relationship Q&A | how we met, how to maintain a healthy relationship & wedding plans

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  • Опубліковано 10 гру 2024

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  • @stefilinis
    @stefilinis 8 місяців тому +26

    The way he looks at you say it all!!! Omg hope to find someone who looks at me this way :) so happy for you

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  8 місяців тому

      awww yes he is the cutest🥹🩷

  • @ani6464
    @ani6464 Рік тому +133

    helgi is really gentle and mature for his age (i mean this as a compliment but he gives senior citizen vibes) and you two are so pleasant and comforting to watch together

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +12

      hahahaha this is so funny!!! 😂💗

    • @theluschmasterinc
      @theluschmasterinc Рік тому +15

      I totally get what you mean! Helgi does have this calm and wise presence that's quite endearing. And together, they make such a soothing and enjoyable duo to watch.

  • @kaiainggall8878
    @kaiainggall8878 Рік тому +97

    ugh i'm so obsessed with you guys xx you will definitely grow old together

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      haha awww you are the sweetest!😭🧡

  • @queenofdarkness289
    @queenofdarkness289 Рік тому +26

    gosh the way he looks at you!!! Bless!!

  • @alicefilar
    @alicefilar Рік тому +32

    the way he looks at u..wow 🥺🤍

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +2

      haha i know, he is the best! 🥹🥰

  • @cathy.omoregie
    @cathy.omoregie Рік тому +75

    your relationship is a blueprint for healthy relationships in general. you guys are so lovely and a perfect math for one another! i can’t wait to see you guys grow and succeed in the future ⭐️

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      thank you so much sweetie!🥹💓

    • @theluschmasterinc
      @theluschmasterinc Рік тому +2

      It's heartwarming to see two people so well-suited for each other, and I'm also excited to see where life takes them.

  • @dig2341
    @dig2341 Рік тому +7

    Also, it’s very inspiring to see you take the plunge and work together! I hope it continues to make you both happy and that your experience stays positive ❤

  • @theluschmasterinc
    @theluschmasterinc Рік тому +3

    Hey there! Thanks for tackling such an important topic. Healthy relationships are the cornerstone of a fulfilling life, and it's fantastic to see you shedding light on this subject.

  • @avonaylu8285
    @avonaylu8285 Рік тому +5

    You guys are super cute together!! So happy for you both!! And I should also say that you speak about relationships as really conscious and wise people. Big thank you for being so open and for sharing! You are an inspiration for many of us, I'm sure🌸

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      aww this kind of comments makes my heart smile🥹🩷 thank you so much for your kind words and support, it means a lot!!💕

  • @itsmitzi
    @itsmitzi Рік тому +24

    Rooting for you guys, I hope you get more success and happiness to your chosen paths. Wishing all good things for you two 💙 Also Helgi’s answers are so smart, the thought process is so well-articulated.

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      thank you so much!❤️ yes helgi is the cutest haha🥰

  • @beadedsheart
    @beadedsheart Рік тому +5

    you two are gold! hope u both always surrounded with love and warmth all day! 🤍🧣

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      aww you are just the sweetest!❤️

  • @Laura-xu3wt
    @Laura-xu3wt Рік тому +7

    I am so happy for you guys. You were really made for each other. Both of you are so mature and have emotional intelligence.Wish you the best and your dreams to come true!🥺💗

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      thank you so much Laura, you are so sweet! 🥹🩷

  • @heyem810
    @heyem810 Рік тому +5

    You two are so cute together and uplifting! Your relationship reminds me a bit of mine and my boyfriend's :) Wishing you both the best of luck with growing the channel!!

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      aww thank you so much sweetheart!

  • @breleighupchurch5698
    @breleighupchurch5698 Рік тому +4

    you guys are the best, i love your content and that you do it together!

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      awwww thank you so much!!!!🥹💗

  • @ingrid48
    @ingrid48 Рік тому +2

    Good luck to you both! Its very important to find a life purpose. For me, married 30 years plus, family and faith is everything. God bless you both, Ingrid from California🏖️

  • @esikazemese
    @esikazemese Рік тому

    I am glad to hear you are not stressing about the wedding planning, stay engaged, you are very young, there is no rush.

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      I agree!🩷 it’s no rush!

