Yes, intiition always worked for me . It feels good to go for the gold. I had a job for many years which I liked but not loved. I completed my degree in a totally different field that wzs my passion and I always wanted. I followed my vision and pursued my dream. I am so satisfied I feel like a million bucks.
This is so true. I bust my backside at work, and I noticed that people don't care. It has turned into the opposite. I've noticed that my coworkers have become lazy, because I end up doing their work too.
When I listened to this video Saturday night, I remembered the times as a kid when I wanted to go swimming on a hot summer day - but the water felt cold and at first and I didn't want to get in. Then I would choose to "ease in" to the water and get used to it gradually. Other times I'd dive right in, and once the initial shock was over, the water felt great. Both methods worked. For me, it's the same way with working on things I want to do, but have a hard time getting started. I wanted to draw a new picture, but was afraid it wasn't going to turn out well. Finally I made myself start. Bit by bit I worked with it, had fun doing it, finished it, and am pleased with the result. Oh, and by the way - I drew it while listening to this video! ☺☺ So yes, I can vouch for the fact that sometimes we do have to make ourselves get started, but sooner or later it will come together .
Wow I feel so understood. I was crying towards the end of your video because I feel like this is exactly what I needed to hear and it came from someone who truly understands what I’m going through. I’m 22 and only have about 5 classes that I took in community college when I was 19-21 and I’m trying to get myself back in school again to take a dms program and a year of prerequisites for the program so I’ll be going to school for 3 years in total. I’m really nervous to go back to school because when I was in community college from 19-21 I was only able to get good grades in classes that I liked and was interested in learning about like psychology, English, & interpersonal communication. Then in my 2nd semester when it was time for me to take harder classes like biology and statistics I dropped them after less than a month of starting because I didn’t enjoy learning about it & it didn’t come easily to me. It was really hard for me to grasp the concepts. In that semester I was also taking a health & wellness class that I kept because it was interesting and I felt like I could apply what I learned in that class to bettering my life. I still haven’t applied to the college that offers the dms program because it’s almost an hour away from me and I’m nervous to talk to a school counselor to make an educational plan because I’m worried that maybe since I failed and withdrew from so many classes at my previous college they might not even accept me or I might have to retake the classes that I took and passed because they wouldn’t be able to accept my transcript. I know what I have to do and what I want I just procrastinate when it comes to taking action and I’m aware that it’s holding me back. I have this vision in my head but like you said the action part doesn’t come easily I don’t want to be like this anymore I want to get more out of life. On top of that, I haven’t been able to keep a job for more than 3-4 months ever, I get too bored and frustrated at the job (mostly customer service, cashier, warehouse jobs bc I don’t have a degree or any experience besides working at a bookstore for a few months) and I do this thing where I try to convince myself to stay at the job because I need the money and I really battle with myself & convince myself to just stay even if I don’t like it, I try to tell myself all the reasons that this job can possibly help me in life and I can learn something new, it doesn’t work it’s just too boring and frustrating and after giving myself all the reasons to stay at the job I still come to the conclusion that I’d rather be at home doing something else than to make money and suffer. I’m starting a new job in a few days and the shifts are only 4 hours so I’m hoping I can last 2 months and pay for a 6 day phlebotomist program so I can make a little more money and not have to deal with customers or labor. Just poke peoples arms & know I’m helping with the diagnostic process which is something I value. I just need to take action. If any infjs have been in a similar position and got over it please let me know how you did it. Thanks
I was in a similar situation in the sense that I was studying a law for 2 years and I really hated the degree. I was only studying it because my mom and family had put me on this pedestal because I was always the child that good grades in school. My mom is an entrepreneur and she doesnt have a college degree and as I got older I started to realize that she was not happy with the fact that she didnt go to college so she was projecting the life that she wouldve created for herself had she got a do over but it wasnt the life I wanted. I always knew even as a child that just going to school and getting a job wasnt for me, in my heart I was an entrepreneur and I was sacred of showing the world that because I was scared of embarassing my family. So, I honestly only went to law school to find myself and figure out what business I wanted to go into and I realised that my calling was actually trading (right now Im just trading forex and cryptocurrency but Im planning to learn how to trade stocks later on in life as well). So at the end of second year I just said you know what Im only going to live once so I might as well do what makes me happy and forget about what everyone else wants, I just came home and told my mom that Im not studying law anymore, I am teaching myself how to trade and Im going to study Investment management in order to get a financial license so that I can trade and manage other peoples money as well and If you dont like it kick me out. And to be honest she almost did but she saw how passionate about it I was and that I was serious about making this work so shes giving me the time to stay at home and work on my craft and study what I really want. So the best thing that you can do is to honestly just put yourself first and forget about everyone elses feelings. Its not going to be easy and youre going to meet a lot of friction and youre going to have to work really hard but I promise you that you are going to feel so much more fulfilled even if you are not making a lot of money. I promise because Im not even making a lot of money right now but I dont care because I love what I do and I know it wont be long before I am able to make money and take care of myself through this so that I can do it for the rest of my life. So just do you, stop lying to yourself and just pull the trigger, live your life. Do it and DONT THINK ABOUT IT, TRUST YOUR GUT. (Edit - Im 21 also turning 22 in july 2022)
I mean... hard work is still important. However, I'm noticing more and more that I'm happiest when I'm tapping into my intuition. I'm usually best at figuring out what I need and what's going on in my brain when I'm tapping into my intuition. Also, I'll say that I've caught myself manipulating my emotions from time to time. Deep down I know I'm doing it but it's so subtle that I can't always tell.
