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  • @tamysmart6886
    @tamysmart6886 3 роки тому +6191

    I gave my late husband peace for 33.5years..I submitted to him taking the lead in being the MAN..I left my career to raise our children and take care of his needs and be there for our children..no regrets..his last words to me were "thank you for your love"

    • @bigstacks1463
      @bigstacks1463 3 роки тому +541

      @Tamy Smart That was beautiful and I send my deepest condolences for the loss of your husband. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @TheMogulMommy
      @TheMogulMommy 3 роки тому +198

      Omg 😭😭😭 so sweet.

    • @Tilandang
      @Tilandang 3 роки тому +205

      May The Most High YAH bless you indefinitely. Psalm 20.

    • @tomekaslaughter1194
      @tomekaslaughter1194 3 роки тому +161

      Now, why would you say something like that? 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 That's just beautiful!

    • @karenmiller2785
      @karenmiller2785 3 роки тому +97

      Tami Smart how beautiful you are to do what you said you did! to me that is real&true love how blessed you are to have had that im so sorry you lost your husband but hopefully you have wonderful memories blessings to you ten fold.

  • @taltonhall3858
    @taltonhall3858 3 роки тому +726

    Me and my wife came from single parent homes. Neither of us have a full blood sibling. We changed that 💪🏿 and after 13 years the build 📈 continues. 3 kids and building a lasting legacy 💪🏿.

    • @themetamorphosisofgipsy
      @themetamorphosisofgipsy 3 роки тому +36

      Defeating the odds. That's amazing and beautiful!

    • @alp.9672
      @alp.9672 3 роки тому +5

      How did you guys meet?

    • @taltonhall3858
      @taltonhall3858 3 роки тому +24

      @@alp.9672 funny enough, at the club on a Thursday night 🌃 club was dead as hell. But I was going out every Friday and Saturday at least. I had money 💰 for the first time in my life 2 jobs and fresh out of college. I was hollering at everything that peaked my interest. Great conversations, we clicked. We almost didn't make it a couple of bumps in the road. But once I realized I couldn't see her with someone else, it was a wrap.

    • @talishabailey
      @talishabailey 3 роки тому +8

      I can relate to this 💯💯💯💯

    • @Roccofan
      @Roccofan 3 роки тому +4

      FANTASTIC!!!

  • @roberttownsend8560
    @roberttownsend8560 3 роки тому +2051

    We witnessing history within the black community right before our eyes. If Kevin is able to pull this off it will be one the greatest contributions ever. This ain’t hyperbole either.

    • @DJ-yx8li
      @DJ-yx8li 3 роки тому +148

      This need to be a collective effort for all black men and men in general. Kevin Samuel will lead the pack.

    • @roberttownsend8560
      @roberttownsend8560 3 роки тому +22

      @@DJ-yx8li Facts💯

    • @sacq13
      @sacq13 3 роки тому +22

      Hope haters/feminazi don't target him

    • @davisdowell1986
      @davisdowell1986 3 роки тому +5

      Talk about it!

    • @holli4447
      @holli4447 3 роки тому +62

      Honestly, he gives me hope for the women of the black community. But for me personally, I've sworn them off regardless if they fix themselves or not. Call that cold but I've had more than enough bad experiences with em. No thanks.

  • @Dsmwarrior1996
    @Dsmwarrior1996 2 роки тому +230

    As a white man, I have found more encouragement in your advice than I have in other people's advice, for what it's worth, your program has caused me to make more positive life altering changes than any other I have watched, and I'm appreciative of it

    • @bamboosho0t
      @bamboosho0t Рік тому +24

      That's real talk. It's sad he passed away, but I'm glad we still have these videos for our edification.

    • @Sulmusic5421
      @Sulmusic5421 Рік тому

      Please…don’t be a white man anymore … be a white bro🙌🏿🇯🇲

    • @Facts-Over-Feelings
      @Facts-Over-Feelings Рік тому +5

      @@bamboosho0t HE WAS A GIFT

    • @chongli3007
      @chongli3007 6 місяців тому +6

      This advice is for all men.

    • @Dsmwarrior1996
      @Dsmwarrior1996 6 місяців тому +5

      @@chongli3007 if I remember correctly I made that comment because he used to talk more specifically to one race, even tho it is great advice for all men, I figured I'd express that even if it wasn't "geared" towards people like me, it still had the same effect on me as who he may have geared it towards, if that makes sense

  • @tyking7841
    @tyking7841 3 роки тому +782

    This video is a perfect example for people who like to think Kevin is not respectful. When a person is cooperative, conversations run smoothly.

    • @courtneymay8949
      @courtneymay8949 3 роки тому +22

      It depends if you are small and cute and young 🙄🤣

    • @slimbaby4285
      @slimbaby4285 3 роки тому +15

      @@courtneymay8949 I was just about to say that! She's pretty- even with the Thriller references, makeup/wig- and she's some sort of influencer?, I'm guessing? He already seemed to have a sort of respect for her right off the bat, even with her yelling and cursing in his (and our) ears. As a woman, I notice that immediately- how guys treat women in diff categories.

    • @ferrodliles5283
      @ferrodliles5283 3 роки тому +19

      @@slimbaby4285 yah that's that love and hip hop girl. They're friends. But by now he used to her hyper persona knowing it's not coming from an ill place. But I get what your saying I kinda thought the same came the second one. But she was coming with a combative nature

    • @slimbaby4285
      @slimbaby4285 3 роки тому +6

      @@ferrodliles5283 Ohh okay. See, I didn't even know who she was. I figured she was "famous" for something along those lines. lol!

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 роки тому +2

      💯

  • @shawannalachell88
    @shawannalachell88 3 роки тому +1186

    Kevin is evolving and stepping into his purpose right in front of our eyes. That's dope. I'm rooting for you, Kevin.

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 роки тому +12

      💯

    • @tafarinichols806
      @tafarinichols806 3 роки тому +10

      FACTS

    • @SinisterAnimationS
      @SinisterAnimationS 3 роки тому +67

      He been in his purpose, its everyone else realising they’re not in theres

    • @cetti4405
      @cetti4405 3 роки тому +7

      @@SinisterAnimationS 💯👍🏾

    • @willia3r
      @willia3r 3 роки тому +8

      @@SinisterAnimationS real-talk👊🏾✊🏾💯

  • @coachnickens6652
    @coachnickens6652 3 роки тому +3123

    This brother is keeping Popcorn companies afloat cause this is better then the movies lmao

    • @teaspells9994
      @teaspells9994 3 роки тому +30

      🤣😩

    • @malikliks5620
      @malikliks5620 3 роки тому +15

      I agree

    • @ghussle9194
      @ghussle9194 3 роки тому +101

      Its kinda dangerous for him too and people don't know because what he's doing is undoing what the system implemented and once you do that they are gonna come after you
      Malcom x
      King jr
      Mandela
      Bob marley
      Etc

    • @coachnickens6652
      @coachnickens6652 3 роки тому +85

      @@ghussle9194 The irony is that most of the backlash he gets on he surface is literally from black woman. The powers that be got an army of them doing their bidding smh.

    • @AlbowaSinema
      @AlbowaSinema 3 роки тому +25

      Some of you are just naturally funny. How did you even think of this? 😂😂😂😂

  • @rondon86
    @rondon86 3 роки тому +447

    The girl he’s talking to around 20 mins do you see how he talks to her? Soft. She’s not defensive. She came for information. She doesn’t act like she knows everything. She’s very respectful. Any man would be lucky to have her in time. This is why she will be fine in the future. She will get the love she deserves after she does therapy and loves herself first and heal from her trauma.

    • @kylelove927
      @kylelove927 3 роки тому +20

      You said that very well. She was a sweetheart.

