I just wanted to brag that one week from yesterday my 6 months of homelessness is over! I’ll be living with a roof over my head and I can’t wait… to sleep without leg cramps… sleeping in the backseat of an old Honda is not comfy. Oh and to bathe! I’m very excited for that!
I think she's oversharing to relate to pregnant women and women who've given birth, to tell them these changes are normal. He's a jerk. She gave him a child, he doesn't have to be so hurtful with his wording. He has no empathy.
So they have a “traditional marriage “ which means he’s the breadwinner right? But their primary source of income is tiktok…. so she’s helping him at his job but he doesn’t help her out at home ?? I’m so confused
They have a podcast, BOTH of them, and she’s the most likeable… so she IS bringing money to their household. He’s just a hypocrite 🤦🏻♀️ so sad for her
everything they say and do that's posted for views are done for money, could there be any truth? sure, but always take everything with a huge grain of salt.
The problem with his depression song was she just gave birth to their baby but he wanted it to be about his depression. Meanwhile, he doesn't think baby blues exist.
I was thinking like, notice how in that video how the camera is set up to get her reaction to his song abt his depression & he’s also the one who started recording her when she was laying on the couch crying
Am I the only one to notice that the wife is one whose personal information is over shared in this video? That’s terrible to me and very narcissistic on the husband’s part.
I agree with you. My goodness, this is all so appalling and I wonder how Mr Hubby would react if Mrs Wifey started to criticise his body, and particularly his wedding tackle. Plus anyway most women tend to feel insecure about their bodies all the time, but especially after giving birth. Anyway, no sane person needs to share all that intimate stuff with the whole world.
yes but shes doing that herself (also periods arent anything to be ashamed about wtf) shes not over here shaming or making big details about her husbands body thats what everyone is upset abt is because of what her husband was saying @@CoolDude-z4p
The whole podcast makes me very uncomfortable. It seems like she is looking for validation because pregnancy hormones and at EVERY turn, he finds a way to fuck it up. My husband was watching this with me, and he was just gobsmacked. He would never say any of that to me if I was pregnant and certainly not publicly
i agree with you, even the part that the husband said “i’d like a natural looking woman.” i personally don’t think that a look changes who you are, and if i were a husband i would never and i mean NEVER say that to my wife. the same thing goes for women too tho. this generation is pretty sad honestly, and it’s so messed up about how the husband chose to talk about her private part especially when his wife was having an ACTUAL EMOTIONAL BREAKDOWN on the couch.
he got her pregnant after G so fast, it says SO MUCH about that disgsuting little boy. ❤️🩹 and it was certainly while she was still recovering from HERNIA SURGERY 🤧 her mask has slipped so many times because of his sick behavior. i am praying for this poor sweet woman 🤒
@terror404 ehhh not so fast. Abby was the one that was gunning for another child after G and Matt was really weird about it at first. He wasn't ready for another child and he tried telling her that but she vetoed it because she wanted more pregnancy content. She's not so innocent either.
13:39 idk why but I started crying when she laughed I might seem dramatic but damn she feels insecure after giving birth to a new life to a baby it’s a hard and painful experience and then being told stuff like this it just made me cry if I was in her place I will immediately cry i pray everyday that I marry a person who will never ever make me feel this way
Things like this are a double edged sword with social media. It does influence sooo negatively other people as it literally normalises toxic relationships, disrespecting women, desensitizes the masses to an emotionally forced patriarchal relationship on the household and also to emotional sadism and neglect basically and on top of it to the capitalisation and objectification of the relationships as well. And Of course, the obvious, to the fact that we're so eager giving away privacy away for the money and fame prospect. It's insane and with the rise of AI, surveillance capitalism and cyber crime, beyond destructive, BUT, at the same time it inevitably shows to many people with a functional brain what not to do to others. Cause personally I had randomly seen their channel since before they blew up and I just knew to NEVER tolerate shzt men like this. Eye opening. And to think there are people that idolise their relationship and dynamics... EW. But I'm glad to see that a substantial percentage of viewers actually filter what they watch and are fairly critising this mess of a relationship. Also, the fact that the woman of the couple is the one that literally gave her life away to a man that resents her because he's emotionally stunted basically and way too unmotivated when she's a gem of a person as it seems, yet he is the one that feels victimised in the situation tells you all you need to know about how detrimental to our society manchildren like this can be Out of all the things he does his weaponised incompetence is one of the worst ones for me, aside the basically selling your wifes privacy for your own benefit. I just hope she wakes up and claims her happiness soon. She has a child now and owes it the kid to show that the things she's experiencing should not be experienced and tolerated in the long run as our time on earth is limited thus it should be valued, especially by the person we choose to spend the rest of our lives with. So yes all of this should not have been shown, but it's enlightening to the outsider and maybe it should be for the woman who is directly involved as well.
Nahahha imagine sayin u like em natural then havin ur celebrity crush being exactly opposite of natural. There is not one natural thing on that girl instead of her stupidity istg
Its like how on processed foods they try and trick you by saying all of the ingredients are natural, and then you find out that your definition of ‘natural’ and their definition of ‘natural’ are two completely different things. Words mean nothing and everything now.
What the f*** does he mean by f****** natural? Like I'm sorry. Girls are gonna wear f****** makeup and not because they're insecure. Not because they want to look pretty for guys. Because they think it f****** was f****** good on them Excuse my language.😢
My heart is breaking for that poor girl. Can you imagine how much it hurts for your husband to tell you he doesn't find you attractive in front of millions of people 😢
Omg Matt and Abby have so much drama. Their snark page is very telling. Matt is soooo narcissistic! And he basically guilted her into going horse back riding the SAME DAY as an IUD insertion. The look of pain on her face was hard to watch.
Also, I think most people didn’t like his “depression song” because he doesn’t take mental health seriously. He treats ADHD like a quirky personality trait and says he thinks he has it when he doesn’t, so why would we believe him with depression?
And she went? I am just gobsmacked. I used to be a loyal subscriber till they showed their TRUE colors. What I hate about Abby is how he can easily manipulate her into going riding with him and she would sit through the extreme pain and defend him and call her audience a hater for looking out for her.
@@user-hf7kj9dp1fI subscribed to them since 2020. They used to be super fun, quirky, just made dance videos together. I genuinely think influencer culture ruined their relationship. As soon as they got popular they were no longer fun, just caught up in themselves and Matt just got more narcissistic over time. Abbey is clearly insecure about how she looks and how she changed during pregnancy and I feel like Matt’s “brutal honesty” or whatever his excuse is for the way he talks about her, is only making it worse. Poor woman.
I think we shouldn't be so naive and think that social media is hidden security camera footage - they do this for a living. Reality TV is less scripted because it's just for a season. I never watched them, but I'm sure that the horse riding after iud was a scheduled program thing, if not just fake drama. They want to be talked about - it's publicity, and it pays for their lifestyle. Making fun of MH and neurological problems by "slipping up" is a "series", like a trailer for the last sequel of a movie. They'll have a "my right to opinion" 1,2 and 3; then a prequel and a few origin stories, an "apology" and a "learning" and an "educating myself", then a "oh, cruel faith - my child" then an epiphany, regret and struggle series, and a "my kid has problems" spin off. I don't know them personally, I don't follow them and I hope I'm just so disappointed in humanity that I'm falsely accusing them of this - but nah. This isn't and never was a lifestyle, IT'S A CAREER.
i actually hate that dude, hes such an asshole to her. will never forget the time he gave her the silent treatment for DAYS after she had just given birth because he was sad about his failing music career.
She was crying when pregnant and he bought her water with shit loads of ice KNOWING that she only likes 2 ice cubes. He did it so he could record her getting more upset…wow that pissed me off.
Oml, a lot of dudes get major ego death when their wives give birth, it's an incredible/beautiful thing and all the attention is on her and the baby and they get so jealous. Creepy behavior
After she gave birth, he got her some lulelemon gym outfits and he got her an EXTRA Small. He knew she was obviously postpartum and should get her something that fits right. He got her a TIGHT outfit and she mentioned it. He laughed it off.
Or did she judt say, she told him, to get them and the sizes, she probably doesnt want people knoeing what an abusive, mentally, arshole her husband is. Shes embarassed, obviously.
I like these types of reaction videos. You're not just sitting there and making us watch you watch other people do stuff with a bit of commentary here and there. You're actually giving us your own entertainment. It makes me more interested in what YOU have to say about it rather than what the video says.
This is not a traditional man! My father is a traditional man, he has never disrespected my mother in-front of me, in public, and definitely not on the internet. He also knows how to pitch in the household and be present in his kids lives.
Matt is a narcissistic man who thinks their followers and his wife especially should praise him to the sky for every fart he lets out. He thinks doing his part is something she should thank him for. Why is he always trying to embarass her and catch her in vulnerable moments? Even more, why does he see it as an oppurtunity to try to act like he's a great, understanding husband? A good husband would'nt record the vulnerable moments of his wife. Props to your dad though, he's a real one.
He doesn’t love her. He doesn’t even like her. There is one of their video on TikTok where they were for HORSE RIDING on the same day she got her IUD (contraception) 😬😬😬. If you have IUD , you know how painful it is and yet he booked to ride horse after that appointment 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️.
@@ThelmaSky1992 Yes, she agreed to it being posted but reality is that this video should't even exist to begin with. Him taking out the camera as his first thought is messed up to the core and her approval doesn't change it in the slightest. The only reason she agreed to it being public is for money and it was most likely hours or days later when she was feeling different. I doubt that she would actually be so happy for anyone else to see it in that very moment.
@@AntisociaIsocial he talked about her vagina not being the same after birth and how depressed he is even tho he has a family.... like she must feel shitty all the time
@Gabriela________ If you create a life around oversharing for public views, then yes, the video should exist. Had he secretly or randomly recorded her, then your comment would have validity, but that's not the case here.
I honestly think so too. I saw in some videos people were actually speculating it in the comments. They had some "proof" that he cheated. (Don't remember what exactly) But it made sense tho
The thing that got me the most was them sharing how their second pregnancy was an accident and they weren't happy. Do you think that kid's not going to grow up and see that video some day??
Well, what is wrong with knowing to have been an accident? Didn't throw me into existential crisis. And I do not see how it could do anybody. Doesn't hurt to know or learn one is NOT the centre of the universe.
@janaburczyk4077 Nothing wrong with learning you were an unplanned pregnancy. It's the way the information is presented. It appears that it was not just unplanned but also unwanted. Now, that could be from the shock of first learning that she was pregnant again, especially when she wasn't supposed to be, but it still could (and did for me) come across as if the pregnancy was a negative, unwanted thing
Can you imagine being a child of a family channel and years later watching back how your family exploited you 😭. These kids probably grow up with lots of trauma.
All these abusive family channel parents will fr either end up in a nursing home or just homeless since their adult kids will want nothing to do with them nor want to help their parents out in any way
There are already kids from family blogs & vlogs that have come out with their stories and they are like the worst stories you would expect from a childhood when ur mom covered everything from potty training to first crushes. Awful and so clinical. I hate it for those kids
They posted a video after the birth of their first child and how he's the one doing chores so I commented: What else is he supposed to do? He's a husband, his wife needs him, his child needs him. And my god, people were at my throat for not appreciating him. Appreciate what? He's supposed to do that.
