Dashing My Way Out Of Debt | Ep. 129

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  • Опубліковано 11 бер 2024
  • Join me as I deliver for DoorDash and Uber Eats to earn money to pay off my debt!!!
    Many of you have been requesting I start a GoFundMe due to the current situation with my son. Your generosity and prayers for my son and family mean so much to me. You are the best UA-cam community any mama could ever hope for.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 202

  • @catcrazed
    @catcrazed 3 місяці тому +56

    Anyone who says you are wrong to decline what you are declining is crazy. Keep declining that trash.

    • @tdadiva
      @tdadiva 3 місяці тому +6

      I will decline an order and be sitting in the parking lot of the restaurant 🤣🤣

    • @keya5326
      @keya5326 3 місяці тому +1

      @@tdadivaright!🤣

    • @tdadiva
      @tdadiva 3 місяці тому

      @@keya5326 lol

    • @hollysloane6121
      @hollysloane6121 Місяць тому

      Exactly you cant make money on small ass orders that people aren't willing to take care of you they want the luxury of being taken care of by getting food delivered to them so take care of your drivers people or we will keep declining declining and your food will be cold.

  • @sarahdevaney8550
    @sarahdevaney8550 3 місяці тому +52

    If you start selling merch, you should do t shirts that say " PISSING ME OFF!!!!".

  • @Bee_Kind_Always
    @Bee_Kind_Always 3 місяці тому +19

    Just started using Door Dash. We don’t live more than a couple of miles from where we order. We give at least $10 for a tip and when they get here, they get more 💵. 9:01 I appreciate the service you provide. Thank you.

  • @Randomadventuresofmatt
    @Randomadventuresofmatt 3 місяці тому +16

    Don’t worry about not cheering people up with being in a bad mood. TBH I watch your videos because of how honest you are and your complaints actually make me laugh because I’ve been there 99% of the time.

    • @hollybarrows2134
      @hollybarrows2134 2 місяці тому +1

      I agree. I like how she is real. I am just like her I talk to myself the whole time I'm driving, lol.

  • @rachmunshine9474
    @rachmunshine9474 3 місяці тому +35

    Everybody, please remember to hit like if you’re so inclined!

  • @bri13q
    @bri13q 3 місяці тому +25

    “Pissing me off” 😂😂

  • @Shannonnielsen585
    @Shannonnielsen585 3 місяці тому +26

    I’m sorry you are so stressed. I can relate and the only break I can get is to dash. My daughter is special needs too and she’s 26. Hang in there.

  • @user-yl5ck4gu3f
    @user-yl5ck4gu3f 3 місяці тому +24

    Keeping your son , daughter and yourself in my prayers. Hope your son is feeling a bit better.🩷🇨🇦

  • @krc2143
    @krc2143 3 місяці тому +23

    I’m not out for pitty deliveries .. I’m here to make money
    And some of the ones I do are questionable lol

  • @randielynrhodes9001
    @randielynrhodes9001 3 місяці тому +24

    You just don't know how much I look forward to your videos! I can't stop laughing. TY for brightening my day. Keeping you and yours in my prayers.

  • @meshasar5558
    @meshasar5558 3 місяці тому +11

    Five minutes for salad ??? 🥗 pissin me Off 😂😂😂😂

  • @amberkendall8131
    @amberkendall8131 3 місяці тому +21

    It's going to get better...don't give up. Life can be tough sometimes, but you are a strong woman! Never forget that!

  • @heatherj3030
    @heatherj3030 3 місяці тому +4

    Being a special needs mom can be so stressful, and leave you feeling helpless at times, but then there are those moments that just make it all worthwhile. You can add "pissing me off!" To that collection of precious moments. 😊😅 What a cutie! I hope you all are doing better soon.🙏🙏🙏

  • @shawneebidnit3354
    @shawneebidnit3354 3 місяці тому +3

    My DD acceptance rate currently sits at 4%. I had it up to 13% yesterday but they kept sending me junk stack orders not greater than $10.00. I finally just gave up and came home. Luckily I dash mostly on military base requiring FBI background and REAL ID allowing most dashers not to qualify for this work on the base. I am also certified by the State of VA for alcohol delivery providing me another opportunity that not all dashers bother to become certified.

