How to Embrace Uncertainty with an Abundance Mindset 🎓 | Post-Grad Diaries
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hey guys!! welcome to a lil video on how I'm trying to embrace uncertainty after graduating and figuring out my path. I filmed this before I went on vipassana and it's crazy how much that experience helped me cultivate an abundance mindset where I already felt like my life was full and that my options truly are infinite!!
I also wanted to write a lil disclaimer that I know sitting in uncertainty after graduation comes with the privilege to rely on a family home to go back to -- and in my case, savings from my UA-cam work!! Not everyone has the luxury to take time in choosing their next steps. However, no matter what your situation, cultivating a scarcity or abundance mindset will definitely affect how you view your life and future opportunities. I dare you to dream big and be imaginative because we only live this life once. 🥹 Even if your dream life feels SO out of reach, there will always be an opportunity to get you closer if you believe it and look hard enough. As someone whose parents didn't go to university, I never dreamed I'd end up studying abroad at an institution like Minerva; it was the dream I dared myself to imagine. What hidden dreams are you fostering? Lots of love!! 💌
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00:00 introduction: why uncertainty feels so scary
2:01 my experience as a recent grad and therapy [BetterHelp ad]
4:20 why uncertainty during my gap year was the BEST thing
8:00 abundance vs scarcity mindset
11:03 why YOU are the answer to all your uncertainties 🦋
12:24 a question to ask yourself to align with what you really want ✨
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Hello friends!! 🦋✨🥰 I filmed this video before going on vipassana and it’s crazy how much more I resonate with the *feeling* of an abundance mindset after sitting with myself for so long! I hope that no matter what your life looks like, you empower yourself to believe that your options are endless!! 🤝🥹 some of the best advice I’ve heard is just to choose something, see how it goes and pivot as needed to work towards a life that feels value-aligned
jade you are amazing! i am in this exact situation and feeling kind if lost, but you're giving me so much strength and ideas on how to push thru
Stay empowered!! ❤❤
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Thank you so much Jade. I really needed this 🥰
So happy you feel an abundance! That is such a joy and gift. Thank you for sharing your optimism and energy, like a beacon of light on this amazing platform.
As a 43yo mom going back to University, with two kids, a mortgage, a successful career already, I would say there is no reason to expect to have the path figured out as a teen/young adult. Embrace life long learning. Also, start! It doesn't matter if you don't know what you want to do with the rest of your life. You'll likely not want to do one direction for the rest of your life! That's such a lie. I love how the content creator here guides you through things to think about like where you want to live, if You're not willing to move away from home, don't waste money studying for a degree that forces you away from family. Take time. Literally you have a lot more than people pretend. Also, if you get a job as an entry-level person at a large company, most likely (in these days) the company will pay for your education! Go ahead and start at every level somewhere to avoid tuition. Just focus on what makes you happy. Life is long (and short) and it doesn't make sense to spend time stressing over something that WILL change over time - like what do I want to do for the REST of my life?
Its the abundance mindset that gives me anxiety coz the fact that there are endless options to choose from is overwhelming especially when you dont like any of the options.
Genuinely so weird but also so helpful to have videos of someone in the exact same position as me talking about the same things I'm going through that people don't really talk about so thanks for that, hugs from me
Please share your tips with me too haha !!! big hugs right back 🤍🤝
@@UnJadedJade apologies I planned on replying sooner but totally forgot! Well I haven't worked much out yet tbh but I am starting reading a book called "breath" by James nestor (mainly for my flute playing but it could be relevant esp with your meditation things) talking about how we've all "forgotten how to breath" in the modern age and what to do about it, not very far in but it'll deffo be interesting!
