How To Deal With Grief | Buddhism In English

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 308

  • @alenandkelvin1020
    @alenandkelvin1020 Рік тому +178

    his voice is like heaven

    • @ashleyschwartz9550
      @ashleyschwartz9550 Рік тому +1

      and he look like he's smiling even when he's not, lol :)

    • @king-alphonsojallah3394
      @king-alphonsojallah3394 Рік тому +1

      Have u been to heaven??

    • @Joel796.
      @Joel796. Рік тому +8

      ​@@ashleyschwartz9550
      That's a sign of pure spiritual person ❤

    • @Joel796.
      @Joel796. Рік тому +1

      The Same thing happened to me when I was in highschool or in everything so far. People like my voice they always complement me for it, my teacher friends and so on

    • @maitrayeesarker6062
      @maitrayeesarker6062 Рік тому +1

      True

  • @nata6025
    @nata6025 Рік тому +33

    Tysm, I needed this video. I lost my dog this January and I still cry about her often. But I'm glad that I showed her how much I loved her when she was still alive.

    • @suemilner9691
      @suemilner9691 Рік тому

      Sorry for your loss of losing your beloved dog.I lost my beloved dog 4 years ago and I still cry like it was yesterday.I sat in my garden tonight and I seen him in the sky.Your lovely dog is on the Rainbrow Bridge.She knows you loved her as my boy knows I loved him.Buddha is our healer .. I love being here listening to him.He brings me comfort in my time of need.I’m so glad he did the same for you.x

  • @NA-en9ib
    @NA-en9ib Рік тому +113

    Lost my mother a couple weeks ago. This has been wonderful. Thank you.

    • @nickxcore74
      @nickxcore74 Рік тому +7

      So sorry for your loss 🙏🏽

    • @yashvi488
      @yashvi488 Рік тому +3

      Your mother will always be their with you be happy

    • @anmolverma075
      @anmolverma075 Рік тому +4

      Sorry to hear this.
      May her soul rest in peace.

    • @ashleyschwartz9550
      @ashleyschwartz9550 Рік тому +6

      I'm so sorry to hear this. I still struggle after losing my father and I miss him so much. I hope you and your loved ones find peace and comfort.

    • @melissamoonchild9216
      @melissamoonchild9216 Рік тому +2

      ​@@yashvi488 very few people are happy after just losing a parent.

  • @tammyloo4284
    @tammyloo4284 Рік тому +8

    Buddha’s teachings helped me survive during and after The untimely loss of my first child whom I am extremely close with and the abandonment by my own family right after my loss. The teachings helped me to pick myself up and soldier on. 💔💔💔

  • @everybodyyogastudio212
    @everybodyyogastudio212 Рік тому +6

    Great advice for preparing for death. But not for helping current grief from death. Its too late to prepare and show love to the one that died already. I didnt know and i didnt get to prepare and it hurts.😭

  • @rajneeshsingh9414
    @rajneeshsingh9414 Рік тому +29

    There is a lesson in your every single word. It just keeps me calm and happy in every situation.❤️❤️

  • @dolorstenas
    @dolorstenas Рік тому +40

    Thank you for this lesson, Sir. My only fear is not my death, it is losing my children and grandchildren before I die.

    • @Shibanimahakud1310
      @Shibanimahakud1310 Рік тому

      Are you suffering from thantophobia ?

    • @kimyoung3484
      @kimyoung3484 Рік тому

      Me too.

    • @raneeranatunga5692
      @raneeranatunga5692 Рік тому

      Me too same

    • @nancyaustin9516
      @nancyaustin9516 Рік тому +4

      Yes, the pain of losing a child is very difficult. But you would have the company of me and many, many others. It changes you, but you are not alone in your pain.

