Craig’s Future? What Will Happen To Craig After We’re Gone | Adventureland Amusement Park Iowa
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I applaud you guys for your honesty and be willing to share a difficult conversation of to who to care for your child when you're gone...... My mother is the guardian of her sister that has down syndrome, And my mother had already set up in her Will that if something was to happen to her sister (my aaunt) that both myself and my sister will would become co-guardians of our aunt.... My mother did not want my aunt to end up in a group home, But this is because my mother still had the image of group homes of the 70's & '80s which was a horrible place for people with special needs. I have the fortunate experience of managing a group home for over 7 years and things have changed in the health care field with people with special needs and they are living productive lives... Me working in the healthcare field and showing my mother that they are good people that take care of people's loved ones have made her become comfortable with one day the possibility of her sister living in one..
Thank you for this comment! It is valuable to me and hopefully others will see it and be comforted as I have been!
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Best part of this video is when Craig gets off the Scrambler and he's smiling and skipping. Pure joy. 🥰
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Craig has been blessed with such amazing parents ❤ The love, patience, and willingness to support and advocate for your child is truly inspiring
Craig is a lucky guy to have parents like you and a loving sister. I appreciate you answering questions about Craig and autism, something I never knew anything about. Thank you ❤
Joes smart he always knows to get that inside seat on the Scrambler so he doesn’t get crushed by Craig if they crank it up fast
It got real at 3:30. 😢Stephanie seems to really love and understand Craig and that’s wonderful. ❤
Yeah I could see the difficulty of thinking about that but it is good you have a plan and that your family is sticking together. Good rolemodeling for other families facing similar. ❤
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Coming to terms with one's own mortality is awful and gut wrenching to say the least...i can see it in both of your faces when you speak of it....more so for Craig's future and not the certainty of death that we all will endure. As a Father i feel that in my soul, not to mention being 52 and having been through that "mid-life" crisis area...where you think of all of this! I pray for your Family!
Thank you so much ❤️ as we grow older it is more and more on our minds
I love that Stephanie is willing to step up to the plate to do this, what a great sister!
Siblings are sometimes amazing. My children are saying the same thing especially my daughter for her older brother. Although l never put any pressure on them. It's hard to think about.
Exactly. I don’t put pressure on Steph to take care of Craig. I even bring it up now and then to make sure that it’s something she still wants to do.
@@ourdailyview you can see how much Craig trusts her too, everything will fall into place Nancy. A mothers heart is always worrying. I feel that worry too right along side you. ❤
I also think WAY down the line that Livvy will have a special bond with Craig and want to step in as needed when she is grown.
@@theresanewbury2276I agree. Both nieces will be there for their Craig. I sure hope this journey never ends.
You guys are amazing parents! Thank you for sharing your experiences with us! I work in an elementary school autism classroom K-5, & one of my biggest worries is helping these kiddos prepare, not only for middle & high school, but the lives they'll live after schooling is over, especially for the ones who don't have nearly as solid a foundation as the one you're so wonderfully providing for Craig. I never take for granted the parents, such as yourselves, who are as caring & involved in their child's growth in life. The world needs more parents like you.
Joe is an amazing dad. Truly hands on and involved. You can tell he’s an awesome guy that puts his family first.
I’m loving seeing the development and growth of the channel. You guys are an important voice in our world, thank you for making it brighter by sharing your lives!
Whats better.... the videos... or the comments....?
This is why UA-cam should be around. God Bless!
As someone who has worked in the ASD field for the past 20 years, I truly appreciate these videos- keep up the great work!
Thank you for opening up on that very sensitive topic. Stephanie is a very strong and intelligent woman, it comforts me to know Craig’s future will be in good loving hands.
Thank you and have a wonderful day
This has to be my favorite video so far. Everyone seems to be getting more comfortable or at least more adjusted to being on camera. Joe is hilarious, Nancy very clearly has the most fun seeing your family having fun and Craig really seems to be coming out of his shell. You are all seriously helping people. The Lord is certainly working through your family.
Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ I often think of how much God has blessed our lives ❤️
Thank you for answering those questions. I know it’s difficult to talk about certain things but it’s very enlightening and makes me feel good about Craig being cared for.
Joe, I just wanted to say you're a great guy and a great dad. I don't think most of us mention that enough. I love that you guys are using these videos to educate us all.
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Craig is blessed with wonderful, devoted, caring parents. Steph has a sweet face and demeanor. I knew she would take care of Craig when needed.