This video is exactly what I need right now. Thank you Jade, for everything
Same
I literally less than a week ago made a decision that would change my life and would be the first decision I’ve made that is actually mine. I’m not sure it will pan out but it feels really good to finally do this for myself no matter what people tell me in that I will never be able to succeed due to previous personal circumstances. I’m honestly so scared but it also finally feels like I’m living ❤️
We need to get Jade to 1 million subs by christmas 🦋🦋
STOP THIS WOULD BE THE COOLEST 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
I am 27 and still going through this uncertainty. I graduated from my undergrad in 2018 and had that same crisis so I jumped into a year of service program and then I went straight into my masters while working and then after all of that finished and after I was so unsatisfied and unfulfilled in that job, I’m back in that uncertainty mindset. I am now about to leave for a year of teaching in Spain, which is a dream I’ve always had. I feel like I’m late to the game of following those dreams, that I should be set in a life and starting a family now, but I’m trying to get away from shoulding myself because like you said, there’s no one-size-fits-all life. I think we go through this phase of uncertainty at many stages in life and I think you give wonderful tips on how to embrace it! Our lives don’t have to mirror those around us. We can create our own path, and sometimes those paths may line up again, but we should do it out of choice, and not out of fear of following our own path.
I am also hoping to teach in Spain for a year to take that leap and be fearless! I wish you best of luck in your journey ❤
I cannot thank you enough. This video has summed up the emotional rollercoaster I have been on for the last 6 months. My experience in school was much the same; the academic type, school captain, involved in so many extra things to the point where I was constantly busy, but this business provided a sense of purpose and stability that made me feel safe and secure. I finished high school last year and went straight into uni because it matched up with the linear journey I was on. Just two weeks into my degree, I was already having doubts. I think I knew it didn't feel right from the start but I had been ignoring my intuition. I decided that I didn't want to live a life where I deprived myself of what I truly wanted, so I deferred my degree and moved to the other side of the world with a working holiday visa. I have been trying to lean into the joy of spontaneity and the excitement of the unknown, but the fear and doubt that comes with walking a more pathless path has certainly had its challenges. Thank you for sharing the beauty that comes with uncertainty, and for reminding me that I am not alone in this journey ✨💕
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Please also NEVER forget: What life looks like today doesn’t dictate what it must look like tomorrow. Far too often we, as individuals, get stuck in the mindset of: Well, this is what I chose, when the truth is actually ALWAYS; this is what I chose right now but tomorrow I have the ability to choose again and start on a new path too. So long as there is tomorrow, it is NEVER too late. NEVER.
My uncertainty was in 2021 during the midst of the pandemic, thinking if I came back to England would I want to do something better to help others. Now here we are and I start university 5 weeks tomorrow to become a nurse. I listened to that inner uncertainty and changed it to a reality.
Hi Jade, i really need this video!!!! I made the mistake of avoiding the uncertainty and rushed into a new job right after graduation despite feeling soooo wrong about it. And now i'm burnt out, just quit my job and i'm facing with a huge amount of uncertainty i thought i would never been able to handle. This video just makes me feel more grounded and trusted in my upcoming uncertain time
I really appreciate the sentiment and I understand how you are trying to (and probably will) improve people’s mindsets here. However, I think characterising poverty and passport strength as a “scarcity mindset” under-appreciates the real struggles that people without privileges go through. For lots of us watching this video, perhaps the options are infinite. But the fact that (limited) scholarships and access programmes exist does not mean that a person can necessarily access opportunities by changing their mindset. I worry that focussing on individual mindset sidelines the importance of systemic change in improving the lives of the underprivileged.
I’m sure that it wasn’t your intention to come across like that though and I have been really enjoying your content lately.
hi! one book that really helped boost my confidence in making decisions is 'Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway' by Susan Jeffers. she introduces two simple graphs to show how we often think of decisions as having a 'right' and 'wrong' path (but even choosing the right path is stressful because you can't possible make every right decision in life). So the better way to think of decisions with A and B paths, is that from every oppurtunity you win/ learn something different (skills, people, money, oppurtunities etc). it's a good read for understanding fear and uncertaintly. could be added to the concepts you introduced 😊 i recommended it, even just to skim through it.