Right!! And I guarantee she doesn’t get “thank yous” every time she cleans and takes care of their son. But men like that expect praise for the bare minimum
T H I S ‼️ like why are we supposed to act overjoyed and clap our hands together for a man doing the BARE MINIMUM for his wife and child after his wife gave birth. like?? no he does t deserve to be praised for that. it’s the bare minimum.
This dude is not traditional at all. I grew up in one and this isn’t how a man should act in a traditional household. Although, my mom did mainly maintain the home but my father would consistently give her break. Plus, we were also inspired to help her out around the house. Whenever my dad had time off or came home early, he would take care of my mom and chased us around the house to mess with us. He did spend most of his hours at the job and sometimes he came home extremely tired. Yet, he sometimes managed to spend time with us and asked us about our day. Idk! Maybe they have their own definition of what a traditional couple is. If that is what work for them, who am I to judge? From watching my parents, being traditional means understanding your role in the relationship yet still give a helping hand when needed. Sometimes you don’t have to wait until you are asked to help out . When dinner time came around, my dad always made sure he took care of the dishes. Especially on weekends since he worked a 9-5. He also did it during the week but not as consistently as on the weekends. Again, there were days he come home very exhausted and my mom understood that. My siblings and I mainly took care of the dishes or took out the trash on weekdays.
Working isn't the same as surviving. I think it works out if both parties are MUTALLY HAPPY and SATISFIED - coming from a daughter of a happy, breadwinner dad, but unhappy, overworked, and exhausted mom who raised 6 kids with little help I honestly think the dude in the video is happy and satisfied, but it's so obvious that poor woman isn't.
@@cocobeanzzzzz That is why I said if their situation works out for them to just let them be. After all, we do not understand what type of understanding they have .
Also the reason I’m saying all this is because of what I experienced. My experience, yours and everyone else’s is completely different . If they grew up in an environment where the woman only took care of the household and both parties are happy, then it’s fine.
He gives "friend that constantly embarrasses you" energy. They posted a "pov: you're cleaning up vomit" video after she'd been sick once. Not comforting her, not doing things to make her feel better. Shaming and filming. 😢
@@cybercriminal3110 I mean, yes he was comforting her, but he was still filming her while she wasn't feeling good and was recording her crying. And like idk their personal lives obviously but I wouldn't rlly want my man recording me after I threw up and he's cleaning it up lmao, like I would feel bad tbh, and now the video is pretty much on the internet forever and like if all those things happened to me I wouldn't rlly want that on the internet yk?
Is it shaming someone to point out his pregnant wife vomited. That is an expected thing that society definitely doesn’t shame. I think he was trying to do something to overcorrect all the hate he’s been getting because of how he treats her so he was trying to show that he does take care of her and it was just weird and comes off as asking for praise for taking care of your pregnant wife when she’s throwing up because of the baby you put it her. I think a lot of his worst moments are him not understanding emotions in general and then taking too long to realize he’s offended her and then his weird overcorrections cause he’s panicked just all make it a shit show. I think she’s crazy to keep trying to make him understand what she wants and actually be able to change when he’s shown her he’s unable. She actually does understand emotions so I think it’s a bit crazy that she has such unrealistic expectations that set them up for disappointment and resentment. And she is aware of how the internet will take the stupid things he says. Since he somehow doesn’t see why that is beyond stupid it’s kinda on her as a wife to save him from himself. And save their kids from having to watch this someday. They need an actual therapist because two people who are unable to communicate having a long podcast where they just express resentment at each others inadequacy is just not what the world or the cruel internet need. He doesn’t have depression in the sad type people think of.. he feels literally empty and like there is something he should feel but he doesn’t know how and her telling him he sucks for that isn’t the way to go. She should’ve known how he’d be and prepared to have someone around that actually helped her feel more supported so they both would have less stress on them and could’ve been able to enjoy their child’s birth instead of turning it into a traumatic experience. They’re unwilling or unable to compromise on how they want things done so they’ll end up miserable every time they go with that plan. Sad for those kids
Honestly, him asking right after birth "Do uou think you cheated birth?" with her having had a C-Section is so out of this world disrespectful, i cannot believe he said it and that they published it.
I can't believe he said that either. A C-section isn't "cheating birth", it's literally just another way of having a kid without traumatizing your body (at least, that's what a C-section is to me. I might be wrong).
@@Muddy-Goldfish72 It probably depends on the person but from what I've heard, the recovery from a c section is worse than the recovery of a vaginal birth. Also the thought of being cut open while conscious terrifies the heck out of a lot of people including myself. I've also heard a lot of stories where women stop having kids after having a c section because of how much of a nightmare the recovery was. I don't plan on having kids yet, but I already know I don't want a c section because of everything I've heard about it. But regardless it is NOT cheating birth🤦
@@Muddy-Goldfish72 C sections definitely also traumatise the body. It's a serious surgery, just very normalised. C section patients have to stay in the hospital longer than those who did vaginal birth, often.
Right? As if that isn’t the bare minimum LMAO Mom is doing that shit all the time and she isn’t getting praised for it, don’t know why dads think they suddenly deserve praise then
He actually doesn't like what real natural women look like. He likes natural women without stretch marks, has symmetrical chest and breast augmentation and bbl.
She doesn't care about her kids. Shoves them off for her parents to take care and just go workout & go on trips. She's just as bad. I feel sorry for their kids.
@@whatsonhermindblog123 You don’t think that technology has made this world worse? I think the human race has advanced beyond the point that we were supposed to. Earth is way over populated and it’s only going to get worse from here. Don’t mean to sound like a downer, but I feel like it’s the truth and within a couple hundred years people will start to realize that this could head into some 1984 type shit.
I always wonder about people who want "traditional marriages". And based off all these comments saying he doesn't seem to love or even like her, I'm getting "closeted gay" vibes
Objectifying and dehumanising abby is a repeated pattern i notice watching their videos. Its so misogynistic how there is so much emphasis on the way her body LOOKS. Her boobs were made to breastfeed your children, not to be perfectly symetrical for you. Also i qatched a recent reel they posted where she talked about debating having surgery on her stomach. Her husband is balding at this point, he even mentions it, but ofc no consideration on his side to get a hair transplant. Im not saying that he should feel insecure in his body, just pointing out the blatant difference in the pressure women feel to look perfect compared to men, i think their marriage is a good example of that.
I'd never seen the clip about her considering getting a breast reduction before, so bad and really encapsulates Matt's approach to her body. He says "why would you do that" in such an incredulous way, but he isn't really asking "why" to get an answer because she literally tells him, and it sounds like she's tried explaining before. She tells him about how they make her life difficult and his brain is just ".......but why? they're big and i like them .....???"
It sounds like he's less insecure than she is. Instead of asking why he isn't considering plastic surgery, doesn't it make more sense to question why she would even think that's okay? I really don't see why you'd hear someone talk about wanting cosmetic surgery and another not then think, "hey, why don't you want cover up your insecurities as well? You should be just as uncomfortable; that's a double standard."
It was so sad when they were talking about her body after giving birth. It's not like she can control how many stretchmarks would she have after (and he was the one who impregnated her in the first place). If you don't like many stretchmarks, don't impregnate her then. The same as the boob size which is also normal and inevitable when breastfeeding. She had those uneven boob sizes and stretchmarks because of him, he contributed to it. It's like deliberately inflicting a wound on your wife's face and later on saying that you don't like someone with a scar on their face.
also the way he exaggerates her different breast sizes. Like yes, women get differently sized breasts after birth and during breastfeeding, but he made it seem like one was a grape and one was a melon, like calm down
Man, I’m impressed and subscribing from now. You seem intelligent and hilarious, and I’m loving it! I’m glad I bumped into your channel, didn’t see such a good commentary in a while!
Nothing is worse than being in a relationship with a narcissist. I lost absolutely everything I owned leaving an abusive partner and went into a domestic violence shelter with my kid so I could get away from it,as hard as things have been it’s worth it not having to live with a jerk who’s hurtful everyday.
When my husband’s at work, I do 100% of the work at the house if im home. My husband does 100% work at the house when he’s home and I’m working but if we are both home guess what it’s 5050 that should be the way it should work in all marriages you should help out your partner when they can’t and vice versa. These family bloggers really blow my mind lately.
My husband works 14-16hr shifts 5 days a week (he’s a business owner) and I homeschool and deal with our sons therapies, he joins a session once a week and we do errands and try to give each other breaks on his day off, some days I can do more and he gets to relax, some days I’m too tired and if he can he picks up the slack, sometimes we both relax but usually we’re always working on something, both jobs are exsausting and we’ve learned to give the other grace and patience
This guy gives narcissist or sociopathic vibes to me. The way he just laughed after saying his wife’s lopsided boobs were less attractive to him was disgusting. This woman put her body through hell to carry his child and this is how he repays her?
Even the wife's own grandmother told him he is a narcissist to his face. Apparently the wife said 'Oh grandma you're joking right!' and she looked at the husband and said nope, I know what I said and I meant it.
There is a horrible look of disgust on his face when he's talking about her stretch marks...this would kill me god please don't let me end up with a guy like this
@@KitanaDenton i need to list questions before i marry a guy...but i also fear hes narcissitc and is a good liar...and shows his true self after...hope we dont end up with someone like this..we know better now
“I wanted to surprise her with a clean house”!?! You are supposed to do that anyways that’s not a surprise for your wife, that’s just what you do when you live in a house😭
lmao tired of this...endless..i agree with majority of the comments...this also makes me realise how shitty my brothers are for not flushing the toilet and cleaning the bathroom we all use together...i clean no one even say thanks...sorry bit of complain
I never liked him. He lacks real empathy. You can tell it’s forced. I don’t see real love for her. He still seems like a boy that has not really become a man or father.
@@Cocicic-it5erit has nothing to do with them? Girlie they made it our business by posting shit publicly. Kids these days don't understand that social media is a public place. Nobody owes you kindness of the benefit of the doubt when you act dumb in public
Was he really mature enough to have children and go through the progress with her? I‘m their age, I would feel so horrible if I had a man who talks so disrespectful about the after baby body that I got from his baby
Thankfully my husband found me even more attractive after having his kid's. Im glad he loves my body at times when I don't. He looks at my stretch marks as marks from creating our children
My pouch make me insecure and he makes me feel like a star But touching my pouch and massaging it I use to feel awkward 😅 And cry he point towards our baby girl 3 year old and a newborn son ❤❤❤❤
omg i’m so happy people are finally talking about this, I don’t follow them actively but whenever their videos would pop up on my feed they always felt so off
Same. When I first found them they seemed like cute newlyweds but now it seems too fake. They seem like the couple to post they're splitting up just for views
@@jodaq04 i kept avoiding the idea in my head theyre fake..but who knwos im saying this bcz of this vid..nah...its actually one of ehr vid where she was defending him i think saying abt how he alwahs caring loving being the best husband...notntoo sure but i see shes always giving...i want to unfollow them how abt abby...she overshares too or not doesnt make her husband less shitty tho
@exp-io853 oh yes believe me I don't want to believe that either (them being fake nor do i want to see them split). Reading my comment I really do sound like a snob lol. Let's just hope when the camera is off they're still the same as they are when it's on. And yeah wayyyyy to much oversharing for sure I don't wanna know if "it" still feels the same 😫
This is so DISRESPECTFUL!!! A good man knows, you NEVER talk like this about your wife and NOT THE WOMAN WHO BIRTHED UR CHILDREN!!!! Dang it, he is not a good husband. My man would never say that he does not like a thing about me.
