ROOMMATE STATUS: When your Man is a Feminine MOUSE!
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"Sis got on bifocals and is still very much blind."
That hit hard.
I was likeeee NOW CHLOE 😂
I just turned on the video and reading this comment got me dyinggg😂😂
🤣🤣😭
There's no incentive for dating a broke man, I wish I knew this 10 years ago. Would have changed the entire trajectory of my life
Preach ! There’s no reward for helping a man when he’s down. When we are down who’s coming to help us ? Women get called gold diggers, but yet we praise the men for having a woman as his stepping stone. LESSON LEARNED
Your acting like rich men want to date you 😂 your not built like that sis, you will have better luck dating an average earning man
Are you an average man?@zGrimFuL please stop projecting on other people.
Why would anyone want to marry and/or consider marrying a person who you're arguing with about money?
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"He keeps money to himself and doesn't like to talk about his finances" says it all. She has the answers. She needs to take action and end the relationship.
Because some people don’t care who they marry, they just want to be able to say “I got the ring (that I probably helped pay for )though💁🏽♀️”.
I will never forget when I was working a toxic job and I cried to my man about how horrible it was. He told me to quit but I said I couldn’t because I needed to work the full two weeks and get my paycheck. He asked me how much I needed and I told him and he sent me the money I needed. I quit my toxic job after that. That’s how I knew he was the one. The wrong type of man would have told me to push through it.
Exactly.
A man will just do if he likes you.
Did you marry him? 😍
I'm glad this worked out for you, but it's not always the case. Two weeks pay one time is a slight indicator. But that's really not enough to know if he'll be a lifelong provider. I wish you the best ❤
Women that call other women "females" 😭😭😭 Why girlie *WHYYYYY*
RedPill indoctrination
Not all females are women and some are still in girl mentality. Same as a man is different than a boy lol
Men spend money on what and who they care about. Leave that relationship before you have a heart attack or snap. It's not worth it.
All I can say is this channel saved my life. I started watching Chloe’s videos a few years ago and have since got therapy, lost weight, left a dusty and removed toxic people, jobs and foolishness from my life. If you want fibroids, high blood-pressure and stress, date a man like the one mentioned in this video and you’ll get all of these things.
The fibroids tho. There’s a German doctor showing this type of toxic stress is causing uterine complications like fibroids, pcos, and endometriosis. I think the channel or book is German New Medicine
Salaam.
I so love this for you! ❤
I'm on the journey of doing the same!❤
Shes taught him how to treat her. The gag is, he'll get with someone else, and be the total opposite.
You could not have said it any better 😜😔
Her calling other women “females” told me everything I needed to know about her mindset.
Yeah!
That was a red flag to me too.
Sounds very masculine ngl
Thank you for mentioning this!!
At what point did people start referring what people are referring to women as ‘females’? I don’t understand why that is I think it is so degrading. I noticed that shift in the last year and a half or so. Where did this come from?!!!
Still is the one 👆🏾
Was looking for this comment❤
Working three jobs while in a relationship is crazy! She would be better off being by herself
Facts sis!!! If I gotta struggle l rather struggle by myself than with whole supposedly grown man. Smh
Real sad situation - what kind of man allows a woman to work 3 JOBS while she has kids! That is so unethical and wrong, definitely dealing with a feminine man. She’s truly sleeping with the enemy as that man don’t give a damn about her!
She's questioning her own sanity🤔 LEAVE & CHOOSE BETTER!!!
She ain’t leaving
👀 Girl, just leave and choose yourself. #selfpreservation #fuckboifree
@@13ikea😢 Let's hope for the best anyway and bless her healing from dealing with inadequate men. That dude is an embarrassment😕🙌🏽
@@chayes3862 not hoping anything for strangers. If she doesn’t realize her self worth, nobody can do it for her.
@13ikea I think she will. I feel like this is her last effort. Like she is trying to make sure she isn't crazy. She's being gaslit daily. It might take her a minute to get some things in order, but I have hope that she will leave soon.
I saw her video on Instagram, and I stopped listening when she said boyfriend. She needs therapy and inner work before she starts dating again. And I can not understand why BW refuse to wait until they are married to a man that is a provider/protector BEFORE having children.
