Honestly I prefer not knowing every single thing my boyfriend is doing. Realistically you cannot be with your significant other 24/7, there’s no point worrying over what they’re doing when you have your own life to live! There should be a strong foundation of trust so that there’s no anxiety or unnecessary fears. Great video as always Julia!
I still don’t get why you’re at 8k... You deserve millions of subscribers! You’re so underrated! You have the best and most relaxing voice in the whole ASMRcommunity. Always coming with good content! I love you Julia 💗 We stan a QUEEN
I have been with my husband since I was 15 as well! And we broke up a bit too in the teen years...I am now 27 and we have 2 kids and it’s so cool that we have basically grown up together and have made it through so many changes and ups and downs together. I think that the key to long lasting healthy relationships is self love and communication.
Bimj “Been with” does not equate to marriage. 😂 I believe she means that her now husband and her have been dating since they were 15 and later got married lol
Yep, you're right, very important: 'what AM I doing tonight, what DO I feel like doing tonight?' and not always worrying about what the other might be doing
5:21 gave me a heart attack just a warning to all! Buuuut the fact that I was basically asleep so soon into the video is a testament to how amazing her whisper is!!! 😴😱
Um okay, i didn’t even know I needed this but I did. All of the advice was perfect. Especially about being super consumed in a relationship. I’ve been having that problem for a while and didn’t really notice it’s bc I was isolating myself from my friends and allowing myself to be at my bf’a beck and call. I would get so angry when he would go out with his friends and I know now it’s bc I didn’t have my own life. Ugh it’s so important to really focus on yourself. Thanks for this video!!
Just an idea, could you do an apartment tour? You can do a voice over. From what we can see it looks very modern/cozy. Love you and thank you for a always coming out with great content ❤️❤️❤️
just two words for you... thank you. i really needed to hear all of these, no one in my life takes me seriously. they just tell me to get over everything and that it doesn’t matter but this really helped. thank you ❤️
Such great advice! I've been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend for 7 years and I've had these questions as well and I've had to learn the hard way sometimes. I appreciate the advice videos and you are making great content keep up the good work 😁
I come back to this video of yours often. Your mouth sounds and whispers are my favorite in this vid. In my top five that I listen to if I need to get some sleep.
I don’t usually comment but this was a really good video. You are very intelligent and this was some really sound advice. Very well said. You probably helped a lot of people here!
can you PLEASEEEEEEEEE do another whisper video whispering EXACTLY how you are in this video, i listen to it over and over. it my FAVORITE. i think its because youre so close to the mic but its so amazing
Thank you for answering my question, Julia! About loving yourself and moving forward after a breakup. You seem like a very genuine human being and I’m proud to be a subscriber of yours.
Thank you so much for this video :) you made me realize how I have to ease my nerves and not get mad so easily when he wants to have his own life sometimes with his friends!! I realized I have been making him my word and that’s why I get so upset. I’m gonna start hanging with my friends again and stop being so clingy. Almost our 2 years idk how he deals with me 😂
I don’t know what it is about this particular video, but I LOVE how quiet this whispering is. I think it would be really cool for you to do an anticipatory trigger words video. I would love to see it!
I saw you in lily's video and I'm already obsessed!! ❤ I LOVE how you always filled in the details because vagueness irks me too 🤣 and your eyes are absolutely stunning 😍
Was listening to this because I just told my crush that I like her and she liked me back, I went to sleep with tingles and woke up shaking with adrenaline
This realy helped me I’m talking to a guy and he makes me happy but I’m always waiting for his messages insted if livening my life so this realy Helped me now ino I just need to talk to him about how I feel and that i need to love myself
thank you Julia ! may I ask what lip are you wearing in this video ? it looks so pretty ! also for a collab with Lily, a funny storytime about your college shenanigans or a part II of a mukbang trying weird food could be funny as well !
Ok so I need to get this off my chest. So me and my boyfriend have been together a little less than five months. He plays a bunch of sports and we have trouble finding time to hang out because I’m playing volleyball and moving to a apartment because my parents decided to build. So I’m busy and he asked me if I wanted to go over to his house for 4th of July, I took a long time to think about it. But I said I wanted to stay with my family because to me family always comes first. But I’ll watch tiktoks of cute couples and guys who blow up a girls phone versus my boyfriend who rarely texts me. A boyfriend who tells you your beautiful every day and says how much they mean to them. Versus my boyfriend who rarely says stuff like that. Like I have no clue if he feels the same way when we started dating or if he doesn’t. And I always think, oh I’m over him like maybe I’m ready to move on. But then once he actually gives me attention I’m like, no I need to stay with him. I’m afraid that if I don’t bring it up to him that it will just get worse. But if I bring it up then he will get mad and feel like I want to constantly talk about things and just make problems. So I have no clue what to do, we are both going into 7th grade, if you read this please give me advice. Thank you for reading
girl you guys are little kids! of course the boy won’t know how to handle a relationship. but i say bring it up. talk to him about it. it’s always important to have good communication and honesty in a relationship. and if he doesn’t respond well then he doesn’t deserve you boo!
