I saw your ex wife’s recent blog where she mentioned how she is managing all the expenses… I know Charu is a nice person but it is hard to believe that you contribute nothing for your daughter 😂 Hard to believe her statements. She is independent and doing everything but not even accepting and even naming the ex husband who might be contributing in daughter’s upbringing is crazy! I believe you are not this wrong in this whole thing… women card can’t be played every time. I have seen a pattern in Charu… when she is with you, your family or her family she is happy and doesn’t crib but as soon as she is alone with Ziana, she has issues. May be you should be involved more for your child’s sake and well being.
@ she is nice but if you see her blogs, the moment she is alone with the kid, she talks about being independent, managing finances alone… doing small and odd roles/jobs as if she is from lower middle class or Sen family doesn’t support her. I am not picking or choosing any sides but financial matters are so personal. If you see all the divorced women.. . They cry so much in media and other party (men) usually don’t say anything.
Madam she talked about herself. She didn’t said anything about Zianas expenses. We all can see how she is handling Ziana by herself. Rajeev only show up for his day for few hours. Now Rajeev is liking your post show how stupid he is. As a women you should know what is postpartum is? He never was there for her . I will never stay with this kind of men. Charu is good enough to still show respect towards him and respect his family
All these adjustments include incompatibility, cheating, domestic violence, insults, physical torture, and many other things that lead to an unhealthy, troubled generation. With these childhood traumas, they either become bullies or get bullied! This is the result of your so-called middle-class adjustments, leading to an unsuccessful, unhappy next generation. And yet, you’re calling others out for divorces? At least these couples are prioritizing mental happiness and the well-being of their children
@@pratibhasingh7258 if he get married again he again runs away because he will cheat.. if he gets open marriage kind of relationship then he will stay 🤣🤣
What’s there about being chalu? If a guy expresses himself, he’s chalu? He’s sharing his knowledge about marriage. Charu also might have some flaws. We don’t know everything about their relationship. I just know what he shared make a lot of sense. I wish I knew this before.
This is so stupid on you guys part blaming charu for her last vlog about expenses. She only talked about her day to day finances how she earns and manage. She did not crib about rajeev not supporting or anything. Even worse to see @rajeevsen liking these fake comments and believing something which is not true. Looks like we are troubling their post divorce life now. For the sake of them and ziana, shouldn’t we be little empathetic?❤
1 peter 3-9 Do not pay back evil with evil or cursing with cursing,instead,pay back with a blessing, because a blessing is what God promised to give when he called you .. God bless.,..,
Whenever Charu meets Rajeev and his family , Rajeev pampers her so much , his family cares for her but not once appreciated Rajeev. Rajeev has so much soft corner for his daughter. He always talk about growth hm sad yr
I completely agree with you Rajeev, very well said. Friends matter and ofcourse immense respect and understanding required. Social media too has damaged many many couples.
I am happily married today, the onlh reason being Jesus Christ who changed my attitudes and my husband's heart after converting. The Bible says that men should love their wives as Jesud loved His church and women should submit to their husband as the head of the family but nowhere infidelity or dominance on either part is tolerated. REPENT AND BELIEVE ONLY LORD JESUS IS THE TRUE GOD, THE TRUTH THE WAY AND THE LIFE WHO IS THE SAVIOUR OF WHOLE HUMANITY HE IS THE ONE WHO DIED FOR YOUR SINS AND OUTSIDE OF HIM IS JUST ETERNAL DAMNATION. Following Jesus sanctifies all aspects of your life and you start hating sins, automatically the issues you are dealing with are resolved by His garce through prayers and faith there's nothing like His love❤
Baccho k liy ek sath rahna chahiye warna bacche mat honedo bacche hone k bad hi q alag hona h pahle bhi to hosakte baccho ki zindagi is se bohot kharab hoti h bacche ko man aur bap ek sath chaahiye hote h
Marriage is blend of Respect,Loyality nd Love...Once u have all ingredients,ur life will be bed of roses...Adjustments r key to make this relationship flourished....blessed to be madly n happily married from last 21 years
Sir ne ekdam sahi Advice diya he Youngsters k liye❤❤❤❤specially the meaning of marriage ❤❤Ajkal to sach me ladke fas jate he shadi k baad divorce k chakkar me😢😢😢
That is the reason he is justifying . The mother is handling the child all alone.. He cannot manage the child all alone as he is living a bachelor 's life with no responsibility towards Ziana..
Rajeev one thing i want to tell you that....married,unmarried,divorced,critical relationship,whatever the situation you are facing in your life......one should be happy in life,coz happiness is the key of life....😊 relations are very hard to maintain these days.
I don't know 😞 bt apko dekh kr bura lgta hai k aap ziana ke Bina rehte ho apki family k sath ziana jiyad kush rehti hai vlog uske sath bht ache lgte hai❤❤
I have been a loyal subscriber and a viewer to both the channels since the beginning but gradually started drifting apart from Charu’s channel due to lack of content and only sympathy gaining videos. Recently she posted a video stating she gets no help for her livelihood and ziana’s expenses.Doing odd jobs showing how poor she has become and helpless managing finances is plain manipulation and victim card traits.She was spending her New Year’s at the best restaurants in Dubai with the Sens living her best life flying business class and donning Dior handbags which costs nearly 14 lakhs.No poor lady can afford that if the husband did not spend his fortune on her spoiling her when married. She replied to a comment about “No alimony and No maintenance” but as per locals she took alimony for her first divorce and the father needs to pay for his daughter’s expenses as child support until she is an adult as per IPC. The narratives are way too fictional everytime she returns back to her rented apartment and portrays she is the prime victim and you traumatized her for life. Watching this video Rajeev you seem like a sorted man in the head who wanted a family but things took separate turns.We as audience feel being fooled for views and subscriptions by her channel’s content everytime.
@@Aarju08-i4r Look at the way he behaves. First of all he misjudged her. In his first interview he said she is so innocent & has no demands at all. She is totally opposite of that as we all have seen. Then he follows & unfollows her as does she, like it's a game that little kids play. Then they have a fight & he takes off & they both bash each other. Then all of a sudden everything is magic again. Sure people have misunderstandings etc. but to start bashing each other publicly is not OK. When they were in Dubai, it was magic all over again. Now it's back to name calling again. He should practice what he preaches & his ex is something else all together. No one is perfect but don't pretend to be what you are not.
@Roseki-u6g these 2 are just not compatible, class, lifestyle, upbringing, food habits all different their intellect does not match either. They should just move on and find peace for the well-being of their daughter
@@bf263 I agree with you, they both need to move on. But the question is. why are they not? She has got a good thing going with him. He takes her to Dubai (2) Calcutta. He shows her a good time & they have another honeymoon!!!!!!!!!! She loves the attention, money, eating out, she feels like a princess. I have never commented ever before on their drama. But enough is enough. This has been going on ever since they got married. ON OFF, BLOCK UNBLOCK. Bashing each other publicly & back to baby baby. It seems like he does not have that many friends that he meets on a regular basis. I for sure thought he would by now find someone else & move on. But I think he knows it too that he is not that easy to live with, so he keeps his ex as " friend with benefits". Which is just fine but then don't start airing your dirty laundry in public all the time. The ex is bashing him too but did you see when they were in Dubai how she was telling her followers wait till I post more pics of us. Also he said in his preachy vlog that men give 50% of their earnings to the ex spouse but she says she doesn't get a penny. She is always crying POOR ME POOR ME!!! They need to be honest with themselves & move on & if they want to be friends with benefits, then it is absolutely fine but don't retort to this nonsense. Please let me know if people in the chat agree with me., They need to put their ego aside, be more mature & put their daughter above all this pettiness
Itne suljhe hue insan ka divorce ho chuka h...apki baate sahi h ekdm ..smjh pa rhe h apk sath kya hua hoga...social media n wrong friends matter krte h bht rishta khrab krne me.
