Defeat Sexual Repression And Achieve True Pleasure | Annie Lalla

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  • Опубліковано 19 вер 2021
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    🤯 “Everything in life is about sex and mate signaling. Except for sex, which is about power.”
    Sexuality has been liberated, criticized, suppressed, and manipulated throughout history. Even with all the differences of sexuality in the modern world, statistics show that most people end up unsatisfied. 😣 And, even though most of us wanted to have a better introduction to sex growing up, parents still hardly know how to react to movie sex scenes in front of our children or the right way to handle conversations about masturbation with your child. And we know it’s hard, so we brought someone to help! 🌟
    In this video, Annie Lalla brought all her knowledge from experience and an Honors Science Degree in Biology & Philosophy, from evolutionary psychology to integral theory, spiral dynamics, intergenerational family systems, and therapeutic sexuality 😍. She joins Vishen in an awkwardness-free conversation about creating and fostering space for sex talks, authentic intimacy, and genuine connections. ✨
    About Annie Lalla
    With professional certifications in Emotions Coaching, NLP, and Clinical Hypnosis, Annie Lalla’s tools extend to metaphoric reframes, role-play, and interacting with clients as their highest selves. In her coaching, she helps individuals attract, create and foster great connections that maximize freedom and minimize shame. Annie works specifically with two types of people: 1) Singles who are done with dating & ready to find their life partner. 2) Couples in love wanting to resolve recurrent conflicts that erode their connection.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 81

  • @MindvalleyTalks
    @MindvalleyTalks  2 роки тому +6

    Who was the first person to “teach” you about sex in your life? Was it a 13-year-old like in Vishen’s? 🤭 Let us know in the comments 👇. And while you’re at it, ever wanted a taste of the exclusive Mindvalley Membership? Now you can. Access our entire vault of personal growth quests for free today 👉 go.mindvalley.com/ziqwa0B2

    • @shanianthony1027
      @shanianthony1027 2 роки тому +1

      11yo class mate - when asked mom afterwards she said only doctors know. what a great conversation and learning this is

    • @shauryapethe5935
      @shauryapethe5935 2 роки тому +2

      Yep...for me it was too a 12 yr old kid....That was the 1st time I ever knew about it.
      Btw, this was very informative....I never thought about that.
      Thanks ;)

    • @nxnowinners1
      @nxnowinners1 2 роки тому

      you should check out rollo tomassi the rational male.

    • @cartergomez5390
      @cartergomez5390 2 роки тому

      My mom sat me down at 10 but didn't say much because I told her that I already knew about it.

    • @nxnowinners1
      @nxnowinners1 2 роки тому +1

      @@cartergomez5390 check out the rational male. you get a deeper break down there.

  • @jeffkennedy1888
    @jeffkennedy1888 2 роки тому +14

    OMG!! This is just about the most intelligent, insightful, open-minded, loving discussion of this subject matter that I have ever heard. I particularly love her emphasis of cultivating your inner voice and your own, body-based intuition. As an INTP, I thought her advice was simply brilliant. Annie is wise beyond her years…

    • @annajao38
      @annajao38 2 роки тому

      Its most down time to when the JFK means, the loving discussion on wordy? I left a message, in case you cannot see it. Everyone got warn 5000%

  • @LenaDeity
    @LenaDeity 2 роки тому +11

    Awesome talk!
    I do that with men when they approach me, I am kind to them and say no to the opportunity but thank you for coming. But 90% of men do not get it and keep going. Keep trying. I feel as though I am too soft and kind. And perhaps I need to be more direct and firm Imt my response.

    • @Jwaydanofficial
      @Jwaydanofficial 2 роки тому +2

      Yep keep it firm . In this case, embody the kali archetype and communicate with a strong "no thank you. You're crossing my boundaries and this behaviour makes me extremely uncomfortable. Please step back".

    • @LenaDeity
      @LenaDeity 2 роки тому

      @@Jwaydanofficial thank you! I loved that advice!!!

    • @Jwaydanofficial
      @Jwaydanofficial 2 роки тому +3

      @@LenaDeity and you're absolutely not too soft or kind. no such thing😘😘just rather people who LACK sensitivity and decency.

    • @LenaDeity
      @LenaDeity 2 роки тому +1

      @@Jwaydanofficial ❤️❤️❤️ thank you kind soul for taking the time to comment and send loving vibes. Sending you positive vibes and well wishes.

    • @RobsonCassianoSoftware
      @RobsonCassianoSoftware 2 роки тому +1

      We're told that women like when we insist, and that when they say 'no' and we accept it, we lose an opportunity to prove ourselves and conquer her, something like that.
      I suggest you say 'no' firmly and also say no physically, with some kind of gesture.
      If even though he insists, he is just an idiot.

