My parents are that way unfortunately they refuse to admit to any of the abuse they put us through and there was definitely a lot of abuse whether it be drug abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse, verbal abuse, neglect..... They always come back to while your childhoods were better than my childhood so you must have not had it that bad... Maybe it's a coping mechanism for their own guilt or to keep their sanity but whatever the case sometimes you just got to accept that's who they are and you'll have to determine for yourself whether it's less toxic to keep them in your lives or remove them from it.
Narcisists always do that, always lie. They can break a mirror in front of u and next second tell u they have no idea who broke the mirror and that they didn`t even touch it and u are being histerical and seeing things lol.
Those two children need to be away from their abusive mom they need to be with a family who loves them that mom it’s absolutely crazy but sadly a lot of black homes are like this as a matter fact there’s been a study confirming that African-American parents are way more authoritarian
She’s more than weird, she’s a monster. She had trauma from her own abuse and turned into a monster as well instead of overcoming it and protecting her kids. Sometimes people let trauma make them weaker, sometimes stronger.
I broke the chain of abuse that my father, my grandmother went through. I flat out refused to treat my children as my parents treated me. They constantly took their bad mood/day out on me as a child. I felt like a punching bag, looking bag. I'm now reaping the rewards, we have a fantastic relationship. I feel I've been blessed. 🙌🙌🙌♥️🇨🇦
Same. I refuse to perpetrate the same abuse I suffered on my children. The issues I’ve had to deal with FOR LIFE I refuse to allow my children to suffer that. We know better so we should do better
The crazy thing about this is that authoritarian/abusive parents think that beating their children into compliance will prevent them from going to prison sadly it does the exact opposite
The VAST majority of abused and neglected children are never removed from parental care. Even if other adults, such as teachers, identify the children as victims it doesn’t mean they meet criteria to be put into foster care.
Essentially she’s saying she could have killed them but she didn’t so they should be grateful. Also, the only value she sees in him is as them being her “seed.” She’s an absolute sociopath and I hope that those kids one day find peace.
My mother did the same... Crazy the only reason we didn't go to foster care is because my brother, sister and myself didn't want to be separated... We loved each other.
My mother used to beat me everyday, i would have loved to go into foster care but i was not classed as at risk even thou i used to go to school with sores and marks all down the back of my legs. Sometimes i couldn't even sit down without being in pain. Sorry you had to stay where you were, i was an only child. The only thing i can say that came from it is that i have learnt not to rely on anyone.
"You're not abused, abused people are dead or in foster homes, where are you now?" "You're not sick, sick people are in hospitals, you're not in a hospital" Nice logic lol
She’s a horrible mother why would she Beat her kids because they are “evil twins “ and “chucky and his bride “ she literally put him in jail like what type of mother is she 😐
It’s sad that my mom has said some of the things this woman has. She’s wrong about abused children being dead or in foster homes. Some have nowhere else to go so they have to deal with it. Until they eventually find a way out.
I wish I could hug them both. When her daughter described how her female donor called her fat and ugly and that it must be true if her own mother would say it. I wish I could wrap her in my arms and tell her she is beautiful and she is special because she’s the only one of her, she’s unique and her perfect just the way she is. Poor baby 🤗
@@craycraymckay.1535 I'm sorry 😞 I grew up with an abusive toxic mother & my father was abusive but he left. I vowed when I had my own children, I'd fight to my grave to never have them feel the way my mom made me feel. There isn't an excuse a parent can spit to me to excuse abusing their own children or any child for that fact. They know how it feels & they know the pain it causes. It won't always be like this hun, take a deep breath & know whatever is said or happens between your parents *IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT & YOU ARE NOT TO BLAME* Don't let them & what they say make you believe you play any part in their issues. Take a deep breath. You're strong & intelligent & can clearly see & decipher where the problem lies. Know it won't always be this way & one day you're going to be the light another person needs to help them through their bleak times. Hang in there 💜💙❤
How horrible. I don't see how a mother can physically, emotionally & verbally not just abuse their children but scar them for life. Really makes me sad for the son & daughter. I have two son's & twin daughters & let me tell you what, it makes me want to cry just thinking of hurting them in this way. He's grown up to be such a respectful man & his sister a beautiful loving but very broken woman. They love her & that speaks volumes She's abused her right as a mother & isn't deserving of their love & affection let alone bless her with their presence in my opinion. I hope & pray they are doing okay today & know they are worthy of not only love but worth not being abused anymore by their controlling narcssstic demonic mother.