I’ve just finished reading this book! It’s so good
Your comment made me order the book! Can’t wait to read it ☺️
@@jenniferkang7629ME TOO!❤
Not so long ago I realized that studying abroad is what I’ve always wanted. The upcoming studying year is going to be my final year of university where I’m currently studying. Even though I’m very grateful for the opportunity to study there, I’ve never liked it, it has never felt right, I’ve never could relate to my classmates because they actually enjoyed it (most of the time) but I’ve always felt like I am not where I am supposed to be.
I’ve been feeling very upset for the past couple of weeks. Today, something just told me to watch something by Jade. And here I am, and I am very grateful.
Thank you, Jade! You made me feel a lot better. You truly are a wonderful, magical person💕 Thank you for everything that you do!
To be honest with you, I haven’t been keeping up with your content regularly for some time now… but I never unsubscribed. I’ve seen all your videos pop up as you post them but just haven’t been watching. We don’t have any beef I promise haha, I just didn’t feel pulled to keep up. But like I said, I never unsubscribed. I never found a reason to. I have had many times when I go through my subscribed list and clean it up, but I never had the slightest thought to unsubscribe to you. Not once. And today, I saw your most recent video pop up, and I thought, “it’s definitely an unjaded jade vibe.”. I went to your channel to find a video and boom. This title.
I graduated high school in June of 2022 and took a gap year. I didn’t do any traveling or anything but it has been, by far, the most transformative, busy year of my life. Since January, by the end of every month (sometimes much earlier even) I think “this has been the craziest month of my life”… until the next month gets rolling. All eight months so far, every single one has topped the last in this way and now I’m here. Peace. True neutrality. Uncertainty. I’ve been sitting in it for just a few days but it’s been really really hard. I didn’t know it but I’ve been sat in a scarcity mindset. And this video. This video showed me there’s another way.
I may never know how deeply this moment will impact me over time, but right now, it’s everything. Thank you so much for continuing to grow here. I feel so grateful to have found your content so long ago because now you’ve helped me again. More than you could ever know. Thank you. 😊💗
thank you so much for this video jade. it resonated sooo much with me and with what i´ve been feeling recently. although we all know deep inside us what we want our life to look like, it´s hard to listen to our intuition and not to follow our parents/socity´s expectations. at a time where i feel lost, i´ve been trying to have an abundance mindset, believing that i can always choose what my life looks like and that everything that is meant for me will eventually come.
Awwww Jade I'm a few years older than you so I know different and stressful finishing uni can feel. But thanks for bringing so much insightful content to my life. Even when things are tough I always think of what you told me about Growth Mindsets and Waking Up Early. I really got into waking up early in 2019 so thank you for the 4 years of influence. But yes I've had the worst outcomes of decisions yet you've picked myself up and got back in the race. There is way more out there than people really think! For example I was bullied at work. But I used that experience to become a trade union rep. Now I've met so many amazing people and the trade union work brings me joy every time I do it. That woman who bullied me will never know how much I've helped other people, learned from other people, been to new places. Thanks ❤🎉
Thanks Jade for this video. I really need this right now. One cool trick I have learned recently: Flip a coin between two choices if you are disappointed with the results you know which answer you wanted all along.
Siempre llegas en el momento adecuado, Jade. No te conozco personalmente, pero transmites una vibra muy bonita y me hace seguir adelante.
You and Ali Abdaal were motivational source for me as well as mentor, thank you sister.
I’ve learned so much from Ali too! Glad you’ve gained value from our journeys 🤍
@@UnJadedJade ☺️thanks again.
