I’m a Filipina. Born and raised in Cebu City. If you want to find high quality Filipinas, you need to understand that there a lot of young, beautiful, educated, came from a good family/background Filipina all over the Philippines. What you need to understand is, and I say this without being rude, most of them (keyword most) are NOT interested in foreigners. Unless that foreigner is in the same level as she is. Meaning, more or less the same age, educated and stable. Second, these girls who have gone traveling to different countries etc means that she came from a good family. Meaning they have money. Not necessarily that she has a foreigner paying for her or her lifestyle. How can you discern one from the other? Her educational background, family background and her English skills. Most Filipinas who speak perfect English went to private schools, born to a family of wealth or successful parents. But if she lives a luxury lifestyle and couldn’t even speak straight English, isn’t educated and presents herself in a cheap manner (overly sexualizes herself) then you have a bad apple. This opinion is by no means trying to offend anyone. I’m just stating reality and trying to erase this negative misconception that most Filipinas are out here trying to beg for money. Those girls are cheap, wanting a foreigner to “save” them, or comes from an under privileged background and does not represent the majority of us. You should also expose yourself to a different group of Filipinas to know the difference. Hope this helps!
And when I say fluently speaks English, I mean perfect English with no Filipino accent which means she is very well educated (went to private schools from primary to college). Education is very important here in the Philippines and the Filipinas who come from a good family, all of their family members are educated, successful and can speak fluently as well. They also have home helpers/maids or housekeepers or Nannies growing up. Not necessarily super rich but live a comfortable life. So these kind of girls would never beg for money and belong to the high quality group of Filipinas. They too are beautiful, nurturing, kind, supportive, smart, family oriented, wife material and all that. Where can you find them? They live in the cities because they can afford the lifestyle. They don’t live in the province. You can also find them in dating sites but these kind of women are more hard to find because they are of quality.
Good information for those looking to meet a wife there. Red flags 🚩 are always everywhere in life. We just need to pay attention to them! Nice video 👍😊
Thanks for the golden advice....the most important decision any man (or woman) can make is who will be your partner.....it can really make or break your future. I'm 49 now and the most important lesson I have learned is to always listen to your instincts and your gut feelings..
Hey man, thanks for doing this video. You're doing good work and there are guys who are going to be better off because you sucked it up and talked through the awkward but necessary topics. Also, "Tracy" is hilarious.
Yes, a relationship like yours is neither an accident nor an impossibility. When dating across cultures, people need to educate themselves because problem people look different based on the societal forces that formed them. So, there's more work up front. However, there's more reward also.
I'm going back to the Philippines for 6 weeks Wednesday to see my girlfriend that I met on line last year and spent a month with last December. So far no red flags. I love your videos and consider them extremely helpful and informative. Thanks
You don't have to be interested in a Filipina to get something from this video - these red flags should apply to all women no matter where they're from.
I have watched so many podcasts .warning me of filipinas that scared me to death , sounds like there is only one in a million chance finding one that is honest ,sincere ,but you two make me smile ,not sure if I have the stamina to wade through all the pit falls.
Once you talk to a few, you can feel out what kind of girl she is. Broadly speaking, they are either: religious/family oriented/shy/simple. Or brings up money/gold digger/scammer. Or promiscuous/flirty/bar girl. You want the first type and most province girls are this type.
Hahahaha!! I loved this video.. First of all, I remember that fun loving Tracey with the blonde hair. She was funny. Second, I have been chatting with different Filipinas since 2010. I have run into just about all of those red flags. The worse for me was the family drama and yes, I had to walk away. Bruh!!! You wouldn't believe me if I told you, however, I still have the receipts.. Hehehehe!! One thing for sure, I'll never be visiting that family again.
Glad you are back on line giving dating advice to the rock stars planning on going to the Philippines looking for a girlfriend as it is needed. Some of these men are so lost and broken that their level of what they will accept is so low that they become victims of a woman 30 years younger than them. Their grandsons who cruise the malls in America on a Friday night looking for a date are more astute to the red flags and manipulations of woman.
I’m afraid sometimes you cannot teach a certain type but when your emotionally homeless…and you have the attention of a women you cannot dream of in the west ..booosh downstairs kicks in lol. Ahhh yes marry me in 5 months ..build me a house in a year and take care of all my family ..”I love you, I mean I love your money”
Absolutely great video ,great advice , one of the best videos I have watched in a long time. I'm sure this will help a lot of people sort thing out. Whishing you guys all best.
I met at a Filipina from the Philippines, she stated she was a Christian (never would she go to church), was constantly on her phone, slept with her phone under her pillow, she wanted to move in with me right away and get married, discovered that she had over five different email addresses, told me she had a master's degree but found out later she didn't, one lie after another..
It’s great to see a mixture of info about living and wanting a Filipina relationship.looking forward to come to the Philippines and meeting both of yous. Keep up the great content..😊
All really good points. I've gotten caught in a couple of those scenarios and have learned the hard way. Still searching for the right woman, who doesn't want my money, etc. Incidentally, Raquel is sweet, beautiful and just the right amount of Pinay silliness. God bless you two! Keep up the great work.
most of these I have already been using but you defintely covered a lot of the high level red flags to watch out for. great video. Hope your real wife Rachel doesnt find out about This Tracy Lady in this video 🤣🤣
One issue I have noticed that applies to women in general is tattoos. Speaking as a man with multiple tattoos, I have noticed that women with tattoos are usually more promiscuous. It is also a good idea to avoid women with unnatural her color and long fake nails, if you are looking for a long term relationship.
My background for over 15 years was automotive trade during the day and managing a nightclub (adult) part time at night. I can say this is a fact with all certainty but do not want to get attacked or taken down discussing it.