Ngl she should’ve skipped the question or not ask any further questions. I notice how a lot of women don’t like their men honest. That’s the thing about him he says his opinion without any thought. It’s important not to bite more than you can chew. I cringed at how she kept instigating and gradually became insecure. They’re both at fault for that one.
@@estela_agbegninou8337 yeah i kinda get u. Those are privat questions but tbh I wouldnt want a man who doesnt find be COMPLETELY attractive and i am kinda insecure sometimes, so I’ll admit, i would investigate further as well. I mean i guess she needs some validation and kindness because from some videos i know she struggles with post partum depression and more. So i think its always up to a persons character and relationship. I mean i chose my man and she chose hers right? U get what u choose
@@kimbr.8611 yep that’s exactly how it is. And I watched the video it seems he said he likes her the way it is but she didn’t want to accept that answer in a way because she couldn’t believe it. And that’s how you make someone say more and it won’t sound pleasing afterwards. In a way it seems that she’s also aware of the differences and the changes and wants him to admit to it but it also hurts at the same time to hear it. It’s a normal thing that we do. And that’s why I wish that we’d tell ourselves that we’re beautiful without depending on our spouses to approve our bodies and to tell us what they like and don’t like. He could definitely be a better husband though.
@@estela_agbegninou8337 I get what you mean, but also honesty is good but it can be said in different ways (his answer wasn't the worst but they said they had already talked about it so it's not like he was taken by surprise? Idk). Also, a man can have different perspectives of those differences in the wife's post baby body without them being lies. For example I've seen some wonderful examples of such answers online, like how there is a difference but not a negative one, or he's even more attracted to her knowing she's the mother of his child etc. and they looked perfectly sincere and respectful. Now, if it's actually an issue, especially 1-2 years after birth (which Abby had 2 babies back-to-back), maybe talk about it privately and with respect and considerantion and weigh your options. Insecurity is natural especially in this vulnerable time where there are so many life but also physical changes. I can honestly see how the worry that he may not like it as much anymore could have been bugging her for a while and I think it's good to have a talk rather than live worried he's silently disappointed in your body. Unfortunately, "uuuuh I guess it's kinda fine" is absolutely no reassurance whatsoever 😂 which she so obviously needed especially in this vulnerable time. He should at least have delivered that (...not very well put) message alongside appreciation about other changes he likes or something, anything. Maybe he could have said that it feels different but not bad, no problem and plus, even if it hadn't been good she's still recently given birth AND pregnant and her body's doing well healing and and still has years to heal. And that she's attractive although he'd love her anyway. Idk just an example I think would have been truthful but not sounded as if it used to be good but now her body is ruined or something.
@@Marina_7 yes I love this comment. It’s very accurate. I share the same opinion on this. I just wonder why they didn’t skip over it. But I also recall him saying that he “liked it pretty well” or something along the lines of that. But she wasn’t convinced and dug into it more because she wasn’t convinced. I definitely understand the insecurity that we feel after having a baby but at the same time there could be times where people reassure us or tell us that we look good but we don’t believe it and still don’t feel good about ourselves. Sometimes others can’t help you feel good about yourself with certain things. My biggest issue is that he’s very lazy and instead of telling her that he could take over and help her, he just tells her that she doesn’t need to anything causing it to be worse for her.
The opening skit 💀 me lol but this is why I feel there should be lines that shouldn’t be crossed online like this over sharing of couples’ relationships😭 like what happened to where everyone told us not to post anything about our personal details or information 😫
This was the kind of crap my exhusband would say to me when I was pregnant, and after we brought home our daughter (she was in the nicu for 5 weeks) all of her care was dumped solely onto me (because “it’s your job as a woman, you have to take care of her”). I was her primary caregiver for the first 1.5 years of her life (aside from when she started daycare and I went back to work, for the first 6 months at home with us I stayed home and cared for her with no help at all). Looking back, it’s no wonder I had severe postpartum depression.
My husband says it didn’t feel different after birthing our daughter! But it genuinely does take about 2 years for everything to “go back.” He baffles me with his ignorance and hurtful comments! Poor girl. My husband is constantly talking about how hot I am, how much he loves my body, etc. we’ve been together for 12 years!
That's sweet your husband lied to you, to spare your feelings. Some men will tell the truth to their partner even if it hurts their feelings. The TRUTH is that, after natural birth, it does get bigger down there. Some men don't care, but some do. I'm glad your husband doesn't care it's bigger, but it's sweet of him to lie to you, because he loves you ans doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
Traditional marriage just refers to roles and responsibilities that have always been practiced by gender…not details of the actual relationship between the 2 people, that’s totally subjective
Why do they need to share every detail? She says when her period, sex life, boob sizes, breast feeding, constantly talking about her breasts, she described getting camel waxed, shows that off. Said she ripped her butt hole. What hasn't she shared? She made a video saying she got her period. Nobody asked. She overshares every detail herself
@@CoolDude-z4p judging by how she over shares even without asking like getting her period I wouldn't be surprised if they're making up the questions themselves 😄😄
Their followers are just as toxic. They think they are entitled to every personal detail. For example…one of the sons from Sister Wives passed away yesterday. One of the wives asked for privacy and respect during this time and a woman commented that it is their JOB to give them every detail they ask for bc they chose to put their lives on television. Or another woman had the audacity to blame the father and make her opinion known in multiple comments on the instagram of the young man that passed away. wtf? People are callus and lack any kind of respect. It physically made me sick especially knowing his death was self inflicted and hit home for me bc I have two kids around his age and I have suffered from mental health issues. But also bc I volunteer on a suicide hotline and speak to many young adults. Reality has flew the coop.
I heard about the son passing. Any grieving parent has the right to privacy just because people are on a TV program/social media they don't owe anybody anything. That's actually crazy entitlement from their "fan's". That poor family.
Their followers are just as toxic. They think they are entitled to every personal detail. For example…one of the sons from Sister Wives passed away yesterday. One of the wives asked for privacy and respect during this time and a woman commented that it is their JOB to give them every detail they ask for bc they chose to put their lives on television. Or another woman had the audacity to blame the father and make her opinion known in multiple comments on the instagram of the young man that passed away. wtf? People are callus and lack any kind of respect. It physically made me sick especially knowing his death was self inflicted and hit home for me bc I have two kids around his age and I have suffered from mental health issues. But also bc I volunteer on a sucide hotline and speak to many young adults. Reality has flew the coop.
It's so sad that they view her this way and even worse that they're teaching other young people that this is a normal way to view your partner. My husband has watched me grow and birth babies that were alive and babies that weren't. He's seen me go from an A cup to an E and back again. He's watched me get biopsies, radioactive cancer treatments, medical device implants, and more surgeries than most people ever experience. And that's only scratching the very surface of the physical changes my body has gone through since I was the 22 yo girl that he met me as. But today at 41 years old we still can't keep our hands off each other. Finding a person to love and grow old with is an immense privilege. It sounds like this couple doesn't understand that.
Exactly, it’s nice seeing your insight as an experienced person in a relationship share your views. And as someone young, they really are bad influence. I used to like them at the beginning but now I don’t since they felt off. Thank god I left them, now the truth is out.
I'm in a traditional marriage. My husband works a blue collar job and i stay home to care for the kids and house. My husband will help around the house as needed and doesnt expect a pat on the back. We work together to make our lives flow nicely, Matt is not a traditional husband.
My parents are in the traditional marriage as well and this is exactly what it is. He works and whenever he has time or my mum is unavailable, he takes up the work.
I always commented on her shorts that this man is not treating you right I don't know how she couldn't see things that I could from behind a screen. That man gives off narcissistic cheater energy and very disrespectful
It's the abuse victim mindset. It's hard for people who haven't been abused to understand it. I think he was her first relationship (I could be wrong though) they started dating in either middle school or high school, and they got married straight out.
Also there’s a big chance she DOES see it but doesnt want to ACTUALLY accept it. Or feels like she has to stay because of the kids and the money and the channel.
@Princess_Panda33 You're right but IG the channel belongs to her but women being pressurised to stay with their partners cz of their kids is a real thing.
If the husband works his ass off outside of the home like mine, I’m totally fine with taking care of our kids and home. And he does appreciate me. But if he sang a song telling me I didn’t fulfill him??? While I can kind of understand, pack your bags!
@@flatass9079 Well, he’ll probably be needing to find a different job soon! But I just assumed he did all the editing and backend stuff. At least I hope!
@@Hopespringseternal nope 😂 they have hired people specifically for editing. So he basically does nothing except shoving a camera to people's faces, babysitting his own kids and complaining about his life.
@@BeDangerousSomeMore who are you talking to? My husband works 60-70 hour work weeks. Would be wonderful for only work 8 hour days, just not in the cards at the moment.
My bio dad’s family is UA-cam celebs. Until his wife died everything was on UA-cam. I would film my sibs for memories for me alone and I noticed them blocking their faces. It said so much. And I realized my father didn’t seem to realize they didn’t like to be on camera.
I have commented only like literally two times in my life. However I must say this: you really are funny. You made me laugh and smile while watching. Your impersonations of those characters were so good and refreshing. Do not ever stop, you have a talent for sarcastic comedy. Also - you made some very good points throughout the video. Have a nice day and other days and every day 🤞🏻🎉💫🤎
Why am I happy that he’s calling out these couples who make their life look so perfect. It used to make me feel like my marriage needed to be like that or close to it 😭thank you layze ❤
That’s what I would say. But atleast we can be happy without a camera. Cause I wonder how they really are without a camera. Cause I’ve heard of people that can’t have fun , unless they’re posting it if that makes sense.
My EX husband was this traditional bozo who believes “natural” is skin tone colors. No vibrant eyeshadows or lipsticks. I wasn’t allowed to dye my hair any color except for ones that are natural in color, no tattoos, no piercings, I wasn’t allowed to have short hair and I had to dress “feminine” but no low cut shirts, bra straps couldn’t be exposed. He had to approve of my attire before going somewhere without him. It was control. If I did go out without him, even to have lunch with my grandfather, I had to bring both toddlers with me. It was hell and I did it for five years before walking away. Last straw was when my grandfather passed away, he also raised me so it was like losing a father, after two days he told me to get over it. Done, deuces. Dude means it’s okay to have stretch marks from carrying a baby but if it was from being overweight, then it’s not
Other than the granddad, sounds like he was protecting you like a husband should. 🤷🏽♀️ When you do all those things he didn’t want you to partake in, you look like you’re going through something, which most people usually are. I had a phase of ALL those things and I look back like yeaaaaa, I had some issues. Those things don’t show any signs of a respectable young lady. Just some party play girl, then when girls out here getting played… the tears show up. 🤷🏽♀️ Be better and you’ll have better. None of the things you mentioned enhance your life AT ALL. I know from experience.
@@neyaharris5316 She legit said he controlled her life and u r saying what he was doing was right for her. This is so unbelievable. The matter is that she didnt feel comfortable in this relationship because of the mental abuse he was showing to her. When u are in a relationship u are not supposed to control ur partner or try to make them look and act however u like. You are supposed to be with them for who they are, you are supposed to let them be, to encourage them, to inspire them, to support them. Im sorry if your experience was unpleasant and i hope u find or have found the one for u if thats what u want but not for the cost of your self-respect.