Some of your points made sense, but a lot of your POV was extremely biased and pointing towards women. Also marriage is not just about children…one shouldn’t have children if they are not willing or ready to take responsibility. Marriage is something that both people need to nurture and put in work every day. People think and assume it to be a cake walk or just wanting to live in a honeymoon phase all the time. It needs nurturing and patience and willingness to get through things by communication and hearing out each other. People don’t understand this and don’t have patience that’s why marriages don’t work. They also don’t work because when they fight and argue losing the sight of the fact that they both are on the same team. Arguments and disagreements are completely okay to have. But it’s crucial to not disrespect each other, to always put love above, to always remind yourself what made you come together and just navigate through to get through things.
I only saw your efforts in this marriage. Your parents your events and all your things is involved. But your partner need her space her achievements in life. May be she is right or focused for herself. Sometimes two people have different objectives and goals. They not seeing there life with one perspective. Might be you are not wrong but not right for her. All this is different backgrounds you both have. Your upbringing is totally different. So its better to choose and live with the one who loved you and belongs to you. Not the one who is not involved emotionally,mentally and physically. You both have long life to live and to be available in good or bad is different things and available for life is different So choose wisely. All the best good luck.
Hi Rajeev...Aap dono alag ho gye ho par abhi Dubai trip par sath the . Ache lag rhe the..wapas kyu nhi ho jaate sath...Aapke pass itna paisa h aap charu ki help bhi karte ho kya
Please Sir just don't blame the women always..am a single mother..my ex husband left me and my little daughter when my daughter was just 4yrs old because she is a special child who was diagnosed with autism..since then am living with my aged mother and daughter..my daughter is 11 yrs now and my journey with my special child is not at all easy...but I never give up...I make it a point that my daughter attends a Special school where she gets her therapies also..however my ex husband got married right after leaving us and he has a son from his second wife too..but for me I have completely lost trust in men and have promised to myself to never be in a relationship or marriage in this lifetime..thank you 🙏
@@WorldofRajeevSen9 Sir this is not about men you blamed women majorly and she was hurt I am too don't comment if you don't know the story of women and struggle
Apni bangali bangali chelera eto ta kharap sadharonoto hoi na apnar meyer jonno onek bhalobasa roilo apnar loray ta onubhob korte parchi bhalo thakben mayera eto selfish hote pare na chelera ki kore pare sontan ke bhule thakte
I think that's what he is trying to tell heal from your past first before a new phase ....and you proved this with your message... Though I m not a big fan of him but you haven't understood his point
Dekho sari bat smjhi mai but jb bat bacche ki ati h personal hapiness person space sb chor dete h insan but ap amiron k pass option hota h akele rhna , hm kaise v usi m manage krte h aur wo thik v h kyuki guarantee nhi hota ki aage sahi hi hoga
Rajiv u r very genuine.....ego inferiority complex main reason nd u r totally right wrong friends also impact the marriage....nd understanding is the main thing....yes one should not show to the social media i have done this ...that..... But yes Rajiv we luv u as a good father nd son ...
Excellent vlog. Very thoughtful and well articulated. Just one request if you can spend more time with Ziana, she is a beautiful child and needs time with both parents.
Bacche ho jane k bad baccho k liye sath rhna chahiye baccho k bare me sochna chahiye coz bacchon ko ma bap dono ka pyar nd dono ka sath chahiye tbhi bacche khush reh skte hai... Husband wife me kitne bhi differences ho vo ek bar baccha hone k bad khtm krna chahiye
Your way with words is truly impressive. You have a rare ability to articulate thoughts with such clarity and depth-it’s no wonder people might seek your insight.”
Only fools would seek out his insight. HE DOES NOT PRACTICE WHAT HE PREACHES. In Dubai it was baby baby again now its back to bashing, Where is the wisdom in that??????? He needs to stop lecturing people & do for himself what he he is lecturing about. Either live it or shut up.
Charu or aap dono sath me rho please ziyana ke liye hi shi aap sath me rho pyar bhi ho hi jayega dill se nibhane ki kosis to kro aap bhut samjhdar ho charu bhi dono apni beti ke liye
Marriage takes a lot of commitment, effort inorder to sustain..It's never a cake walk..As you rightly said, life is not a bed of roses..It's about how to learn to not let go despite the differences and learn to agree to disagree as at the end of the day it's about 2 individuals with different likes, dislikes and personalities. We cannot expect the significant other to keep you happy..Happiness should be looked within ❤❤ Only happy individuals can at the end of day form a happy union or couple!!♥️ So beautifully addressed this relevant issue Rajeev..Love the way you openly, honestly talk without any pretentiousness..❤❤
From a neutral perspective no where did I notice you admitting there were mistakes from your end as well sir. With due respect, I always wished soem magic happens and things work out between you two as I follow for more than 3 years. (Very sorry for personal comment). Kindly check what is that you could have done better.. who knows things might work out if both parties admit their mistake and apologize. After all we are all humans.. lots of love ❤
U r right, If there is no care ,faith, trust friendship ,then marriage is a burden, middle class people tolerate all problems bcz of they can't be separated alwayz, specially it needs financial independent for woman to stay separately, but for rich people they can afford, so moral of the story is without care, understanding, friendship noone can stay with anyone, be it gf or bf, husband and wife, brothers and sisters, or even with parents, this is my experience.
Rajeev...in my case, not healing from the past is the other party and it's me who's hugely paying for it. It is massively painful not being accepted. I often say it to my close buddies even if he pays me the handsomest alimony (though such people don't do that either easily and he's from the same clan😊) , it won't give me my days back before my marriage. Anyway! Having said that, seeing things objectively, your analysis of the reasons behind rising cases of divorces these days are more or less the same. Yes, marriage is a work in progress each day, every moment and a teamwork. ❤ Anyway,
Marriage needs mind & soul connection, not just physical attraction. Relationships do require consistent effort,and your point about healing from past wounds is crucial. Letting go of unresolved baggage from failed relationships creates space for healthier, more fulfilling connections. Longtime follower here-your authenticity and wisdom always shine. Keep inspiring! 🙌
I think that was overdramatic from her side. Rajeev is a very classy guy and quite matured. It is evident that he doesn’t do anything for publicity and sympathy 😊
Sar hamari shadi ke 10 years Ho gaye hai .hum bahut jagdte the . Ek hi ghar me rahte the per 15 days tak bolte nahi the ek dusre ko .mere husband dusri ladki ke sath bhag gaye the . Fhir bhi mene unko maf kiya . Aaj hum dono bahut hi khush he aur bahot pyar karte hai ek dusre ko . Hamari bitiya bhi hai 7 sal ki .
