Your Stressed Boyfriend Snaps and Goes Too Far [Argument] [Anger] [Fighting] [Apology] [Regret]
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WHEN HE MENTIONED THE PAST RELATIONSHIP I WOULD HAVE PACKED UP MY BAGS AND LEFT 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I would have done the same bro, I'm Aroace. It would take a lot for me to get into a relationship let alone 2 of them just to be reminded of the first failed relationship by a current partner. I would have been throwing punches right then and there ✌️
HONESTLY HOW TO PEOPLE NORMALIZE THIS SHIT??
@Evee E Ik this is completely irrelevant but I love your pfp lol-
@@Sad_StrawberryCat no no tysm
Been there done that 😂
MY JAWW FUCKING DROPPED WHEN HE BOUGHT UP THE PAST RELATIONSHIP 💀💀💀💀💀
FR FR BRO I WOULD HAVE LEFT TO SAVE HIM I SWEAR -
Same.
FR
SO REAL
SAME
“ Oh sorry, did I trigger you? “
Nah these tears in my eyes don’t mean nun
Yeah totally not sobbing from your yelling 😐
Totally not reliving past trama😅😂
Yea my eyes r js sweating
@@Ariel._.276 yeah I’m just shaking physically and apologizing to a screen for no reason
dont mean shi like its anti-dictionary
When you yelled at me I literally started to tear up. I was like “oh.”
Bro same. 😭😭
Me as well 😢😅😂
Samee
Same
FRRR
"what's in the bedroom -"
Ad: "GOOD QUESTION LETS GET INTO IT"
Me: ☠️
NOT THE ADS MAN, NOT THE ADS...
I know lmao 😂
Fr 😭✨️
*faceplant* AD DIE *throws ad out window* All done *dusts off hands* we good now
🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡🗡⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️⚔️🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🗡⚔️🪓🔫
the way i lost my smile and was actually hurt when he said "no wonder your ex broke up with you"
FR.
Fr man
same, i freaking cried
This is why I don't tell people about my problems they’ll sooner or later use it against me😂
Real
Yes. Just, yes
Fr 🙄
SAME
Like FR!😂
Man I would've said 'fuck you' and left. He doesn't deserve these tears.
fr
FR
I would have to I would have said it and left and gone somewhere a park, a bridge, something-
I understand why he snapped but the ex comment 😦..
BRUTALLL
FR
@@hanako-kun157 AND IT WAS SO OUT OF POCKET TOO
@@xsvrqx frrrrr
@@hanako-kun157 THE FUCK YOU DOING OVER HERE HANAKO ⁉️⁉️I CAUGHT YO ASS
My anger issues could NOT 💀💀
I got my dad's anger issues 💀☠️
@@Satanscumsult and our dads, thank u to ours dads☠️
@@Satanscumsult Real I got my mum's anger issues tho.
Why did him yelling at me actually make me cry💀💀💀
LMFAOOO
Idk but same for me
Lmao the second someone tells me to leave them alone I'm outta there, so I was kinda pissed at us too 💀💀
SAME😭
ikr- like give the poor dude space man 😂 ppl need space sometimes from humanity-
Same as heck
Exactly !!!! The listener fucked around and found out
Same bro
As an emotional person i would have cried in an instant, This shows so much about boundaries when he mentioned about the listeners past relationships just drew the line. He was allowed to voice out his opinion, He was allowed to voice his frustration but it is never okay to bring up one's past trauma into the table just because your frustrated, Both of them are in the wrong I'm not being. biased.
'^'
💗Please read all and give me your opinion💗
"About the argument"
I know that people can blow at any time when they're angry, on those comments a lot of people say they'd probably end up the relationship if it happened to them but I'm still trying to figure out what should be done in that situation, because isn't it what love is about ? Love, forgiveness, respect, caring ? We all concerned he really was disrespectful with his lover, also we have the information that's not what he truly feels but an enormous error , he was upset and just blew into someone who didn't deserve it. When he realizes his mistake he goes ask for forgiveness and the lover don't forgive immediately but let him explain himself and they talk bout that. Maybe the point is that he is really sorry for what he did and that's why they didn't broke up, their love and the way they were clear about their feelling, wouldn't let all the love and memories go to dust, just cause of an error.
@@whyu-oq3du I completely agree with you and your opinion.
Anger is an emotional outburst that sometimes we can’t control, especially when stressed.
It won’t be surprising when a person instantly say something as hurtful as that when they are angry, The only thing He can do in this situation is to *apologize* and be *understanding* towards listener.
