Cultures Share SHOCKING First Date Differences (Germany, Colombia, Korea, Chile)
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- Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
- We paired up contrasting cultures: German and Venezuelan, Chilean and South Korean to walk each other through a typical first date in their country, from kissing to getting frisky to paying and all the rest.
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0:14 Intro
0:26 How do you greet each other?
0:39 Walk us through the typical date
1:40 Body language
3:27 When is a good time to kiss?
4:34 Who pays on the first date?
5:25 Sex on the first date?
6:48 Would you date someone from this culture?
CREW:
Marina Iakovleva (directing)
Bradley Goulding (video)
Emmanuel Teji (sound)
Oleh Voitovych (editing): / olkowg
CAST:
Leon (Germany): / leonnoelmerse
Karla (Venezuela): / karla_mdina
Gabriela (Chile): / gmcortez
Jinho (Korea): / gmcortez
FILMED IN:
Toronto, Canada - Розваги
Hey everyone! I felt it was time for some light hearted content! Kind of the stuff I used to make more in the day. Do you want to see more of this featuring different countries? 🙋♀️ Let me know below!
Yes
Yes! More of this, I love it 😻
Please do France!
I really enjoyed this video
Yeeesss plzzzz
"How can a girl get the kiss out of you ?" Omg he was sweating at the time , seems that he's never met someone like her to ask that or even someone with her attitude
I guess it's because she is Chilean, traditional Latinas from Peru, Paraguay, Mexico, Ecuador, Bolivia, Panama, Guatemala, etc. will not react like that ... at least NOT during the First Date.
my bro is sweating fr 💀
Sweating buckets I tell ya
She was eating him up! Lol gazing into his fragile eyes😅 very reserved vs very direct
I loved the contrast between the lady from Chile 🇨🇱 and the guy from Korea 🇰🇷 😂
They were both great!
I love it 😂 poor 😅the guy he is already sweating 😅 and he didn’t date yet
I was thoroughly entertained by their dynamics.
I'm from Colombia and have many students from Germany, Switzerland and England since I'm a teacher of Spanish as a foreign language. I can truly say that I've seen how good relationships between Europeans and latinas work unbelievable well. All my students end up marrying women from here 😂
American who lived in Bogota the last 2 years. I agree. Just need to find that wife! jajaja
Well there is the money and bettering the race also involved.
They just want to marry a white person and move up in life.
As a German I was so uncomfortable just seeing how close they stood together 😂
Als ob haha
Thats soooo normal in Brazil lol
@@jusilva6927 Yeah, in Latin America we have a narrowest personal physical space. Which doesn't mean of course that there is going to happen something, it's just that the other person kind of "accepts" you, but not totally, just some acceptance. More acceptance will come if he/she likes you because you are attractive, smiley, respectful and pleasant.
As a German, the distance they stood together is totally normal in German for people know each other, have a date or meet at a party. Half an arm length is totally fine.
The vibe between the German and the Venezuelan pair was just awesome hahahah
The Korean dude sweating his face off is HILARIOUS. I'm Korean, so I empathize with him in dealing with very forward, very "skinship" as they say in Korea of Latin women. I am both very attracted and intimidated by Latin culture toward dating.
You should definitely go for it! She said it. Latin women love Korean guys!
@@macarenaeguillor2077 LOL! I'm happily married to an Irish-Scottish lass, but I find Latin culture and people absolutely fascinating.
This was so fun filming ! 😂
Karla was such a entertaining and sweet "match".
Thanks again for having me. ❤
You were awesome too! Very sweet and reasonable :)
Cheers from Brazil o/
@@nico_chopper_br Thank youuu :))
I enjoyed watching this 😅. Greetings from Nigeria by the way.
Thanks for taking part! You were 👏
Your German soul needs a Spicy Latin woman ieeeeeeeee
What the Venezuelan woman said about the "bettering the race" thing is true. Not saying everyone in Latin America is like that, but you find a lot of people with that "Casta system" racist mindset. Some examples right off the top of my head are some Boricuas, Dominicans, and Cubans not willing to admit that they are black or come from African ancestry. Another example is Mexican Telenovelas mostly casting white/lighter colored Mexicans instead of "Indio" looking Mexicans for their shows.
While I will say the average Latino will end up marrying someone of whatever color or background as long as they like them (or else, I wouldn't constantly see Latino couples of such different looks)...you are right. The mentality still lingers in the back of people's minds. It makes no sense to be racist against anyone for us, since we almost all have some level of Indigenous or African ancestry, or both. I'd also say that hating the Spanish makes no sense either since that is also a part of us.
