Struggling with Anxiety, I'm NOT Moving? New Additions To My Fall Wardrobe & Influencer Events
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- Опубліковано 15 січ 2025
- Hey babes, in today's vlog we discuss mental health struggles (dealing with anxiety and depression), moving out doubts, a fall collective haul (aritzia, oner active, crocs, tj maxx and amazon) and attend two influencer events in one day.
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The conversation of renting/buying is so relatable. If I could comfortably live with my parents right now, I would stay and save to buy a house. However, I just moved out at 24 for reasons that made sense to me, and adulting is so expensive that I have a new perspective on budgets and what saving actually should look like. I suggest you reflect on the reasons you want to move, and what decision would benefit you most without the opinions of others. In the meantime, if you have the budget to move out already, I suggest you start putting that amount you’d spend on rent now in a high yield savings account, aggressively save and put yourself 10 steps ahead!
Nonetheless, decisions are hard to make and the journey won’t be linear. I wish you the best of luck 💕
Omg! I love this so much! You are absolutely right. Thank you so much babe for sharing this with me. I truly appreciate it 💗
Friends are great, but therapy is so much better. Having someone who does not have any preconceptions about you and is there not to tell you what to feel or think, but to help you heal yourself is priceless.
I couldn't agree more! I am currently back in therapy and so excited about it 💗
Soo happy to see your faceee! Im glad you took the time you needed to pour into you boo 💗
Thank you sis ❤️
Listen when I am stressed shopping 🛍️ does the trick
EXACTLYY! You get it 💞
Shaylnn you're doing amazing! So happy to be seeing you do your thing! 💕💕
Thank you babe, I appreciate you so much! 💕
I been missing your vlogs glad your back 🥰
Thank you babe! Happy to be back 💞
Hey my girl ❤ so happy to see you. Praying for you, I know what you’re going through give yourself grace.. trust me it’s not laziness, I pray God, your friends and therapy help you lift you up and out of the funk.
You are not alone sis, thankyou for being so transparent bc we need more creators like this! I know you will come to a decision that will be the best for you and your future in due time!
You are so right sis! Thank you for your constant love and support! I appreciate you so much 💗
As a girly who struggles with anxiety and depression I totally understand and relate to how you have been feeling. I’ve been battling those feelings for almost 2 years. So take your time and do what’s best for you and only you.
Thank you for sharing that with me. It's comforting to know I am not alone in my battles. Praying for you on your journey 🩷
Love Oner! The quality is so good and love that founder Krissy Cela started off as an influencer
Definitely praying for you. I’ve been in a funk as well so I get it completely. Hope you’re able to get some clarity on what to do with your moving situation. Just have faith and God will lead you through this!!!
Thank you babe! Praying for you too babe! God will lead us through 💕
It’s understandable to be unsure when making a life changing decision but at the end of the day, you only know what’s best for you 😊❤. Thank you for being vulnerable! PS. The black Aritzia sweat set EATS 😍
Aww I just want to hug you I understand how to move like you want and not be pressured by others 💯💯
Thank you so much D ❤
Ughhh dealing with the same thing on my moving journey. I currently live at home with my mom. I found a place I love but I’m just confused on should I take the next step. God has been confirming to me that I’ll be moving before the end of the year but he hasn’t yet given me the confirmation on the place that I loved. I just don’t want to be outside of his will and have to deal with the consequences that come with that. Everyone keeps telling me to be patient, I’ve been patient for the past 3.5 years when it comes to moving b/c girl the old me would have moved impulsively. I’m just trying to do things right this time around! I feel exactly what you are going through!