    • @opshon
      @opshon 3 роки тому +29

      No any man would not be lucky to have her. She's a headache because she claims to have ended her 4-5 year relationship due to codependency issues. Then she asked Kevin how can she attract a high value man. There's a big lie in her story about that relationship, and now she's quick to move onto what she deems will make HER happy... True headache lies when a high value man falls for her nice gal trick and then end up having to deal with the real her.

    • @dr104
      @dr104 3 роки тому +15

      @@opshon I agree to an extent, thats why you have to vet them like KS does, a lot of these women are very skilled actresses. she has potential though, she is pretty without the facepaint and has a nice vibe about her. When i heard the word co dependent, i immediately thought that the relationship was likely with a narcissistic man that did what narcs do and she stayed much longer than she should of because she loved him. Women have a habit of snitching on themselves, it is just that your average man does not listen and does not notice the red flags until after the fact.

    • @leroyrodgers6089
      @leroyrodgers6089 3 роки тому +1

      Completely agree.

    • @shanfarco1574
      @shanfarco1574 3 роки тому +5

      But did you see the way he was with the first woman? Laughing and really enjoying her company. Sad really.

  • @LatinsplainingTV
    @LatinsplainingTV 3 роки тому +839

    Every time I see a girl yelling at Mr Samuels is so cringe!!! This is a man that could be our father!!!! Show some damn respect

    • @verbalkint1770
      @verbalkint1770 3 роки тому +2

      Who is that girl?

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 3 роки тому +57

      Respect has regressed over the generations

    • @barrydaryle7817
      @barrydaryle7817 3 роки тому +9

      Exactly

    • @thequietstorm12
      @thequietstorm12 3 роки тому +5

      @@verbalkint1770 She’s from the tv show Love and Hip hop.

    • @Josiah-X
      @Josiah-X 3 роки тому +2

      Exactly 👌🏿👍🏿

  • @tiarramonet
    @tiarramonet 3 роки тому +2096

    This is the content that doesn’t go viral unfortunately - hopefully people can better understand Kevin’s ‘why’ after this video

    • @kevinlee9929
      @kevinlee9929 3 роки тому +66

      Exactly. This goes against the narrative, so people will not address or mention videos like this.

    • @iam_mactiza
      @iam_mactiza 3 роки тому +15

      I see lack of respect for an older Man in BA

    • @gavinjohnson3065
      @gavinjohnson3065 3 роки тому +33

      And it's even more positive when it cones from women like yourself. All Kevin is trying to do is show us a reflection in the mirror of the modern black family.

    • @abeltesfaye_
      @abeltesfaye_ 3 роки тому +13

      @Smiles and the Twisted MD Are you black? Just curious.

    • @thekingofisrael4460
      @thekingofisrael4460 3 роки тому +28

      Its funny how nowadays women are so reliant on makeup that they consider they're natural face as looking a mess!Wow

  • @imtiffaniwithani1400
    @imtiffaniwithani1400 3 роки тому +375

    I swear I’m not here lying. But I’ve been listening to months and now I’m married. His videos has helped me look past my self and into what I want my life to look like. I have an amazing man who I have known most of my life! And the scariest part is I’m happy!

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 роки тому +1

      🙏💯

    • @macman9689
      @macman9689 3 роки тому +3

      bless you

    • @rael6974
      @rael6974 3 роки тому +18

      That’s a helluva statement to say being happy is scary. Damn shhhttt is real out here.

    • @janelleg597
      @janelleg597 3 роки тому +1

      Why is it scary?

    • @ashleycbla
      @ashleycbla 3 роки тому +5

      @@janelleg597 It’s scary because no man who really wants you is gone let you sit right by him for longer than a year without snatching you up. Don’t ignore that intuition

  • @theredcard8577
    @theredcard8577 3 роки тому +608

    This man has helped me change a lot of the toxic things about myself, in all honesty! I enjoy watching his videos also!

  • @bladerunner27x
    @bladerunner27x 3 роки тому +1725

    She's wants somebody to take her serious after 35, looking and acting like this. This is frightening and unbelievable.

    • @Mannyroc
      @Mannyroc 3 роки тому +46

      WORD

    • @damonfleming5676
      @damonfleming5676 3 роки тому +41

      WORD!!

    • @Lord_Don
      @Lord_Don 3 роки тому +108

      Shit look stiff. I dont want a woman who sounds so tacky..
      Yes tacky

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 3 роки тому +21

      Reality.....cant take it lightly

    • @AveMcree
      @AveMcree 3 роки тому +91

      Dude, the worst part she’s a mother!!!

  • @musiqman8771
    @musiqman8771 3 роки тому +366

    Kevin has saved and changed a lot of men’s lives at this point and this is only the beginning 😩

    • @barrydaryle7817
      @barrydaryle7817 3 роки тому +5

      Facts

    • @user-xi2ej4zb8t
      @user-xi2ej4zb8t 3 роки тому

      Thanks for commenting, I will refer you to my trade analyst and accountant to make good income, go more on digital assets

    • @reedharvey3793
      @reedharvey3793 3 роки тому +6

      Looks like he never stopped helping men; he just moved the spotlight

    • @melvinjacobs7316
      @melvinjacobs7316 3 роки тому +8

      He helped me dislodge from a passive aggressive narcissist!

    • @cornellmelton5092
      @cornellmelton5092 3 роки тому

      i agree

  • @busyworksbeats
    @busyworksbeats 3 роки тому +1365

    Kevin: Have you been drinkin’
    Her: who? No!
    Also her: takes sip... 🍷
    😂😂😂

    • @jbb8261
      @jbb8261 3 роки тому +69

      She was so LOUDDDD, ugh. Gave off trashy vibes too. Women like her are why I only befriend other married women

    • @richarmolico6606
      @richarmolico6606 3 роки тому +10

      The duck you doing here dawg?? I gotta check your mastering videos

    • @willysweetwonkajoe1432
      @willysweetwonkajoe1432 3 роки тому +66

      She was friendly but that filter be having these females lookin like Rupaul in the face

    • @ICEMAKERM14
      @ICEMAKERM14 3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for the lofi tutorial. Keep it up.

    • @kryptospiracy1462
      @kryptospiracy1462 3 роки тому +1

      🤣

  • @leroyrodgers6089
    @leroyrodgers6089 3 роки тому +299

    Kevin's demenour changes with the guest he has. If you get a very sweet girl who listens and isn't rude/argumentative, you get a very nice Kevin.

  • @619Born
    @619Born 3 роки тому +624

    KS:”have you been drinking?”
    Her:”what?! No.”
    Less than a minute later: *sip* 😂😂

    • @doubleboe7NYC
      @doubleboe7NYC 3 роки тому +82

      That chick is lame. 👎🏽

    • @D_Whit3
      @D_Whit3 3 роки тому +9

      🤣🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @jarrellneriahshamah5394
      @jarrellneriahshamah5394 3 роки тому +71

      That female was disgusting! I can't even believe he knows them like that
      These are literally the epitome of the women he speaks of! Non feminine, loud mouth foul language! Agree?

    • @619Born
      @619Born 3 роки тому +15

      @@jarrellneriahshamah5394 I was thinking that. He even had to put on headphones either because of her language or her loud mouth, most likely both 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @kjm85
      @kjm85 3 роки тому +42

      I think Kevin rocks with her because she's not a disrespectful women at least not to him. I rather loud instead of disrespectful.

  • @TheOfficialKayP
    @TheOfficialKayP 3 роки тому +936

    i've noticed it's usually the attractive, high value looking women that tend to like kevin and want to listen to his message, the stragglers always have an issue understanding lol

    • @NickHolasss
      @NickHolasss 3 роки тому +215

      Nobody told average women they’re average it’s hard to let go of a 30 yr lie overnight lol

    • @mensspace9519
      @mensspace9519 3 роки тому +9

      Fax !!

