reminds me of years ago when the big three auto companies came to congress asking for government assistance. Then they were questioned as to why they all flew there in private corporate jets. 😆
I lent a co-worker friend $200. She was a tongue speaking Christian, signed a promissory note, and swore up and down she’d pay me back. After about a year and $20 back, I said “forget it. Keep it.” Don’t do it y’all!! Don’t LEND money. Call it a gift or say “I can’t help you.”
if she signed a promissory note than it a contract and you can just sue for it back and win in a sec. My mom use to say don't give money you would miss if it never come back. If you going to get mad if it doesn't come back than don't give it or treat it like a loan and make them sign a contract.
The reason why they do not provide any contract, promissory note, pay in cash, and do not give any receipt whatsoever is that they charge predatory interest rates, which is against the law. Lol
She didn't lose a friendship she never had one. She would have learned that if she had said she couldn't loan her the money because that "friend" would have dumped her right away. Friends don't do you that way.
She knew exactly what she did. She never planned on paying her back she got the money got the car and said F her. Smh i cant standdd ungrateful entitled ppl like that. Uhh
😂 the defendant thought she was gonna look hot sh*t with her designer purse but ended up looking hella stupid with no evidence and judge calling her out for not paying her friend back but carrying around a designer bag. NO DOUBT, she bought that bag herself and probably paid for it with a credit card. She didn’t pay her friend back because she has debt up to her eyeballs. Guarantee. 😬 what she thought was gonna happen, defo didn’t and it backfired tremendously. 😂
Words of wisdom I live by is "do not loan money if you'll need it returned!". My grandfather said this often and it has rung true. If a person is in need already of a loan more than likely they will NOT have the money to pay it back. So you only loan money if you will not need it back. If you give, then you give fully, with no expectations to get it back. If you need it back do not give it, period!
I may loan $ if I want to get them out of my life permanently. “Sure, I’ll loan you _$ but you MUST pay me in full on _-date.” They accept the loan and vapor! These are usually those who buy designer labels and go out often.
Don't be afraid to loan money to friends but def email/text/put in the memo (even PayPal or Venmo or CashApp has a memo line) the fact that it's A LOAN for X reason. Be kind to each other, but not foolish
yups. I have a friend who needs a new car. Always breaking down. She recently won this $4500(!!) purse at a raffle, did she sell the purse for a new car, nope. Why? Bc the purse is so cute SMH.
At 18 years old my friend wanted to take my expensive camera with her to Africa… I typed up a lengthy promissory note 😁 years later became a paralegal and hopefully become a lawyer 😇
My father, always told me " in order to get to know a friend, either travel with them or be roommate with them" Both of these involves money, and you will get to know them very fast what kind of friends they are.
I'm not saying that you can't Google the price of a Michael Kors purse or have an idea of how much it cost but I find it kind of odd that as a gift as soon as the judge asked her how much that purse cost cheap immediately spits out $450 kind of sounds like she bought that herself either that or she's lying to try to make herself look bougie
Maybe her husband bought it. Either way I've never spent more than $250-275 for a Michael Kors bag. And even if it was a gift, it's probably not a smart idea to sell it.
There was no friendship there. Defendant thought she could mooch off the plaintiff and not pay what she owed. Then bringing in a drowned bag did not help her case at all. Glad JM owed her out on that.
I cannot stand it when a plaintiff is not made to prove just a little bit, by HER TEXTING that the defendant owed the higher amount. The PLAINTIFF has the burden of proof and only has to tip the scales a little by a preponderance of the evidence presented-are flapping lips evidence?
Designer handbag, manicure, gold necklace, makeup, hair colored…. All that cost money. Yet something kept coming up when you needed to repay your friend. I think what came up is all the things you wanted to do with the money.
This is why I never loan money to anyone, not close friends, not even family. If you want to gift someone money that's fine but don't expect a loan to be paid back....especially involving friends and family!
Never loan money to friends, or family. If you want to help them give them the money, and don’t expect them to pay you back. Dave Ramsey is a financial advisor, and gives seminars on this, and more. I’ve found it to be so true!
I learned the hard way to keep friendship and money separated, even if they’re gifts. The person will take advantage if it’s gifts, and if it’s loans, they won’t pay.
You came into court with no evidence of you paying either 800 or 200 so you might as well have saved up before you went to court to pay it in full since she’s just so tight with money for years at a time
If someone asks to borrow money saying they can pay you back in a few weeks, then just tell them to save up for a few weeks and then they won't need you. Simple as that!...
