CUSTODY NIGHTMARE Family Court KAREN HATES YOU More Than She Loves The Kids

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
  • This is every father’s worst nightmare. An EX who hates you more than she loves your kids. She will do whatever it takes to destroy you…
    Thank you to my discord friends who were willing to help me out by giving it a critical watch before publishing:
    These are real-life court cases that are carefully selected to educate the public about every day occurrences in local municipal, district, and circuit courtrooms across the country.
    All suspects are presumed innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. All crimes are alleged until a court or regulatory agency finds otherwise. These are not high-profile cases and the defendants are not public figures, please enjoy responsibly.
    This channel does not provide legal advice. All commentary is speculative and all opinions are my own.
    This video may contain certain copyrighted works that were not specifically authorized to be used by the copyrighted holder(s), but I believe in good faith are protected by federal law and the fair use doctrine under section 107 of the US copyright law.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 4,6 тис.

  • @peopleincourt
    @peopleincourt  9 місяців тому +186

    If you think Judge mad at her, watch him lose it on this guy…ua-cam.com/video/RLo8papHjv4/v-deo.htmlsi=f9Y1_EsVt7kGVraS

    • @artisanshrew
      @artisanshrew 9 місяців тому +25

      *Wonder if there are more court vids on the nightmare ex...?*

    • @peopleincourt
      @peopleincourt  9 місяців тому +11

      @@artisanshrew I honestly don’t know if there are any. This judge is super hard to catch. If they were out there, someone would have seen it and said something in the comments. I read 95% of the comments and I’ve seen nothing.

    • @jericho1-4
      @jericho1-4 9 місяців тому

      @@peopleincourt You had me in limbo there for a hot minute, when she said our family wizard my first thought was ok she cuckoo for cocoa puffs, and then as this played out I'm watching and waiting for the orderlies and psychiatrist to just pop on her screen with "Ok judge we just sedated and put her in a straight jacket so she can't harm any one and will put her threw a full spectrum psych eval", cause this lady is bat shit crazy. Then you put on the screen what the OFW app was, never heard of anything like that so when polly said OFW I took the loony at her word lol. YOU CHECKY BASTARD LMFAO, you got me real good with this one.

    • @Magius0119
      @Magius0119 9 місяців тому +4

      If we know their location and the names we can do a freedom of information request and see what they have.

    • @LFNikita
      @LFNikita 9 місяців тому +9

      @peopleincourt I asked a lawyer to look for prior vids on this couple, do you want me to link them to you?

  • @veteranredbeard6222
    @veteranredbeard6222 4 місяці тому +976

    The way the father just sits there and allows his attorney to take care of things is awesome. Not shaking his head, not vindictive. Just mature.

    • @aftersexhighfives
      @aftersexhighfives 4 місяці тому

      Wii music is definitely going off in his head.

    • @mlj9931
      @mlj9931 4 місяці тому +26

      An inspiration to us all.

    • @clash8386
      @clash8386 4 місяці тому +19

      Best to say nothing

    • @roosersan
      @roosersan 4 місяці тому +34

      No doubt you can see who the true adult in the situation is and why he has custody because he's not some raging lunatic trying to use his kids as a weapon like she is. She's powerless to the situation so that's her way of trying to be vindictive and separate the child from their father

    • @IrradiatedFeline
      @IrradiatedFeline 4 місяці тому +14

      I think you can see how tense and stressed he is.
      The guy must have nerves of steel.

  • @cbynk
    @cbynk 5 місяців тому +1134

    She's a "teacher" and doesn't have custody of her children... Disturbing.

    • @biguncle554
      @biguncle554 4 місяці тому +15

      That’s crazy!

    • @gregludwig3332
      @gregludwig3332 4 місяці тому +86

      Goes to show you why our education system is in such a mess.

    • @lohengrin4009
      @lohengrin4009 4 місяці тому +48

      She appears to be attending court from the school, or at least it looks that way.

    • @lynnemorgan4926
      @lynnemorgan4926 4 місяці тому

      Being a teacher doesn't make you a good parent. Most teachers are crap anyway

    • @jc4388
      @jc4388 4 місяці тому +45

      She has custody of other's children 8 hours per day.

  • @jennifercrawford-jazzbaby1991
    @jennifercrawford-jazzbaby1991 2 місяці тому +176

    She needs a psych evaluation ASAP. This woman is off balance… truly concerning.

    • @hoffpbass
      @hoffpbass Місяць тому +8

      Clinical Depression is a poor name. Generalized Psychosis is more apt.

    • @texasproud8822
      @texasproud8822 Місяць тому +6

      @@hoffpbassThere needs to be a new diagnosis called mom thinks she should be in control because I am the woman disorder because it sure seems to be happening a lot.

    • @kazrutch463
      @kazrutch463 28 днів тому

      @@hoffpbasswho said that

  • @DramakilzU
    @DramakilzU 2 місяці тому +104

    I love how the dad is looking blankly most of the time, like “you see the shit I have to put up with?” 🙄

    • @Penguins875
      @Penguins875 2 місяці тому +9

      “See why I got a divorce?” Lol

    • @MariaMaynard-yg8gy
      @MariaMaynard-yg8gy Місяць тому +1

      That why he has a lawyer. He won’t look like a fool

    • @flowerpower3618
      @flowerpower3618 Місяць тому

      @@MariaMaynard-yg8gyinstead he looks mean, disinterested, bored and out of shape.

    • @AmberSloatpoto
      @AmberSloatpoto 6 днів тому

      ​@@flowerpower3618 not really. He hired a lawyer to represent himself he doesn't need to speak and if h showed any anger etc the ex wife would surely point that out. He's being smart.

  • @tannerwilson1277
    @tannerwilson1277 5 місяців тому +772

    The judge sounds like a grandfather who is tired of dealing with his entitled granddaughter and is laying down the law.

  • @SmittenKitten.
    @SmittenKitten. 9 місяців тому +860

    This woman is psycho. To have a weird conspiratorial relationship with your teenage son just creeps me out.