I feel like INFJ should be in business or running their own business. The next best thing is to be a sales person. This is because you will be in connection with your prominent intuition and you’ll be extremely successful at it. Being a sigma infj will also push you towards being a great salesperson and influencer.
Thanks so much for your videos. I'm 54 and struggled my entire life not fitting and never understanding why. But now to start to understand the up sides, well, my life is starting and exciting new chapter. Thankyou for speaking so thoughtfully, clearly and in such a positive way that the challenges are perceived in an achievable fresh light. Once again, thanks. Rob.
Thank you for this video. The advice is gold. I have been struggling to get to my career. I've had jobs I've hated, and jobs I've loved, but the job I think will be fulfilling has a lot of obstacles to get through first. I am trying to tackle one by one, while remaining positive. I don't want to live to work. I want to work to live. It has been difficult coming to this conclusion, and casting aside the world's view of success. I look forward to watching more of your videos.
Yes! I love your message. This is the approach I’ve been using for the past four years, since I had a complete breakdown. I realized how I was doing it didn’t work. Now I meditate and follow my intuition. Out of that process, I was able to write and publish my first book. A dream come true! 💛
This is amazing! I wrote 5 400 + page fiction novels before I had children. I was pumping out 2 books a year. Since I’ve had children I have this vision of a book with tons of details but I can’t just seem to find the mental energy to get it right. My daughter is now 12 and my son is 10. They are both homeschooled and I am a stay at home mom. I have time to write but it’s like my brain hurts when I try. This is my number 1 passion but that I can’t seem to do. So frustrating! It’s nice to hear someone else was able to do it! Congratulations
@@ComplicatedSimplicite Hi there! It’s great to connect with you. What if you only wrote when it was fun and it felt good? With no other expectation other than enjoyment? I have been practicing this for 6 years now, and I truly believe this is the reason I was able to finally write my first book. I only wrote when it was fun. I also have a mantra, “be gentle” with myself. I’m here if you want to explore this more. This is what I am here on this earth to do: help others create a life they love and that loves them back. You’ve got this 💛
@@emilierawlings2461 Thank you so much for your response. I really appreciate it and I will definitely try your suggestions. Honestly, it sounds amazing to only write when I want to! It takes a lot of the pressure off and I will definitely work on being more gentle with myself as well. Its not my strong suit but I have seen it benefit me in other areas of my life so perhaps it will help me in this area as well. Thank you again my friend! Best wishes.
I need this video....just feeling dreaded in finishing degree in chemical engineering...as an INFj...it use to be a joy of learning than...the major matrix is about...grading system and external motivation doesn't help in long run
Yes It is what happens to me, I don't do things that don't put me in a flow state for me is money things related, marketing, taxes, administration, etc. I just would like that someone deals all these things for me if I had money I would delegate them to someone else. I procrastinate a lot.
I hope I will not sound insulting to anyone, but I stopped watching Jordan Peterson videos, I haven't stopped watching yours. The reason is Peterson seems rather biased in his opinions (maybe I'm just grumpy because he denounces MBTI over Big 5 , haha) and being a one-way-person, whereas you deliver a message and you work with nuances, details. I Agree with that quote of his though. Interesting you mentioning connection between being able to changing approach and manipulation, definitely something about it.