Our grandparents for sure still hold those beliefs, today's generation thankfully less.
Yep, the Casta system never gets old.....
Participating in this video was awesome! Thank you for having me, the German guy, Leo, my date, was incredible and I had so much fun! I would do it all over again! Y viva Venezuelaaaaa ❤️🇻🇪
Representaste muy bien a vzla 🌹🙌
The korean guys was so nervous it is cute.
Okay I’ll say it… that Korean guy was so getting hit on by the Chilean woman… she was giving tons of signals 😂
Totally! Question is...was he into it or not? I can't tell!
this guy was sweating more than Jordan Peele XD
Koreans, like all East Asians, are mostly very conservative when it comes to interacting with the opposite gender. It's the Confucian influence. They will often show the opposite of what they feel. If they're interested, they feign disinterest.
Was he into her? His body language says he's completely intimidated by her forwardness, but he may also be somewhat fascinated. I thought she was pretty. I've seen her in other videos and her mind is as intriguing as her appearance.
@@9y2bgy I guess he is just a plain, respectful, educated Korean gentleman .... and probably has hardly had social relationships with Latin Americans, that's why he seemed so puzzled and intimidated by the CHilean lady attitude. For instance, I think the Venezuelan lady attitude was warmer and more forward in what SHE SAID, not the WAY she EXPRESSED it, according to her body language (her clothes to start). I think the Chilean lady is very outgoing, playful and a joker, that's why it seems she gave a lot of signals.
@@amiquigonzales7917 Yeah, could be. I've seen the Chilean lady bf, and she seems quite interesting to me. She's pretty articulate when expressing her views, and aside from her physical attributes, I just find her mind interesting too, so....
I think there was some vibe of chemistry between the Venezuelan and German duo 😍... and, is it just me or did it seem that the Chilean woman liked the Korean gentleman?😉😉
The Chilean girl definitely likes the Korean guy. She was sending signals and he missed all of them. Even her eye contact around 6:55-6:58 is so obvious
Kpop is strong in South America :D
5:30 poor guy...haha
The Chilean girl was ready to kiss right off the bat😂😂
Chileans are very open-minded people, especially if they come from Santiago de Chile.
@@amiquigonzales7917 I fully admire their passionate nature❤️
@@jiroh8123 WE Latin Americans are passionate, but concerning passion I would say Argentinians, so vehement people, and Caribbean nations, tropical and strong, rank the highest in passion.
I actually like when someone says they like me ,but gives me space to get to know them. I think the Korean guy is better than all the in ur face man. At this age i appreciate when someone keeps their distance and stops telling me who their are but lets me see for my self.
I i would say I like what your take on this..
The German man, and the Latin woman remind me of my parents ♥️. Also, at the end of the video she said bringing home a good looking person the mom would be proud? My father is a good looking half german man, but I was born looking more like my mom: dark hair, dark eyes and I’m petite like her. I feel beautiful no matter how I look. Love yourself and feel confident 💕.
I don't know how representative the guy is, but I never realized Korean men were so shy around women. He was soaking wet from the embarrassment and stress.
He was also being filmed and was with a non Asian woman.
Bro, the Korean guy was sweating buckets
Please turn on the AC in the studio. That poor guy was sweating too much!
I confirm EVERYTHING the Venezuelan said even though I tend to prefer different dates, but her plan is the traditional one… and I’m kind of hoping both couples went out on a date after because they both had such a cute vibe 🫶🫶
as a Venezuelan I don't like that way of dating 😅
Viva Venezuela vale! ❤
Ooof
I am sorry to disappoint, but we did not go out on a date after that 😂😂😂
@@karlamedina7810 Never mind, you are right now in Toronto so much well off than in Caracas.
7:36...the lady went for it and the guy lost it . His face and sweating 😅. He is avoiding eye contact..his brain is "abord mission abord mission this is getting intense"
*Korean man standing there shyly in pool of sweat* 😂
This chilean girl is gorgeous
Haha I enjoyed this concept so much, loved all their interactions - hilariously cute 😂
I'm Latin (mexican) I have two left feet, I'm pretty dry, I'm reserved, I don't actually enjoy drinking going out dancing, I hate reggaeton music and salsa music, everytime I hear that stuff from anyone after they say they like latin things like those i just lose interest or get angry at them. I just pretend I do like these things sometimes.. Talking with people makes me feel uncomfortable and takes an extraordinary effort. I'm introverted, awkward, shy etc, I hate it. I dont say any of those words like my sweety, honey, my love..etc... (cariño, mi amor, mi alma, etc.)