    • @mpettway6982
      @mpettway6982 9 місяців тому

      This woman's actions will affect his relationships with the opposite sex. She's disgusting and deranged.

    • @Abreu.Ashley
      @Abreu.Ashley 9 місяців тому +94

      OMG YES! The term for that is 'emotional incest', and it's absolutely insane. Your son is not your partner, he's your son! Putting children in situations like this is literally psychological abuse. Hopefully their son comes through this unscathed.

    • @bcatblues725
      @bcatblues725 9 місяців тому

      She is a psycho. Very sketchy.

    • @JudgeHill
      @JudgeHill 9 місяців тому +46

      I guarantee 100% that he will turn on her in adulthood once he realises what's gone on.

    • @Fyestyfem-dr3qh
      @Fyestyfem-dr3qh 9 місяців тому +27

      Yes, agreed 100% on the concept of emotional incest and its impact on parent/child relationships. Often results in anxiety and troubles in future romantic relationships. This woman is losing long-term in order to serve her need for absolute control in the present.

  • @RandomizedLife822
    @RandomizedLife822 9 місяців тому +748

    Judge should have ordered attorneys fees. These were frivolous motions.

    • @nicolebrown1927
      @nicolebrown1927 9 місяців тому +21

      Hopefully, he will next time if she come back for some more shenanigans.

    • @ann316
      @ann316 9 місяців тому +20

      Yes, he should have!

    • @celesteredding1550
      @celesteredding1550 9 місяців тому +11

      And Mrs. Silvia pay the fees

    • @RLucas3000
      @RLucas3000 9 місяців тому +4

      You have to request that for him to rule

    • @paranormaloutdoorsman
      @paranormaloutdoorsman 9 місяців тому +8

      @@RLucas3000 they did

  • @Theunspoiledprincess
    @Theunspoiledprincess 3 місяці тому +107

    Ex wife: 🥺😩😡😭🤥🤧🥴😔😩
    Ex husband: 🗿🗿🗿

  • @asyablake
    @asyablake 9 місяців тому +692

    I just have to say that it’s really nice to see a dad protected by the court. This judge is wonderful. So is his attorney. Shout out to the other Judge that denied the PPO.

    • @beekeeper8474
      @beekeeper8474 5 місяців тому +15

      Yeah sadly the court normal believes the females.

    • @JordanEmede_376
      @JordanEmede_376 5 місяців тому +29

      Samantha represented me in my divorce and she was absolutely fantastic. My ex wife didn't even respond and Samantha gave me partial payment back, she could have kept every bit but she is just rock solid.

    • @kennedy98796
      @kennedy98796 5 місяців тому +15

      only because he had money for a attorney. cost me 10k to get custody of my son while she got the state for free, then after wining zero money for dad child support never brought up. year later she gave up her right's. if you dont have a attorney your screwed.

    • @joshuahayes5005
      @joshuahayes5005 5 місяців тому +12

      All the props go to the Lady Attorney. The judge was fully prepared half-ass his way through this; and the attorney was like "No judge, you're going to take this seriously, and you're going do your job."

    • @asyablake
      @asyablake 5 місяців тому +28

      @@beekeeper8474 I think anyone who lies to get a ppo should be criminally charged. It’s ridiculous

  • @Mz.Crystal
    @Mz.Crystal 9 місяців тому +1007

    My sons father and I split up after 10 years together. Now 7 years later and he recently passed away. I would give anything in the world to have him back here to watch our child grow up. There is no greater show of love than to work together and model maturity and mutual respect. This Mother makes me sick!! It’s all about control. She is the problem

    • @tiffanyjones8163
      @tiffanyjones8163 9 місяців тому +80

      I'm sorry for your loss. My daughters father was murdered when she was 13 months old. She is now 20. Even after all these years id give anything for her to have one memory of him and how much he loved her.

    • @peopleincourt
      @peopleincourt  9 місяців тому +71

      I know, she can’t see past herself or get out of her own head. She’s hurting the kids.

    • @felicialindley8906
      @felicialindley8906 9 місяців тому +35

      Ikr! My husband/children father was together 15 yrs when he passed away in 2011. Now our kids are grown and we have grandchildren. It makes me frustrated and sick to my stomach watching this!

    • @roxanne2881
      @roxanne2881 9 місяців тому +33

      My ex and had 5 children together. When we divorced, we were still best friends and raised our children together. I understand most can’t, but it’s not unheard of and our children grew up just fine. We still have all of our holidays together, including new spouses. A big happy family. We do have our moments, but nothing we can’t solve.

    • @GetCraftyLemons
      @GetCraftyLemons 9 місяців тому

      ​@@roxanne2881So glad to see others doing this. I was married 20 years but were friends for 36. My son even said one time, 'Mom, I'm glad you & dad are friends. It makes it so much nicer for us and appreciate this.' I just don't think people should act like idiots! My children & grandchildren were more important to me & should be to every parent! We have had holidays together with him remarried, stayed at each other's house, I've taken grands to see him, & friends with his wife. It has been the very best. December 19th will be 4 years since he died of cancer. I miss his friendship immensely. Six months later lost my baby sister to cancer. A year later, I lost a dear friend sister to cancer. Life is short...no time for BS. So glad the judge saw through her shenigans!! ❤

  • @JH-th9th
    @JH-th9th 9 місяців тому +2288

    you know a grown woman who wears a childish bow in her hair just aint right...and she is about to prove it !!!

    • @Uncle_B83
      @Uncle_B83 9 місяців тому +101

      She’s on her way to her first communion

    • @willwozniak2826
      @willwozniak2826 9 місяців тому +40

      Right?.....😂😂😂😂😂👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻

    • @peopleincourt
      @peopleincourt  9 місяців тому +69

      lol spoiler alert 🤣

    • @felicialindley8906
      @felicialindley8906 9 місяців тому +74

      I just can't take her serious for that reason 😂😂

    • @justanothersmith6012
      @justanothersmith6012 9 місяців тому +33

      It’s distracting 😅😂

  • @ladylotusinc
    @ladylotusinc 3 місяці тому +494

    A teacher without custody of her own children yet has everyone elses children 7-8hours a day? Add this case along with that bow and I'm convinced that she shouldn't be around other peoples children....