Hey! I love everything! I I also saw those Birk dupes but like you, they didn’t have my size. You can get those Birk dupes off of Amazon! The name of the brand is White Mountain. They also have them in Rack Room Shoes. They are a little more but not much. Rack room had buy one get one 50% off! 😊
Everything will happen in Gods timing . Keep pushing forward !!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You are SO RIGHT! Thank you babe 🩷
I'd say go for buying if you're ready for the responsibilities that come with it. If you're not just yet then renting may be a good choice for the time being. Ppl don't always about the after part of buying a home. I'm in an apt because I'm not ready yet. I like putting in my maintenance requests 😂😂
This is literally one of my biggest debates when it comes to renting and buying. Buying is great but the unforeseen home expenses are scary! You are so right that people don't talk about that aspect.
Keep the bag! And those crocs 🤌🏽🤌🏽 I’m on a hunt for them now 😂
I love that bag I just want a different color. I’m thinking the olive green but idk. I loveee the crocs! I can’t believe all the sizes gone now 🥹
As someone who has interacted with you through Instagram and you’ve given me, great advice. I will give you my advice on moving out and renting. I did it for four years and ended up moving back home, to now living with my boyfriend. But if I could do it all over again, I would move back home, save save, save and then move out and buy a property with my boyfriend. We don’t have the funds now but realistically that’s what our long-term goal will be. So I say if you have the ability to stay home and save do that and invest on a property where you can make money off of it. You will thank yourself in the long run. Trust your gut and pray pray pray
Ask yourself why did u wanna move out initially? Life is about experiences. Can't dwell on the fear of things. Can't always ask others because only u know your plans and capability. Some people don't wanna buy a home
@@JayLS1223 whew, this is so true. I am definitely gonna reflect on this. Thank you for this 💗
Just FYI: Amazon has the Birkenstock dupes for 15$. The brand is ODOLY, and they have a few color options.
Omg! I already bought mine 😭
❤ all love here.
Thank you babe 🫶🏽
I can absolutely relate to this. I would say that if you shut out the opinion of others you can hear God more clearly. If you are not feeling sure about making a decision then there’s no shame in waiting until you are ready. Go to a spiritual advisor that you trust to remain impartial to gain clarity. I’m praying your strength and that God’s will be done in your life. Praying 🙏🏾 💜
You are so right! That's such a good idea and thank you so much for your prayers 🫶🏽🫶🏽
Hello Shalynn. I can relate 100%.. Ask yourself these questions.. what is the real reason why you moved out your old apt? what did you hope to accomplish by moving back Home? How are you benefiting so far being back home? Do you feel you are possibly rushing to move to another spot b/c you want your privacy with your man etc? Overall if you still having doubts, I highly recommend you may want to stay put until you are as close to 100% sure that you are to move to the spot your heart desires...
You are so right! I am definitely going to reflect on all of this and not make any decisions until I am 100% sure 🩷
Don't get the apartment, you've already got your answer "YOU CAN'T AFFORD IT".
Keep searching for a home or stay at home with your family and save even more money. Get something you can afford, enjoy and sleep in peac. Not getting a place that will keep you up at night stressing about how you'll pay for it.
When in doubt silence the outside voices and hone in on God’s. I’ve had to learn as someone who can feel overwhelmed by others suggestions or opinions that if anyone knows what’s best for me its God! I wanted to move by myself this year my lease was up my mom & I currently are roommates but honestly mentally I couldn’t even plan a move. I had to give myself grace, sometimes it’s like do it now do it now & we forget to pace ourselves. When it’s time you’ll have exactly what you want home wise ❤.
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What do you want? What does SHALYNN want? Make the decision based on what you believe.
Whenever you are confused about something, know that God AIN'T in it.
Ask God for discernment about this move. You have to be still in order to hear him.
This was courageous of you. You got this‼️
Look at the guy back looking at you 😅😅😅
Lol not you peeping that. The DJI Pocket 3 is a conversation starter 😂
Hi I Kaysen beale
@@Locamillie Hi KK 🫶🏽
Girl save that coin and buy a home
I hear you babe 🩷
🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽praying for you also ❤
@@thebrieffect thank you so much babe 💕