  • @workinprogresssince1974
    @workinprogresssince1974 3 місяці тому +5

    You are funny and interesting even when you are grumpy. You make me chuckle. Keep up the good work!

  • @daynashannon9679
    @daynashannon9679 3 місяці тому +5

    The frustration is real, huh? I’m sorry you were having a rough day in this video. Prayers for you and your family.

  • @EnidNess-kl9mg
    @EnidNess-kl9mg 3 місяці тому +5

    Hi mama!👋Please don't apologize because you think we come to your videos to be entertained! I love to watch your videos because you are so relatable!!! Wether your pissed off, funny, serious, upset about something, I love watching your video and whatever "mood" you're in! I think you are fantastic ALL the time!!! Hoping you and your daughter are doing well and Aiden is well on his way to a full recovery!!!🙏💖

  • @joanneburford6364
    @joanneburford6364 3 місяці тому +14

    Exactly, why would you accept those rates of pay...

  • @msruby68
    @msruby68 3 місяці тому +5

    Have you looked into getting paid by the state to take care of your son? When my friend had cancer her husband got paid to be able to stay home and take care of her. Not sure if Florida has anything like that to take care of you son.
    This is what I found. Maybe something you want to check into.
    Can I get paid to take care of my autistic child in Florida?
    Overall, getting paid to stay home with your child with autism is possible through various government-funded programs and state-based initiatives. By researching and understanding the available options, you can find the best solution for your family's needs.

    • @themeatymama
      @themeatymama  3 місяці тому +4

      Yes, we do have that kind of program in Florida. I'm trying to figure all that out.

  • @lowcostmealswithlu9300
    @lowcostmealswithlu9300 3 місяці тому +5

    Healing Prayers for your family, your son especially. I know you’re tired. I’m a single Mom. Praying for strength and continued Courage. ❤

  • @catcrazed
    @catcrazed 3 місяці тому +15

    Your personality cracks me up.

  • @Elysian40772
    @Elysian40772 3 місяці тому +13

    That was my quote every day when I used to do gig work😅

    • @rachmunshine9474
      @rachmunshine9474 3 місяці тому +6

      I was just thinking that’s my quote every day. 😂

    • @eyesopenwide9210
      @eyesopenwide9210 3 місяці тому +1

      It is my everyday experience with gig work.

  • @philipdefrancisco7540
    @philipdefrancisco7540 3 місяці тому +8

    I watched all the way to the end. And you are justified to feel as you do. Being a single parent is beyond difficult. The sacrifices never stop and you have to weigh one thing against another all the time. You were hoping that dashing could pay the same and give you more time....and you tried it, which is important. That "balance" is so hard to attain.

  • @youtubingwithyou
    @youtubingwithyou 3 місяці тому +6

    Uber Eats will never pay you for cancelled orders unless you call them and beg them for compensation. Then they will tell you that you have been compensated too many times. In order to get any compensation you have to ask to be transferred to a supervisor. It’s utter BS!

  • @ellrisse5452
    @ellrisse5452 3 місяці тому +9

    You make me feel so much less alone when I’m dashing 💗 Thank you.

  • @NikiMiller-tm7gx
    @NikiMiller-tm7gx 3 місяці тому +5

    Keep your head up, Mama. This is only temporary. You're doing great. Some days you feel so defeated and other days you put your big girl panties on and say I got this. This journey is never easy. You have to find the small things in life that brings joy to you and your kids. Being present for them is important and you are doing thet. Keep up the good work mama. You got this!

  • @cindysheppard8653
    @cindysheppard8653 3 місяці тому +5

    ❤ sounds like you need a hug 🫂

    • @themeatymama
      @themeatymama  3 місяці тому +10

      I do, from a tall, good-looking man, preferably.

  • @GrannyNoodles
    @GrannyNoodles 3 місяці тому +17

    Thanks!

  • @genemartinez2833
    @genemartinez2833 3 місяці тому +4

    Why doesn’t DoorDash just establish a minimum order of $10? It’s ridiculous to have $3.50 orders!

