Ladies, Be Careful Settling for a Man Less Successful Than You - Christian Animation Video

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  • 🌟 Discover the Power of Wise Choices in Love! 💖 🌟
    Welcome to our Christian animation video titled "Ladies, Be Careful About Settling for a Man Less Successful Than You." In this thought-provoking video, we explore the journey of Carolyn, a successful and generous woman, navigating the complexities of love, faith, and self-discovery.
    🔍 What to Expect in This Video:
    Carolyn's story unfolds, revealing the challenges she faces in relationships.
    Insights on the importance of aligning values and faith in choosing a life partner.
    A surprising twist at a wedding reception that brings closure and empowerment.
    🌐 Key Takeaways:
    1. Importance of seeking God's guidance in relationships.
    2. Recognizing red flags and making choices that align with your values.
    3. The power of self-discovery and embracing personal growth.
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    Share your thoughts in the comments below! Have you faced similar challenges? How did your faith guide your choices in love?
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  • @redrose14152
    @redrose14152 Місяць тому +4

    “Why would God only tell him and not both of you?” Exactly!

  • @DrYettyBby
    @DrYettyBby Рік тому +119

    Crazy. I know a man just like Lambert. God got me out of that situation. I’m forever grateful

    • @GirlOfTheAfricanSoil_001
      @GirlOfTheAfricanSoil_001 Рік тому +13

      Sorry dear you had to through that. We thank God you came out of it😮

    • @julietlombwa9200
      @julietlombwa9200 Рік тому +6

      Same sis, SAAAME

    • @ShortsbySejn
      @ShortsbySejn 5 місяців тому +2

      omg, if only i focused on following God's word.

    • @Joanie_54jam
      @Joanie_54jam 4 місяці тому +2

      Same here

    • @ZelipaMwale-o6x
      @ZelipaMwale-o6x 3 місяці тому +1

      We have one of jr pastors at our church. He started showing interest in me but I didn't like him because he's way too old than me and he's a window, and has a child who needs special care because of the condition he's in. He would bring up conversations here and there, till one day he asked me for money. I told him I didn't have that's was the end of our conversations 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @choosen1130
    @choosen1130 Рік тому +44

    I love these toriva stories they are teaching me a lot about life and to guide my life as a young lady

  • @dianasettle4159
    @dianasettle4159 Рік тому +43

    😂😂😂😂 YESSIR!! 👍 LAMBERT!! FATHER GOD PLEASE NEVER ALLOW A MAN LIKE HIM TO EVER CROSS MY PATH NOW 🙏🏿 OR IN THE FUTURE.

  • @EvangelineHTown
    @EvangelineHTown Місяць тому +2

    I married a man just like lambert! It took years for me to realize that he was my biggest natural enemy! Praise the Lord for getting me out of that hell! 🙏🏾

  • @ms.fortune2957
    @ms.fortune2957 Рік тому +30

    Haaaaa Haaaaa! I LOVE the end! There are so many devils like this in and out of the church!
    PRAY 1st. GOD WILL NOT lead a broke man to marry anyone broke! GOD is a GOD of order and he called the man to PROVIDE AND PROTECT period!!

  • @hiddenbeauty2828
    @hiddenbeauty2828 Рік тому +43

    God got me out of a situation with a man who promised to meet me in person. But he never kept his promise. Worst of all, he ghosted me after I kept bringing up the issue. He smiled and lied in my face, but God knew who he truly was. Thank the Lord!

  • @monicanamuganyi1707
    @monicanamuganyi1707 Рік тому +39

    I have also been in such a situation.i met this guy a church and his parents wea in the same. Dey wanted me to start with him. He was not working he would and not looking for work. I thank God he got out of this situation.
    I believe one day my destiny partner will come.

    • @GirlOfTheAfricanSoil_001
      @GirlOfTheAfricanSoil_001 Рік тому +5

      Wow! God is faithful. These kind of men are everywhere 😢. It's confusing and sad if they are in church.

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt 7 місяців тому

      They, not dey.