I saw you posted this and finallyyyyyy someone is talking about Matt and abby. I remember she got jealous that matt looked at a younger picture OF HERSELF from like 2 years ago? How toxic
I can understand being upset if your husband still thirsts over photos of you from before you had HIS kids. I mean she popped out two kids for him, he better be finding her attractive RN. I’d be pissed too if I had someone’s kids and they obsess over the old me from before I went through 18 months of torture that ruins a woman’s self esteem and causes horrible pain and hormone surges. We need to stop treating pregnant women and postpartum women like they’re not those things. I feel horrible for her, pregnancy is something men will never understand.
i hate how men will comment on how we look, how we dress, how our body looks, when they’re like twenty pounds overweight and wearing a stained t-shirt and sweatpants. the standard for women compared to men is actually horrifying, and it makes me pissed just thinking about it.
I’m glad she was even asking him such personal questions about her body because it brings awareness to this toxic behavior men, especially “traditional” men exhibit. Her asking those questions is only showing his true character.
yeah but it shows his true character to us, not to her. he even said in a video that she wouldn't leave if he cheated and she legit didn't say anything...
17:24 Ugh...Matt, her boobs are NOT for YOU. If large is uncomfortable for her, she has the right to reduce them and you have no say. Layze nailed Matt's childish boobie obsession after this clip.😅
Matt and Abby have always been crazy to me. When their son was like 5 months old, Matt threw him like 5' in the air and it truly gave me a heart attack. Imagine if a small baby fell 10' to the ground
I love Layze❤.When I had cancer 2 years ago,my husband had to learn how to do laundry,housework,drive me to chemo,radiation,surgery.He learned my house job hope he learned a lesson to not take advantage of people.i was bedridden he had to wait on me.If he had cancer I would’ve helped him regardless.i wouldn’t wish cancer on anyone.
As someone who suffers depression off and on. Gardening and time outside and exercise actually does sigmificantly help improve it. Its getting there thats the hard part.
@@Sarah-psalm127 exactly, depression is a double whammy because a symptom is lack of motivation which makes it hard to do things that will make you feel better
Sure, studies have shown that 50% of cases with depression show the same or similar improvement as with medication... but that's 50/50 lol! Some people need more than "just go touch grass, bro."
I hate when people say “you need Jesus!” First of all, I have Jesus, and second, I also have Zoloft and that’s what keeps my brain the f*ck in check. Thank you.
honestly, fair point. All the heavily religious commenters on videos annoy me. I’ve had a experience with people trying to convert me in all ways, and the comments don’t make it any better
I mean they aren’t wrong, but in the sense of pushing Jesus on people is not going to make them want to get closer to Jesus. I hate when people make fun of other religions or push their religion on others, education someone on your religion is appropriate. Pushing it is not appropriate. ❤
A mom who’s crying because she “can t be lazy” and a dad who clean the house and take care of the kids 1/month . That s my favourite traditional marriage (disfunctional idk how to say in english ) sad but yeah . Pretty common
the reason people were upset at matt’s depression is because he made it abby’s problem, abby’s fault, made it abby’s job to comfort him while she was going through her own stuff. when she had her postpartum depression, he did not support her as much as she supported him. he also made it seem like marrying her and having kids ruined his life, crushed his dreams, and caused his depression which is just … not the thing you say to your wife who just gave birth.
I just wanted to brag that one week from yesterday my 6 months of homelessness is over! I’ll be living with a roof over my head and I can’t wait… to sleep without leg cramps… sleeping in the backseat of an old Honda is not comfy. Oh and to bathe! I’m very excited for that!
That is so amazing I'm so happy for you!!! You deserve it and way more ❤❤
Good for you. I hope everythng works out,
I'm so happy for you. Big hug! I wish you all the very best!
❤❤❤❤
I've been there. A long time ago. I'm so happy for you ❤❤
I think she's oversharing to relate to pregnant women and women who've given birth, to tell them these changes are normal. He's a jerk. She gave him a child, he doesn't have to be so hurtful with his wording. He has no empathy.
She has given him 2 children!
Fr its not about that man
Seeing this guy makes me happy that I have no dating life/kids/man/etc. He's like Regina George with a D.
@@audreythomas9488Having a child involves the man.
She's no better.
So they have a “traditional marriage “ which means he’s the breadwinner right? But their primary source of income is tiktok….
so she’s helping him at his job but he doesn’t help her out at home ?? I’m so confused
This is not a traditional marriage
Exactly. She’s doing it all and he’s a b!tch bum.
Great catch! God bless you in the name of Jesus Christ, who is the name above all names & the only way to Heaven❤
They have a podcast, BOTH of them, and she’s the most likeable… so she IS bringing money to their household. He’s just a hypocrite 🤦🏻♀️ so sad for her
everything they say and do that's posted for views are done for money, could there be any truth? sure, but always take everything with a huge grain of salt.
The problem with his depression song was she just gave birth to their baby but he wanted it to be about his depression. Meanwhile, he doesn't think baby blues exist.
I was thinking like, notice how in that video how the camera is set up to get her reaction to his song abt his depression & he’s also the one who started recording her when she was laying on the couch crying
When a guy says he "prefers natural" he means "I prefer women who are just naturally gorgeous" 😂 as if that is a real quirk or preference
yeah
yeah when a woman is ‘natural’ they then say shit like ‘you need to put on make up’
Frr
@@theresidentialratFr😭
yeah and as if stretch marks arent natural??😂😂
Am I the only one to notice that the wife is one whose personal information is over shared in this video? That’s terrible to me and very narcissistic on the husband’s part.
Not just you...very creepy and sad
Also her. She chooses to share so much. She did a video sharing her getting laser hair removal down there. Plus her period. She overshares herself
I agree with you. My goodness, this is all so appalling and I wonder how Mr Hubby would react if Mrs Wifey started to criticise his body, and particularly his wedding tackle.
Plus anyway most women tend to feel insecure about their bodies all the time, but especially after giving birth.
Anyway, no sane person needs to share all that intimate stuff with the whole world.
Right?! With how much they overshare....lets hear how big he is! C'mon it's just normal biology right?
yes but shes doing that herself (also periods arent anything to be ashamed about wtf) shes not over here shaming or making big details about her husbands body thats what everyone is upset abt is because of what her husband was saying @@CoolDude-z4p
The whole podcast makes me very uncomfortable. It seems like she is looking for validation because pregnancy hormones and at EVERY turn, he finds a way to fuck it up. My husband was watching this with me, and he was just gobsmacked. He would never say any of that to me if I was pregnant and certainly not publicly
i agree with you, even the part that the husband said “i’d like a natural looking woman.” i personally don’t think that a look changes who you are, and if i were a husband i would never and i mean NEVER say that to my wife. the same thing goes for women too tho.
this generation is pretty sad honestly, and it’s so messed up about how the husband chose to talk about her private part especially when his wife was having an ACTUAL EMOTIONAL BREAKDOWN on the couch.
he got her pregnant after G so fast, it says SO MUCH about that disgsuting little boy. ❤️🩹 and it was certainly while she was still recovering from HERNIA SURGERY 🤧 her mask has slipped so many times because of his sick behavior. i am praying for this poor sweet woman 🤒
@terror404 ehhh not so fast. Abby was the one that was gunning for another child after G and Matt was really weird about it at first. He wasn't ready for another child and he tried telling her that but she vetoed it because she wanted more pregnancy content. She's not so innocent either.
My husband struggles with some things but he wants to “have a chat” with that guy.
Girl you have a good man..this one is question is a bag of shit
13:39 idk why but I started crying when she laughed I might seem dramatic but damn she feels insecure after giving birth to a new life to a baby it’s a hard and painful experience and then being told stuff like this it just made me cry if I was in her place I will immediately cry i pray everyday that I marry a person who will never ever make me feel this way
Let’s normalize keeping our lives private.
Yeah there's a difference between not being ashamed and having privacy
That's not gonna happen clout is a hell of a drug 😂😂😂
YES PLS
nah post it so u can go to jail
Things like this are a double edged sword with social media. It does influence sooo negatively other people as it literally normalises toxic relationships, disrespecting women, desensitizes the masses to an emotionally forced patriarchal relationship on the household and also to emotional sadism and neglect basically and on top of it to the capitalisation and objectification of the relationships as well. And Of course, the obvious, to the fact that we're so eager giving away privacy away for the money and fame prospect.
It's insane and with the rise of AI, surveillance capitalism and cyber crime, beyond destructive, BUT, at the same time it inevitably shows to many people with a functional brain what not to do to others. Cause personally I had randomly seen their channel since before they blew up and I just knew to NEVER tolerate shzt men like this. Eye opening.
And to think there are people that idolise their relationship and dynamics... EW. But I'm glad to see that a substantial percentage of viewers actually filter what they watch and are fairly critising this mess of a relationship.
Also, the fact that the woman of the couple is the one that literally gave her life away to a man that resents her because he's emotionally stunted basically and way too unmotivated when she's a gem of a person as it seems, yet he is the one that feels victimised in the situation tells you all you need to know about how detrimental to our society manchildren like this can be
Out of all the things he does his weaponised incompetence is one of the worst ones for me, aside the basically selling your wifes privacy for your own benefit. I just hope she wakes up and claims her happiness soon. She has a child now and owes it the kid to show that the things she's experiencing should not be experienced and tolerated in the long run as our time on earth is limited thus it should be valued, especially by the person we choose to spend the rest of our lives with.
So yes all of this should not have been shown, but it's enlightening to the outsider and maybe it should be for the woman who is directly involved as well.
13:57 Matt saying he likes a "natural looking woman" is BS because he has said that Kim Kardashian is his celebrity crush. She is FAR from "natural".
Nahahha imagine sayin u like em natural then havin ur celebrity crush being exactly opposite of natural. There is not one natural thing on that girl instead of her stupidity istg
Its like how on processed foods they try and trick you by saying all of the ingredients are natural, and then you find out that your definition of ‘natural’ and their definition of ‘natural’ are two completely different things.
Words mean nothing and everything now.
@flowandebbbut she is not natural now.
@flowandebbshe has, Kim never needed surgery but ofc that’s her choice
What the f*** does he mean by f****** natural? Like I'm sorry. Girls are gonna wear f****** makeup and not because they're insecure. Not because they want to look pretty for guys. Because they think it f****** was f****** good on them Excuse my language.😢
My heart is breaking for that poor girl. Can you imagine how much it hurts for your husband to tell you he doesn't find you attractive in front of millions of people 😢
In more than a few ways!
She’s been accepting this behaviour for ages. It doesn’t happen out of the blue one day. It just shows her standards
Would he be this honest with her if they didn’t have viewers 🤔 or would he gaslight light her either way the your perfect answer 😒
Right she strikes me as someone who lives in her own world and ignores everything outside of what they wants to see.
Way to victim blame dude@@edithk2997
so he pays bills… and fails at it and sings in a studio, while she takes care of the kids, feeds everyone, cleans, and does social media…
Omg Matt and Abby have so much drama. Their snark page is very telling. Matt is soooo narcissistic! And he basically guilted her into going horse back riding the SAME DAY as an IUD insertion. The look of pain on her face was hard to watch.