    • @Theohybrid
      @Theohybrid 3 роки тому +33

      Yeah, it's not good. Even the Bible spoke on Leah and her wandering eye. I think it was Issac. He was trying to get her more beautiful sister but got played by their dad cuz he knew other men might not get her.
      It's sad but moral of the story, looks do matter and men will fight for that.

    • @Crumplednoseskin
      @Crumplednoseskin 3 роки тому +8

      That's because they already know all of this shit. They know the way without Kevin.

    • @simonradfordr2595
      @simonradfordr2595 3 роки тому +20

      Stragglers....haven’t heard that one in YEARS😂😂😂

  • @CheckDisOutpeeps
    @CheckDisOutpeeps 3 роки тому +252

    The conversation with the 26-year-old, that's how you have a conversation people! Respectful, insightful, and no talking over another

    • @Skydreaming7
      @Skydreaming7 3 роки тому +6

      That’s my bm 😍🤣

    • @theezenuttz5729
      @theezenuttz5729 3 роки тому +6

      Its about muthafricin time someone noticed... For 3 years i thought i was cray cray... I've been speaking up on a lot of these topics for years I've even within the last six relationships started voicing the truth about what was being displayed in front of men and young boys to a lot of women I stayed non-combative and I basically became a celibate hermit I've been watching women have babies behind guys backs whether they were good or bad I started noticing them being more treacherous manipulative and for no apparent reason

    • @legendal2463
      @legendal2463 3 роки тому +4

      i would happily marry a girl like her. She was so nice, the energy was amazing, smart and she was beautiful too. I wish she finds happiness in her future relationship.

    • @nycityboi101
      @nycityboi101 2 роки тому +2

      All that with no makeup

  • @autumnmoss9474
    @autumnmoss9474 2 роки тому +118

    I’m so sad to hear that he passed away. Like him or not, I hope his soul finds rest and peace. For the short amount of time I’ve known about him I’ve come to enjoy his videos.
    His mother has lost her only child, his children have lost a father. People celebrating this man’s death should ashamed. Rest In Peace Mr. Samuels 💐

    • @tamysmart6886
      @tamysmart6886 2 роки тому +6

      His truths hurt a lot of indivuals..either you agreed or disagreed..but no one should celebrate any ones death ...those that do are sick..rip in peace kevin 🥲😇

    • @chapelleshow4759
      @chapelleshow4759 Рік тому +6

      Amen. Rest easy, good brother Kevin

    • @Sulmusic5421
      @Sulmusic5421 Рік тому +5

      RIP. AMEN

    • @lisafoodie8443
      @lisafoodie8443 Рік тому +4

      cant shake the thought kevin was rubbed out...theyre demolishing everyone standing up for masculinity...trump, tate, ye...my heart breaks for men...

  • @janayesierra
    @janayesierra 3 роки тому +85

    Nothing is stopping this man...nothing! and I love it 🙌🏾 on the way to 1 mill!

  • @isaiahmartinez2689
    @isaiahmartinez2689 3 роки тому +385

    Mr Samuels changed my life I lost 30 lbs and doubled my income and I’m only getting started. This mans words changed my life for the better I thank you for helping me realize the only thing holding me back was me

    • @sisterCURLSTAROT
      @sisterCURLSTAROT 3 роки тому +7

      You lost 30 pounds and how long did it take.

    • @isaiahmartinez2689
      @isaiahmartinez2689 3 роки тому +18

      @@sisterCURLSTAROT Two months cut out soda and started going to the gym twice a week just discipline and a desire to be better

    • @sisterCURLSTAROT
      @sisterCURLSTAROT 3 роки тому +6

      @@isaiahmartinez2689 So you think cutting out sodas had a lot to do with it? Damn I love Pepsi’s

    • @isaiahmartinez2689
      @isaiahmartinez2689 3 роки тому +9

      @@sisterCURLSTAROT yes i switched to bangs because they are sugar free but I still have a soda if I want one but it’s no longer my drink of choice

    • @AlexGonzalez-sq8bu
      @AlexGonzalez-sq8bu 3 роки тому +8

      @@sisterCURLSTAROT Jusy everything in moderation maybe 1 pepsi a week and you will be fine, drink plenty of water

  • @toxicglitch007
    @toxicglitch007 3 роки тому +251

    I like watching Kevin videos because it's shows how crazy the dating scene is and seeing how alot of women want what they don't deserve.

    • @aaronbrutus9483
      @aaronbrutus9483 3 роки тому +15

      A lot of women can't get men to commit to them. What they don't understand is that we learned by watching them to not take them seriously.

    • @truthseekingfreethinker5214
      @truthseekingfreethinker5214 3 роки тому +12

      You should have seen my face, when my mother told me that women deserve the world strictly because they are women😲

  • @jaredbrady5566
    @jaredbrady5566 3 роки тому +166

    Love the show, love Kevin's take.
    Yeah I'm a white guy in Australia, but just about all this stuff is applicable to all men and all women. We have been taught to look at relationships a certain way, and we are all losing.
    Kevin is out here being the voice of the voiceless.

    • @denisesmith8266
      @denisesmith8266 3 роки тому +5

      What he says is universal. I watch him everyday!!

    • @andrewlocke3389
      @andrewlocke3389 2 роки тому +2

      Agreed.

    • @andrewlocke3389
      @andrewlocke3389 2 роки тому +2

      @@denisesmith8266 same.

    • @KeelyB2318
      @KeelyB2318 2 роки тому +3

      Unfortunately KS thinks this is only a problem with black women.

    • @alexia964
      @alexia964 2 роки тому +2

      @@KeelyB2318 yup 😭 i’ve seen more white people than black people act the way he describes

  • @ancientfuture9690
    @ancientfuture9690 3 роки тому +125

    "You can't have it all. There are only choices and trade offs" 🔥 When I finally realised this, much of my anxiety reduced. Reality is medicine.

  • @lasha4585
    @lasha4585 3 роки тому +46

    Kevin is like the loving BUT no nonsense FATHER a lot of women didn’t have at home. God bless you brother and my his grace and mercy continue to hold you up! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @Renshai32
    @Renshai32 3 роки тому +395

    That 3rd woman is exactly the type of women we need to protect and build up. As broken as she thinks she is she carried herself and her overall attitude was great. She will bless a man tremendously as long as she works on herself. Okay and the 4th one as well. Just honest open women who truly want a future with a man

    • @sacredserpent9667
      @sacredserpent9667 3 роки тому +22

      Protect them from who ? Themselves ?

    • @Lazyeyeblindman
      @Lazyeyeblindman 3 роки тому +46

      @@sacredserpent9667 then single minded angry ass lonely friends she may have may mess her head up with even trying to find a man doesn't seem that way though..she's gonna be good 💪🏾

    • @Josiah-X
      @Josiah-X 3 роки тому +17

      Exactly, the 3rd & 4th ones were great. Very cooperative and submissive. 👌🏿👍🏿😎🌴🌙

    • @Renshai32
      @Renshai32 3 роки тому +9

      @@sacredserpent9667As we always do. There ain't a man who hasn't tried to keep some women from going over a cliff. These ones more so

    • @sacredserpent9667
      @sacredserpent9667 3 роки тому +3

      @@Renshai32 nah, if she cant do whats best for her on her own. She not worth my time.

  • @PapaSmoke1972
    @PapaSmoke1972 2 роки тому +11

    RIP we love you Mr. Samuels.

  • @lavonaturner7691
    @lavonaturner7691 3 роки тому +121

    So much growth, love his content because it makes us accountable.

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 роки тому +2

      Sis. Turner keep soaking in the knowledge communicated by the. Godfather 🙏💯

    • @jzhvaeduh
      @jzhvaeduh 3 роки тому

      @ALPO YAO cardi b mimics black women from the ghetto bc that’s where she is from.

