Men, Without These 3 Things YOU Will Keep Failing

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 569

  • @TheRoommatesPodcast
    @TheRoommatesPodcast  3 роки тому +30

    Be sure to hit the subscribe button and get the manhood course here: roommatesshop.com/

    • @bowskee
      @bowskee 3 роки тому

      roommates carrying youtube

    • @RarecuisineGaming
      @RarecuisineGaming 3 роки тому

      How long will it be on sale?

    • @andrethomas155
      @andrethomas155 3 роки тому

      @@RarecuisineGaming hopefully till the rest of the month

    • @hipsister4777
      @hipsister4777 3 роки тому

      As a male feminists you represent the voice of feminism which is primarily an interest of lesbian women, and therefore part of the war on men. This is just a bait and switch for your perverted ideology.

    • @3zooz17
      @3zooz17 3 роки тому

      Is that your house from the intro?

  • @traywaters1575
    @traywaters1575 3 роки тому +658

    This year, I have been going to the gym 4 times a week, making all the food I eat, stopped porn watching, broke up with my toxic gf, prioritizing school, and working to get my funds up. It’s all about willpower and this channel truly opened my eyes. Cannot appreciate it enough🙏🏽

    • @noeldiaz4933
      @noeldiaz4933 3 роки тому +25

      I’m proud of you big dog. Keep going.

    • @marcelchalobah7946
      @marcelchalobah7946 3 роки тому +18

      I stopped watching porn end of 2019

    • @CraftedByAidan
      @CraftedByAidan 3 роки тому +11

      Proud of you bro, funnily enough I've had a similar transition, keep up the grind bro, we're all going to get there together 🤙

    • @dallasbrat81
      @dallasbrat81 3 роки тому +6

      Good job sir, physical exercise does the body good. It helps you emotionally and intellectualy as well .

    • @roronora
      @roronora 3 роки тому +7

      Porn is awesome, I ain't ever stopping that. Salute for all the other improvements though 💯🔥

  • @lawsofpower1217
    @lawsofpower1217 3 роки тому +356

    Lost 30 lbs in 2 months . Eating clean , working out every day And getting my money up . Value yourself

    • @semenjones3282
      @semenjones3282 3 роки тому +7

      Damn bro good job

    • @Bigtank9401
      @Bigtank9401 3 роки тому +6

      I'm right there with you Losing weight and toning up. I got 15lbs in just about 2 weeks. Keep up the Good work 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @semenjones3282
      @semenjones3282 3 роки тому +3

      @@Bigtank9401 how y'all doing 15ibs in two weeks y'all got the super sauce??

    • @Bigtank9401
      @Bigtank9401 3 роки тому +6

      @@semenjones3282 Naw, I dropped it by just drinking water while I'm at work or just eating healthy choices. Cut out Snacks for the Most part and just went from there. I also walk alot while I'm at work so...

    • @semenjones3282
      @semenjones3282 3 роки тому +2

      @@Bigtank9401 bet

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 роки тому +813

    A man who lacks purpose, distracts himself with pleasure.

    • @marcelchalobah7946
      @marcelchalobah7946 3 роки тому +13

      bruh you crack me up lol

    • @kc270352
      @kc270352 3 роки тому +2

      @@marcelchalobah7946 lool 🤣

    • @jayjenkins4060
      @jayjenkins4060 3 роки тому +24

      @UA-cam fanxx Smith that’s a weak mans excuse

    • @marcelchalobah7946
      @marcelchalobah7946 3 роки тому +15

      @@kc270352 he comments on every channel roommates, Austin Dunham, AMS, fresh n fit. I'm not hating but dudes a clown.

    • @RarecuisineGaming
      @RarecuisineGaming 3 роки тому +8

      This explains my life. Damn.

  • @BCastillo718
    @BCastillo718 3 роки тому +170

    1.Purpose
    2.A plan for that purpose
    3.Proof that you’re taking tangible steps toward reaching your purpose

  • @malikshwehdi1210
    @malikshwehdi1210 3 роки тому +23

    I had to work 3 jobs 66h/week for 2 years whilst studying aviation full time in order to pave my own way towards becoming A pilot. Everyone at the program told me it’s impossible without rich folks or A big loan. I finished with A prestigious award from the biggest regional airline in Canada, and the only student in that school’s history to ever do it. Nothing is impossible when you’re determined.

    • @infinite540
      @infinite540 3 роки тому +4

      Awesome story, keep killing it bro you deserve the best.

    • @malikshwehdi1210
      @malikshwehdi1210 3 роки тому

      @@infinite540 much appreciated 🙏🏽

    • @50rads
      @50rads 3 роки тому +1

      Only impossible for ordinary people

    • @joakim1645
      @joakim1645 2 роки тому

      Thats huge man, very inspirational!