Also, I think most people didn’t like his “depression song” because he doesn’t take mental health seriously. He treats ADHD like a quirky personality trait and says he thinks he has it when he doesn’t, so why would we believe him with depression?
And she went? I am just gobsmacked. I used to be a loyal subscriber till they showed their TRUE colors. What I hate about Abby is how he can easily manipulate her into going riding with him and she would sit through the extreme pain and defend him and call her audience a hater for looking out for her.
😰🚩🚩
@@user-hf7kj9dp1fI subscribed to them since 2020. They used to be super fun, quirky, just made dance videos together. I genuinely think influencer culture ruined their relationship. As soon as they got popular they were no longer fun, just caught up in themselves and Matt just got more narcissistic over time. Abbey is clearly insecure about how she looks and how she changed during pregnancy and I feel like Matt’s “brutal honesty” or whatever his excuse is for the way he talks about her, is only making it worse. Poor woman.
I think we shouldn't be so naive and think that social media is hidden security camera footage - they do this for a living. Reality TV is less scripted because it's just for a season.
I never watched them, but I'm sure that the horse riding after iud was a scheduled program thing, if not just fake drama. They want to be talked about - it's publicity, and it pays for their lifestyle. Making fun of MH and neurological problems by "slipping up" is a "series", like a trailer for the last sequel of a movie. They'll have a "my right to opinion" 1,2 and 3; then a prequel and a few origin stories, an "apology" and a "learning" and an "educating myself", then a "oh, cruel faith - my child" then an epiphany, regret and struggle series, and a "my kid has problems" spin off.
I don't know them personally, I don't follow them and I hope I'm just so disappointed in humanity that I'm falsely accusing them of this - but nah. This isn't and never was a lifestyle, IT'S A CAREER.
i actually hate that dude, hes such an asshole to her. will never forget the time he gave her the silent treatment for DAYS after she had just given birth because he was sad about his failing music career.
She was crying when pregnant and he bought her water with shit loads of ice KNOWING that she only likes 2 ice cubes. He did it so he could record her getting more upset…wow that pissed me off.
That's awful!
Oml, a lot of dudes get major ego death when their wives give birth, it's an incredible/beautiful thing and all the attention is on her and the baby and they get so jealous. Creepy behavior
@@RachelSings21omg that’s really bad
HE MADE MUSIC 😭💀
After she gave birth, he got her some lulelemon gym outfits and he got her an EXTRA Small. He knew she was obviously postpartum and should get her something that fits right. He got her a TIGHT outfit and she mentioned it. He laughed it off.
She should have told him that she was waiting to fit into them before she started working out. These men know the type of women they can play with.
She did say, she asked him specifically for those outfits and the sizing
@@miyangtangwan7046I agree!
Or did she judt say, she told him, to get them and the sizes, she probably doesnt want people knoeing what an abusive, mentally, arshole her husband is. Shes embarassed, obviously.
dang MATT is worse than i thought
I like these types of reaction videos. You're not just sitting there and making us watch you watch other people do stuff with a bit of commentary here and there. You're actually giving us your own entertainment. It makes me more interested in what YOU have to say about it rather than what the video says.
This is not a traditional man! My father is a traditional man, he has never disrespected my mother in-front of me, in public, and definitely not on the internet.
He also knows how to pitch in the household and be present in his kids lives.
He sounds wonderful. ❤
Your dad seems like a wonderful man. Treasure your time with him!❤
Matt is a narcissistic man who thinks their followers and his wife especially should praise him to the sky for every fart he lets out. He thinks doing his part is something she should thank him for. Why is he always trying to embarass her and catch her in vulnerable moments? Even more, why does he see it as an oppurtunity to try to act like he's a great, understanding husband? A good husband would'nt record the vulnerable moments of his wife.
Props to your dad though, he's a real one.
@@udontevenwannaknowbruvHe never posts anything emotional without her permission.
You're so blessed with wonderful father. I'm so happy for you ❤️
He doesn’t love her. He doesn’t even like her. There is one of their video on TikTok where they were for HORSE RIDING on the same day she got her IUD (contraception) 😬😬😬. If you have IUD , you know how painful it is and yet he booked to ride horse after that appointment 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️.
Yh when I saw that that’s when I was like 👀. Side eye for real
That's sadistic😢
I would have slapped him for that move
When I got my IUD I stayed in bed for almost 3 days because of the pain
How on earth did she endure that pain!? When I had my IUD inserted I could barely walk for three days! He is horrible.
@@senorpapi3659right🤦🏾♀️
He not only recorded his wife's breakdown, but also rewatched it while editing and posted it. Partner of the year!
They have a shared page she agreed to it.... it's both of them not just him
@@ThelmaSky1992 Yes, she agreed to it being posted but reality is that this video should't even exist to begin with. Him taking out the camera as his first thought is messed up to the core and her approval doesn't change it in the slightest. The only reason she agreed to it being public is for money and it was most likely hours or days later when she was feeling different. I doubt that she would actually be so happy for anyone else to see it in that very moment.
@@AntisociaIsocial he talked about her vagina not being the same after birth and how depressed he is even tho he has a family.... like she must feel shitty all the time
@Gabriela________ If you create a life around oversharing for public views, then yes, the video should exist. Had he secretly or randomly recorded her, then your comment would have validity, but that's not the case here.
12:26 i've never had any kids, but i felt that laugh, we all felt that laugh and it wasnt real, it was a defense mechanism. That broke my heart 💔
He’s a cheater. If not now, soon. But I’d bet money he is currently cheating on her. No one faithful and in love would say that. He’s messed up.
I honestly think so too. I saw in some videos people were actually speculating it in the comments. They had some "proof" that he cheated. (Don't remember what exactly) But it made sense tho
Yeah they are doomed
He only married her so he could have sex
He’s admitted to wondering what it would be like to be with other women
20 bucks says he cheats with a dude.
The thing that got me the most was them sharing how their second pregnancy was an accident and they weren't happy. Do you think that kid's not going to grow up and see that video some day??
Well, what is wrong with knowing to have been an accident? Didn't throw me into existential crisis. And I do not see how it could do anybody. Doesn't hurt to know or learn one is NOT the centre of the universe.
@janaburczyk4077 Nothing wrong with learning you were an unplanned pregnancy. It's the way the information is presented. It appears that it was not just unplanned but also unwanted. Now, that could be from the shock of first learning that she was pregnant again, especially when she wasn't supposed to be, but it still could (and did for me) come across as if the pregnancy was a negative, unwanted thing
Well there new orn was only 10 months
OMG I was gonna say thissss I used to rant abt that 24/7 that poor baby bout to feel unwanted
My parents tell me every day I was an accident lmao. Im fine 😂
Can you imagine being a child of a family channel and years later watching back how your family exploited you 😭. These kids probably grow up with lots of trauma.
All these abusive family channel parents will fr either end up in a nursing home or just homeless since their adult kids will want nothing to do with them nor want to help their parents out in any way
There are already kids from family blogs & vlogs that have come out with their stories and they are like the worst stories you would expect from a childhood when ur mom covered everything from potty training to first crushes. Awful and so clinical. I hate it for those kids
And there are SO MANY family channels
They put their kids on the Internet youtube channels since birth, toddler, kid age ect. teenage age
And make their kids do videos and skits
5:50 DID ANYONE SEE MEGHAN TRAINORS COMMENT
I DIDD😂
YESS
Me
@NicoleMariaIonita MEL FAN SPOTTED!?
I WAS ABOUT TO COMMENT THIS 😂
They posted a video after the birth of their first child and how he's the one doing chores so I commented: What else is he supposed to do? He's a husband, his wife needs him, his child needs him.
And my god, people were at my throat for not appreciating him. Appreciate what? He's supposed to do that.
Right!! And I guarantee she doesn’t get “thank yous” every time she cleans and takes care of their son. But men like that expect praise for the bare minimum
FACT
Honestly, this man has always made my skin crawl.
So True! Especially just after birth.
T H I S ‼️ like why are we supposed to act overjoyed and clap our hands together for a man doing the BARE MINIMUM for his wife and child after his wife gave birth. like?? no he does t deserve to be praised for that. it’s the bare minimum.
This dude is not traditional at all. I grew up in one and this isn’t how a man should act in a traditional household. Although, my mom did mainly maintain the home but my father would consistently give her break. Plus, we were also inspired to help her out around the house. Whenever my dad had time off or came home early, he would take care of my mom and chased us around the house to mess with us. He did spend most of his hours at the job and sometimes he came home extremely tired. Yet, he sometimes managed to spend time with us and asked us about our day. Idk! Maybe they have their own definition of what a traditional couple is. If that is what work for them, who am I to judge?
From watching my parents, being traditional means understanding your role in the relationship yet still give a helping hand when needed. Sometimes you don’t have to wait until you are asked to help out . When dinner time came around, my dad always made sure he took care of the dishes. Especially on weekends since he worked a 9-5. He also did it during the week but not as consistently as on the weekends. Again, there were days he come home very exhausted and my mom understood that. My siblings and I mainly took care of the dishes or took out the trash on weekdays.
Working isn't the same as surviving. I think it works out if both parties are MUTALLY HAPPY and SATISFIED - coming from a daughter of a happy, breadwinner dad, but unhappy, overworked, and exhausted mom who raised 6 kids with little help
I honestly think the dude in the video is happy and satisfied, but it's so obvious that poor woman isn't.
@@cocobeanzzzzz That is why I said if their situation works out for them to just let them be. After all, we do not understand what type of understanding they have .
@@cocobeanzzzzz Raising 6 kids would be tiring as hell. My mom raised 3z
Same 😊
Also the reason I’m saying all this is because of what I experienced. My experience, yours and everyone else’s is completely different . If they grew up in an environment where the woman only took care of the household and both parties are happy, then it’s fine.
He gives "friend that constantly embarrasses you" energy.
They posted a "pov: you're cleaning up vomit" video after she'd been sick once. Not comforting her, not doing things to make her feel better. Shaming and filming. 😢
He was comforting her, telling her it's ok. Did you expect him to give her a massage with his hands in vomit?
@@cybercriminal3110 I mean, yes he was comforting her, but he was still filming her while she wasn't feeling good and was recording her crying. And like idk their personal lives obviously but I wouldn't rlly want my man recording me after I threw up and he's cleaning it up lmao, like I would feel bad tbh, and now the video is pretty much on the internet forever and like if all those things happened to me I wouldn't rlly want that on the internet yk?