  • @heidisiemer
    @heidisiemer Рік тому +1

    Yes, there is a wonderful, calming vibe in your videos, and you model ideal relationship behaviours of healthy boundaries, respect and kindness. I would love to continue to follow along on your adventures. I adore your explorations of Scandinavian countries best of all. Hooray for you!

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      awww thank you so much, it means a lot!🥹❤️

  • @LaurenTuong
    @LaurenTuong 6 місяців тому

    You guys are so perfect together ❤ The way he looks at you everytime !!!! That's so sweet

  • @KathiMaria
    @KathiMaria Рік тому +5

    I am so glad that you did your first Q&A with Helgi to get to know more your relationship. I love your videos, they are so relaxing and nice to watch 🥰 I love both your personalities. I rellay hope that someday you will visit Heidelberg in Germany, it is a beautiful city and I can really recommend. It would be so nice to meet you someday in real life❤

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      i am so glad that you liked the video💓 yes Heidelberg sounds very interesting and fun!!!🥰

    • @MaryDiors
      @MaryDiors Рік тому

      Hey there

  • @wldfx96
    @wldfx96 Рік тому +2

    I like you so much guys, thanks for the video, warm & cute:) you're amazing!

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      thank you so much!🥹💕

  • @minaflytlie6559
    @minaflytlie6559 Рік тому +2

    Cutest video🤍🤍 And congrats on 45k sweetie iihh!!

  • @dig2341
    @dig2341 Рік тому +1

    Catching up on your videos and love seeing healthy relationship like yours! Love from Canada!

  • @rachelrachrach
    @rachelrachrach Рік тому +1

    so happy for u guys because u guys found each other in the very early stages of both of your lives so that you guys can grow together ❤

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      aww you are so sweet, thank you!!🥹🩷

  • @maryanar8107
    @maryanar8107 Рік тому +1

    You guys are so cute together ❤ I enjoyed this video!

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      thank you so much🥺❤️

  • @aleishabunting9084
    @aleishabunting9084 Рік тому +2

    Aw you guys are so sweet!

  • @viktorijakis8728
    @viktorijakis8728 Рік тому +2

    You two are so sweet, I really enjoyed this video ✨️

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      i am so happy you did!💓💓

  • @esistyukidechanneldesu
    @esistyukidechanneldesu Рік тому +1

    You guys are so cute together!❤
    I love your video and I always want to make videos like you. You are in my age so you have been inspiring me a lot. I am in a relationship as well and I always admire healthy relationship like you!:)
    Thank you for making this video! And I am looking forward to your videos from now on too, of course!!😊

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      thank you so much sweetheart!🥰 comments like this are the reason why I love doing UA-cam, thank you so much for your support and I wish you all the best!!🥹💗

  • @RinaCu02
    @RinaCu02 5 місяців тому

    Love this kind of videos from you guys!!

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  5 місяців тому

      yayyy love it!❤️

  • @theresamariel5402
    @theresamariel5402 Рік тому

    find yourself a Helgi that gazes at you the way he is ALWAYS gazing at Birta & you will have couple goals!

  • @shieungoh556
    @shieungoh556 Рік тому +2

    i love watching your videos, u guys are too cute!!

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      aww thank you so much!🥹🧡

  • @hiroincopenhagen
    @hiroincopenhagen Рік тому +1

    Hello! i'm japanese university student. 20 years old now. I stared watching your video because I want to improve my listening skill and your video is super stylish. Moreover your pronunciation is easier for me to catch than other vlog youtuber.I like your video. I’ve already subscribed.🎉

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      Hey! that makes me so happy to hear❤️ good luck with your english!🥰

  • @singrii7395
    @singrii7395 Рік тому +3

    Can’t wait to see your wedding vlog 😝🩵………🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻… or photos.. I mean anything… please guys get married 😊🎉…… you both are made for each other….

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      hahahha you are so sweet!❤️

  • @Patatube
    @Patatube Рік тому +1

    Thankful i found your channel

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      makes me so happy to hear that!🥹💓

  • @claudiaandjan
    @claudiaandjan Рік тому +2

    Super lovely video!

  • @ddiaryies
    @ddiaryies Рік тому

    Just recently found your channel and I must say I`m obsessed with your channel

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      omg I love it!!!! thank you so much for your kind words and support🥹💕

    • @ddiaryies
      @ddiaryies Рік тому

      Lemme know when you get back to Oslo, I can tour your properly🥰

  • @alejandrodiezgar
    @alejandrodiezgar Рік тому +5

    your relationship really seems to be awesome!