  • @davidmatthewshields419
    @davidmatthewshields419 3 роки тому +41

    This year I moved to a new city, working a job I like 50-60 hours a week, started BJJ and Salsa, gym 3-4x a week, joined Toastmasters to practise public speaking and now 82 days on nofap

    • @BigHeadUgly
      @BigHeadUgly 3 роки тому +1

      ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

    • @Nykoooo1
      @Nykoooo1 3 роки тому

      When do you even sleep?

  • @Don6six
    @Don6six 3 роки тому +120

    If you have no life purpose, just make getting in the best shape of your life the goal. Simple, you work on discipline and consistency when no one is looking

    • @awrjkf
      @awrjkf 3 роки тому +17

      Yes you can start with fitness as your purpose, then you can expand to other goals: gaining knowledge, learning a new language, spirituality, investments, musical instruments, career, etc.

    • @semenjones3282
      @semenjones3282 3 роки тому +12

      That's what I'm doing I'm 16 and didnt know what to do when I started watching 2 months ago so I just started working out 5 days a week bc I have so much free time its horrid. Now I'm studying for my driver's license and applying a job soon

    • @awrjkf
      @awrjkf 3 роки тому +8

      @@semenjones3282 You go boy! If you are only 16 and have this type of knowledge and motivation, you are sure to be on the path of success.

    • @mylesharris51
      @mylesharris51 3 роки тому

      Fitness isn’t enough but it’s nice. Get those finances first. Resources are more powerful than muscles.

    • @semenjones3282
      @semenjones3282 3 роки тому

      @@QMS9224 I play video games, watch porn and smoke weed and I still can do school, study, do homework and apply for jobs and study finance it's actually nuts.

  • @Rico-wp3qj
    @Rico-wp3qj 3 роки тому +55

    Brother, that book changed my life. I exercise 2h everyday and run 10 miles on Sundays.

  • @Axiomatic75
    @Axiomatic75 3 роки тому +52

    This year I started working out again (5-6 times a week), stopped smoking, stopped watching porn, stopped masturbating (well, almost) and started exploring new ways to make money as my business is tourism related and pretty much dead since covid. Leveling up one step at a time.

    • @teckzilla108
      @teckzilla108 3 роки тому +1

      Great. Keep at it!!!

    • @jr_hng863
      @jr_hng863 3 роки тому +4

      Woah, 5-6 times i think that may be too much. Rest days are important for building muscles as well bro. Anyway keep building up your life broo rooting for you

    • @Axiomatic75
      @Axiomatic75 3 роки тому +3

      @@jr_hng863 My workouts are short (20-30 minutes) so 5-6 days works fine. I agree that if you workout for an hour or more you need more rest time.

    • @jr_hng863
      @jr_hng863 3 роки тому

      Daz cool broo, keep leveling up!!😁

    • @QMS9224
      @QMS9224 3 роки тому +2

      Masturbating is actually healthy (any muscle needs to be used in order to maintain). It's more the porn that can be destructive.

  • @zanebrite
    @zanebrite 3 роки тому +142

    Rule #1…don’t be afraid of losing anyone…

    • @samuelestevez6535
      @samuelestevez6535 3 роки тому

      That doesnt work all the time... stop saying bullshit you dont know about

    • @zanebrite
      @zanebrite 3 роки тому +13

      At some point you I and everyone els will have to leave this earth and our relationship/s,love ones and everything els…you sound very immature by your statement I must say…my msg to you is learn to let go man

    • @samuelestevez6535
      @samuelestevez6535 3 роки тому +1

      @@zanebrite i sound immature cuz i dont agree with you thats it and obviously i dont mean attach yourself to everything are u dumb? Its healthy to be attached to certain things(not people) bc if your not afraid to lose it you never loved it in the first place. Im gonna be a ranger. I need to depend and attach myself to my guys bc if not how I am gonna sacrifice my life for them if it comes down to it. Thats the rare inatances where i attach myself to people. So check yourself

    • @zanebrite
      @zanebrite 3 роки тому +6

      @@samuelestevez6535 Nope…you sound immature cause you said that I’m sayin bullsh!t…I don’t need you to agree with me or anybody els… it’s is healthy to have a certain “mind set” towards certain things…not attachments…because if you never had it in the first place you are not afraid to lose it…you are using the word love…are you dumb? And then you said you don’t attach yourself to “(not people)”… and yet you said “ I need to depend and attach my self to my guys bc…”…no man you need to check YOURSELF… and what you just said…✌️

    • @kapall3021
      @kapall3021 3 роки тому +5

      @@samuelestevez6535 yeah you sound a little immature

  • @scottsevits9408
    @scottsevits9408 3 роки тому +10

    I am 55, working 2 jobs to get my money up, 2 months ago i cut all junk food from my diet and am planning on starting an exercise routine. I am also working to become debt free and have 1 debt left.