When Sis said she ASKED FOR $10 and her Dusty had a Fit I ALMOST LOST IT
😂😂
Wow.
Her referring to him as "bro" says it all. He does not like nor care about her. She's nothing but an annoying roommate to him. 3 DAMN JOBS!??!?
Key words boyfriend THREE JOBS... Girl, leave ✈️🧳🚘
runnnnn!!!!! 🏃♀️
I hope she and more women truly understand that if your ‘man’ has no issue watching you struggle, especially while in a relationship with him, that he does not love and cherish you.
This man has no problem watching her bust her hypogamy 🍑 to pay most the bills and be left with nothing, raise their kid almost on her own, and throws a fit over giving her anything. That man does not love her and there’s no way he could love her.
Actions speak louder than any words he can fix his mouth to say. He doesn’t want to give provisions to her because in his eyes, she’s a means to a very unfortunate end. Broke, opportunistic men do not believe in the concept of ‘fair’, ‘giving you your dues’, ‘kudos’ or appreciation for the women who support them. The fact that he is employed and they live together but he REFUSES to discuss his finances at all, tells me he’s saving up for something, but not to marry her.
If she wants to course correct, she should either kick him out, or move out and raise her kid herself. Yes she may have to face being another ‘single mom’ but she’d save herself $$$, stress, and will even get years of her life back cutting out the biggest harm to her wallet, peace and overall health.
This lady knows she should leave, but she’s not ready to. She was looking for validation online so she can show them to her dusty to make him see the light. He will never marry her; she’s a placeholder he’s stringing along by dangling marriage in front of her.
Yes!! 🎯
I always give BW more grace because it’s the way we were socialized…..even this past thanksgiving I had to stop several family memebers advising me to date down and how it worked for them . 😂😂😂😂😂 I’m good
Exactly! It is taught from generation to generation.
Socialized is to soft a word
Unfortunately, my family advice turned out to be incorrect. So I had to give myself grace, be selfish and work on me.
Very true, the conditioning is hard to brake, I had to burn 🔥 the cape off my own back myself. Now I'm in my GET SOMEONE ELSE TO DO IT" season, And I don't plan on moving no time soon.
I'm stuck on "I make good money, but have no money left when I pay my bills"😢 Bless her...
Yeah, I was confused. She has money but she’s broke?? Make it make sense! 🥴
It's called "pissing money away"
She’s basically living paycheck to paycheck with a whole grown ass man under that roof.
Like Mina Irfan and Shera say if you’re financially struggling and there’s a whole man living under your roof theres a problem and it’s under your roof !😂
“I’m not asking him to get my hair done.. I’m not asking him for money to get my nails done “ … well Why tH Not?!
It makes me sad to a situation like this when the feminine and masculine are so out of balance. Hope she drops this loser and begin to pour into herself ASAP.
As a mother you’re supposed to spend time with your children.
My mum worked 2 jobs, never took us anywhere ever, never came to my school meetings, plays or anything. I felt like she was barely at home.
She knows what to do. She just wants the public to agree with her.
“Sis got on bifocals, but is still blind.” - Chole 💀
He saving his money so he can leave and spend it on his new girlfriend.
She's single and doesn't know it! Let's just hope and pray she sees the light soon.
I’m sad. If she’s asking all these questions, she already knows the answer. 3 JOBS???? And he’s ok with that?
And he only wants her to quit the third one because he doesn’t want to take care of the child.
Left my dusty 9 months ago, when I met him he was so sweet and kind and really swept me off my feet, I realised after a few months of him acting that he isn’t provider minded as I asked him to pay for something and he made me feel really uncomfortable for asking. My dumb ass stayed for a few more months but I left him eventually (only dated for 8 months), I’m so glad I did. I’m a very attractive girl and I get lots of attention; I don’t need no broke dusty that’s adding 0 value to my life
People treat us the way we allow them to.
Aint no way on this side of heaven, I'm gonna have a dusty musty ball ninja living with me and he aint paying no bills. And then I can't ask him for money without him flipping his script. Girl, what do you need him for, sounds like to me you are holding it on on your own. You don't need to carry dead weight.
Everytime you ask a man for money and he says you're money hungry. That's because he has none.