@@Eric-qm5xw My wife always does her hair and nails so agree 100% In addition, I would never judge someone/women with tattoos. I just play it safe and go by facts and statistics. I myself am OCD and built a spreadsheet while working in the night club industry to look for patterns and build data. Unfortunately it was a clear number showing that 100% with tattoos had a horrible childhood/parent situation, while 100% of the girls without them were raised correctly. I'm not judging either way, I just like statistics when I'm gambling.
Great video and so impressed to see how close and mature you guys are since i first started watching you when you first met P.S. Tracy looks good as roleplay can be fun.. Corey can be Dirk or Buck haha
You both are very smart individuals and we are benefitting from your advice. What you are talking about also fits most relationships around the world and it would smart of us to pay attention to the red flags you brought up. Thank you.
Excellent video! I'm genuinely surprised how good the list and the explanations are. Maybe there is only one thing I'd add: lack of ability to handle difficult conversations and conflicts. If these don't seem to be working at all during the first stages of the relationship, and she doesn't seem to be open to your perspective, it's highly unlikely that the relationship will last. Although this is not PH specific at all, and also goes for men as well of course.
My GF in the Pinas told me every day to buy a house. I just laughed. Then her whole damn family started on me to buy a “big house and farm”. As if I was going to raise cows and chickens! I left her and never even said good bye.
Good video and you hit the nail on the head with all 10. I would say multiple baby daddies is the top red flag especially if she is under 30. Shows irresponsibility, immaturity, no self-respect, not intellectually sound, and is definitely looking for an ATM to take care of them. Of course there are exceptions with any situation but I would stay far away from them.
This was an excellent summary. I'm starting to wonder if I wouldn't just be better off staying Single once I make to move. Thanks for the excellent work, Tracie's a keeper. Salamat po. Peace and Love, B Goat
GREAT content, brother! Usually I see the red flags and think,”CIRCUS! YAY!”🤪 and run towards it! 😂 Quick question- did you film this at The Sheraton Resort?! Your place is looking amazing-well done!👍🏻
Lol, the look on her face at 1355. Just shows understanding each other is always an ongoing process. And these two seem to understand that and from the early videos up until now you can see that growth in their relationship.
Hi guys. Great video. Been talking to a girl on line for a couple months. She has a couple red flags I’m concerned about. So I maybe discussing it with her. One thing about the multiple baby daddy’s is were they married? Did they get an annulment? If you get involved with one and it sounds like anyone can drop a dime to 5-0 and you’re in trouble with the law. So that’s one of my #1 questions. Stay safe my fellow single guys! Enjoyed the video!! 😊
Ask her to get a $10 cenmar (certificate of non marriage) . East to obtain at a local government office. Husbands are often the guys in the photos she says is her brother. Also annulments are becoming much easier there so don’t believe when they say its impossible
That’s way past a red flag, that’s what happens if you get with a girl and ignore all the red flags. You shouldn’t be giving her any money let alone giving her family any money. So it’s not excessive spending that’s the problem, it’s spending money on them at all is a problem. But it should never get that far if you watch for the warnings at the beginning.
I wish I’d seen this video in 2016. My first filipina did this. I’ve shared this with you previously. My current wife and I were introduced by her cousin, so much better. She never, ever once asked me for money. I volunteered to assist her with funds that were within my budget. Now that I’m living here, we have settled on a budget that fits our needs with funds left over for emergencies or fun things. She also works as a nurse, so she also has her own money. She pays for her own “personal” things and for meals when we go out as a family with her son and daughter. Her family is amazing. She does have a brother who is an alcoholic, but we have never tried to fix him. He is really a very nice guy and living with an alcoholic mother helps me deal with him. Plus he lives in Eastern Samar. But your videos are very helpful for men who are looking to start a relationship with a filipina. Keep it up.
Thank you, my friend. I really appreciate you taking the time to leave another great comment. There is a lot of good ones out there! Either way it sounds like I really need to plan a visit to Samar and see what it’s all about.
It’s sort of funny that more and more foreigners are looking for upper class and self sufficient Filipinas. They don’t realize that a well to do 25 year old Filipina doesn’t want to have anything to do (romantically) with a 70 year old guy with a pension.
All those red flags apply to anywhere you go in the world not just the Philippines. All the foreigners had those same problems from wherever they came from and didn't learn, thinking it would be different their.
Far far more extreme in the phil’s as Filipina take advantage of the westerner ..it’s all over social media in the phil’s. Westerners would not know about it ..the social media virus(the bad parts) are very much here. Ie “daddies” paying for Filipina on a ongoing basis etc
thanks for ur videos im from germany maybe i ll look in a few years for a waifu from phillipine too or other asian country. Im saving my earnings rn. Have a blessed day u 2 hope u all the best.
You just made a really good point question. So now I have to deal with double the stress and craziness…. But get the same amount of sex 🤷♂️ I think I need to sit down with the two of them and negotiate this lol
😂😂adapting to being married to a Filipina comment and expression killed me!!! You guys have become addicting to watch it’s like a sitcom. So funny!!! Anyways I’m a fellow Chicagoan myself and have lived in South Florida forever since. I am actually planning my retirement to move to the Philippines or Thailand. Probably Philippines bc of the language barrier. Where exactly idk yet. We have tons in common although I wasn’t able to serve my country. I’m heavy into fitness, finance, and I’m definitely OCD when it comes to details. I just need a well rounded Filipina that is actually not a gold digger, but a team player. Would love to visit or meet up in 2025 if that’s cool. I really won’t know anyone, but I’m sure I’ll meet people pretty quickly. Keep the great videos coming!! You both are awesome 👏 ❤
Glad to hear this. My Filipina does not ask for money but she does get jealous. She has purchased clothes for me so when I come over I will not need to bring much.