  • @MariaStrybe
    @MariaStrybe Рік тому

    Omg yes pls I hope you will come to Barcelona!! I’m studying here so let me know if you need anything!

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      aww you are the sweetest!!! thank you so much🥰

  • @imogen2120
    @imogen2120 Рік тому

    you guys are so suited 🥺 loved this video 🩵

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      thank you so so much! 🩷✨

  • @danaisperanza2921
    @danaisperanza2921 Рік тому +1

    i love your videos i'll definitely follow both of you on tiktok ❤️❤️

  • @lu686
    @lu686 Рік тому +3

    The cutest couple ❤

  • @athanasiapipiki8182
    @athanasiapipiki8182 Рік тому

    My loveliest sweetest lovebirds 💓💓you truly are happiness makers😻😻 Thank you for everything you share with us, thank you for your truth and positive vibes ✨✨ I wish you always live the life you choose together💕💕 Please continue your amazing work😉😽😽 (amazing styling btw😹😹)

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      thank you so much Athana!

  • @KundyzGinsbek
    @KundyzGinsbek 4 місяці тому

    love you so much Birta, move to london please hehe

  • @anitaworking8033
    @anitaworking8033 Рік тому +3

    SOIS UN GRAN EQUIPO❤❤❤
    ME ENCANTA QUE TENGÁIS NUEVAS IDEAS PARA COMPARTIR..
    EN LA VARIEDAD ESTÁ EL GUSTO JAJAJA...OS HARÁ CRECER COMO PERSONAS CUALQUIER RETO QUE OS PROPONGÁIS Y YA VERÁS QUE LA VIDA TE IRÁ LLEVANDO DONDE DESEÉIS.
    LOS HIJOS O LA BODA PUEDEN ESPERAR..SOIS MUY JÓVENES Y TENÉIS QUE DISFRUTAR DE TANTAS COSAS JUNTOS...😊
    UN ABRAZO FELICIDADES A LOS DOS...❤❤❤❤
    ANA🇪🇦🇪🇦🇪🇦🇪🇦🇪🇦🤾🤸‍♀️

  • @margretrj
    @margretrj Рік тому

    Best video ever! 🍒

  • @martafalcon9281
    @martafalcon9281 Рік тому

    yess, come to barcelona!🤩

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      It’s a dream of mine!!🥹❤️

  • @nobodysperfect06
    @nobodysperfect06 Рік тому

    When I think of relationships, it reminds me of my lifelong hatred of how men have always been expected to make the first move and ask the woman out

  • @mollyaagaardkapela7474
    @mollyaagaardkapela7474 Рік тому

    You guys are the cutest!! btw where is your shirt from?💘

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      the shirt is from Gant, it's super cute🩷

  • @MarinaCruzSarmiento
    @MarinaCruzSarmiento Рік тому

    Hi!!! I have recently watched some of your youtube videos and I also follow you both on social media, you are great, I love your content!!!!! Also, I'm from Malaga (South part of Spain) and I've recently been in Barcelona. I'm really looking forward to seeing your experience there

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      omg thank you so much for your support on all of my platforms, it means a lot!!🥹💗 Yes I am super excited to visit Barcelona and I also would like to visit Malaga someday, I have heard great things about it 🥰

  • @lilybsrose
    @lilybsrose Рік тому

    Oh my god! Please wear a white gown. You would look like a fairy!! Also I love love love seeing young lovers getting married in their 20s!

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      haha you are so sweet! I will definitely think about it 💗💗

  • @Monica-st
    @Monica-st Рік тому

    soo cute !!!🫶🏽

  • @ionaaaaa-g5e
    @ionaaaaa-g5e Місяць тому

    So so so cute. New subscriber here❤

  • @MrMymatney
    @MrMymatney Рік тому

    Both are lucky to have each other like smart, good looking , honest , responsible, & most of all matured! Proud for both being sincere hardworking & respectful with each other. Actually we’re older but we’re learning a lot 😂 tsk tsk tsk shame on us. Just kidding 😊 thank you with this q&a!