What I find intriguing is the fact that people instantly take quick action without straightforward thinking. Although, I guess the comment’s Reaction to this is no surprise as well, I mean, he instantly said something that could potentially hurt the listener emotionally.
(Not defending the speaker here, he was in the wrong too)
Same
@@whyu-oq3duyeah
When he mentioned the past relationship, I would've just leave and pack my things. Saying something like "no wonder why they broke up with you", I would think it was their way of breaking up with me.
“No wonder why he broke up with you” NAURRRR💀💀
"no wonder why your ex broke up with you"
Me: i-
my sister: DAMN *getting serious and roasting the wall*
me: *literally dying laughing*
LOL
LoL
NAH-
Bro bought up the ex.....My bags are already packed
WHEN HE BROUGHT UP THE PAST RELATIONSHIP AND STARTED YELLING I SWEAR TO GOD I WAS COVERING MY MOUTH I THOUGHT I WAS GONNA GET PUNCHED GOD SAVE ALL OF US
man when he said that we're too clingy 😔 hurts my little meow meow
Your "meow meow"? We don't judge
@@oliviamota5540 I MEANT MY HEART IT'S NOT LIKE THAT I SWEAR- 😭
Oml my dirty mind💀💀💀
Woah wdym by that 😭
@@cassiocrux185 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨
Imagine he got up to the attic and just saw us getting possessed by a demon 💀
Just a friendly reminder that this is all fine for fantasy, but if someone talks to you like this seriously in real life, you should definitely break up with them and run far away. ❤️ Definitely one for the "toxic" tag.
agreed 👍
I agree
I would have walked out that door the minute he raised his voice at me
idk ab you lot but as soon as someone tells me to leave them alone cause they aren’t in the mood i leave them alone. and if i don’t then whatever happens after (not hitting) happens. it’s the consequences of my actions
@@itzray45 no no like yeah respect peoples space. But they should absolutely never use someone’s secret against them. “Fuck off or “god, just leave me alone” is more than enough lol, never bring up anything the person told you in confidentiality.
Besides, there was a bubble bath. Insults weren’t thrown by the person so there’s absolutely no need to use their past hurt against them.
YOU CAN'T IMAGINE HOW MUCH I F* CRIED, THIS IS AMAZING
I CRIED ASWELL BRO I WAS HAVING A WHOLE BREAKDOWN 😭
SAMEE😭😭😭😭😭
Fr 😅
I CRIED SMMMM
yeah I'm crying right now as well
If my boyfriend snapped at me like this, I would have started crying immediately. I was already in a really toxic relationship before my current one and it absolutely traumatized me, if he brought it up, I would have probably had an anxiety attack. I’d probably forgive him but Jesus Christ, something like this would scar me.
I can so relate with your situation
MY JAW DISLOCATED WHEN HE TALKED ABOUT THE LAST RELATIONSHIP- 😨💀
why y'all mad about the listener? ok, I know that when I ask to be alone, I like to be alone. But I'm also that clingy kind of person. In this situation, the listener knew that their partner was in a bad mood recently, they were just excited to show him their surprise to cheer him up. It's their love language, their way to show him were inconsiderate but nothing mean. They were both in wrong, but still 😔 I'M STILL CRYING ABOUT THE EX'S PART because everyday I'm so scared that my future (yeah because I'm still single-) boyfriend will break up with me because I'm that kind of person who can be very clingy.
Fr tho
the listener should know bounderies. they broke a boundary for their own sake. that isn’t a loving partner. you’re love language doesn’t come before your partners emotions.
so if ur partner tells you to leave them alone doesn’t matter WHAT you want to do with them LEAVE THEM ALONE
@@itzray45 Leaving your partner alone when angry isn’t always the best choice, even when they tell you to. I completely see both sides, and if I were to choose a side, it’d definitely be the listener’s. Trying to cheer your partner up is NOT crossing a boundary at all.
@@CRYCITIZED when your partner is very obviously upset it IS best to leave them alone. idk who told you it isn’t? it’s always better to let them calm down THEN pry them on how they are feeling. not as they are in the middle of it. when someone tells you to LEAVE THEM ALONE. then LEAVE THEM ALONE. they are clearly telling you to leave them be because they aren’t in the right mind to deal with people. MEANING THEY ARE IRRATIONAL.