I've been told I'm cold and distant (by Latin people) and I am.
My face and my physical appearance looks like the average everyday mestizo Latin American but as far as personality goes I'm NOT like that. I guess still you could say I'm warm compared to Northern Europeans and East Asians since even then they told me I'm friendly.
We are all definitely different!!
Personally I think every culture is benefited by its outliers. Thought it is harder for those people (being one). But hey the world would be dull if we were all same.
I bet you can also find people on the opposite spectrum who are waaaaay too outgoing, too friendly, too touchy, too crazy than the average - or stereotypical - Latinos. So it's all good, bro. You are Latin through and through, and I can appreciate your honesty. Greetings from Canada.
Soy mexicana y mi forma de ser es exactamente igual a la suya.
Saludos.
Im an introverted Venezuelan, and well aside from the crisis. The culture was one of the reasons I left, Im also very introverted and I do not fit in that society. If Venezuela got fixed all the sudden, I will still not go back. I cant stand the culture
I'm not your dog so you can't take me out for a walk. I CAN'T BREATH
It's concerning how the woman from Venezuela speaks. "Improving the race" by referring to date someone who is white and/or has blue eyes? Honestly wtf. There are not such things as races and sorry but looking like a white person it's not an improvement. Latinos are gorgeous people, just like everyone else. At least she admits she is toxic.
Latinos come in all colors and races, including white. It’s a culture, not a race.
Brazil has had a national policy of "Blanqueamiento" ie whitening the population. However, the mindset is there throughout South and Central America.
Respect to our German Brother! Good representation.
♥️
The Korea guys was sweating buckets, the beads of sweat down his face lol 😂😂😂😂😂
I looove Karla she so honest and funny 🤣
Thank youuuuuu ❤️
Jinho is an adorable human and must be protected.
I'm from Brazil, but I love the guest countries! ❤️🇧🇷
From this video it's easy to spot that Korean dating is hard
Haha it would awesome to participate in these videos. xD
I might be coming to Finland! 🙏 will message you soon
@@DatingBeyondBorders awesome!
Loved this, felt like everyone was really honest & that gave a true snapshot of themselves
man, its hard to tell is she was joking but looked like gabriela was into her dude
That Korean guy represented we all Asian 😅
Well, I'm definitely more into nordic women after seeing this. 😅🇩🇪🇩🇰🇳🇴🇸🇪
Yeah, they put it very easy for men. You basically dont have to do anything. Of course you like them better.
@@ameliepoulain4654 that's your opinion. Maybe it's right. Maybe not.🤷
@@MM-qx6br lmao every nordic women I know are easy 😂 why wouldn’t man like them?
well, looks like someone's triggered.
Oh no. Anyway...
@@ameliepoulain4654cry about it
"I'm not a dog so you cant take me for a walk"😂😂😂😂😂
The Korean guy is sweating =))))))))))))
Chilean here. I can definitively say that when ever I'm in Chile and dating, I always think how incredibly fun it is to date a Chilena.
As a Venezuelan I can confirm everything she said. and tbh, adding German into the family is always a nice choice 😅😂
Haha
Oof
ooof
Why latinas are so obsessed with Germans 😂 That would be a family of struggle, they wouldn’t understand each other one bit
I love german men soo handsome i am not gay 😍😍🥰🥰😘😘😘
As an Indian Guy, I like German Man's Perspective.
The poor Korean guy is perspirating like a cold bottle on a hot summer day. HAWT DAYUM!
Another excellent video. Seems like the Latin culture is very open, friendly, personal. While the German culture is more conservative to a point. But I love to talk and compliment. Being a southern gentleman I'd stick out like a sore thumb lol. Thanks Marina for all your hard work and dedication.
Culture clashes are hilarious. What for some is respect for others is a lack of attitude. Different sides of the same coin.
Fascinating🙂
Gabriela and Jinho have the same Instagram profile in the video description. Does that mean they're a couple now? 🤣
What
Oh nvm
Excellent video, very beautiful , looking forward for more videos !!