That is because women like you donot have self respect and are okay with being treated like a doormat and accept men no matter how badly they treat you, I'm very sure if you had cheated on your husband he would never accept you. So donot try to impose or tell your stupid life story to anyone there is nothing valuable to learn from it.
If marriage is only for security for children and supporting wife n husband in old age ,then in middle of all this years who will grow up children if mother father inbetween love is not there
Though not a Christian, I listen to Vlad Savchuks podcast and he says this...if you love God first and not the partner...love will automatically flow towards the partner...and he says that the partner should also love God the same way...once you both are on the same page and when God comes first, there is always a fear of doing something bad...and that which will be immoral will never be pursued... He says that the family background must also be similar, both having true faith, hence important to meet and know the family, not thru brokers, if arranged...rather than friends it is the family, bcos like Vlad says.. initially we may feel that v r different from r fmly but in the end, qualities of the mother and father vl def creep into the person..and they begin to show...
Amen, YOU ARE SO RIGHT BEING A NEWLY CONVERTED CHRISTIAN MAY I CONFIRM YOU THIS. RELIGION is a big lie only The Lord Jesus can restore your life, relation or any other aspects of life. Even if you are not converted do search Jesus through prayers, fasting and faith that He will reveal Himself to you He is never late and doesn't disappoint this will be the best decision of your life ever, MAY THE LORD GUIDE YOU🙏
True this ia problem of today's generation. No body wants to understand there partner. Sabko lagta hai wo hi sahi sochte aur karte hai. No body is bothered about the other and about their families it's only bcoz of ego.
Hamara to daily jhagda hota h fir bhi sath hain 8 years se ..har din ham dono ek dusre ko bolte hain nikal jao mere ghr se,nhi rhna sath mai bahut ho gya bs , divorce le lo ....to mera beta bich mai aa jata h bolta h chup ho jao ap dono mujhe mumma papa dono chahiyea..hame hansi aa jati h ....ego relationship ko end kar deta h ..khush raho yr sab log
Yes u r true .... Ye sb dekh kr dar lgta hai shadi k naam p bhi bt shadi kro to ek dusre ko smjho , na ki ek dusre ki kamiya btao Kami her insaan m hoti hai koi perfect nahi hota hai bt itna hai khus rho khud bhi aur apne ass pass aur apne patner ko bhi khus rkho . Y duniya hai her trh knlog milenge . Bs khushiyan doge to Khushi milegi baki upr wale jo likhe hai wo hoga ....
Jhagde sb m hote hai bt bnd kamre m kro dusre k samne jahir kroge to log sirf maze lenge baki bahot km hote hai is waqt m jo kisi k achchha soche. Bt bro u r sweet person and apki beti ap se jada sweet hai . Bs uske liye ap dono sath rhiye hamesha ku ki beti apki choti hai dono k pyaar important hai so plz ap aur family hamesha sath rhe yhi upr wale s dua hai❤❤❤❤
Aap khush ho ya bass apne app ko jhuta dilasa de rahe ho ki khush ho? Agar agar sachme khush ho tho jagda kyu hota hai Bina daily jhagde b khush Raha jaa sakta hai
Well …. Looking back at Henry the 8th …. What we know is … they were part of the catholic …. The guy ended up having 6 wives …. He also beheaded some of them The problem with being catholic is material is worshipped too much … a marriage is not a material commitment… yet people forget this truth ….. What we know is Henry the 8th left catholic to becoming Protestant… but even now they royal family a full disaster…. So what can we learn That marriages are in shambles because the females wanna take over technology and rule it 😂😂😂😂…. Under illusion …. The problem now is …. Marriage doesn’t exist anymore … people are just getting married to show off 😂😂😂 Commitment in relationship… respect have all gone out of the window …. All the wrong people are married 😏….. having kids …. And then there kids mental health get impacted negatively In the dark times marriage is an illusion Along my journey I met a lot of people who are separated from there husband or prositute wife’s of india are ready to sleep with another man for technology We’re living in absolute darkness times Marriage is a waste of time in dark age …. Like I say people Stay single …. Coz illusion exist and it’s very real at this moment in time I ain’t a catholic therefore that’s why I ain’t married …. Marriage n children for me this lifetime is a BIG NO Stay single n stay happy
Today between couples don't have commitment, Trust, Money comes in, they don't want to work on marriage, transparency between couples. . And lastly they don't want to loose their freedom. Marriages don't work like that. Everyone has a past, one should be open about it, to start with.nothing wrong.
Mujhe kuch nahi samajhta rajiv bhaiya bus ziana k liye dukh hota sachme Galti kisiki bhi ho no matter vo jhel rahi use jo kami hai hai life me ek roj saath rehanewale ma baap hona na bus yahi dikhta Abhi bhi prathna karungi sub aapke saath theek ho ziana ne jo khoya use mile jaldi aapka charu di ka dusara baby ho happy aur complete family ho ❤
Middle class also get divorced who said they sacrifice and stay back in marriage bcoz of money they always have fights who will take responsibity..its about rich people getting divorced
True Rajiv. Social media par nazar lag jati hai. Immatued log dusron ke baat pe aajate hain aur apne ghar tod dete hain. Kabhi kabhi ghar walon ka bhi bahat bada haat hota hai. Kuch log ghar ki baat bahar le jate hain. Phir jhagda kabhi nahi khatam hota hai. Ghar ki baat ghar mein hi rahe. Husband wife apna problems khud solve kare. Yehi happy marriage ki sabse badi mantra hai.
If anyone can make your marriage work it is only Lord Jesus who changes youe heart and soul after conversion. On the verge of separation, He healed my broken wounds showed to me how wrong my attitudes were and brought a change in my husband's heart aftet our conversion. REPENT AND BELIEVE LORD JESUS IS THE ONLY SAVIOUR OF HUMANITY WHO WILL LOT ONLY FIX YOUR LIFE ISSUES BUT ALSO GUVE YOU ETERNAL LIFE - HE IS THE ONLY WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE NO ONE CAN COME TO GOD THE FATHER EXCEPT THROUGH JESUS CHRIST. SEARCH HIM, SEEK FORGIVENESS AND ACCEPT HIM FOLLOW THE BIBLE AND HE WILL TAKE CARE OF YOUR NEEDS, RELATIONSHIP AND ALL ASPECTS HE IS LOYAL AND ALWAYS RESPONDS TO THOSE SEEKKNG HIM THERE'S NOTHING LIKE HIS LOVE❤
I always loved your vlogs! The way you convey and have seen your love for your daughter, Wife & Family. Even Now we do but taking care of child growing her what Charu is doing. No one can deny that consistent efforts of Mother. You Even tried we have seen but God's plan. Best wishes.