One thing about myself I have never asked or borrowed money from nobody unless someone willingly gave me a money or a gift freely from their heart and if I did get something from someone I would show my appreciation for them by sending them a card, buying them something nice, cooking for them, or even doing chores for them when they can't do it. It's a shame how someone can use someone and then act so arrogant about it and not even try to do a nice deed back for the person who helped them.
Know your friends. A real friend will make a point of paying you back, a crappy friend will not. It's up to you to know who your real friends are. As far as the $200 goes, this woman could have set aside $5 a week and had the loan paid off in 40 weeks, less than a year. At least if she had paid in installments her ' friend ' would have known that she was sincere about paying her back and she eventually would have been paid back. Nope, she's just a user and a lousy friend, the plaintiff is better off without a friend like that.
Why is everyone saying “if you lend money don’t expect it back”? That’s BS! If you borrow money from a bank you expect to pay them back plus interest, so why wouldn’t you extend that same courtesy and RESPECT to the friend loaning it to you?! If you borrow money from someone pay them back. It’s simple.
It drives me crazy when people talk across each other. Litigants are so eager to talk, to tell their story, that they can't wait for the judge to finish her question before they answer. I wish the judge were more strict on this matter.
The defendant had the dumbest excuse I've ever heard. She makes $2500 a month and she's probably over 40. How can someone that age not get a loan for a new car, a small one with monthly payments of $300 or so. She must have had the worst credit history. I would NEVER loan anyone any money except my mother and her hubby. No relatives and no friends. Recipe for disaster!!!!!!
Haha I’m willing to bet the defendant works at either Dillards or Macys and bought her outfit, jewelry and handbag with an employee discount. Lol! Her friend probably gave her a free makeover at the makeup counter so she could show up to The People’s Court!😂😅🤣 She will probably be returning everything once she gets home. Ay Dios!😅
The reason why they do not provide any contract, promissory note, pay in cash, and do not give any receipt whatsoever is that they charge predatory interest rates, which is against the law. Nevertheless, she MUST pay.
Anytime you loan friends or anybody money you have to take something from them so they have skin in the game. Take his or her car that way I guarantee you will get your money back ASAP.
Can I just add why does JM feel like she has to scream or shout at people?? Everyone can hear her if that’s what she wants to be sure of!! It’s very, very annoying & definitely not necessary!
Im not trying to be facetious but MK is not "designer" or are they ? Maybe im out the loop? When I think of designer I think of YSL Gucci Hermes LV Balenciaga.. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
I can't stand people like the defendant...she has no shame! Son's girlfriend owes me £150.. been a year and she's given me £20. My son loves her so I don't mention it. Actually thinking about it and maybe I will bring it up and see what she has to say. I could never do that to a person. But then again I'm always the first to put her hand in her pocket when the bill comes. It all depends on how you were raised....with morals...or without them!
I bet the purse was purchased with money she borrowed from another friend, some people use everyone around them and dont give a sh!t and never plan to pay anyone back................
The defendant is a piece of work, but the plaintiff also had no proof of what she was saying. The judge basically found in favor of the plaintiff because the defendant was a bum and had a nice purse. Interesting approach to jurisprudence.
It cost you 800 bucks to get rid of a fake ass friend, sounds like a win to me.
She won ..
If you owe money, don't come on People's Court with a designer handbag, Judge Milian will call you out! Glad the plaintiff won!
reminds me of years ago when the big three auto companies came to congress asking for government assistance. Then they were questioned as to why they all flew there in private corporate jets. 😆
She should maybe take the money from the designer bag and have a good hairstylist fix that botched colour.
@@MsSparklesNGlitter by the looks of her entire “motif”, I think that’s intentional. 🙃😂
Maybe the bag was a gift like she said. No one knows for sure.
I would never have notice that. It just looks like a non-descript bag like all the rest and not worth the notice.
The quickest way to lose a friend (or someone close to you) is to loan them money, or let them move in with you.
I'd rather make a monetary donation than have them move in with me! I have to psych myself out for house guests of more than 3-4 days.
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Especially if you let them move in with you
"Is that a fake or a real one?" Judge wasnt gone let that purse slide.😂💀
I lent a co-worker friend $200. She was a tongue speaking Christian, signed a promissory note, and swore up and down she’d pay me back. After about a year and $20 back, I said “forget it. Keep it.” Don’t do it y’all!! Don’t LEND money. Call it a gift or say “I can’t help you.”
