How to Avoid, Being Ignored? l Dr Rafiq Dar l Urdu/Hindi
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- How to Avoid, Being Ignored?
Dr Rafiq Dar
Corporate Trainer
Neuropsychologist, Hypnotherapist and NLP Practitioner
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Assalamualaikum sir apki har video se sekhny ko milta hay my first comment and view pin 📌 my comment
Thank you, Done
@@drrafiqdar thanks ❤️
@@drrafiqdarsir husband k bary main video bnay jo wife ko chor k dusri aourton main intrested ho usy wife kesy manage kry?
اسکی پسند نا پسند کا خیال رکھیں۔۔بس
اسکی پسند نا پسند کا خیال رکھیں۔۔بس
ایسے لوگوںسے بچیں جن کے لیے بدلنا پڑے ۔۔۔جس کو مھبت ہوتی ہے وہ جیسا بھی انسان ہو اسے قبول کرتا ہے۔۔۔
آپکی بات صحیح ہے پر اگر آپ کسی کو اسکی کمیوں سمیت قبول کر رہے ہیں تو اُسکا بھی فرض بنتا ہے کی اپنے اندر بہتری لانے کی کوشش کرے یہی محبّت ہے😊
اسلام علیکم سسر آپکی بات بلکل درست ہے مجھے اس سے اتفاق ہے لیکن ایک اور بات بھی قابل غور ہے کہ انسان دوسروں کی خوشی کیلۓ اپنے آپکو جتنا بھی بدل سکتا ہے ضرور بدلتا ہے دوسروں کی چھوٹی سے چھوٹی خوشی کیلۓ ہر ممکن کوشش کرتا ہے لیکن بعض لوگ دل کے پھتر ھوتے ہیں ایسے لوگوں کیساتھ ایک وقت ایسا بھی آتا ہے کہ ہمت جواب دے جاتی ہے انسان تھک جاتا ہے دوسروں کو خوش رکھتے رکھتے اور خوش پھر بھی کوئ نہیں ھوتا
اپنی خوشی کو مقدم رکھیں آپ سب کو خوش نہیں رکھ سکتے۔
انسان جب انسان کی فطرت سمجھ لے ۔۔تو کبھی کسی سے امید نہ لگا ۓ۔۔۔آسان سی بات ہے میں سمجھتی ہوں کوئی سچا پیار اس دنیا میں ہے ہی نہیں ۔۔آپ چاہے الٹے لٹک جائیں پھر بھی سامنے والا ناشکری ہی کرے گا۔۔بس اپنی زندگی کو آسان کریں۔۔آپ خود کے دوست ہو جائیں تو کسی اور کی ضرورت نہیں ۔۔۔کیوں کہ اکثر لوگ تب میسر ہوتے ہیں جب وہ خود اگنور ہو کر میسر ہو رہے ہوں۔۔۔سمجھدار بنے وقت ضائع نہیں کریں ۔۔۔بھترین دوست بے شک اللہ ہے ہم سب کا مالک اللہ ہے۔۔اللہ کو راضی کریں جنت میں من پسند ساتھی مل جائے گا۔۔۔یہاں صرف دھوکہ ہے
Exactly 💯
@@RHS-ml5ov بیشک دنیا کے سہارے کمزور اور عارضی ہیں
واحد اللہ پاک کی ذات مظبوط اور پائیدار ہے الحمدللہ
Agree
Every person in this planet is managable ,broadminded thinking which says never give up for hope.great talk🎉🎉
I have been very flexible with the relationship around me but then suffered from exploitation. Somewhere my flexibility was taken for granted and it was me who suffered socially and financially.
I learnt then that evry relation has a limit and we should stick to that limit. We should not be every time a "Yes, yes..." personality. So flexibility within some limits.
سر آدھی ویڈیو دیکھ کر میرے دماغ میں شوق والی ویڈیو آئی تو سوچا کے لکھوں گا کہ شوق پکڑو بندے کا اور مثال بھی کبوتروں والی آئی۔۔ابھی سوچ ہی رہا تھا کے سیم بات آپ نے بھی کہ دی
Life is somewhat easier by understanding psychology but sometimes it seems that even after understanding all these things, life has become difficult.
True! Specially when we imply dark psychology. I think reading such books and videos make life much difficult. Just we have to faith on Allah and Allah give us reward on our niyah which could change our destiny in positive way. Manipulation is not good things . There is ayah "wa qulu qawlan sadeda" k jab b bat kro to seedhi bat kro. Or mere khyal se manipulation se insan aura damage hota.