After hearing your understanding, i still feel u and charu can definitely work out by ensuring previous mistakes are not repeated. Will be in interest of u all 3❤
Yes rajeeev u r right ,jo past relationship se over come nahi ho pate unke sath ye hota h ye mera khud ka experience hai , lekin aisi situation me agar shadi kar li kisi or se kuch bhi reason k sath to or us time to pata nahi chalta kher lekin jhagde hote h argument hoti h lekin fir marriage pr work bhi karna padta h apne andar kafi chaaje change karni padti h kisi k pressure me nahi lekin khud ke liye , agar shadi kari hai to dono logo ko samjhna chahiye ek dusre ko agar bahut bada reason h jhagde ka to fir seprate ho jaye lekin sirf arguments k basis pr jhagde h to yar fir to dono logo ko ek dusre pr nature pr work karna chahiye ye sach baat h warna kya bole ❤
Hi...yes ur right.... marriage is nt a bed of love....der is lots n lots....nwdays marriage dont wrk...bcoz of interference of family members n frnds as u said.... whenever der a problem...v discuss with family n friends.... which is wrong.... actually husband n wife shd discuss within themselves rather than family n friends....some frnds gives wrong advise ...as u said they cant c...his friend happy so they give wrong advise...second marriage dont wrk...bcoz...I hv seen ...boy takes for granted his wife...once they get married.... thirdly trust issue....nwdays watsapp... facebook....as u said is ...I totally agree with u..... sometimes if girl earns more she takes d boy for granted.... I feel marriage first...is trust.... Second is care for each other c...dat u dont try to hurt each other physically...n mentally... Thirdly I feel try to understand each other's needs... ambition...aim....wt they want to do in life....n helping each other to achieve dat drms... Try to nt involve third party... meaning family n friends.... Last n first...Most impt....I feel....is god.... praying together....pray to god.... instead of telling others...tel God.....tel him....all ur problem...leave everything on god.... I hv seen marriage life.... husband stop frm giving her to wrk.... dominates her...hits her...stop giving money to wife...hit kids...bt d wife sacrifice...bcoz of kids..... Nwdays it dont wrk....bcoz v discuss with family n friends...they are...one ...who create divorce....nwdays...... I really like ur vlog...wt u said is all correct.....
Live in relationship i dont agree, its a sin in Catholic religion. Todays marriages dont last, because there is no understanding, and also education and technology is ruining the marriages. In our Roman catholic church, divorces are increasing. Always praying who are under troubled marriages. Still God with them. Keep God first and all the things will go right 🙏
I have also realised this. Though not a Christian, I listen to Vlad Svachuks podcast and he says this...if you love God first and not the partner...love will automatically flow towards the partner...and he says that the partner should also love God the same way...once you both are on the same page and when God comes first, there is always a fear of doing something bad...and that which will be immoral will never be pursued... He says that the family background must also be similar, both having true faith, hence important to meet and know the family, not thru brokers, if arranged...rather than friends it is the family, bcos like Vlad says.. initially we may feel that v r different from r fmly but in the end, qualities of the mother and father vl def seep into the person..and they begin to show...
People are just not ready to adjust and they love to put the blame on other person this is the main reason why relationships are not working these days ..shaadi to dur ki baat hai idhar understanding hi nahi bachi logo me . 💔Aur jhoote logo ka to kya hi kehna jo game khel rahe hai most importantly friends ka influence kisi ke relationship me ya shaadi me bht bura saabit hota hai in most of cases ! Jitna ho sake jinki shadi hai ya relationship hai unko hi baith ke chizo pe baat kar ke sort karna chahiye aur nahi ho rha kuch sort to alag hojana chahiye bina blame game khele!
Ek Chhota Sa baccha hota hai use kuchh chijon ki samajh nahin Hoti uske bad bhi Ham use Apne tarike se samjhate hain ya uske tarike se rishte ko handle karte hain vaise hi shaadi ek Pavitra rishta hota hai use todna nahin chahie
Rajeev I think you should have trust,understanding and respect for each other and more importantly families are involved so everyone should be true to themselves first and love is the most precious thing you should have in a relationship if you’re not loyal and honest and loving the other person then it’s not worth it.I don’t know what you are going through but iam sure that you are true to yourself and you respect your parents and your family very much that is very important so just be yourself love to your family and god bless you ❤
Marriage is a two way street and a lot of give and take.There is no 'perfect' relationship. It comes together if there is friendship, space ,respect,regard and love for each other.Its a continuous effort of keeping the relationship alive!We live abroad with no family here ,so any trouble ,we got to resolve it ourselves and fight it out.In India we have the luxury of walking out, going to our family right away etc.. fortunately or unfortunately we dont have that luxury here 😂
I saw your ex wife’s recent blog where she mentioned how she is managing all the expenses… I know Charu is a nice person but it is hard to believe that you contribute nothing for your daughter 😂 Hard to believe her statements. She is independent and doing everything but not even accepting and even naming the ex husband who might be contributing in daughter’s upbringing is crazy!
I believe you are not this wrong in this whole thing… women card can’t be played every time.
I have seen a pattern in Charu… when she is with you, your family or her family she is happy and doesn’t crib but as soon as she is alone with Ziana, she has issues. May be you should be involved more for your child’s sake and well being.
@ she is nice but if you see her blogs, the moment she is alone with the kid, she talks about being independent, managing finances alone… doing small and odd roles/jobs as if she is from lower middle class or Sen family doesn’t support her. I am not picking or choosing any sides but financial matters are so personal. If you see all the divorced women.. . They cry so much in media and other party (men) usually don’t say anything.
I think she talked only about her bills not zaina. She didn't mentioned that her daughter bills. Watch again
Madam she talked about herself. She didn’t said anything about Zianas expenses. We all can see how she is handling Ziana by herself. Rajeev only show up for his day for few hours. Now Rajeev is liking your post show how stupid he is. As a women you should know what is postpartum is? He never was there for her . I will never stay with this kind of men. Charu is good enough to still show respect towards him and respect his family
@@aribahcamel.Too on point
Shadi aap amiro ki hi nhi chalti aur talaq hota hai hum middle class to marte dam tk nibhate hai..kon kon agree hai.?
Right
No abhi ye formula nahi chal raha abhi middle class me ye problem bahut badh gayee hai tabhi men suicide rate after marriage bahut badh gayee hai
True. compromise adjustment acceptance bhot sare ese chije karne hote thn aap chala pate ho or ye b Khushi Khushi ho to hi hota h successful ❤
All these adjustments include incompatibility, cheating, domestic violence, insults, physical torture, and many other things that lead to an unhealthy, troubled generation. With these childhood traumas, they either become bullies or get bullied! This is the result of your so-called middle-class adjustments, leading to an unsuccessful, unhappy next generation. And yet, you’re calling others out for divorces? At least these couples are prioritizing mental happiness and the well-being of their children
Right 👍
Pls apply these rules and talks in your relationship as well in case if you get married again .
@@pratibhasingh7258 if he get married again he again runs away because he will cheat.. if he gets open marriage kind of relationship then he will stay 🤣🤣
"Ego is the most important role. "...Whenever Ego comes to mind, marriage is not working. "..♥️👍🙌👏
Right
True that
100%true
U really chalu bro....u r making the reason of ur marriage unsuccessful just because of your partener
He is very very Chalu 😅
What’s there about being chalu? If a guy expresses himself, he’s chalu? He’s sharing his knowledge about marriage. Charu also might have some flaws. We don’t know everything about their relationship. I just know what he shared make a lot of sense. I wish I knew this before.
