Living Alone Diaries | INFJ dealing with absolute chaos, birthday surprise from BF, portable screen

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  • @glesgawife
    @glesgawife Рік тому +1467

    Probably one of the most mature things a person can do is to realize that a very expensive gift isn’t needed in a healthy relationship. Returning that bag was such a wise move. You know you care about each other without spending thousands of dollars on a gift.

    • @loretargino449
      @loretargino449 Рік тому +6

      I agree. She's a great person. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @sasasarah8956
    @sasasarah8956 Рік тому +1586

    2023 Michelle is a completely different vibe and era. I'm so so so happy to see her grow and explore more out of her comfort zone. It makes me think that if Michelle could do it, I can do it too.

  • @eb9448
    @eb9448 Рік тому +1582

    Everybody is talking about Michelle but BLURRY SALSA MAN? He’s a walking green flag. So supportive and caring! You can feel his love for Michelle throughout the video, so genuine 🥹 Michelle deserves this so much 🫶🏼

  • @sophiatalua
    @sophiatalua Рік тому +829

    well, first of all, you didn’t need to explain yourself because those who knows u know that you are such a grateful person and that you appreciate every part of his gift. i knew immediately what u meant about returning it! you just have bigger and important reasons why you did what you did! still so happy for you!

    • @586bomin
      @586bomin Рік тому +1

      Happy Birthday Michelle! I'm so happy for you and the way things are going for you, it's just what you deserve. About forgetting when you flew yikes... had me laughing 🤣...Can't wait to see the new collection of LP... Love you ❤

    • @notyourophelia
      @notyourophelia Рік тому

      ❤️

  • @printstuffgraphics57
    @printstuffgraphics57 Рік тому +473

    Michelle is a gentle soul. You can see how she was raised by her parents. What you see in her vlog is what you get. Not an ounce of fakeness. Happy birthday michelle!

  • @danat1511
    @danat1511 Рік тому +147

    holy shit i’m crying so much lol
    1. why are you so humble and salsa man can recognize that you ARE a walking ball of security, love, happiness, all the things! this next year will be amazing for you
    2. HE PLANNED ALL THIS?!! HE DREW THAT?!!! WHATTTTTT
    3. mama choi’s voicemail omg

  • @anhedana
    @anhedana Рік тому +68

    i started crying when u cried reading the letter & opening the gift - you can tell that the gesture in and of itself means so so much to her. for her to return the bag & use that money towards their future goals, I think, is a mature and financially sound decision.
    I can see how some people would see it as rude or inconsiderate, but the way that I see it, she's delaying that short-term gratification of a nice bag for THEIR future together. she has her priorities straight.

  • @Sarah7MUA
    @Sarah7MUA Рік тому +148

    Great move returning the bag. Whilst expensive gifts are such a treat, people don't realise they also create a benchmark to every other gift that comes thereafter, especially for the person doing the gifting. There's no end to it. Creating beautiful memories however, is the most priceless and precious gift that will last forever

  • @fashionglamm
    @fashionglamm Рік тому +15

    So much respect for the honest and frank conversation with your partner and him being so understanding about it. So, so happy for you!!!

  • @sangaychoekye302
    @sangaychoekye302 Рік тому +100

    Hi Michelle.. I’m just 3 minutes in and I’m in tears. Not cuz he gave you a nice bag or sumthing but cuz I’ve seen you go through a lot, from isolating yourself, to therapy to what not, you deserve every bit of it. I could feel the joy. Keep growing Ms. Choi.

  • @cicijess9559
    @cicijess9559 Рік тому +317

    What a brave and honest thing to do, Michelle. It is true that we women like expensive bags, or just bags, haha, but there are more important things we can use that amount of money for. I am glad I've encountered such a brave girl like you, and you've made me realise how important it is to know that a relationship is not based on expensive gifts but on trust, honesty, and, of course, love! Sharing love all the way from Malaysia 🩷🩷🩷

  • @saranyakl5587
    @saranyakl5587 Рік тому +8

    The point where you returned the bag, just earned a lot of respect from me! Kudos to growing up and making decisions that truly reflect your true self!