    • @isabellopes890
      @isabellopes890 6 місяців тому +1

      Some parents, just want their adults out of the house. Specially if there have become a burden.

  • @LifeAsDrJenn
    @LifeAsDrJenn Рік тому +49

    This is why I heard people say to never give a man money. Lambert could have settled for a better job that paid better. On another angle, he is a narcissist, using Carolyn, making her feel guilty about things. He lied behind Carolyn's back saying that she paid him to marry her.

    • @torivastoriesanimated
      @torivastoriesanimated  Рік тому +7

      I would like for you to watch the video again and mention a single instance where Carolyn disrespected Lambert. I don't know if I included in the end of the video that Lambert is no longer in ministry and Carolyn has been married for twelve years now.

    • @jesuloba4817
      @jesuloba4817 7 місяців тому

      @@torivastoriesanimated

  • @mommieofdos
    @mommieofdos 6 місяців тому +41

    This man really showed up at her door and said "I'm the prize" 😂

  • @Aisha_babii
    @Aisha_babii Рік тому +8

    The shade was real 😅

  • @Stachios77
    @Stachios77 5 місяців тому +12

    God will always tell us who our person is. It’s important we all know that. He won’t cause us to be led astray! He won’t only tell one person! He’ll make it very clear to you both that you are meant to be together.

  • @destinyyazmier
    @destinyyazmier 5 місяців тому +20

    HE LOVE ME, HE LOVES GOD and HE PAYS MY BILLSSSS PURRR

  • @Kuhle980
    @Kuhle980 4 місяці тому +6

    Ladies this is why you need to have a relationship with God first. Speak to God and confirm first, marrying the wrong person can cause so much turmoil. Never allow your desperation to make you make an illinformed decision.

  • @Lifewithchrist__
    @Lifewithchrist__ Рік тому +42

    & he pays my bills 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @FavourEguzozie
    @FavourEguzozie Рік тому +35

    Toriva stories are a breath of fresh air. Thank you for all these great lessons. I love the intelligence behind the lyrics of the scripts. Please keep up the good work

  • @endtimewarriorofchrist4836
    @endtimewarriorofchrist4836 Рік тому +10

    This should have part 2! It shouldn't end this way, let's see what happened to Lambert and his wife, and the other ones🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @jacquelinecrosdale7255
    @jacquelinecrosdale7255 2 місяці тому +1

    Two has to agree. We have to hear from the Lord for ourselves as well. Nothing hidden.

  • @finevoice710
    @finevoice710 Рік тому +12

    I LOVE HOW SHE THREW THOSE LINES IN THE END!.😀

  • @analise1248
    @analise1248 Рік тому +16

    Nice story! I would not have wasted my time going to Lambert's wedding though 😂
    I felt bad for Caroline throughout the story but she learned a valuable lesson and God
    sent the right man for her in the end.😊😇 Praise Yah❤❤

  • @Sasha-gayeSmith
    @Sasha-gayeSmith 7 місяців тому +20

    With that name I wasn’t expecting any better

  • @CherieDeDieu
    @CherieDeDieu 6 місяців тому +8

    Thank God for exposing the Lamberts in our lives! I have dated one before.

    • @erugoitom3630
      @erugoitom3630 2 місяці тому

      Is divorce not forbidden for Christians because of the risk of fornication

  • @Zyn1691
    @Zyn1691 3 місяці тому +1

    Patience, patience.