Aap charu ki family ko kitna respect karte ho ye batao, kyuki mujhe koi connection nhi dikhta,
This is so stupid on you guys part blaming charu for her last vlog about expenses. She only talked about her day to day finances how she earns and manage. She did not crib about rajeev not supporting or anything. Even worse to see @rajeevsen liking these fake comments and believing something which is not true. Looks like we are troubling their post divorce life now. For the sake of them and ziana, shouldn’t we be little empathetic?❤
why i feel this whole vlog is about charu only 😂
Yea true 👍
1 peter 3-9
Do not pay back evil with evil or cursing with cursing,instead,pay back with a blessing, because a blessing is what God promised to give when he called you .. God bless.,..,
Whenever Charu meets Rajeev and his family , Rajeev pampers her so much , his family cares for her but not once appreciated Rajeev. Rajeev has so much soft corner for his daughter. He always talk about growth hm sad yr
I completely agree with you Rajeev, very well said. Friends matter and ofcourse immense respect and understanding required. Social media too has damaged many many couples.
I am happily married today, the onlh reason being Jesus Christ who changed my attitudes and my husband's heart after converting. The Bible says that men should love their wives as Jesud loved His church and women should submit to their husband as the head of the family but nowhere infidelity or dominance on either part is tolerated.
REPENT AND BELIEVE ONLY LORD JESUS IS THE TRUE GOD, THE TRUTH THE WAY AND THE LIFE WHO IS THE SAVIOUR OF WHOLE HUMANITY HE IS THE ONE WHO DIED FOR YOUR SINS AND OUTSIDE OF HIM IS JUST ETERNAL DAMNATION.
Following Jesus sanctifies all aspects of your life and you start hating sins, automatically the issues you are dealing with are resolved by His garce through prayers and faith there's nothing like His love❤
How sensibly ypu explained it rajeev❤ after listening to this my brain is sort feeling wise calm breeze❤ very well explained😊
Baccho k liy ek sath rahna chahiye warna bacche mat honedo bacche hone k bad hi q alag hona h pahle bhi to hosakte baccho ki zindagi is se bohot kharab hoti h bacche ko man aur bap ek sath chaahiye hote h
Marriage is blend of Respect,Loyality nd Love...Once u have all ingredients,ur life will be bed of roses...Adjustments r key to make this relationship flourished....blessed to be madly n happily married from last 21 years
Sir ne ekdam sahi Advice diya he Youngsters k liye❤❤❤❤specially the meaning of marriage ❤❤Ajkal to sach me ladke fas jate he shadi k baad divorce k chakkar me😢😢😢
I have a feeling that you are already in a live in relationship.
That is the reason he is justifying .
The mother is handling the child all alone..
He cannot manage the child all alone as he is living a bachelor 's life with no responsibility towards Ziana..
Rajeev one thing i want to tell you that....married,unmarried,divorced,critical relationship,whatever the situation you are facing in your life......one should be happy in life,coz happiness is the key of life....😊 relations are very hard to maintain these days.
Itni acchi beti hai ab se dono ko sath rahna chahiye
I don't know 😞 bt apko dekh kr bura lgta hai k aap ziana ke Bina rehte ho apki family k sath ziana jiyad kush rehti hai vlog uske sath bht ache lgte hai❤❤
I have been a loyal subscriber and a viewer to both the channels since the beginning but gradually started drifting apart from Charu’s channel due to lack of content and only sympathy gaining videos.
Recently she posted a video stating she gets no help for her livelihood and ziana’s expenses.Doing odd jobs showing how poor she has become and helpless managing finances is plain manipulation and victim card traits.She was spending her New Year’s at the best restaurants in Dubai with the Sens living her best life flying business class and donning Dior handbags which costs nearly 14 lakhs.No poor lady can afford that if the husband did not spend his fortune on her spoiling her when married.
She replied to a comment about “No alimony and No maintenance” but as per locals she took alimony for her first divorce and the father needs to pay for his daughter’s expenses as child support until she is an adult as per IPC.
The narratives are way too fictional everytime she returns back to her rented apartment and portrays she is the prime victim and you traumatized her for life.
Watching this video Rajeev you seem like a sorted man in the head who wanted a family but things took separate turns.We as audience feel being fooled for views and subscriptions by her channel’s content everytime.
It"s not just her ego, it's yours as well, mate!!!!! Everything you said the younger people are doing, you are doing yourself
How?
@@Aarju08-i4r Look at the way he behaves. First of all he misjudged her. In his first interview he said she is so innocent & has no demands at all. She is totally opposite of that as we all have seen. Then he follows & unfollows her as does she, like it's a game that little kids play. Then they have a fight & he takes off & they both bash each other. Then all of a sudden everything is magic again. Sure people have misunderstandings etc. but to start bashing each other publicly is not OK. When they were in Dubai, it was magic all over again. Now it's back to name calling again. He should practice what he preaches & his ex is something else all together. No one is perfect but don't pretend to be what you are not.
I have never seen him taking responsibility of the daughter since her birth. He shd be equally involved. Irrespective of tr personal cries
@Roseki-u6g these 2 are just not compatible, class, lifestyle, upbringing, food habits all different their intellect does not match either. They should just move on and find peace for the well-being of their daughter
@@bf263 I agree with you, they both need to move on. But the question is. why are they not? She has got a good thing going with him. He takes her to Dubai (2) Calcutta. He shows her a good time & they have another honeymoon!!!!!!!!!! She loves the attention, money, eating out, she feels like a princess. I have never commented ever before on their drama. But enough is enough. This has been going on ever since they got married. ON OFF, BLOCK UNBLOCK. Bashing each other publicly & back to baby baby. It seems like he does not have that many friends that he meets on a regular basis. I for sure thought he would by now find someone else & move on. But I think he knows it too that he is not that easy to live with, so he keeps his ex as " friend with benefits". Which is just fine but then don't start airing your dirty laundry in public all the time. The ex is bashing him too but did you see when they were in Dubai how she was telling her followers wait till I post more pics of us. Also he said in his preachy vlog that men give 50% of their earnings to the ex spouse but she says she doesn't get a penny. She is always crying POOR ME POOR ME!!! They need to be honest with themselves & move on & if they want to be friends with benefits, then it is absolutely fine but don't retort to this nonsense. Please let me know if people in the chat agree with me., They need to put their ego aside, be more mature & put their daughter above all this pettiness
Why is charu present in almost all functions and later portray you as villian... that's not fair
Itne suljhe hue insan ka divorce ho chuka h...apki baate sahi h ekdm ..smjh pa rhe h apk sath kya hua hoga...social media n wrong friends matter krte h bht rishta khrab krne me.
👌sir bacchi ke liye ek ho jaiye bahot fark padta hai bap hona baccho ki zindagi me zaroori hai
Some of your points made sense, but a lot of your POV was extremely biased and pointing towards women. Also marriage is not just about children…one shouldn’t have children if they are not willing or ready to take responsibility. Marriage is something that both people need to nurture and put in work every day. People think and assume it to be a cake walk or just wanting to live in a honeymoon phase all the time. It needs nurturing and patience and willingness to get through things by communication and hearing out each other. People don’t understand this and don’t have patience that’s why marriages don’t work. They also don’t work because when they fight and argue losing the sight of the fact that they both are on the same team. Arguments and disagreements are completely okay to have. But it’s crucial to not disrespect each other, to always put love above, to always remind yourself what made you come together and just navigate through to get through things.