  • @mirandacheung528
    @mirandacheung528 Рік тому +187

    Michelle you are a wonderful lady that any man could ever dream of. Your boyfriend will treasure you so much for being so honest and considerate. Material things can be obtained anytime. I totally understand and respect your decision of returning the bag. ❤ (edited for typos)

  • @mintchocolatescent
    @mintchocolatescent Рік тому +80

    Sweet Michelle, I learn wisdom from your vlogs and it’s comforting to know there’s another gentle soul out there.

  • @euniceevan6321
    @euniceevan6321 Рік тому +25

    Hats off to you being an “influencer” you really nailed it. Just how you emphasized what’s your priority in the future is just a huge impact to us “followers” i appreciate you more

  • @Aktalisa
    @Aktalisa Рік тому +1

    I cried at the way he threats you 🥹🥹🥹 such a kind man. You deserve all the best michelle cos you are such a good person too ❤ really love to see you happy

  • @jenaflor
    @jenaflor Рік тому

    The fact that you can just feel all the love and happiness in this video 🥺
    I was literally crying when you were crying when receiving the bag!!! You can just see the feel the love between you two ❤
    I've watched you grow throughout the years and honestly I can and will always say your videos have truly been like therapy to me. You have impacted a lot of us in so many ways by just being who you genuinely are.

  • @laniex27
    @laniex27 Рік тому +42

    Love the vulnerability and maturity about the bag. There are times I wish I was like this with my ex

  • @Raya301.
    @Raya301. Рік тому +6

    i totally understand why you wanted to return the bag dont be stressful about it babe. love you big time.

  • @lliselsolis4456
    @lliselsolis4456 Рік тому +1

    I think the picture blurry salsa man drew is the best gift ever as it is priceless!!!!!!! Good for you for returning the bag!!

  • @ln5712
    @ln5712 Рік тому +59

    That was so wholesome, you returning the gift ! You’re such a great person Michelle, you never fail to motivate me !!! Bless you guys

  • @Pechicorner
    @Pechicorner Рік тому

    This is way I love Michelle so much. Just compassionate, honest, kind heart that makes my heart warmer inside🥹❤️ u did all this Michelle!

  • @namuhammedrafi2895
    @namuhammedrafi2895 Рік тому +3

    Blurry salsa man is so sweet, that card looks really good.

  • @thisismin7887
    @thisismin7887 Рік тому +5

    같은 INFJ 반가워요! 항상 생각도 걱정도 많을 텐데 같이 힘내요! 그리고 정말 생각하는 것들이나 행동이 진국인 것 같아요!! I can deeply relate to you because I have the same MBTI as you and I am little surprised at seeing how genuine you are. It is not easy to see this kind of person in this world in this era. I am so glad that I found you and get to know you. You are such a pleasant shelter when I enjoy me time watching youtube in my bed. Hope you have a great day.

  • @Jujutsufan810
    @Jujutsufan810 Рік тому +4

    This is why we all love you so humble ❤❤❤.

  • @denisemoore8536
    @denisemoore8536 Рік тому

    The world needs more woman like you Michelle - you are classy and practical - which your guy will totally honor!

  • @minnam275
    @minnam275 Рік тому +1

    Oh my goodnessssss I feel the "mixed up the flight day" stress!! That happened to me once. My friends were literally calling me form the gate "where are you?" and I was sipping afternoon coffee with my friends in another side of the city. This wasn't just a vacation flight, it was a flight to MOVE TO ANOTHER COUNTRY across the globe! Made it and Been here 16 years now. But MAN I ran!!!

  • @janaenae3967
    @janaenae3967 Рік тому

    It's so refreshing to see vloggers who aren't very materialistic or fond of luxury brands and I loved you more for that 😭❤️

  • @amelia4291
    @amelia4291 Рік тому +1

    I love and admire how he treats you

  • @Kate.Sangalang
    @Kate.Sangalang Рік тому +1

    When Michelle explained the context about returning the bag, I was just nodding. It means I very agree!