  • @Bagellatte
    @Bagellatte Рік тому +10

    To be honest I have lost a few loved ones whether in relationship or in the passing of my mom. Everything in life is impermanent. One day we have to part with them. I have to get ready to face this reality for the people in my life someday. Thank you

  • @ladykaitan
    @ladykaitan Рік тому +8

    I find that facing death and grieving my own presence here is so much easier when I can do so connecting with everyone else who are facing the same. The fear was eased when I realized it was not a lonely path anymore

  • @jl3646
    @jl3646 Рік тому +4

    I wish I had seen this video three years ago when I lost my dear mother. It would have been very helpful for me then. The emotional pain I went through was overwhelming 💔. If I had the power, wouldn't wish on anyone. But we all have to cross this path of suffering.🙏🙏🙏

  • @roseannaallen2440
    @roseannaallen2440 Рік тому +2

    I lost my youngest sister a few weeks ago, after a very long illness of unknown causes. She was diagnosed 3 months ago of multiple myeloma… something I’ve never heard of. I been there for her during her year and half illness. I did all I can do for her…having lost her was very difficult for me, and still is. I have so many questions. Thank you dear teacher for your words of wisdom. It’s makes loosing my dear sister a little easier to handle.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @kellynelsonmcg
    @kellynelsonmcg Рік тому +9

    Yes. I came about acceptance of loss from a different angle, which was
    “Nothing is Permanent”
    But Buddha’s approach is more about Giving than losing! Thank you. Kelly

  • @bmCommando0
    @bmCommando0 Рік тому +5

    I'm taking head massage from my sis while listening this on my Bluetooth speaker .....and my is preparing milk for us
    Namo buddhay sir please take care
    And stay happy and healthy
    Meet you next Saturday till then bye bye

  • @LucaPaglia
    @LucaPaglia Рік тому +1

    The monk who completely changed my life. Love from me.

  • @aselaco9516
    @aselaco9516 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for your encouraging advice. I lost my loved one just recently and its extremely painful. I just to face the reality, thats right.

  • @ashwinkumar7052
    @ashwinkumar7052 2 місяці тому

    While I listening your words bhante my brother-in-law laying on bed taking his last breath. Wish his endless journey safe and free from all pains . Namo buddhaya ☸️🙏

  • @QTpiemcpinky
    @QTpiemcpinky Рік тому +11

    We are stronger together than we are apart. We don't have to agree with one another, but it is important that we learn to respect each other. Peace & Love(⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)⁠♡

  • @samilarungapamestry6466
    @samilarungapamestry6466 Рік тому +10

    Thank u Sir for all the beautiful lessons u give us always..just love to watch n listen to u 🙏

  • @udanikottege
    @udanikottege Рік тому +3

    we can not runaway from the reality

  • @anjou6497
    @anjou6497 Рік тому +2

    Your reasoning, your lovely, calm attitude makes me wonder how you yourself cope with grief or anger or disappointments in life ? I know you know none of us are ever free from heartache. I love your messages of wisdom, and sending you wishes for all good things into your life. 👍🧡🌱💚🌿

  • @anithavv3451
    @anithavv3451 Рік тому +4

    I love your motivational., Spiritual thoughts Swamiji❤️👍❤️👌❤️👌

  • @bithibarua8752
    @bithibarua8752 Рік тому +3

    Nomo Buddhaya, I always like ur advices..Thank u so much...

  • @conservatoireccps9891
    @conservatoireccps9891 Рік тому +1

    Voice yes, very peacefull but also his wonderful smile, his person is enlightening❤

  • @muskankhan3024
    @muskankhan3024 Рік тому +13

    Currently I'm suffering breakup
    I love him a lot and missing him badly..
    Thanks for this video

    • @nickxcore74
      @nickxcore74 Рік тому +2

      Time is a healer, things will get better.

    • @muskankhan3024
      @muskankhan3024 Рік тому +1

      @@nickxcore74 I wish🥺

    • @yv1338
      @yv1338 Рік тому +4

      Just be grateful for all the good things the relationship offered and Rise as a better person. Cheers.