  • @stephaniecolbert3444
    @stephaniecolbert3444 3 місяці тому +14

    ❤❤❤😂😂😂Pissing me off😂😂😂❤❤❤Hey Mama 🥰🥰🥰 I am watching this video for the second time. Please know you're doing a wonderful job. Keep posting these wonderful videos Mama. I will always be here! You can seriously put out any length videos and I'm going to watch twice from all three of my UA-cam pages! I can't support you financially and I'm so sad about that. But I am praying for you and your family everyday, I'm watching and liking your videos and I'm about to post Meaty Mama shorts on one of my channels. Thanks for doing what you do 😊❤. Bringing me joy and laughs that make my day 😅😊❤ Tell the children hello ❤❤😊and keep your faith Mama ❤Love you girl ❤😊

  • @cstar3005
    @cstar3005 3 місяці тому +9

    "That's what Taco Bell does to ya" - LOL - I'm sorry you're having such a rough time and that this DD full-time experiment hasn't afforded you more time with your kids and for the things you need to do around the condo and (mostly) to re-energize yourself. You do bring so much light to our days with your honest humor though....thank you for being you! I hear it takes a lot of time too, but maybe more vids with you as a Mom doing the things you want and need to do (of course after your son heals) - that way you're home "if something happens" - and maybe growing your channel even more?

    • @msruby68
      @msruby68 3 місяці тому +4

      It was like every time she said something her stomach was agreeing with her. lol

  • @JamiesRealisticLife
    @JamiesRealisticLife 3 місяці тому +11

    Your fine. I loved this video. The story of your son Your pissin me off was the best. I'm still praying for your son and yourself.

  • @rachmunshine9474
    @rachmunshine9474 3 місяці тому +4

    I was about to say who would decline a tip? 😂

    • @Judy1957
      @Judy1957 3 місяці тому +1

      🤔 no one 😂

  • @elick3422
    @elick3422 3 місяці тому +10

    Because they will give you more orders and they will give better..."Piss me off" lol

  • @lutanan1
    @lutanan1 3 місяці тому +4

    It is just hard to do everything that you want to do. It is not your fault. have a wonderful day.

  • @macelliusa4451
    @macelliusa4451 3 місяці тому +3

    If you go back to the main screen in DD, and then back to “resume dash”, it will re-calculate your total.

  • @geekbabe100
    @geekbabe100 3 місяці тому +5

    Someone needs to start a GoFundMe for you! What you & your kids are living is no kind of a life, you work so hard & so many hours, you deserve better ❤

  • @Judi-lm2fj
    @Judi-lm2fj 3 місяці тому +10

    UE has been quiet in my area lately. I have better AR with them @55%. DD is down to 42.

  • @lasvegashappydad1932
    @lasvegashappydad1932 3 місяці тому +3

    "They were like ,they were like, This women did an Outstanding job!, Let us give her 99 more cent , for she deseeeerved it 👌" 😂 you had me rolling 🤣 😂 man its slow right now .

  • @ramonaa.5286
    @ramonaa.5286 3 місяці тому +3

    I love your videos. Keep up the great work. It's ok to be grumpy sometimes! We still ❤ you.

  • @user-ne8xm9uv3c
    @user-ne8xm9uv3c 3 місяці тому +5

    I agree with your
    🥰🥰son life pisses me off too he seems very in touch with his feelings I hope he gets his needed disability your life will get so much better soon

  • @mudrickk
    @mudrickk 2 місяці тому +2

    So calm when the truck almost backed into you! Props

  • @The_Godmother_1
    @The_Godmother_1 3 місяці тому +3

    Yes I keep getting orders that have already been picked up to. so annoying

  • @charlesclaridy8646
    @charlesclaridy8646 3 місяці тому +2

    Must have been in the air. I added two customers to the "Never Again" List, stupid drivers were everywhere including a few who are dashers/UEers. Hope your son is better! Stay safe All!

  • @brookeholland7609
    @brookeholland7609 3 місяці тому +6

    You have a beautiful personality and are so funny. I know you’re stressed and I really hate that for you. I think a lot of us are stressed these days. All we can do is try to keep on keeping on. That’s “pissin” me off! Sincerely wishing the best for you and your family! Subscribed and liked.