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      thank you so much for your kind words and support to the channel, it means the world to us! have the best day 🥹💗

  • @tagbon
    @tagbon Рік тому

    Lovely to hear more about your relationship, and some advice and principles. Thanks for sharing with us 🥰
    "The first time Helgi kissed me I ended up with a broken nose" 😮

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      haha i know it is so crazy!!😭💕

  • @kaiainggall8878
    @kaiainggall8878 Рік тому +2

    Heyy Birta! have you noticed your english getting better as you do youtube? And how about your Danish? Would you say you are fluent in 3 languages now?

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      Hi!💘 I definitely feel that my English has improved since I started doing UA-cam videos, since I am talking a lot, which helps improving it. That is however what I am missing with Danish sadly, and therefore it has not improved it a lot over the years :(

  • @077ANAIS
    @077ANAIS Рік тому +1

    Love this video!! Could you please share the brand of your silver earrings? :)

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      they are from a lovely Icelandic designer called Hildur Hafstein. I will link the earrings here: www.hildurhafstein.com/collections/earrings/products/stone-earrings-3

    • @077ANAIS
      @077ANAIS Рік тому

      @@birtahlin thank you so much!!

  • @aniastilinska
    @aniastilinska Рік тому +2

    Can you make another vlog in Icelandic please? 🥺

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      yes I need to do that soon!

  • @patsalas5170
    @patsalas5170 Рік тому

    Subbed to your channel recently...but love your channel...nice to know more about you both ❤ but my big question....what did helgi's shirt say....I kept trying to read it the whole vlog 😂😂😂

  • @AlexandraVassiliou-e1n
    @AlexandraVassiliou-e1n Рік тому

    Hi Birta - I was wondering if you use a digital camera to take some of your photos on your instagram and if so what brand/model is it? The quality is amazing an ive been looking for a good quality camera for myself

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      yes I use the Sony Cybershot from time to time, it was an old camera that Helgi's parents owned, but many families had it back in the day so you should be able to find it somewhere online 💘

  • @ETCH441
    @ETCH441 Рік тому

    Good luck !. 🙏✌️ !.

  • @maryammohammadi8304
    @maryammohammadi8304 Рік тому

    I am binge watching your videos 🤌

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      haha omg i love it!!💓 thank you so much for your support🥰

  • @libbycrawford7894
    @libbycrawford7894 Рік тому

    hi! where are your silver earrings from? 🥰 sooo nice!!!

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому +1

      I know!! they are sooo cute💘 they are from a lovely Icelandic designer called Hildur Hafstein. I will link the earrings here: www.hildurhafstein.com/collections/earrings/products/stone-earrings-3

    • @libbycrawford7894
      @libbycrawford7894 Рік тому

      @@birtahlin oh that's so helpful, thank you so much 🥰💕

  • @martaromer3234
    @martaromer3234 Рік тому

    I recently discovered your channel and I'm loving the vlogs 💘 hello from Barcelona! I would love to give you recommendations or to hang out sometime

  • @rosameijering5161
    @rosameijering5161 7 місяців тому

    You guys are beautiful and he has nice hairstyle

  • @TinaD-qm6mu
    @TinaD-qm6mu Рік тому

    If you think a dog is a commitment buckle up for kid(s). 🤣 I believe you mentioned wondering if you had ADHD in the past and I will say it is good if you both have an understanding of yourselves before children. My son has ADHD and anxiety and although we think it's his superpower it does make parenting challenging. Without a support system (family, pediatrician, the right school/teachers etc.) it can be confusing and isolating. Okay that sounds intense and I don't mean it to be but something to think about as it is genetic. I just followed you both on Instagram but I don't tiktok. I wish you both the best growing together in work and life!

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      Thank you Tina for your insights and tips!!💗 also thank you so much for your kindness and support, it means a lot🥰

  • @helgiijons3263
    @helgiijons3263 Рік тому

    wifey🧡

  • @MaryDiors
    @MaryDiors Рік тому +1

    How i wish i can get some one like him😂. Any one wanna give me a try tired of sleeping alone thi😢