Tracy's new hair is fantastic. See, it's good to listen to the Wify sometimes. This is a good show. It is very helpful for many to hear about, even if they ignore it and get stung. Everytime Rach changes her hair you can have a new date! LoL This must be Filipina logic and I think its fun and cool. Have a Magical Day....from Florida ... it was 40 degrees last night at work.
Tracy was in the sauce again???😂😂😂 Great video for everyone in a relationship, solid information… 2 against the world is the best relationship, hands down… ALL THE BEST…
Good advices for guys. Gap cultures is so different with Western culture and dating. If you have constraints at the beginning, it will be for ever... Thanks for your resume and hae good time
If a man is looking for a women that is wife material in a bar than he is the red flag. That's the last place in the world you would ever look for a wife.
Great video, Cory. Thanks your wife for the idea 😊 Here's a little fun, in connection with your video: Five secrets to Men’s happiness: 1. Find a woman who can make you laugh 2. Find a woman who can cook 3. Find a woman who really listens to you 4. Find a woman who is amazing in bed, and 5 Make sure these four women do not find out about each other 😂😂😂
Mabuhay Corey and Raquel, hope you're both doing great, looking forward to meeting up when I move there soon to be with my fiance and son, love your videos.
Tracy looks good with dark hair. I like my wife's hair dark too. well explained on what to look out for I have a new friend looking. I sent this video to him
Yes and no ..patriarchy can be extreme and a darker side is the unspoken abuse..and sexual abuse. It’s common in the Philippines and no often spoken of ..the women feel shamed by it. Also alot of homes are broken by poor fathers so you’ll no know until you delve deeper..
My wife was very jealous at first. I told her not to be because I had already dated every girl in ohio at least twice and I had no more interest in American girls. LMAO
Hey. I was just wondering about you two. Have not seen any vids come up for awhile.. Things are 'politically' changing here accross the pond. Good to see how always handle your wife with strong patience.. Much respect... Good to see you two and hopefully to see everything always evolving. Never let your woman go bored hey. Haha.
You nailed it with this video . Listen to them if you are a guy looking for a woman over there . When they asked me what I did for a job I told them I cooked french fries at a fast food joint . My best advice is think with your big head not your small 1 .
Love your dynamics, it’s fun loving and that how I am with my partner although I think my partner is more bully 😂..As a Filipina and a modern one who had a relative high paying job in Manila. I found that most men are simply not serious so it cuts both ways ..most just want “fun” and as a Catholic girl it’s simply not going to happen with me. Most Filipina want a loving partner and family, it’s that simple. So down to both parties find the right mix/jive. Guys you don’t need to get married in 5 months and build a house here in the Philippines, it’s unrealistic for a Filipina to ask that of you. Filipina asking for money, well it’s generally Filipino culture and on poorer spectrum. This can be negated by dating a professional Filipina and there are plenty of them in the big cities. Eyes wide open guys and welcome to the Philippines…lovely couple. God bless.
@ Finding the “right one”, usually will take time. As sometimes it can be a freakish coincidence in timing, I was on and off the apps as I simply did not have time to date as a banker in Manila/family life/social life and working out. God has a plan for us all..sometimes we need a little luck along the way. 🙏 All the best guys
Jealousy is normal to a point. All the other Red Flags exist in all nationalities - not just Filipinos. And Red Flags are genderless, meaning they happen in both females and males.
@ItsMe_Philippines oh that's sad. Without striking the balance by getting the perspective of both sides, the Filipina will always be perceived by the world as the scammer, the gold digger -- while the men will always be seen as their "savior", the provider, the hero and the victim --even tho in real life, these men could also be the narcisstic partner, the abuser, the psychopath, the manipulator in the relationship... Nothing against you, Corey. I just think its unfortunate, but yeah I understand that this is the reality of UA-cam.
@@ßhopkins I've never heard of a foreigner being looked at like a "savior" and they do not think that way. Maybe we can touch this issue at some point down the road though.
@@ItsMe_Philippines so foreign men dont think they can save the girl's family and earn her affection by giving them money? somehow thats hard to believe. But yeah... what can we do.
@@ßhopkins is that what I said? That’s not even close to what I said so you might want to reread my comment. From all the Filipinas I have talked to, none of them look at foreigners like a savior.
You two are two different happy peas in the same pod. Great advice! I've been through lots of those red flags. My Filipina wifey and I have been married for 5+ years now and it's always getting better. Her family is sane but typical Philippino busybodys who like to gossip. One problem we experience, I think because my wife has a good paying job here in Tennessee, is all the poor extended family members in the Philippines asking her for money. She gives some for genuine reasons. But some people have promised to pay her back and didn't. First world problem I guess. Like you said, you can't fix everybody. Great video! Really enjoyed it!
Hi Corey, your videos give me hope and optimism. I'm saving up my money and traveling the world starting in 2025 including the Phillippines to look for my next home base and a good wife and your channel contributes to my drive. Thank you sir!
A good idea for a video would be about what you gave up in usa to live your life in Philippines. Family, friends, job and do you miss anything back here. Maybe a little background on both of you before meeting would be nice.