Thank you 😊
Both of u are good examples of great n loving parents
I enjoyed seeing and hearing joe. He’s so dang funny! Lol gangster sucks at the park. Lol y’all make an excellent couple and beautiful parents. It’s nice to see you actually having fun on your adventures and even enjoying a beer or frozen drink. It’s nice to see how relaxed and go with the flow kind of ways.
I also enjoyed the serious part of the video with your sofa tome. I think it’s so wonderful to have a plan in place, but I figured you did. Thank goodness for his siblings, especially Stephanie wanting a mother in law suite . I love the way y’all speak so straight forward and articulate so well. I also love your honesty.
❤️❤️❤️thank you so much 😊 Joe loves it when people say he’s funny 😂 yesterday was a really fun day.
I am loving these sit down chats and it's really cool that Joe sat in and shared his experiences as well. It's great to see that you all support one another as a team where Craig's care is concerned. Stephanie is a wonderful sister and it shows how beautiful her heart is that she was determined to be his caretaker from such an early age. It's nice listening to how you're all aware of the way that he thinks and don't feel annoyed or upset that he doesn't hold a door open, for example. I imagine that you try to keep him from watching certain movies. Has there ever been a show or movie that Craig wanted to watch but you were reluctant to allow him to see? Thank you so much Nancy, I do enjoy your wealth of information and your wonderful energy. I think yt is definitely what you were destined to do.❤
Thank you 😊
Joe is so funny , the rival gangs of geese haha 🤣 it looks very relaxing there , good food and good family fun. Craig is just too cute ❤
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Stephanie would make the best guardian in the world! Had a tear in my eye while watching that part of this video, god willing that won’t be for many many years. There is a spot in heaven for you both as the most loving parents ever! With that aside, ADVENTURELAND took those tears away and brought back the smile I always have watching this beautiful family enjoy time together. Keep an eye out in your PO Box Craig. ❤
You are great parents to be sure Craig’s going to be taken care of always. He is very blessed to have you both. Craig’s a blessing as well.. thanks for sharing these videos.
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Totally understand the "Not thinking" about when we're not here anymore. I have 2/4 on the spectrum, my oldest two. Actually my Justin (oldest) favors your Craig, in looks, personality, it's uncanny. The first video I saw, Craig was playing with a plushie. The way he spoke and played with the toy is what caught my attention. My Justin loves his plushies too. Thanks for sharing! Keep having a great day! 😁💙
Thank you for sharing! I love hearing about others on the spectrum and the similarities to Craig ! I wish I could meet all these awesome individuals. I actually haven’t met a lot of adults with autism. There were two in our hometown and while they were somewhat like Craig they were also very different. It was amazing how each one had their own special qualities and talents. I really feel like we are so blessed to get to have them in our lives ❤️❤️❤️
Dad looks toasted while eating the cookies LOL 😂
😂 he really wasn’t. He has glaucoma which does make his eyes look red and tired when he’s out in the sun
I have been watching these videos to get a better understanding, things they did not teach me in textbooks. I recently graduated and am starting as a job coach/DSP and I’m grateful for your channel!
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Please let Joe know that it was good to see him (and hear him) more on this vlog. He has a great sense of humor!! 😂😂😂
No problem
I love Joe! He is great!!
Craig skipping... my heart was bursting with happiness❤😊
Wonderful vlog. Craig is doing an excellent job with his storytelling.
See you tomorrow!
Oh all are so good at doing what you all do. Love watching you stuff hugs
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I love you mama, but i love love love hearing Joe's input about things as well. The sit down at the beginning gives a more rounded perspective about your life and i love it. You guys are awesome! I love your whole family thank you for your channel 💞
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Much respect to y’all. Much love ❤️
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i love the new format where you sit down and answer questions! its great that you mention that when Craig gets confused by a question the answer can be unreliable, I noticed that over time in your videos, Craig is such a joy and I believe its because of his wonderful family beginning with his parents! I hope we get more of you guys answering questions in the beginning its gives a whole new perspective of your daily view of austism! thank you for all the hard work you put into these videos!