It’s pointless to ask other women what they’re going through. You’re uncomfortable! PERIOD. That’s the compass you go by. You’re stressed and he isn’t helping which means he’s draining you further. No need to ask anyone anything. Just do what you need to do to get your peach and equilibrium back in check.
Why do you need to work three jobs and have a man😢. Make it make sense.🤔
That’s a roommate.
roommates SPLIT bills. He's not even pulling half his weight, lol
I left her a comment, recommending her to check your videos because she’s the case study in this one. Chloe_, you’re taking it to another level to want to have, be, and demanding the best 💕.
Out here doing the Lord's work!! 👏🏾
@@agie_2671😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dead
The fact that she is questioning her senses than question her man. D has never been that serious.
I stopped dating for a long time and looked deep within myself. I evaluated my habits and surroundings, realized I am my own worst enemy. You are what you attract the way you treat yourself is what you will attract. I was actually alone for 5 years and going to therapy.
She knows the answer, she’s looking for validation and I validate her feeling to let that dude kick rocks and it’s okay you deserve better
Not hypogamus PTSD. 😂
My boyfriend has to pay my cable bill also half of my rent money know your value 😊make sure he loves you more
I’m mad at him FOR her. And praying she just grabs her children and moves on.
Same sis !! ❤ it’s actually awful that men like this exist
Insightful video per usual Chloe. Thank you. What I didn't notice the first time I watched the video was that the young lady said she wanted to marry a provider! Then she said a provider would at least contribute. It was a powerful moment because I could see she wanted it, but she doesn't believe she can have it or deserves it. That was deep. Doing that inner work is everything!!! If you read this original girl in the clip- you are worthy! And you FIRST have to treat yourself that way! No one else will do it for you first. They will only follow your lead. My advice to any woman with a dusty or in hypogamy.....get out today. No matter how hard or impossible it looks, your life will immediately get better. ❤
I love your comment 🙌🏾
I saw a viral clip on tik tok where a girl claimed women who teach hypergamy are teaching women to be prostitutes!! Only the duties and pickmeishas are going along with it. But I'd love to hear a response if you have time and care.
I would never respond publicly to that. That’s what my Private Community is for.💄
If you have to come to the internet to ask about your relationship issues know that he’s not the one and everything she said proved it to be correct. If only she can. See it for herself and accept what she deserves. ✨ Xxxx
This is the same as asking a man if he loves you. You feel the need to ask, because you know he doesn't. If he does he'll show you to the extend that there isn't a shred of doubt left in you and he'll do so consistently. I personally would not work more than one job on my own and most definitely not with a man near.
I’m manifesting a lasting hypergamous relationship! I’m doing the work and I’m being patient. I’ve been following Chloe for 6 years now and I’ve notice a lot of improvements in my outcomes. I have more work to do but change is definitely happening! ❤🎉 thanks girl! 💕🙏🏽
My goodness those glasses!! You can tell she can’t ever get her hair and nails done. She has not been able to let herself be pretty. Just focused on getting the hustle on.
I learned to leave a dusty 1 year 6 months situationship by cutting out the advice from masculine female friends or friends that used sex as leverage. Once this man said he didn’t want to go to border patrol after I helped him pay off debt to complete the background check and another friend got engaged I ended it through text message. I hated him and I realized he gaslighted/manipulated me. I blamed myself because I cared about investing into others than myself because I had a fear of failure. Once I healed my daddy wounds of not having security, emotionally unavailable mommy wounds, dating men who’s mothers had different baby daddies/ no father in the home, got right with Jesus through prayer and fasting. MY LIFE HAS COMPLETELY CHANGED! I won’t ever again prove my worth to anyone especially a man. I’m not helping out ppl who won’t help themselves. Ladies stop listening to the “ he’s a hard working man” type friends or family because ALL OF US WORK HARD.
Learn to receive, that was my biggest lesson. I grew up in an extremely abusive household (never had a birthday party and im 31) I’m an adult now so I had to unlearn a lot. Learning to receive is how I’m healing/have healed.
8:55 Very true.
It was incredibly heart wrenching to finally accept that my ex did not love me, especially after my time and resources were invested in him. To add, it was almost soul wrenching to accept everything he did and said was on purpose to use and abuse me, and that there was no ‘endgame’ of a happier outcome.