    • @donkeypunchbandit
      @donkeypunchbandit 3 місяці тому +23

      You'll notice a similar behavior pattern among a majority of new(ish) teachers in the public education system

    • @FionaChandoll
      @FionaChandoll 3 місяці тому +2

      I see nothing wrong with that. Lol I have friends who take care of kids all day long but say that if they don't want their own. That they don't have the patience or wherewithal to be a parent.
      As long as they can give kids back... 🤣
      They want to be childfree.

    • @likeagdphoenix
      @likeagdphoenix 3 місяці тому +39

      ​@@FionaChandollChoosing to be child free and not having custody of your kids are two totally different things.

    • @curiouslytot1950
      @curiouslytot1950 2 місяці тому +8

      @@likeagdphoenixAnd teaching and having kids are two different things. Teachers are not there to parent the kids. That are there to teach and enforce school rules

    • @Tre807
      @Tre807 2 місяці тому

      💯

  • @bobverick
    @bobverick 9 місяців тому +410

    I bet he was thinking over every red flag he ignored when he first started dating her while he was sitting there.

    • @Mariefrancegrsce
      @Mariefrancegrsce 4 місяці тому +8

      😅

    • @superdave8248
      @superdave8248 4 місяці тому +18

      You know he had those thoughts going through his head almost every day since he said “I do”.

    • @marciabueno5093
      @marciabueno5093 4 місяці тому +4

      Yep yep yep

    • @Brian-zo1ll
      @Brian-zo1ll 4 місяці тому +12

      I was thinking the same. However, my man stayed as calm as a glass of water.

    • @angelasheets1500
      @angelasheets1500 4 місяці тому +10

      Right his face says it all. WTF was I thinking..

  • @barbfreeman7813
    @barbfreeman7813 3 місяці тому +29

    Someone needs to
    1. Pray for Matt
    2. Start a ‘Go Fund Me’ for Matt to pay his legal fees

  • @momsterzz
    @momsterzz 9 місяців тому +161

    It’s outrageous the judge didn’t order her to pay attorney fees. Ridiculous. I wonder if she’s paying child support in any reasonable amount.

    • @jalcobo
      @jalcobo 9 місяців тому

      lol it’s very very rare that a woman is ordered to pay child support to a man.
      And even rarer for her to ever actually pay.
      This mum will continue to do crazy bs and there will never be any consequences.
      But if dad slips up even once just a little bit he will face serious consequences.
      That is family court in the USA. “In the best interest of the strong single mother who can do no wrong. The living goddesses of victimhood”.

    • @ann316
      @ann316 9 місяців тому +7

      Exactly! He is trying to support kids, but legal fees are expensive. I bet no less than $5 - $10,000 for just this hearing with prep.

    • @jessschwarze8126
      @jessschwarze8126 9 місяців тому +1

      ⁠​⁠@@ann316I don’t think it’s that much for 1 hearing especially with no prep needed on her behalf cause there is no real issue. He’s proably spent much more than that over the years but it might be 500 to 1000. Not 10000

    • @Nogahla
      @Nogahla 9 місяців тому +3

      Right, these judges need to start making them pay attorney fees. Especially when they have full/sole custody and the other person is filing for ridiculous things. That money could've gone toward the children instead of her ridiculous accusations.

    • @SneakerLovers
      @SneakerLovers 9 місяців тому +1

      It’s rare that women pay the same amount of child support, I had custody of my three kids and I had to wait two years and fight just to get child support

  • @magi267
    @magi267 9 місяців тому +65

    He's taking pictures of her to create a dating app so someone else will take her off his hands...lol😂

    • @CharleneWagner-u7s
      @CharleneWagner-u7s 5 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @TK-ib7rm
      @TK-ib7rm 5 місяців тому +3

      Plot twist!!😂

    • @stephaniec0625
      @stephaniec0625 4 місяці тому +3

      It's not gonna work with that bow 😅

    • @TsunamiWebster
      @TsunamiWebster 4 місяці тому

      No guy won't want her that she wants. She should just get her cats and wine boxes now.

    • @charlesbyrneShowComments4all
      @charlesbyrneShowComments4all 3 місяці тому

      @@stephaniec0625 you can Photoshop out the bow, but it's gonna take one monumental filter to get rid of the crazy.

  • @WoodlandT
    @WoodlandT 9 місяців тому +235

    This judge is great. He’s a bit grumpy. But he doesn’t take any BS. Sometimes that’s exactly what’s needed

    • @buggiebuild1
      @buggiebuild1 9 місяців тому +14

      Agree,he’s the “just right” Judge for her shenanigans,💯,goodness she’s ruining the kids 😡….✌🏻

    • @robtaylor6806
      @robtaylor6806 9 місяців тому +8

      That’s how judges should be.

    • @pippiecarr9378
      @pippiecarr9378 9 місяців тому +7

      I'm grumpy right alongside him.

    • @call.me.archie
      @call.me.archie 9 місяців тому

      I think he's seen her several times over the years & is done with her ass.

    • @BlackStump172
      @BlackStump172 9 місяців тому +5

      I think that he has been slack . I would be livid if I was the father . The judge is letting her get away again .

  • @melanieandujar9649
    @melanieandujar9649 9 місяців тому +119

    This judge is quickly becoming my favorite ❤️

    • @peopleincourt
      @peopleincourt  9 місяців тому +2

      Aww, thanks Mel. I hope you’re well 🩷🩷🩷

  • @karen-dh8dp
    @karen-dh8dp 9 місяців тому +258

    I'm shocked. She lost custody but wants to drown Matt in court hearing and costs to make him look like a bad father and person, but meanwhile she did this to herself. For the judge to mention he knew what she was up to since their divorce is some monumental history and he's sick of it. And the dad having to raise his kids alone, along w/an exwife who wants to weigh him down, is so unfair. He must be exhausted. I am just by seeing this for the entirety of the video. Using her kids to do her dirty work really is low and something that if it doesn't stop, I hope she loses the little time she has to spend with her kids.