I love how open and honest you guys are and I’m really enjoying a few minutes of questions before each vlog. You are both amazing parents and Craig is lucky to have you. ❤
When you mentioned Craig driving and the bumper car incident I had to giggle because I remembered his face when he slammed into the wall, poor guy! 😮
Thank you 😊 the bumper car incident validates my statement that Craig should never drive a car 😂
GREAT VIDEO GUYS....MAKES MY HEART FEEL AMAZING TO SEE CRAIG HAVING SOOOOOO MUCH FUN!!!!! HES A AMAZING GUY AND GOD BLESS YOU GUYS FOR ALL YOU DO FOR HIM !!!!🙏🙏🙏💙💙☝️☝️☝️💯💯🇺🇸🇮🇹🇺🇸🇮🇹😁😁😁😁😁
Even as a parent with healthy kids, we try not to think about our children in a home. Life is short, enjoy while you can. Glad Craig had a fun time in Adventure Land 🙂.
I wasn't surprised at all when you said that Craig would be with Stephanie. The way she lights up around him is so sweet and genuine. And while she and Craig are roughly the same age, there are two little ladies that I'm sure will grow up being very close to their uncle. If need be, there might even be another generation in the wings. Certainly one that would be a real part of his life.
Thank you! Those are my hopes exactly!
I can see his tunnel vision in the way he walks. Craig is determined and set on his path. His mind is set on getting from a to b as soon as he can, probably to avoid interference from other pedestrians etc. I'm sure people and things can deter his passage and he's set on getting through that part as quickly as he can.
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I am blessed, Jessica is number 4 of my 5, and her second oldest sister says she will be the one to take care of her when we go. Jessica wants to live alone someday, but I just don't see that happening till she is like 30 or more. I just don't know.
Thank you again for these videos, you are the only person I know that has a child similar to mine.
I love Joe’s drunk food review at 25:00 those $11 beers got him stuttering, I absolutely lost it. 🤣
Joe is definitely my favorite character and happy to see more of him in this episode. I understand why he was throwing back so many beers. It must be difficult walking in Craig’s shadow everyday.
@@HeffenHosens I was roarin when Nancy asked Joe how much his beer was. He was terrified to tell her $11 a pop and he was slamming the tall boys. Huge fan of Joe.
Joe’s underrated for real 🏆🍻
Some time ago, I think it was one of our therapists who said "When you've met one child with Autism, you've met one child." The number of similarities between Craig and our son is stunning. They share a lot of the same mannerisms, speech patterns, likes and dislikes. But there are some distinct differences. We too think about care after we pass. Our son has two wonderful brothers but I want those two to have their own lives as long as we can make it happen.
Thank you for sharing. I hope Joe and I are around for many more years to care for Craig ❤️
Hello, LOVE to watch Craig walk. He is always so focused. Craig has a happy walk! He is Awesome! I have a question for you guys why does Craig have such a Great Memory.? 🙏🏽
I will discuss that in a video. Great question! I have some thoughts on that 😊
Hey Nancy & Joe❤ yup sometimes it hard to clip my eldest sons nails to because he will let you hold his hand for a little while then he will wanna pull away & we have to soothe him & say almost done. It usually works if not we have to let him go for a little bit then try again.
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This may have been asked and answered, but I've wondered about how learning to read was for Craig. He reads so well. Was getting there a difficult journey?
Actually I don’t think I’ve addressed that question. I will put it in one of our videos
I'm glad you have a backup plan in place, You Both are amazing parents to Craig. Stephanie will be a perfect caretaker for Craig. God bless you both 🥰
Greetings from Waterloo, Iowa! Just stumbled upon your channel. 💙💙💙💙
Hello!!! 😊
Love your family and your videos😊
Thank you 😊
It makes me happy that steph will take care of her brother ❤❤
3:38 I just watched a mama heart sink to the floor.
I think Craig could learn to drive, however, as you mentioned he wouldn’t be able to adapt to driving on the road with traffic, weather, etc…You probably could teach Craig a multitude of highly technical skills, but if it didn’t fit exactly as he learned, he likely couldn’t adapt rapidly enough…I have a good friend that has a son about Craig’s age that’s also high functioning. He works, but cannot live by himself safely, drive, etc…However, he lives at home in a loving family and is very happy. A couple of questions… Has Craig tried Chinese food yet? Has he learned to swim? I’m glad to see Craig is living his best life with family:-)
Craig might be an Adrenaline Junkie...I really enjoy watching you guys...having a good time😂😂
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I'm so glad I found your channel, I find them so relaxing. Just a couple of sweet parents who love their son. If only everyone could have parents like you the world would be a better place!
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It's fun to see papa Joe!
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$14 what the ever loving?!
Love your family! This is my feel good channel!❤❤
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Only 4 minutes in and already so impressed by your honesty and candor with us viewers. I think you can both be sure that Stephanie will do what's best for Craig and she had an amazing example of that care and love from you two. I'm going to watch the rest of the video now and I just want to say thank you for doing it and being yourselves.