  • @thatsme2106
    @thatsme2106 3 місяці тому +3

    I feel I have better orders when driving around vs parking

  • @vbrad6226
    @vbrad6226 3 місяці тому +7

    That Taco Bell got your stomach rumbling 😂

  • @thebobbleheaddiaries6921
    @thebobbleheaddiaries6921 3 місяці тому +2

    I know how you feel. Being the parent of a disabled child is exhausting as we put everything into them.
    My 23 yr old is orthopedically disabled and non ambulatory. I also have medical conditions.
    We can’t just go….i have to make sure where I’m going is wheelchair accessible and bathrooms available that are wheelchair accessible.
    How far is it and will it drain me as I do the pushing and transferring and lifting.
    Hugs to you. Sometimes we just have to take a day - get our own shit done and that puts us in a better frame of mind.

  • @The_Godmother_1
    @The_Godmother_1 3 місяці тому +3

    😂😂😂 your son that was too funny. Keeping you all in prayer

  • @susan7442
    @susan7442 3 місяці тому +4

    Mama, you're pissing me off. Lol. No, seriously, even on the bad days you entertain us and they are still interesting! No worry! We need to see it all! Carry on toward that goal! Not everyday is going to be perfect in that goal.

  • @soniamorales2562
    @soniamorales2562 3 місяці тому +3

    I agree. I can see why you want the flexibility. Harder to get that with a regular job.

  • @MissSandraK
    @MissSandraK 3 місяці тому +3

    They want us to do charity work. They can waste their own fuel and time!

  • @carolyndetemple
    @carolyndetemple 3 місяці тому +2

    Meaty Mama every video you have published has been stellar. We are with you, through the good, bad and the sucky people and orders you encounter. I hope your son is doing better ❤ You are almost to 9K 🎉!!!

  • @tanyatapley2416
    @tanyatapley2416 2 місяці тому +2

    Girl I feel the same way about people get to enjoy their families and their lives on the weekend but here I am busting butt to make a buck to pay for crappy stuff

  • @Wheely55
    @Wheely55 3 місяці тому +3

    I hope things get better for you and the kids. Im disabled myself and I am looking into getting my nephew to help me out with personal and household work, kinda of like a caregiver and have him get paid for it. As I get older Im finding things more difficult. He has Asberger Syndrom but hgh functioning. He has grown up around me and knows how I like things done. If you have a friend or family memberthat can help with your son in the mornings that he gets along with maybe that can help. The Medicaid program here in Va is called The Consumer Direct Network. The dr needs to recommend he needs home health care through his insurance. It might take some pressure off you some?

  • @paigeattheboatramp
    @paigeattheboatramp 3 місяці тому +7

    "Pissing me off". That story got me giggling. ~Paige

  • @Christina-yq7xg
    @Christina-yq7xg 3 місяці тому +8

    When I see your videos I miss st Petersburg so much

  • @jessicasmith6470
    @jessicasmith6470 3 місяці тому +2

    You will be fine dear, we all have days like that. Tomorrow will be better. 🙏🏼🙏🏼👍🌺

  • @youtubingwithyou
    @youtubingwithyou 3 місяці тому +3

    Even though Uber Eats shows you are diamond status, you’re really blue. You have to have an AR of 70% to actually achieve any other status other than blue status.

  • @maggie2529
    @maggie2529 3 місяці тому +3

    We love you 🥰

  • @samanthaammerman3568
    @samanthaammerman3568 3 місяці тому +2

    No matter what kind of mood your in, I love watching your videos! Especially when I’m doing DD AND UE- ill have the videos playing while I work so it feels like we are working together ❤ your an amazing mom doing amazing work, your kids are so blessed to have you as their momma 😊

  • @user-do1nc2cw9f
    @user-do1nc2cw9f 3 місяці тому +5

    Of course you should decline it what are they thinking geez

  • @debbiejones953
    @debbiejones953 3 місяці тому +2

    It might be more that he is standing in one place and not moving than just the heater. The leg muscles help the circulation and can reduce swelling. Hope he can fight this infection! My sister had to have an aortic valve replacement at the age of 32 because of a similarly type of infection that attacked her valve.

  • @RaoulDukeSr
    @RaoulDukeSr 3 місяці тому +1

    Here bringing some love and prayers on behalf of Bren and his community. 🙏💞🙏 stay strong and healthy much love.
    Amen

  • @danieldeller3661
    @danieldeller3661 3 місяці тому +2

    I pray that your situation gets better.