Oh, so the tongue speaking didn't clue you in?
Terrible that that person was a "Christian"..by mouth but not deed.
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@@clifffischer4409 I don’t have a problem with the Holy Spirit. The problem is with thieves.
@@ISayToMyself I don't have a problem with HS also because I stopped believing in it.
if she signed a promissory note than it a contract and you can just sue for it back and win in a sec. My mom use to say don't give money you would miss if it never come back. If you going to get mad if it doesn't come back than don't give it or treat it like a loan and make them sign a contract.
Promissory notes are so important when lending money. Even to a ‘friend’.
The reason why they do not provide any contract, promissory note, pay in cash, and do not give any receipt whatsoever is that they charge predatory interest rates, which is against the law. Lol
Not "even to a friend" .... but BECAUSE they are a friend 😂😊
JM is a great judge. I love how she really gives it to the A holes. Lol
She didn't lose a friendship she never had one. She would have learned that if she had said she couldn't loan her the money because that "friend" would have dumped her right away. Friends don't do you that way.
"She didn't lose a friendship she never had one" 💯💯
She's a piece of work. Borrow money from your friend and can't pay her back in full after more than two years? C'mon!
I just Love Love Judge Milian!
Love her cases and how she talks to the litigants!
She knew exactly what she did. She never planned on paying her back she got the money got the car and said F her. Smh i cant standdd ungrateful entitled ppl like that. Uhh
I absolutely love how JM belittles people to show how low they can be. She didn't buy the bag, but she sure knew the price of the bag.
😂 the defendant thought she was gonna look hot sh*t with her designer purse but ended up looking hella stupid with no evidence and judge calling her out for not paying her friend back but carrying around a designer bag. NO DOUBT, she bought that bag herself and probably paid for it with a credit card. She didn’t pay her friend back because she has debt up to her eyeballs. Guarantee. 😬 what she thought was gonna happen, defo didn’t and it backfired tremendously. 😂
Words of wisdom I live by is "do not loan money if you'll need it returned!". My grandfather said this often and it has rung true. If a person is in need already of a loan more than likely they will NOT have the money to pay it back. So you only loan money if you will not need it back. If you give, then you give fully, with no expectations to get it back. If you need it back do not give it, period!
Yep, learned my lesson..ditto.
Well said. My Pastor says if you are going to lend money accept that it is a gift and not expect it back otherwise problems may occur.
That's my philosophy too! Saves a lot of feelings.
I may loan $ if I want to get them out of my life permanently. “Sure, I’ll loan you _$ but you MUST pay me in full on _-date.” They accept the loan and vapor! These are usually those who buy designer labels and go out often.
This woman is a literal piece of work i stg. No proof or anything. So glad the plaintiff won💯
Money is always what ends friendships
If they don't pay u back, they weren't real friends to begin with.
Don't be afraid to loan money to friends but def email/text/put in the memo (even PayPal or Venmo or CashApp has a memo line) the fact that it's A LOAN for X reason.
Be kind to each other, but not foolish
Yeah but who wants to deal with going to court?
She never intended on paying her back!
The judge didn't even want to go thru the motions,she knew the defendant was a bald faced liar!.
Defendant should trade that designer bag for makeup lessons and a hair appointment at a good stylist who can fix that botched up colour.
🤣💀
Ew, women shaming women isn’t cute. It’s called being a hater. Grow up.
Glad JM pointed out her purse! 😂 that was the first thing I saw when the defendant walked into court
If she was a real friend, and more problems came up, why didn't she at least try to pay SOMETHING to show she cared.
She brings in maybe $2500 a month and is walking around with a designer handbag. Smh
yups. I have a friend who needs a new car. Always breaking down. She recently won this $4500(!!) purse at a raffle, did she sell the purse for a new car, nope. Why? Bc the purse is so cute SMH.
Priorities right?
At 18 years old my friend wanted to take my expensive camera with her to Africa… I typed up a lengthy promissory note 😁 years later became a paralegal and hopefully become a lawyer 😇
Good luck. I’m sure you will succeed. 🎓
Good job Judge Milian the Queen of Courts😎🌈
Judge wasn’t in the mood for the defendant’s nonsense! Dressed her down accordingly!
I knew when the defendant came in with that purse that judge Marilyn was going to get on her about it. Lol.
My father, always told me " in order to get to know a friend, either travel with them or be roommate with them" Both of these involves money, and you will get to know them very fast what kind of friends they are.