Love from Canada
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Thank you so much for sharing your family with us.. I feel like you help me to be a better parent grandparent and human..❤️🙏
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I love how you and Joe are protective of Craig, but let him make his own decisions and helping him grow daily. He is a smart, kind, caring, loving and an impressive gentleman.
Thank you for sharing your lives.
Take Care
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Your his parents you LOVE him. But i also think you underestimate him.
I believe he is more capable then you think!
Thank you so much for insight on Craig and how you all are dealing with it and how you will deal with it going forward. I too have an autistic adult son. And when it comes to the topic of who will care for him when my husband and I are no longer here always is a tough subject to talk about. So glad that Craig has great siblings that will care for him when the untimely happens. I honestly started tearing up when Joe mentioned that Craig might go in a home, because I know as parents we could never imagine our child being in a total stranger's care. My husband and I have alot to do going forward. Especially getting a will and testament in place. Love your videos so insightful, you guys are awesome.
Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ I can’t imagine Craig in the care of a stranger or having to share a room with a stranger. There are so many things that would drive Craig crazy. I can’t bear to think of it. It’s certainly a lot to think about.
can y'all talk about:
1. how did you explain to your other kiddos of Craig's situation? what tactics have you found that helped them understand, especially when you all have to do what only Craig wants to do?
2. do you still get stares from the public (vs in the past) and questions? what have you to be the best way to explain why Craig is the way he is?
thank you :)
Great Video Once Again. You have a great family. Craig is very lucky to have a mom and dad like you guys!
I struggle with a minor form of autism and have bpd as well and this channel gives me so much hope to keep going. I've lived alone 9 years now and im 28 so around Craigs age and i've had the hardest time keeping up with it i can't be self sustaining its just not possible so i need help from my parents from time to time. Its embarrassing and i'm not sure what i'll do when my parents pass. But i know it will all work out, it does get lonely! especially because my aspergers makes me super awkward in social situations, so its hard to meet new friends. Its very reasonable you and Joe worry about him. The worlds a scary place even just as a neurotypical person. You guys are blessed and so is Craig. Hes a beacon of light in this world! I also love the staff at Adventure land and that performer that was so sweet of him to do Craigs request!
Thank you for your kind words. I am so happy that you found our channel. It must be very difficult do everything on your own. Don’t be afraid to ask family for help. That’s what family is for. It would make me very sad if one of my children needed help and didn’t ask me. I hope you are able to find a good friend to keep you company ❤️. I meant to comment on how wonderful and kind the staff at Adventureland was. They were all so kind to Craig ❤️
Another great video... Momma I was upset as you were hear your hubby say he thinks Craig could end up in a home. You answered any question I would have. I'm glad you were able to get a discounted price for the park. Everyone should have been able to get that deal seeing as only half of the rides were working.
That is true! It was disappointing how many rides were closed.
Craig is already braver than i am im afraid of heights and have never ever rode the farris wheels im a scaredy cat😂
How has it been having Craig being recognized? Is he excited by his viewers?
I think it is great Steph is willingly to take in Craig. However, I feel Steph's significant other, should get some credit too. If he is willing to take in Craig, that is something to admire.Not many would be willing to do that. Even if he is not directly taking of Craig, he is still making sacrifices.
You are correct!
Have you ever seen Love on the Spectrum? Would Craig ever be interested in participating on that?
59,500 viewers I bet would love to be able to have Craig for at least a day so you're set for 163 years. 😘
For real I could sit for hours listening to him tell me different facts
My Buddy Craig never disappoints on his food reviews it tastes funnely 😂😂
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I havei sure hope he doesn’t end up in a home, family is where it’s at . Being in the industry it’s always best to be with the family. No one can care for or teach someone like Craig more tha. Your own family. The amount of patience and time they give is second to none
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This was good stuff. Thank you for letting us in and explains y’all’s situation more. Craig is incredible and y’all seem to be enjoying every day. God bless
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Beautiful upload. Great to know that Craig is in safe hands when Mom and Dad peacefully retire.
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Rival gangs of geese 😂😂😂
Is Stephanie older? Obviously Bennett is younger, I hope this comment doesn’t come off as offensive but was it hard or scary to want another kid after Craig?
Craig seems to have had a great “Adventure” day! Nancy, Tony’s sister also wants to bring him into her house if we pass. And if it’s necessary beyound that, Our grandaughters will take care of him. It’s always been our biggest fear of who will take care of him and now we are happy!