Truthfully I can agree with both parts. In some cases, leaving someone who is mad alone could make them feel even worse even when they ask to be left alone. In the case of this video though, it's the opposite. It's also important to know not to ask too many times if someone is okay in these situations. Ask a few times, like three or four at most, then tell them about anything you have that could make them feel better before leaving them alone as they've asked. I know that when I feel mad, I at least want company even if I say for everyone to leave me alone. That company and knowing I feel heard about my angers makes me feel better faster than if I was alone. Like I said before though, this isn't the case for everyone.
1. I hate being yelled at and yet I listen to these kind of asmr on a regular basis TvT
2. I don't blame him for snapping. When one of my friends or family members are upset I tend to go to far in trying to help them and I end up making it worse
(Edit: being to clingy is one of my biggest insecurities so when he said something about the listener getting broken up with cause of that I started crying a little because that's happened to me before. (By the way i'm not trying to get any sympathy, and yes I know it's my fault for listening to it when I could have clicked off the video)
Same
@@nicknio9836 nice 👍
I’ve never related to a comment more in my life
@@yukidelightaudios819 damn
As a neurodivergent person i infact can not read the room
So this was actually spot on
oh holy s*** when they brought up the clingy part my mouth DROPPED maybe i’m too feisty cause that would NOT fly
ikr i’d start throwing hands
Were going shoppingggg~ for a new knife
No, no u stay the way you are❤
STOP WHEN IT WAS THE "Whats in the bed room..?" I GOT A STARBUCKS AD😭😭😭😭
I GOTTA TEMU AD💀
WHEN HE MENTIONED THE PAST RELATIONSHIP.. I WOULD WALKED OUT THE ROOM AND BYE
He got me shaking dude🥲💀 I was fighting my wall💀
Me: *he won't yell that loud*
Him: *actually yells loudly*
Me starts to cry uncontrollably😅
Him : "where could they be?"
Me : "in the attic"
Him : "theyre not in the attic are they"
Me : "HAH I CALLED"
Yep. We would be broken up the very moment he started yelling. I can't handle people yelling at me.
When he brought up the last bf it fucking hit so hard, my ex broke up with me bc im ‘clingy’ and ‘childish’
I've never dated someone in my life and i feel like crying cause he said that 😭😭
WHEN HE BRUNG UP THE PAST RELATIONSHIP I FLIPPED OF THE SCREEN
I was to stunned by his yelling to process to be able to do that
I really did the same thing this video reminded me of my ex and I later found on our 6 months of dating he was cheated on me with my now ex best friend
@@raelynnhart5696 geez Im sorry that happened-
@@lizzy.lucky7 they both are toxic and they blame everything on me even though I did not do anything
We fr are really annoying I totally understand the snapping💀
yea- i do think the ex comment was as unnecessary- but i totally understand- as someone who has anger issues, ive done worse
Yes cause if someone told you to leave them alone then you immediately leave them alone. That ex boyfriend comment was seriously unrelated and unnecessary tbh.
Bruh I get snapping but bringing up the ex is too much.. why do some people excuse it? 💀😭😰
Imagine he didn’t know something about the ex and it ended up going worse, this is why this could get so bad so fast (also it’s just plain awful wtaf 😭)
Ok. That was awesome. Listener is so persistant and i dont get it why like he says leave me alone. I would be upset too if i was her but still. YET, HAHAHA BOY, YOU DIDNT BRING UP THEIR EX 💀 I WAS LIKE WE SHOULD BREAK UP, WTF??
FR
Some people have slow brains and some don't think before they do
ONG
the way i screamed back at my phone when he started talking about the clinginess and the last relationship
"no wonder why he broke up with u"
:(
I don't blame him but bring up someone's past relationship is just to much
I mean I can't really blame him for snapping. When someone tells you they need space and to leave them alone just leave.
Edit :
For the delusional people who refuse to take any accountability for their actions and realize that they're not the victim in every situation, here is how many times he said he wants to be alone before he brought up the ex, for 2 whole mins he was literally begging to be left alone.
1) I'd rather be alone rn please
2) I really wanna be alone rn
3) can u just leave me be
4) honey,... Please leave me alone
5) * he started to get more angry* I just wanna be left alone
6) I want some space
7) please please for the love of! Leave me tf alone
8) you're not helping my situation here
9) I can't fucking deal with this rn
10) no you can't sit and think with me
11) can you leave me the hell alone for just a min.
When someone, whether it's your partner or a friend or anyone else, is overwhelmed and at their limit, and they ask you to leave them alone (especially if they say it more than once), yet you still choose to push and keep pushing until they break and snap, and then you wanna play the little innocent victim who didn't do anything wrong, then you have to realize you're toxic and manipulative and YOU owe them a sincere apology.