I was so excited to find this channel, so many attributes of the personality designation describe me. Except the wanting of such grandiose things and successful experiences prior to today's situation. Is there an INFJ channel for losers?
Below the radar, above the system. What where, how are you watching me. how do you know my life? 😂 I'd like the book tho.where can I get the audiobook.
I know that I am not happy with my job right now and I love helping people and that makes me so happy... but it also consumes me and hurts me. That's why I don't know what to do with my career. This is so hard 😔.
@@TheDaytimel great, I'll follow your path in creative but maybe later 😬 now I'm working as a consultant and sales. It's freaked me out but at least I'm survived by the money 🙁
How has your intuition helped you succeed in the past?
Intuition always worked for me...when let it. Finally embracing it instead of doubting it(and myself..I believed the ones without).
;)
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Infj from india.... Can infj win in stockmarket with intuitive skills
Yes, intiition always worked for me . It feels good to go for the gold. I had a job for many years which I liked but not loved. I completed my degree in a totally different field that wzs my passion and I always wanted. I followed my vision and pursued my dream. I am so satisfied I feel like a million bucks.
This is so true. I bust my backside at work, and I noticed that people don't care. It has turned into the opposite. I've noticed that my coworkers have become lazy, because I end up doing their work too.
When I listened to this video Saturday night, I remembered the times as a kid when I wanted to go swimming on a hot summer day - but the water felt cold and at first and I didn't want to get in. Then I would choose to "ease in" to the water and get used to it gradually. Other times I'd dive right in, and once the initial shock was over, the water felt great. Both methods worked.
For me, it's the same way with working on things I want to do, but have a hard time getting started. I wanted to draw a new picture, but was afraid it wasn't going to turn out well. Finally I made myself start. Bit by bit I worked with it, had fun doing it, finished it, and am pleased with the result. Oh, and by the way - I drew it while listening to this video! ☺☺
So yes, I can vouch for the fact that sometimes we do have to make ourselves get started, but sooner or later it will come together .
yeeeayyy! I am so happy you are taking the steps because your results are always amazing 😊
You are definitely a painter Linda - your words were a paint brush and painted a beautiful metaphor for Wenzes' message! So lovely 😍
Love this
Wenzes you are gift to mankind
☺️ glad I can be of help
You are a gem to every INFJ❤️
Wow I feel so understood. I was crying towards the end of your video because I feel like this is exactly what I needed to hear and it came from someone who truly understands what I’m going through. I’m 22 and only have about 5 classes that I took in community college when I was 19-21 and I’m trying to get myself back in school again to take a dms program and a year of prerequisites for the program so I’ll be going to school for 3 years in total. I’m really nervous to go back to school because when I was in community college from 19-21 I was only able to get good grades in classes that I liked and was interested in learning about like psychology, English, & interpersonal communication. Then in my 2nd semester when it was time for me to take harder classes like biology and statistics I dropped them after less than a month of starting because I didn’t enjoy learning about it & it didn’t come easily to me. It was really hard for me to grasp the concepts. In that semester I was also taking a health & wellness class that I kept because it was interesting and I felt like I could apply what I learned in that class to bettering my life. I still haven’t applied to the college that offers the dms program because it’s almost an hour away from me and I’m nervous to talk to a school counselor to make an educational plan because I’m worried that maybe since I failed and withdrew from so many classes at my previous college they might not even accept me or I might have to retake the classes that I took and passed because they wouldn’t be able to accept my transcript. I know what I have to do and what I want I just procrastinate when it comes to taking action and I’m aware that it’s holding me back. I have this vision in my head but like you said the action part doesn’t come easily I don’t want to be like this anymore I want to get more out of life. On top of that, I haven’t been able to keep a job for more than
3-4 months ever, I get too bored and frustrated at the job (mostly customer service, cashier, warehouse jobs bc I don’t have a degree or any experience besides working at a bookstore for a few months) and I do this thing where I try to convince myself to stay at the job because I need the money and I really battle with myself & convince myself to just stay even if I don’t like it, I try to tell myself all the reasons that this job can possibly help me in life and I can learn something new, it doesn’t work it’s just too boring and frustrating and after giving myself all the reasons to stay at the job I still come to the conclusion that I’d rather be at home doing something else than to make money and suffer. I’m starting a new job in a few days and the shifts are only 4 hours so I’m hoping I can last 2 months and pay for a 6 day phlebotomist program so I can make a little more money and not have to deal with customers or labor. Just poke peoples arms & know I’m helping with the diagnostic process which is something I value. I just need to take action.