ok cool thank you so much for the advice. I talked to him about it and he started arguing with me about how I’m so demanding and high maintenance and nothing is ever good enough for me. So I broke up with him
All of these are so spot on. Congrats on your ongoing loving relationship ❤️ I was also dating my ex bf for a little over 9 years... but then he cheated on me lollllllllll but it’s totally fine tho I’m the happiest ever rn with my current bf :) oh and btw I tagged you in a halloween tag video on my channel if you wanna checkkk ittt outtt and do the questions yourselfff ✌🏼 k love u byeeeee 🖤
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Honestly I prefer not knowing every single thing my boyfriend is doing. Realistically you cannot be with your significant other 24/7, there’s no point worrying over what they’re doing when you have your own life to live! There should be a strong foundation of trust so that there’s no anxiety or unnecessary fears. Great video as always Julia!
10 years in a relationship? Dang!!!! You go girl.
But he hasn't married her 😔😔 I wouldn't do it...she's brave
@@MorenitaBonita19 who tryna be married before they have a stable career and home? 💀 They just moving in together.
@@MorenitaBonita19 seeing all those housewife videos on your account is refreshing. Sounds weird but that's the word
Shes still super young. Think they got together at like 14/15. Which I think is beautiful! More power to them!
@@MorenitaBonita19 lots of people seem to be rushing relationships and they don't end up working out. So she's doing it right!
I still don’t get why you’re at 8k... You deserve millions of subscribers! You’re so underrated! You have the best and most relaxing voice in the whole ASMRcommunity. Always coming with good content! I love you Julia 💗 We stan a QUEEN
😊😊😊 I am blushing, that is so kind, thank you love!
I have been with my husband since I was 15 as well! And we broke up a bit too in the teen years...I am now 27 and we have 2 kids and it’s so cool that we have basically grown up together and have made it through so many changes and ups and downs together. I think that the key to long lasting healthy relationships is self love and communication.
Bimj “Been with” does not equate to marriage. 😂 I believe she means that her now husband and her have been dating since they were 15 and later got married lol
I agree 100% !! Well said. Congrats to you and your husband (:
Yep, you're right, very important: 'what AM I doing tonight, what DO I feel like doing tonight?' and not always worrying about what the other might be doing
5:21 gave me a heart attack just a warning to all! Buuuut the fact that I was basically asleep so soon into the video is a testament to how amazing her whisper is!!! 😴😱
ahaha omg I am soo sorry!!! I totally forgot to edit that out ahhh
Love you heart attacks and all hahahha ❤️❤️❤️😂😂
Aww that’s such a lovely way of putting it! You have a good heart.
Same😭😂 think my stomach just jumped out my mouth I was just starting to doze off hahahhaa
This shook me out of my sleep. I’m so mad and this was my first time watching her ASMR. 👎🏼
Um okay, i didn’t even know I needed this but I did. All of the advice was perfect. Especially about being super consumed in a relationship. I’ve been having that problem for a while and didn’t really notice it’s bc I was isolating myself from my friends and allowing myself to be at my bf’a beck and call. I would get so angry when he would go out with his friends and I know now it’s bc I didn’t have my own life. Ugh it’s so important to really focus on yourself. Thanks for this video!!
I have been there. It's hard to notice when it's happening so good for you for acknowledging it!! That's all it takes to change.
Wow I am in the same situation. Thanks so much for sharing this comment it really helped me :) I’ve had this same issue
you’re the comforting big sister I never had and forever and always wanted HONESTLY
😍😍😍
Just an idea, could you do an apartment tour? You can do a voice over. From what we can see it looks very modern/cozy. Love you and thank you for a always coming out with great content ❤️❤️❤️
Yes! I am still decorating and getting things together but within a month or so I will definitely do that (:
ASMRxBABEE It’s been a month I’m ready for the tour!!
Could you do a advice video about Breakups? Like how to deal with them, how to feel better, how to get over it, etc??❤️
Your whisper is soooo good in this video!!! In my opinion, you are the ASMRtist with the best whispers! 😍
just two words for you... thank you. i really needed to hear all of these, no one in my life takes me seriously. they just tell me to get over everything and that it doesn’t matter but this really helped. thank you ❤️
I live for these advice videos... Actually, I just live for all your videos .