  • @razinamarjan1110
    @razinamarjan1110 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Michelle for the vlog, today is my 20th birthday, Im a little sick, but watching salsa man spoil you and treat you well is soo freaking heartwarming and motivates me to be patient with finding my forever man and grow. Your mom is soo sweet, singing for you... Mothers are soo special, my mum woke me up to my favourite dish for lunch and letting me know I was loved 🥰🥰 keep those who love u close 💛💛

  • @kim_hanna19
    @kim_hanna19 Рік тому +4

    Thank you Michelle for making a very comfortable video to watch and of course it's fun to be able to follow your journey in New York

  • @sabrinanguyen1755
    @sabrinanguyen1755 Рік тому +1

    im so happy to see you glow in all areas of life! blurry salsa man is so sweet and thoughtful for you!

  • @worddoll
    @worddoll Рік тому +7

    BRAVO Michelle! Happy Birthday and Happy Launch!

  • @anaisabelmunguia7285
    @anaisabelmunguia7285 Рік тому +41

    You didnt look happy when you got the bag, you looked elated with the drawing but your whole face changed when you saw the bag, so I am glad you stood your ground and listened to your intuition about this ;)

    • @xoheartcore
      @xoheartcore Рік тому +1

      She probably didn’t even like the bag tbh and returned it bc she felt bad she was given a bag she doesn’t even want

    • @esmeralda.777
      @esmeralda.777 Рік тому

      @@xoheartcoreshe literally explained why they returned it

  • @PoSHEmediaglobal
    @PoSHEmediaglobal Рік тому +4

    Am 31 am having a blast
    Don’t fear the growth
    It’s the most beautiful decade ❤

  • @Evelyn-gn6fx
    @Evelyn-gn6fx Рік тому

    I seldom comment on the videos on UA-cam; but your video made me touched. You are such a mature good gf that put both of your future first than yourself. Not many women can do that. You've shown a good example to us.
    I appreciate how you explain it to your bf and to us. It takes courage to do that!❤

  • @Ou10101
    @Ou10101 Рік тому +6

    Thank god. It went private when I woke up now it’s here🎉

  • @emerkelly4916
    @emerkelly4916 Рік тому +8

    How genuine and honest. Says so much about your relationship that you guys can have a conversation on that level. You are both wonderful ❤️ ❤

  • @summer-plumeria
    @summer-plumeria Рік тому

    Michelle, please don’t let these negative comments bring you down. Many of us are in a similar situation and it’s wonderful to have a future plan with your boyfriend! I also live in a very expensive city where homes are in the multimillions. My partner and I have decided that a home together outweighs material items for now, and keep our gifts reasonable and meaningful. Taking steps to a lasting future is the right thing to do! Love you! 🤍

  • @annagrace4158
    @annagrace4158 Рік тому

    I'm glad you returned the bag. Your boyfriend is very generous. There are more important things in life to prove how much you love one another. I really hope you'll end up being together. God bless to you both and happy birthday Michelle.

  • @MissZS
    @MissZS Рік тому

    Mich, you returning that dreamy handbag is just an amazing move. Truly reflects your personality 🤍
    And ofc to the Blurry Salsa Man 🫡🫡🫡

  • @TheresaEnglish
    @TheresaEnglish Рік тому +1

    I’m probably *way* out of your demographic but I really enjoy your content. I wanted to say that I’ve been married for 26 years, and the ability to have conversations and make decisions like the one you made together is so important for a healthy and strong future together. It shows great character in you both. Happy Birthday 🥳

  • @callmefernley
    @callmefernley Рік тому

    Aww 🥹🥹 I cried when you did!! How sweet was blurry salsa man’s gifts to you!!!

  • @genuinetallguy6318
    @genuinetallguy6318 Рік тому +1

    Hi Michelle, Im a June kid too, and im also an INFJ. Youre living life beautifully. Keep going, wishing you the best.

  • @malas8325
    @malas8325 Рік тому +5

    A girl who makes you return a bag to set you up for success is a keeper, so inspiring to see

  • @鄭緁玲
    @鄭緁玲 Рік тому

    you are so sensible to make this decision. whatever you did, I think your bf would understand that. wish you guys can always be in happiness!

  • @yvonne320
    @yvonne320 Рік тому

    crying together when u unboxed ur bday gift. it was such a matured decision for you to return the bag...