    • @jzhvaeduh
      @jzhvaeduh 3 роки тому

      @ALPO YAO really? I haven’t met any. Then again, I don’t live in the ghetto.

  • @laurensennett5406
    @laurensennett5406 3 роки тому +142

    I don’t think I’ve ever left a UA-cam comment before, but I would love to be that third girl’s friend! She’s so beautiful, kind, and able to take accountability for her behaviors and thought patterns. I’m in a very similar situation to her and related to everything she was saying. I don’t enjoy that single life like my friends do. I just started therapy a few months ago and have found it tremendously helpful. I hope she takes Kevin’s advice and I wish her the best!

    • @OrwellsHousecat
      @OrwellsHousecat 3 роки тому +11

      Good luck, I really wish the best for you. It's a big brave step to start therapy - very rewarding too (if you find a good match therapist). Best wishes

    • @laurensennett5406
      @laurensennett5406 3 роки тому +4

      Thank you so much! I appreciate the support 🙏 My best to you as well.

    • @macman9689
      @macman9689 3 роки тому +4

      bless you

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 роки тому +3

      🙏💯

    • @shawnbrown9336
      @shawnbrown9336 3 роки тому +4

      Thank you for sharing, but most importantly...thank you for your honesty.

  • @08Coolster
    @08Coolster 3 роки тому +1027

    This man is saving more women in 1 phone call more than 70 years of the modern day Christian Sunday Church

    • @why-kg6kx
      @why-kg6kx 3 роки тому +19

      pandering repercussions

    • @marcussmith9051
      @marcussmith9051 3 роки тому +6

      Amennnnn💯💯💯💯🙏🏾💯💯💯

    • @jasonchilds7851
      @jasonchilds7851 3 роки тому +3

      Now that's real

    • @Williscool
      @Williscool 3 роки тому +5

      Hallelujah!

    • @leonardo5941
      @leonardo5941 3 роки тому +44

      Also more than Oprah, Steve Harvey, Cosmopolitan, etc...

  • @xaviertrimble5886
    @xaviertrimble5886 3 роки тому +134

    I've been following you for two months brotha and I have to say these conversations have made me look in the mirror to make changes in my relationship. I proposed last week and she said yes. we were shacking and living an unbalanced life for several years with two children. I seen alot of lack on my part so I decided to step up and prepare to formalize our relationship under God, community, and therapy. I even told my fiance about you. truly helped me.

    • @rufinandongo5518
      @rufinandongo5518 3 роки тому +12

      Congratulations and happy married life to you and your wife . May your union be abundantly blessed

    • @JohnDoe-qn9on
      @JohnDoe-qn9on 2 роки тому +2

      Congrats hope for the best

    • @missopinionated8260
      @missopinionated8260 2 роки тому

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @ladyj5682
      @ladyj5682 2 роки тому

      God word is in alpt of xonflict with what Kevin S says. It has some agreement but some disagreement too and God don't play like that. He says all His word is true and never changes like man's words. Choose this day whom you will serve and that is what we are facing on a regular basis as Christians. I agree we have to get our health in order as a community and therapy for the issues that drive us to emotional eating, drugs and alcohol. No one should have to accept anything from anyone. Lose your morals and values then you lose yourself.

    • @sdot7117
      @sdot7117 2 роки тому +1

      Congratulations! Powerful self awareness.

  • @java8368
    @java8368 3 роки тому +327

    I'm a 66 yr old Italian wife and mom. I was raised to be a wife and mother and watched how she treated by dad as the breadwinner. He was her king. My husband is the king of his household. We've had a good life, and now we're growing old together. We have money to retire on, and it wasn't easy. My dream has been fulfilled. One thing I did extra for myself was taking a loan to go to finishing school because we were very poor. I was pretty, but didn't have the finishing stuff. If he cheated, I don't know about it and never want to. And love does grow.

    • @neweraageofaquarius7892
      @neweraageofaquarius7892 3 роки тому +18

      You came to show "black people " the way???? 😂

    • @braelynnblue
      @braelynnblue 3 роки тому +88

      @@neweraageofaquarius7892 Since there appears to not be enough black people sharing stories like this, why not? The numbers don't lie. Want to be the ones to show the way? BE the way.

    • @neweraageofaquarius7892
      @neweraageofaquarius7892 3 роки тому +13

      @Azriel Cul Go away. You can't handle facts.

    • @illmaticgaming4162
      @illmaticgaming4162 3 роки тому +25

      Keep on together til you both stop breathing. Loving & Laughing til the end!

    • @jasonhumphries8463
      @jasonhumphries8463 3 роки тому +32

      @NewEraAgeofAquarius someone shares a moving story...and your response is to discredit their story.. Ultimately completely missing the message. Keep that negative energy over there.

  • @HeavyK.
    @HeavyK. 3 роки тому +243

    We boys grow up with moms that are so loving, we turn into men and are ultimately shocked and ruined when we finally understand that there is never going to be this kind of love and respect in a marriage to a modern woman. It's heartbreaking.
    I had a 70 year old man walk up to me in public when I was 20 years old and tell me "They are all crazy. Just pick a woman that looks nice and treats you well, and stick with it."

    • @TheMatchMaker_16
      @TheMatchMaker_16 3 роки тому

      Did you take his advice?

    • @benrights561
      @benrights561 3 роки тому +2

      And I'm picking a black women

    • @Orthodox_mang
      @Orthodox_mang 3 роки тому +8

      Too be honest most single moms are pretty masculine and we don’t see that, we just see the loving part.

    • @ItsThatKidGreg
      @ItsThatKidGreg 3 роки тому +7

      This is facts. My mother was married to my father 36 years, til death did them part. My mother is always shocked when she sees how modern women act, and it's sad to have to tell her that most women aren't built that way anymore.

    • @jacobjorgenson9285
      @jacobjorgenson9285 2 роки тому

      Basically what Kevin is saying . Looks decent and brings peace , end off

  • @Boo6kd
    @Boo6kd 3 роки тому +448

    I respect that he always comes in asking women “how are you doing” or a positive attitude.

    • @mlkkk629
      @mlkkk629 3 роки тому +1

      And after that

    • @asaha177
      @asaha177 3 роки тому +6

      Proceed by interrupting them 24/7

    • @TheDCGuitar13
      @TheDCGuitar13 3 роки тому +56

      @@asaha177 if you’re going to rant off topic, you lose the microphone. Get over it. You can always pay a therapist to hear your entire life story full of lies and omissions out free of interruption.

    • @D_Whit3
      @D_Whit3 3 роки тому

      Peeped that too💯

    • @boondocksso8898
      @boondocksso8898 3 роки тому +26

      @@asaha177 no shit it’s his platform make your own and u get all the speech u want

  • @KC-hp8xw
    @KC-hp8xw 3 роки тому +26

    I agree with single friends will keep you single that’s why I had to cut some people off. I had a friend for 15 years and we hung out almost every weekend. When I met my husband I stopped hanging out as much and spending a little more time with my now husband. She tried to make me feel bad about doing that and said that I stopped being her friend. So I had to let that friendship go and move on. I learned that not everyone is meant to grow with you. She is now 42 and still in the clubs and saying that all men are dogs and she’s fine being single. I’m sure she’s not fine but hey if she likes it then I love it.

  • @MikeLitirous
    @MikeLitirous 3 роки тому +83

    27 yo woman, coming onto a 50 year old man’s live show, telling HIM not to over talk her and you wonder why he focuses on bw and has his tone?¿? 🥴 Women mature faster than men but idk about their mental maturity 💀. If she’s willing to disrespect her elder in front of thousands like that, best believe she does it to men she dates. SAD

    • @shellsopinion5837
      @shellsopinion5837 3 роки тому +6

      She had the nerve to say, “Don’t talk over me!” You can’t make this shit up.