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Such great advice! I've been in a long term relationship with my boyfriend for 7 years and I've had these questions as well and I've had to learn the hard way sometimes. I appreciate the advice videos and you are making great content keep up the good work 😁
I come back to this video of yours often. Your mouth sounds and whispers are my favorite in this vid. In my top five that I listen to if I need to get some sleep.
I find your voice and personality very relaxing! Thank you so much for putting effort and time into what you do :)
Thank you for watching and the kind words!
I don’t usually comment but this was a really good video. You are very intelligent and this was some really sound advice. Very well said. You probably helped a lot of people here!
25:20 best advice ever! I really enjoyed this video :-)
can you PLEASEEEEEEEEE do another whisper video whispering EXACTLY how you are in this video, i listen to it over and over. it my FAVORITE. i think its because youre so close to the mic but its so amazing
This advice is so relatable and positive and totally what I need to hear!! Thank you gal, your videos are amazing 💖
💋💋💋🥰
I really needed this thank you you opened my eyes quite a bit
i laughed so hard when she was like: 'flirting topics. number 1: horses'
do an asmr ‘get ready with me’ with lily whispers! xx
I absolutely love you and Lily. Also I hope you get engaged for your 10 year anniversary 🙈
Thank you for answering my question, Julia! About loving yourself and moving forward after a breakup. You seem like a very genuine human being and I’m proud to be a subscriber of yours.
I am proud to have you as a subscriber!!!!
Thank you so much for this video :) you made me realize how I have to ease my nerves and not get mad so easily when he wants to have his own life sometimes with his friends!! I realized I have been making him my word and that’s why I get so upset. I’m gonna start hanging with my friends again and stop being so clingy. Almost our 2 years idk how he deals with me 😂
I hope it turned out okay :D
I don’t know what it is about this particular video, but I LOVE how quiet this whispering is. I think it would be really cool for you to do an anticipatory trigger words video. I would love to see it!
You should make a video with your boyfriend!!!
That would take some convincing. I'll work on him!
Plus I live in Canada
Love you and ur videos so much - there so helpful and you give advice on topics which people - including me - need help with and I love that! 💛💛
Ok, I'm so glad you made this channel. Your videos relax me so much. ☁️ Thank you! 🖤
Thanks for watching Ann! I'm so glad to hear that.
You remind me so much of troian Bellisario ❤
You are so well spoken!! Loved the advice
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B. A collab with Lily.. what about a chit chat get ready with us, a cooking/baking video OR for u each to share/demonstrate ur top fav triggers.
Your whispers are phenomenal! I love this! Not a big fan of “sounds” videos, the talking is what relaxes me. Thank you ❤️
Me too!
Thank you for this video I needed to hear all this stuff
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This up close whisper is my favorite of yours.
I saw you in lily's video and I'm already obsessed!! ❤ I LOVE how you always filled in the details because vagueness irks me too 🤣 and your eyes are absolutely stunning 😍
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I literally hate that people in relationships have to fight
I love your videos especially your advice / or storytimes
Perfect timing, just trying to get to sleep! 😴
I think your an queen i just love the way you act i don't know why! I love your voice and the way you speak. Keep going girl❤🔥
The sound quality is so good! Oh and excellent choice of your new nail color 😍
Thank you! Can't go wrong with light pink
thank you for your advice 💜 you helped me a lot!
You’re just amazing 💕 Thank you for the great videos
Great video! I love to hear about long relationships, you defined have the experience
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Option B!! It would be cool if you did like doing each others favorite ASMR triggers? Or a makeup related video where you did each other’s make up??
This is all great advice ! Your very wise and I love your videos xxx
I’ve watched this video so many times...I’m taking all this advice lol
You are so underrated. Your channel is so so good. Keep it up queen
Thanks so much!!
you should do a part 2!! :)
Was listening to this because I just told my crush that I like her and she liked me back, I went to sleep with tingles and woke up shaking with adrenaline
i love your whisper here to!
You: So yeah me and Lilly are going!
Me: ( my dogs name is Lilly ) excuse me?
My favorite kind of ASMR. Simple whispering about absolutely anything ♡ please don't dive into the "sucking ears/licking ears" band-wagon...
Girls. Or boys If he/she doesn’t claim you, he/she is not the One. ☝️
True, I know at least I, if not all of us, tend to make excuses to justify our partner's not so great behaviours when it's not worth it
Yesss I love your whispers💛
Thank you for your answer Julia! I was the one who asked how to communicate effectively with your partner.