  • @valerie7831
    @valerie7831 Рік тому +1

    This guy def knows what he's doing i hope you guys have the right energy and just enjoying yourself together ❤🎉

  • @linweizhang2382
    @linweizhang2382 Рік тому

    Literally girl no need to explain yourself and you know what’s the best for you and your relationship and that’s the most important thing!!

  • @Misha-t7q
    @Misha-t7q Рік тому

    Wow!!! he is so respectful towards her decision. HE DA BEST

  • @lannbcreative
    @lannbcreative Рік тому +1

    I am proud of you standing up for your beliefs. The money could be used for something in your future. Happy belated birthday and I wish you both years of happiness 😊

  • @AngieMHrndz
    @AngieMHrndz Рік тому +2

    Wow, Michelle, you are indeed a classy and caring woman. Not everyone would have the maturity to return the bag. It was a form of love and looking out for your partner. And you are right that will come back for you in the future!

  • @amandagreen6765
    @amandagreen6765 Рік тому

    I promise you are my favorite UA-camr , your content is straight forward yet throughly enjoyable.

  • @kriistymariie1871
    @kriistymariie1871 Рік тому

    Thats why I love your channel soooooo much, you r so humble and so down to earth. And definitely he is a KEEPER 💘💝💖💓

  • @ani9603
    @ani9603 Рік тому

    The bag isn't the only thing that is high quality. Michelle, you are truly an exceptional person.

  • @ice.l
    @ice.l Рік тому +4

    I totally got what you did and I can see that you both agreed to it. I'm having relationship where me and my partner are looking for sth long term. I started to be so thoughtful about what I really wanted just like what you did, the desire for love, care, and considerate are far more important than any objects. Love and cheers for the love you have.

  • @frances-joyful-life
    @frances-joyful-life Рік тому

    Happy birthday, dear Michelle! Among all the surprises your boyfriend wholeheartedly prepared, I think the best one is that you are having a wholesome relationship where both of you can safely talk about each others' feelings. As a Chinese, I know it's hard for East-Asian people to turn down goodness and you made it. If 2 people are aim for a long term relationship, it's very important to share one's thoughts truly. I am so proud of you for your courage and kindness to start a conversation like that with your boyfriend. Happy birthday again!

  • @yaboredboii
    @yaboredboii Рік тому +3

    returning the bag was such a wise and so mature move

  • @Jennie-wm3qj
    @Jennie-wm3qj Рік тому

    Happy Birthday!!!

  • @Rabbit_RK
    @Rabbit_RK Рік тому

    OMG!! This Salsa Man is the right one for you. I can feel that he's really care about you not because the expensive gift but the small things like drawing and goodie bags that he gave to you and your friends on your BD. He's such a nice guy and I'm so happy for you

  • @donnaaaghey
    @donnaaaghey Рік тому +11

    Bro some of us watched already😂😂 but we love you!!!!!!!!! So proud of how far you’ve come (rookie watcher since beginning New York days)
    The best is still to come!!

  • @ligayuki
    @ligayuki Рік тому

    All i can say is that Michelle is a simple human being yet very very classy in her on way. Kudos for her for prioritizing whats more important than getting a luxurious gift. Such an inspiring human. ❤ And to blurry salsa man you are so sweet we all felt how genuine you are ❤

  • @Liloliveshere
    @Liloliveshere Рік тому

    I’m so happy for you omg. Blurry Salsa Man is the sweetest. The little picture he gifted you was so 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹

  • @bhagyashreeping
    @bhagyashreeping Рік тому

    I feel you girl..when you were saying about returning the gift..
    Its more important that he understands the reason why u r returning.

  • @charmmyy19
    @charmmyy19 Рік тому

    When salsa man was hugging after eating i was like 😍😍😍 so much love! Michelle crying made me cry too 😂 happy birthday!

  • @die_hard4000
    @die_hard4000 Рік тому +2

    the michelle vibe in this video is soooo freshhhh like 🤭🤭🤭 Happy birthday michelle🌷🎉

  • @brattiestb
    @brattiestb Рік тому

    Happy Birthday, Michelle, you have the sweetest soul. May you continue to stay blessed!