  • @OneAndOnlyRoRo
    @OneAndOnlyRoRo 3 роки тому +85

    Purpose Plan Proof
    Purpose Plan Proof
    Purpose Plan Proof
    Purpose Plan Proof
    Purpose Plan Proof
    Making sure it sticks in the brain

  • @mazey2fresh605
    @mazey2fresh605 3 роки тому +11

    Focus on yourself women only hang at the finish line if she ain’t with you in your worst she shouldn’t be allowed to be there at the finish line

  • @evanatbri-s13
    @evanatbri-s13 3 роки тому +35

    Every purpose has a plan built in It, otherwise It would be just a dream. I would day my 3 are:
    1. Integrity
    2. Character
    3. Purpose

  • @Mcbevhills
    @Mcbevhills 3 роки тому +141

    I was actually on my purpose and then got the girl and totally lost my way towards my purpose. Being single again and back to focusing on my purpose and no longer making her my new purpose, feels great. Dont lose your purpose for a female fellas.... They'll try to make you lose it while they're just hustling you the whole time. Women hustle, men love. Once we understand that dynamic then we can adjust and act accordingly. I didn't wanna accept that reality. Oops

    • @SMARAGH20
      @SMARAGH20 3 роки тому +33

      Nah you just had the wrong girl. I personally never heard that before. Instead I've heard of the right women helping their partners to their purpose faster. Just be careful next time in who you choose.

    • @Mcbevhills
      @Mcbevhills 3 роки тому +10

      @@SMARAGH20 yeah man she is a covert narcissist. The world revolves around her and she had no awareness or care of how her behavior impacted me or any man from her past. I'm out now. It was hard to get out but I did. I did have the wrong one though. That's a hard fact.

    • @SMARAGH20
      @SMARAGH20 3 роки тому +8

      @@Mcbevhills that makes a lot of sense. I'm sorry that happened to you bc it happened to my female friends and dating a narcissistic is horrible but at least you know what to look out for next time. Wish you the best and even as a woman saying this, we are helpers.
      We have purpose too but also should be helping our partners towards theirs!

    • @mauricedavis1740
      @mauricedavis1740 3 роки тому +15

      you have to maintain your focus even when your in a relationship. I made that same mistake in the past but i realized after awhile it wasn’t the girl it was me. I’m the one who lost focus and made HER the center of everything. If you get off your purpose because of her it’s because you let it happen, she can’t make you do anything...

    • @sagatuppercut2960
      @sagatuppercut2960 3 роки тому +5

      Tom Leykis used to say, "Women are dream killers."

  • @DirectorNasty
    @DirectorNasty 3 роки тому +147

    4 years ago broke, over 600lbs, no direction...now 340, masters degree, poppin on all socials, and ballin in the background! I hope yall men listening here, cause proof is in the pudding

    • @jayscales3133
      @jayscales3133 3 роки тому +5

      Let’s go!

    • @TonyLevon
      @TonyLevon 3 роки тому +5

      This made me smile my G

    • @akbarisapaki
      @akbarisapaki 3 роки тому +1

      Happy for you my brother. Keep it up

    • @greychickenoodles9710
      @greychickenoodles9710 3 роки тому +4

      LMAO of course a 340lb dude had to make a food analogy 🤣no disrespect, still proud of you king ‼️❤️🙌

    • @TonyLevon
      @TonyLevon 3 роки тому +2

      @@greychickenoodles9710 you funny. lol

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 роки тому +11

    The best career advice that I learned is don’t ever attach your-self to a PERSON, a place, a company, an organization or a project. Only Attach your-self to your mission in life and your PURPOSE. That’s how you keep your power and keep your peace!

    • @narutov4
      @narutov4 3 роки тому +1

      Had to learn this the hard way recently, even people you thought as friends can drop you with it comes to clout and money and women.

    • @benjaminsnyder5878
      @benjaminsnyder5878 3 роки тому

      You've posted this one so much I did a short podcast on this advice

  • @samanderson1650
    @samanderson1650 3 роки тому +18

    Man, it's crazy how similar my path is to how you described yours. I became a re-born Christian at 19 and felt immediately called to lead young men, so I got into education and coaching. I want to start my own channel, but I feel like I'm still kind of stuck in the planning stage as far as that goes. I'm looking to get something going this summer though, take that first step. I appreciate this message. You're an inspiration, for real.

  • @jasonrodriguez9935
    @jasonrodriguez9935 3 роки тому +11

    Love how you hold us accountable. No one is doing it like you guys. Keep it up!

  • @SMARAGH20
    @SMARAGH20 3 роки тому +18

    As a woman listening to this it was a great video!!! It even reminds me as a go-getter to get my plans moving forward as well!