  • @r332663
    @r332663 3 місяці тому +2

    I love watching you! I appreciate this REAL video. Some days do suck!!!

  • @loriturner1585
    @loriturner1585 3 місяці тому +2

    Sending prayers to your family

  • @chellejones8529
    @chellejones8529 3 місяці тому +5

    Love you lady

  • @Mamasreflections
    @Mamasreflections 3 місяці тому +4

    Love watching your videos its my me time at the end of the day 😊

  • @AC-ql5gb
    @AC-ql5gb 2 місяці тому +2

    The center of your route is averaging shitty tippers. Go to where the rich ppl eat and shop. Even if it takes u 45 mins to drive there. Don’t be afraid of sitting in parking lots. Especially of restaurants with high prices. Take the trips that pay as close to $2 per mile as you can stand. Even the little ones i.e $5 for 2 miles. That will help ur acceptance rate.
    I still spend too much on food while I’m out. Gas you can’t help of course. But gas up in a poor neighborhood. Usually cheaper.
    Downtown is a bad mix of crap tippers that live far away. You end up rejecting a lot. The best spots are usually just outside of downtown.
    One more thing… don’t be stuck on the “hot spots”. Those just have more drivers.
    I hope this helps anyone who is out there gigging. Much love to you all.

  • @2024FingersCrossed
    @2024FingersCrossed 3 місяці тому +5

    You will make more money for them.

  • @workinprogresssince1974
    @workinprogresssince1974 3 місяці тому +4

    I hate the way they shame you with low acceptance % when they give you rubbish orders that aren't worth your time. :/ They really don't care if you make enough, they just want orders filled.

  • @sherrycrutchfield2890
    @sherrycrutchfield2890 3 місяці тому +2

    I totally agree and understand 😊

  • @Loraleijean
    @Loraleijean 3 місяці тому +3

    I'm so sorry you are so sad. It's easy for me to say this, but you need rest even if it is taking a nap on the beach in your car. You need to take care of you too.

  • @mybudgetguide2817
    @mybudgetguide2817 3 місяці тому +2

    good quote

  • @drewwhezzy
    @drewwhezzy 3 місяці тому +5

    I honestly don't think you decline enough

  • @MoodyGrl74
    @MoodyGrl74 3 місяці тому +1

    I rarely comment on videos. However, lately I have been playing your videos when I’m out doing food deliveries. I hate that you are in a grumpy mood , but I must say that I love your grumpy mood videos! I can relate so much , from the singing “I don’t want to be out here “ to the rage about the salad not being ready! I feel like I’m watching myself lol I have been trying to figure out that acceptance rate statement for months now ! pissin me off!

  • @christinehammers9466
    @christinehammers9466 Місяць тому

    Please don't skip. I love all your videos. You are amazing and work so hard. I am binge watching all your videos. I am liking all of them and commenting on all of them. I am hoping this helps you.

  • @tracysprenger8622
    @tracysprenger8622 Місяць тому +1

    You are lucky to be living in a beautiful part of the world, no snow. We in Canada are really stuck in our homes. I would love to live in Florida. You are blessed to be there. People wait their entire lives to be there for their retirement and that is only allowed for half of the year. At least you can sit outside all year we only get a few nice months to be able to do that and can't grow beautiful orange trees like in Florida. You are fortunate!

  • @michellelaw7620
    @michellelaw7620 Місяць тому

    Hey Meaty Momma. I hope you get this message. I am also self employed entrepreneur. I worked in corporate retail as mentioned for over 20 years. I have 7 kids and now the grandkids are coming. I am 43 and I feel the same as you at times. This is what I do. I run a coaching Business. I schedule as many jobs as I can on 2-4 days throughout the week. GREAT MONEY. I door dash sometimes on evenings Weekends or between jobs for lunch rush. Then on Mondays and sometimes Tuesdays because those days are slow for me with door dash I work on my reselling business. I prep and photograph enough items to get me through the week. I know you do You Tube which is time consuming but I think you have a hustle to do as much as you want to protect your schedule. My dad is from the st Pete area so I'm often in FL. I appreciate your video's and wish you and your kids the best

  • @suzanne296
    @suzanne296 Місяць тому

    That's right we appreciate you. I use uber when I'm sick and so grateful for you!!