  • @felicidadcoco7814
    @felicidadcoco7814 Рік тому +25

    Lambert was so full of himself

  • @LuVNEWSWORLD
    @LuVNEWSWORLD 6 місяців тому +15

    Why do they always thinks God's will is poverty? Marriage is not a need it is a want and wants can wait for the best not to rush an say God's will. It is God's will for us to prosper and be in good health😂 why do Christians thinks Marriage is a must or has to be rushed? Let your life be about God and if God wants you to marry he will but not for someone to come an tell you to based on claims, terms and conditions 😂😂 when you are single it is easier to serve God than when you become one with another person bcuz if they decide to crumble its bigger trouble and double burden so Marriage shouldn't have a time on it to be rushed but rather wait on God. Bcuz if you think you need to get married an your not happy with God then a human being cannot change that bcuz when pleasures is done satan is ready to beat you. If you find it difficult to serve God or be happy with God in your singleness enough to be alone until Gods says otherwise you are not ready for marriage. If you can't be happy an commit to God you cannot do it for man in God alone is true happiness why are some Christians sad an thinks marriage is a must or rushed an crying to marry? Or marriage is true happiness? Isnt God enough? They say its better to marry than burn but believe me you can still burn even after marriage if rushed on your terms and timeline be wise as a serpent!😂

  • @lisacarroll6984
    @lisacarroll6984 Рік тому +2

    Great story 👏👏👏👏

  • @blessingso.9108
    @blessingso.9108 3 місяці тому +2

    unfortunately i fell into this trap. A man who said he got revelation about my deliverance i supposeď to get married to him . he never paid bills and no plan in 5 years. But i thank God i am out it. Never be late with lord Jesus Christ.

  • @taytreatment
    @taytreatment Рік тому +22

    😂wow he asked for transport money after he came all the way to give her bad vibez

    • @annefrancis7273
      @annefrancis7273 5 місяців тому

      I know right..... 😮😮😮

    • @Ms.Kay1303
      @Ms.Kay1303 3 місяці тому +1

      The audacity is high😂

  • @TruthRealFreedom
    @TruthRealFreedom Рік тому +34

    Lambert was a real nightmare.

  • @mbalipambo7364
    @mbalipambo7364 5 місяців тому +15

    Delay is disobedience 😂 what on earth! The devil is always rushing to distruct lives. He comes to steal, kill and destroy !
    God takes time and does everything with thought and preparation and brings it together in His perfect time🙏🏾

    • @Sam-iy1nt
      @Sam-iy1nt 3 місяці тому

      And patience is a fruit of the Spirit! Glory be to God!

  • @Arihasopinions
    @Arihasopinions 6 місяців тому +2

    I love these videos 😭

  • @TheRealCcE
    @TheRealCcE 5 місяців тому +4

    Glad Caroline got away, but she still seems to care about what Lambart thinks. Lambart would have been all the way blocked and I wouldn’t even be curious to know what happened to him,

  • @catherinendunguru8859
    @catherinendunguru8859 2 місяці тому

    This happening to someone right now!😢

  • @Portia04
    @Portia04 5 місяців тому

    I love and enjoy watching these stories please keep on doing them, they teach and inspire thank you💕.

  • @ukaogochizaram9248
    @ukaogochizaram9248 4 місяці тому

    God help my family when it is time to chose their life partners,both the male and female. Also,i need ur.divine assistance in every relationships.

  • @jojo_inspire
    @jojo_inspire 4 місяці тому

    This was so good!!

  • @mutaumayumbelo1233
    @mutaumayumbelo1233 26 днів тому

    What an ending lol 😂

  • @OlabimpePrisca
    @OlabimpePrisca 7 місяців тому

    Really true story. God bless you guys.

  • @beyourownstar33
    @beyourownstar33 6 місяців тому +6

    That pator needed to disciple Lambert after he knew the circles Lambert was riding in. & I don’t understand why he would marry Lambert to that lady

  • @Glow224
    @Glow224 6 місяців тому

    Very true 🙏🙏

  • @mbalenhlemthembu8321
    @mbalenhlemthembu8321 2 місяці тому

    LOL!!! I think this was take from my personal story.😂😢

  • @GirlOfTheAfricanSoil_001
    @GirlOfTheAfricanSoil_001 Рік тому +11

    I hate the character of Lambert😢. Men hey! Man up!
    Women! Let's stop forcing issues ooooo😂. Good job Carolyn.
    I cannot stand this fellow even for an hour. God help us😮

  • @jonathanaryee3505
    @jonathanaryee3505 7 місяців тому +3

    I believe she shouldn't have divorced him because whatever God puts together no man can separate. That's y it's important to Pray for the right person. So it's kind of adultery

  • @cindyharrison9605
    @cindyharrison9605 9 місяців тому +2

    When your married, you are one. Men please listen, so both of you should work and take care of the house bill and every bills in the house. Including both of ya'll children.