🎯 Key points for quick navigation: 00:39 *💑 The couple has lived in the Philippines for nearly three years, adapting to life there and each other as a foreigner and a Filipina.* 01:19 *🚩 The video aims to highlight red flags foreigners should be aware of when dating Filipinas, based on firsthand experiences and conversations with others.* 02:40 *💸 Red Flag #1: Filipinas frequently asking for money, especially early in the relationship, signals dependency rather than genuine interest.* 04:17 *🏦 Red Flag #2: Excessive curiosity about a foreigner's income, savings, or financial situation could indicate ulterior motives.* 05:11 *🎭 Red Flag #3: Drama-prone Filipinas who involve their partners in family conflicts or unresolved issues can create lifelong stress.* 06:45 *🕒 Red Flag #4: A lack of quality time, such as frequent distractions or not prioritizing the relationship, suggests disinterest or immaturity.* 09:02 *📸 Red Flag #5: Filipinas with expensive lifestyle photos (e.g., luxury hotels, exotic locations) may have been funded by other foreigners, signaling questionable intentions.* 10:27 *📱 Red Flag #6: Constant phone use, prioritizing social media over spending time with a partner, indicates lack of focus on the relationship.* 11:19 *💔 Red Flag #7: Excessive jealousy, especially persistent and controlling behavior, can undermine trust and cause long-term issues.* 14:23 *🎮 Red Flag #8: Controlling behavior, such as dictating the foreigner’s plans or creating a “paid vacation” dynamic, is a major red flag.* 15:20 *🎵 Red Flag #9: TikTok addiction or excessive use of social media platforms reflects immaturity, lack of focus, and potential life dissatisfaction.* 17:22 *👶 Red Flag #10: Having children with multiple fathers often signals unresolved personal issues and potential future complications for the foreigner.* 19:42 *🧠 The couple advises thinking logically, not emotionally, when encountering red flags, as ignoring them can lead to long-term problems.* 20:52 *💬 Open communication and mutual respect can help address red flags in some cases if the person shows willingness to grow and improve.* 22:18 *💡 The takeaway emphasizes avoiding attractive but problematic partners and prioritizing long-term compatibility.* Made with HARPA AI
@@ItsMe_Philippines Thank you for always being transparent with your audience and sharing your honest experiences! It's helping greatly when weighing future options! 💪
I’m a Filipina. Born and raised in Cebu City. If you want to find high quality Filipinas, you need to understand that there a lot of young, beautiful, educated, came from a good family/background Filipina all over the Philippines. What you need to understand is, and I say this without being rude, most of them (keyword most) are NOT interested in foreigners. Unless that foreigner is in the same level as she is. Meaning, more or less the same age, educated and stable. Second, these girls who have gone traveling to different countries etc means that she came from a good family. Meaning they have money. Not necessarily that she has a foreigner paying for her or her lifestyle. How can you discern one from the other? Her educational background, family background and her English skills. Most Filipinas who speak perfect English went to private schools, born to a family of wealth or successful parents. But if she lives a luxury lifestyle and couldn’t even speak straight English, isn’t educated and presents herself in a cheap manner (overly sexualizes herself) then you have a bad apple. This opinion is by no means trying to offend anyone. I’m just stating reality and trying to erase this negative misconception that most Filipinas are out here trying to beg for money. Those girls are cheap, wanting a foreigner to “save” them, or comes from an under privileged background and does not represent the majority of us. You should also expose yourself to a different group of Filipinas to know the difference. Hope this helps!
And when I say fluently speaks English, I mean perfect English with no Filipino accent which means she is very well educated (went to private schools from primary to college). Education is very important here in the Philippines and the Filipinas who come from a good family, all of their family members are educated, successful and can speak fluently as well. They also have home helpers/maids or housekeepers or Nannies growing up. Not necessarily super rich but live a comfortable life. So these kind of girls would never beg for money and belong to the high quality group of Filipinas. They too are beautiful, nurturing, kind, supportive, smart, family oriented, wife material and all that. Where can you find them? They live in the cities because they can afford the lifestyle. They don’t live in the province. You can also find them in dating sites but these kind of women are more hard to find because they are of quality.
I think this might be the best comment I received.
social media addiction is the biggest red flag I've come across. She's more interested in "likes" than she is in me.
It's a growing problem sadly
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Amen Brother...Amen.. you did a good job covering this subject. Nice job.
Much appreciated
yes very on point with all these red flags
@@ItsMe_Philippines Yeah great covering with the subject and I agree.
Good information for those looking to meet a wife there. Red flags 🚩 are always everywhere in life. We just need to pay attention to them! Nice video 👍😊
Thank you!
Thanks for the golden advice....the most important decision any man (or woman) can make is who will be your partner.....it can really make or break your future. I'm 49 now and the most important lesson I have learned is to always listen to your instincts and your gut feelings..
Great comment
Perfect timing! Thanks for the upload 👍🏻😊
Did it just for you! lol
After a slow start this video is full of gems ... and congrats on finding a girl which amazingly doesn't have any of these problems. 😄
Thank you and she was worth looking for!
Tracey presenting herself with the chickens screaming in the background was perfect.
lol
the red jungle fowl drove me crazy in the province
Hey man, thanks for doing this video. You're doing good work and there are guys who are going to be better off because you sucked it up and talked through the awkward but necessary topics. Also, "Tracy" is hilarious.
Thank you!
Yes, a relationship like yours is neither an accident nor an impossibility. When dating across cultures, people need to educate themselves because problem people look different based on the societal forces that formed them. So, there's more work up front. However, there's more reward also.
Agree and great comment
I'm going back to the Philippines for 6 weeks Wednesday to see my girlfriend that I met on line last year and spent a month with last December. So far no red flags. I love your videos and consider them extremely helpful and informative. Thanks
Best of luck! and thank you! What island are you heading to?
Wow, thats pretty surreal, but good luck, time will tell ALL
Some people you really don’t get to know until you’re living with them.
She's probably got two three other blokes on strings in other countries,
Glad to see you folks having a fantastic time together. May your relationship bloom for a lifetime.
Thank you so much!
You don't have to be interested in a Filipina to get something from this video - these red flags should apply to all women no matter where they're from.
Very true
I have watched so many podcasts .warning me of filipinas that scared me to death , sounds like there is only one in a million chance finding one that is honest ,sincere ,but you two make me smile ,not sure if I have the stamina to wade through all the pit falls.
For every bad one, there’s 1000 good ones. So you’re looking at it completely backwards.