    • @peopleincourt
      @peopleincourt  9 місяців тому +16

      For their sake, I kind of hope you’re right.

    • @staycurious51
      @staycurious51 9 місяців тому +2

      Those two look like such an unlikely pair...and I guess they were.

    • @purplequeen1727
      @purplequeen1727 2 місяці тому

      They need their Mother.

    • @thedarkwench
      @thedarkwench 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@purplequeen1727 not if the mother is so toxic that she is mentally abusing him. Using the child as a weapon

  • @rhondamc3642
    @rhondamc3642 9 місяців тому +187

    What a horrible "mother". Her hatred is apparent on her face.

    • @brendadion7868
      @brendadion7868 9 місяців тому +7

      Absolutely

    • @Roosters-rants1977
      @Roosters-rants1977 5 місяців тому

      This is most moms in family courts.

    • @UpsidedownC
      @UpsidedownC 4 місяці тому

      ​@@Roosters-rants1977 even more so of one's who have lost custody to dad

  • @charwalker26
    @charwalker26 9 місяців тому +275

    Can we all just agree that this Judge is Judge Great Granddaddy that tells it how it is and gives no F🙅🏾‍♀️@k about feelings

    • @peopleincourt
      @peopleincourt  9 місяців тому +23

      Yes. I have another video on this judge where he is about 20x more mad than he was in this hearing. I pinned the link to the top comment.

    • @southernladyish
      @southernladyish 9 місяців тому +8

      Absolutely! This is exactly how a judge/referee should react/respond. Zero bias. Except for whatever will benefit the children.

    • @MargieM10
      @MargieM10 9 місяців тому +3

      ​@@peopleincourtOhhhh, I'll go watch it. I like him so far.

    • @danshotguns4226
      @danshotguns4226 9 місяців тому +1

      Yeah, he is judge grand daddy. That's why he couldn't handle listening to the defense attorney. Explain a few things he actually complained about listening to her. Clarify something it's his job. And if he can't handle it. He should go home and retire.

    • @jamesplymire5342
      @jamesplymire5342 9 місяців тому +2

      💯 ❤

  • @Beckster1
    @Beckster1 9 місяців тому +92

    Poor kids. They will resent all of this😢 She’s the type that thinks she will make his life hell because they had a child together.

  • @BurnicusMaximus
    @BurnicusMaximus 4 місяці тому +63

    Shes a child. The way she looks and acts shows she never grew up.
    The bow in her hair, the oversized cup and the way she responds to the judge when he tells her to be quiet around 11 mins is just crazy

  • @thelizardking4698
    @thelizardking4698 9 місяців тому +73

    Dude got out of this marriage luckily. She is a control freak and a psycho. Believe me lady no one is taking pics of you for real

  • @gfx2943
    @gfx2943 4 місяці тому +26

    The best part about control freaks is their complete and utter lack of control.

  • @AmandaBooBerry
    @AmandaBooBerry 9 місяців тому +51

    Showing up in a turtle neck, with a Jojo Siwa bow, will only work if you're not bat-crap crazy with the judge knowing your history!
    My step-kid's mom was like this. We had physical/legal custody. They loved her, as they should, but they knew the deal. We never talked badly about her.

  • @45Patriot
    @45Patriot 9 місяців тому +33

    Jude will grow up to resent his mother. She may have him under her control for now, however once he matures and sees what his mother really is, it will destroy her relationship with him. Can you imagine living with this manipulator?

    • @ElanaVital83
      @ElanaVital83 9 місяців тому +5

      Yep. She's like my late Grandma. 3 generations resent her for her craziness and my one cousin even refused to go to her funeral

    • @RipliWitani
      @RipliWitani 4 місяці тому +1

      My dad was like this. He would give me 600 a month to spend on "me." Once I realized it was a bribe I stopped taking his money

  • @tequilajohnson4772
    @tequilajohnson4772 3 місяці тому +10

    Damn you "managed to lose physical and LEGAL custody in a couple years, something very few people have done" ~Judge Greg Frederick he's great

  • @LadyAdakStillStands
    @LadyAdakStillStands 9 місяців тому +35

    I'll guess mom wanted son to take cell phone to dads so she could track him with a tracker app...to create more issues. She can't be trusted. At 14, the son should answer for himself as necessary.

    • @peopleincourt
      @peopleincourt  9 місяців тому +7

      Sounds like she has her claws deep into the 14-year-old though. Totally controlling him. She’s not much better than a predator to be honest. 14 you’re still a child. Of course you’re gonna gravitate to the parent who gives you a cell phone with no parental controls versus the parent who has rules. But she’s hurting her children, no doubt.

  • @jollys_daughter
    @jollys_daughter 9 місяців тому +14

    Matt just sits there keeping his mouth shut letting his attorney speak for him and watching the EX sink herself. I love it! It's delicious! Lol

  • @rebajohnson8035
    @rebajohnson8035 Місяць тому +3

    I wouldn't be surprised if all of a sudden she starts creating all these emergency visits to the E.R. just to get back at him.

  • @StephaneHudon-l4c
    @StephaneHudon-l4c 4 місяці тому +19

    Every time this woman pauses she's trying to think of another lie! 💯

  • @stealthsquad8530
    @stealthsquad8530 4 місяці тому +8

    “This is absolutely GARBAGE! …GARBAGE!” LOL 😂

  • @anthonyslazas6413
    @anthonyslazas6413 9 місяців тому +66

    This is why you don't have babies with a crazy person! She should of never been a parent, she acting like a 5 year old!

    • @peopleincourt
      @peopleincourt  9 місяців тому +7

      Idk, I know a 5yr old with a lot more sense than her. Insult to 5 yr olds 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Trea-pl4xr
      @Trea-pl4xr 9 місяців тому +3

      have, should have

  • @KamJ2010
    @KamJ2010 9 місяців тому +53

    She is textbook narcissist. Well...somewhere in the Cluster B group.She need professional help.