  • @margaritagiraldo6768
    @margaritagiraldo6768 2 роки тому +4

    What a brilliant approach. I liked her comment about using our heart intuition and about pure love. I’m blessed I found a person I truly love and I also feel truly loved!

  • @jeffreyyoder6459
    @jeffreyyoder6459 2 роки тому

    I really enjoyed this talk such common sounds goodness!!

  • @eunicenasimiyu4256
    @eunicenasimiyu4256 2 роки тому +3

    I love this one, tuned from Nairobi Kenya

  • @bennyyip6233
    @bennyyip6233 2 роки тому +2

    Amazing talk! Appreciated Annie can articulately explained about relationships and sexuality in an intelligent and intuitive manner. I learned a lot! Thank you!!! 💕

  • @KNKLDK
    @KNKLDK 11 місяців тому

    Thank you Thank you Thank you. Wish someone told this perspective in my childhood.

  • @JayJayRealhiphop
    @JayJayRealhiphop 2 роки тому +1

    Amazing. Yes!

  • @marklangerexcuseless
    @marklangerexcuseless 2 роки тому

    Wow... great mind valley discovery...
    Dr... Annie you a bomb...

  • @marianamarquesdossantos3221
    @marianamarquesdossantos3221 2 роки тому +2

    Dear Vishen and Annie, this was an incredible talk, very impactful, very enlightened, very clarifying and exceptionally rich. You made the difference :) and I am so grateful for running into this talk. Beautiful, inspired, full of wisdom and love.

    • @annajao38
      @annajao38 2 роки тому

      Its how enthusastic meant the insightful, to how wonderful, of me, sitting here, to having a dialouge, I leave a message you see?

  • @brigittaholzmann4006
    @brigittaholzmann4006 2 роки тому

    Thank you, thank you and thank you 🙏

  • @johngodoy2929
    @johngodoy2929 2 роки тому +6

    Wow, I needed this! Thanks Annie and thank you Vishen!

  • @Nadiasalen
    @Nadiasalen 2 роки тому

    Great podcast! 👏🏻🙏🏻

  • @DemetriPanici
    @DemetriPanici 2 роки тому +10

    Very interesting chat! Never had thought about this!

  • @SolesofImagination
    @SolesofImagination 2 роки тому +1

    Good insight. But we need to be mindful of our differences as men and women.

  • @sinclair657
    @sinclair657 2 роки тому

    Thanks

  • @mattnmgh
    @mattnmgh 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this opportunity to learn 🙏🏻

  • @rosalia4927
    @rosalia4927 2 роки тому +1

    Wow amazing really profound and liberating, love the ideas about intimacy, sexuality and true love
    Completely agree about how we teach and guide our children to discover themselves while we do the same with acceptance, compassion and honesty…
    You are an inspiration and people need your wisdom, thanks so much to you, mindvalley and vishen 🙏

  • @magical_days
    @magical_days 2 роки тому +1

    This conversation has set my week up in a whole new mental & emotional dreams work.
    Wow ❤️🙏

  • @nataliastepniak4617
    @nataliastepniak4617 2 роки тому +2

    Annie ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @michelecrump4005
    @michelecrump4005 2 роки тому

    BEAUTIFUL

  • @mariawarren4095
    @mariawarren4095 2 роки тому

    Loved this discussion. Thank you.

  • @johnpaulsecond4626
    @johnpaulsecond4626 2 роки тому

    wowwww; what an amazing human being; wowwww; every word you spoke Annie Lalla is so powerful and yet intimate, revealing, honest, brave, full of dignity, and just plain beautiful. i hope to find your books; but just your intrinsic alignment with the whole self is gooooooooood : well done Vishen for bringing Annie to the front and centre of the conversation; great job !!!

    • @annajao38
      @annajao38 2 роки тому

      You must see Stephen Tamang Indian Chinese mix as the Surgeon South Dakoda, University, you believing it, UB president its also Indian too, run or hide? Or you wish all knowing it anyway?

  • @reshmajeswani1542
    @reshmajeswani1542 2 роки тому +3

    Amazing talk!

    • @annajao38
      @annajao38 2 роки тому

      How redudant talks, Eben is no longer avaialble thanks to me. I left a message, no one sees? Answer it
      you have 5 seconds.

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 роки тому +27

    Dear lovely person that's reading this, we may not know each other but I wish you all the best in life! ✨
    I believe in you! Love - Nat ❤️

    • @subliminal81
      @subliminal81 2 роки тому +2

      Dear fellow living being,
      Do Ya believe in me?
      It's Great,because I also believe in myself.
      Kiss.

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 2 роки тому +2

      @@subliminal81 that is awesome! You got it :)

  • @innerchildsleepoverparty
    @innerchildsleepoverparty 2 роки тому

    Such a powerful conversation!