    • @theveerpalkaur
      @theveerpalkaur Рік тому +1

      Same me. 😔😔😓

    • @muskankhan3024
      @muskankhan3024 Рік тому

      @@yv1338 yes.. I'm trying hard to overcome

  • @judyramdhan536
    @judyramdhan536 Рік тому +2

    I lost both my parents a week apart, then my one and only brother died of Covid in 2020, I can't seem to move in ❤❤

  • @sherinebrito5109
    @sherinebrito5109 4 місяці тому

    Thank you very much for giving us advice on how to deal with when losing a loved one. I lost my husband in Nov. 2022 and then I lost my dog of 16 years in Oct. 2023 and still cry and cry for doggie as I'm devastated. He was my companion and always will be walking behind me like my shadow, I still think he is walking around the house and immediately look around but find no one. He was so adorable, lovable and obedient doggie. I will never, ever get another doggie like my "TOBY"

  • @kushi416
    @kushi416 Рік тому +6

    Your every word very precious. Namo budhaya

  • @nhokshock94
    @nhokshock94 3 місяці тому

    Nam mô A Di Đà Phật. I'm a Vietnamese Buddhist. Thank you very much for your teaching. You are exactly how I would imagine Ānanda, the Buddha's attendant, would look and sound like.

  • @Abby-yr1ys
    @Abby-yr1ys Рік тому +10

    Thank-you so much , for such great reminding on this impermanent world and real truth of life. Namo Buddha ya 💐🙏🏻....

  • @johnpanakaldominic7009
    @johnpanakaldominic7009 Рік тому +2

    You have explicitly said the truth Thanks ❤

  • @karenng848
    @karenng848 Рік тому +5

    Thank you Bhante for this valuable lesson. Namo Budahaya 🙏🙏🙏❤️

  • @eshanperera794
    @eshanperera794 Рік тому +1

    You have been the corner stone that turned my life around and made it stronger

  • @sulakshanawijayagunaratne859
    @sulakshanawijayagunaratne859 Рік тому +1

    In your earlier 4 dhamma components to be mindful about in my own thoughts If I explain I have been naturally hasive before others when others responses are expressed to tell you the truth, in a obsessive manner to pressurize me not in other time. And even when those times are reminded repeatedly I confine myself some place of peace to listen to bana sermons mostly. None other of lies, divisive talk, or unproductive talk even I was in my work place than helping some one when ever i can. And if i may suggest my self as before I will carry myself forward what owe and others are the same my most venerable. And coming in to current talk of dhamma talk the one an only precious person to me in this world is my mother. Missing her in the future means to me like leaving a space in my heart and unmeasurable distress. Thank you for your guidance my most venerable Sadhu ! Sadhu !!! Sadhu !!!.

  • @dr.avae04_97
    @dr.avae04_97 День тому +1

    I lost my best friend its been 1 yr i cant get over the emotion i tried hard she was my only friend whom i talked everything 💔

  • @gamewolf7809
    @gamewolf7809 5 місяців тому

    I lost my uncle that I love more than my life yesterday.i don’t know what to do.as a buddhist I really appreciate you doing the for all the people that’s grieving.

  • @sheiladay-od2me
    @sheiladay-od2me Рік тому +18

    I have been through losing many people and animals I have loved. You let them go. When my sister recovered from alcohol use disorder and became a Buddhist, she called me and I had not seen or heard from here in over 20 years. We talked every day for hours until the day she died. My brother died in December and we talked for many hours as well. It is difficult when someone you love dies and you do not know how to contact them.

    • @lombmusic07
      @lombmusic07 Рік тому

      I do something I know he’d like me to do
      It makes a change from the pain

    • @cooganbeggs4942
      @cooganbeggs4942 Рік тому +1

      thanks for sharing and sorry for your loss

  • @itishbiswas3515
    @itishbiswas3515 Рік тому +1

    His voice like he was in the heaven so soft

  • @universeislove5837
    @universeislove5837 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for everything 💕

  • @guerillojavinal6341
    @guerillojavinal6341 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for this wonderful advice. It hurts but it's so true.

  • @dntstp19
    @dntstp19 Рік тому +1

    Namo budhdhaya!
    Needed so badly swamin wahana...🙏

  • @saliyadissanayaka8961
    @saliyadissanayaka8961 Рік тому +2

    Great sermon namo buddaya

  • @gorgadekoe3878
    @gorgadekoe3878 Рік тому +2

    Its good to learn from diffrend people because everyone think diffrend speak diffrend i mean the tone of voice i realy love the tone of your voice it makes me feel calm 🙏

  • @tipsyaffairs2513
    @tipsyaffairs2513 Рік тому +3

    Lost my brother. I just miss him so much. I can no longer hug him .