Once you talk to a few, you can feel out what kind of girl she is. Broadly speaking, they are either: religious/family oriented/shy/simple. Or brings up money/gold digger/scammer. Or promiscuous/flirty/bar girl. You want the first type and most province girls are this type.
@@sharedsailing4787 thanks for tip ,little scared but will walk carefully
Hahahaha!! I loved this video.. First of all, I remember that fun loving Tracey with the blonde hair. She was funny. Second, I have been chatting with different Filipinas since 2010. I have run into just about all of those red flags. The worse for me was the family drama and yes, I had to walk away. Bruh!!! You wouldn't believe me if I told you, however, I still have the receipts.. Hehehehe!! One thing for sure, I'll never be visiting that family again.
Hahahaha it might make a good video just telling some foreigner horror stories lol
@@ItsMe_Philippines Mine might be too horrific for your channel
Great to see you both! The algorithm hasn’t put your videos in front of me for awhile.
Ahh that's to bad!
Glad you are back on line giving dating advice to the rock stars planning on going to the Philippines looking for a girlfriend as it is needed. Some of these men are so lost and broken that their level of what they will accept is so low that they become victims of a woman 30 years younger than them. Their grandsons who cruise the malls in America on a Friday night looking for a date are more astute to the red flags and manipulations of woman.
Sad but true
I’m afraid sometimes you cannot teach a certain type but when your emotionally homeless…and you have the attention of a women you cannot dream of in the west ..booosh downstairs kicks in lol. Ahhh yes marry me in 5 months ..build me a house in a year and take care of all my family ..”I love you, I mean I love your money”
Hi Tracy & Ronald! Great content and convo again. Here's a solid 23 minutes and 35 secs of watch time from Finland.
@@FullFinnoy thank you my friend! How’s the weather over there right now?
@@ItsMe_Philippines Beautiful summer day, sun shines from clear blue skies and the warm coastal winds caress our skin at the beach *charot*
Absolutely great video ,great advice , one of the best videos I have watched in a long time. I'm sure this will help a lot of people sort thing out. Whishing you guys all best.
Thank you very much for that comment
"tracey" was very very expressive in this vid😁😁😁😁......at the end I see it was her idea.........thk u "tracey"
You're very welcome!
Great video, I haven't had alot of time past month(s) so I have some catching up to do, keep it up! You're looking great!
Thank you! Will do!
Thank you! Will do!
I met at a Filipina from the Philippines, she stated she was a Christian (never would she go to church), was constantly on her phone, slept with her phone under her pillow, she wanted to move in with me right away and get married, discovered that she had over five different email addresses, told me she had a master's degree but found out later she didn't, one lie after another..
You should have left her after the first lie.
It’s great to see a mixture of info about living and wanting a Filipina relationship.looking forward to come to the Philippines and meeting both of yous. Keep up the great content..😊
Our pleasure!
All really good points. I've gotten caught in a couple of those scenarios and have learned the hard way. Still searching for the right woman, who doesn't want my money, etc. Incidentally, Raquel is sweet, beautiful and just the right amount of Pinay silliness. God bless you two! Keep up the great work.
Thank you!
I loved this video of you and New Hair Tracy lol. Great list of red flags. Thanks for sharing your experience with us guys.
lol happy to help!
most of these I have already been using but you defintely covered a lot of the high level red flags to watch out for. great video. Hope your real wife Rachel doesnt find out about This Tracy Lady in this video 🤣🤣
lol thank you
@@ItsMe_Philippines no thank you for the laughs and the insight to your phillipine experience.
Hi Corey, love the channel just wanted to say you look like 10 years younger than when I first started watching it’s crazy what less stress does .
I hear that often and thank you!
One issue I have noticed that applies to women in general is tattoos. Speaking as a man with multiple tattoos, I have noticed that women with tattoos are usually more promiscuous. It is also a good idea to avoid women with unnatural her color and long fake nails, if you are looking for a long term relationship.
Agreed, even men ive met who had lots themselves said tattoos or exessive peircings are from past trauma.
My background for over 15 years was automotive trade during the day and managing a nightclub (adult) part time at night. I can say this is a fact with all certainty but do not want to get attacked or taken down discussing it.
@@Eric-qm5xw My wife always does her hair and nails so agree 100%
In addition, I would never judge someone/women with tattoos. I just play it safe and go by facts and statistics. I myself am OCD and built a spreadsheet while working in the night club industry to look for patterns and build data. Unfortunately it was a clear number showing that 100% with tattoos had a horrible childhood/parent situation, while 100% of the girls without them were raised correctly. I'm not judging either way, I just like statistics when I'm gambling.
So a 0 out of 10 is impossible to find/ existing !!! Educational vid. !!! Thank's so much and Merry Christmas !!!
lol probably true but it's more about how bad the flags are and if she is trying to improve them or not.
Great video and so impressed to see how close and mature you guys are since i first started watching you when you first met P.S. Tracy looks good as roleplay can be fun.. Corey can be Dirk or Buck haha
lol good idea
Love the video, enjoyed the content and your willingness to share your experience.
Thanks for watching
You both are very smart individuals and we are benefitting from your advice. What you are talking about also fits most relationships around the world and it would smart of us to pay attention to the red flags you brought up. Thank you.
Thank you very much and I’m happy to help!
It's very important that a beautiful Philippino woman also approves these 10 red flags. ☺️☺️
Yes, true
Thanks for making this video, you guys. You two answered a lot of questions.
Glad it was helpful!
This was a very informative video that we all needed to hear. Thank You!
Happy to help!
Cory and "Tracey" all valid red flags and great advice on how to handle them
Keep up the great videos
Thank you
You and Tracy are inspirational, love your content 😂
lol thank you
Excellent video! I'm genuinely surprised how good the list and the explanations are. Maybe there is only one thing I'd add: lack of ability to handle difficult conversations and conflicts. If these don't seem to be working at all during the first stages of the relationship, and she doesn't seem to be open to your perspective, it's highly unlikely that the relationship will last. Although this is not PH specific at all, and also goes for men as well of course.