If you think the listener did nothing wrong and "was trying to help" then you're either too young and still have a lot of growing up to do or you're an adult who lack emotional maturity and self awareness.
personally this was a 50/50. He had all the right to be mad but that doesn’t mean he had to say those things about Listener’s past relationship
@@turiipipipturi agreed.
I don’t think he should’ve talked about their ex like that but its also their fault because sometimes, people dont need comfort. They need space. i know that d@mn well myself. when someone asks you for space, you give it to them. because at that point, their human tolerance is up and they need space from you so they don’t snap-
i mean that really doesnt give the other person the right to snap at someone
You're right. At some point I just said to listener "bro, just drop it"
Yeah but that with the ex was a bit..meh. like think that ur lover sayes that in ur face. How would u reakt?
I wad speechless when he said this is why your ex left you
I can’t believe this is still being debated.
Y’all saying that the listener deserved that? You ARE red flags.
It is stated in the audio “they opened up to me about their ex” confirming what was already obvious, trauma.
Being broken up with because you’re “too clingy” translates to: “You’re too much” “you should change in order to be loved” “you don’t deserve love because of who you are”. That is a SUPER traumatic experience.
Was the Listener being pushy? Yes, they were.
Should they have left the Speaker alone? Yes, they should have.
Was the Speaker rightfully angry? Yes, he was.
HOWEVER.
It doesn’t matter how angry you are at someone you never, and I mean NEVER, use their trauma against them.
Was the Speaker allowed to be angry? Yes. He was allowed to be angry, to yell, to cuss and be mean. I would have been able to even justify him being a bit hurtful.
But using a traumatic experience against someone that confide in you with it is Crossing the line in a way I can’t even describe.
Because what this Listener heard when he said “no wonder he broke up with you” wasn’t: “You are pushing too hard”.
They heard: “You ARE too much” “you HAVE to change to be loved” “You DO NOT deserve to be loved because of who you are”.
Was the Listener being too pushy and they should have stopped insisting? Yes.
Did they deserve to have their trauma used against them by the person they trusted it with? No. ABSOLUTELY NOT.
End of discussion.
Edit: Because I just gave up having a conversation with some clearly toxic people in other comments I ask for all of you to stay safe. Anyone saying this to you is wrong but obviously not a big deal if handled properly, growth can happen from both sides if both parties are willing to make their relationship and coping mechanisms work together so that bad behaviour doesn’t trigger a worse response. Anyone, however, insisting that your trauma isn’t real or valid or trying to convince you that you’re manipulative for having emotions? Yeah. Run away.
They be outing themselves like the red flags they are in this comment section.
SMH.
Slay
Imma tell you the same thing I told them.
Please stop engaging, it’s not healthy, it’s not helpful.
Just stop.
Don’t reply no more.
@@denkikaminari6943 Nothin’ like a good ol, cup of “I read all that live” in order to just block them.
Hey, props to you for trying.
@@mintmax4707 I am like actually, literally tired. Like physically, like I’m-
Just like in the audio everyone is in the wrong for something different.
You, and them and everyone that keeps arguing about it and taking it too far one way or the other.
Damn, dude.
I agree with this side of the comments more tho, so I think I was setting myself up for disaster.
@@denkikaminari6943 I won’t go back to that argument specifically but like, Reddit has done worse to me.
As for you, yeah, take your own advice, just ignore and move on.
The fact that I flinched when he yelled-
Same
I don't even have an ex but I'm crying 💀
THE MOMENT HE STARTED CURSING I WAS LIKE 😦😟🫢😰
reality dreams had every right to be pissed at our invasiveness, but bringing up past trauma, knowing its mean is unacceptable. they were both in the wrong, and both could have and should have done differently during this argument.
ONG
Yes. There it is. The emotions. Yep. It's 100% there. I can feel it through your amazing voice. This is exactly the reason i never get tired or bored when i listen to this channel ♡
i just witnessed a roach commit suicide 💀
If you don’t become a voice actor… that’s what I call wasted potential. You are so good, especially in imitading emotions! You’ve been my fav VA for so long. Keep up the good work, I’m sure it will pay off!
him bringing up the last relationship oml flashbacks
WHEN HE STARTED TALKING ABOUT PAST RELATIONSHIPS I WOULD'VE THREW HANDS FR
LOL THIS CRACKED ME UP😂
Dude got my crying 💀
💀💀
I both understand the snapping but I'm someone who just tries to help so definitely in character for me to overstep boundaries
1:17 He shouted me?! 😑🩴
Boyfriend: LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE!