But eventually I asked myself if I was really ok to continue this treatment and more importantly, tolerance of said treatment, until my final days? Hell, if I died tomorrow, would I be happy with how I lived my life and who I’ve spent it with?
The answer in my spirit was a HELL no, so I left and rebuilt my life. I’d rather adjust to his absence than continue grief, fear, and frustration in his presence.
Powerful share. ❤
Your life is very blessed just by walking away. Do not ever look back🕊️
LOVE this for you.
I blame Disney movies. I had to realize my own value too & my life changed for the better!
Kick em out, love yourself, and level up ❤❤ 11:13
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I am D-O-N-E DONE with you Chloe! Talking about she got on bifocals and is still blind.
I always have to pause after you slide those lil quips in because I will hear NOTHING that follows from me laughing ridiculously. 💀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You play too much! 💀🤭🤭🤭
LMFAOO this is why I always ask people first “do you just need to vent or want advice?” 😂 sis please.
I have a great man,but like every person he has his flaws.I love him, but you better believe that when he wasn't keeping up with chores I did not hesitate to tell him "Why should you be here if you're not doing anything?If i wanted a decoration, I could just have a cardboard cutout of you in my house".
He heard it the first time and he hasn't forgotten since.
So for the ladies whose man doesn't even show them basic decency, I just cannot understand how you haven't just tossed them straight out the window,dust and all. I wouldn't have even opened it, just straight through the glass pane.
Well said! ❤
I have a question on that- what if said man pays majority of the bills (I pay for groceries or take out if I don’t cook and pay for all of my upkeep(hair,toiletries, etc.), but never lifts a finger to do any chores around the house? He doesn’t cook or clean ever. He has never ever cleaned the bathroom- I always did. The other day, I was angrily unloading the dishwasher the other day while on the phone with my mom and she heard all the noise. I told her what I was doing and said “if I don’t do it, noone else will”. After I was off the phone, He threw in my face/ reversed it by saying what if he were to have the same attitude about paying bills( rent, utilities). I feel like he really doesn’t like being a provider and I feel like he doesn’t respect me enough to take the initiative. I always have to nag him to take out the trash even when he sees it’s full. Am I bugging? If he was fully providing would it be a bit more understandable?
@@robbbaseee5081 First thing, I think that there's not a perfect system that fits everyone and this is why it's CRUCIAL to have these discussions on cohabitation before living together. If we were speaking on a purely equitable basis, then him providing completely for you for all your needs is the only instance that could justify not doing any chores. But here's the thing and I want you to really take this to heart : relationships are not just equity. It's feelings. It's affection. It's care for the other person. My husband makes more money than me so obviously contributes more. I run most of the chores bc I like to run my house as I like, but of course he has designated chores. He does the dishes bc I don't really like doing them. If I'm tired one day and can't do my usual stuff, he'll try to handle it instead. Because he loves me and it's both of us living in this house.
@@robbbaseee5081 If people want to have relationships based solely on a rigid 50-50 equity, that's fine. It's their life. But I believe relationships should be much more than that. If a man never helps out solely based on him providing part or most of financials, then maybe his feelings aren't deeper than that as well.
@@robbbaseee5081 And just as a closing on this, specifically on not taking the trash out when it's already full: There's a saying in my country that parents tell their kids when they don't wanna do any chores. "If there was shit in the middle of the room, would you just leave shit stinking in your house just because you don't wanna deal with it?"
No, I don’t ask … I shouldn’t have to ask.
Therefore I really try to discern whether the man I’m dating is in a position to be able to provide and not have to wait until I ask.
It’s more of a: Can you give me more than what I’m already giving myself? Cause I really can do bad all by myself.
Exactly!!If I'm miserable being with you,than what's the point of you being here?Cause I can be miserable by myself just fine 😂
No she is not wrong. He is stingy and that gets old. If he is doing that now it’s probably not going to change unless someone he respects suggests it. Men that love/like you will give you money and buy you stuff. She better listen to Erykah Badu and tell him to call Tyrone 😂
I will never understand why people run to the internet for basic problem solving skills. God, help us all.