Wow. God bless these two amazing siblings. My heart breaks for Kiara. No mother who has lost a child should EVER have to hear the disgusting words that she heard from her own mother. Absolutely heartbreaking. 💔
I apologize for thinking you were lying. I mean it just seems so far fetched & unreal😂I guess my heart didn't want to believe & accept the fact that the algorithm was so cruel & relentless. Talk about a huge slap in the face geeze
2:10 I’m a survivor of child abuse, I used to be physically abused and today I am still going through verbal abuse from my dad’s side of the family, I was never put in foster, and I’m still alive. This woman is a terrible abusive mother, she’s proof some people don’t deserve kids. If anything she’s abused her kids more than I was abused.
Seems like these two turned out pretty good despite being raised by a narcissist. Honestly though I hope the two get some counseling to help realize how awesome they both are and gain some self worth. ❤️
OMG her kids are dead inside. You can tell they buried that abuse deep inside. Esp the son. He always gives a caveat when reporting her abuse. She's lucky her kids somehow have the patience and kindness of a saint.
This woman is a monster. She admits to beating her children and says they weren’t abused because she didn’t kill them? Because they weren’t in foster care and they’re still alive? That’s despicable.
This mom is abusive and very immature referencing as her children as chucky how odd. I think mom may have an thiroid issue as her neck doesn't look right maybe if she does that's her problem of being out of control. No excuses here I hate this for her grown children.
Typical of abusive parents. My sister tried standing up at age 67 to our mom. Of course my mom used it to try and gain sympathy. “She’s going to cause me to have another stroke . She’s always been a trouble maker since the day she was born. “. I tried to stand up for my sister but it didn’t go well .
She never said that ,Teresa is my grandmother she helped my mother raise me she has never failed to raise me she has been stabbed in the head she has been raped and dr phill has edited the words and what they said our family is perfect and operating very well
I feel so very badly for these two! I can't believe what she has said to you both...I can't imagine, as a mom, telling my kids ANY OF THAT! We all get frustrated, angry and upset, but there is NO excuse for the awful things she has said to them!
I’ve been trying to have a relationship with my nieces and nephews (in the video) for the past few years like we used to have, but my sister blocks us from conversing and says it’s them but why not give them my number? But it was all good when they were teens and we supported and showed up to various events! I miss them! Teresa is a reflection of our father and it’s sad
I have a Grown daughter with BPD. The last 4 times I've been around her. She was straight up was abusive to me. Sometimes we have to distance ourselves. Even if it's from your own child. Didn't insult her back or become abusive back! You are the adult here.
It's messed up how these parents always wanna make their kids out to be the bad ones. Well Gee we learn from our enviornments right ? So you're gonna immitate what you see . This chick needs to be accountable .
It really bothers me when parents treat their children incorrectly then “forget” doing so when the kids reach adulthood.
My parents are that way unfortunately they refuse to admit to any of the abuse they put us through and there was definitely a lot of abuse whether it be drug abuse, physical abuse, sexual abuse, verbal abuse, neglect..... They always come back to while your childhoods were better than my childhood so you must have not had it that bad... Maybe it's a coping mechanism for their own guilt or to keep their sanity but whatever the case sometimes you just got to accept that's who they are and you'll have to determine for yourself whether it's less toxic to keep them in your lives or remove them from it.
This is why I'll never confront my mother on how she ruined me with her emotional abuse.
Definitely my mom
Or they realize something happened but blame someone or something else to shift blame
Narcisists always do that, always lie. They can break a mirror in front of u and next second tell u they have no idea who broke the mirror and that they didn`t even touch it and u are being histerical and seeing things lol.
Her abuse aged those children.
Glad you saw it too. They look just as old as her because of it.
How sad 😞
How old are they?
parents like her will never understand why what they did damaged their children
It’s a pattern more than likely. Probably was the same with her parents and they just don’t realize it
@@calebriggins5628 not always. Some people are just downright evil
“When my children tell me they’ve been abused, I laugh” that statement says everything about her as a human being.
Stomach churning
it's so stomach-turning how abusive creeps like the mom always PREACH instead of just being able to talk like a normal human
omg yes
It's their narcissistism. They feel they ARE god, and they ALWAYS know best.
Those two children need to be away from their abusive mom they need to be with a family who loves them that mom it’s absolutely crazy but sadly a lot of black homes are like this as a matter fact there’s been a study confirming that African-American parents are way more authoritarian
Whoa ... "You're not dead, so I didn't abuse you." Uh, what?