Lmfao JM read the shit outtta her!!
She owed the her 800
I'm not saying that you can't Google the price of a Michael Kors purse or have an idea of how much it cost but I find it kind of odd that as a gift as soon as the judge asked her how much that purse cost cheap immediately spits out $450 kind of sounds like she bought that herself either that or she's lying to try to make herself look bougie
Maybe her husband bought it. Either way I've never spent more than $250-275 for a Michael Kors bag. And even if it was a gift, it's probably not a smart idea to sell it.
Fastest case ruling I’ve seen 🤣🤣🤣
Michael Kors aren’t expensive… it’s a bag for people who can’t afford Coach. Lol
Coach is corny too jimo 🤷♀️🤷♀️
You can get them both at TJ max.
Judge Milian ripped that defendant a new one! 🤣🤣🤣💯
Love it when she screams! LOL
she's a piece of work!
There was no friendship there. Defendant thought she could mooch off the plaintiff and not pay what she owed. Then bringing in a drowned bag did not help her case at all. Glad JM owed her out on that.
I cannot stand it when a plaintiff is not made to prove just a little bit, by HER TEXTING that the defendant owed the higher amount. The PLAINTIFF has the burden of proof and only has to tip the scales a little by a preponderance of the evidence presented-are flapping lips evidence?
Always get it in text or email!!! Never give cash without a receipt....and like the Judge said....sell your DeSiGnEr bag!!!
Designer handbag, manicure, gold necklace, makeup, hair colored…. All that cost money. Yet something kept coming up when you needed to repay your friend. I think what came up is all the things you wanted to do with the money.
The excuse of “being a good Christian woman” does not mean you have any integrity or that you’re a trustworthy good person
This is why I never loan money to anyone, not close friends, not even family. If you want to gift someone money that's fine but don't expect a loan to be paid back....especially involving friends and family!
Wow that was embarrassing. Not a bit of shame real good friend…
Nails done, nice bag, nice outfit....smh
Never loan money to friends, or family. If you want to help them give them the money, and don’t expect them to pay you back. Dave Ramsey is a financial advisor, and gives seminars on this, and more. I’ve found it to be so true!
I am in the same boat right now. I don't have a choice now but to sue my friend.
Yeah Judge Milian!!! Excellent!!
Ughhh she has absolutely no shame!! She should b embarrased!! It never ceases to amaze me how people can be so grimy amd lie straight to peoples face.
It never fails, 💰 & friendship does not mix...if u want to keep your friendship don't lend..just give
If u can't do business with friends u not freinds smh ...
Why'd she bring the Kors bag to court other than to show she has a decent amount of money? Gift or not, she's doing alright. Pay up.
Amazing judgement 👌👍 the defendant seems to be over smart by not providing evidence to the court 👌 the judge was fair enough 👌👍🙏
I learned the hard way to keep friendship and money separated, even if they’re gifts. The person will take advantage if it’s gifts, and if it’s loans, they won’t pay.
You came into court with no evidence of you paying either 800 or 200 so you might as well have saved up before you went to court to pay it in full since she’s just so tight with money for years at a time
If someone asks to borrow money saying they can pay you back in a few weeks, then just tell them to save up for a few weeks and then they won't need you. Simple as that!...
One thing about myself I have never asked or borrowed money from nobody unless someone willingly gave me a money or a gift freely from their heart and if I did get something from someone I would show my appreciation for them by sending them a card, buying them something nice, cooking for them, or even doing chores for them when they can't do it. It's a shame how someone can use someone and then act so arrogant about it and not even try to do a nice deed back for the person who helped them.
The blonde behind the plaintiff is eyeballing her 👀😂
She's wondering how to become her friend so she can get a "loan".
@@Channel-JJ 🤣🤣
Know your friends. A real friend will make a point of paying you back, a crappy friend will not. It's up to you to know who your real friends are. As far as the $200 goes, this woman could have set aside $5 a week and had the loan paid off in 40 weeks, less than a year. At least if she had paid in installments her ' friend ' would have known that she was sincere about paying her back and she eventually would have been paid back. Nope, she's just a user and a lousy friend, the plaintiff is better off without a friend like that.
This is the shortest judgement 😂😂the judge really laid into her 😂😂
That’s a damn shame.
Now that I know they get paid to come on the show it’s like they don’t learn anything and continue being grimy ppl
Everybody pays in cash ....who does that ?
