My opinion on rich men having a lot of kids has always been the same. It’s not the fact you can provide for all of them. It’s about when they get older and have the discernment to know that in the grand scheme of things…they had a father but not an active dad at all or as much as he could’ve been. While money may keep a smile on the child’s face because they have the world at their fingertips, they’re gonna look back at all the material things they’ve outgrown and think about the lack of quality time that was invested. Some people hold that resentment into adulthood and at that point they don’t even care to become closer to their dad because of the poor foundation he set. I can respect your opinion on marriage and kids but I will say you shouldn’t let other people’s failures discourage you from even trying. They’re not you and you’re not them, respectfully. There are people in my family as well that can’t seem to get relationships right and there are also successful marriages in my family. I take notes from everyone. Sometimes we can be bias because it’s someone we know and love but over half the time they going through hell because of simple stuff (i.e. lying, cheating, poor communication, lack of consideration, etc.) and that’s their fault.🤷🏽♀️🌚 It’s not marriage, love or family as a whole. It’s that specific individual and the flaws they refuse to work on that causes it to always fail. I look at patterns and the root of their issues and simply do the complete opposite in my own relationship to make it healthier and much more successful for me. It’s not complicated. It’s like any other area of life you truly want to be successful in. You block out the unnecessary noise and get it by any means possible. If marriage/family/love is what you want out of life then do what’s needed to cultivate that and make Hatch’s world better and different than what you’ve witnessed.🥇💯
My opinion on rich men having a lot of kids has always been the same. It’s not the fact you can provide for all of them. It’s about when they get older and have the discernment to know that in the grand scheme of things…they had a father but not an active dad at all or as much as he could’ve been. While money may keep a smile on the child’s face because they have the world at their fingertips, they’re gonna look back at all the material things they’ve outgrown and think about the lack of quality time that was invested. Some people hold that resentment into adulthood and at that point they don’t even care to become closer to their dad because of the poor foundation he set. I can respect your opinion on marriage and kids but I will say you shouldn’t let other people’s failures discourage you from even trying. They’re not you and you’re not them, respectfully. There are people in my family as well that can’t seem to get relationships right and there are also successful marriages in my family. I take notes from everyone. Sometimes we can be bias because it’s someone we know and love but over half the time they going through hell because of simple stuff (i.e. lying, cheating, poor communication, lack of consideration, etc.) and that’s their fault.🤷🏽♀️🌚 It’s not marriage, love or family as a whole. It’s that specific individual and the flaws they refuse to work on that causes it to always fail. I look at patterns and the root of their issues and simply do the complete opposite in my own relationship to make it healthier and much more successful for me. It’s not complicated. It’s like any other area of life you truly want to be successful in. You block out the unnecessary noise and get it by any means possible. If marriage/family/love is what you want out of life then do what’s needed to cultivate that and make Hatch’s world better and different than what you’ve witnessed.🥇💯