The mother says i could do worst but i didnt
Then you know the mother is weird
She’s more than weird, she’s a monster. She had trauma from her own abuse and turned into a monster as well instead of overcoming it and protecting her kids. Sometimes people let trauma make them weaker, sometimes stronger.
Worse!
Right? 👀😵
Like who says “I coulda killed u”
Oh nah
I broke the chain of abuse that my father, my grandmother went through. I flat out refused to treat my children as my parents treated me. They constantly took their bad mood/day out on me as a child. I felt like a punching bag, looking bag. I'm now reaping the rewards, we have a fantastic relationship. I feel I've been blessed. 🙌🙌🙌♥️🇨🇦
Amen.
Same. I refuse to perpetrate the same abuse I suffered on my children. The issues I’ve had to deal with FOR LIFE I refuse to allow my children to suffer that. We know better so we should do better
I don't understand why this concept is so hard for people to get.. instead, they just let the generational curse of abuse live on
The crazy thing about this is that authoritarian/abusive parents think that beating their children into compliance will prevent them from going to prison sadly it does the exact opposite
"Most abused children are dead or in a foster home" whaaaaaat in tarnation
Most abused children are with their parent(s) being abused everyday
The VAST majority of abused and neglected children are never removed from parental care. Even if other adults, such as teachers, identify the children as victims it doesn’t mean they meet criteria to be put into foster care.
@@sassycat6487 That's one of the horrifying things of the COVID Lockdown/Quarantine.
Exactly. There are plenty of us who have worked hard in our journey in healing from the abuse and prosper.
Essentially she’s saying she could have killed them but she didn’t so they should be grateful. Also, the only value she sees in him is as them being her “seed.” She’s an absolute sociopath and I hope that those kids one day find peace.
“Abused children, most of them are dead, or in a graveyard” and some of them are sitting right here on the Dr. Phil show. What a monster.
She's insanely delusional. I feel so bad for her kids. May they have healing and pride in their cycle breaking.
*Literally admits to beating her children*
“They say I abuse them and I say how?”
Girl WHATTT
My mother did the same... Crazy the only reason we didn't go to foster care is because my brother, sister and myself didn't want to be separated... We loved each other.
My mother used to beat me everyday, i would have loved to go into foster care but i was not classed as at risk even thou i used to go to school with sores and marks all down the back of my legs. Sometimes i couldn't even sit down without being in pain. Sorry you had to stay where you were, i was an only child. The only thing i can say that came from it is that i have learnt not to rely on anyone.
I am so sorry you both went through that... You both didn't deserve that and many adults failed you. I hope you both can find healing.💙💙
Praying for healing for the both of you! Neither of you deserved to be treated like that❤❤
"You're not abused, abused people are dead or in foster homes, where are you now?"
"You're not sick, sick people are in hospitals, you're not in a hospital"
Nice logic lol
She’s a horrible mother why would she Beat her kids because they are “evil twins “ and “chucky and his bride “ she literally put him in jail like what type of mother is she 😐
"I've did a round house karate kick in his chest"
Haha wtf?! Where do you find these people Dr Phil??? 🙀 Haha
Merica
Ya... and yet, after stating thus, she still claims she was not abusive...🙄
Lol
It’s sad that my mom has said some of the things this woman has. She’s wrong about abused children being dead or in foster homes. Some have nowhere else to go so they have to deal with it. Until they eventually find a way out.
This is a version of my mom. Years and years of therapy and I’m just getting healthy.
I wish I could hug them both. When her daughter described how her female donor called her fat and ugly and that it must be true if her own mother would say it. I wish I could wrap her in my arms and tell her she is beautiful and she is special because she’s the only one of her, she’s unique and her perfect just the way she is. Poor baby 🤗
She’s “Mommie Dearest” 😳
Facts 😳
Yep. Them wire hangers are back.
@@kenyettaready NO WIRE HANGERS EVER!
@@kathn5509 lmao 😆 CHRISTINA! NO
WIRE
HANGERS!
Abusive mothers are worse than an absent father.
I have both sadly
@@craycraymckay.1535 same, and she’s feels that since he left that cancels out her being abusive towards me. It’s sick
@@craycraymckay.1535 I'm sorry 😞 I grew up with an abusive toxic mother & my father was abusive but he left. I vowed when I had my own children, I'd fight to my grave to never have them feel the way my mom made me feel. There isn't an excuse a parent can spit to me to excuse abusing their own children or any child for that fact. They know how it feels & they know the pain it causes. It won't always be like this hun, take a deep breath & know whatever is said or happens between your parents *IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT & YOU ARE NOT TO BLAME* Don't let them & what they say make you believe you play any part in their issues. Take a deep breath. You're strong & intelligent & can clearly see & decipher where the problem lies. Know it won't always be this way & one day you're going to be the light another person needs to help them through their bleak times. Hang in there 💜💙❤
@@lms4712 thank you for that. Very well spoken.