@@rattatat258 She's not you. Considering she also posts emotional videos of herself she's ok with it
No je is digging at her ..narcarcisst
Is it shaming someone to point out his pregnant wife vomited. That is an expected thing that society definitely doesn’t shame. I think he was trying to do something to overcorrect all the hate he’s been getting because of how he treats her so he was trying to show that he does take care of her and it was just weird and comes off as asking for praise for taking care of your pregnant wife when she’s throwing up because of the baby you put it her. I think a lot of his worst moments are him not understanding emotions in general and then taking too long to realize he’s offended her and then his weird overcorrections cause he’s panicked just all make it a shit show. I think she’s crazy to keep trying to make him understand what she wants and actually be able to change when he’s shown her he’s unable. She actually does understand emotions so I think it’s a bit crazy that she has such unrealistic expectations that set them up for disappointment and resentment. And she is aware of how the internet will take the stupid things he says. Since he somehow doesn’t see why that is beyond stupid it’s kinda on her as a wife to save him from himself. And save their kids from having to watch this someday. They need an actual therapist because two people who are unable to communicate having a long podcast where they just express resentment at each others inadequacy is just not what the world or the cruel internet need. He doesn’t have depression in the sad type people think of.. he feels literally empty and like there is something he should feel but he doesn’t know how and her telling him he sucks for that isn’t the way to go. She should’ve known how he’d be and prepared to have someone around that actually helped her feel more supported so they both would have less stress on them and could’ve been able to enjoy their child’s birth instead of turning it into a traumatic experience. They’re unwilling or unable to compromise on how they want things done so they’ll end up miserable every time they go with that plan. Sad for those kids
Honestly, him asking right after birth "Do uou think you cheated birth?" with her having had a C-Section is so out of this world disrespectful, i cannot believe he said it and that they published it.
I can't believe he said that either. A C-section isn't "cheating birth", it's literally just another way of having a kid without traumatizing your body (at least, that's what a C-section is to me. I might be wrong).
@@Muddy-Goldfish72 It probably depends on the person but from what I've heard, the recovery from a c section is worse than the recovery of a vaginal birth. Also the thought of being cut open while conscious terrifies the heck out of a lot of people including myself. I've also heard a lot of stories where women stop having kids after having a c section because of how much of a nightmare the recovery was. I don't plan on having kids yet, but I already know I don't want a c section because of everything I've heard about it. But regardless it is NOT cheating birth🤦
@@Muddy-Goldfish72 C sections definitely also traumatise the body. It's a serious surgery, just very normalised. C section patients have to stay in the hospital longer than those who did vaginal birth, often.
Holy crap! He said whaaaaat!!?? C-sections are brutal!!
I love how men think cleaning up after themselves and parenting their own children is above and beyond and makes them saints.
I like there UA-cam channel
Right? As if that isn’t the bare minimum LMAO
Mom is doing that shit all the time and she isn’t getting praised for it, don’t know why dads think they suddenly deserve praise then
It’s literally the bare minimum
tbf they think that cuz most guys dont
Right 😂
Matt the entire time answering questions : I like a natural woman but....not this and not that and any changes are not my type. So not you Abby.
He actually doesn't like what real natural women look like. He likes natural women without stretch marks, has symmetrical chest and breast augmentation and bbl.
Sounds like he'd like the women in pr0n instead...
I don’t think he is into women really at all and probably uses grindr when he loved sleeping separately
because what most men mean by "natural" is "naturally drop dead gorgeus with naturally perfect body and don't forget she must be hairless"
And not women who have natural births 🙄
layze is the kind of person to start twirking upside down when the grim reaper comes for him
I'm sorry, what? 🤨
thats so true 😄
Fr😂😂
I was laughing so fucking hard at this video omg 🤣🤣
Fr 😂
He says he wants a "natural woman" but judges women who have "too many stretchmarks".... He meant naturally perfect women.
There's nothing traditional about not being an actual parent to your child. It's just neglect. Straight. Up.
matt is so immature, why does he make such a big deal about his preferences when hes married and has children?¿
He’s gonna try to screw her so hard in the divorce.
She brought his children into this world. He needs to show her kindness, respect, and love. What a tool!
She doesn't care about her kids. Shoves them off for her parents to take care and just go workout & go on trips. She's just as bad. I feel sorry for their kids.
whats wrong with exercise @@CoolDude-z4p
@@CoolDude-z4p bro did u even watch the vid 💀
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@@CoolDude-z4pbruh wth are you saying
0:40 not the fallout shelter screen 😭
This was literally so dehumanizing. Not just to her, but to all women.
And the kids too. Imagine their kids growing up and seeing all the shit their parents posted…
The internet has destroyed the world.
@@kygalthe world has always been filled with fucked up people, so idk what you’re talking about.
@@whatsonhermindblog123 You don’t think that technology has made this world worse? I think the human race has advanced beyond the point that we were supposed to. Earth is way over populated and it’s only going to get worse from here. Don’t mean to sound like a downer, but I feel like it’s the truth and within a couple hundred years people will start to realize that this could head into some 1984 type shit.
I always wonder about people who want "traditional marriages". And based off all these comments saying he doesn't seem to love or even like her, I'm getting "closeted gay" vibes
Objectifying and dehumanising abby is a repeated pattern i notice watching their videos. Its so misogynistic how there is so much emphasis on the way her body LOOKS. Her boobs were made to breastfeed your children, not to be perfectly symetrical for you. Also i qatched a recent reel they posted where she talked about debating having surgery on her stomach. Her husband is balding at this point, he even mentions it, but ofc no consideration on his side to get a hair transplant. Im not saying that he should feel insecure in his body, just pointing out the blatant difference in the pressure women feel to look perfect compared to men, i think their marriage is a good example of that.
and they're not even 25
I'd never seen the clip about her considering getting a breast reduction before, so bad and really encapsulates Matt's approach to her body. He says "why would you do that" in such an incredulous way, but he isn't really asking "why" to get an answer because she literally tells him, and it sounds like she's tried explaining before. She tells him about how they make her life difficult and his brain is just ".......but why? they're big and i like them .....???"
It feels more as If her Body is his property, like a car, but after she used it it has scratches and now he is pissed.
It sounds like he's less insecure than she is. Instead of asking why he isn't considering plastic surgery, doesn't it make more sense to question why she would even think that's okay? I really don't see why you'd hear someone talk about wanting cosmetic surgery and another not then think, "hey, why don't you want cover up your insecurities as well? You should be just as uncomfortable; that's a double standard."
@@kadicow7388 cause the reason she’s so insecure is because he makes it known that his love is conditional on her appearance
It was so sad when they were talking about her body after giving birth. It's not like she can control how many stretchmarks would she have after (and he was the one who impregnated her in the first place). If you don't like many stretchmarks, don't impregnate her then. The same as the boob size which is also normal and inevitable when breastfeeding. She had those uneven boob sizes and stretchmarks because of him, he contributed to it. It's like deliberately inflicting a wound on your wife's face and later on saying that you don't like someone with a scar on their face.
also the way he exaggerates her different breast sizes. Like yes, women get differently sized breasts after birth and during breastfeeding, but he made it seem like one was a grape and one was a melon, like calm down
Man, I’m impressed and subscribing from now. You seem intelligent and hilarious, and I’m loving it! I’m glad I bumped into your channel, didn’t see such a good commentary in a while!
Nothing is worse than being in a relationship with a narcissist. I lost absolutely everything I owned leaving an abusive partner and went into a domestic violence shelter with my kid so I could get away from it,as hard as things have been it’s worth it not having to live with a jerk who’s hurtful everyday.
Congrats of getting free! Big powermove moving to a safe house. You sound like a great mama and I’m really proud of you ❤❤
So proud of you for getting out of an abusive relationship ❤. You are an extremely strong woman and I pray things get better for you and your kid.
When my husband’s at work, I do 100% of the work at the house if im home. My husband does 100% work at the house when he’s home and I’m working but if we are both home guess what it’s 5050 that should be the way it should work in all marriages you should help out your partner when they can’t and vice versa. These family bloggers really blow my mind lately.
It doesn’t even need to be exactly 50/50 or like a complete equal exchange, but responsibilities should definitely be shared
@@juno.moth17 I agree chores are basic life duties
My husband works 14-16hr shifts 5 days a week (he’s a business owner) and I homeschool and deal with our sons therapies, he joins a session once a week and we do errands and try to give each other breaks on his day off, some days I can do more and he gets to relax, some days I’m too tired and if he can he picks up the slack, sometimes we both relax but usually we’re always working on something, both jobs are exsausting and we’ve learned to give the other grace and patience
W husband W wife
@@starbutt I love this! This sounds like me and my husband. You help your partner in areas where they can’t, no matter what, that’s love.
This guy gives narcissist or sociopathic vibes to me. The way he just laughed after saying his wife’s lopsided boobs were less attractive to him was disgusting. This woman put her body through hell to carry his child and this is how he repays her?
their child*
Both kids she’s birthed! They have two kids
@@Sazzzaaaathey have 3 now
Even the wife's own grandmother told him he is a narcissist to his face. Apparently the wife said 'Oh grandma you're joking right!' and she looked at the husband and said nope, I know what I said and I meant it.
The child will likely take his surname and the saying is children are from where the fathers from. So she did it for him.
(17:48) the “BoObIeS gOoD got me rolling on the ground 😂😂😂
There is a horrible look of disgust on his face when he's talking about her stretch marks...this would kill me god please don't let me end up with a guy like this
That's why you need to talk about these things before you get married and especially before you have kids.
You choose your partner, don't worry mate, you won't end up with someone like this if you choose not to
@@KitanaDenton i need to list questions before i marry a guy...but i also fear hes narcissitc and is a good liar...and shows his true self after...hope we dont end up with someone like this..we know better now
As long as you're aware, you'd be able to recognise the signs. Do live with someone before you marry them, though!
@@user9876_ exactly
“I wanted to surprise her with a clean house”!?! You are supposed to do that anyways that’s not a surprise for your wife, that’s just what you do when you live in a house😭
EXACTLY!!! That poor woman is gonna burn out constantly by carrying all that dead weight
Yes
lmao tired of this...endless..i agree with majority of the comments...this also makes me realise how shitty my brothers are for not flushing the toilet and cleaning the bathroom we all use together...i clean no one even say thanks...sorry bit of complain
@@exp-io853 they dont even flush 🤢
@@exp-io853 nah it's fine
I never liked him. He lacks real empathy. You can tell it’s forced. I don’t see real love for her. He still seems like a boy that has not really become a man or father.
Psychopath
You don’t have too like him he isn’t your husband he dosent have your children it dosent matter what you like when he has nothing too do with you
@@Cocicic-it5erstill don’t like him 🤷🏾♀️ You don’t have to be in somebody’s life to dislike them😂
@@Cocicic-it5erit has nothing to do with them? Girlie they made it our business by posting shit publicly. Kids these days don't understand that social media is a public place. Nobody owes you kindness of the benefit of the doubt when you act dumb in public
Bro shes not much better either it’s so sad 😭😭
The the Meagan Fox blood on the shelf got me! Lmfao that was too funny dude! 😂
Was he really mature enough to have children and go through the progress with her? I‘m their age, I would feel so horrible if I had a man who talks so disrespectful about the after baby body that I got from his baby
They were very young when they started so that adds up to it at least they make it work
@@admar6934they don't make it work. They still act like single teenagers. Her parents take care of their kids
@@CoolDude-z4pher parents watch them sometimes occasionally
@@admar6934 they don't make it work, they act too immature to be good parents
Thankfully my husband found me even more attractive after having his kid's. Im glad he loves my body at times when I don't. He looks at my stretch marks as marks from creating our children
That's so sweet of him❤
They see women as objects and not humans. Get rid of such "men"
My pouch make me insecure and he makes me feel like a star
But touching my pouch and massaging it
I use to feel awkward 😅
And cry he point towards our baby girl 3 year old and a newborn son ❤❤❤❤
He was pretending
@@marilynyoh7951stop projecting your insecurities
omg i’m so happy people are finally talking about this, I don’t follow them actively but whenever their videos would pop up on my feed they always felt so off
Me too I can't stand them lol
Same. When I first found them they seemed like cute newlyweds but now it seems too fake. They seem like the couple to post they're splitting up just for views
@@jodaq04 i kept avoiding the idea in my head theyre fake..but who knwos im saying this bcz of this vid..nah...its actually one of ehr vid where she was defending him i think saying abt how he alwahs caring loving being the best husband...notntoo sure but i see shes always giving...i want to unfollow them how abt abby...she overshares too or not doesnt make her husband less shitty tho
@exp-io853 oh yes believe me I don't want to believe that either (them being fake nor do i want to see them split). Reading my comment I really do sound like a snob lol. Let's just hope when the camera is off they're still the same as they are when it's on. And yeah wayyyyy to much oversharing for sure I don't wanna know if "it" still feels the same 😫
Same!