  • @kylerdad123
    @kylerdad123 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for helping me understand the truth of this life, Sifu! Namo Amitofu ☸️!

  • @kaizersuze9000
    @kaizersuze9000 Рік тому +1

    Learn to live with grief as time goes on it gets easy but the feeling of loss never goes away Yogi Arend much love and peace namaste ✌️🙏

  • @shereenmoodley8476
    @shereenmoodley8476 Рік тому

    U r truly a beautiful soul teaching us the true path God bless u

  • @workemukulo5543
    @workemukulo5543 Рік тому

    Thank you for everything!!!

  • @coachcherise9222
    @coachcherise9222 Рік тому +1

    This lesson is right on time 🙏🏾

  • @Devi_3T
    @Devi_3T Рік тому +2

    Triple jem bless you lord..❤️❤️🤗

  • @4uveggieclub
    @4uveggieclub Рік тому

    Great advice for all.Namo Buddhaya!

  • @chrystal108reading4
    @chrystal108reading4 Рік тому

    Thank you, you are a truely pure soul. Bless you :)

  • @Mahekkk107
    @Mahekkk107 Рік тому +1

    Your lesson is very useful my life ❤️🙏 you are so intelligent in life lessons 💖

  • @ASmith-bp8tm
    @ASmith-bp8tm Рік тому

    Thank you for this precious teaching!

  • @adharshpk6524
    @adharshpk6524 Рік тому +1

    Guruji...love from India ❤️❤️❤️

  • @malarvizhijayaprakash7928
    @malarvizhijayaprakash7928 Рік тому +4

    We r not afraid of our own death but loosing your children when u are alive that's the most cruelest thing ..how can I get over that grief

    • @loanmai6152
      @loanmai6152 Рік тому

      You re so true. I’m suffering now loosing 😂 my precious son. My heart is tearing apart

  • @kudchatepparak7861
    @kudchatepparak7861 Рік тому

    Hello Master, I think I have met you at the Singapore Airport 3 weeks ago. And I have no idea whom I have been talking to for an hour. I really appreciate your kindness Master.

  • @omanakk3022
    @omanakk3022 Рік тому

    Thank you. The true words made me very comfortable.

  • @Mehnnnnn
    @Mehnnnnn Рік тому +1

    Sir i have larned so many things from You
    Thankyou so much
    May almighty bless You 🙏

  • @chuckynickolodean8420
    @chuckynickolodean8420 Рік тому

    My daughter's school watched your Channel to learn about Buddhism...

  • @HH-80
    @HH-80 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing your valuable words and please never stop 🙏🏻

  • @ekmackenzie
    @ekmackenzie 10 місяців тому

    Helps me sooo much!!

  • @sherinebrito5109
    @sherinebrito5109 4 місяці тому

    I always listen to your quotes on Goldfm and also on UA-cam too! Very informative and God Bless you for your scriptures are wonderful!!

  • @user-kz2mj3hy2v
    @user-kz2mj3hy2v Рік тому +1

    Namo Buddhaya. There is a great lesson in your every single word. It teaches us how to overcome all sufferings getting from this world.

  • @stefaniecallo-yl2tn
    @stefaniecallo-yl2tn Рік тому +1

    Thank so much♥️♥️♥️

  • @aravindadharsh
    @aravindadharsh Рік тому

    Namo Buddhaya... 🙏🙏🙏

  • @911winter
    @911winter Рік тому +1

    Well said ….What u said is all right 🙏🏻

  • @CrueLoaf
    @CrueLoaf 6 місяців тому

    Wonderful thank you.

  • @Rgv125
    @Rgv125 Рік тому

    Thank you 😊
    Namo Buddhaya

  • @SubhashSherpaDanceAcademy
    @SubhashSherpaDanceAcademy Рік тому

    Namo Buddhaya, Namo Buddhaya🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @shellydasdey2615
    @shellydasdey2615 Рік тому

    God bless you.