  • @tannygodisbeautiful9690
    @tannygodisbeautiful9690 Рік тому +6

    SO THE ELDER WAS SITTING THERE AND ALLOWED HIM TO BEG THAT WAS THE FIRST RED FLAG AND THE ELDER SAID NOTHING AND THE PASTOR WHO MARRIED HIM. I HOPE THEY COUNSELLED HIM AND HIS NEW BRIDE.......
    BUT IT WAS THE GUY WHO STARTED ABOUT THE MONEY AND HE WAS THE ONE WHO FINISHED WITH THE FINAL NAIL TO LOSING LAMBERT'S COFFIN

  • @tannygodisbeautiful9690
    @tannygodisbeautiful9690 Рік тому +12

    BUT WHY WOULD SHE FOLLOW HIM UP ......THAT SHOULD HAVE BEEN THE END OF HIM............ IF THIS WASN'T HIS FIRST PROPOSAL AND HE NEVWR FOLLOWED THROUGH SHOULD HAVE TOLD HER SOMETHING ABOUT HIM AND HIS CHARACTER

    • @tannygodisbeautiful9690
      @tannygodisbeautiful9690 Рік тому +1

      CAROLINE DODGED A |}ULL€T, GOD I NEED YOU AS I'VE HEARD THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN'T YOU THAT EXISTS.... SO HERE GOES SIN, LIES EXISTS AND YOU CAN DO NEITHER OF THOSE SO WHAT AM I THAT YOU HAVE REFUSED TO EVEN LOOK AT ME... YOUR WORD SAYS YOUR SHEEP HEARS YOUR VOICE AND THAT YOU ARE A FATHER FOR THE FATHERLESS WELL I AM AND INSTEAD........ 😢😢😢😢

  • @_QueenBell
    @_QueenBell Рік тому +5

    Smh what was the point of him lying about paying him to marry her ?

  • @LuVNEWSWORLD
    @LuVNEWSWORLD 6 місяців тому +3

    "Until death do us part" but his ex wife is not dead but yet he remarried 😂😂this is funny

  • @Lala-cg2yl
    @Lala-cg2yl Рік тому +13

    Lambert seems like a narcissist.

  • @matnat3844
    @matnat3844 Рік тому +6

    Am here to testify that I ounce a victim

  • @Stephhc
    @Stephhc 7 днів тому

    Seconds in this story and the red flag was a pastor without a wife

  • @trinityestrada9588
    @trinityestrada9588 4 місяці тому +2

    She dodged a bullet big time….sorry for the wife, he’s a loser!

  • @franklinaagedemeier9030
    @franklinaagedemeier9030 Місяць тому +1

    LAMBERT IS USING IN THE NAME OF GOD TO TAKE ADVANTAGE FROM DESPERATE WOMEN

  • @teresathreatts4266
    @teresathreatts4266 8 місяців тому +3

    God doesn't mind us questioning Him...but we're not supposed to challenge Him. Anyone with the Holy Spirit has the power to hear God's voice only if they remove any distractions. Pastor Lambert is acting as his own God...and Carolyn needed to hear God for herself. He is a hot mess...a liar and manipulative. I don't believe that God tells us who to marry; but I believe that He presents us with people...and the decision is ours to make. He gives us free will...and He will never force His will on us.

  • @AdolicaInvestments
    @AdolicaInvestments 5 місяців тому +1

    NEVER LIE ABOUT GOD'S WILL AND PLANS
    BECUASE YOU WOULD MAKE HIM SAD OR ANGRY

  • @BBC4.0
    @BBC4.0 Рік тому +9

    Lambert is a narcissist

  • @GraceNyamoto-pq9yq
    @GraceNyamoto-pq9yq 2 місяці тому

    So painful to fall in love with these men who pretend to be man of God l Waz in the situation

    • @jasmnejones8628
      @jasmnejones8628 4 години тому

      Me too. Then when I wised up cussed him out and left his ssa alone, he claimed that I had the devil in me. lol what a jerk! This was a good story.