I couldn't stop laughing when you acted like him, "ya ya baby, 😫 I usually prefer the bigger one.."
#17:55 nah I can't stop laughing 😂
This is so DISRESPECTFUL!!! A good man knows, you NEVER talk like this about your wife and NOT THE WOMAN WHO BIRTHED UR CHILDREN!!!!
Dang it, he is not a good husband. My man would never say that he does not like a thing about me.
Ngl she should’ve skipped the question or not ask any further questions. I notice how a lot of women don’t like their men honest. That’s the thing about him he says his opinion without any thought. It’s important not to bite more than you can chew. I cringed at how she kept instigating and gradually became insecure. They’re both at fault for that one.
@@estela_agbegninou8337 yeah i kinda get u. Those are privat questions but tbh I wouldnt want a man who doesnt find be COMPLETELY attractive and i am kinda insecure sometimes, so I’ll admit, i would investigate further as well. I mean i guess she needs some validation and kindness because from some videos i know she struggles with post partum depression and more. So i think its always up to a persons character and relationship. I mean i chose my man and she chose hers right? U get what u choose
@@kimbr.8611 yep that’s exactly how it is. And I watched the video it seems he said he likes her the way it is but she didn’t want to accept that answer in a way because she couldn’t believe it. And that’s how you make someone say more and it won’t sound pleasing afterwards. In a way it seems that she’s also aware of the differences and the changes and wants him to admit to it but it also hurts at the same time to hear it. It’s a normal thing that we do. And that’s why I wish that we’d tell ourselves that we’re beautiful without depending on our spouses to approve our bodies and to tell us what they like and don’t like. He could definitely be a better husband though.
@@estela_agbegninou8337 I get what you mean, but also honesty is good but it can be said in different ways (his answer wasn't the worst but they said they had already talked about it so it's not like he was taken by surprise? Idk).
Also, a man can have different perspectives of those differences in the wife's post baby body without them being lies.
For example I've seen some wonderful examples of such answers online, like how there is a difference but not a negative one, or he's even more attracted to her knowing she's the mother of his child etc. and they looked perfectly sincere and respectful.
Now, if it's actually an issue, especially 1-2 years after birth (which Abby had 2 babies back-to-back), maybe talk about it privately and with respect and considerantion and weigh your options.
Insecurity is natural especially in this vulnerable time where there are so many life but also physical changes.
I can honestly see how the worry that he may not like it as much anymore could have been bugging her for a while and I think it's good to have a talk rather than live worried he's silently disappointed in your body.
Unfortunately, "uuuuh I guess it's kinda fine" is absolutely no reassurance whatsoever 😂 which she so obviously needed especially in this vulnerable time.
He should at least have delivered that (...not very well put) message alongside appreciation about other changes he likes or something, anything.
Maybe he could have said that it feels different but not bad, no problem and plus, even if it hadn't been good she's still recently given birth AND pregnant and her body's doing well healing and and still has years to heal. And that she's attractive although he'd love her anyway.
Idk just an example I think would have been truthful but not sounded as if it used to be good but now her body is ruined or something.
@@Marina_7 yes I love this comment. It’s very accurate. I share the same opinion on this. I just wonder why they didn’t skip over it. But I also recall him saying that he “liked it pretty well” or something along the lines of that. But she wasn’t convinced and dug into it more because she wasn’t convinced. I definitely understand the insecurity that we feel after having a baby but at the same time there could be times where people reassure us or tell us that we look good but we don’t believe it and still don’t feel good about ourselves. Sometimes others can’t help you feel good about yourself with certain things. My biggest issue is that he’s very lazy and instead of telling her that he could take over and help her, he just tells her that she doesn’t need to anything causing it to be worse for her.
I’ve been waiting for somebody to call out this couple. One thing that threw me off was when Matt was dancing on a table with a newborn in his hands.
Real I've always thought they were weird
Wtf 😱😭
SAME I didn’t even realize other people thought what they were doing is weird, I’m glad I’m definitely not alone in that lol
@@Octaxiion Exactly bro
i’ve literally always thought they where weird!
Matt's such a narc, literally insults his wife after a pregnancy like it's nothing.
9:25 the fact that the background looks depressed too💀💀💀
Omg the hesitation after the “do you like it as much” is what got me 💀 poor girl
As she is about to birth another child 😢
The opening skit 💀 me lol but this is why I feel there should be lines that shouldn’t be crossed online like this over sharing of couples’ relationships😭 like what happened to where everyone told us not to post anything about our personal details or information 😫
This was the kind of crap my exhusband would say to me when I was pregnant, and after we brought home our daughter (she was in the nicu for 5 weeks) all of her care was dumped solely onto me (because “it’s your job as a woman, you have to take care of her”). I was her primary caregiver for the first 1.5 years of her life (aside from when she started daycare and I went back to work, for the first 6 months at home with us I stayed home and cared for her with no help at all).
Looking back, it’s no wonder I had severe postpartum depression.
sorry girl am glad he is an ex.
“Did jesus turn into a therapist, or am i missing something” got me CRACKED up
Natural makeup is totally a thing. I actually grow foundation from my skin and have to shave it everyday with a razor.
🤣🤣🤣
Omg 😂
😂
Don’t tell them our secrets!!! 😂
How dare you share that you shave and you’re not an elven goddess naturally?!
My husband says it didn’t feel different after birthing our daughter! But it genuinely does take about 2 years for everything to “go back.” He baffles me with his ignorance and hurtful comments! Poor girl. My husband is constantly talking about how hot I am, how much he loves my body, etc. we’ve been together for 12 years!
Awwww, that’s so wholesome! I wish you both well :)
That's sweet your husband lied to you, to spare your feelings. Some men will tell the truth to their partner even if it hurts their feelings. The TRUTH is that, after natural birth, it does get bigger down there. Some men don't care, but some do. I'm glad your husband doesn't care it's bigger, but it's sweet of him to lie to you, because he loves you ans doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
@@Taylor086 what the actual fuck is wrong with you😂
@@Taylor086 you sound bitter!
@@Taylor086 every mom I know goes back to normal. It takes time, but they do. You sound incredibly ignorant and bitter😂
You're not alone Layze. A lot of us struggle with depression, that's why we appreciate the laughter you give us. Thank you for all you do.
This is really relatable.
Layze not knowing what natural makeup is just cracks me up
Bro he has actually has no empathy, she was litterally venting and he just whipped out his phone and records her.
I'm in a traditional marriage, this isn't a traditional marriage.
Traditional marriage doesn't air their marital business like this for one.
Isn’t it based off one stays home and one like- gets all the money for the family?
@@Xx_D4RK_K1N_xX yes.
I’m also in a traditional marriage and my husband would NEVER treat me like this.
Traditional marriage just refers to roles and responsibilities that have always been practiced by gender…not details of the actual relationship between the 2 people, that’s totally subjective
@@Xx_D4RK_K1N_xXpretty much but it doesnt work out much
The people asking questions about her body are sick. Why do they need to know so much 🫨
Why do they need to share every detail? She says when her period, sex life, boob sizes, breast feeding, constantly talking about her breasts, she described getting camel waxed, shows that off. Said she ripped her butt hole. What hasn't she shared? She made a video saying she got her period. Nobody asked. She overshares every detail herself
@@CoolDude-z4p oh my goodness! It's all around too much.🤮
@@CoolDude-z4p she's nasty 🤮
@user-er7th9bq6u camel waxed? 😂
@@CoolDude-z4p judging by how she over shares even without asking like getting her period I wouldn't be surprised if they're making up the questions themselves 😄😄
3:29 why do you have a pool noddle in your room?
😂
Its layze he has every thing in his room
We don’t ask questions
Doesn’t everyone?
Wait you dont?
Their followers are just as toxic. They think they are entitled to every personal detail. For example…one of the sons from Sister Wives passed away yesterday. One of the wives asked for privacy and respect during this time and a woman commented that it is their JOB to give them every detail they ask for bc they chose to put their lives on television. Or another woman had the audacity to blame the father and make her opinion known in multiple comments on the instagram of the young man that passed away. wtf? People are callus and lack any kind of respect. It physically made me sick especially knowing his death was self inflicted and hit home for me bc I have two kids around his age and I have suffered from mental health issues. But also bc I volunteer on a suicide hotline and speak to many young adults. Reality has flew the coop.
I heard about the son passing. Any grieving parent has the right to privacy just because people are on a TV program/social media they don't owe anybody anything. That's actually crazy entitlement from their "fan's". That poor family.
Their followers are just as toxic. They think they are entitled to every personal detail. For example…one of the sons from Sister Wives passed away yesterday. One of the wives asked for privacy and respect during this time and a woman commented that it is their JOB to give them every detail they ask for bc they chose to put their lives on television. Or another woman had the audacity to blame the father and make her opinion known in multiple comments on the instagram of the young man that passed away. wtf? People are callus and lack any kind of respect. It physically made me sick especially knowing his death was self inflicted and hit home for me bc I have two kids around his age and I have suffered from mental health issues. But also bc I volunteer on a sucide hotline and speak to many young adults. Reality has flew the coop.
It's so sad that they view her this way and even worse that they're teaching other young people that this is a normal way to view your partner.
My husband has watched me grow and birth babies that were alive and babies that weren't. He's seen me go from an A cup to an E and back again. He's watched me get biopsies, radioactive cancer treatments, medical device implants, and more surgeries than most people ever experience. And that's only scratching the very surface of the physical changes my body has gone through since I was the 22 yo girl that he met me as. But today at 41 years old we still can't keep our hands off each other.
Finding a person to love and grow old with is an immense privilege. It sounds like this couple doesn't understand that.
Exactly, it’s nice seeing your insight as an experienced person in a relationship share your views. And as someone young, they really are bad influence. I used to like them at the beginning but now I don’t since they felt off. Thank god I left them, now the truth is out.
This might be off topic, but if that’s you in your profile pic then you’re so gorgeous!
@@heliotikis thank you. That is so kind. 😍
Omg this is so sweet!! I hope I find someone like that when I’m older :)
Your comment brought me to tears. Beautiful
16:32 I asked my husband that question many years ago.