Try having a absent emotionally abuseive father
Get that toxic person out of your life. Immediately.
I'm sorry it's not funny but I literally was laughing at the mom's delusion😅
When she said she "karate kicked him in the chest" I couldn't even take her seriously anymore. She's nuts
That is not discipline, that’s abuse. Yet they still love there mum.
How horrible. I don't see how a mother can physically, emotionally & verbally not just abuse their children but scar them for life. Really makes me sad for the son & daughter. I have two son's & twin daughters & let me tell you what, it makes me want to cry just thinking of hurting them in this way. He's grown up to be such a respectful man & his sister a beautiful loving but very broken woman. They love her & that speaks volumes She's abused her right as a mother & isn't deserving of their love & affection let alone bless her with their presence in my opinion. I hope & pray they are doing okay today & know they are worthy of not only love but worth not being abused anymore by their controlling narcssstic demonic mother.
I'm just gonna say it she ain't doing no round house to anyone's chest
with a 3 point turn sure
😂😂😂😂😂
How can she sit there and say almost proudly, that she didn’t kill her son. This woman has me floored.
Parents like these always say something along the lines as "I am not abusive, there are worst parents than me that exist"
“I could’ve been worse so be grateful” - every abuser ever
How she gone call her daughter fat…when she’s fat 😂. I hope the kids can find healing and peace.
She's crazy
Yes! That mother is crazy!!!!
When I read the title I immediately laughed how tf do u discipline your child with a vacuum cleaner what u did sucked his arm??💀
LOL
Same😭🤣
The cord or if it had a hose 🤔
out of all things
glad you could find a way to joke and laugh about someone else's horrible abuse..... SMH what is wrong with you people????
Wow. God bless these two amazing siblings. My heart breaks for Kiara. No mother who has lost a child should EVER have to hear the disgusting words that she heard from her own mother. Absolutely heartbreaking. 💔
This poor daughter!!!!
OMG WHAT 🤮
I’m both relieved and shocked to find out how common this kind of behaviour is around the globe. Stay strong all, we fight and forgive for ourselves!
I can’t bro😂. I had a vacuum cleaner add while watching this 😂😂
@CucumberCow TV 😂
Same omg
Who else got a vacuum cleaner ad right before the video started? 😳😬 yikes
Which Ad was it? Why are you lying 🤥 🙄
Lmao for Hart vacuums. 🤣🤣🤣
I got it as well 😂
I apologize for thinking you were lying. I mean it just seems so far fetched & unreal😂I guess my heart didn't want to believe & accept the fact that the algorithm was so cruel & relentless. Talk about a huge slap in the face geeze
He's so well spoken and seems like a great person. She did SOMETHING RIGHT!!
What makes you think thats her doing?
A “God-fearing” woman who abuses her children? I don’t think she is fearing God for the right thing!
Spare the rod spoil the child
A lot of religious kooks think god wants them to abuse their children. Kinda stupid, if you ask me.
2:10 I’m a survivor of child abuse, I used to be physically abused and today I am still going through verbal abuse from my dad’s side of the family, I was never put in foster, and I’m still alive. This woman is a terrible abusive mother, she’s proof some people don’t deserve kids. If anything she’s abused her kids more than I was abused.
why he look so old LOL
Abuse an stress ages you quickly
He’s a handsome man though
She is the black version of Tony Sapronos mom
😩
Seems like these two turned out pretty good despite being raised by a narcissist. Honestly though I hope the two get some counseling to help realize how awesome they both are and gain some self worth. ❤️
How is dead the line of abuse
Ughh NO WORDS for this "mother" the kids need to cut ties and keep this broad at a distance
I seriously got a Hart vacuum cleaner ad before this 😂
Me too! 😂
When you accidentally hit a video and werent ready for all this drama right off the bat 😱
OMG her kids are dead inside. You can tell they buried that abuse deep inside. Esp the son. He always gives a caveat when reporting her abuse. She's lucky her kids somehow have the patience and kindness of a saint.