  • @mattmccarthy330
    @mattmccarthy330 Місяць тому +3

    What a piece of work. That father is lucky to be away from her. Marriage must have been hell on earth

  • @kenttegneskog
    @kenttegneskog 9 місяців тому +38

    That was one sick and hateful mom, prepared to loose even visitation if she can slander the dad in some way. She needs to held accountable from now on. Hang in there Matt

  • @gpthe2nd
    @gpthe2nd 9 місяців тому +41

    To bring up the fact that the father spoke to HIS children on her “parenting time” is BEYOND ME! You want the father of a child to not speak to them because it’s your parent time??? WTF!!!!

  • @janetmahoney5552
    @janetmahoney5552 Місяць тому +3

    She needs to be ordered to pay all his legal bills.

  • @melissamcclain34
    @melissamcclain34 9 місяців тому +24

    Those kids are going to grow up and hate their mother. She's a narcissistic witch. I can't imagine being married to her and thank goodness the ex-husband has such a great lawyer. I was so hoping the judge was going to tell her she needed a mental health assessment 😂

    • @Whatsthe_dill
      @Whatsthe_dill 9 місяців тому

      I mean the lawyer didnt have ro do much its obvious she is full of herself and bat shit crazy!

    • @marks.7593
      @marks.7593 9 місяців тому +1

      The children will grow up resenting their mother for keeping the pot boiling and making them anxious all the time. They will associate all that turmoil with her and keep a distance from her.

  • @diehardeaglesfansince1994
    @diehardeaglesfansince1994 3 місяці тому +8

    She doesn't want the ex-husband seeing what she's writing to his kid

  • @thequeenofhope4006
    @thequeenofhope4006 3 місяці тому +9

    People please be careful who you choose to have children with 😮

  • @Professional_Victim_H8er
    @Professional_Victim_H8er 9 місяців тому +19

    Aren’t there multiple children in this situation?! Why is every situation being mentioned only about Jude? If I were the other kids I sure would be feel shortchanged. 🤣
    I can’t imagine why this poor man wanted a divorce. 🙄This woman should only be afforded supervised visits with these children. She is a nightmare .

  • @nicoles7872
    @nicoles7872 9 місяців тому +21

    This woman needs to realize that everything she's doing is going to put a wedge between her and her kids, especially Jude. Give it a few years and he will see how vindictive and ridiculous she has been and all its done is hurt him and his brother! She is the one who needs to go to therapy.

  • @MsMaryk83
    @MsMaryk83 3 місяці тому +3

    It’s just so satisfying seeing the mothers face drop when she is realising the judge isn’t agreeing with all her nonsense 😂

  • @MommeeMadre1
    @MommeeMadre1 9 місяців тому +24

    This woman has destroyed poor Jude. 😢

  • @valerie362
    @valerie362 9 місяців тому +68

    The phone thing is bizarre! Giving a kid a cell phone and not telling the other parent isn't ok. She absolutely could have done exactly what the judge said and looked when she wanted to.

    • @deborahfenley5825
      @deborahfenley5825 9 місяців тому +6

      A teenager having 2 different phones for 2 different homes is absolutely ridiculous. Kids talk and text constantly. His friends must have 2 different phone numbers and have to figure out when and where he is at any given time. It's dizzying. And totally unnecessary.

    • @mldshelly12
      @mldshelly12 9 місяців тому +4

      I'm at that part of the video now. It's like she wants some additional access to the phone or something 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @valerie362
      @valerie362 9 місяців тому

      @@deborahfenley5825 Absolutely! He's also got unrestricted access to the Internet when she lets him take it to Dad's without his knowledge. I love and trust my kids but I also check on them to make sure I have reason to trust them. I'd lose my mind if someone got them a phone that I wasn't aware of. Dad knew she did it but didn't know he took it to his house. Sheesh

    • @karenneill9109
      @karenneill9109 9 місяців тому +3

      She wanted to be able to have secret conversations with their sons, and tried to come up with some way to justify it.

    • @D64nz
      @D64nz 5 місяців тому

      It sounds so one sided though. She wants access to the parental controls of the phone because the father was taking photos and videos of her. The judge says well just take the phone from the kid, which I disagree with. Then when they say the kids is talking to the mum while at the fathers house, why didn't the same apply? If it is so easy to take the property from the kid for the mum, the dad can do the same if they are having these all night conversations?
      If that is really the judges remedy, then it should apply to both parents.

  • @LlamaLlamaMamaJamaac
    @LlamaLlamaMamaJamaac 4 місяці тому +17

    I cannot take her seriously with that bow!! 🤦🏻‍♀️

  • @Cynnas
    @Cynnas 21 день тому +1

    I think one of the best moves a man can make in a divorce is has a woman lawyer. A woman questioning and berating the ex-wife has a whole different and more meaningful effect than a man doing it.

  • @melaniehassler2405
    @melaniehassler2405 3 місяці тому +3

    I can't see these 2 as a couple, much less having kids
    13:27 my head explodes. This is the best advertisement for no marriage/no kids I've ever seen. The risk of ending up in a nightmare like this is too scary.

  • @sandraderby1628
    @sandraderby1628 9 місяців тому +33

    Kuddos to dad for not playing her games or refraining from grinning while the judge scolds her.

  • @There348
    @There348 4 місяці тому +24

    I wish this judge would see this comment!! Judge, there ARE still people out there that appreciate this demeanor and calling out of negative MOTHERS who make the entire situation extremely toxic for everyone involved, most importantly, the kids!!!!

  • @HazelnutsnHickories
    @HazelnutsnHickories 9 місяців тому +22

    My heart breaks for the kid and dealing with all chaos just because the mom wants full control…ridiculous

  • @stephanielynnstrong
    @stephanielynnstrong 3 місяці тому +1

    This lady looks like an adult Blossom, lol

  • @sophiamcfadden7362
    @sophiamcfadden7362 4 місяці тому +9

    If this child is 14, the judge should speak to him to find out what exactly is going on because this sounds like a form of manipulation and a bit mentally abusive. He is going to griw up n probably hate her. She should be in counseling

    • @Bellalovelola
      @Bellalovelola 3 місяці тому

      Right, at first they make it seems like he is under 6 or something lol

  • @BarekHalfhand
    @BarekHalfhand 9 місяців тому +62

    Instead of that bow she should just tape a sign to her forehead this reads: "I'm psychotic, don't believe a word I say".