If any infjs have been in a similar position and got over it please let me know how you did it. Thanks
I was in a similar situation in the sense that I was studying a law for 2 years and I really hated the degree. I was only studying it because my mom and family had put me on this pedestal because I was always the child that good grades in school. My mom is an entrepreneur and she doesnt have a college degree and as I got older I started to realize that she was not happy with the fact that she didnt go to college so she was projecting the life that she wouldve created for herself had she got a do over but it wasnt the life I wanted. I always knew even as a child that just going to school and getting a job wasnt for me, in my heart I was an entrepreneur and I was sacred of showing the world that because I was scared of embarassing my family. So, I honestly only went to law school to find myself and figure out what business I wanted to go into and I realised that my calling was actually trading (right now Im just trading forex and cryptocurrency but Im planning to learn how to trade stocks later on in life as well). So at the end of second year I just said you know what Im only going to live once so I might as well do what makes me happy and forget about what everyone else wants, I just came home and told my mom that Im not studying law anymore, I am teaching myself how to trade and Im going to study Investment management in order to get a financial license so that I can trade and manage other peoples money as well and If you dont like it kick me out. And to be honest she almost did but she saw how passionate about it I was and that I was serious about making this work so shes giving me the time to stay at home and work on my craft and study what I really want. So the best thing that you can do is to honestly just put yourself first and forget about everyone elses feelings. Its not going to be easy and youre going to meet a lot of friction and youre going to have to work really hard but I promise you that you are going to feel so much more fulfilled even if you are not making a lot of money. I promise because Im not even making a lot of money right now but I dont care because I love what I do and I know it wont be long before I am able to make money and take care of myself through this so that I can do it for the rest of my life. So just do you, stop lying to yourself and just pull the trigger, live your life. Do it and DONT THINK ABOUT IT, TRUST YOUR GUT. (Edit - Im 21 also turning 22 in july 2022)
Jasmine, stay in school and get a good education, college, uni, the highest you can go
I mean... hard work is still important. However, I'm noticing more and more that I'm happiest when I'm tapping into my intuition. I'm usually best at figuring out what I need and what's going on in my brain when I'm tapping into my intuition. Also, I'll say that I've caught myself manipulating my emotions from time to time. Deep down I know I'm doing it but it's so subtle that I can't always tell.
This video came at the perfect time. Mindset work and intuition are exactly what I've been trying to key in on in the last week.
Great, happy the video is helpful to you 👍👍
You're videos just keep getting better and better, thank you !
😀 happy you like them 👍😊
I feel like INFJ should be in business or running their own business. The next best thing is to be a sales person.
This is because you will be in connection with your prominent intuition and you’ll be extremely successful at it.
Being a sigma infj will also push you towards being a great salesperson and influencer.
Hello, I'm an INFJ from Indonesia. I got a lot of lessons after watching this vodeo, thank you so much..
"When the student is ready, the master appears" Thank you, Wenzes. Thank you. God Bless.
Love this message just from the video title alone.
😀
Thanks so much for your videos.
I'm 54 and struggled my entire life not fitting and never understanding why.
But now to start to understand the up sides, well, my life is starting and exciting new chapter.
Thankyou for speaking so thoughtfully, clearly and in such a positive way that the challenges are perceived in an achievable fresh light.
Once again, thanks.
Rob.
Thank you for this video. The advice is gold. I have been struggling to get to my career. I've had jobs I've hated, and jobs I've loved, but the job I think will be fulfilling has a lot of obstacles to get through first. I am trying to tackle one by one, while remaining positive. I don't want to live to work. I want to work to live. It has been difficult coming to this conclusion, and casting aside the world's view of success. I look forward to watching more of your videos.
Everything I do that makes me money gives me happiness. Maybe it’s because I’m broke.
Nah, I just love money.