Right? Do women not have shame or decorum anymore? Some things need to stay in-between you, your significant other, a therapist, or a very trustworthy family member/friend, THAT'S ALL. Moving in silence and in wisdom is the best course of action.
@@doll.ov.poetrii4682 You are 100% right. I think a lot of adults (men and women) are hurt children in adult bodies. Always feeling the need to defend & prove themselves to everyone except themselves. It takes a lot of maturity and wisdom to move in silence & value privacy.
She not leaving yet...
Probably never will.
She probably will NEVER 😂 unfortunately
sad truth...the exact thing came to my mind after the clip..
When she called him a Mr Krabs 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
I turned my hypergamous around by doing exactly what you say value yourself love yourself even when it’s hard. Someone will only treat you the way you allow them too. Be okay with removing yourself and really mean it. Do your self work.
When she said do you females ask for money it told me everything that I needed to know. Us WOMEN don't have to ask. She seems genuinely very sweet and nice I hope she works on herself and leaves that man alone. She could do bad all by herself.
Uh, why would she even want to marry someone like this? She needs to take the hint, he WILL NOT CHANGE, he made it clear he is NOT a provider. Disgusting! I wish I would. Hopefully she can get it together, dump this broke and stingy dude, build some self love and be ready for a real man.
Last clip it’s everything! Thank them and Make them the last lesson to learn . No longer repeating cycles ✨
I definitely learned it’s one thing to heal your daddy issues,dysfunctional upbringing, attachment problems.
but also learning how to work on my femininity, self love and being Hypergamous is another level and lesson to learn in breaking the generational trauma.
No dusties, or 50/50 improve yourself and get a provider man who values you. It’s a real game changer for ur life
Why do they keeeeeeeeeeeep having kids by these old get by ninjas
IKR.
I don’t get it either
Because they're on the same level as these men.
Be there done that and RAN so far..they can break u down if you let them Darn Dusty !!! leave him I ran ran ran
Im glad chloe always encourages women to do the internal work... somw creators out here just tellj g women to expect the beat from men whwn they themselves arent high quality
I broke up with my ex last year cuz he was a dusty. Thank god i never broadcast my L in public.
So relaxed being single than being with a low vibrantional man. Luckily we never moved in together (despite him wanting that) so it was easy to block and move on.
Ladies, don't worry about sunk cost fallacy if you're with a bum. It can be scary to think of starting over but your life will be so much better for it.
Bless her heart. 🤦🏾♀️ I was once in the same situation and mindset in my early 30’s. Hopefully she’ll wake up and see through the bifocals eventually.
Did she call us females?😂😢
It hit me on the chest 😭😭
“If he does something for me I have to ask for it” ohh so he doesn’t even like you…
I’m so tempted to send this to my friend. Her life is currently a MESS! She only dates interracially and she pressured her bf into proposing to her. We met a year ago and she was pressuring him before that. And she would argue with him after certain little trips or occasions because he didn’t propose. She pays for EVERYTHING!! He lives 3 hours away and takes the train to her most weekends because his 25 year old car isn’t going to get him there . She just took him on an all inclusive trip to dr, first class flights and he supposedly proposed to her. After they got back, he completely ghosted her for a couple weeks. Because she was trying to get him to move in and to plan a 3 month engagement. He didn’t even want to tell his family about the engagement. Fast forward a couple weeks and he’s back. Saying that he proposed cause he was drunk and doesn’t want to be engaged but wants to keep seeing her , and she’s considering it!!! I tried talking some sense into her multiple times but I think she’s resentful of the advice. She said he lied to her etc but I told her look at the red flags, his actions were telling her everything she needed to know, she was BEGGING him to move in to prove that he was serious about her, that man didn’t budge . Goes to show their true nature or self preservation and giving you the treatment you think you are worthy of!
For your mental health, leave her alone. She's toxic and loves the toxicity of her "relationship." She knows she's not going anywhere. That guy knows she's not going anywhere.