    • @bowskee
      @bowskee 3 роки тому

      stay on your purpose 💯✊🏽

  • @David_Hammond
    @David_Hammond 3 роки тому +34

    This is facts damn. 💯🔥

  • @leratosword6594
    @leratosword6594 3 роки тому +93

    I like when Hafeez talks.

    • @rickydeddeh3892
      @rickydeddeh3892 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah Chris is good as well

    • @hipsister4777
      @hipsister4777 3 роки тому

      Not male feminists deserve nothing but contempt as they are the number 1 enemy of men on the planet

  • @andreaf.j9925
    @andreaf.j9925 3 роки тому +10

    I’m really glad for the amount of men who are literally here to listen what you have to say in order to better themselves No disrespect be happy and be successful with your life With peace and love good luck 🍀

  • @prestonneidig448
    @prestonneidig448 3 роки тому +13

    I just turned 18 a week ago and this just helped me think about what I want to do in the future thank you for helping me realize what I need to do with my life

  • @williamt1579
    @williamt1579 3 роки тому +42

    I had a plan, then life happened and threw my plans away. How do I get inspired to make new plans and how do I persevere through life’s obstacles?

    • @muhammadsaqib5427
      @muhammadsaqib5427 3 роки тому +8

      Sometimes we lost our path but it doesn't mean that life is over, Don't lose the spark, rethink your life again, imagine yourself at your best. Don't stop keep going even with baby steps.

    • @justins4274
      @justins4274 3 роки тому

      It’s so easy to do drugs and get the high when life is not going your way but you got to find others to help you stay motivated.

    • @repentorperish1386
      @repentorperish1386 3 роки тому +3

      You are thinking wrong. You ask how do i get inspired? I saw you must inspire yourself. Get pissed when you see someone with something you want. Get pissed when you dont have the money you want or job you want. Motivate yourself and then no matter what happens in life you can't lose motivation.

    • @kevincooper5656
      @kevincooper5656 3 роки тому +13

      "Inspired??" Maaannnn, if you don't get yo ass up and "DO" - to hell with "inspiration!" Trust me, Im an artist and there are days I'm not "inspired" to draw/paint. But you know what? I draw/paint ANYWAY. And a funny thing starts to occur: I start feeling good.....I start becoming "inspired." Whatever your plan was/is, dust it off and start "doing." I hope this little reply has "inspired" you! Now get up and get to work, damnit! (lol)

    • @brianthornton8781
      @brianthornton8781 3 роки тому +1

      @@kevincooper5656 facts 💯

  • @LoveLifeLiveLong
    @LoveLifeLiveLong 3 роки тому +2

    Man I fell into the trap of pleasing others. Completely consumed my prime years with strife and drama... I found my purpose through correcting my course and focusing on my ambitions. 💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

  • @pete6300
    @pete6300 3 роки тому +7

    My first thought was "really, how could someone not have a plan'. I agree with the premise. I think part of the problem is school is basically funneling people into college with little experience to find their actual passion.

  • @nirmalkhirani5089
    @nirmalkhirani5089 3 роки тому +7

    What consistency by The Roommates! A video everyday!! You guys are easily crossing a million by the end of this year 💯

  • @karatjuicepodcast
    @karatjuicepodcast 3 роки тому +5

    I think it’s safe to say you’ve found your purpose Hafeez! Thanks for the knowledge. I’m on my journey as well ... not afraid of hiccups or speed bumps as long as I keep moving forward.

  • @emily-rosesimmons9819
    @emily-rosesimmons9819 3 роки тому +8

    So great for the younger generation! I wish I had found this years ago , finding myself being a better wife and mother with some of these clips 😊

  • @_1_2_34__
    @_1_2_34__ 3 роки тому +3

    1. Purpose
    2. Plan
    3. Proof

  • @DanielHerrera-hx6gp
    @DanielHerrera-hx6gp 3 роки тому +2

    Found my purpose at 17 to become a fed.
    Joined the army, got an associates while in the army, joined a PD after getting out. Next step is To finish the last 2 years of my bachelors and get 2-3 years of experience before I apply to a masters program and apply to a federal agency.

  • @joeuchiha1342
    @joeuchiha1342 3 роки тому +2

    Great video Hafeez.
    In my case, it started in 2012, with me wanting to be a doctor. Dad wanted me to be an engineer (welcome to India. You can be anything you want as long as you’re engineer or doctor (a joke)). So didnt clear the entrance exam at first. Decided to drop a year to study for it. Ridiculed by dad and friends by them trying to plant doubt in my head. Wasn’t deterred by the low marks in the mock tests as i knew that wouldn’t define me. Kept getting ridiculed even more. Exam comes and goes, results come and i get into a good medical college. Oh and it doesn’t stop there. Days of less sleep and lot of studying while enduring failure and shame. Finally graduated as a doctor in 2019 and got registered as a medical practitioner. Now studying for residency exam (which has been postponed indefinitely) to be an ophthalmologist.