  • @Sandyngwenya
    @Sandyngwenya 7 місяців тому

    I’ve met a men like lambert

  • @OnyekaNwabueze-jt9tt
    @OnyekaNwabueze-jt9tt 5 місяців тому +3

    This lambert dey crase😂
    He has proposed to several ladies in the name of God, before Carolyn and he didn't marry any of them. Something is obviously wrong with him. My guy nor even get transport money😂.
    Btw are they doing Carolyn from her village? 😂😂😂
    May we not meet Principalities and powers in Jesus name. Amen ✌🏽

  • @ritaaghulor8562
    @ritaaghulor8562 6 місяців тому +5

    I really can't believe Carolyn.....she's really desperate

  • @vernitaporter7864
    @vernitaporter7864 5 місяців тому +2

    Why did God not tell her?

  • @FavourEguzozie
    @FavourEguzozie Рік тому +16

    Lambert is an outright manipulator

  • @NayelieCordero
    @NayelieCordero 6 місяців тому +4

    “You need to get a job lambert”. 💀💀

    • @torivastoriesanimated
      @torivastoriesanimated  6 місяців тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @erugoitom3630
      @erugoitom3630 2 місяці тому +1

      He got a Job but still dont wanna pay anything...If Bills is the topic He runs away... Kids suffer

  • @fordownload7120
    @fordownload7120 4 місяці тому +2

    These kind of people who act like a Godly man but a lier exists

  • @theresabeard5733
    @theresabeard5733 Місяць тому +1

    He was a liar con artist and a user

  • @cynthiatramil6579
    @cynthiatramil6579 7 місяців тому +2

    Manipulation

  • @Milyme83
    @Milyme83 5 місяців тому +1

    What a DOG

  • @franklinaagedemeier9030
    @franklinaagedemeier9030 Місяць тому

    THIS IS VERY TERRIBLE …..OOH SORRY CAROLINE

  • @cindyharrison9605
    @cindyharrison9605 9 місяців тому +2

    So please men, let your wife pay and you pay as well.

  • @londekantuli979
    @londekantuli979 28 днів тому

    Spiritual abuse !!

  • @blubberbun
    @blubberbun 8 місяців тому

    My ex friend settled for a man less successful than her. Ibguess she was desperate

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt 7 місяців тому +3

      There is a huge difference between someone being less successful and someone being less interested in working and using you for money.

  • @cindyharrison9605
    @cindyharrison9605 9 місяців тому

    Men please do not kill yourself for any woman.

  • @whoyouveanoynomoue
    @whoyouveanoynomoue 10 місяців тому +2

    you mean settling for a false man ,not a real man of GOD, because when your Husband get old,whose gonna take care of him? He may have income once a month ,which is less than the wife,so you're trying to say even in this they shouldn't settle? This man wasn't of GOD, THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD BE SAYING

  • @whoyouveanoynomoue
    @whoyouveanoynomoue 10 місяців тому +2

    we know in Nigeria these men can't find a job the women work ,what you have to say about that

    • @Thequeenjuices
      @Thequeenjuices 7 місяців тому +3

      😂😂😂 Projecting ???

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt 7 місяців тому +1

      Really? They can't find work? That is funny.

    • @marjorielouis204
      @marjorielouis204 3 місяці тому

      Men can always offer a product or service to the public for money. These are no excuses.

  • @whoyouveanoynomoue
    @whoyouveanoynomoue 10 місяців тому +2

    you people is ridiculous,i know a lot of godly wives married to men that make less than them, they're so happy and blessed by GOD,some husbands can't work anymore,women don't suppose to work

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt 7 місяців тому +7

      Making more money was not the issue here. He was using her. He did not want to do anything. If a woman did this, she would be called a gold digger. Well, isn't he a male gold digger?