How to Create Boundaries With Friends of the Opposite Sex + Trusting Each Other

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  • Опубліковано 9 лип 2024
  • Let's talk about friendships again, but from a different light. I'll be discussing friends of the opposite sex while in a serious relationship.
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  • @ArmaniRae
    @ArmaniRae Рік тому +7

    I totally agree to all your points!
    Like people think enforcing boundaries is even a sign of jealousy and I am always lost.

    • @Oyinbrandy
      @Oyinbrandy  Рік тому +2

      It’s not a sign of jealousy neither is it insecurities, it’s normal 🥹🥹

  • @nathanielikhagbode7897
    @nathanielikhagbode7897 Рік тому +11

    Pastor B this has to be one of my favourite videos so far, I feel like the topic of boundaries really starts from self awareness and knowing how your thoughts and actions can affect your partners and friends. Cause if you aren’t even aware of what you’re doing or not doing in relation to how it affects your partner, when the topic of boundaries is brought up, it’ll look like doing too much

  • @ademolaifeoluwa3145
    @ademolaifeoluwa3145 Рік тому +8

    I'm not married or in a relationship yet but these boundaries you highlighted has taught me a lot....

  • @ajayielizabeth220
    @ajayielizabeth220 Рік тому +7

    💃💃💃Tolulope solution et Brandy...love you both absolutely. I am not married and as someone who has many male friends I walk and work with, I feel like we should always remind our partners of the boundaries immediately you can catch sth.
    Also I think on the other hand the third party, while trying to be vulnerable with the opposite sex who are our friends, we should also consider our dear sisters(or brothers).
    And be reminded that we will also be be sitting in that position someday and you don't want that happening to you, right.
    This is coming from the basic love principle: Love your neighbour as yourself.
    I am talking too much, let me come and continue my watch😂

    • @Oyinbrandy
      @Oyinbrandy  Рік тому +1

      Sis!!!!! You said it soo well!!! It’s just to be considerate of people 🔥💜

  • @feyiogun
    @feyiogun Рік тому +5

    Pastor Brandy dropping gems😭😭. Such an important topic. Couldn’t have said it better❤️❤️

  • @feyiogun
    @feyiogun Рік тому +5

    Not 35 seconds plus😂😂😂. But truly why are you hugging for that long

  • @oluomachukwuibeto5919
    @oluomachukwuibeto5919 Рік тому +4

    I have never thought about spiritual boundaries, great insight. I love that these boundaries is not just for him or for you but something that applies to both. Love thisss !!!

    • @Oyinbrandy
      @Oyinbrandy  Рік тому

      Thank you darling !!! Spiritual boundaries are real ooo

  • @TomiTomato
    @TomiTomato Рік тому +1

    Omg I watched this a couple days ago but that spiritual boundaries part has just been hitting me again and again since then🤯I feel like I didn't deep it until you said it, because when I think of praying I think it's something the body of Christ does. I never thought of it in a romantic context as per merging two spirits together lowkey🤯🤯 wow wow wow, so profound. Really enjoyed this video

  • @MichealJm3luv
    @MichealJm3luv Рік тому +4

    I like the point about emotional cheating. It's very much a thing. Thanks for this conversation

  • @Deborah_Bako
    @Deborah_Bako Рік тому +2

    I immediately remembered Tolulope Solutions as I saw this and I was so glad more people are talking about it. I think we're forgetting that word exists. God bless you and keep you!

    • @Oyinbrandy
      @Oyinbrandy  Рік тому

      Amennn! Thank you darling 🤍

  • @oreoluwaafolabi3636
    @oreoluwaafolabi3636 Рік тому +2

    I loveeeeee your videos and this one is definitely one of my fave cos people be making it seem like having boundaries is doing too much like nooo you just need to learn to respect what others want

  • @oreoluwaakinyele6029
    @oreoluwaakinyele6029 Рік тому +2

    I agree, why are you speaking to my partner for over 2hours, what are you saying. I never knew spiritual boundaries exist and I learnt a lot from it. Thank you Pastor B

  • @Dee_Smiley
    @Dee_Smiley Рік тому +2

    I love this video a lot❤️ one part that cracked me up was when you said have you prayed this morning? and you want to talk to someone else 😂😂

    • @Oyinbrandy
      @Oyinbrandy  Рік тому

      Exactly!!! Have they prayed oo😂😂

  • @ademolaifeoluwa3145
    @ademolaifeoluwa3145 Рік тому +2

    Yayyy new video 💃💃❤️

  • @UCHECHI.
    @UCHECHI. Рік тому +2

    Fr you should be the first on your partners mind.

  • @salewa2306
    @salewa2306 Рік тому +2

    It’s not fair oo, this whole time. Happy to see you again! 😊😊

  • @nathanielikhagbode7897
    @nathanielikhagbode7897 Рік тому +7

    Haven’t even finished the video and pastor B is preaching 👌🏾

  • @odogbilitreasure4828
    @odogbilitreasure4828 Рік тому +2

    Such an important topic I really loved the spiritual boundary part it was explained beautifully❤❤.Thank you pastor Brandy🥹❤️

  • @michelleagbim9598
    @michelleagbim9598 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful as always

  • @adetomiwaadewuyi
    @adetomiwaadewuyi Рік тому +1

    I really enjoyed this video! Can't wait for more videos like this

  • @amarachukwuadiele4832
    @amarachukwuadiele4832 Рік тому +1

    Spiritual boundary 🤔, my first time hearing this. Thanks, Oyin I learned a lot

  • @catherineasare4013
    @catherineasare4013 Рік тому

    I totally agree with you 💯💯💯💯
    Boundaries are really important

  • @kanyinsolaajayi7313
    @kanyinsolaajayi7313 Рік тому +1

    This was definitely beautiful to watch. Spot on points 💯💯. God bless you 💐

  • @Dr.Ayotola_
    @Dr.Ayotola_ Рік тому +2

    So spot on!
    Thank you for this Video Pastor Brandy❤️
    Yesssss, spiritual intimacy is a thing and there’s attraction in anointing oh 😁🔥

  • @reyaluko
    @reyaluko Рік тому +2

    And yes ... emotional cheating is real , I don’t know why people argue about it

  • @itolajide2740
    @itolajide2740 Рік тому +2

    This video was soooo good,
    I agree with everything you said

  • @atashajordan
    @atashajordan Рік тому +2

    Spell it out sis!!

  • @reyaluko
    @reyaluko Рік тому

    This was very insightful.... things that need to be said and done .... yessss . Love it

  • @isitthatdeep_
    @isitthatdeep_ Місяць тому

    Yes very important

  • @omahchris60
    @omahchris60 Рік тому +2

    I agreeee

  • @abolajilawal3126
    @abolajilawal3126 10 місяців тому

    yes oh my sister

  • @abayomiolugbemiga1547
    @abayomiolugbemiga1547 6 місяців тому

    I believe self control should come to play, especially as Pastors. If a Pastor follows some of these boundaries, ministry would be too difficult...lol

  • @abayomiolugbemiga1547
    @abayomiolugbemiga1547 6 місяців тому

    Madam, you too jealous ooo. Some of these boundaries sef. If your husband dey counsel opposite sex for 5 hours nko?