  • @Cleav727
    @Cleav727 2 роки тому

    I actually really appreciate the super forward delivery of this message. Without accountability (proof) we are nothing and that point was really well made. Powerful stuff man.

  • @GreyHeir
    @GreyHeir 3 роки тому +23

    I'm the guy who doesn't have the proof yet. I'm working on it. Needed this video.

    • @ucbucb30
      @ucbucb30 3 роки тому +1

      Facts man 🙏🙏🙏

  • @Jp-gc6bh
    @Jp-gc6bh 3 роки тому +25

    I quit weed this week, will be working on myself

    • @MrMakemusicmike
      @MrMakemusicmike 3 роки тому +3

      I feel great since doing the same.
      Doing it rarely is better.

    • @isahia
      @isahia 3 роки тому

      Congrats !!

  • @obi.shinobi
    @obi.shinobi 3 роки тому +6

    Get out there guys and do different things to find your purpose. When you do, visualize, plan & execute. Always remember to enjoy the journey because good things take time. Good things wont happen overnight

  • @Damontk1d
    @Damontk1d 3 роки тому +8

    This video got me fucking hyped. I needed this today. Fulfillment of your short term goals makes the long term goals seems so much closer to your grasp. Keep pushing men 💪🏾.

  • @ajtaylor8750
    @ajtaylor8750 3 роки тому +35

    "The Way of the Superior Man" is one of the 5 books I credit with how I finally got on my purpose and started becoming the man I needed to be for myself and others. The amount of gems in that book is insane, and I would highly recommend it to any man looking for something to strike a fire in them.

    • @omni1562
      @omni1562 3 роки тому +1

      What are the other books sir?

    • @ajtaylor8750
      @ajtaylor8750 3 роки тому +2

      @@omni1562 They are "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho, "Atomic Habits" by James Clear, "The Laws of Human Nature" by Robert Greene, and "The Autobiography of Malcolm X."

    • @omni1562
      @omni1562 3 роки тому +1

      @@ajtaylor8750 thanks, i'll give those a read

  • @sterizomagaie7693
    @sterizomagaie7693 3 роки тому +3

    This can be summarized as such. Knowledge, Understanding, and Wisdom. The Purpose is Knowledge of what you're supposed to do. The Plan is Understanding of what the purpose means and what needs to be done. And Proof which is like Wisdom because wisdom is application of knowledge
    Good lesson!

  • @kobib7806
    @kobib7806 3 роки тому +4

    My favorite book The Way of the Superior Man! That book changed my life for the best! It helped me find my purpose and taught me that my purpose should alway come first.

  • @moodyknows3637
    @moodyknows3637 3 роки тому +1

    Man Hafeez you make me a better man every week. Carry on bro. It's all love from Zambia

  • @jacksonbriggs96
    @jacksonbriggs96 3 роки тому +5

    I'm definitely lacking in the man category. I have no motivation, goals, and absolutely no positive friends in my life. Well friends in general. 29, no kids haven't dated in 8 years. Ive known all the things in these videos since I was 17 but I've never been able to commit to anything. I hate everything and I'm not very social. I'm so lost it hurts. I literally feel empty. In my chest. In my soul.

    • @imboredas6381
      @imboredas6381 3 роки тому +3

      I am 25. I feel you. I still struggle too.
      All I can say for you is.. build on what you're lacking..
      Build your social skills! It will help you to find life partners.
      Build your money to achieve what you want.
      As long as your basic needs(food,house,bills) are fulfilled, other purposes will pop up along the way. Then you can choose what you really want to achieve.
      I hope my 2cents helps.
      You are not alone.

    • @Wonderwoman79G
      @Wonderwoman79G 3 роки тому

      Have you considered getting some support/therapy and getting advice from a Careers counselor.

    • @noo343
      @noo343 3 роки тому

      I am most of these things see I think my purpose is to be a prepper and I truly think the economy would take us to Mad Max so earning money right now really doesn't seem like a good idea cuz it will be worthless in 20 years also I have two good friends so I don't feel as bad as others I at least have a small pack I trust

    • @joemon7463
      @joemon7463 2 роки тому

      Hope you're doing better

  • @kandiloois2881
    @kandiloois2881 3 роки тому +3

    Good luck for you 🙌🏾 for guiding both women and men in the right direction

  • @appeljuicesurf
    @appeljuicesurf 3 роки тому +4

    purpose is KEY.

  • @Rundatbul
    @Rundatbul 3 роки тому +1

    The smack in the face I needed. I took a semester off college just to find myself. This video reminded me of the resources I have available to become successful. Time to draw my playbook. Thanks bruh.