For someone who dreams too much sometimes, imagining your life and then comparing it can also be quite a painful process, like how to deal with the fact that its not like your ‘dream’ or that certain things are indeed out of reach like loved ones that have gone or political situations that restrict your life- I agree that a scarcity mindset is unhelpful, but what we are never taught is how to deal with pain that comes with uncertainty
JADEEEE I CRIED. JADE. I CRIED. this gave me flashbacks of the time i used to watch your videos right before exams and during the exam season- just like you showed in your videos, i used to write affirmations like "i am worthy and capable of achieving all my academic and life goals. i am confident about my vision and goals, i believe and love myself" over and over in my journal along with my daily study goals, i was so scared and nervous during my 10th grade final examinations season(they're looked at as 'important' in my country as well) but your book and your videos gave me the hope and strength no other resource could manage to give. you are the reason why i used to visualize myself 'walking into the examination hall confidently and calmly solving the paper, believing that i will remember answers to all questions eventually'. and now i just started 11th grade, AND LITERALLY FEW DAYS AGO i was crying and crying because i wasn't so sure about my future goals(i had been very sick and hadn't been to school for a while so i had a lot of time to think); i want to go to film school but that path seems so blurry and i was so scared, scared that i might fail, that i might never get to be a director or get to go to film school and even if i do there's no guarantee i will earn enough for a living, etc i talked with my mom it's all okay now(i am okay with the fear. i am still going to try my best with the film school plan, i promise. i won't give up. ) but THIS this video is exactly what i needed. now, i don't know much but over time i've learnt that listening to you and trusting that the universe will support and guide me gives me a sense of comfort i wouldn't trade for anything. jade, your content, your story has helped me SO MUCH throughout my life i can't put it in words. it's so strange how different our lives are, we live in different countries yet somehow your content has always found a way of helping me immensely through difficult times. and for that i truly, genuinely, want to thank you with all my heart for being so honest and sharing your story, i can assure you- you have truly helped "at least one person" here(me). thankyou, truly, you are incredible, a sister i always wished to have, i love the internet for giving me that.
Wow! Love from India!❤
I don't think I've ever come across a person as inspirational and motivating as you, I'm new to your channel but I already value it so much, I will definitely be coming back to those videos in times of self-doubt when I will need your words. Thank you for doing this!
Wow, this video couldn't have come at a better time for me! I recently graduated and have been feeling overwhelmed by all the uncertainty that comes with this phase of life. The tips here are incredibly helpful. Practicing gratitude and adopting a growth mindset have already made a big difference in how I approach challenges.
Thank you, Jade. I watched this video two months ago and I couldn't totally relate to what you said. However, after my graduation, I've been feeling insecure about many things in life. Rewatching this video means a lot to me, and I strongly appreciate your video.
This is exactly what I need right now! Feeling so depressed and overstimulated with decision making right now... I have to decide between studying, working or just quiting and it is so hard... I just have no purpose right now and don't know what to do
Thank you for having the courage to be so vulnerable and open with us. You're really great
Such a brilliant video Jade! Everyone at all stages of life needs reminding of this, especially given the events of recent years. An abundance mindset is always the way forward, but highlighting how we're stuck in scarcity is that first, very important step to heightened awareness and desire to change. Loved your little doodles too - Life path C.5 made me smile 😉xx
I just finished your video on your 10-day meditation and I’m so happy to see this upload!! ❤
Thank you Jade. There are no words to describe how much your video topics resonate with me. I… thank you. Just thank you 🙏🏻 ❤
With results day coming next week this is a much needed video for me at the moment. Uncertainty is something I really struggle with especially in academics/career path. Thank you Jade!
thank you SO much for this! your idea of uncertainty is beyond insightful and your words are so wise. keep on shining, you’re a light in this world.
THANK YOU SO MUCH JADE. i needed this rn so badly. ur an amazing human. we love you and da content you make
I am also going through this graduation/uncertainty phase and just wanted to thank you for your videos, this one and all of the rest. You are so inspiring and your videos have been comforting throughout many periods in my undergraduate degree. So thank you, you're awesome!
I love the way you edit and create your videos. It really shows how much you love creating and helping people 🥺❤️
I'm 22 and I'm graduating college at the end of this year, so I'm already worrying about uncertainty... I'm going to start implementing the abundance mentality now.