I don’t get why it’s hard to let the judge finish her statement or question before speaking. It’s very disrespectful.
The defendant is a cold, cold piece
$450 for a purse....that is someone that doesn't know how to spend money.
It depends what someone’s income is. It’s all relative.
No thats someone that doesnt handle responsibilities before her own pleasures. She a terrible friend.
That's not a "friend" that's a "user."
Some women spend money on stupid "stuff"....designer handbags...shoes..etc.
Just so they can walk around like snobs.
This woman is trifling to not pay her friend back. And to be so nonchalant about it is ridiculous.
Horrible people taking advantage of a friendship.
Worst kind of friend
Why is everyone saying “if you lend money don’t expect it back”? That’s BS! If you borrow money from a bank you expect to pay them back plus interest, so why wouldn’t you extend that same courtesy and RESPECT to the friend loaning it to you?! If you borrow money from someone pay them back. It’s simple.
Please loose the bangs. The look is so fifth grade!😅😂 Giving me yearbook pic vibes. Lol 😆
04:20 love love love Judge Millian! 😂
I had a laughing fit when she yelled like that lol!
It drives me crazy when people talk across each other. Litigants are so eager to talk, to tell their story, that they can't wait for the judge to finish her question before they answer. I wish the judge were more strict on this matter.
Money is the best way to test friendships/relationships.
The defendant had the dumbest excuse I've ever heard. She makes $2500 a month and she's probably over 40. How can someone that age not get a loan for a new car, a small one with monthly payments of $300 or so. She must have had the worst credit history.
I would NEVER loan anyone any money except my mother and her hubby. No relatives and no friends. Recipe for disaster!!!!!!
The best way for breaking a friend is lending them money
Haha I’m willing to bet the defendant works at either Dillards or Macys and bought her outfit, jewelry and handbag with an employee discount. Lol! Her friend probably gave her a free makeover at the makeup counter so she could show up to The People’s Court!😂😅🤣 She will probably be returning everything once she gets home. Ay Dios!😅
Damnnnn. The Judge told the Defendant off.....Defendant priorities is screwed up!!!!
Did the plaintiff think she was going to the beach?
Don't ever loan more than you can afford to lose.
The reason why they do not provide any contract, promissory note, pay in cash, and do not give any receipt whatsoever is that they charge predatory interest rates, which is against the law. Nevertheless, she MUST pay.
The defendant is hurting my eyes. I can't tell which is worse: her outfit, makeup, or face/body.
Anytime you loan friends or anybody money you have to take something from them so they have skin in the game. Take his or her car that way I guarantee you will get your money back ASAP.
Can I just add why does JM feel like she has to scream or shout at people?? Everyone can hear her if that’s what she wants to be sure of!! It’s very, very annoying & definitely not necessary!
HUSH * JM voice
My mum used to say, never a borrower or lender be.
Im not trying to be facetious but MK is not "designer" or are they ? Maybe im out the loop? When I think of designer I think of YSL Gucci Hermes LV Balenciaga.. 🤷♀️🤷♀️
It is but you can get them at TJ max
MK’s are nice but not designer to me
@@raynecarter7200 AT all 🤣
Plaintiff is soooo cute! Reminds me of Rosie Perez. 😍
Why would the defendant show up lol she embarrassed herself
Not only is she a liar. She's an ungrateful liar 😡
I can't stand people like the defendant...she has no shame! Son's girlfriend owes me £150.. been a year and she's given me £20. My son loves her so I don't mention it. Actually thinking about it and maybe I will bring it up and see what she has to say. I could never do that to a person. But then again I'm always the first to put her hand in her pocket when the bill comes. It all depends on how you were raised....with morals...or without them!
I bet the purse was purchased with money she borrowed from another friend, some people use everyone around them and dont give a sh!t and never plan to pay anyone back................
The defendant is a piece of work, but the plaintiff also had no proof of what she was saying. The judge basically found in favor of the plaintiff because the defendant was a bum and had a nice purse. Interesting approach to jurisprudence.
i hate entitled low life people like this who are spending other peoples hard working money and feel NO need to pay back what a shame
She’s a jerk. Friend you should not have, excuses for everything.
I only lend what I'm willing to lose and don't expect back because of this reason.
I love all my friends but I don’t loan out money. I’ve had too many people not repay me to trust anyone 🤷🏾♀️
You don’t loan nothing you need back immediately. How can you do someone wrong that help you.
Her nose is growing for lying
Defendent is full of it……….