@@soothingsouls204 Yes, you are also right, but in order to have a healthy relationship, a person thinks about everything and understands that he should be understanding in every way so that there is no mistake that can damage our relationship, but this is absolutely true. Well, that should not be misrepresented
@@saramalik5 but mostly in there content their is huge ratio of manipulation, and you know what i observe that why today relationships are not successful coz nowadays everyone is manipulator and the sadgi doesn't remain in our relationship and niyat k uper hi faisle hote hum chahe jo b kren at the end hum relationship khrab kr beththe. My believe is Just be faithful and true in any relationship, atleast it gives you peace if relationship doesn't work.
@soothingsouls204 Agreed, we'll said 👏 👍
@soothingsouls204 Relationships and peace are related to our heart and what Allah Ta'ala has consciously put in our heart is the best and we should live our lives by following it.
💯 right sir I’m using this technique from three years with my wife and along totally different personality perspectives I’m getting good results in my life.Thanks for your wise and logic based approach to different minds.
Keep posting the good stuff sir! I want you to bring video on this specific topic. When the person you like don’t like you back, initially was showing interest and now not even communicating not meeting! Never available for calling. Like you can’t reach out to them (Even when you have given them enough space and ofcourse you are respectful person who don’t cross boundaries, not overcontacting them). So how can you deal with that person and make them like you?
Thoda difficult sa topic hai but hope you make video on it!! :)
Aapki videos dekhne se pehle my brain🔥aapki videos dekhne k bad🌬
Sir Salam,
Sir MashAllah yr video is truely very effective, amazing, informative and knowledgeable .
Allah Pak give u jazzakhair for yr efforts. Ameen
Main theme of Sir Rafiq's video:
Jesa des wesa bhes camouflage the people you don't want being ignored from
Very right sir
❤❤BUHATTT NEED THI IS TOPIC KI❤❤
THANK YOU
Shortest review of NLP😊😊
Lovely video...
I would say it "Lovely" because it is full of knowledge 😊😊
Good 👍
بہت اچھا سمجھایا آپ نے
بہت فائید ہورہا ہے
زبردست لیکچر تھا سر اللہ پاک اپکو ہمیشہ کامیاب کریں
I was teaching my daughter about flexibility giving trees examples in strong winds and you have also come with Avery wonderful explanation.thnks🎉🎉
My always favourite Dr Rafiq Dar.
Really this is very informative video,tnx❤❤❤
Thank you for watching, need your support
Yes flexibility is the key to success ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for informative video, also want a video on topic: kisi bnday ky samny ziada jawab na dy skna ,baad min gussa ana ya sochna please sir kindly make video on this .
Blessings
Really nice I listened twice ..
Great lecture
Thank you
Well spoken sir
Its effective in our daily routine
Sir make video on
1 How to read someone mind
2 How to communicate with random person.
3 how to make some comfortable with us immediately
Please watch my videos on nlp
Sir u r really great
@@user-ev4bi7cu2h thank you 🙏
Sir mind is like a wind we feel but can't be touch sir this is the philasopical touch only for u sir special good luck ❤
All your words are correct, but the question is that if the personality of the other person is completely different, then how will it be lived? He can do as much as he can, but eventually he gets tired of doing it
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u r the master trainer sir🙏
Walakum asalaam good information 👍
شکریہ ❤
Nice sir.. you are guiding sensibly
Thanks
Thanks God.May u long.
Same to you
Excellent
Very nice jzzak Allah
Sir I want to understand my father, by your help InshaAllah I will understand his personality
Ap k step father hai?
Sir thankyou very much.wo Larka dr Hai aor Good looking Hai buhat esi wajha sy lift Nahi karwata
Welcome, Best Wishes for you
Great sir communication ka conclusion dy diya
Well done sir. You know how to present
Asslamualaikum sir one old request is still waiting
If you still remeber
It is that we need a course of Handwriting Analysis
We ll try to add more videos on handwriting analysis
@@drrafiqdar Thank you so much Sir. You are the greatest teacher of everything you teach
Very informative ❤
Fantabulous.....
thank you
Sir great hen ap❤❤❤ sir buzdil mard or deler mard ki Neuro science btaen k ek aadmi boht zyada nidar or deler hota ha or ek admi boht zyada darbok or kamzor dil hota ha har mamly me sir is par ek video bna den lazmi plz❤❤❤
Ok, will try for that
Thank you so much dear sir
پورے انسان کا نہیں ایک خوبی اور ایک خامی کا فیصلہ کرتا ہے انسان
Sir ap kub bana rahy he is topic py video " how to be lucky in life especially for success?". Apne ek video ky comment section py kaha tha ky me banao ga
Very well said sir v.nice 100% true
V good to listen to u
Expectations always create problems...