Kuchh nahi bus aap aur chharu ek saath bahot achhe lagte ho beti ke liye ek chance dena chahiye apni new shadi ko yani dubara shadi charu ke saath
Be humble understanding and adjusted..only mantra for Happy wedding
I only saw your efforts in this marriage. Your parents your events and all your things is involved. But your partner need her space her achievements in life. May be she is right or focused for herself. Sometimes two people have different objectives and goals. They not seeing there life with one perspective. Might be you are not wrong but not right for her. All this is different backgrounds you both have. Your upbringing is totally different. So its better to choose and live with the one who loved you and belongs to you. Not the one who is not involved emotionally,mentally and physically. You both have long life to live and to be available in good or bad is different things and available for life is different So choose wisely. All the best good luck.
Hi Rajeev...Aap dono alag ho gye ho par abhi Dubai trip par sath the . Ache lag rhe the..wapas kyu nhi ho jaate sath...Aapke pass itna paisa h aap charu ki help bhi karte ho kya
Please Sir just don't blame the women always..am a single mother..my ex husband left me and my little daughter when my daughter was just 4yrs old because she is a special child who was diagnosed with autism..since then am living with my aged mother and daughter..my daughter is 11 yrs now and my journey with my special child is not at all easy...but I never give up...I make it a point that my daughter attends a Special school where she gets her therapies also..however my ex husband got married right after leaving us and he has a son from his second wife too..but for me I have completely lost trust in men and have promised to myself to never be in a relationship or marriage in this lifetime..thank you 🙏
Not all men are bad | Not all men are good . More power to you . Lots of love
@@WorldofRajeevSen9♥️♥️♥️
@@WorldofRajeevSen9 Sir this is not about men you blamed women majorly and she was hurt I am too don't comment if you don't know the story of women and struggle
Apni bangali bangali chelera eto ta kharap sadharonoto hoi na apnar meyer jonno onek bhalobasa roilo apnar loray ta onubhob korte parchi bhalo thakben mayera eto selfish hote pare na chelera ki kore pare sontan ke bhule thakte
I think that's what he is trying to tell heal from your past first before a new phase ....and you proved this with your message... Though I m not a big fan of him but you haven't understood his point
Life is not easy but we have to make it easy 😊
Dekho sari bat smjhi mai but jb bat bacche ki ati h personal hapiness person space sb chor dete h insan but ap amiron k pass option hota h akele rhna , hm kaise v usi m manage krte h aur wo thik v h kyuki guarantee nhi hota ki aage sahi hi hoga
Rajiv u r very genuine.....ego inferiority complex main reason nd u r totally right wrong friends also impact the marriage....nd understanding is the main thing....yes one should not show to the social media i have done this ...that.....
But yes Rajiv we luv u as a good father nd son ...
All international trips,shopping, zianna's expence ye sab charu madam single handedly kar rahi ha???😅😅😅😅😅😅what a big joke from charu😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Excellent vlog. Very thoughtful and well articulated. Just one request if you can spend more time with Ziana, she is a beautiful child and needs time with both parents.
Please moved to Dubai with charu and ziana permanently, inshahAllah you will be happy
Fir waha jaker bhi yaha waha ghapa ghap kregi wo😂😂😂😂😂
Marriage needs a lot of adjustment , sacrifice and maturity.
@@remyasobith which Rajeev don’t have 🤣🤣
Communication
Bacche ho jane k bad baccho k liye sath rhna chahiye baccho k bare me sochna chahiye coz bacchon ko ma bap dono ka pyar nd dono ka sath chahiye tbhi bacche khush reh skte hai... Husband wife me kitne bhi differences ho vo ek bar baccha hone k bad khtm krna chahiye
Your way with words is truly impressive. You have a rare ability to articulate thoughts with such clarity and depth-it’s no wonder people might seek your insight.”
Only fools would seek out his insight. HE DOES NOT PRACTICE WHAT HE PREACHES. In Dubai it was baby baby again now its back to bashing, Where is the wisdom in that??????? He needs to stop lecturing people & do for himself what he he is lecturing about. Either live it or shut up.
@@Roseki-u6gEven I had exact same thoughts vs Rajeev. Then I closely observed Charu... she is also not less. They are incompatible basically!
Ya true, he is always talking about cheating n all. But it seems from his vlogs n all that he is the biggest cheater
Charu or aap dono sath me rho please ziyana ke liye hi shi aap sath me rho pyar bhi ho hi jayega dill se nibhane ki kosis to kro aap bhut samjhdar ho charu bhi dono apni beti ke liye
Marriage takes a lot of commitment, effort inorder to sustain..It's never a cake walk..As you rightly said, life is not a bed of roses..It's about how to learn to not let go despite the differences and learn to agree to disagree as at the end of the day it's about 2 individuals with different likes, dislikes and personalities.
We cannot expect the significant other to keep you happy..Happiness should be looked within ❤❤
Only happy individuals can at the end of day form a happy union or couple!!♥️
So beautifully addressed this relevant issue Rajeev..Love the way you openly, honestly talk without any pretentiousness..❤❤
From a neutral perspective no where did I notice you admitting there were mistakes from your end as well sir. With due respect, I always wished soem magic happens and things work out between you two as I follow for more than 3 years. (Very sorry for personal comment). Kindly check what is that you could have done better.. who knows things might work out if both parties admit their mistake and apologize. After all we are all humans.. lots of love ❤
U r right,
If there is no care ,faith, trust friendship ,then marriage is a burden, middle class people tolerate all problems bcz of they can't be separated alwayz, specially it needs financial independent for woman to stay separately, but for rich people they can afford, so moral of the story is without care, understanding, friendship noone can stay with anyone, be it gf or bf, husband and wife, brothers and sisters, or even with parents, this is my experience.
Please think about it ❤
Rajeev...in my case, not healing from the past is the other party and it's me who's hugely paying for it. It is massively painful not being accepted. I often say it to my close buddies even if he pays me the handsomest alimony (though such people don't do that either easily and he's from the same clan😊) , it won't give me my days back before my marriage.
Anyway!
Having said that, seeing things objectively, your analysis of the reasons behind rising cases of divorces these days are more or less the same.
Yes, marriage is a work in progress each day, every moment and a teamwork.
❤
Anyway,
Commitment phobia, no adjustment for the partner. This happens when both want to forge their independent paths. Yours too didn't work
Well talked Sir ..! You Rajeev Sir and Sush Mam Both Talk very compassionately..! U both are magnetic speaker 👍
Hi Rajeev ji.. according to me if there is no mutual understanding marriage not working..also trust is very important in every re
Rajeev,you have explained the institution of marriage in a wonderful way. I fully agree with you.
You are excellent soooooo true good explanation I LOVE YOU RAJEEV . Excellent
Marriage needs mind & soul connection, not just physical attraction. Relationships do require consistent effort,and your point about healing from past wounds is crucial. Letting go of unresolved baggage from failed relationships creates space for healthier, more fulfilling connections.
Longtime follower here-your authenticity and wisdom always shine. Keep inspiring! 🙌
I think that was overdramatic from her side. Rajeev is a very classy guy and quite matured. It is evident that he doesn’t do anything for publicity and sympathy 😊
Yes.. He doesn't want publicity ...
Ye ladka muje day one se honest lagta hai muje
These days even middle class are loosing ..!
I totally second what you mentioned Kruthika...marriage is mind and soul connection. And where a soulful connection is there ..the bliss happens.