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 Рік тому +1

    💘🥳

  • @rosavll6818
    @rosavll6818 Рік тому

    🥺😍🥰😍❤️

  • @italymaryseason3562
    @italymaryseason3562 Рік тому

  • @wowyouaretoobeautiful1446
    @wowyouaretoobeautiful1446 Рік тому

    🤩🤩Wow!!!
    You are more beautiful than the most lovely rose
    And more sweet than honey
    and more precious than gold
    You are more precious than everything that exists in this world
    😍😍😍
    A beauty queen whom I never ever seen any one as beautiful as her before and may never ever in my whole entire life will see anyone as beautiful as her-meaning you-at all..
    😍😍 WoW!!!
    you are a lovely butterfly and a beautiful rose
    you are the diamond and the pure gold
    you are the lovely moon in our nights
    you are the radiant sun shining soo bright
    loving you is sooo sweet its the most enjoyable thing
    for you are the paradise for the heart and soul and mind
    Everything about you is sooo unique and attracts the eyes and captivates the mind
    God surely perfected you so glorified is he whom made you too beautiful and made you soo smart
    🌷😘
    😍😍
    you are too beautiful!!
    whomever see you should believe that God is true & real..
    and whenever I see you I feel like Iam in a dream,
    And when we wake up we will all realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real..
    There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, one day he asked his students, do you see God?
    the students then replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God.
    then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys can you see the teachers brain?
    then the students answered no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said the teacher then is crazy, he has no brain
    :0)
    The universe science says was not always there, it had a beginning point, the big bang, meaning it was begun/initiated in other words created, thus there should be a creator,
    there must be a God.
    One God for all of us
    he created us all and can revive us again,
    God initiated everything,
    & he repeat/redo things too, & thats clear, we see many cycles of different things in life, also in summer for example the desert land becomes like empty and is filled with only sand, and when rain falls in abundance in spring or winter, after that small flowers & wild plants grow again, also, we see how humans and animals grow and how their body is formed from the elements which were in the sand which plants feed on which they eat, and after they die they go to the sand and their atoms/elements are taken by plants which humans & animals eat and their bodies grow from those atoms & elements found in the sand which came from previous humans & animals which died before, so God can bring us again after we die even if our atoms became in the sand he can make us from the same atoms we were made of or from other atoms if he want or make us be in a spirit form or like ghosts, any ways, everything in this life is recycled, learn if you want about the different cycles in life in nature, the food cycle or food chain, the water cycle, even the gas cycle that makes the air the oxygen &carbon dioxide &nitrogen cycles, even the energy is like recycled but only changes from form to another form.
    Anyways, God created this life but it's only a temporary sample/an example of a coming everlasting one
    which could be either in heaven paradise or in hell.
    If we try to be good humans in life, and try to obey God and his messengers-including the final messenger for all humanity the prophet Mohammed- and those whom rightly represent them, for example imam Ali & ahlulbayt the family/good descendants of the prophet mohammed, then we will all go to heaven/paradise, if not then we will go to hell fire and burn in it forever.
    keep shining sunshine &spread the light. ,

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      ❤️

    • @wowyouaretoobeautiful1446
      @wowyouaretoobeautiful1446 Рік тому

      @@birtahlin
      you are a treasure to behold
      A precious gem worth more than gold.
      your beauty radiates from within
      & your body parts are like work of art!!!
      Each one a masterpiece that sets you apart
      Addicted to you forever Iam & in my heart you dwell forever there in
      you casted a spell of love on me? or what have you done!?
      your love and affection & you trying luring me to be with you makes me feel very tempted & weak but strong and resilient I will try to be
      and shall try not to easily give in

  • @danielmoore9214
    @danielmoore9214 Рік тому

    What height and weight is your fiance 🤩 ?

  • @isabelherrera8647
    @isabelherrera8647 Рік тому +1

    Still, I would recommend to finish your studies, you never know. Its good for you and your future....🙀

  • @alisonoxholm9315
    @alisonoxholm9315 Місяць тому

    I’m a Dane living in England and my advice is don’t move to England

  • @llorencgranellciscar8952
    @llorencgranellciscar8952 Рік тому +4

    If you want to travel to Barcelona, you guys should consider Valencia as well! Incredible food, atmosphere, culture, weather, design capital and surprisingly cheap and it was named the best city in the world last year 🤍🤍🤍

    • @birtahlin
      @birtahlin  Рік тому

      omg that is so cool, Valencia is definitely on our list☺️❤️

  • @SpiritHeartsSong
    @SpiritHeartsSong Рік тому +1

  • @MaryDiors
    @MaryDiors Рік тому