Nice 😊
Sir you are a blessing
Aoa.. U are really nice person and your vedios are very amazing and informative
Thank you, means a lot 🙏
Thank you Sir
Golden words
Thanks sir
بھائ جان کس کس کیلیۓ انسان خود کو بدلے سب انسانوں کا ایک جیسا ذہن ھے کہ ھر شخص دوست یا رشتہ دار ھو یہ چاہتا ھے کہ بات اسکی سنی جاۓ اور سامنے والا اسکا تابعدار ھو جب تک آپ تابعدار ھو سب آپ کا ھے اور جب بھی آپ اپنی مرضی سے چلنے کی کوشش کرینگے سب آپ کو چھوڑ دینگے یہ ھم سب انسانوں کا نیچر ھے کہ ھم اپنی مرضی سے جینا چاہتے ھیں کبھی کبھی دوستی یا رشتہ داری کی خاطر انسان تابعدار تو ھوسکتا ھے مگر ھمیشہ نہیں اسلیۓ یہ المیہ سب کے ساتھ ھیں اور سب لوگ تنہائ کا شکار ھے جو لوگ منافقت سے دوسروں کے ہاں میں ہاں ملاتا ھے وہی کامیاب ھے سیدھا انسان کبھی بھی معاشرے میں جگہ نہیں بنا سکتا اسکو توڑ دیا جاتا ھے کیونکہ توے کے نیچے لمبا اور سیدھا لکڑی نہیں چاہیے لکڑی کو توڑ کر چھوٹا بناکے توۓ کہ نیچے رکھا جاتا ھے پھر سمجھ لو کہ جب تک ھم دوسروں کے سامنے اپنے آپ کو چھوٹا اور تابعدار نہیں بناۓ گے اسوقت تک ھم اکیلے رہینگے ۔
ایک اور بات جب تک آپ سے لوگوں کو فائدہ ملتا رہے گا آپ سب کی جان ھو ورنہ آپ سب کے لیے جنجال ھو
Good vedeo
Walaiqum salaam Sir❤❤❤❤
Nice
Sir also mum can do that strategy ?
Thank you soooo much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Pleasure indeed
If a person talks rudely or aggressively. What should we do? Do we follow his school of thought?
Don't follow but ignore
@@drrafiqdar Thanks a bunch.
Tanks ❤😂😢
Bhaut khub. India.
Mere khayal main 100 batoo ki ek bat insan ko insan ban kar rehna chahye...aur dosroo ko bhi insan samjhna chahye....jub insaniyat peda Hogi ...to khud bakhud woh value ko bhi samjhe ga
Sir ap k sb batan thk han but logon KO jb hm zroort sy zyda time Izzt pyar daty Han to kmzrfon KO raas ni ata or wo ignore krny lg jaty han...Iska simple trick h k asy logon KO mind sy deal kran ignore kran or chill kran
Yes, you are right, so the fault lies with us, we should understand others and give respect as much they deserve,
Abi yee condion meri hai 3 sal sy bohat ziada pyar or fikr krny wla ab parwah ni kr ra😢
Sir husband wife k relation py video bnay plzzz jo husband dusri aourton main intrested ho (extra merital affairs) to aisy husband ko wife kesy manage kry kesy handel kry
Sir people please pr bhi ak video bnain k log logo ki nazron m acha kyn bnna chahty hen ?
I tend to assume that if someone ignores you , they may have attitude issue ,and it's best to accept it graciously .