ALWAYS STAY HAPPY, HEALTHY AND WEALTHY ( RAJEEV JI, CHARU JI AND ZIANA BETA 🙌)
Ego sbse bda problem h , male me to hmesha se hi rhi h but aajkal female bhi aa gyi h , isliye divorce ho rhe h
Sar hamari shadi ke 10 years Ho gaye hai .hum bahut jagdte the . Ek hi ghar me rahte the per 15 days tak bolte nahi the ek dusre ko .mere husband dusri ladki ke sath bhag gaye the . Fhir bhi mene unko maf kiya . Aaj hum dono bahut hi khush he aur bahot pyar karte hai ek dusre ko . Hamari bitiya bhi hai 7 sal ki .
That is because women like you donot have self respect and are okay with being treated like a doormat and accept men no matter how badly they treat you, I'm very sure if you had cheated on your husband he would never accept you.
So donot try to impose or tell your stupid life story to anyone there is nothing valuable to learn from it.
If marriage is only for security for children and supporting wife n husband in old age ,then in middle of all this years who will grow up children if mother father inbetween love is not there
Rajeev thank you for taking about v imp topic.wonderful as many people are watching you n will learn from u.u gave them direction ❤
Though not a Christian, I listen to Vlad Savchuks podcast and he says this...if you love God first and not the partner...love will automatically flow towards the partner...and he says that the partner should also love God the same way...once you both are on the same page and when God comes first, there is always a fear of doing something bad...and that which will be immoral will never be pursued...
He says that the family background must also be similar, both having true faith, hence important to meet and know the family, not thru brokers, if arranged...rather than friends it is the family, bcos like Vlad says.. initially we may feel that v r different from r fmly but in the end, qualities of the mother and father vl def creep into the person..and they begin to show...
Amen, YOU ARE SO RIGHT BEING A NEWLY CONVERTED CHRISTIAN MAY I CONFIRM YOU THIS. RELIGION is a big lie only The Lord Jesus can restore your life, relation or any other aspects of life. Even if you are not converted do search Jesus through prayers, fasting and faith that He will reveal Himself to you He is never late and doesn't disappoint this will be the best decision of your life ever, MAY THE LORD GUIDE YOU🙏
True this ia problem of today's generation. No body wants to understand there partner. Sabko lagta hai wo hi sahi sochte aur karte hai. No body is bothered about the other and about their families it's only bcoz of ego.
Hamara to daily jhagda hota h fir bhi sath hain 8 years se ..har din ham dono ek dusre ko bolte hain nikal jao mere ghr se,nhi rhna sath mai bahut ho gya bs , divorce le lo ....to mera beta bich mai aa jata h bolta h chup ho jao ap dono mujhe mumma papa dono chahiyea..hame hansi aa jati h ....ego relationship ko end kar deta h ..khush raho yr sab log
Yes same with us 😊bacchi ke liye yelog ko ak hona cahiye
Yes u r true .... Ye sb dekh kr dar lgta hai shadi k naam p bhi bt shadi kro to ek dusre ko smjho , na ki ek dusre ki kamiya btao Kami her insaan m hoti hai koi perfect nahi hota hai bt itna hai khus rho khud bhi aur apne ass pass aur apne patner ko bhi khus rkho . Y duniya hai her trh knlog milenge . Bs khushiyan doge to Khushi milegi baki upr wale jo likhe hai wo hoga ....
Jhagde sb m hote hai bt bnd kamre m kro dusre k samne jahir kroge to log sirf maze lenge baki bahot km hote hai is waqt m jo kisi k achchha soche. Bt bro u r sweet person and apki beti ap se jada sweet hai . Bs uske liye ap dono sath rhiye hamesha ku ki beti apki choti hai dono k pyaar important hai so plz ap aur family hamesha sath rhe yhi upr wale s dua hai❤❤❤❤
Aap khush ho ya bass apne app ko jhuta dilasa de rahe ho ki khush ho?
Agar agar sachme khush ho tho jagda kyu hota hai
Bina daily jhagde b khush Raha jaa sakta hai
You both have big ego. Where there is no respect, there can never be any love.
Mr sen please take care of yourself❤god bless you sir 🙏🏻
People want wedding not marriage which is life long bond
Well …. Looking back at Henry the 8th …. What we know is … they were part of the catholic …. The guy ended up having 6 wives …. He also beheaded some of them
The problem with being catholic is material is worshipped too much … a marriage is not a material commitment… yet people forget this truth …..
What we know is Henry the 8th left catholic to becoming Protestant… but even now they royal family a full disaster….
So what can we learn
That marriages are in shambles because the females wanna take over technology and rule it 😂😂😂😂…. Under illusion …. The problem now is ….
Marriage doesn’t exist anymore … people are just getting married to show off 😂😂😂
Commitment in relationship… respect have all gone out of the window …. All the wrong people are married 😏….. having kids …. And then there kids mental health get impacted negatively
In the dark times marriage is an illusion
Along my journey I met a lot of people who are separated from there husband or prositute wife’s of india are ready to sleep with another man for technology
We’re living in absolute darkness times
Marriage is a waste of time in dark age ….
Like I say people
Stay single …. Coz illusion exist and it’s very real at this moment in time
I ain’t a catholic therefore that’s why I ain’t married …. Marriage n children for me this lifetime is a BIG NO
Stay single n stay happy
Today between couples don't have commitment, Trust, Money comes in, they don't want to work on marriage, transparency between couples. . And lastly they don't want to loose their freedom. Marriages don't work like that. Everyone has a past, one should be open about it, to start with.nothing wrong.
Mujhe kuch nahi samajhta rajiv bhaiya bus ziana k liye dukh hota sachme
Galti kisiki bhi ho no matter vo jhel rahi use jo kami hai hai life me ek roj saath rehanewale ma baap hona na bus yahi dikhta
Abhi bhi prathna karungi sub aapke saath theek ho ziana ne jo khoya use mile jaldi aapka charu di ka dusara baby ho happy aur complete family ho ❤
Omg ..its like your telling about your marriage and your wife😅
Middle class also get divorced who said they sacrifice and stay back in marriage bcoz of money they always have fights who will take responsibity..its about rich people getting divorced
Rajeev ji aap charu di se again shadi krlo plz Bcoze aapki ek cute si beti h agr aap ziana ko pyar krte ho to plz is baare me zrur sochiyega
Mera b ek question hai ..itne time charu ko kaise jhela apne..bo psycho hai .bo a jati hai kuch tym baad social media pe drama krne
True Rajiv. Social media par nazar lag jati hai.
Immatued log dusron ke baat pe aajate hain aur apne ghar tod dete hain.
Kabhi kabhi ghar walon ka bhi bahat bada haat hota hai.
Kuch log ghar ki baat bahar le jate hain. Phir jhagda kabhi nahi khatam hota hai.
Ghar ki baat ghar mein hi rahe.
Husband wife apna problems khud solve kare. Yehi happy marriage ki sabse badi mantra hai.
Compromise has been overshadowed by issues of convenience that are word-compatible. That's a fact!
Hamein to aap aur chharu ko ek saath delhkr bahot achha lagta hai 🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲😊
Plz plz stay together.... U both look very good together... N ziana is very happy.. wen u both are with her..
You are the best every points were very knowledgeable
If anyone can make your marriage work it is only Lord Jesus who changes youe heart and soul after conversion. On the verge of separation, He healed my broken wounds showed to me how wrong my attitudes were and brought a change in my husband's heart aftet our conversion.