That is a personal issue and really not about the Philippines or even an issue here
That is a personal issue and really not about the Philippines or even an issue here
You know the cool thing about you two is if you don’t agree, you listen to each other and see each others point of view, then sort it. Thanks Tracy 🤔😉
Happy to help!
Another good one brother, and you two seem to get along so well, your days must be full of happiness. You picked the perfect backdrop. Thank you.
Thank you and we keep switching the back ground to see what works best.
What a great couple. Been looking for this my whole life. So happy for you two!
Thank you so much!
My GF in the Pinas told me every day to buy a house. I just laughed. Then her whole damn family started on me to buy a “big house and farm”. As if I was going to raise cows and chickens! I left her and never even said good bye.
lol
Hey guys 👋🏻 you are both looking great! Thanks for the advice 😊
Thanks for the comment!
Good video and you hit the nail on the head with all 10. I would say multiple baby daddies is the top red flag especially if she is under 30. Shows irresponsibility, immaturity, no self-respect, not intellectually sound, and is definitely looking for an ATM to take care of them. Of course there are exceptions with any situation but I would stay far away from them.
Smart man
This was an excellent summary. I'm starting to wonder if I wouldn't just be better off staying Single once I make to move. Thanks for the excellent work, Tracie's a keeper. Salamat po. Peace and Love, B Goat
Thank you my friend
If a filipina ask you for money, she doesn't like you, thinks you're a dork and has zero respect for you. Just run.
Same dynamic as walking into a strip club and thinking she’s going to respect you once you give her money.
Hi Corey thanks for all the red flags. And the new girl hair style 😊. Hi "Stacy" hee hee. Another great video 👍
lol thank you
It's Tracy not Stacy 😮
@@badactor3440 No, it's "Tracy" lol
@@ItsMe_Philippines that's what I said 😕
@@badactor3440 It was meant for the first guy lol
You guys are funny! "Tracey" brought up great points haha!
Glad you enjoyed!
GREAT content, brother! Usually I see the red flags and think,”CIRCUS! YAY!”🤪 and run towards it! 😂 Quick question- did you film this at The Sheraton Resort?! Your place is looking amazing-well done!👍🏻
lol thank you
I sure do love Tracy lol"of course"you both look great and It was a good video again thank you I always enjoy your stuff
Thank you!
Lol, the look on her face at 1355. Just shows understanding each other is always an ongoing process. And these two seem to understand that and from the early videos up until now you can see that growth in their relationship.
Thank you for noticing that and we both have learned a lot and that only makes it better.
Tracey, of course.
Great video, good info.
Glad it was helpful!
Tremendous advice guys. Appreciate y’all.
Thank you and happy to help!
You two make a nice couple. Love your rapport. I subscribed! Keep up the nice videos
Will do and thank you!
Hi guys. Great video. Been talking to a girl on line for a couple months. She has a couple red flags I’m concerned about. So I maybe discussing it with her.
One thing about the multiple baby daddy’s is were they married? Did they get an annulment? If you get involved with one and it sounds like anyone can drop a dime to 5-0 and you’re in trouble with the law. So that’s one of my #1 questions. Stay safe my fellow single guys!
Enjoyed the video!! 😊
I would definitely discuss those with her ASAP because the problems will not fix themselves.
more than likely, not married if having multiple babies by different filipinos, the live in partner thing
Ask her to get a $10 cenmar (certificate of non marriage) . East to obtain at a local government office. Husbands are often the guys in the photos she says is her brother. Also annulments are becoming much easier there so don’t believe when they say its impossible
Love watching Raquel / Tracy she can't sit still and her expressions are so cute!
lol even when she sleeps
I really enjoy your videos! I'd definitely rank excessive spending to support her family among the top 10 issues.
That’s way past a red flag, that’s what happens if you get with a girl and ignore all the red flags.
You shouldn’t be giving her any money let alone giving her family any money. So it’s not excessive spending that’s the problem, it’s spending money on them at all is a problem. But it should never get that far if you watch for the warnings at the beginning.
I wish I’d seen this video in 2016. My first filipina did this. I’ve shared this with you previously. My current wife and I were introduced by her cousin, so much better. She never, ever once asked me for money. I volunteered to assist her with funds that were within my budget. Now that I’m living here, we have settled on a budget that fits our needs with funds left over for emergencies or fun things. She also works as a nurse, so she also has her own money. She pays for her own “personal” things and for meals when we go out as a family with her son and daughter. Her family is amazing. She does have a brother who is an alcoholic, but we have never tried to fix him. He is really a very nice guy and living with an alcoholic mother helps me deal with him. Plus he lives in Eastern Samar. But your videos are very helpful for men who are looking to start a relationship with a filipina. Keep it up.
Thank you, my friend. I really appreciate you taking the time to leave another great comment. There is a lot of good ones out there! Either way it sounds like I really need to plan a visit to Samar and see what it’s all about.
@ we, hopefully, will move there when my stepdaughter graduates college. She has two more years. We live in Metro Manila now.
It’s sort of funny that more and more foreigners are looking for upper class and self sufficient Filipinas. They don’t realize that a well to do 25 year old Filipina doesn’t want to have anything to do (romantically) with a 70 year old guy with a pension.
They assume they can have everyone and then contact me after nonstop rejections lol
All those red flags apply to anywhere you go in the world not just the Philippines. All the foreigners had those same problems from wherever they came from and didn't learn, thinking it would be different their.
This is true
Far far more extreme in the phil’s as Filipina take advantage of the westerner ..it’s all over social media in the phil’s. Westerners would not know about it ..the social media virus(the bad parts) are very much here. Ie “daddies” paying for Filipina on a ongoing basis etc
thanks for ur videos im from germany maybe i ll look in a few years for a waifu from phillipine too or other asian country. Im saving my earnings rn. Have a blessed day u 2 hope u all the best.