  • @mariabejaranomonge2183
    @mariabejaranomonge2183 Рік тому

    Thank you. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🌼✨✨✨

  • @dipanwitachakraborty7487
    @dipanwitachakraborty7487 3 місяці тому

    Pranam❤

  • @banumathyshetty7254
    @banumathyshetty7254 Рік тому

    Very nice speech always I like to here useful meaningful words good voice tq

  • @user-dz1vm9fz5f
    @user-dz1vm9fz5f Рік тому

    Nice thoughts Bhante ji.. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @jennydam9188
    @jennydam9188 Рік тому

    Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏❤️

  • @potatoes887
    @potatoes887 Рік тому +1

    His voice is like a God's voice

  • @BartvanderHorst
    @BartvanderHorst Рік тому

    I have realized this my whole life intensely that is why I am alone. It is to much to think about it all the time.

  • @smbt5970
    @smbt5970 Рік тому

    Thanks so much for your advice

  • @mendyviola
    @mendyviola 7 місяців тому

    My mother shaped who I am, but I can never live up to what she achieved in her lifetime. I’ve never met a more strong woman than her. I cherish every second I have with her while she lives.

  • @M.Ojha9435
    @M.Ojha9435 Рік тому

    Thank you
    Namo Buddhaya

  • @iampranu
    @iampranu Рік тому +2

    🌸🕊️thnkuuu🙏🏻

  • @anasuya3302
    @anasuya3302 9 місяців тому

    Truth is beautiful 😍

  • @cantgetps5564
    @cantgetps5564 Рік тому

    It's beautiful

  • @Aloka25785
    @Aloka25785 Рік тому +1

    sadhu sadhu sadhu🙏

  • @sarojamkamblekamble9429
    @sarojamkamblekamble9429 Рік тому

    You r brilliant 💟

  • @mwitti4979
    @mwitti4979 Рік тому

    Excellent encouraging message from lifes true happenings 4:09

  • @aimeejane_writings
    @aimeejane_writings Рік тому

    This has made me realise that after a sudden loss I’ve endured recently, and beforehand too, I have not been afraid of my ow death but afraid of losing everyone around me. This has made me feel slightly better and I can now attempt to work on this through the methods you discussed in this video. Thank you ❤

  • @user-jh1xh2iq6z
    @user-jh1xh2iq6z Рік тому +1

    ThankYou.

  • @manasipradhan4377
    @manasipradhan4377 Рік тому

    Namo Buddhaya🙏💯

  • @ujayet
    @ujayet Рік тому

    I want you to be my best friend.🥴people like you are too good for this world.🙏
    Thank you for being here to teach.

  • @shulamitenwaoze4298
    @shulamitenwaoze4298 Рік тому

    I don't know what to do but in God I put my trust, we don't have eternity . I lost my husband on Christmas day and the pain is so painful, indeed we have to say goodbye and this goodbye is indeed the sadest word I ever have.

  • @latadas2825
    @latadas2825 Рік тому +2

    I have a request if you kindly make a video for the students who are really tensed and stressed because they have board exam after some weeks or months💞

  • @fathimarifka6239
    @fathimarifka6239 Рік тому

    Thanks a lot again

  • @nehakhandare4109
    @nehakhandare4109 Рік тому

    Thank you ❣️

  • @tonydsouza4879
    @tonydsouza4879 Рік тому

    Thanks SIR, Last 2 weeks before I Lost my dearest Father, so i believe what u say

  • @maharadwan9911
    @maharadwan9911 Рік тому

    thank you my teacher 💚🌷

  • @dibyajyotidas6155
    @dibyajyotidas6155 Рік тому

    Namo buddhaya ♡

  • @lynetteowens946
    @lynetteowens946 8 місяців тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @steveleeart
    @steveleeart 2 місяці тому

    I lost my best friend last year and I’ve been struggling with it. 😢 especially as I never told him what our years of friendship meant to me. And since COVID I let my depression isolate myself from my friends.

  • @chantimotukuri3010
    @chantimotukuri3010 Рік тому

    Great words