Do her like she did her kids and then she’ll realize why they say they’re abused
Missed a opportunity to tell them she said “NOW SUCK IT UP”
You’re neither fat, not ugly, you sweet young woman. You’re perfect and beautiful exactly as you are
This woman is a monster. She admits to beating her children and says they weren’t abused because she didn’t kill them? Because they weren’t in foster care and they’re still alive? That’s despicable.
Why did I get a vacuum add for clicking on this video 😂☠️
This mom is abusive and very immature referencing as her children as chucky how odd. I think mom may have an thiroid issue as her neck doesn't look right maybe if she does that's her problem of being out of control. No excuses here I hate this for her grown children.
The fact that she said I couldve done way worse.... says it all
See and if kids like that turn on they parents...I don’t feel bad😒
How can you hurt your children. Emotionally or physically. She needs to be in jail.
Yes
Dischreschpectful!!
"I could've done damn way worse"
It's like she's proud of that wtf?
Some mothers that beat their kids think it's cute. I have been around some moms that brag about beating their kids.
Yup happened to us
Take Dr. Phil's help but, leave your mother alone. Get your life and move on. I hate to say that but, you've got to save yourselves.
Typical of abusive parents. My sister tried standing up at age 67 to our mom. Of course my mom used it to try and gain sympathy. “She’s going to cause me to have another stroke . She’s always been a trouble maker since the day she was born. “. I tried to stand up for my sister but it didn’t go well .
“But you actually put him in jail...” 😭 The lack of self-awareness this woman has smh
The mother is crazy she needs to take a huge reality check on herself!
If someone hits a child you call the police. Where I live it is criminal.
Mom is abusive and utterly wrong!
Why are these poor kids even trying with this evil woman? If you guys are reading this- you do not deserve this treatment.
I've always found it weird when parents get upset about not being able to beat their children as "punishment" or "to teach them right from wrong"
She never said that ,Teresa is my grandmother she helped my mother raise me she has never failed to raise me she has been stabbed in the head she has been raped and dr phill has edited the words and what they said our family is perfect and operating very well
Thats her standard for parenting? "I didn't kill them!"
Being abused does NOT mean death or foster home, I was stuck there till I became homeless at 16. DANG GURL, open your eyes.
Chucky and his bride 😂😂😂. Uhhh ok.
😂😂
I feel so very badly for these two! I can't believe what she has said to you both...I can't imagine, as a mom, telling my kids ANY OF THAT! We all get frustrated, angry and upset, but there is NO excuse for the awful things she has said to them!
This woman literally called her daughter a lesbian as a insult??? MA’AM??? Homophobic AND A CHILD ABUSER??
With that as a mother, it is shocking that those two individuals turned out to be functional members of society. Dear GOD!
Gets a vacuum cleaner add:
me: not the time..
I’ve been trying to have a relationship with my nieces and nephews (in the video) for the past few years like we used to have, but my sister blocks us from conversing and says it’s them but why not give them my number? But it was all good when they were teens and we supported and showed up to various events! I miss them! Teresa is a reflection of our father and it’s sad
The mother is the worst person i have ever seen in my life. Worst case of narcissism
If they live with her they need to Move to there own places and not go around her.
a prime example of how not everyone should have children
I have a Grown daughter with BPD. The last 4 times I've been around her. She was straight up was abusive to me. Sometimes we have to distance ourselves. Even if it's from your own child. Didn't insult her back or become abusive back! You are the adult here.
GUYS WHY DID THIS VIDEO START WITH A VACUUM AD, I CAN'T WTFFF
what a disgraceful excuse for a mother. her children deserved better.
It's messed up how these parents always wanna make their kids out to be the bad ones. Well Gee we learn from our enviornments right ? So you're gonna immitate what you see . This chick needs to be accountable .
Dude, this women is just not right. Like childrens lives matter.
This issue it deeper than Dr. Phil. A lot of black families deal with this. It’s sad.
Nothing worse than being forced to live with your abuser.... I totally see how some abused kids commit matricide.
They need to let her go
Those poor kids. What a terrible mother she is acting like
Them some crazy-eyes
On all of em lol
Wait, that son looks about late 50's early 60. 😳🤣🤣🤣
So many people suffer from this kind of abusive parent. 😢
I was abused as a child I'm alive and well...depressed and traumatized but I'm well 🤷🏾
Bruh how she gonna get mad Abt the kids not saving her dinner when she look like she ate the whole damn house 😂😂
His eyes are HUGE
These poor children and she don’t care what she did
That sucks
Ba-dump-tiss!
Put this monster in jail
"my son put his hand on me for hitting him so my only choices are to either kill him or call the police" this woman is nuts
Sound like straight abuse to me..