Thank you sm Jade, have an amazing week ✨
This spoke to me so much sweet Jade. I'm fully emmersing myself in German these days to learn it but I allow myself to watch your videos, because they're so valuable, authentic, and relatable. Love! 🦋
useful and heartwarming as always, thank you so much dear jade, sending you a big hug!
this was sooo inspirational
You are amazing jade! Thanks for this💛
This is on the time!!! I needed this 🦋💌 Jade oh Jade you are so inspirational and intelligent ✨ Lots of love❤️
i cannot put into words how great your videos are. your perspective on this phase of uncertainty helps me so much to slow down a bit, and grow into a better mindset that helps me getting through my own uncertainties. right now, i’m just about to jump into uni and i feel just like how you describe it: so many options, and no “correct” answers. i love how you described the mindset of dreaming and positive thinking as such a helping and useful mindset, instead of unrealistic / stupid - what we’re often taught. i guess what i’m trying to say is keep going, your channel is so helpful and meaningnful to many of us❤️ xx
Jade this video pierced through my heart ❤️ I've been trying to embrace uncertainty and had several gap years. No one around me was able to understand it because I was a top student and I was constantly judged. You voiced what I wanted to say for so long. I'm applying for unis next year at the age of 23 never thought I'd share my life on a UA-cam corner but it's your corner and it's been my safe space since your A level days.. We're continents apart but u made me feel connected thank you.
This video is simply mind-boggling , thanks Jade❤💫
Jade- such a good, timely topic and love the idea of uncertainty as a gift and as a blank canvas! Something I find that helps me- focussing less on finding a defined path, and more on picking a “door” that seems interesting and likely to lead to a bunch of other interesting “doors”. Wishing you the very best during this season of life! You’ve got this. ❤
I like how you formalated it. Yea, navigating through uncertainty always starts with accepting to land into an undefined land by using our our creativity and divergent thinking. The more we train our creativity network, the more we will not be affraid to venture in the unknown and it gives more adrenaline to discover something we did not expect.
For example: They are people who learn things through books or people by getting the information directlt, but others might find the information by themselves through exploration of the make or experience.
I guess you are making a reference to lateral thinking which is finding different areas to "approfondir", rather than learning more in an area or sublimating what we already know.
@@lorenzocreation3262 you’ve extended these thoughts in a great way 😀 also connects to the topic of confidence- e.g., I don’t know what comes next, but I am confident in my ability to navigate it and more broadly, the unknown.
hi jade !! what a comforting and reassuring video ✨ i'm in the exact same position as you now, 23, just graduated, feeling the pressure/rush to enter the workforce or study a masters...but your video just validated my feelings of needing rest and recovery before the next 'life stage' 🌷thank you so much sister xxx
this is what i needed right now
🦋Jade I just wanted to tell you that you 've impacted my life and continue to in such a positive way. You sometimes say something and it happens to be what I needed to hear at that moment, a slight perspective change in mindest which however means so much, or you give me ideas for the future. For example I was soo excited watching your interrail videos back in the day and last I went interrailing myself too. I don't know if I would have known about it in such detail had it not been for you. Now after your last video I know I really would like to do vipassana one day. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and life with us I am so grateful to you for doing it🦋
I graduated from my Bachelor (business) over two years ago. First, my intuition told me to stay home, so I just took a job at a bookstore to make some money. Then, found a Master (social studies) in Korea, applied, went to Korea for 3 months, came home, worked in event management. Realized it's not for me. But also didn't go to Korea, even though I got accepted. Gut feeling told me so. Worked for the last 8 months with people with disabilities. Loved it. Gut feeling told me Korea is still what I need to do. Leaving in 2 weeks to start my Master. I was also uncertain, but I have tried and found things that I like and things I don't. I got to get to know myself better. 😊
Hi Jade, I really enjoyed this video!! have been watching you since my junior year of hs and now I'm entering my junior year of college hehe ü
what i'm about to write is with the intention of constructive feedback. I'm thrilled you're getting so many sponsorships but I personally feel iffy about you agreeing to be sponsored by betterhelp over and over. this last year they have been exposed as a really noxious company that cares very little about clients' well-being - i encourage you to do your research if necessary. i really don't think they align with the positivity and selflessness you preach and practice, and wish you wouldn't give them a bigger platform. i sooo understand that youtube is your job and u gotta get the bag, but please don't sacrifice your values in the process. sending you love and clarity ! xx
you're truly an inspiration, I really thank you with my whole heart💖 i really needed to hear it
Jade I have been a long time viewer and thank you for just being so optimistic and truthful about knowing that it’s okay to not know what you’re doing. I’m opening a coffee shop in 2 days and I’m like oh my gosh the perfectionist in me is screaming, but there’s so much growth and change that I am excited for! Thank you for this ❤
this is such a needed video. everyone really need to watch this at some point of their life.