Right brhy brhy Dykhy hn
ABSOLUTELY RIGHT BUT DUNIA KA SB SY MUSHKIL KAM INSAN SHINASI HY JS NY YE KR LYA WO WIN KRTA HY KISI BHI RELATIONSHIP K LYE UNDERSTANDING ISS MUST ND MIND SET
Sir sigmon froud yong and adler ke phyclogy padhai iskai bare mai jaankari dai
Kash ap ki vedio 2 years pehly up load krty to shaid main bi usy paa laiti
Sir kala jadu tantr bidya kya hai iskai bara mai batay
100 batoo ki aik bat ke shikayat nahi karen...aray shikayat apnoo se hi to karte hain ...yeh buss kamzurf admi hi hote hain Jo shikayat se ko rishte tootne se Jorte hain.. otherwise ghoor Karen to shikayat ki Kiya jaa Rahi hai woh ahem hai...Andaz e guftagoo ko choren guftagoo per ghoor Karen ..to rishte nibhana asan ho jaye ga
right
sir kch logon ko jb Pta chl jata he k hm usay chor nahi Skte to phir wo hmari begging dekhne k Liye bhi ignore krte hen
Kiou pata chalnay daiy, ??
@@drrafiqdar mere Sath hua he aisa, main ne khud hi express kr dia, over expressive thi main
Prayers for u
Salam, pls read my comment and reply me... how to deal with a person jo chorna b nai chahta aur apnana b nai chahta ... I mean dosti sy relationship mai jana nai chahta us person ko kesy marriage tak laya jaye ... Sir aik person he jo 3 years sy intouch he but only on mobile phone ... Kabi milny ka nai kaha and still intouch he woh ... I don't know how to manage that person... Sir pls guide me what should i do ...
Tu ap decidie kar na, kia karna hy, dont waste your time
looking younger
@drrafiqdar Sir mje aik person ne bht importance di. Then mje uski habit ho gai. And then us ne bola k meri jan chor do.mere msgs tk wo ignore krta hai.muje kia krna chaey.any effective advice plz?
Yir AP Sahi kah rahy Hy ham kaha se istart Karen
Sir aap personal coaching bhi dety hain?...if yes then what is the process?...kindly reply
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Agr koi sudden bat krna chor de .or wo baat hi nhi krna chahta. Then what to do?
Sir can you please tell me i don't feel any emotion i just feel like just pretending.the unknown fear I don't know but i think that i deeply analysis everyone and this is my problem I don't want but my subconscious mind accept all noises in around me i want to ignore but i can't tell me what's the solution of the problem!
Thanku so much ❤
sir mey ak chez add krty hoo uski pasand ky khany us ko khilye...sas ..nand ..husband ..pora ..khandan ..apki parason sb apky dewany hojyengy...mj ko cooking nhi aty thi mgr mey ny ye skill sekhy taky apny app ko mnwa sakooo
Very good
Assalam o alikum sir kindly ye btie kisse se kese such uglwa skte..
Hypnosis can help
Asslam o alaikum 🌹
W Salam
Walekum assalam likha or bola kijiye.....جزاک اللہ خیر کثیرا
Salam sir,very informative video,sir here’s my question why we want attention and validation from others it’s okay if we want to understand people around us and adjusting ourselves according to their psychological nature but again why we feel the need for validation and attention from others???
The need for validation and attention from others is driven by several factors:
Evolutionary Perspective: Our ancestors needed group acceptance for survival, and this need is still ingrained in us.
Brain’s Reward System: Positive social interactions release dopamine, making us feel good and encouraging us to seek more validation.
Building Self-Esteem: External validation boosts our self-esteem and makes us feel valued.
Social Identity and Belonging: Being accepted by a group reinforces our sense of belonging and social identity.
Emotional Regulation: Validation helps us manage and soothe our emotions during difficult times.
Understanding these reasons helps explain why we naturally seek and value the approval and attention of others.
JazakAllah sir thank you
Assalam Alaikum Sir, I always learn a lot from your videos, you make very good videos, thank you very much
I watch all your videos but comment occasionally, sometimes you will even pin my comment.😊😊
Thank you, means a lot! Please keep watching and sharing, that boost my energy
Sir meray partner ko adat he oposit jender say bat krny ki .kese choray gi wo ye adaat.
'Mainou ki ' is so cute😅
براہ کرم addiction پر ویڈیو بنائیں
Jis se hum jaan chhorana chahre hain us se kkaesey ignore kare jis ne humey ignore kiya please.I am v mucb disturbed these days because of such behaviour.
1. Usko understand karen and change yourself accordingly. Understand hos school of thought, religion, slow tone likes slow tone, personality, biased labels.
2. Avoid you as he doesn't like your school of thought. Observe him
Can I borrow money from you to book his flight
Develop trust
Understand him from angle
3. Connect with him. Based on his preference. Body language. Kinestic personality love touch so Don't wave while meeting.
Aoa sir .sir app overall bhot achy hy but wat is the secret of ur silky long hair.