Best of luck!
Raquel" It's The Humidity In The Philippines!! Good Video Cory" It Is Better To Be Careful Then Sorry Later! Have A Great Week 👍!
100% agree
oh, Tracy is back! lol it's nice to have 2 ladies. Drive us men twice as crazy. lol
You just made a really good point question. So now I have to deal with double the stress and craziness…. But get the same amount of sex 🤷♂️ I think I need to sit down with the two of them and negotiate this lol
@@ItsMe_Philippines Exactly! there has to be some ground rules. lol
Thoughtful and informative video
Thank you
😂😂adapting to being married to a Filipina comment and expression killed me!!! You guys have become addicting to watch it’s like a sitcom. So funny!!! Anyways I’m a fellow Chicagoan myself and have lived in South Florida forever since. I am actually planning my retirement to move to the Philippines or Thailand. Probably Philippines bc of the language barrier. Where exactly idk yet. We have tons in common although I wasn’t able to serve my country. I’m heavy into fitness, finance, and I’m definitely OCD when it comes to details. I just need a well rounded Filipina that is actually not a gold digger, but a team player. Would love to visit or meet up in 2025 if that’s cool. I really won’t know anyone, but I’m sure I’ll meet people pretty quickly. Keep the great videos coming!! You both are awesome 👏 ❤
Shoot me an email when you're heading over and Thailand is our favorite place to visit so that's a tough call.
Tracy is looking good. Natural beauty and some Cory fine tuning. Outstanding.
Thank you!
Glad to hear this. My Filipina does not ask for money but she does get jealous. She has purchased clothes for me so when I come over I will not need to bring much.
Wow she found your size? I order from Amazon lol
Tracy's new hair is fantastic. See, it's good to listen to the Wify sometimes. This is a good show. It is very helpful for many to hear about, even if they ignore it and get stung. Everytime Rach changes her hair you can have a new date! LoL This must be Filipina logic and I think its fun and cool. Have a Magical Day....from Florida ... it was 40 degrees last night at work.
I do not miss 40 degree weather at all lol. 60 is nice, but not 40
Tracy was in the sauce again???😂😂😂
Great video for everyone in a relationship, solid information…
2 against the world is the best relationship, hands down…
ALL THE BEST…
Glad you enjoyed it, thank you!
Good advices for guys. Gap cultures is so different with Western culture and dating. If you have constraints at the beginning, it will be for ever... Thanks for your resume and hae good time
Great comment thank you
great video, being careful with the girls you meet in bars is always a good idea.
If a man is looking for a women that is wife material in a bar than he is the red flag. That's the last place in the world you would ever look for a wife.
You guys are a hoot! All the best. :)
Thank you!
Another great video
Thank you 🙏 appreciate you always leaving a positive comment
Great video, Cory. Thanks your wife for the idea 😊
Here's a little fun, in connection with your video:
Five secrets to Men’s happiness: 1. Find a woman who can make you laugh 2. Find a woman who can cook 3. Find a woman who really listens to you 4. Find a woman who is amazing in bed, and
5 Make sure these four women do not find out about each other
😂😂😂
hahahahahaha that's to funny
Mabuhay Corey and Raquel, hope you're both doing great, looking forward to meeting up when I move there soon to be with my fiance and son, love your videos.
Thank you, and safe travels!
How did the chicken washing go and you going to finish the fish run ....
And thank you for another great video
Ooo happy Thanksgiving.
All good here!
Very good, sound advice. 🙏
Thank you and hopefully it helps people
Happy Holidays Cory & Tracy. Cory, what happened to your other wife Rachel:)
She's waiting inside lol
Tracy looks good with dark hair. I like my wife's hair dark too. well explained on what to look out for I have a new friend looking. I sent this video to him
Thank you
Flag #11 - bad relations with father or no father present = relationship issues (this applies to all women)
Good one!
Yes and no ..patriarchy can be extreme and a darker side is the unspoken abuse..and sexual abuse. It’s common in the Philippines and no often spoken of ..the women feel shamed by it. Also alot of homes are broken by poor fathers so you’ll no know until you delve deeper..
Great vlog guys really useful
Happy to help!
Great video makes perfect since and it is really true for women from anywhere I did not see a subscribe button?
Thank you and we both agree. Subscribe button should be right on my page 👍🏻
Good idear for a video I have enjoyed it thank you miss "always ready"
🙂
Good advise
Hope you find it helpful!
You both look fab, great going
Thank you
My wife was very jealous at first. I told her not to be because I had already dated every girl in ohio at least twice and I had no more interest in American girls. LMAO
lol
The last minute of this, is some of the funniest shit I've ever seen, especially after talking about Red Flags! 😂
lol we only speak the truth
Hi "Stacy". Good information.
lol thank you
Hey.
I was just wondering about you two.
Have not seen any vids come up for awhile.. Things are 'politically' changing here accross the pond.
Good to see how always handle your wife with strong patience..
Much respect... Good to see you two and hopefully to see everything always evolving.
Never let your woman go bored hey. Haha.
We usually upload at most once a week so no worries my friend.
You nailed it with this video . Listen to them if you are a guy looking for a woman over there . When they asked me what I did for a job I told them I cooked french fries at a fast food joint . My best advice is think with your big head not your small 1 .