REPENT AND BELIEVE LORD JESUS IS THE ONLY SAVIOUR OF HUMANITY WHO WILL LOT ONLY FIX YOUR LIFE ISSUES BUT ALSO GUVE YOU ETERNAL LIFE - HE IS THE ONLY WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE NO ONE CAN COME TO GOD THE FATHER EXCEPT THROUGH JESUS CHRIST.
SEARCH HIM, SEEK FORGIVENESS AND ACCEPT HIM FOLLOW THE BIBLE AND HE WILL TAKE CARE OF YOUR NEEDS, RELATIONSHIP AND ALL ASPECTS HE IS LOYAL AND ALWAYS RESPONDS TO THOSE SEEKKNG HIM THERE'S NOTHING LIKE HIS LOVE❤
I always loved your vlogs! The way you convey and have seen your love for your daughter, Wife & Family. Even Now we do but taking care of child growing her what Charu is doing. No one can deny that consistent efforts of Mother.
You Even tried we have seen but God's plan. Best wishes.
After hearing your understanding, i still feel u and charu can definitely work out by ensuring previous mistakes are not repeated. Will be in interest of u all 3❤
Nd ap ziana ka kharch share krte h yes ya no
Rajeev biggest regret in life is - getting married I think 🤭
Marriage is giving and not expecting
😂😂😂 Sahi kaha Charu to kr
Rahi hai gg
Actions and reactions are reciprocal of each other form both the side so dono ki hi galti hoti h if marrige is not working you are also right ❤
Well said!
Yes rajeeev u r right ,jo past relationship se over come nahi ho pate unke sath ye hota h ye mera khud ka experience hai , lekin aisi situation me agar shadi kar li kisi or se kuch bhi reason k sath to or us time to pata nahi chalta kher lekin jhagde hote h argument hoti h lekin fir marriage pr work bhi karna padta h apne andar kafi chaaje change karni padti h kisi k pressure me nahi lekin khud ke liye , agar shadi kari hai to dono logo ko samjhna chahiye ek dusre ko agar bahut bada reason h jhagde ka to fir seprate ho jaye lekin sirf arguments k basis pr jhagde h to yar fir to dono logo ko ek dusre pr nature pr work karna chahiye ye sach baat h warna kya bole ❤
Hi...yes ur right.... marriage is nt a bed of love....der is lots n lots....nwdays marriage dont wrk...bcoz of interference of family members n frnds as u said.... whenever der a problem...v discuss with family n friends.... which is wrong.... actually husband n wife shd discuss within themselves rather than family n friends....some frnds gives wrong advise ...as u said they cant c...his friend happy so they give wrong advise...second marriage dont wrk...bcoz...I hv seen ...boy takes for granted his wife...once they get married.... thirdly trust issue....nwdays watsapp... facebook....as u said is ...I totally agree with u..... sometimes if girl earns more she takes d boy for granted....
I feel marriage first...is trust....
Second is care for each other c...dat u dont try to hurt each other physically...n mentally...
Thirdly I feel try to understand each other's needs... ambition...aim....wt they want to do in life....n helping each other to achieve dat drms...
Try to nt involve third party... meaning family n friends....
Last n first...Most impt....I feel....is god.... praying together....pray to god.... instead of telling others...tel God.....tel him....all ur problem...leave everything on god....
I hv seen marriage life.... husband stop frm giving her to wrk.... dominates her...hits her...stop giving money to wife...hit kids...bt d wife sacrifice...bcoz of kids.....
Nwdays it dont wrk....bcoz v discuss with family n friends...they are...one ...who create divorce....nwdays......
I really like ur vlog...wt u said is all correct.....
No responsibility no commtment is living relationship children
You are taking about charu when you said if girls has a past then they souls heal first because charu had broken relationship or something
Mje to ek sath ap dono bhot cute lgty ho zinana to Masha Allah bhot pyri h❤❤
My parents are in age of 70 plus . Always in chid chid mood 24 hour.
But, i do not get married and in age of mid 40s. Now, i feel lonely and unhappy.
Live in karlo. Divorces r very painful
Influence of social media is specially on influencers.....channel channel competition between couples. For views and money
Rajeev apne aaj bahut sahi baat ki ...
Kuch b ho but u & charu are very responsible parents..lucky ziana..❤❤
Enjoy your life, take care of your responsibility
Live in relationship i dont agree, its a sin in Catholic religion. Todays marriages dont last, because there is no understanding, and also education and technology is ruining the marriages. In our Roman catholic church, divorces are increasing. Always praying who are under troubled marriages. Still God with them. Keep God first and all the things will go right 🙏
I have also realised this. Though not a Christian, I listen to Vlad Svachuks podcast and he says this...if you love God first and not the partner...love will automatically flow towards the partner...and he says that the partner should also love God the same way...once you both are on the same page and when God comes first, there is always a fear of doing something bad...and that which will be immoral will never be pursued...
He says that the family background must also be similar, both having true faith, hence important to meet and know the family, not thru brokers, if arranged...rather than friends it is the family, bcos like Vlad says.. initially we may feel that v r different from r fmly but in the end, qualities of the mother and father vl def seep into the person..and they begin to show...
People are just not ready to adjust and they love to put the blame on other person this is the main reason why relationships are not working these days ..shaadi to dur ki baat hai idhar understanding hi nahi bachi logo me . 💔Aur jhoote logo ka to kya hi kehna jo game khel rahe hai most importantly friends ka influence kisi ke relationship me ya shaadi me bht bura saabit hota hai in most of cases ! Jitna ho sake jinki shadi hai ya relationship hai unko hi baith ke chizo pe baat kar ke sort karna chahiye aur nahi ho rha kuch sort to alag hojana chahiye bina blame game khele!
Ek Chhota Sa baccha hota hai use kuchh chijon ki samajh nahin Hoti uske bad bhi Ham use Apne tarike se samjhate hain ya uske tarike se rishte ko handle karte hain vaise hi shaadi ek Pavitra rishta hota hai use todna nahin chahie
Rajeev I think you should have trust,understanding and respect for each other and more importantly families are involved so everyone should be true to themselves first and love is the most precious thing you should have in a relationship if you’re not loyal and honest and loving the other person then it’s not worth it.I don’t know what you are going through but iam sure that you are true to yourself and you respect your parents and your family very much that is very important so just be yourself love to your family and god bless you ❤
Sare baton ko bhul ke aap aur charu ek ho jaye❤
Bachi ke liye ek ho Jana chahiye
Jiske papa nahi hota usse po6o ek bar badi ho ke bache ko aur struggle karna padega
I have never liked charu ,her sister and her sister in law .Bahut tez aur dominating hain .Sister to mentally disturbed lagti hai .
Marriage is a two way street and a lot of give and take.There is no 'perfect' relationship. It comes together if there is friendship, space ,respect,regard and love for each other.Its a continuous effort of keeping the relationship alive!We live abroad with no family here ,so any trouble ,we got to resolve it ourselves and fight it out.In India we have the luxury of walking out, going to our family right away etc.. fortunately or unfortunately we dont have that luxury here 😂
बड़े शहरों को तो पता नहीं मगर हमारे यहां 99% सादिया सक्सेस रहतीहै❤