    • @michellepollard3591
      @michellepollard3591 4 місяці тому +1

      😂

    • @GerryEscue
      @GerryEscue 4 місяці тому +1

      I think a tattoo would be better on her forehead, although I don't think anyone that was around her long would need that.

    • @BrendaBrickell
      @BrendaBrickell 4 місяці тому +1

      😂 your right I swear watching this killed some of my brain cells

  • @pipermccool
    @pipermccool 9 місяців тому +55

    She’s the co-worker who calls the cops if somebody pours a little rum into the punch bowl at the office Christmas party.

    • @peopleincourt
      @peopleincourt  9 місяців тому +6

      Yeah, the worst kind of tattletale

    • @millieharper51
      @millieharper51 9 місяців тому +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @cjharris3680
      @cjharris3680 9 місяців тому +11

      She's the co-worker who drives others to spike the punch as a form of relief from her nastiness.

    • @hazelhadley-britt6396
      @hazelhadley-britt6396 9 місяців тому +10

      Nope. Accusing male colleagues of rape for touching their arm or looking at them.

    • @CandanceIsMyName
      @CandanceIsMyName 9 місяців тому +3

      Ah yes, slipping alcohol into a beverage that a recovering alcoholic may drink. Or a pregnant woman. Or an underage person. Why would anyone be upset by that? Stuff like this is why people hate office Christmas parties.

  • @bubbsmilz
    @bubbsmilz 3 місяці тому +2

    The cell phone issue- She wanted to check on her husband and doesn't have access to the kids phone.. She's carazy....

  • @JD0586
    @JD0586 9 місяців тому +13

    The fact that the judge is giving her so many warnings before he can close up shop, says a lot about her.

  • @ang8158
    @ang8158 9 місяців тому +39

    The fact that she has a permanent look like she is about to bust out crying any minute says ALOT!!!

  • @felicialindley8906
    @felicialindley8906 9 місяців тому +7

    We are watching the next based on true story Lifetime movie with this Christmas bow bandit!😂😂

  • @doodleartlover
    @doodleartlover 9 місяців тому +24

    Wow, she's a real piece of work. I can't imagine what it's like for her children to live with her. It must be psychologically exhausting. I can't believe the husband stuck it out long enough to have 3 kids.

  • @romarobbins270
    @romarobbins270 2 місяці тому +1

    I can’t imagine wasting the court’s time, over text messages and cell phones. That woman is a control freak.

  • @HouseMusicLover001
    @HouseMusicLover001 9 місяців тому +7

    He called her a helicopter mom lmao

    • @peopleincourt
      @peopleincourt  9 місяців тому +3

      I think that was literally the nicest and only safe for work word he could muster.

  • @pasolo2324
    @pasolo2324 4 дні тому

    the judge with just one sentence dismantled the woman ,she said "I understand" and the judge replay "I hope so"

  • @noreenmountain2994
    @noreenmountain2994 Місяць тому +1

    The way this woman uses her youngest child to perpetuate lies to the police etc is so extremely damaging to that boy. I think she should forfeit all rights to those boys

  • @Santa-ny1yp
    @Santa-ny1yp 9 місяців тому +7

    I want to see the material of when she lost shared custody! This is gold.

  • @myopinion59
    @myopinion59 9 місяців тому +8

    She seems really disturbed. I would be very worried if she had my kids.

  • @chrisyost5949
    @chrisyost5949 Місяць тому

    "and why not ? you aren't the parent? "
    GOT HER

  • @zeroch1ll150
    @zeroch1ll150 4 місяці тому +10

    The logic of an emotionally out of controll person.

  • @zukanator3555
    @zukanator3555 2 місяці тому +1

    Take it from a kid whose parents had a very toxic divorce involving kidnapping across state lines, manipulation and lying. The children in this situation are the ones that suffer the most😢

  • @Peacenlove0706
    @Peacenlove0706 4 місяці тому +8

    The judge is so over it. 😂😂😂

  • @davidportnoy3237
    @davidportnoy3237 9 місяців тому +7

    She cried wolf so many times, that nobody believes anything she says. 😮

  • @krazee21
    @krazee21 25 днів тому +1

    Does this judge not understand how the parental control programs work on phones? He said dad should hav full access to the phone she bought as well. I think this woman is the result of a narcissistic parent. True classic signs.

  • @jeffcreech5377
    @jeffcreech5377 9 місяців тому +6

    This is a narcissist that is backed into a corner that she set up by herself 😂

  • @Boertje247
    @Boertje247 Місяць тому +1

    This woman is the kind of teacher I loathed in school. Condescending, infantile, and thinking all the while she’s the only smart one in the room. She’s the type who talks down to her students, like, “We need to learn to be good and woke, because we think we need that to be good citizens, so we can blah blah blah…” Whenever a teacher started using the ‘royal we’ I’d tune right out. I took care of kids and once, while picking them up from school, a teacher was in the parking lot having a nuclear meltdown, screaming and red faced at a man sitting in a car, with kids in his car. My kids said that woman was a teacher and the man she was screaming at like a banshee were divorced, the dad was really nice, and >gasp< had a new fiancée, who the kids really loved, and the mom was crazy. These incidents happened about every 2-3 months. No kids wanted to be in her class. Fast forward 6 years, my kids are in college, and the crazy teacher had finally lost custody, and her kids went no contact with her. She still whines that her kids were alienated by her ex husband. She never took responsibility for herself. She tried to block family counseling between her ex and their kids, because she was so toxic. The kids suffered, but because their dad loved them so much, and did the best he could for them, they have a great, close relationship with their dad. I hope these kids don’t see her at all. There’s no good from a mom like this. Caustic and toxic. Enough is enough. This judge is fire!