Nothing worse than a bw desperate for zaddy', anyone will do
You gotta let her fall unfortunately some people have to go through the worse things imaginable to learn unfortunately I’ve heard of women who didn’t learn until they were on the brink of death some don’t learn until they homeless with $0 in the bank account. Few people in the world are really that stubborn and your friend is unfortunately one of those people if you want to keep your friendship don’t say anything when he throws her away be there for her but if you can’t stand watching someone suffer distance yourself from her or just end the friendship
These women like being in these situations, she said she wasn’t gone leave her man. If she didn’t like it she would’ve left!
'Hypogamous ptsd hahahah that was a good one'.
what a time to be alive, we need to be mindful of who we choose and yes therapy/ healing is crucial.
Actually, this dear woman has FOUR jobs. Caring for her kidS and working 3 other jobs has got to be too much for one woman🥺Meanwhile, the _boyfriend_ probably has ONE mediocre job but is complaining that she's not home enough to cater to him and their Child/Ren. She doesn't _need_ him for anything important.
She said he just started working in the evenings. He was probably unemployed before that.
She said - "my kid". Not "our" or "his".
Most likely, the kid is not his.
She said I’m not broke, but I’m broke right now 😭
Aww this was so triggering. So glad I have a therapy session today 😢
This is a serious matter but babyyyyy you are HILARIOUS TO ME!!!!! 😂😂😂
As the young lady stated, the man does not want to discuss his finances with her. Yet she doesn't seem to understand that she is a non factor when it comes to his finances. He has NO intention of ever providing for her. And if he does give her a dime, it will cost her twenty cents in return. Men like that are only looking out for themselves. Yes, when I was young, I took the L in my first marriage. It turned out to be a WIN in the long run and since then, I have had to pay many men in dust. I am not turning back to being a Pick Me or playing the Clean Up Woman ever again. Best wishes for the young lady and her child.
Dam so sad, He definitely wrong about the money 💰
She’s a nice placeholder
Thank you Chloe for putting this video out . The more I see your videos the more I heal from my wounds.
GIRLWAKE UP and 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ put your Nikes on and Runnnnnnn
Just do it ✔️
The DELUSION RUNS RAMPANT these days it is exhausting
Before I would have “created an account” to apply for another job, the fact of having that thought alone would have given me all the confirmation I needed. I’ve been there but I’ve learned and grew smarter. I hope she chooses herself.
Unfortunately I had to learn a lot of life lessons the hard way 😢
Finances are a big issue in a relationship. You should be on the same page.
A lot of things should be uncovered in the vetting process in the first 3-4 dates, not after moving in.
Work on yourself first before getting into a new relationship.
Chloe pumping out CONTENT!!! I love it. These masculines videos are golden because being with a dusty will bring you DOWN!!!!
I'm suffering...lol
Lol not bifocals and blind! Lol the commentary
lol, Ear Hustla here. This was entertaining.
Did she mention that her bf was also her baby’s father?
Wait what 😢!!?
@@Claudiaalirushe mentioned she has a kid but idk if thats the babys dad?
I got out of this relationship, there's no way things will get better
She thinks he is going to marry her…I know that man is going to swap her out as soon as he can
Yikes!! Can’t imagine running myself in workplace(s) hole(s) when I got a grown, rusty, able-bodied “man” living with me.
Definitely brought those shoes one two many times 😩 got me working working day and night on me forever...
One thing I learned is to never argue with a man because they hear your ACTIONS not your words. If you’re not treated right, WALK AWAY and go zero contact.
A man is not worth having physical ailments, mental illnesses and avoidable hardship . A man should be solving problems in your life not adding madness to it.
I paid for dinner 3 times in a row because my boyfriend needed to but a Camero. Were currently on a break and he called my father asking how to love me???? Ummm... don't make me pay for your meals.
Reflectionary Tales as well ♥️
Perfect Timing Chole! ❤
My big sister here Chloe still continuously saving lives, 😍🥰 i needed the last clip you placed on the video, she's absolutely right! we need to observe and learn from other people's relationship/situations . Hope your having a great day Chloe, and don't stress yourself too much with the masculinas ha ha ha! I pray good health to you and for your family Chloe! Xoxo 💖💝
I bet she met him online, dating site/app. 🤔🤷🏾♀️😕
POFish = dusty toads.
@@beeznhoney4323 is POF still around. 😩 Did she meet him on POF? 🤷🏾♀️🥴🤔