No problem ❤️
This video helped me a ton. Thanks a lot.
Loved this!! 💜 next video = A!
Such a great video! You are so insightful ❤
You should do more eating/story time videos !! 😊
I'm currently having troubles with girls, it's like you read my mind lol, I'll try to follow this advice, thank you💓
Can you do another one of these videos x
Yessss! Love you and your videos 💖
It's so amazing that she answers to most of the comments
I try☺️
Highly underrated omg!!!!!!💋💋💋💕
Aw thanks love
This realy helped me I’m talking to a guy and he makes me happy but I’m always waiting for his messages insted if livening my life so this realy Helped me now ino I just need to talk to him about how I feel and that i need to love myself
Really beautiful video :) and gorgeous nails of course! Are you going to grow them longer?
This is probably about as long as I'll let them get! they're pretty long lol
Great sound!
Do another video like this!!!!
ah ! thank youuu
I'm at 14 years with my high school sweetheart
Wow 10 years 👏👏👏
5:20 heart attack.. I was just falling sleep...
Do you come to Pittsburgh ever?? I live for your videos!! Your so beautiful
Amazing video and great advice! X
Can you do another relationship advice video?
What part of America is your accent from? Sounds like California but I'm Irish so idk
Can u please make a nail video💕💕💕 love this video
woahhh!!!! ten years?! that’s a long time...i’m curious as to how old you were when you started dating..
I was 15!
thank you Julia ! may I ask what lip are you wearing in this video ? it looks so pretty !
also for a collab with Lily, a funny storytime about your college shenanigans or a part II of a mukbang trying weird food could be funny as well !
I like both of those ideas!! Maybe we will incorporate the stories into a mukbang (:
ASMRxBABEE awesome yay !
I watch this video every night girl, it really relaxes me and helps me with my current relationship. Ur the 💣! 😍
this was my 500th liked video! 🤠💪🏽
Thank you
I’m lonely
Ok so I need to get this off my chest. So me and my boyfriend have been together a little less than five months. He plays a bunch of sports and we have trouble finding time to hang out because I’m playing volleyball and moving to a apartment because my parents decided to build. So I’m busy and he asked me if I wanted to go over to his house for 4th of July, I took a long time to think about it. But I said I wanted to stay with my family because to me family always comes first. But I’ll watch tiktoks of cute couples and guys who blow up a girls phone versus my boyfriend who rarely texts me. A boyfriend who tells you your beautiful every day and says how much they mean to them. Versus my boyfriend who rarely says stuff like that. Like I have no clue if he feels the same way when we started dating or if he doesn’t. And I always think, oh I’m over him like maybe I’m ready to move on. But then once he actually gives me attention I’m like, no I need to stay with him. I’m afraid that if I don’t bring it up to him that it will just get worse. But if I bring it up then he will get mad and feel like I want to constantly talk about things and just make problems. So I have no clue what to do, we are both going into 7th grade, if you read this please give me advice. Thank you for reading
girl you guys are little kids! of course the boy won’t know how to handle a relationship. but i say bring it up. talk to him about it. it’s always important to have good communication and honesty in a relationship. and if he doesn’t respond well then he doesn’t deserve you boo!
ok cool thank you so much for the advice. I talked to him about it and he started arguing with me about how I’m so demanding and high maintenance and nothing is ever good enough for me. So I broke up with him
you go girl!! i’m sure you’ll find someone perfect and that treats you right in the future! hope you’re doing better :)
Video with Lily!
Yess we will each be filming 2 videos for our channels (:
Her eyes literally look like a animation, which is doll.
I mean she looks beautiful.
Nail video!!❤️
I’d like to see video ideas A, B, and C. Please and thank you
Good luck in philly 🍻
Thank you!
I'm dying alone.
A!
All of these are so spot on. Congrats on your ongoing loving relationship ❤️ I was also dating my ex bf for a little over 9 years... but then he cheated on me lollllllllll but it’s totally fine tho I’m the happiest ever rn with my current bf :) oh and btw I tagged you in a halloween tag video on my channel if you wanna checkkk ittt outtt and do the questions yourselfff ✌🏼 k love u byeeeee 🖤
Great advice 🌷🌷🌷🌷
(:
@@ASMRxBABEE 😚
10 years holy shiz
Haha (:
who’s all here but not in a relationship 😭😭😭
you’re so perfect thank you for being so sweet and wonderful all the time
This is so weird today is Wednesday and it’s is year later