    • @TaddiestMason
      @TaddiestMason 3 роки тому +1

      It’s a dumb move and disrespectful of Kevin to bring people on to talk to but they’re supposed to accept that he’s gonna interrupt them at any time for any reason and they gotta just shut up til he’s finished. That’s not how a conversation works and he claims to want a conversation while pulling BS like that. It’s childish of him.

    • @NickHolasss
      @NickHolasss 3 роки тому +2

      Most women stop maturing when they realize men want to sleep with them

    • @mfalmegwada
      @mfalmegwada 3 роки тому

      They mature physically only, their body get ready to give birth earlier yes but at the time of our grandmothers they were also ready to maintain a house, not anymore nowadays.

  • @schrodingerscat3912
    @schrodingerscat3912 3 роки тому +147

    If you base the stability of your relationship off feelings which tend to change all the time, you're in trouble.

  • @TheHawkins32
    @TheHawkins32 3 роки тому +367

    Imagine a 27 year old woman, trying to tell a 51 year old man what he should or should not do. Our women are so off track that they come in thinking that a 51-52 year old man is their peer 🤦🏾‍♂️. They’ve truly lost the sense of hierarchy. And then wonder why he talks specifically about them. 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @Ruckerpark98
      @Ruckerpark98 3 роки тому +15

      @@shezfyne4762 they haven’t.

    • @foolin966
      @foolin966 3 роки тому +8

      @@shezfyne4762 it’s been like this

    • @histakes12
      @histakes12 3 роки тому +5

      Participation Trophy = No hierarchy = Equality of outcomes

    • @rando3963
      @rando3963 3 роки тому

      @@shezfyne4762 both need to start choosing better.

    • @mr.duanesharpe
      @mr.duanesharpe 3 роки тому +18

      For real. I’m 42 and have women younger than I am trying to give me life advice. Like. TF. When I correct them I get the SIGN language. They out a order.

  • @humbleservant4163
    @humbleservant4163 2 роки тому +16

    The young sister with the braids who said that she is dating a older man I can't help but to hear the maturity in her voice, I can't help but to see her maturity in how she carries herself, I find it amazing such a young woman speaks and acts the way she does and we have 40 year old women who act like a child. to me the way that young woman looks and carries herself make her an 8 absolutely

  • @malachiallen4015
    @malachiallen4015 3 роки тому +285

    A profound statement he made “the opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference”

    • @navytanutrof1823
      @navytanutrof1823 3 роки тому +19

      Yep we men are getting to that point of indifference. We don't care anymore about the name calling and everything else.

    • @anthonygibson660
      @anthonygibson660 3 роки тому +12

      That a very old saying, Google it.

    • @malachiallen4015
      @malachiallen4015 3 роки тому +12

      @@anthonygibson660 I’ve heard it before. I was emphasizing. Thanks bro

    • @izzybear2220
      @izzybear2220 3 роки тому +4

      Ooo I kinda feel bad now, I be indifferent to hella people

    • @ahmawanyasharala95
      @ahmawanyasharala95 3 роки тому

      THAT'S A GODDAMN LIE!

  • @BlackLemur2009
    @BlackLemur2009 3 роки тому +120

    The first woman was for the streets. The second woman was a confirmation of everything we've said they are

    • @AmericanNope
      @AmericanNope 3 роки тому +3

      @The Gentrified Gentleman right

    • @ShutterSpeedGaming
      @ShutterSpeedGaming 3 роки тому +2

      @The Gentrified Gentleman facts 😎👌🏽

    • @tajiri7
      @tajiri7 3 роки тому +30

      Simps validating her looks when that had nothing to do with the original comment. Y’all are why things are like this, and women can act like that.

    • @ShutterSpeedGaming
      @ShutterSpeedGaming 3 роки тому +6

      @@tajiri7 no, niggas who know all she has to offer is her looks and a smash and dash speaking about what’s already known lol 😂 even KS validates her looks 🤣 she still for the streets.

    • @D_Whit3
      @D_Whit3 3 роки тому

      Nailed it

  • @lonlon90
    @lonlon90 3 роки тому +142

    Better Outcomes over Feeling Good.Feelings are fleeting,especially with women

  • @ronniebar3857
    @ronniebar3857 3 роки тому +67

    It's nice when Kevin smiles and makes joke's.

  • @Dejsymone
    @Dejsymone 3 роки тому +220

    I think this is why I try to be so positive at age 10 I was diagnosed with leukemia so I understand why KS said life is about relationships. Always have gratitude.

    • @FreeTraderFREEMAN
      @FreeTraderFREEMAN 3 роки тому +6

      Yes it's. The problem is not many people realize it in their younger days.

    • @Dejsymone
      @Dejsymone 3 роки тому +7

      @@FreeTraderFREEMAN Yes I feel extremely grateful to have learned it early

    • @FreeTraderFREEMAN
      @FreeTraderFREEMAN 3 роки тому +2

      @@Dejsymone I'm glad you did. Unfortunately, many of our sisters, mothers and wives don't. Relationship is everything. Even in our human body, everything is in systemic network (relationship). Our cells interact harmoniously with each other. Gratitude makes you appreciate what you have and who you are. Stay blessed sister.

    • @Dejsymone
      @Dejsymone 3 роки тому +3

      @@FreeTraderFREEMAN Thank you 💜

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 роки тому +1

      🙏✌️N❤️

  • @joejoerunya8908
    @joejoerunya8908 3 роки тому +586

    Kevin didn’t even say anything before she flipped out like, “don’t cut me off!” Smh 😂

    • @doubleboe7NYC
      @doubleboe7NYC 3 роки тому +104

      She was trolling imo

    • @davidnelson4347
      @davidnelson4347 3 роки тому +42

      Just angry for no reason

    • @GenesisXV
      @GenesisXV 3 роки тому +36

      @@doubleboe7NYC Yeah, she was just mocking Kevin.

    • @mr.duanesharpe
      @mr.duanesharpe 3 роки тому +61

      She called for a specific reason. And the reason was to confront him with people in the car with her. Seemingly like a joke or a challenge. Grow the French toast up child. I hope she sees this video and comment(s)

    • @Curtchrisdagod
      @Curtchrisdagod 3 роки тому +39

      She planned to do that from the jump. She probably practiced it in the mirror too.😂

  • @rollandjoseph5176
    @rollandjoseph5176 3 роки тому +35

    Man Kevin us men are extremely thankful for your bold stance on these issues of men doing the work and women taking accountability

  • @allloveslocs
    @allloveslocs 3 роки тому +7

    I’m so happy you opened this platform. A friend of mine told me about you based on the things that I talk about and I have to say your conversation is so in-line with what I’ve been saying for a while now.

  • @MikeLitirous
    @MikeLitirous 3 роки тому +115

    3 Women back to back with sound minds, respect, having self accountability, and speaking facts. Love to see it 🤩. Need more like em!

    • @pdrey100
      @pdrey100 3 роки тому +5

      The first one is high maintenance and everything fake...run. Second one was rude, so he cut her off. Unless you are talking about the later women.

    • @phoenixblackcomedy
      @phoenixblackcomedy 3 роки тому +3

      I don't know what you watched brother

    • @doesntmatter8873
      @doesntmatter8873 3 роки тому +2

      You watched a different video

    • @MikeLitirous
      @MikeLitirous 3 роки тому +3

      Here we go with the CAPtains speaking their native language, CAPanese 🧢🙄🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @nihalchowdhury1629
      @nihalchowdhury1629 3 роки тому +1

      I think you switched videos

  • @kisht7469
    @kisht7469 3 роки тому +251

    I love how he shouts out sista Shahrazad Ali! That makes me love him even more. ❤️ If our mothers and grandmothers would have listen to her 30 + years ago, BW women wouldn’t be in the predicament we’re in now.

    • @Yonkatarot
      @Yonkatarot 3 роки тому +10

      I remember her on a show called Donahue many years ago.