That is wonderful ❤️❤️❤️we are so lucky to have kind and caring daughters who will look after our sons when we no longer can. It is a great piece of mind. Tina must be very special.
my mother did not know that i was autistic untill i was 19 years old! my finger nails get llong so fast too! im loving this channel so mch because craig reminds me of me and i love it
I’m so happy that you found our channel! It’s always amazing to me that so many people go undiagnosed for many years. Welcome to our world ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm glad to see you had a good time at the park, luckily it was open today. Seeing Craig get of the ride all smiles and even skipping was the best !! ❤
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If you ever find yourselves on a lengthy road trip, I would heartily recommend paying a visit to Kings Island Amusement Park, in Mason, Ohio. (I guess it’s somewhere halfway between Iowa and Florida!) I think you all would love it! I used to work there, many years ago.
Joe and I went to kings island many years ago and we loved it! I’m sure it has changed A lot since then 😊
@@ourdailyview It really has only gotten better over the years-and it’s also one of the cleanest, well-maintained amusement parks in the country. Hope that you all can pay a return visit someday!
I both have Autism and AD HD.
Does Greig have meltdowns and if so how do you guys handle it I have meltdowns and I just don't want to be bothered so I cry yell or scream I journal or I take a walk ,How does he handle loud noise such a fire works or fire cackers I cant stand fire cackers or works I dont like balloons being blown up Loud noises bather me.
joe and stephanie are twins OMG ❤️
God bless Stephanie and her husband 🙏
Loved the bumper car story
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You know what's best for Graig I don't drive a car either I love your vidos
I’ve talked to my youngest daughter about taking care of her oldest son who’s nonverbal autistic & she says yes so I am happy about that. He will have to have a support system because he needs a lot of self help skills now & probably always will.
It’s so wonderful to have children who will make sure that they are happy after we’re gone.
I never ate a cheese curd. Next time l visit America I'm going to try some.
Myself, I like my nails on the longer end of the spectrum. I'm not a fan of short nails for myself. One of these days I'd like to get a manicure. 💅 I've had professional pedicures before (always having feet issues especially with calluses) but other than putting a bit of polish on I've never had a pro before.
I wish I could grow my nails long.
28:54 That guy had no idea he just met a UA-cam celebrity. 😂
You are such amazing parents! Craig was meant to be your son!
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It is rough to hear that Craig should probably not live on his own, but I sure understand it.
Lol watching Craig get whipped around on that scrambler was too funny.
I do not know if you will read this, but I just want to thank you for these videos, my 10 year old daughter has fragile x, which causes a delay in her skills and behavior, and we have to constantly monitor her actions and everyday activities she is not able to do most things other kids her age do, and she shows a lack of emotions in times of hardships as well as everyday life, she has breakdowns and at times she rolls her eyes back and waves her arms, and she has issues with touching such as hugging or holding her hand, as a father it is hard for me sometimes because i fear what the outside world and current living situation will do to her if something was to happen to me. Your videos give me a peace and understanding of what it is to have a child in my life who has special needs.
I am so happy that you found our channel ❤️❤️❤️ the whole purpose of starting this channel was to reach out to and help other parents who are going through or have gone through the things that we have. Your daughter sounds so similar to Craig in her struggles and behaviors. We parents need to stick together ❤️ we have been given blessings and responsibilities that a lot of parents cannot imagine ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@ourdailyview Thank you so much, I will try to send you all something when I can, have a blessed day.
8:35 its not always rude... hes just thinking about other things... I wish my mother was kind and understood me insteed of hurting and abusing me... thank you
I’m so sorry to hear that. I hope she realizes what she is doing to you. I hope someday people will understand better.
Big love from Scotland Craig ❤ X
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It's funny to see joe because it reminds of how Craig would look as he becomes up in age but they look like twins but one is just older than the other that's all and also they sound exactly alike when they are talking 👪 ❤❤❤
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I like hearing the parents talk about things and Stephanie is a great sister.
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Such great parents great video
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@@ourdailyview your welcome
I enjoyed the beginning questions. I am a caregiver and used to care for an autistic adult who Craig reminds me a lot of. Seeing Craig happy and enjoying life on a daily basis is a joy to see.
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Thank you!!!! My family and friends have given me a hard time most of my life because I don't like magic shows. It's just my cup of tea. Now I know more people like me.
I hear you! 😊 joe loves magic shows. It is not my or Craig’s cup of tea either 😊
has craig ever had any form of alcohol before?