  • @sirpoppinchuck
    @sirpoppinchuck 3 роки тому +2

    Great info!!!!!! Wish I'd learn this at 20 years old. This is why we need more mentors for the youth.

  • @MrSlm1982
    @MrSlm1982 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing Video! It took me two major operations (heart and lung surgery), being Diagnosed with Type 1 Diabetes, and a marriage on the brink of falling apart (all within a very short amount of time), to be motivated not just to have a purpose but to aggressively achieve that purpose... Things are better, not perfect yet... But I feel better about things regardless of the state of things perusing my purpose.

  • @dallasbrat81
    @dallasbrat81 3 роки тому +64

    I recommend Believers pray to God to reveal to you your purpose . He will tell you . This is true wisdom guys believe and do it.

    • @Nate-tf2ru
      @Nate-tf2ru 3 роки тому +1

      Facts, God bless

    • @Macheako
      @Macheako 3 роки тому +2

      I feel like God's already given all of us damn near PLENTY of purpose to begin with :/ but I feel ya

    • @dallasbrat81
      @dallasbrat81 3 роки тому +2

      @@Macheako haha I hear you but I'm talking about specifics like he said he felt the desire to teach others

    • @dallasbrat81
      @dallasbrat81 3 роки тому +2

      @@Macheako for me he told me to serve people with special disabilities

    • @Macheako
      @Macheako 3 роки тому

      @@dallasbrat81 nah, I feel that. I just think a lotta people out here can barely carry a their basic responsibility, aka purpose, that asking God for something even more burdensome is just.....
      goofy 😂 we GOTTA appreciate that God can't just "Give Us Responsibility" if we, individually, are Unable To Carry It 😂 😂
      because that would mean God DOES give us far more than we can carry lol

  • @rodvazquez332
    @rodvazquez332 3 роки тому +1

    Had a baby at 19 years old. I'm currently 20 ad an electrical apprentice and eventually my goal is to become a master electrician and start my own business. I'm currently changing meters as a meter technician as my fiance is going to school so I have to make the bread as she does that. But as soon as she is done with school. I'm joining an electrician and working my ass off to become a master electrician in 6 years. I'm trying to prioritize my family while also trying to find my purpose which I believe is to help people in the best way that I can while also providing for my family.

  • @TheClutchUDF
    @TheClutchUDF 3 роки тому +1

    The videos have really helped a youngin like myself out, keep on your purpose, you’ve had a huge impact!

  • @robertgood9688
    @robertgood9688 3 роки тому +1

    Very inspirational man. I knew I needed to get on this. But this gave me the push

  • @lyter57
    @lyter57 3 роки тому +4

    This channel is the gift that just keeps giving

  • @aarongroom2440
    @aarongroom2440 3 роки тому +3

    I'm 27 years old, I am a full time engineer and I have enough to get my very first mortgage, my current focus is to buy the right house that comes along and get in shape as I am definitely out of it.
    Definitely need to start thinking of a more long term goal as becoming an engineer, getting a nice car, moving out and getting in shape was it.
    Guys, for the ones that have met their younger man goals, what was next for you? I don't want to work for 'the man' forever that is for sure.

    • @direwolf6234
      @direwolf6234 3 роки тому +3

      as a retired engineer...get your professional certification... find a niche in your field.. get the relevant experience.. start a consulting business.. market yourself...

  • @rolexshadow
    @rolexshadow 3 роки тому

    Amen brother. I got that book, the rational male 2 years ago, but haven’t finished it. I will read on and finish it this month. I know my calling is to become a healer I’m working in long term care facility to earn the money to go to nursing school. I already completed 2 of my prerequisites course.

  • @wisdom-for-all
    @wisdom-for-all 3 роки тому +7

    Find a purpose in life so big it will challenge every capacity to be at your best. Activity without purpose is the drain of life 🖖

  • @christopherchilds3903
    @christopherchilds3903 3 роки тому +1

    Hafeez your passion , desire, , and the way you communicate are all what makes you special and unique !

  • @TheGlamazon9
    @TheGlamazon9 3 роки тому

    I enjoyed the video. When you know better you do better. Keep teaching and building up versus tearing down.

  • @Rampfitness
    @Rampfitness 3 роки тому

    Just ordered this book on Kindle! Thanks bro for your content. Never to late to betterment

  • @Widemouth1832
    @Widemouth1832 3 роки тому +3

    This channel is great. I appreciate the solid content. It reminds me to stay on my grind.

  • @IamLos
    @IamLos 3 роки тому

    I definitely felt this! Every time I watch ya speak and just going in on us guys, I feel as if you’re talking to me personally and it helps me make sure I stay focused on my goal. I thank you guys so much! I feel myself getting better and better everyday

  • @MonsterTomten
    @MonsterTomten 3 роки тому

    I read that book first time back in 2008, I read it once more a few years ago. I can recommend rereading it once in a few years. As you grow older and mature you will read it differently. First time I read it I was in my early 20s.