    • @blkghostxx
      @blkghostxx 3 роки тому +5

      Facts he need to bring her on the show

    • @marcusmajors6196
      @marcusmajors6196 3 роки тому +6

      @@blkghostxx that would be the greatest moment ever

    • @huddieentertainment
      @huddieentertainment 3 роки тому +2

      Thats the Queen right there. Hes saying similar but gets blasted but didn't come at her smh

    • @charlynetroutman6931
      @charlynetroutman6931 3 роки тому +8

      @@huddieentertainment oh! they came at Sister Ali hard! she had to have bodyguards.. but its good to see that Kevin is saying what she's been preaching for years and unfortunately, it is still difficult for people to receive

  • @malikrashaun
    @malikrashaun 3 роки тому +81

    Woman number #3 will be just fine. She already has a sweet pleasant demeanor. She mentioned having a father and it shows by the way she speaks to Kevin in a respectful way
    She has already taken inventory of herself and it sounds like she's ready to accept personal responsibility. Good on her

  • @Slimathyhustles
    @Slimathyhustles 3 роки тому +29

    I am a 33 yr old man. I am so thankful fo you Kevin. You are helping me by helping my fiancé. Keep going big Dawg!

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 роки тому

      💪✌️

    • @jamesvargas9711
      @jamesvargas9711 3 роки тому

      Same here man got a good woman who society has failed and she is open to all of these concepts. Started to introduce her to KS when we engaged and we get married in a few months

  • @karangupta2292
    @karangupta2292 3 роки тому +167

    "Im a human, I will fail a lot, but I will fail moving forward" - One of the greatest quotes Ive ever heard

    • @austinhilton1520
      @austinhilton1520 3 роки тому +1

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  • @tobiasforst724
    @tobiasforst724 3 роки тому +51

    Man, I'm glad you're around doing what you're doing. Direly needed & always well-elaborated, never sugar-coating hard truths.
    Cheers & thanks from Germany,
    Tobias

  • @Sydney000
    @Sydney000 3 роки тому +38

    Love to see Kevin smiling and laughing ❤️

  • @Bryshthebeauty
    @Bryshthebeauty 3 роки тому +14

    These conversations are Invaluable. 🙌🏿 My grandchildren will know about this man, he’s likely part of the reason they’ll exist!

  • @tamihixx9285
    @tamihixx9285 3 роки тому +54

    We truly need you Kevin. I'm evaluating myself to be better as a result of your content.

  • @michaelwillis2394
    @michaelwillis2394 3 роки тому +323

    The twenty five yr old talk with more grace and sense than some 55yrs old

    • @normanrobinson4583
      @normanrobinson4583 3 роки тому +26

      She had a great attitude.

    • @anuadebiyi3274
      @anuadebiyi3274 3 роки тому +16

      Beautiful girl too.

    • @phillipd.paynephd.8170
      @phillipd.paynephd.8170 3 роки тому +2

      Her @ please lol

    • @mickdog7
      @mickdog7 3 роки тому +5

      She was very cooperative and willing to accept the things she didn't know, the young lady will go far👍🏾

    • @colbalt95
      @colbalt95 3 роки тому +7

      Yes women can be too old for marriage. Their minds start to decay as they have built their life around them selves and have a hard time moving with a man

  • @Myt229
    @Myt229 3 роки тому +129

    This was a really good episode. When Kevin doesn't allow women to make him lose his cool and it makes for good show.

    • @RealCoachRonn
      @RealCoachRonn 3 роки тому +13

      NAH it was just a different type of episode. It's the type of women that make a type of show. When big Bertha comes on roaring it's a different show.

    • @angelawaldron5511
      @angelawaldron5511 3 роки тому +2

      Well said Greg

  • @janengobilap4887
    @janengobilap4887 2 роки тому +30

    I can’t stop watching and listening to these videos. Thank you so much KS , RIP.
    These conversations are necessary and vital for the survival of our marriages👌🏾👌🏾

  • @danejones9865
    @danejones9865 3 роки тому +95

    Absolutely love how he delicately taught this young lady about the importance of relationships and the value of life. An invaluable example and display of fatherly wisdom and guidance. Absolutely beautiful!!!!

    • @jeromegreen9057
      @jeromegreen9057 2 роки тому +1

      I'm soooooo proud of this King Brother, hes only saying what millions of men have Always said, thank God for the internet, he couldn't last a day on tv, Hes Forcing conversations, people are challenging themselves, losing weight, getting married, looking at their lives more seriously, and the brother is funny😅, Bless him.

  • @theatom5593
    @theatom5593 3 роки тому +632

    The more you watch Kevin’s show the less man in general can take these woman seriously lol

    • @bohamian903
      @bohamian903 3 роки тому +28

      100% facts

    • @mr.simmtheprofessor2919
      @mr.simmtheprofessor2919 3 роки тому +10

      My sentiment exactly

    • @Jerusalemmade
      @Jerusalemmade 3 роки тому +6

      PREACH

    • @sever427
      @sever427 3 роки тому +6

      Like on everything I love. Are they serious?

    • @milleezy
      @milleezy 3 роки тому +22

      On god and women don’t even understand that there doing it to themselves

  • @stevenhowell7473
    @stevenhowell7473 3 роки тому +267

    This guy just had 3 very productive, respectful, and healthy conversations with Black women, but every one wants to to paint this guy as hating black women.

    • @mesalouis8976
      @mesalouis8976 3 роки тому +7

      True.

    • @mydknyghthunter925
      @mydknyghthunter925 3 роки тому +9

      Correction "The Godfather"***

    • @anthonyt425
      @anthonyt425 3 роки тому +9

      Yeah, these convos were pure gold tbh.

    • @michpich6319
      @michpich6319 3 роки тому +13

      Steven Howell They fear what they don't understand, and so they lash out, in hope of destroying what frightens them. If only they realized that 'shooting' the messenger whilst ignoring the message is what brought them to their current situation and each passing day deepens their rage, frustration and anxiety. This is pretty much on display all day, everyday.

    • @bobbydrake5937
      @bobbydrake5937 3 роки тому +5

      When the hate don’t work, they start telling lies

  • @stealthgod13
    @stealthgod13 3 роки тому +30

    "You don't get to choose what happens to you , but you get to choose how to handle what happing in your life"

    • @tw1954
      @tw1954 3 роки тому +2

      Very true, couldn't agree more

  • @gyfgyf2836
    @gyfgyf2836 3 роки тому +110

    Its crazy how the nice looking women seem to humble themselves and listen

    • @tbrwn2548
      @tbrwn2548 3 роки тому +3

      So true

    • @skinfanjay
      @skinfanjay 3 роки тому +3

      💯

    • @johnbrowntheprophet
      @johnbrowntheprophet 3 роки тому +20

      That’s because they know that they’re just an attitude change away from getting a man. They know they already have the looks. They just need to change how they talk to men to land one.

    • @letsgetjackdup9952
      @letsgetjackdup9952 3 роки тому +2

      Yesss

    • @levianthony3944
      @levianthony3944 3 роки тому +2

      “Seem”

  • @shannonb4506
    @shannonb4506 3 роки тому +91

    No I haven’t been drinking!
    *takes a sip of wine*

  • @Marine1One
    @Marine1One 3 роки тому +131

    The truth is hard to digest when you have been consuming lies for so long.

    • @cecilreed7543
      @cecilreed7543 3 роки тому +2

      thats exactly what i said

    • @janelleg597
      @janelleg597 3 роки тому +3

      The lie diet is junk food

    • @Marine1One
      @Marine1One 3 роки тому +3

      @@janelleg597 Exactly. Taste good, but not good for you.

  • @ThisSouthernGirlCooks
    @ThisSouthernGirlCooks 3 роки тому +63

    The 25 year-old young lady with the locs is a sweetheart. She'll go far.