Thank you for this. I recently had to make a very hard decision that completely changed my life and I stressed for months about which was the right decision. It is so difficult to decide when you think there is a good choice and that you have to find it. And everything always gets better when you just take the pressure off and sit with yourself in silence listening to your gut
As someone who just graduated from college, this was just what I needed to hear. Thank you so much for this video! 🥰
I don't think I've ever discovered a person who completely understands exactly what I'm going through! Completely thanks to you, I am going to be applying to the next available vipassana service near me. I've decided to meditate during my free time instead of distracting myself with attention-captivating online content or participating in harmful behaviors like obsessing over food and exercise; to believe that I CAN heal from my problems and thrive; and to sit in the insecurity with an abundance mindset and build the life and future that I want instead of settling for less. I love you!
Lieve Jade, ik herken dit zo! Ik probeer daarom ook de onzekerheid te omarmen. Tot nu toe heeft het me al veel moois gebracht, en ik weet zeker dat het nog veel moois zal brengen. Je doet het goed! Liefs uit Nederland ❤
I love this energy so much
I feel like this video popped up for me today. In 4 days I’m setting out to leave for military boot camp. It has been my dream since I was a child, I’m finally gonna train to be an army doctor. I’m beginning to feel slightly scared, because I recently just have my first real holiday in years, finally have free time, and now I’m going to a place that is hot as hell to train and study my butt off again, but in a different way. I feel excited as well as mildly overwhelmed already. Thank you so much for your videos, Jade, congrats on your graduation!❤️
Omg I need this so bad right now!! I feel like I am lost in a hole. It's scaring me. So thank you for your video!!
Thank u this really helped me rethink how I should choose my major. Between the conflict of society expectations and my ideal major or even dreams I hope one day I can achieve. Thank you. But uncertainty is scary though.
I just love your content soooo much. I was inspired by you to do an exchange and I think it is interesting to see how you are going through the same situations as I am. I actually hate uncertainty and I feel like this year has been plagued by it and it has taken a toll on me. Sometimes I worry about things I cannot control. I made a mistake that will make things take longer for me but I really want to follow my heart and follow my dreams. I just don't know how to do that without being a burden but anyways, thank you for being my comfort space and kind of like the person I follow and look up to. 💕💕🌟
Thankyou for this! I’m 15 and I’m planning to move away for senior year next year, and I’ve been really anxious. This helped me so much.
Thank you, I was having the worst day and this has made me feel a million times better! xx
the universe conspires in my favor ✨ is going straight on my notion homepage
You're the best Jade❤
Such a beautiful video! Loved it !! Thank you Jade
Thank you jade for this video 🩷
NEEEEDED this - just finished uni, jumped into freelance and its been SOO like uncertain? perfect word to use - part of me wanted to just give up and go into what's easy, but easy never necessarily means its the right thing to do! So I've been sticking it out with freelance as that's what's making me happy :) Genuinely felt so alone with this so this video is so refreshing
sometimes it‘s easy to think that I am the only person feeling a certain way, but watching this video and reading the comments has me made realize that I‘m not alone:) thank you Jade!