Me: ok, fine then! **packs up my bags**
Boyfriend: wait, im sorry!
Me: yeah no **leaves**
when he no wonder why he broke up with you
me singing dumb way's to die 😂
Him: are u crying?
Me: just crying??? No bruh i was planning on finding a sharp object, and saying "no baby its okay now I'll never be clingy to you.. or anyone else"..
😂 fr tho i know ill try to do that😅😂
Why is everyone getting defensive😃 ITS A VIDEO😭
Dude me here crying over this audio and then a goddamn ad shows up like 'NEW BEEF FOR ONLY 4.99-" ☠️☠️
2:00 MY JAW DROPPED 😭
ikr like god d@mn- 😂
Same 😭
Fr
goddamn i couldnt stop crying when he brought up the “past” relationship oh damn
Use my trauma as a weapon and tell me not to cry, I’d probably become pissed.
part of me is apologizing over and over but the other part is calling him a fuckwad and cussing him out
I love it!
Not the past relationship 💀
When u said "have u not learned ur lesson from last time?" I felt some pain in my chest and immediately got sad.I'm okay thanks of the ending now.Good videos u make.❤❤
LMAO THE EX PART THAT WAS SO TRUE I CANNOT😭
Bro just because you brought up the past relationship, yes, yes I would’ve jumped through the attic floor
I love how I can cry on command to make this feel more real 😂
SAMEE😭😭😭
@@salmazihri7069 😂😂😂👏👏
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Until we meet again
me: just yelled at
The ad:this game is very threatening
I would be like "so what I'm clingy you signed up for this when you started dating me I'm not stuck with you your stuck with me"
That’s toxic
@@SparklingGlitterCookie 😂 it's toxic but true
him: *mentions why my ex broke up with me*
me in reality: *tears up*
all i can say is DAMN both that ex comment and ur VA work blowed my mind
That ex thing literally happened to me like jeez
I hate being yelled at it makes me flinch, but I like da video ^-^ 😁
when someone tell you to leave them alone, stop being pushy and leave them tf alone. sometimes people are just overwhelmed and wants to calm down alone. i get why he is snapping. i don’t blame him for snapping but he is wrong for using someone’s trauma like that. both people fucked up here
Ok but fr when he said "i need to be alone right now" i would've said "oh sure, i'm sorry, take your time, i'll be in (room) when you need me"
No wonder he snaps like that when i keep getting on his nerves further 💀
When he said I was to clingy just made me cry this is literally the reason why I have no friends any more cause I'm apparently "clingy" when I give then all the space they need ☹
When he said*no wonder he broke up with you*
Me:i cant help if im clingy so you have to deal with it love :[
My sister:wth is going on:/
Why did I bawl my eyes out at the past relationship part?- I NEVER WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP BEFORE- 😭💀
No, when you said something about being to clingy and my ex breaking up with me that hit hard.
My guy thst was too far...broo that was to far...like i was acually crying and i never cry when i watch these things
*Me watching the part where he is finally appologising*
*Me getting a Lululemon ad*
AUGHHHHHHH MAMA😤😡
Bro really said that...
BRO WHEN HE STARTED CRYING I WAS LIKE: OH NO 😭 and started crying
I understand the snapping and all cuz we do sound like we push to much but the whole bringing up the past relationship would not slide, when I tell you my jaw dropped tho. 🙊
*sniff* nah bro I'm not crying..*sniff* ...I'm cosplaying as a waterfall-
I feel like i would be out the front door after he yelled at me😭
NOT ME LISTENING TO THIS AND SMILING FOR SOME REASON😭 (is it just me or... )?
No oddly its me too
If my bf (if I had one) said abt the past I would be like :
*OH HELL NO YOU DIDN'T JUST FREAKING SAID THAT*
Him: You’re smaller than me.
Me being 5’2 and being 16 years old: For f*cks sake-
hes actually an amazing actor
Nah see I’m conflicted now 😭😭 bc I get the whole personal space thing bc I’m introverted as hell, but at a point I’m like “ok I get you’re pissed at me, but fuck you for bringing up my past like that-”
True tho...
Is this something normal people do? Press when someone is clearly angry? I was getting nauseous from the hypothetical situation as soon as the video started lmao. Def would’ve left the room almost immediately😂
i listen to arguing and yelling audios knowing it triggers me and every time i just cry 😭
I fell asleep and woke up to a guy screaming at me fro being clingy😭now I’m pissed