  • @gillt5177
    @gillt5177 Рік тому

    Happy Birthday 🎂 Michelle. You’re such a sweet soul, honest and kind. So respectful of others. It was a brave and honest decision to return the bag of which you both decided upon and that’s all what matters. Take care

  • @venusbucci4829
    @venusbucci4829 Рік тому

    That’s good you both are at that point you can be honest, and you both know what’s important to you both!

  • @RinLeee
    @RinLeee Рік тому +5

    Cried with you in this vid! 😭 I'm just so happy for you and blurry salsa man. You deserve the world, Michelle! Happy happy birthday 🤍
    Edit: Also I just realized that watching something (not necessarily looking, I'm also fine with just being able to hear it) while doing something productive is sooooo me! Makes me think if it's an INFJ thing 🤔😹

  • @tinaaart
    @tinaaart 6 місяців тому

    Michelle I respect you so much for the decision to return the bag ❤

  • @mivamoon8264
    @mivamoon8264 Рік тому

    YOOOOO WHEN YOU CRIED .. I CRIED TOO 😭😭😭😭 LOVE YOU MESHYYY... We love a practical giiiirrlll

  • @nicolelindayag
    @nicolelindayag Рік тому +888

    returning the bag was such a mature decision

    • @michellechoii
      @michellechoii  Рік тому +100

      trying!!🥲🥲

    • @angiemazzitelli8132
      @angiemazzitelli8132 Рік тому +57

      I have been watching her for a very long time & I enjoy most of her content. Returning the bag was a very immature & selfish decision. I do think u need to grow up & stop with the attention seeking, drama queen behaviour.

    • @triptigoyal5525
      @triptigoyal5525 Рік тому +90

      ⁠@@angiemazzitelli8132 I felt returning bag was not good beacuse if I bought it for my partner and they go return I will feel bad and will not able receive anything from them he must have a lot of thoughts and emotions while buying but guess I don’t know there personal life so yeah

    • @janicesilvia5589
      @janicesilvia5589 Рік тому +33

      @@triptigoyal5525yea i agree, or id say at least now they know they would prioritise other stuff first and so he could her something suitable next time. Nonetheless personally if I bought this present for my partner I would have already considered whether it’s worth it and i know that i could afford it, id feel upset too if i had to return it tho

    • @doit2win
      @doit2win Рік тому +30

      ​@@angiemazzitelli8132I see where you're coming from, but I feel like we're missing more details about the relationship that would warrant such a move. The fact that the act was included in this video already says a lot

  • @tristanace1930
    @tristanace1930 Рік тому +6

    Thank you for your vlogs, Michelle! They work wonders for us especially our mental well-being. Love all the way from the Philippines 🇵🇭

  • @brawlstarzgurly
    @brawlstarzgurly Рік тому

    NOT ME CRYING WITH YOU HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎉 3:09

  • @beatriz_seq
    @beatriz_seq Рік тому

    Bags are just things, although it might have been a really nice gift, but love is always the most important thing to preserve :) And that money can buy you many beautiful experiences together.

  • @ohkrrrr
    @ohkrrrr Рік тому +2

    i've been watching your vlog and enjoying it since abg make up video and i love love seeing how you live your life and just overcoming through realistic struggles. miss ma'am i can relate. you really deserve good things in life! all good and best things. love from the philippines!

  • @frang9637
    @frang9637 Рік тому

    Crying at the gift moment. Just came out of an mental abusive relationship of 6 years and to be treated that way is a dream. U deserve it!

  • @Cheevefamily
    @Cheevefamily Рік тому

    Michelle love your content 💙 Honestly you made a really good decision about the bag, and you are right sometimes expensive gifts are not necessary into a relation ship and the fact that you and your partner were able to talk about that as a couple only shows the good communication and the respect that you and blurry salsa man have. Im sorry for the bad comments, maybe other people dont get that point but remember that every human is now in a different step of the way, so maybe thats sometime those people cann´t see now bc of their own experiences, so remember don´t take anything personal, you just continue been yourself because you are such a good vibe. Sending Love and watching you from Colombia 💜

  • @NaNa-gq7nr
    @NaNa-gq7nr Рік тому

    미셸님 마음이 이뻐서 유유상종으로 좋은 애인분 만나신거 같아요 너무 이쁘당❣❣

  • @daphwill
    @daphwill Рік тому

    The way you were into the ponytail, i meannnn. Like you were living your ponytail girl fantasy.