  • @douglashoward5738
    @douglashoward5738 3 місяці тому +2

    Love your rants!!! Sorry your grumpy 😂

  • @cindysheppard8653
    @cindysheppard8653 3 місяці тому +3

    Call uber support for your $3. People dont because its hardly worth it but UE knows this and thats why they do it.

  • @Tee-cl6dc
    @Tee-cl6dc Місяць тому

    I wish I could just give you a hug . Sorry your so stressed. HUGS ! ❤ & PRAYERS for you and your family

  • @hoppygirl563
    @hoppygirl563 3 місяці тому +2

    I just started Doordash! Thanks for the video, seems I get pretty good orders for this small town! 🤓

  • @joyking7609
    @joyking7609 3 місяці тому +3

    Unfortunately you have to call or live chat Uber when you have to cancel or they won't give you the $3

  • @souldreamer8571
    @souldreamer8571 3 місяці тому +1

    I just had a red lobster tonight that someone already picked up on door dash. It would have put me over my goal and it was I only got half pay but I did have an order right after that offset the difference for like. Mile away. But yeah I get it. PISSING ME OFF!

  • @lisacarter7426
    @lisacarter7426 3 місяці тому +3

    I really enjoy your video's. You make my day. Prayers for you and your family

  • @lw1913
    @lw1913 3 місяці тому +1

    I watched this but couldn’t comment. Weird. I was the second person. lol Anyway, glad you vented and let it out no need in holding it in. I totally agree with your frustrations. I’m hoping when you start back dashing it’ll be the best!

  • @oliviajohnston7216
    @oliviajohnston7216 3 місяці тому

    Your son made me chuckle😊 "pissing me off "😉

  • @hwein1216
    @hwein1216 3 місяці тому +1

    I think you need to call support in order to get payment on the cancel run. Next time suck it up and call support. I'm with you honey!!!

  • @zelmabyrn2115
    @zelmabyrn2115 2 місяці тому

    I stayed still the end of the video as well. I believe we all have a "pissed off" day or days. The vlogs gives you an opportunity to vent as well so vent it is. No worries 👍 we are here still the end. You are special in all your ways! Blessings

  • @privateaccount1278
    @privateaccount1278 10 днів тому

    we understand- nobody can say that they never experienced a low or feeling like they are not the only ones that never get a chance- im old and im going to give you advice- this is not my advice but works- just try to work and live without expectations- dont have expectation about anything or anybody and you will never be dissapointed- i learned that way when something goes great Im surprised and satisfied- -I didnt have one disabled kid- i had two- i had a husband like having a third kid- never helped me at all- i worked learned a lot hustled learned some more -we survived and so will you God bless you

  • @Astrid-cc3mg
    @Astrid-cc3mg 3 місяці тому +1

    Just found your channel and love it already! Very inspiring 😊 How much debt did you start with?

  • @hollysloane6121
    @hollysloane6121 Місяць тому +1

    I get orders like these on all platforms this is an expensive service but thats what it is a luxury service so people need to take care of the people willing to go get their food and get it delivered to them because they dont want to go get it or cant get it. So people need to take care of drivers and tip and not complain about their food cold or the restaurant forgot something thats not the drivers fault if the food has been sitting if you tip good and can afford to you will get you order picked up fast and delivered.

  • @mudrickk
    @mudrickk 2 місяці тому

    Fantastic video 🎉

  • @hwein1216
    @hwein1216 3 місяці тому

    BTW, Great job on the Platinum. I only had it for a very short time, but was getting $35 orders and larger orders as well. Haven't seen them since.

  • @dianek1683
    @dianek1683 3 місяці тому +2

    Can you go into restaurants in Florida with no shirts on, I noticed the men at one of your pick ups with no shirts on. I thought it was no shirt, no shoes no service unless different states have different rules 🤔

  • @tanyatapley2416
    @tanyatapley2416 2 місяці тому

    You are my attitude twin lol. I love watching your videos

  • @barbramessina3118
    @barbramessina3118 3 місяці тому +1

    Mama: we need u to make us a video of ur chicken salad recipe!