I recently graduated high school and went through a MAJOR depressive episode of my life. It really fucked with the academics. I applied to a lot of universities and got rejected by the majority of them. Now my only option is to attend a university I did not want to attend. On top of this, I'm not sure what I want to study for my uni. All I know is I do want to experience uni. This uncertainty and self-doubt is scary. I don't know what to do. This video was everything, Jade. Thank you so much. 💕
Thanks for this reminder, I needed to hear this 💫
Thank you jade for this video ❤❤❤
I don't know what would I do if ur channle does not excist!!
Big love for u and every single word you've said in this vid❤
Thank u Jade
Thank u alot.
You are so charming and such a great motivation 😊 I really appreciate your work ❤ thanks a lot for everything
Hi Jade! I really enjoy your videos they resonate so much with me! I never really comment on videos but I just had this feeling I wanted to tell you how much your videos help! I moved abroad and in a state of uncertainty while also looking for new friendships where I’m living and I hope to find friends who vibrate this energy I get from your videos even though I don’t know you personally! You always shine ✨✨🫶
I love you Jade…. Thank you so much for this
Jade!
Thank you for this video. It was in my opinion one of the best and impacful ones you have made (tied with the Casual Magic video). So much wisdom and I agree with you in your reasoning. I have faced many moments of uncertainty in my life and have felt so alone but I feel so proud that I have let the uncertainty be there until I feel in my gut that the next decision is good and right for me. It has allowed me to grow and align more with my goals and dreams. Thank you again Jade for sharing your optimism and energy!
All the best,
Johanna from Sweden
thank you for this video jade
you are my fav youtuber! love you jade! from peru
urghhh this video was such an experience ❤.thank you so much for sharing 😊
I needed this. Thank you, Jade. ♡
like baby queen said ''we can be anything'' "A life devoid of meaning
Is a life of total freedom"
Omg. Thanks so much, I really needed to hear this. I'll be leaving for Morocco in January and I've been so full of uncertainty mainly cause I'll have to learn French from scratch but that's not such a bad thing cause everyone started from scratch as well
This video is all I needed today ❤
Maybe you could write a book about all the struggles you faced and are still facing during and after university. Talk about the good times as well as the bad. I think that would be an enrichment to so many people!!
Thank you so much for this video xx
This video really spoke to me ❤thank you so much
thank u so much!!!! I really needed to hear this
Thank you for this video. This is exactly what i need as i dont know what my next step is.
Like many other commenters, this video came at exactly the right time for me. It is wonderful to be re-reminded of these truths
Exactly!😌❤️🎈
Love ur videos jade..you keep inspiring me❤👍
This is so relevant. Thank you for sharing
Hi Jade ✨
This is Rayisha from India! I must say...this video has been dropped in at just the right time. 🌟I recently graduated from my University and am currently looking for jobs since that's what we are "supposed to do." I am afraid that I don't know what kind of life I envision for myself 🤔but for sure I know the feeling: FREEDOM 💫...be free and in control of my time and how I utilize it! Have no idea where is life gonna take me, but I hope it'll all turn out okay in the end. Loads of things to worry about, yet loads of things to be thankful for! 😇
Thank you Jade for sharing your thoughts so openly! 💕
Love,
Rayisha ☮
Heyyy jade I hope your doing alright? I’m in my last year of O-level (my exams are in Oct/Nov 2023) and have been watching u a lot for sometime. I’m at a current point in my life where I’m stressing about exams, yet at the same time thinking about the future. Unlike some, I don’t have a certain area or subject which I think I excel at or love, so I still have no clue what to do for A levels next, though I have talked to many I still am clueless. Thank you for talking about this ^^
Thank you Jade
As a younger person, it's reassuring to gain insights into how situations unfold for older ones, as it equips us with the ability to handle them more effectively.
Such School of Life viiiiibe ❤ Love it
As a teacher i can say you’d be a great teacher
the truth in the vudeo is so all relatable !