  • @bigblockjess617
    @bigblockjess617 9 місяців тому +5

    Bad move giving her the medical cards. Shes going to start her own plans and absolutely she will sign him up for sports and what not. She is going to violate this order so bad

    • @grbenway
      @grbenway 9 місяців тому +1

      It will be a good thing. SHe will lose almost all visitation and the father will not have to deal with her crap.

  • @jasonlindsey2820
    @jasonlindsey2820 Місяць тому +1

    Omg.. he's so lucky he got away from that looney tune!!💯

  • @americannightmom183
    @americannightmom183 9 місяців тому +10

    Is there any more footage of this case anywhere?! Holy crap I want to see it start to finish 😂

  • @AnnaMarieStrunk
    @AnnaMarieStrunk 9 місяців тому +6

    Mom definitely HATES the dad. Sadly she might lose her kids respect if she hasn't already.

  • @InspiringNotionz
    @InspiringNotionz 9 місяців тому +7

    If I was Judge I would have ordered her to go to therapy as a condition of getting visitation. I also would have been giving him his attorney fees all along every time her complaints were frivolous.
    I had a friend that went through this with a crazy EX. Judge finally had enough, gave my friend 100% custody with zero visitation for Father and made the Father pay her $60k in attorney fees.
    Plus he put in a court order that the father could not file any more cases or motions with the court without getting permission first from that judge.
    After 6 years of constant harassment and litigation he FINALLY went away. 😏

    • @freddielind5282
      @freddielind5282 9 місяців тому +3

      She should ONLY have supervised visits! At the very least!

  • @davidglenn7044
    @davidglenn7044 Місяць тому +1

    Throw the lady in jail for harassment like they would have done to the man and I guarantee you the harassment will stop. She is a nut case

  • @lynndobson4820
    @lynndobson4820 24 дні тому

    I love this judge and his reaction to this simpleton. Hilarious.

  • @roxanne2881
    @roxanne2881 9 місяців тому +7

    This woman is reading from a script, imo. She has several sheets of notes beside her that she keeps referring to. There is something wrong with her. She admitted she was lying about claims she has made. Make it make sense!

  • @DMCrapser1951
    @DMCrapser1951 27 днів тому

    Looks like she’s sitting in a restroom. 😂😂😂

  • @genxfurfeelings
    @genxfurfeelings Місяць тому +1

    This lady is just trying to control everything and won't give up

  • @lordgrinz
    @lordgrinz 9 місяців тому +5

    Been there, done that.....this woman is a sociopath! The kids will be hurt the most by her actions, though I am sure she could care less.

  • @trinity2145
    @trinity2145 9 місяців тому +5

    I would love to see this case from the beginning. Especially the trial.

  • @aurorasfamilyproductions8484
    @aurorasfamilyproductions8484 9 місяців тому +5

    Damn that sucks. My child’s mom is still part of our family, she’s gonna come to my sisters soon for Christmas and every once in a while me and her will go do something together with our daughter, last time we went bowling. Shure there are things that I can’t stand about my ex and she can probally say the same about me but it’s not worth getting courts involved and having our kid grow up learning to keep secrets from her parents. I give her a bit more than what I’m supposed to for child support to keep her and her mom happy. Our daughter is doing great! Also people need to understand that just because their daughter seems like she likes one parent over the other doesn’t mean that’s the best parent for the child. I have my daughter every weekend and of course she’s going to enjoy going to dads house more because we are having fun all weekend and she can stay up a little bit later and with mom she has to go to school

    • @NNashella
      @NNashella 4 місяці тому

      Amazing co parenting Mom and Dad! Well done! I envy you! Always for the wellbeing of the child/children! Kudos 👏 and that all the family work well together, in laws are friends. Dealing with narcissistic in law enablers is another added on horror of bad co parenting cases.

  • @southernladyish
    @southernladyish 9 місяців тому +5

    This is exactly why it is VITAL to really KNOW the person you’re dating before you marry/have children with them. Seriously. Pay close attention to how they act towards you and others when they’re angry or hurt. If you see them reacting vindictively, maliciously, petty.. think about going through a situation like this and just assume they will react 10x’s worse. I’m not referring to just one gender in particular… before anyone assumes! Trust me… I’ve seen just as many men going out of their way to hurt their exes by using their children as I have women. I can vouch by my own personal struggles with my children’s father. Make a mental checklist before you get married/have children. PLEASE!! Children don’t deserve to have to be raised in the middle of all of this nonsense. This woman should be ashamed of herself… clearly, she has her own best interest in mind rather than her children. I feel bad for dad and the kids.

    • @BearPawSwipe
      @BearPawSwipe 9 місяців тому

      BS. You have not seen men to the same degree using their children. Men are at such a disadvantage in family court it isn't even funny. Just look at this goofball? She is still in their lives & is beyond toxic.

  • @janicefarmer2387
    @janicefarmer2387 9 місяців тому +5

    The court should not have to micro manage like this and for such an extensive length of time. Why would you let your distain for your ex cause you to lose legal custody of your children. How sad for the children that they see all this. 😢

    • @maryrodgers7898
      @maryrodgers7898 9 місяців тому

      I hope she loses total access to her kids. She is evil and not a good mother in any way. Destroying her kids lives cause she hates this man.

  • @EmperorOfMan
    @EmperorOfMan 9 місяців тому +17

    I am choosing to believe this channel hired an actress to play the role of Mom. She is not a real person. I refuse to believe it.

    • @numerouno2532
      @numerouno2532 9 місяців тому

      Lol. I agree it's madness, but I've seen worse. Your comment reminds me of that clip of the woman that had to get off the plain that went viral something like "that's not a real person"

    • @peopleincourt
      @peopleincourt  9 місяців тому +5

      lol, I’m totally on board with that if it preserves your sanity. There’s no hope for me… I spent like eight hours editing this video. I’m surprised I can even string words together.