  • @zuziasmr
    @zuziasmr Рік тому +18

    Been feeling under the weather this week, but seeing your new upload instantly brightened my day. Thank you Michelle! Happy weekend everyone!

  • @feliceleigh7000
    @feliceleigh7000 Рік тому +17

    Indeed, saving is really a good choice for the future esp. if you think about health and responsibility. Thank you for this, Michelle! ❤

  • @nhertanto
    @nhertanto Рік тому +40

    i was so surprised when the original video dissapeared a few hours ago! i feel like as viewers we're just here to support meesh and that means respecting her decisions

  • @soniatotes
    @soniatotes Рік тому +1

    Can't wait for him to put a ring on it sis❤❤❤,,am happy for you 😍😍😍

  • @anger9678
    @anger9678 Рік тому +8

    한국어 자막 안올라오나요..? 기다렸는데 ㅜ

  • @Laritalovemusic
    @Laritalovemusic Рік тому

    Not me crying at the painting he drew as a birthday postcard
    So happy for you!!

  • @fernandarochha
    @fernandarochha Рік тому +4

    The whole bag situation just shows how humble and mature you are. Of course there are more important steps than receiving a nice expensive gift. Glad you see it that way and he was truly understanding. I was not expecting to shed some tears in this video ❤. Happy birthday Michelle! 🎉

  • @Fotya1715
    @Fotya1715 Рік тому

    You’re changing my life Michelle❤❤❤❤

  • @mylemonsquash
    @mylemonsquash Рік тому

    This is why i love michelle. Her honesty n also humble in evrything.if i were her..i will be 100 prcents keep the bag😂😂 . Thanks michelle to be such an inspiration..❤❤

  • @haydennicole178
    @haydennicole178 Рік тому +1

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE BEST GIRL EVER MICHELLE!!!!!! MANY MORE AMAZING BIRTHDAYS TO COME!!!!!

  • @uaena4151
    @uaena4151 Рік тому +10

    Michelle you didnt have to explain abt you returning the gift!while i know there are people who might misjudge without the context but us those who've been here for a long time know atleast virtually watching you what kind of a person you are and that mustve been "a decision" to make because your burst of gratitude on receiving it explained everything❤!anyway i hope you had an amazing birthday!❤Iam here to see you grow into this next chapter of your life!all my love!💖❤

  • @summer__8
    @summer__8 Рік тому +4

    Ur vlogs are a booster michelle! Thanks for this ❤

  • @natalieko6383
    @natalieko6383 Рік тому

    Happy Birthday Michelle! You have all our support!

  • @Tenwoe17
    @Tenwoe17 Рік тому +7

    How I wish I can see her once and let her know that Michelle is doing great and she’s being loved by many! Happy birthday Michelle 🎉

  • @morgan3804
    @morgan3804 Рік тому

    i love mama meesh shes the sweetest ugh

  • @Frmjoandcharlie
    @Frmjoandcharlie Рік тому +3

    I'm so happy for you and Blurry Salsa man - you seem like you're both in such a good place together ❤. Also, I did a similar thing on a flight to Thailand a few years ago - I actually bought a ticket for the wrong day and realized it like 3 hours before the flight left. I had to call the airline, cancel the ticket and buy a new ticket, such a crazy mess!!

  • @sangayyankee1470
    @sangayyankee1470 Рік тому

    Michelle you’re the real one out there girl…so real!!
    Love you even more❤

  • @ellynviado8537
    @ellynviado8537 Рік тому

    Hope you’re having a blast birthday Michelle!! Happy birthday! Sending my love and support all the way from the Philippines! ❤🎉 Thank you so much for being yourself and for sharing it with us! Thank you for making me happy and at ease everytime I watched your vlogsss! I can really feel that I have a virtual friend through you 😅💕 Wishing you all the love and happiness because you deserve it! ❤❤