Let's just put the german and korean together and call it a successful day 😅✌️
korean bro got cultural shock 😅
I went on a first date with a German guy, I am usually a nervous person so when I cheered I didn't look him in the eyes yet now I'm learning about the 7 year bad s#x rule hahahaa I'M SO SORRYYYYY
the eye contact is before drinking your first glass of xyz
@@DerHarlekin98 i was so nervous i think i didn’t even do that, i still cringe to myself to this day 😩💀
@@gabipostswe don't make fun of people who were shy in germany, at least you weren't rude
Better 7 years of bad sex, than no sex.
The Venezuelan woman's statement on "bettering the race" is common throughout South America. To my knowledge only Brazil had an overt national policy called "Blanqueamiento" ie "whitening the race".
Happy Thursday, Marina! Hope all is well and I liked the cast of this video as I think they did an awesome job. Keep up the good work and sending love from Miami, Florida, USA ❤
I find it so funny that us Brazilians feel so different from the other Latin Americans though we are basically the same haha. I've heard from Brazilians living in Europe that they can identify an Latino from far away
Im brazilian too but I found pretty accurate what the latinas said. It suits for Brazil as well
Pq vcs tao falando em inglês? kkkkk
@@jusilva6927 Ah, é um vídeo gringo, então é legal eles ficarem por dentro das discussões tbm. Além disso, só assim pra sua mãe entender, aquela meretriz poliglota 🧐
I'd love to know if any of these guys end up dating in real life. In some of the couples there's a clear mutual attraction / interest :-)
when are you going to do a series of How to split up in different countries? lol
no, seriously it would be helpful.
The venezuelan one is very accurate but if you talk about previous generations (Gen X or before) But from milennial venezuelans things go a lot different
Es lo mismo, igual tienes que pagar jaja
You know, I should think about dating more often. : )
I wonder how a northern European and a Latino would fare together
IT fits perfectly together. I know many Germans with latins
@@cogitoergosum9129 ok, dont say “perfectly”, thats exagerating 😂
I’m married to a German and Ive dated many Germans and Scandinavians before. If i wasnt so into blonde hair, I would date a Latino for sure. I think i should get that obsession of mine checked…
Anyway, the culture difference is unbearable sometimes, and after the initial conquer phase, the romance is dead with most Germans ive met (and I havent met a few). That desire to make us pay for everything 50/50 as if we had the same salaries is nonsense.
Im divorcing my German soon, and after him I dont think i’ll date another. I heard Poles are old time gentlemen, I’ll see if I can find a nice one to have a relationship with where Im not just a flatmate😸
@@cogitoergosum9129 I meant specifically a Northern European woman and a Latino.
@@Sisterlisk i think both fits
Latinas are gorgeous, we go all out to look amazing, we can make for amazing date and he is paying for dinner and drinks. Lol!!😁 and NO! Not all Latina’s will have sex on first or even second dates - I’m speaking for Brazilians here🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷
Now I get why the population of Korea is decreasing.
Why ?
@@ktaedear pay attention to the video.
@@onemore5952 I haven't watched it yet, sorry.
@@ktaedear Did you watch it?
Nah
Please bring them back lol!
As far as who pays on the first date, as a default I'd pay - especially if I asked a woman out on a first date - but it would be more courteous (in the more liberated times of 2022) for the subsequent dinner tabs to be shared.
I live in Korea and this poor guy must be so uncomfortable hahahaha 😂😂😂 Though I will say I’ve had several Korean guys want sex on the first date - which is not my style so it’s really annoying 🙄
I lived in China which has a similar culture and in a city with many korean expats.
Korean men want sex on the first date as any other men because all men want sex but in Korea they have to prove themselves.
The thing is that korean men see foreign women as free prostitutes because of many being open minded about casual but not all foreigners have the same culture and even if they come from a country where casual dating is normal and accepted it doesn't mean that women don't have conservative and moral values.
I've been treated very poorly by chinese and korean men simply because I am foreigner, i have a white face. They don't care about my country, my culture, my religion, my values, nothing. They just feel entitled to be sexually aggressive and demanding because they watched sex&city and that's their reference for all Caucasian looking women.
@@redleeks6253 what country r u from?
@@redleeks6253do u not like sec
I loved the video, but I think it could be a bit longer...lots of cuts
Fix the title. Karla from Venezuela. Yes we used to exist as the gran Colombia. Donkey years ago.
Can I request FILIPINO VS ARGENTINIAN when it comes like this?
7:03 Meanwhile, is the guy from Korea sweating?
0:08 is for you, I guess.
@@fabb4i2 Well she is cute. Poor boy. 🙂
@@cqtaylor i am south European. We are wild mostly but me I am just like Korean guy.
