Has the NARCISSIST turned you into somebody you don't like or recognize?

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  • Опубліковано 25 тра 2024
  • The narcissist can provoke behavior from good people that is the opposite reflection of their true nature. It can be confusing and scary to see who you've become
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  • @singstreetcar5881
    @singstreetcar5881 21 день тому +19

    They bring u out of character

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  21 день тому +9

      YES

    • @lorinapetranova2607
      @lorinapetranova2607 21 день тому +3

      Just before I lost contact with my daughter she sounded like a total idgit. 360 degree change from how she'd been 6 mo or less earlier. It's hell. I know all the psychological landmass all this means. She and I have lived it separately. Plus actual edu. She has a BA in psychology with emphasis on ppl at risk. Warped huh. I have a feeling she's in the deepest end of the pool. And the roadmap doesn't look good. I told her all the things you said last yr. I even warped out with my cptsd the triggers were so bad during a phone call with her. No matter. I been through this before in her other marriage. She's nuts for drama and chaos. I don't think all the yrs of counseling dealt with her deeper personal problems. My suggestion to anyone is love yourself enough to enjoy living alone. At least most of the time or find your own style of relating. There's entirely too many psychotic ppl anymore. And reasonable psychologists are now saying that there really is an increase in narcissists especially covert and malignant. The later being the most dangerous kind. Many blessings n cautious skepticism can be a good thing.

    • @UnapologeticallyME-vw5wz
      @UnapologeticallyME-vw5wz 21 день тому +3

      Bring you into something or somebody you tried to write your wrongs from.

  • @StephanieMoran-hq4dz
    @StephanieMoran-hq4dz 20 днів тому +6

    Sadistic psychological torture acheived in some cases through WITCHCRAFT!! Jesus is Lord! Praise him as he will heal me fully in his time.

  • @yvonnemarie57
    @yvonnemarie57 21 день тому +14

    Basically. He is in total denial that he is the narcissist…says that I am. Typical.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  21 день тому +3

      Soooo typical indeed.

    • @yvonnemarie57
      @yvonnemarie57 21 день тому +3

      @@VitalMGermaine I could write a book about my ex narcissist. It took me about four years to figure out what he is . I couldn’t put my finger on it.

    • @ZuZu_Petals
      @ZuZu_Petals 19 днів тому

      I forgot that accusing someone of narcissism means you are definitely not a narcissist

    • @yvonnemarie57
      @yvonnemarie57 19 днів тому +1

      @@ZuZu_Petals huh? After 4 years of knowing something was definitely not right with him and not even knowing what narcissism was I just assumed he was bipolar. After seeing videos and reading google articles I noticed that he had almost every trait. I don’t just call anyone a narcissist, but he is 100% a narcissist. I should know. You don’t.

    • @ZuZu_Petals
      @ZuZu_Petals 19 днів тому +1

      @@yvonnemarie57 i am the devil, i know

  • @Malibu_Dawn
    @Malibu_Dawn 21 день тому +6

    Sadism . Full stop.

  • @nonawolf7495
    @nonawolf7495 21 день тому +3

    My Narc Mother played that game with me. Even as a child, she would pick at me until I exploded... then she would suddenly become serene. Seeing me blow up always made her feel better.
    So sick.

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  21 день тому +1

      ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

  • @btlfilmmedia9514
    @btlfilmmedia9514 21 день тому +9

    Reactive abuse they love it ...get out fast

  • @terry4161
    @terry4161 19 днів тому +1

    Sir you speak in a way that I haven’t heard before in UA-cam. Thank you for the advice

  • @ms.p6594
    @ms.p6594 21 день тому +5

    Yes, this.👏🏾

  • @TK-un1pu
    @TK-un1pu 18 днів тому +1

    I brought your book!!! Amazon will be delivering it by Sunday!! ❤🙏🏾
    Thank you so much for these videos!

    • @VitalMGermaine
      @VitalMGermaine  17 днів тому +1

      YW and thank you for buying the book.

    • @TK-un1pu
      @TK-un1pu 17 днів тому

      @@VitalMGermaine Thank you for writing it! I will post positive feedback here and on Amazon. Your channel is very helpful and informative for empaths. We tend to get taken advantage of and misjudged because we are nice. Then when we set a boundary we are instantly the bad guys. I have been called a narcissist and it literally had me questioning my entire life. I’m thankful that YT recommended your channel.

  • @alicemcduff3416
    @alicemcduff3416 20 днів тому +1

    It's called "The Switch". Prof. Dr Sam Vaknin made an entire, fascinating video about the borderliner's and the narcissistic's Switch.

  • @MalikMatthews-ox4lf
    @MalikMatthews-ox4lf 20 днів тому +1

    Holy stuff bro this was the pep talk/break down I needed thanks

  • @veronicadavila3180
    @veronicadavila3180 20 днів тому +1

    Thank you very much!!!!!!

  • @user-jt2mr7uj1y
    @user-jt2mr7uj1y 5 днів тому +1

    I personally appreciate your perspective. You speak from an informed & educated manner. I can identify with this video. I am dealing with a multitude of narcissistic individuals (very cult-like) the domonic influence is strong, however, GOD The Creator is in control. The false facade of those in this community is easily seen and felt. I can see through their manipulations and web of deceit. Even those working for this community. It is quite profound and simply evil how they operate.

  • @bcharles-ms9hv
    @bcharles-ms9hv 21 день тому +1

    I found $ 15 in front of an atm, nobody believes me but atm fixes everything

  • @nicholecornes1915
    @nicholecornes1915 21 день тому +2

    Im back still a good kind person BUT I shut you the fuck down if I see disrespect OR red flags! It's too dangerous