His answer: "the left one, cause it's closer to my side of the bed." 😂
The only appropriate answer lol
Lol same😂😂😂😂😂
What a good answer by him
currently binge watching all his videos and they never fail to make me laugh omge 😭😭
I'm in a traditional marriage. My husband works a blue collar job and i stay home to care for the kids and house. My husband will help around the house as needed and doesnt expect a pat on the back. We work together to make our lives flow nicely, Matt is not a traditional husband.
Same here! My husband would never treat me like this.
My parents are in the traditional marriage as well and this is exactly what it is. He works and whenever he has time or my mum is unavailable, he takes up the work.
Same here!
Same here. It's not rocket science to work as a team with someone you love.
Get a job, you’re wasting your life
I always commented on her shorts that this man is not treating you right I don't know how she couldn't see things that I could from behind a screen. That man gives off narcissistic cheater energy and very disrespectful
It's the abuse victim mindset. It's hard for people who haven't been abused to understand it. I think he was her first relationship (I could be wrong though) they started dating in either middle school or high school, and they got married straight out.
@@geminimoonmadnessYes!!! Matt was Abby’s first ever relationship and they got engaged at 19. It’s honestly sad
Also there’s a big chance she DOES see it but doesnt want to ACTUALLY accept it. Or feels like she has to stay because of the kids and the money and the channel.
@Princess_Panda33 You're right but IG the channel belongs to her but women being pressurised to stay with their partners cz of their kids is a real thing.
@@Princess_Panda33 therye each other first..she may be never experienced being treated any better than this sadly
If the husband works his ass off outside of the home like mine, I’m totally fine with taking care of our kids and home. And he does appreciate me. But if he sang a song telling me I didn’t fulfill him??? While I can kind of understand, pack your bags!
Funniest thing is they both work the same 'job'. Neither has any real jobs so I don't know what makes him a traditional husband lo
@@flatass9079 Well, he’ll probably be needing to find a different job soon! But I just assumed he did all the editing and backend stuff. At least I hope!
@@Hopespringseternal nope 😂 they have hired people specifically for editing. So he basically does nothing except shoving a camera to people's faces, babysitting his own kids and complaining about his life.
I dunno he would have an 8 hour job and you would have a 24 hour one
@@BeDangerousSomeMore who are you talking to? My husband works 60-70 hour work weeks. Would be wonderful for only work 8 hour days, just not in the cards at the moment.
5:21 I thought u ere gonna say “instead you whip out your belt” 😭
My bio dad’s family is UA-cam celebs. Until his wife died everything was on UA-cam. I would film my sibs for memories for me alone and I noticed them blocking their faces. It said so much. And I realized my father didn’t seem to realize they didn’t like to be on camera.
I'm sorry to hear that. ❤
Why does everyone have checkmarks?
@@Rozy727That means there members
@@luluvaliant7585 ohhh that makes sense thank you lol
Ive been wondering the same 😅@Rozy727
Family channel kids are gonna be the next Disney actor kids (meaning traumatized for life).
Omg I used to like their videos but I started getting like a weird vibe from them and just realized how creepy and weird they actually were
Ikr!! I liked them at first but now they’re weird af
Same. I was turned off when they posted a collab podcast with the labrants and that too after their abortion video.
The first videos were normal then it all just shifted into some weird ole vibes
Me too, I liked them before but now the whole thing is just weird
I get religious cult vibes especially with the podcast. I don't think she was ready for bub number two
I have commented only like literally two times in my life. However I must say this: you really are funny. You made me laugh and smile while watching. Your impersonations of those characters were so good and refreshing. Do not ever stop, you have a talent for sarcastic comedy. Also - you made some very good points throughout the video. Have a nice day and other days and every day 🤞🏻🎉💫🤎
Why am I happy that he’s calling out these couples who make their life look so perfect. It used to make me feel like my marriage needed to be like that or close to it 😭thank you layze ❤
That’s what I would say. But atleast we can be happy without a camera. Cause I wonder how they really are without a camera. Cause I’ve heard of people that can’t have fun , unless they’re posting it if that makes sense.
My EX husband was this traditional bozo who believes “natural” is skin tone colors. No vibrant eyeshadows or lipsticks. I wasn’t allowed to dye my hair any color except for ones that are natural in color, no tattoos, no piercings, I wasn’t allowed to have short hair and I had to dress “feminine” but no low cut shirts, bra straps couldn’t be exposed. He had to approve of my attire before going somewhere without him. It was control. If I did go out without him, even to have lunch with my grandfather, I had to bring both toddlers with me. It was hell and I did it for five years before walking away. Last straw was when my grandfather passed away, he also raised me so it was like losing a father, after two days he told me to get over it. Done, deuces. Dude means it’s okay to have stretch marks from carrying a baby but if it was from being overweight, then it’s not
That just sounds like absolute hell-
Other than the granddad, sounds like he was protecting you like a husband should. 🤷🏽♀️ When you do all those things he didn’t want you to partake in, you look like you’re going through something, which most people usually are. I had a phase of ALL those things and I look back like yeaaaaa, I had some issues. Those things don’t show any signs of a respectable young lady. Just some party play girl, then when girls out here getting played… the tears show up. 🤷🏽♀️ Be better and you’ll have better. None of the things you mentioned enhance your life AT ALL. I know from experience.
@@neyaharris5316 Don't tell her how she should be feeling, You can tell that she didn't feel comfortable with her ex
@@neyaharris5316 She legit said he controlled her life and u r saying what he was doing was right for her. This is so unbelievable. The matter is that she didnt feel comfortable in this relationship because of the mental abuse he was showing to her. When u are in a relationship u are not supposed to control ur partner or try to make them look and act however u like. You are supposed to be with them for who they are, you are supposed to let them be, to encourage them, to inspire them, to support them. Im sorry if your experience was unpleasant and i hope u find or have found the one for u if thats what u want but not for the cost of your self-respect.
@@anniesolomon4876 where did I say you should feel … ?
I saw you posted this and finallyyyyyy someone is talking about Matt and abby. I remember she got jealous that matt looked at a younger picture OF HERSELF from like 2 years ago? How toxic
I can understand being upset if your husband still thirsts over photos of you from before you had HIS kids. I mean she popped out two kids for him, he better be finding her attractive RN. I’d be pissed too if I had someone’s kids and they obsess over the old me from before I went through 18 months of torture that ruins a woman’s self esteem and causes horrible pain and hormone surges. We need to stop treating pregnant women and postpartum women like they’re not those things. I feel horrible for her, pregnancy is something men will never understand.
@@darcyhoodtube yeah, so it's toxic, like I said
@@judiahthemessiah it seems like you said it’s toxic on her end to be upset. Which if you meant that, I disagree
This couple is so weird always had bad vibes
@@darcyhoodtube it takes two to tango, she's not an angel herself. The two of them both need therapy, separately.
i hate how men will comment on how we look, how we dress, how our body looks, when they’re like twenty pounds overweight and wearing a stained t-shirt and sweatpants. the standard for women compared to men is actually horrifying, and it makes me pissed just thinking about it.
I hate family channels.
HATE THEM
I’m glad she was even asking him such personal questions about her body because it brings awareness to this toxic behavior men, especially “traditional” men exhibit. Her asking those questions is only showing his true character.
Maybe she was trying to make him look bad on purpose, knowing how he is, he will show those true colors.
yeah but it shows his true character to us, not to her. he even said in a video that she wouldn't leave if he cheated and she legit didn't say anything...
@@leja9998what the actual.. he’s def cheating or will cheat some day if he says that stuff 😭
17:24 Ugh...Matt, her boobs are NOT for YOU. If large is uncomfortable for her, she has the right to reduce them and you have no say. Layze nailed Matt's childish boobie obsession after this clip.😅
Exactly! If you love your wife, why would you want her to live in pain just for your oggling pleasure ?
@@stephanielu7694frrr
Literally
why does he have a pool noodle in his room? 3:32 😭✋
Matt and Abby have always been crazy to me. When their son was like 5 months old, Matt threw him like 5' in the air and it truly gave me a heart attack. Imagine if a small baby fell 10' to the ground
Ya know …I kinda think this Family channel content roasting is just about as good as Alabama Mondays😂
I agree 👍 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love Layze❤.When I had cancer 2 years ago,my husband had to learn how to do laundry,housework,drive me to chemo,radiation,surgery.He learned my house job hope he learned a lesson to not take advantage of people.i was bedridden he had to wait on me.If he had cancer I would’ve helped him regardless.i wouldn’t wish cancer on anyone.
So glad you don’t have cancer now, hope your okay and have a good life❤️
Wish you guys good health.
Glad you are better now
Wish u immense health❤
Your so strong ❤ I wouldn’t survive cancer
1:05 When you where talking us choosing the position . OMG my mom was by my side😭😭😭
Nah if your husband loved you he wouldn’t compare your body or like it less, I’m sorry about his depression, but that’s wild
I always hated this couple but never knew why! Now it makes sense lol
So true
SAMEEEEEEERRR I ALWAYS WATCHED THEM BUT I WAS LIKE SOMETHING'S OFF AND NOW I KNOWW 😭
0:47 HELP NOT THE ROYALTY FAMILY😭😭
The depression thing is so true. My dumb psychiatrist recommended I go outside and take a walk. Sure it might help, but it’s not a permanent cure. 💀
As someone who suffers depression off and on. Gardening and time outside and exercise actually does sigmificantly help improve it. Its getting there thats the hard part.
@@Sarah-psalm127 exactly, depression is a double whammy because a symptom is lack of motivation which makes it hard to do things that will make you feel better
Sure, studies have shown that 50% of cases with depression show the same or similar improvement as with medication... but that's 50/50 lol! Some people need more than "just go touch grass, bro."
My therapist recommended that too. I got bit by the neighbor’s dog on my walk home 😂
I hate when people say “you need Jesus!” First of all, I have Jesus, and second, I also have Zoloft and that’s what keeps my brain the f*ck in check. Thank you.
honestly, fair point. All the heavily religious commenters on videos annoy me. I’ve had a experience with people trying to convert me in all ways, and the comments don’t make it any better
Same here!
AMEN😂😂😂😂
YOU SUMMED IT RIGHT UP GIRLIE POP
I mean they aren’t wrong, but in the sense of pushing Jesus on people is not going to make them want to get closer to Jesus. I hate when people make fun of other religions or push their religion on others, education someone on your religion is appropriate. Pushing it is not appropriate. ❤
A mom who’s crying because she “can t be lazy” and a dad who clean the house and take care of the kids 1/month . That s my favourite traditional marriage (disfunctional idk how to say in english ) sad but yeah . Pretty common
the reason people were upset at matt’s depression is because he made it abby’s problem, abby’s fault, made it abby’s job to comfort him while she was going through her own stuff. when she had her postpartum depression, he did not support her as much as she supported him. he also made it seem like marrying her and having kids ruined his life, crushed his dreams, and caused his depression which is just … not the thing you say to your wife who just gave birth.
"Did Jesus start working as a therapist?" MADE ME SPIT OUT MY WATER LMFAOOO
But He is a therapist in a way. This guy is terrible. He just mocked God and Jesus.😔
@@cutebeadsbyclaraliterally like I liked watching him but then I was like bro He is ❤
@@arabella-j4yI doubt he meant it in a hateful way yall it’ll be fine
@@cutebeadsbyclarait’s going to be ok he didn’t mean it in a hateful way
@@ciitrus111 well today is the day Jesus died and I personally think it’s bad to say that