    • @jeromebolden14
      @jeromebolden14 3 роки тому +3

      I agree....she appears to listen and can be redirected.....she and her guy can make it!

    • @tatianaabel6249
      @tatianaabel6249 3 роки тому +3

      Not only far. She will go international.

    • @kendras.9772
      @kendras.9772 8 місяців тому

      She is very well spoken and aware.

  • @rse1113
    @rse1113 3 роки тому +388

    I clicked on this faster than you can say "I'm a PhD."

  • @audreythornton2193
    @audreythornton2193 3 роки тому +63

    I find absolute value in Kevin’s content. This is by far one of the best shows I’ve watched!!! So many jewels and gems. Many blessings to this man!!

  • @gobacktomypark6792
    @gobacktomypark6792 3 роки тому +253

    I find it hilarious that he asked Ms Loudmouth was she drinking and she said "no" literally 30 secs later she sips out of a wine glass 🍷🤣🤣🤣

    • @thulani2640
      @thulani2640 3 роки тому +16

      They Actually know each other, they have a video clip together in LA in his IG

    • @izzybear2220
      @izzybear2220 3 роки тому +3

      Actually *

    • @cheriecobb449
      @cheriecobb449 3 роки тому

      i literally thought the very same thing...

    • @cannibalmanimal2336
      @cannibalmanimal2336 3 роки тому +3

      Can’t make this 💩up

    • @LAlove2023
      @LAlove2023 3 роки тому +7

      They met on his live and then linked up in LA!

  • @bigmomma9401
    @bigmomma9401 2 роки тому +3

    This is One of The Best Videos so far. Unfortunately I learned about this King 👑 after his Transition 🙏🏽 May his Transition into his new Life be a Peaceful one🕊️

  • @mikejunior3373
    @mikejunior3373 3 роки тому +51

    4:18 "kick rocks B..." my mans had to catch himself!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @RexCGB
    @RexCGB 3 роки тому +138

    When he said "Why can't u just act better?" I died.😆😆😆😅😅🤣🤣🤣😂😂💀

  • @bigjon.6258
    @bigjon.6258 3 роки тому +220

    So glad i found my wife 20 something years ago I'd really hate to be involved with these women of today...

    • @moejohnson8459
      @moejohnson8459 3 роки тому +25

      Yea it's rough dude. I'm over 50 and it's ridiculous the mind set of them now.

    • @doubleboe7NYC
      @doubleboe7NYC 3 роки тому +16

      20 something? You don't know the exact amount of years? She's gonna be mad 😆

    • @davisdowell1986
      @davisdowell1986 3 роки тому +16

      Congrats to you OG!! 🙏🏿 Its rough out here, No Church In The Jungle

    • @jaybrick8973
      @jaybrick8973 3 роки тому +9

      Yeah im in my early 30s its hard out here for real im tempted to leave the country to find someone

    • @zay_tiggygaming
      @zay_tiggygaming 3 роки тому +17

      Found mine three years ago. It's true that you find a wife. She has to be that when you meet her

  • @MelodieCarr2003
    @MelodieCarr2003 3 роки тому +12

    That was a beautiful conversation and that is how an conversation should be had between a black man and women. Well any man and women.

  • @SukhoiGC
    @SukhoiGC 3 роки тому +116

    I thought i was the only one who clicked on kevin's notifications this quick lmao...everyone here already

    • @DizzKoMane
      @DizzKoMane 3 роки тому +4

      You are not alone lol

    • @SukhoiGC
      @SukhoiGC 3 роки тому +2

      @@DizzKoMane I see that 😂

  • @wanderer5200
    @wanderer5200 3 роки тому +56

    "Women keep each other single."
    Yep. Just like drunks drink together, so nobody quits.

  • @Oakley63tall
    @Oakley63tall 3 роки тому +65

    This is truly one of the best videos Kevin has made. Thank you ladies for the mature and respectful dialogue. John Maxwell wrote, "Good Leaders Ask Great Questions", and I can honestly say that Mr. Samuels does an excellent job of ask thought provoking, intentional questions. Appreciate all that you do, Sir!

  • @kaos_krs1774
    @kaos_krs1774 3 роки тому +14

    It's amazing how difficult it is to self reflect. If you have relationship problems personal or professional and you want to remedy them. The answer is in the mirror.

  • @tzfrank3549
    @tzfrank3549 3 роки тому +52

    3rd and 4th caller were very attentive and respectful I wish them the best of luck.

  • @PUTLEADINURHEAD
    @PUTLEADINURHEAD 3 роки тому +239

    Does anyone else find "ghetto/hood speak" unattractive? Especially when it's used constantly? When it comes to women I find attractive there are 2 things I find intolerably unattractive, wearing a face diaper, and speaking like this woman does.
    Edit. "This woman" is the first woman in the video. I made this comment before getting past that segment.

    • @Dee-ye2dk
      @Dee-ye2dk 3 роки тому +65

      The second she said N***a my bias entered the room. I can never date or marry a woman who refers to black men in such a manner.

    • @ThisBraveHeart
      @ThisBraveHeart 3 роки тому +34

      @@Dee-ye2dk I can’t even be friends with those who do, it’s beyond disrespectful. I hate that word.

    • @POFs_Tuxedomask
      @POFs_Tuxedomask 3 роки тому +13

      @@ThisBraveHeart stfu

    • @ThisBraveHeart
      @ThisBraveHeart 3 роки тому +36

      @@POFs_Tuxedomask Come back with something more interesting and intelligent and then we may have a conversation. Good day.

    • @cevapipapi8920
      @cevapipapi8920 3 роки тому +11

      @@ThisBraveHeart impossible for him 😂

  • @discocarol3348
    @discocarol3348 3 роки тому +67

    Between you, Obsidian Ali, and Mediocre Tutorials... I see some SERIOUS change happening. Thank you all so much!

  • @Mrfitness24726
    @Mrfitness24726 3 роки тому +4

    This is one of the best shows ever, even without the smoke.

  • @What5Poppin5lime
    @What5Poppin5lime 3 роки тому +83

    The lady with the locs was super dope. She gets up. I’m sure her boyfriend is happy. She seems very thoughtful, willing to understand the info, pretty, and intelligent

  • @cdub7177
    @cdub7177 3 роки тому +81

    The pleasant, well-mannered 25 & 26 year old women on this stream are reason for hope & to continue trying. Keep doing what you’re doing, Kevin. The numbers don’t lie & your work speaks for itself. I am grateful for you accepting the responsibility of being the hero we’ve got in this season. Respect, brother.

  • @uhhmon319
    @uhhmon319 3 роки тому +139

    The third call was so great, and people never reference those calls when they talk shit about KS

    • @zacharywallace7710
      @zacharywallace7710 3 роки тому +2

      Right!

    • @Eddy-my3zf
      @Eddy-my3zf 3 роки тому +15

      It doesn't fit their narrative of him being a "women basher" so they'll choose to ignore it.

    • @AfroCentauri
      @AfroCentauri 3 роки тому +3

      EXACTLY! You could say that about most of the video.

    • @gunnymaru2900
      @gunnymaru2900 3 роки тому +6

      They would claim that she is a "Light Skin" therefore wouldn't understand the trial of a true black woman, absolute bullshit

  • @len2264
    @len2264 3 роки тому +6

    I truly value your advice Kevin. Thank you for creating this platform for women to speak and the quality of advice you give.

  • @jracerichards
    @jracerichards 3 роки тому +262

    When I'm grindin seven days a week and my money increasing each month while gradually doing less , what does a woman bragging about her money and degrees do for me? Nothing.

    • @doubleboe7NYC
      @doubleboe7NYC 3 роки тому +5

      ✊🏽💰

    • @ballin21isfly
      @ballin21isfly 3 роки тому +29

      @@shezfyne4762 idealism lmao. Explain why woman across all cultures marry up then? Truth is, tangible things come first.

