bulshit because I was the one taking care of our child when I was not at work. Also my ex likes to say things to me and my lawyer through email like she wants me to be involved with my daughter but at the same time she has nervous about me being involved with her life.
I am sorry ur going through all that man.
Sounds like a similar story all over Australia, where first the relationship will be good or the woman is the abuser, then moment the father tries to escape and end the relationship or the woman decides to end it, the woman makes false allegations of domestic violence to kick him out of the house and isolate him from his children, drags him through court with the police with false allegations, and with the delays in the court system in New South Wales Australia that could be a year or two hearing a violence order against him. Meanwhile he is isolated from the child / children. If he gets passed this, the next thing will be fake child protection reports to try another strategy for isolating him from the children, and meanwhile will be claiming child support and getting extra support from feminist services to destroy the father of the child. Then it will end up in family court, with the father paying child support and now potentially being homeless if he has no family support, his mental health declines rapidly, he potentially looses his job, and then can't afford to fight in the family court where his x wife is getting supported by feminist services. The guys either harm themselves, or worse, or give up, and then after that are labelled as a bad dad. Then child grows up believing the toxic lies told to him. Australia is pretty much the capital for false allegations for there being no punishment for making false allegations or consequences in the family court, and worse parental alienation is legalized and new domestic violence laws means he can pretty much just try to put healthy boundaries in place and be charged under coercive control laws.
I'm sorry you are going through that. Your ex sounds like quite the piece of work. Stay strong and don't give up. I really hope things get better for you.
Thankyou