  • @rem77jet
    @rem77jet 3 роки тому +2

    Desperatly needed this thank you Sir.

  • @alexmiramonteiro4862
    @alexmiramonteiro4862 3 роки тому +6

    I agree with this 100%. I have walked away from someone because of lack of purpose, plan and proof.

  • @kaizenspirit4917
    @kaizenspirit4917 3 роки тому

    Really great reminder. Thanks

  • @thalifeofkarter2914
    @thalifeofkarter2914 3 роки тому

    That’s me right I’m in need of the proof, but now I’ve been seeing it’s only helping go nowhere by not executing my plains.thank you I needed this !

  • @Username-ze1ux
    @Username-ze1ux 3 роки тому +1

    Theses are the directives that our fathers should have taught us...Thankyou Hafeez.

  • @adnanzahir
    @adnanzahir 3 роки тому

    Man I loved the pilot analogy.

  • @benshaw8620
    @benshaw8620 3 роки тому

    This Chanel found me at the right time. 19yrs old, jahbless. Thanks Hafeez.

  • @RicardoPenders
    @RicardoPenders 3 роки тому

    When I hear you say the 3 things a man needs to have and I think about those 3 things I came to a sad conclusion... I never had any purpose, I never had a plan and my proof is that I'm 38 years at the moment, still single, I never lived together with the girlfriends that I had, I never married, I don't have any kids, I never wanted any of that because I've seen so many people around me failing to keep their family together resulting is a life full of misery and separated from each other, I come from a broken home myself full of violence and alcoholism, it took my dad to beat me half to death before my mom finally took me away from that situation.
    When I was 15 years old I had enough of all the stress at home so I decided to leave and go live on my own, I guess my purpose has always been just to survive or keep myself alive and because my life has been chaos for the most part so I just haven't been able to have a plan, if I have to choose something I guess that my plan has always been to adapt and find some comfort in all the chaos, now that I'm 38 and still alive and well and found a way to make my life comfortable and to be happy with the things I've accomplished on my own, things I can be proud of and I think that's proof enough right?
    I've accepted that a family life isn't something that I would be able to accomplish in my life, it has never been my goal to keep my family bloodline going because I think that the world is better of without it so I decided when I was 8 years old that I would be the one to stop the chaos and misery being spread any further, I've worked very hard to distance myself from my dad because I don't want to be violent like him at all, luckily I've been very successful with that, I'm nothing like my dad I only look like him but that's it.
    Today I'm pretty content with the things I have around me and I found a way to be happy, I have a super sweet dog, she's a Staffordshire Terrier that I love very much and she doesn't know what chaos or violence is, I've got her when she was only 5 weeks old and it's the longest relationship I've ever had in my life going on for 8 years now, this is my proof going against the expectations of most people about me to be able to keep chaos and violence out of my life and being able to love my dog...
    For someone like me and where I'm coming from this is quite an accomplishment to get where I am today considering that I had to figure out life on my own the hard way by making lots of mistakes and learn from that to prevent it in the future, but I know that I still have some dragons to slay in the future and since my situation is kind of unique I'll have to do it on my own and I don't ever expect any help from people.
    Can you imagine that even though the family life isn't for me and highly likely will never happen in this lifetime it has always been my biggest wish to have a great wife on my side that I can trust with my life just as my grandparents have always been to each other.

  • @JdLiveS
    @JdLiveS 3 роки тому +1

    great vid hafeez way of the superior man changed my life

  • @GMacII
    @GMacII 3 роки тому +1

    Life isn’t about FINDING yourself, life is about CREATING yourself.

  • @theaccountable
    @theaccountable 3 роки тому

    Hold yourself ACCOUNTABLE men to your beliefs to your conviction and to a higher cause

  • @RationalMinded
    @RationalMinded 3 роки тому

    Love the passion, brother. You bring the fire every single time.

  • @claudioherrera6050
    @claudioherrera6050 3 роки тому

    Great summary. Thank you!

  • @karimtawbeh8793
    @karimtawbeh8793 3 роки тому

    I love Hafeez’ energy. You can see the passion in him

  • @mackblack5153
    @mackblack5153 3 роки тому +1

    I've read The Way of the Superior Man years ago and it is in fact life changing.