  • @tshepopending2476
    @tshepopending2476 2 роки тому

    WTF!!! Now this was a talk and half. Minevally never stops plugging us. I'm gonna re-watch this again in the near future. Thank you Vishen for bring Annie on this oe

  • @daughterofsunna3962
    @daughterofsunna3962 2 роки тому

    Wow I didn't know I needed this... thank you ♡

    • @annajao38
      @annajao38 2 роки тому

      I didn't know neither, someone like her exist, at all...how you think Eben and me?

  • @janinelehmann
    @janinelehmann 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you interesting I have two sons coming into puberty helpful .

  • @nabarajkhadka_12A
    @nabarajkhadka_12A 2 роки тому +1

    And have you ever know about thus conditions in nepal.........
    🕉️

  • @kkara2683
    @kkara2683 2 роки тому

    Omg! Such an awesome conversation for the parents.

  • @austriaperez497
    @austriaperez497 2 роки тому

    Awesome explanation 👏

  • @oscaralamendarez9413
    @oscaralamendarez9413 2 роки тому +1

    Never knew the awkwardness of my teenage years

  • @nolanpillay360
    @nolanpillay360 2 роки тому

    Wow, what you said about God is so powerful. The world needs an explanation like that Annie Lalla, thank you.

  • @eunicenasimiyu4256
    @eunicenasimiyu4256 2 роки тому +1

    I was told by my friends it when we were high school and I also learned from watching from romantic movies

    • @annajao38
      @annajao38 2 роки тому

      Its never ending talk to how response make the Khan Acadmia on TED, really.

  • @tentaplayz3691
    @tentaplayz3691 Рік тому

    My mango shampoo smells amazing ngl it's more potent than any other flavour

  • @aristefansson1589
    @aristefansson1589 2 роки тому

    Has anyone watched Love on the Spectrum on Netflix?

  • @manishkumarchudasama4026
    @manishkumarchudasama4026 2 роки тому

    I used to feel that I'm a misfit in this day and age, many women I had convinced about being Okay with having any desire that doesn't hurt anything in this universe. Annie, I know I'm not alone...

  • @user-jo6kb6bh9v
    @user-jo6kb6bh9v 3 місяці тому

    ❤🎉 avatar of true love

  • @juhyokang2571
    @juhyokang2571 2 роки тому

    Ok

  • @tentaplayz3691
    @tentaplayz3691 Рік тому

    Your "intuition" is either the instincts or urges of the flesh, or the Spirit of God that dwells in us. Sometimes it may be hard to distinguish between the two, but trust me, they're VERY different.

  • @AbrahamAndHerFriends
    @AbrahamAndHerFriends 2 роки тому

    I’m totally loving that finally we can talk about sex the way it should have been growing up! Anna your a true leader dealing with woman’s sexuality. And teaching others to not vilify sex, is so extremely important. Woman should know how to fully connect sexually to themselves, so they can satisfy their partner. If they don’t know how to get turned on, sex isn’t enjoyable, and often becomes a task. And all because these woman were told that sex is dirty, and shameful. Subconsciously it sinks into their minds, and they cant connect properly to have the most amazing sex. It would be a wonderful culture where woman are encouraged, and taught to live a sexual fulfilling live.

  • @Gloroxsocks
    @Gloroxsocks 2 роки тому

    iconic

  • @vinstatruong9719
    @vinstatruong9719 2 роки тому

    6134 Carlisle Ln, League City, TX

  • @bernadinemarr8432
    @bernadinemarr8432 2 роки тому +4

    a great show on Netflix is Sex Education, fun, real and on point...

    • @annajao38
      @annajao38 2 роки тому

      Its Tuche, how the nudity, to make Vola, on La la land movie on stream demands, don't you agree?

  • @juhyokang2571
    @juhyokang2571 2 роки тому

    용기ㆍ백배 당신의 제안을 받아들입니다 ㅡㅇk

  • @lindavox8396
    @lindavox8396 2 роки тому

    A word of advice: look for fast hair growth shampoo to double hair growth.

  • @TheSporkyBoi
    @TheSporkyBoi 2 роки тому

    Ouch, Annie’s perspective on polyamory is frankly distressing. The lack of distinction between “a couple with one person wanting to open the relationship” (which can often be coming from an avoidant place, not always, but that seems to be what she’s talking about, especially with the focus on ‘couple’ and ‘primary partner’) and “people who foster multiple intimate partnerships” was….rough. I really liked a lot of what she had to say on most of the other topics, but the framing of polyamory as something where one partner is coercing another into allowing them to prioritise another relationships over their ‘primary’ is….rough.

  • @Niagarabedbreakfast
    @Niagarabedbreakfast 2 роки тому

    Vishen, I've never seen you look so uncomfortable as you did in this interview.

  • @tentaplayz3691
    @tentaplayz3691 Рік тому

    No way she just referred to God as "it"💀