He is weak and looks virgin wtf
I need a strong man. What she sees in him?
I find it hilarious how (some) women want to look strong and independent and equal to men, and yet still insist that men MUST pay on a date.
Maybe that’s just a tip for her putting an hour effort to look good for the man. We all know women dont just shower and are ready. At least a courtesy to invite her.
I’m a woman and I’ge invited friends with high paying jobs. Why wouldnt a man invite his date?
@@ameliepoulain4654 what tip do the men get then for providing and protecting the women since the inception of times ?
@@Rudi_Mentary723 Tip? While men “provided” for women, they also rapped, killed, manipulated, abused us. And they still do -they just have stopped providing and protecting altogether. Don’t come around now playing like you’re all a bunch of hard-working angels.
@@Rudi_Mentary723 That's how it is, because of love, family, children, your household chores accomplished ... and sex.
Latin American nations are more traditional than Germany. Countries that have more traditional gender roles tend to have the expectation that the men should pay for dates. Think if Eastern Europe for example. Germany doesn’t have strong gender roles and has frequently had female leaders in both business and government. So they’re not going to expect the men to pay. Most countries, like the US, are somewhere in the middle.
Most western civilization and Latin Americans have intimacy in the first date and that triples women body count and prevents her and man from containing a sustainable relationship, although that’s why you see the absence of the father and single mom’s in those cultures.
These Latin women rocked the German and Korean men’s world,
You could see how shell shocked they were by these spicy women!! 😂😂😂lol
These spicy women? Approximately their body count is over 30+ 😂 only poor western dudes will accept them.
the whole "make the race better" thing is actually really sad and quite revolting. not something to be proud of in the slightest.
Omg! This Korean guy is super cute hahaha ❤
Pay to smash and pass makes sense
korean guy is booking a flight
Korean guy is amazing 😂
But he is sweating 😂🤣
not the korean guy dying
What a nightmare..What a no psuperficial and unpleasant attitude from these people with
The girl is from Venezuela not from colombia
Latin and Asian, the total oposites
I cannot help but remember Anna Sorokin's claim that "Germany is worse than prison". I think she meant it in this way ( social scene, discrimination against foreigners (Eastern)). I do not exactly concur that it is worse than prison, but dating in Germany is likely a very dry experience. And we all know about discrimination of "Auslaender."..
Very dry experience 😃
Lol thats so Fake. It is really easy when you try it
@RinaLina really
lol what discrimination .. If anything a lot of German guys prefer foreigners .. All of my friends are married to immigrant women
I don't get the comment. Let's assume there is theoretically a German guy who discriminates against foreigners, he would date you in the first place. Most would surely be interested in a flirt with a latina.
The Korean man a soo cute!) Your conservatism is a treasure in this prodigal world
Where were the Americans in this.
Sede
lol can't the chilean girl make it a little less obvious?
I'm waiting for gay edition 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Where's the Columbian?
That chilean girl was really in to it. The Korean guy was sweating like hell !
I am not a dog so you can not take me on a walk... WTF!
Need a Korean bf ☺️💃
"because obviously, they need to drive me back"
Is the Venezuelan woman a child???
Grow up, seriously.
It's actually a matter of safety. Latin countries are sometimes too dangerous for women and the fact that the guy drives them home shows they care and that they are making sure his date gets home safe
@@AleCozz She's most likely to get assaulted or killed by her date tho???
@@_MC529 wtf? What kind of people are you dating girl??
@@AleCozz it's basic statistics???
@@_MC529 WHERE? I mean, domestic violence exists all over the world but people getting rapped/killed by their date? Lol
Sex on the first date??? What is worng with Latinas?
Loved the Korean guy's answers!
Nothing is wrong with us. To each their own. Don't judge anothers sexual preferences. Will you start judging those with different sexual orientations too?
@@thequeenv4638 no wonders your crime rates are so immensely high
What's wrong with that? Plus,having sex on the first date isn't only a latin thing🤷♀️
@@thaizahonorato crime.
@@_MC529 Excuse me?
TAKE THE RED PILL GENTLEMEN !
For me personally, the "Denglish" accent is a deal-breaker out of the gate.
Why is that so..
That is pretty shallow
Cringe
Chilean dating culture is really well represented here... and venezuelan as well... we have a lot of them gals here in Chile too... so we can see it... Hahahahah
Eiiiiiiii lucasmorais_z
What a nightmare..What a no psuperficial and unpleasant attitude from these people with