  • @bilalmega3349
    @bilalmega3349 3 роки тому +4

    Agree with you my brother. Earl Nightingale and Napoleon Hill(Think and Grow Rich) touch on this topic many years ago. "You are what you think about."-Earl Nightingale

  • @Supercarsmakemehappy
    @Supercarsmakemehappy 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you. One of the best videos I’ve seen since I’ve subscribed. Love the content keep it coming

  • @ConceptNewEra
    @ConceptNewEra 3 роки тому +2

    New here and absolutely loving the perspective that you guys provide! Resonate with the thoughts you guys have 💯 percent! 🙏

  • @Peter-mb9mb
    @Peter-mb9mb 3 роки тому

    Solid video. Hafeez always droppin' dem truth bombs. A simple acronym I came up with to live my best life is PEARLS, which is:
    P - Purpose in life. Find your purpose and build a plan to work towards it. Build sustainable daily routines/habits that will propel you towards your goal(s).
    E - Eat right (90% clean, 10% treat meals).
    A - Accept the world as it is, with amused mastery.
    R - Responsibility for your life. You can rant/vent, but never complain about anything.
    L - Lift. You don't have to become the biggest dude, but take care of your health. As they say, "health is wealth."
    S - Stoicism. Be non-reactive and learn to master your mind and emotions. We are men, so we are expected to be rational/objective.
    Hope this helps my fellow brothers out there on your respective journey. LET'S GO!

  • @devinlindberg253
    @devinlindberg253 3 роки тому +1

    I want to be an ER Doctor. Join the army, go to UMD, major in premed, go to med school hopefully at UMD but I’m willing to go to any med school, do my residency hopefully in the Duluth area and get board certified. I’ve been in the army as a combat medic for the past 5 years of my 6 year contract. I’ve met and worked along side many doctors who will write me a reference I got my EMT License, spent 6 months in Afghanistan and worked in an ER for 2 years in Germany. I’m just waiting to get out to go to college and I become a doctor with almost no student loan debt!

    • @InvisibleThought
      @InvisibleThought 3 роки тому

      you got this bro! I’m attending umd atm and it was my goal for a bit too! See you there soon

  • @blatent
    @blatent 3 роки тому

    I rather not TALK my game I WALK IT! The only person I am accountable to is MYSELF I AM THE PURPOSE.

  • @_1_2_34__
    @_1_2_34__ 3 роки тому +3

    The three things are:
    1. Purpose
    2. Plan
    3. Proof

  • @josephrank9622
    @josephrank9622 3 роки тому +4

    Been watching your content and now I’m struggling with the idea of love. If women are hypergamous and the role of the man is to acquire resources, is love real?

    • @noo343
      @noo343 3 роки тому +1

      Unless she's a virgin and you imprint on her but once you hit a certain age it's kind of creepy today to Virgin people on here think it's cool when you're 40 and data 20 year old that's not for me anyone young enough to be my child I shouldn't put my penis into

  • @moorefire100
    @moorefire100 3 роки тому +1

    Nothing but respect for this video!

  • @greenteyo7702
    @greenteyo7702 3 роки тому

    Thank you Hafeez Bakou, this one went straight into my heart 💯

  • @ForHeWhoLaughs
    @ForHeWhoLaughs 3 роки тому +1

    I’m over here trying to keep doing UA-cam and I haven’t posted in four months.. meanwhile I’m watching Death Note.
    Don’t let your wants of today be the regrets of your last. This vid is critical

  • @dontme4132
    @dontme4132 3 роки тому

    Excellent video 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @zenms6653
    @zenms6653 3 роки тому

    This is Powerful! Preach to the young kings, they are being led astray.

  • @Schorling
    @Schorling 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing vid as always man! You’re truly changing lives

  • @Bijoux921
    @Bijoux921 3 роки тому

    This is hands down amazing! Kudos brother. Great message and great work.

  • @williammalesela6605
    @williammalesela6605 3 роки тому

    Thanks, this really helps.

  • @Mumugen
    @Mumugen 3 роки тому

    'Purpose' is arbitrary, in essence, changeable, aka 'drifting'.

  • @davidestick9936
    @davidestick9936 3 роки тому

    I appreciate what you're doing for society young King. I can definitely affirm this message in how my past relationships and associations played out. There's absolutely a lack of respect that comes with a lack of achievement.

  • @mohammedissa6099
    @mohammedissa6099 3 роки тому

    You described my personality perfect...that is how i am Living my life and i am so lost...hafiz in one year from now, i wil have done these three things and implementet them in my life, starting from today...my life has to change...thanks for all the content you make you inspire me every day to become af better man

  • @RickysCorner7
    @RickysCorner7 3 роки тому +1

    Well said Big Brother

  • @AngelJimenez-ch2tk
    @AngelJimenez-ch2tk 3 роки тому

    I want to thank you for being the example. I respect you a lot for doing what your doing. I’ve never really had anyone that I look up to that has values and morals of a real man. It’s hard out here when your growing up around men that are the opposite of that. I’m really inspired by you, I want to and will help men become better versions of them selfs. 💯🔥 gotta get those receipts.

  • @juugknightforlife3263
    @juugknightforlife3263 3 роки тому

    Thank you brother, you just earned that new subscriber .