RELAXING MY 4C NATURAL HAIR| NATURAL TO RELAXED AFTER 3 YEARS

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  • Опубліковано 8 кві 2023
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  • @DESTINYAMAYA711
    @DESTINYAMAYA711 Рік тому +28

    Even though I’m never relaxing my natural hair I still love watching these videos because the transformations are amazing and I enjoy them!❤

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Рік тому

      Aww thank you so for watching

    • @anna.simon3
      @anna.simon3 11 місяців тому +1

      i swear on my soul. my boyfriend ask me why i like watching the videos if im going to stay natural.

  • @chanelporter8227
    @chanelporter8227 Рік тому +63

    It looks so much more thicker, longer, and healthier in it's natural state.

    • @MindHeartBodySoul
      @MindHeartBodySoul Рік тому +32

      I have this type natural hair. It looks thicker than what it actually is. But when straightened…it’s such a disappointment. Lol! It’s called the ‘puff effect’.😂

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Рік тому +27

      It was healthy and thick but it was just too much and I didn’t have time to take care of it

    • @smileypc44
      @smileypc44 Рік тому +13

      It’s called fine natural hair, it sucks. I have it too. I sometimes have to ask for only one pass with the flat iron when I straighten my hair at the salon to get some volume 😢

    • @chanelporter8227
      @chanelporter8227 Рік тому +7

      @@smileypc44 I have the same hair texture, very very fine. I only flat iron on special occasion because Even with one pass and heat protectant I still get some heat damage. I won't dare relax it because it's so fragile and I'm afraid it will straight up fall out during the relaxing process. lol

    • @jollyrancherchick
      @jollyrancherchick Рік тому +27

      It’s processed hair, of course it’s thinner than natural but it’s still healthy looking and long. Why the need to insult?

  • @evidenthustle
    @evidenthustle Рік тому +14

    So many people are transitioning from natural to relaxed, am not complaining 😍

    • @tias.6675
      @tias.6675 6 місяців тому +2

      People are TIRED lol.

    • @snoodysnoody8118
      @snoodysnoody8118 День тому

      ​@@tias.6675what makes natural hair so hard?

  • @raunaiyambo8340
    @raunaiyambo8340 Рік тому +6

    Beautiful ❤️ keep us posted along with the new journey. xx

  • @pluffshangazi8487
    @pluffshangazi8487 11 місяців тому +8

    I tink its a lot more hard work taking care of relaxed hair

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  11 місяців тому +3

      It probably is but definitely doesn’t take as much time

    • @jbb8261
      @jbb8261 8 місяців тому +3

      100% plus you have to avoid the rain, humidity, probably never swim or want to work out, you’ll constantly be processing new growth and exposing yourself to a literal carcinogen
      That’s why I just flat iron my natural hair when I need a break

  • @neeshakaln
    @neeshakaln Рік тому +4

    Absolutely gorgeous. I’m definitely coming over to be relaxed.❤❤❤

  • @0tismadaline
    @0tismadaline Рік тому +20

    Gorgeous hair, welcome to the relaxed hair journey 😊

  • @lesleyolo
    @lesleyolo Рік тому +2

    Wow,it looks really really amazing and even better in person😍😍😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Doll676
    @Doll676 9 місяців тому +2

    Ur hair already looks good naturally to me

  • @shaneytjay
    @shaneytjay Рік тому +1

    Yes… the whole process 💯 especially the Vaseline 🫡❤️

  • @Ms_Brendi_B
    @Ms_Brendi_B 11 місяців тому +2

    My hair looks like yours in its natural state....I'm in love with my fluffy hair....just wish it was longer...but its getting there❤🎉🎉

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  11 місяців тому +1

      It will grow just keep doing what you are doing and make sure it’s healthy xx

  • @natrlchallenge
    @natrlchallenge 10 місяців тому +1

    It looks so good!❤

  • @vairirirakatuuo139
    @vairirirakatuuo139 Рік тому +2

    Looks very beautiful 😍👌❤

  • @TLCMEDIA1
    @TLCMEDIA1 Рік тому +1

    Here to drop love 🔥🔥🔥

  • @bossladi727
    @bossladi727 11 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful results

  • @MariaNdjodhi-ku9oj
    @MariaNdjodhi-ku9oj Рік тому +1

    Looking beautiful ☺️

  • @mekosmotivationalmessages
    @mekosmotivationalmessages 11 місяців тому +1

    You have such a beautiful smile and a welcoming presence

  • @juniorarik001
    @juniorarik001 Рік тому +1

    Great 👍

  • @Merline_Holland
    @Merline_Holland Рік тому +4

    I got emotional when you were saying you were going to relax your hair… you have beautiful long hair ❤
    The bathroom part was ok lighting is good, not bad echo 😊

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Рік тому

      Awww even I did for a minute but it had to be done and thank you so much xx

  • @thelmaprice7509
    @thelmaprice7509 3 місяці тому +1

    Do you.think you should wait a day just taking it out of braid do you think it would burn

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  3 місяці тому

      I didn’t wait and I didn’t burn but waiting could be a good idea.

  • @uuhokololowoshindonga5072
    @uuhokololowoshindonga5072 Рік тому +1

    Watching from 🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦

  • @funfamily18
    @funfamily18 Рік тому +3

    I am done with natural, definitely will try the same relaxer ❤

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Рік тому

      I was just as tired honestly, didn’t have time to take care of my natural hair and relaxing it has definitely helped. Keep me updated on how you get on x

  • @nikkieanderson2750
    @nikkieanderson2750 10 місяців тому +3

    This is nikki anderson I wear my hair naturally

  • @nicolenickibarnes9958
    @nicolenickibarnes9958 Рік тому +1

    Hi I’m new to the channel

  • @nalya225
    @nalya225 5 місяців тому +1

    Le problème n’est pas tant de vouloir avoir les cheveux lisses, le problème est le produit utilisé pour le faire. Vous protégez vos mains avec des gants 🧤 car le défrisant peut être nocif pour elles, mais vous l’appliquez directement sur le cure chevelu ce qui est pire 😢 j’avoue que j’ai du mal à comprendre le concept. M’enfin chacun fait ce qu’il veut tant que ça vous rend heureux.