    • @jracerichards
      @jracerichards 3 роки тому +37

      @@shezfyne4762 Nah it can't vice versa. Most women can't outearn men , like it or not men are still paid more than women. As far as that spirit bull , having a great spirit means crap if she's overweight and can't be quiet when I expect her to.

    •  3 роки тому +8

      @@jracerichards sounds like you just need to hire sex workers. That should work fine for you

    • @techsystems7
      @techsystems7 3 роки тому +36

      @ if that's all you got from his comment then you can't be saved..modern women are far gone, less logic, more shaming. Next 10-15 years gona be interesting. Gents please invest in Pet Company stocks cause dogs and cats gona boom even more. $CHEWY is at a great stock price right now, imagine the returns in the next 5-10yrs

  • @tjw2010ful
    @tjw2010ful 3 роки тому +52

    Great conversations with the ladies on this one. You can see some of the women learning and growing just through this one conversation.

    • @IhateWurk
      @IhateWurk 3 роки тому

      @Jermaine Burgess You a fool bruh, that was funny 😂

    • @IhateWurk
      @IhateWurk 3 роки тому

      @Jermaine Burgess I dig it all the way..

    • @The_Neighborhood_Oasis
      @The_Neighborhood_Oasis 3 роки тому

      @Jermaine Burgess probably b/c she's a babymama and not a wife. Submission is for wives and husbands.. not babymamas and babydaddies. Your house isn't in order so that's the outcome. You didn't respect her enough to make her a wife b4 you made her a mother, but you want her to listen? 😬

  • @ismailthomas7303
    @ismailthomas7303 3 роки тому +38

    What a contrast from the 1st and 3rd, then compare the 2nd. What a refreshing mature way of having a conversation about learning how to better yourself for marriage ✊🏾🙏🏾💪🏾

    • @ceecue5367
      @ceecue5367 3 роки тому +5

      I liked how the 3rd woman acted. Just simply willing to listen and talk.

  • @KetFL6
    @KetFL6 4 місяці тому +1

    The lady with the locs was the most refreshing convo I’ve seen in while, no ignorance, excuses or lack of accountability. Just trying to talk about another way to handle an issue and doing so just because she understands the sensitive people. Major Respect to her

  • @MicadelicMindset
    @MicadelicMindset 3 роки тому +117

    The hair, nails, eyes and the masculinity are all a waste of her pretty.
    So unfortunate.

    • @doubleboe7NYC
      @doubleboe7NYC 3 роки тому +13

      Just a generally obnoxious woman.

    • @ceecue5367
      @ceecue5367 3 роки тому +9

      It really is sad what a lot of women have come to

    • @Randomqtman
      @Randomqtman 3 роки тому +6

      Dont get why Kevin cosigns her

    • @WittyOne37
      @WittyOne37 3 роки тому +16

      @@Randomqtman because she has clout. She not just anybody. And probably because of her fame. She can probably put him on. Introduce him to some powerful people to go mainstream.

    • @AM-ri9ut
      @AM-ri9ut 3 роки тому +1

      Kevin is Tommie's life Coach, she's a work in progress. What's crazy is, she's alot better now than when Kevin first met her.😂

  • @yohansmorals3534
    @yohansmorals3534 3 роки тому +151

    The funny thing is I wish to be married and have children with a passion! I want to be a father and have a legacy. I work hard physically financially and mentally to be fit for that role. That's exactly why I support Kevin at the end of the day. Helps me make a more aware choice of my potential life partner regardless how hard it is to find one.

    • @body46
      @body46 3 роки тому +9

      Bro this show is making me realise so much shit my lady has been doing. Ive been so caught up in work, i haven't even noticed the SIGN

    • @yohansmorals3534
      @yohansmorals3534 3 роки тому +7

      Well lads I can say one thing for certain: perseverance ALWAYS pays of. Might be bad out here but I'll say this tho " if you want gems you have to dig" never give up and keep the work ethic high. It's best to excavate a mine And get diamonds than to shovel and get dirt.

    • @yohansmorals3534
      @yohansmorals3534 3 роки тому +2

      @HoneyNut Cocaine haha don't worry about that I live in a big metropolitan area in Canada so I have plenty of possible outcomes.

    • @yohansmorals3534
      @yohansmorals3534 3 роки тому +2

      @HoneyNut Cocaine thank you friend. It's always great to receive support🙂 may we all prosper through our hard word!

    • @yohansmorals3534
      @yohansmorals3534 3 роки тому +2

      @Khani EL well I do share your sentiment to a great extent. This is exactly why it's our duty as black Men to reeducate our sisters who feel this way Especially if they are our significant other. The amount of women, complete strangers by the way, who I overheard their struggles on the bus or in a store and I walked up to and gave advice to overcome their pain.. when they listen man.. there is a glimmer I'm their eyes when they listen to you.. can't describe it but yeah it always feel like I've done something great.. bottom line is, we will have alot of work to do ourselves but also share our knowledge to Any willing to listen because we have a shortage of communication in our community but that can certainly change.

  • @victormuthura
    @victormuthura 3 роки тому +234

    For once 80% of the women on this session were co-operative and they listened while being given constructive criticism. At least for once we get to see the positive outcome of Kevin's advice. 👏💯

  • @rogeliofelix13
    @rogeliofelix13 3 роки тому +209

    Tommie is the precise last black woman I'd expect Kevin to be cool with

    • @johnbrowntheprophet
      @johnbrowntheprophet 3 роки тому +30

      He’s always excited to see her because he knows his video will get tons of hits.

    • @michaelbillions7998
      @michaelbillions7998 3 роки тому +28

      She brings good energy shits infectious frfr

    • @Pharoah2
      @Pharoah2 3 роки тому +38

      He said it outright. She can get things most women cant. Because she’s extremely attractive so ofc he’ll be cool with her. Get a girl acting and saying the same things as her that is a 3 and he’d end the call real quick.

    • @johnbrowntheprophet
      @johnbrowntheprophet 3 роки тому +47

      @@Pharoah2 - Eh, I’m not all that impressed with her looks. I wonder what she looks like underneath all that junk on her face and head. 🤔🤷🏻‍♂️🙄🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @tcorben60
      @tcorben60 3 роки тому +16

      @@Pharoah2 not really he’s hung up on several beautiful women acting stupid. Watch more videos first

  • @geoeneas
    @geoeneas 3 роки тому +95

    Great convo with the young lady in dreads. She was so open, understanding and positive. Kevin is really providing a great product. Thanks KS.

    • @MrBronx61
      @MrBronx61 3 роки тому +1

      She's definitely going places

    • @dw5251
      @dw5251 3 роки тому +2

      ‘Dreads’ is a derogatory term! Nothing dreadful about her hair. The term is locs! As in a lock of hair, multiplied

    • @geoeneas
      @geoeneas 3 роки тому +4

      @@dw5251 not really interested in your wokeness. It's a bit offputting.

    • @thejookking
      @thejookking 3 роки тому

      @@dw5251
      STFU!
      Dreads is a perfectly acceptable term.

    • @thejookking
      @thejookking 3 роки тому

      @@geoeneas
      TRUTH!!!

  • @dariusjackson6091
    @dariusjackson6091 3 роки тому +26

    I like the segment he was doing about men. Getting from the dirt and doing the work. I say that bc he made step up a lot. Keep doing good work Big dawg. We listening.

  • @RobertHDaGod
    @RobertHDaGod 3 роки тому +43

    46:00 is a keeper. Her ability to articulate her thoughts at 25 is above par. Pretty face, logical 🙌.

    • @alp.9672
      @alp.9672 3 роки тому +6

      She is clearly educated and smart.

  • @chriscruz429
    @chriscruz429 2 роки тому +8

    Kevin is the father figure everyone needs.