    • @preacherbillf
      @preacherbillf 9 місяців тому

  • @robertdyers
    @robertdyers 3 місяці тому +1

    This dude turned into NEO. Took him a minute but he's dodging bullets now.

  • @lwinkfein
    @lwinkfein 3 місяці тому +1

    The worst thing you can do to children is put them in the middle of this mess. Mom has real issues and the Dad, children and court are all paying the price of her nonsense. She dosen't love her children if she can't bring herself to be more mature.

  • @loki3187
    @loki3187 4 місяці тому +7

    And people look at me like I’m crazy when I say that I never want to get married, and that I never want to have kids…
    I’m not going to risk anything. 😂😂

    • @danielkentucky5520
      @danielkentucky5520 4 місяці тому

      I just went through same thing as this father fought for years for my son And finally got soul custody more crazy than this but wouldn't give anything for my son taking him for his driver's test tomorrow don't lose out its the greatest thing that could ever happen to see ur child grow up becoming a great Man don't know what I would do or be without my kids

  • @TindoTuckshop-lo8zf
    @TindoTuckshop-lo8zf 6 днів тому

    This judge is an absolute gem, fair, balanced, straight to the point, no nonsense.
    I feel sorry for the mom, she is so tied up in animosity she cant thing logically and reasonably. Conselling cant save her, neother can Jesus

  • @SgtFuckOff
    @SgtFuckOff 9 місяців тому +35

    19:20 The huffing and puffing of this supposed grown woman, who came to court with the hairstyle of a toddler and the attitude to match, is unreal. She is actually a parent? All she has to do is tell her son “Before you leave for your dad’s house, please give me my phone. You have one to use at your dad’s house.” I’m pretty sure the kid would be fine but she definitely wouldn’t be. She claims dad is “spying on her”, when we all know it’s the other way around. She is refusing to ask her son for the phone SHE gave him and acts like it’s unreasonable for the judge to tell her to get the phone back before he leaves. Her incredulous scoff of “I can’t check his pockets!”, as if anyone even said she had to do that is manipulation. She just has to tell her son to give her the phone. The kid isn’t going to care which phone he has because he will just want a phone. I know the golden rule is to “Never stick your dick in crazy”, and I’m wondering what he ever saw in her. I wouldn’t do her with a bag over her head and her “personality” is that of a child. There is no redeeming qualities in this supposed adult female and I can’t wrap my head around what he ever saw in her 😂 She should have no access to their children either. She’s playing a game in the courts and that’s the last place you want to try and be petty. You’ll go in thinking you can con the judge and wind up losing everything.

    • @catbishop27
      @catbishop27 9 місяців тому

      I 100% agree with your statement. All I can think is that Dad was wasted all the time around her & probably fell in accidentally a couple times 😂
      She's obviously bitter af and it's showing HARD. Her Boys are probably so embarrassed by her that it's caused them PTSD!

    • @nESHAwOODS11
      @nESHAwOODS11 9 місяців тому

      😂😂😂 the hairstyle of A toddler took me out 😂😂

    • @SgtFuckOff
      @SgtFuckOff 9 місяців тому

      @@catbishop27 yes!

    • @SgtFuckOff
      @SgtFuckOff 9 місяців тому

      @@nESHAwOODS11 but really, in what world did she think pigtails was an adult, professional hairstyle to wear in court? 😂 She came to court looking like the headgear girl from Finding Nemo.

  • @Sandy-bi3jf
    @Sandy-bi3jf 9 місяців тому +1078

    As a retired principal, I met many parents who hated each other more than they loved their kids. So much bitterness!!

    • @peopleincourt
      @peopleincourt  9 місяців тому +49

      I know. I taught high school English for years. As devastating as it is, I wish I could say it was the saddest thing I’d ever seen. Education is harder than it looks. ❤

    • @MargieM10
      @MargieM10 9 місяців тому +23

      The way schools are now be happy you're retired!

    • @Sandy-bi3jf
      @Sandy-bi3jf 9 місяців тому +14

      Yes I am Margie.⭐️⭐️⭐️

    • @danshotguns4226
      @danshotguns4226 9 місяців тому +6

      I don't think it's fair to say that any parent hates the other parent. More than they love their kids, but some parents can make bad decisions based on emotions and based on feeling like they are being slighted by the other parent. It doesn't mean that they don't love their kids. But it does mean that they are a bit short-sighted, which is actually fairly common among human beings. We are emotional creatures and it takes a lot sometimes to control yourself. And some people are better at it than others. But that doesn't give you the right to judge whether somebody loves their kid or not. She wouldn't be doing this if she didn't love her kid. She's just making selfish decisions in the process. That makes it look like she's trying to make things difficult.

    • @Sandy-bi3jf
      @Sandy-bi3jf 9 місяців тому +12

      I understand your concern. It’s just that in my previous life ( school principal) I was always amazed when separated/divorced parents turned up to meetings with solicitors, took the other parent to court accusing the other parent of sexualising abusing the child ( in spite of the child protests) or only communicated with that other parent through letters. THESE parents defiantly did not think about the child. Granted, I have a number parents, who after going it alone, were unbelievable and had a very good relationships with their ex-spouse. I suppose the quality of their on- going relationship depended on their emotional intelligence or even the nature of their break- up. I just always felt very sorry for the poor children when the parents made it very obvious of their intense dislike of each other- the children often ended up confused and very anxious. Just my observations and from a middle class view. Sorry/

  • @rebeccakinney6357
    @rebeccakinney6357 9 місяців тому +339

    Parents who use court to harass the other parent should be held financially responsible and or held in contempt

    • @BCNeil
      @BCNeil 4 місяці тому +7

      the child suffers from all these expenses.

    • @noteworthyinsignificance
      @noteworthyinsignificance 4 місяці тому +7

      Amen

    • @LifesAPeach2Me
      @LifesAPeach2Me 2 місяці тому +2

      I think they should be made to pay all attorney fees. That would probably stop that nonsense, but part of taking them to court for frivolous things is they are making their ex pay. And it doesn't only cost for the courtroom time, but any phone calls you make to discuss their case. It's expensive...I know.