Yes! I love your message. This is the approach I’ve been using for the past four years, since I had a complete breakdown. I realized how I was doing it didn’t work. Now I meditate and follow my intuition. Out of that process, I was able to write and publish my first book. A dream come true! 💛
This is amazing! I wrote 5 400 + page fiction novels before I had children. I was pumping out 2 books a year. Since I’ve had children I have this vision of a book with tons of details but I can’t just seem to find the mental energy to get it right. My daughter is now 12 and my son is 10. They are both homeschooled and I am a stay at home mom. I have time to write but it’s like my brain hurts when I try. This is my number 1 passion but that I can’t seem to do. So frustrating! It’s nice to hear someone else was able to do it! Congratulations
@@ComplicatedSimplicite Hi there! It’s great to connect with you. What if you only wrote when it was fun and it felt good? With no other expectation other than enjoyment? I have been practicing this for 6 years now, and I truly believe this is the reason I was able to finally write my first book. I only wrote when it was fun. I also have a mantra, “be gentle” with myself. I’m here if you want to explore this more. This is what I am here on this earth to do: help others create a life they love and that loves them back. You’ve got this 💛
@@emilierawlings2461 Thank you so much for your response. I really appreciate it and I will definitely try your suggestions. Honestly, it sounds amazing to only write when I want to! It takes a lot of the pressure off and I will definitely work on being more gentle with myself as well. Its not my strong suit but I have seen it benefit me in other areas of my life so perhaps it will help me in this area as well. Thank you again my friend! Best wishes.
Totally resonate with all you say. Recently quit my job for the same reasons and started working on the path that I am truly in flow with.
Right on!!
Pure gold..... taking control of my life.
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Intuition-> Psychic shit for me.
Imagine writing stories in real time getting visions about future events. My friends are like ‘wtf’.
I need this video....just feeling dreaded in finishing degree in chemical engineering...as an INFj...it use to be a joy of learning than...the major matrix is about...grading system and external motivation doesn't help in long run
Yes It is what happens to me, I don't do things that don't put me in a flow state for me is money things related, marketing, taxes, administration, etc. I just would like that someone deals all these things for me if I had money I would delegate them to someone else. I procrastinate a lot.
you have changed my life
Strategic is the key
Thank you for this....really resonates, as I'm just putting my coaching business together.
Your research is life changing, thanks dear 💕🙏
So incredibly validating. Thank you
I hope I will not sound insulting to anyone, but I stopped watching Jordan Peterson videos, I haven't stopped watching yours. The reason is Peterson seems rather biased in his opinions (maybe I'm just grumpy because he denounces MBTI over Big 5 , haha) and being a one-way-person, whereas you deliver a message and you work with nuances, details. I Agree with that quote of his though. Interesting you mentioning connection between being able to changing approach and manipulation, definitely something about it.
Thank you 😊 glad I can help
@@jman84100 Terrific explanation, thank you1
Peterson is very overrated in my opinion. Sure, he makes some valid points but the cult-like following he has is completely undeserved.
I was so excited to find this channel, so many attributes of the personality designation describe me. Except the wanting of such grandiose things and successful experiences prior to today's situation. Is there an INFJ channel for losers?
Thank you so much Wenzes
Thanks aunty wenzes
Thank you, Wenzes, I really need it this.
Thank you ma'am this is very helpful for me 🙏❤
Nice, thanku
Your the Best ... Thanks for your Time doing this
thank you
53 white male.
Thank you
Glad it resonates with you!
Thank you.
Below the radar, above the system.
What where, how are you watching me.
how do you know my life? 😂
I'd like the book tho.where can I get the audiobook.
So true ❤
One small correction.
Don't put the word ""at" at the end if a sentence.
Where are you at?
Where are you?
Makes a difference
Fellow infj.
You go girl.
How do we get your book?
I know that I am not happy with my job right now and I love helping people and that makes me so happy... but it also consumes me and hurts me. That's why I don't know what to do with my career. This is so hard 😔.
Same here :'(
@@assiyah3685 i think I will rather do a creative job ^^
@@TheDaytimel great, I'll follow your path in creative but maybe later 😬 now I'm working as a consultant and sales. It's freaked me out but at least I'm survived by the money 🙁
@@assiyah3685 same! Now is not the best timing to change a job ^^. I will wait until the situation has changed.
@@TheDaytimel yeah, I never thought find a suitable job is this hard :( actually I'm just 22 and this is my third job
What sucks is I'm attracted to you jimiedwards utube JONAH
Your work is far more coherent and helpful than that of Jordan Peterson. You don't need to quote him to add validity to your work. Peterson is a mess.
Nice booba