  • @Crissy991
    @Crissy991 Рік тому +1

    I just relaxed my hair you first time

  • @belliciahenry6638
    @belliciahenry6638 11 місяців тому +1

    3:22 3:26 3:30 3:32 3:32 3:32

  • @Somethingaboutmary1
    @Somethingaboutmary1 Рік тому +4

    Im bout to relax mine to.... im nervous to mess it up. Been natural since 2012.

    • @masksenpai5889
      @masksenpai5889 Рік тому

      Just be careful and watch how to do it right.

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Рік тому

      I would say do your own research and find a way that works with your hair to keep it healthy. Good luck

  • @Bridgetbreee
    @Bridgetbreee Рік тому +2

    Will be joining you soon❤

  • @ii_amjae8471
    @ii_amjae8471 Рік тому

    Love it ❤. You need to trim your hair tho

  • @jounithakapciak123
    @jounithakapciak123 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful xx ,
    Come do my hair too 😊

  • @lisa-pz2px
    @lisa-pz2px 11 місяців тому +2

    Yall im so tempted

  • @Gladiator_in_a_Suit
    @Gladiator_in_a_Suit 11 місяців тому +3

    As long as people are aware of the consequences of these chemicals. I honestly blame videos about mixing up stuff in the kitchen for hair growth and diy shampoo and conditioner, these obviously take too long to make and that’s a contributing factor to why natural hair routines are taking too long and discouraging women to resort to these hair straightening chemicals.
    I never fell for it, because these DIY hair product routines never made sense to me--there’s so many products in stores already made and ready to be purchased instead. We don’t live in the Stone Age where we need to make everything at home. I have a busy life too that’s why I band my hair and wrap my ends in yarn and put on my hijab. Straight hair that is not our natural texture is definitely not easier to maintain especially when it ends up on the floor overtime due to hormone changes as we age. I tell black women all the time if you are tired of dealing with your natural hair just African thread it and tie in a bun and leave it there so you can focus on other aspects of your life. African threading can be left in the hair up to 4 months that’s plenty of time to solve your life and plan a hair reset. The upside to that is your hair is still growing and you will be able to see your length. 😂 🤙🏽

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  10 місяців тому +2

      Ok

    • @tias.6675
      @tias.6675 6 місяців тому +3

      I've never used a DIY hair product in my 7-8 years of being natural. Being natural is too time consuming, frustrating (tangles, knots) and the hairstyles are just not as cute as they were before. Many of us have had straight hair nearly all of our lives and loved the convenience that came with it. We want to get back to our wraps and pixie cuts too 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @favourikilai7112
      @favourikilai7112 5 місяців тому +1

      Just relaxed mine as well..I was getting frustrated with natural hair

  • @staciep2638
    @staciep2638 11 місяців тому +4

    You made it too bone straight!,it will be proned to breakage

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  11 місяців тому

      I did 😩but so far it’s going well, it has more volume not as flat hopefully it stays that way

    • @staciep2638
      @staciep2638 11 місяців тому +1

      @@selmaslifestyle yes it will,after each relaxer it will be flat for a few days

  • @debrasloan5541
    @debrasloan5541 11 місяців тому +2

    Why don’t you wet set your hair and sit under a dryer , your permed hair will look and feel better

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  11 місяців тому +1

      I will have to try this, Thank you for suggesting

    • @debrasloan5541
      @debrasloan5541 11 місяців тому +1

      @@selmaslifestyle 😊

  • @mayafisher12
    @mayafisher12 Рік тому +3

    They have lawsuits out now about us relaxing our hair now 👀 but people still relax their hair ??? I’m confused as a black woman. But great video though. I like the quality of it🎉🤞🏿💕

    • @CP-gq7en
      @CP-gq7en Рік тому +2

      Lawsuits about what

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Рік тому +3

      Lawsuit?

    • @TheStacksFamily
      @TheStacksFamily Рік тому +6

      So what it’s a lawsuit for almost everything. No one cares.

    • @crapbag426
      @crapbag426 Рік тому +4

      @@TheStacksFamilyignorance is bliss 😂

    • @jollyrancherchick
      @jollyrancherchick Рік тому +2

      People aren’t informed on what suit actually entails (as in what sicknesses or side effects are being experienced) so you can’t be confused about women trying to make life easier for themselves when you can’t even tell them what problems it causes.

  • @Neilabakin
    @Neilabakin 11 місяців тому +1

    I’m about to do mine

  • @Jojodancer20100
    @Jojodancer20100 Рік тому +7

    Flat

  • @nikkieanderson2750
    @nikkieanderson2750 10 місяців тому +2

    This is nikki anderson I been married for nineteen years I do my own hair your hair is to short

    • @jbb8261
      @jbb8261 8 місяців тому +4

      What a weird comment to make

  • @dezzydivine25
    @dezzydivine25 9 місяців тому +1

    I was natural for 4 years transitioned for 1 year
    I thought I would take better care of it this time around relaxing it but I ended up with breakage and now I’m going back natural 🙄 I hate I permed it but ❤️🫶🏽
    Good luck on your journey it’s nice either way