@@toddsmith2349 exactly and thank you
Love your dynamics, it’s fun loving and that how I am with my partner although I think my partner is more bully 😂..As a Filipina and a modern one who had a relative high paying job in Manila. I found that most men are simply not serious so it cuts both ways ..most just want “fun” and as a Catholic girl it’s simply not going to happen with me. Most Filipina want a loving partner and family, it’s that simple. So down to both parties find the right mix/jive. Guys you don’t need to get married in 5 months and build a house here in the Philippines, it’s unrealistic for a Filipina to ask that of you. Filipina asking for money, well it’s generally Filipino culture and on poorer spectrum. This can be negated by dating a professional Filipina and there are plenty of them in the big cities. Eyes wide open guys and welcome to the Philippines…lovely couple. God bless.
Sad but true as most Filipinas all tell me they meet plenty of foreigners, however they are not "serious" or really looking for love or a wife.
@ Finding the “right one”, usually will take time. As sometimes it can be a freakish coincidence in timing, I was on and off the apps as I simply did not have time to date as a banker in Manila/family life/social life and working out. God has a plan for us all..sometimes we need a little luck along the way. 🙏 All the best guys
Jealousy is normal to a point.
All the other Red Flags exist in all nationalities - not just Filipinos.
And Red Flags are genderless, meaning they happen in both females and males.
Very true
"If you are facing to da north, then run to the south!" omg i love Raquel!
lol
hilarious!!! lol
hilarious intro!
lol thank you!
To be fair, please also discuss the red flags of dating foreigners for your Filipino viewers.
Raquel, its your time to shine! 🆘🚩⚠️
I like the idea but that's only 4% of the viewers 😕
@ItsMe_Philippines oh that's sad. Without striking the balance by getting the perspective of both sides, the Filipina will always be perceived by the world as the scammer, the gold digger -- while the men will always be seen as their "savior", the provider, the hero and the victim --even tho in real life, these men could also be the narcisstic partner, the abuser, the psychopath, the manipulator in the relationship...
Nothing against you, Corey. I just think its unfortunate, but yeah I understand that this is the reality of UA-cam.
@@ßhopkins I've never heard of a foreigner being looked at like a "savior" and they do not think that way. Maybe we can touch this issue at some point down the road though.
@@ItsMe_Philippines so foreign men dont think they can save the girl's family and earn her affection by giving them money? somehow thats hard to believe. But yeah... what can we do.
@@ßhopkins is that what I said? That’s not even close to what I said so you might want to reread my comment. From all the Filipinas I have talked to, none of them look at foreigners like a savior.
You two are two different happy peas in the same pod. Great advice! I've been through lots of those red flags. My Filipina wifey and I have been married for 5+ years now and it's always getting better. Her family is sane but typical Philippino busybodys who like to gossip. One problem we experience, I think because my wife has a good paying job here in Tennessee, is all the poor extended family members in the Philippines asking her for money. She gives some for genuine reasons. But some people have promised to pay her back and didn't. First world problem I guess. Like you said, you can't fix everybody. Great video! Really enjoyed it!
Thank you and great comment
You’ll not get this problem if you date modern educated Filipina..professional class.
Hi Corey, your videos give me hope and optimism. I'm saving up my money and traveling the world starting in 2025 including the Phillippines to look for my next home base and a good wife and your channel contributes to my drive. Thank you sir!
Fantastic! Let's meet for a coffee when you're local
Dude, don’t say ur looking for a wife! Move because you found a place you like, not because of a woman
A good idea for a video would be about what you gave up in usa to live your life in Philippines. Family, friends, job and do you miss anything back here. Maybe a little background on both of you before meeting would be nice.
Maybe we could do a background video but I don't feel like I gave anything up coming here.
🎯 Key points for quick navigation:
00:39 *💑 The couple has lived in the Philippines for nearly three years, adapting to life there and each other as a foreigner and a Filipina.*
01:19 *🚩 The video aims to highlight red flags foreigners should be aware of when dating Filipinas, based on firsthand experiences and conversations with others.*
02:40 *💸 Red Flag #1: Filipinas frequently asking for money, especially early in the relationship, signals dependency rather than genuine interest.*
04:17 *🏦 Red Flag #2: Excessive curiosity about a foreigner's income, savings, or financial situation could indicate ulterior motives.*
05:11 *🎭 Red Flag #3: Drama-prone Filipinas who involve their partners in family conflicts or unresolved issues can create lifelong stress.*
06:45 *🕒 Red Flag #4: A lack of quality time, such as frequent distractions or not prioritizing the relationship, suggests disinterest or immaturity.*
09:02 *📸 Red Flag #5: Filipinas with expensive lifestyle photos (e.g., luxury hotels, exotic locations) may have been funded by other foreigners, signaling questionable intentions.*
10:27 *📱 Red Flag #6: Constant phone use, prioritizing social media over spending time with a partner, indicates lack of focus on the relationship.*
11:19 *💔 Red Flag #7: Excessive jealousy, especially persistent and controlling behavior, can undermine trust and cause long-term issues.*
14:23 *🎮 Red Flag #8: Controlling behavior, such as dictating the foreigner’s plans or creating a “paid vacation” dynamic, is a major red flag.*
15:20 *🎵 Red Flag #9: TikTok addiction or excessive use of social media platforms reflects immaturity, lack of focus, and potential life dissatisfaction.*
17:22 *👶 Red Flag #10: Having children with multiple fathers often signals unresolved personal issues and potential future complications for the foreigner.*
19:42 *🧠 The couple advises thinking logically, not emotionally, when encountering red flags, as ignoring them can lead to long-term problems.*
20:52 *💬 Open communication and mutual respect can help address red flags in some cases if the person shows willingness to grow and improve.*
22:18 *💡 The takeaway emphasizes avoiding attractive but problematic partners and prioritizing long-term compatibility.*
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Thank you!
@@ItsMe_Philippines Thank you for always being transparent with your audience and sharing your honest experiences! It's helping greatly when weighing future options! 💪
Great to see you both! The algorithm hasn’t put your videos in front of me for awhile.
Thank you and I’ll call UA-cam and complain lol