John, long time (since 2014 and have bought all your books), first time commenting… Great points in the video but the audio is super weak. Trying to be helpful! Keep up the good work man!!
What does healthy fighting feel like in the moment, is it the same as fighting in general, but there is more reciprocity and an after effect of realization and clearer communication?
I would say it’s not scary threatening or hateful but it can be frustrating, upsetting and just wanting to understand each other’s already and not feel distant. To me nothing hurts more then feeling cut off and misunderstood , looked down upon etc.. after a healthy fight -(argument) u feel closer and like u grew..
I was so eager to check this guy out because of his name. But this is a REALLY bad video. Chemistry is just that, chemistry. It doesn't guarantee a relationship won't last, it doesn't guarantee a relationship WILL last. Its JUST initial attraction. What matters in a long term relationship is a number of things Compatibility Long term attraction Shared Values Common goals Understanding / Good Communication And good circumstances, meaning, that nothing is getting in the way of you being together
I would like to mention that being explosive and very attached is only a issue if one or both are immature. I feel super this explosive attraction and it’s amazing since we both won’t let the other forget themselves. When I see my partner give in too much or forget their hobbies I will remind them and we do enjoy alone time too.. but when we are together it’s super intense.. and yes we get effected strongly from each other’s emotions but again there’s open communication and the emotions just pass pretty quickly . If he’s in bad mood I will become that too but not in bad way no bad feelings or guilt. It’s simply feeling along since we share similar dna and way of expressing and feeling. We’re same temperament
Good video. Thank you
John, long time (since 2014 and have bought all your books), first time commenting…
Great points in the video but the audio is super weak. Trying to be helpful!
Keep up the good work man!!
What does healthy fighting feel like in the moment, is it the same as fighting in general, but there is more reciprocity and an after effect of realization and clearer communication?
I would say it’s not scary threatening or hateful but it can be frustrating, upsetting and just wanting to understand each other’s already and not feel distant. To me nothing hurts more then feeling cut off and misunderstood , looked down upon etc.. after a healthy fight -(argument) u feel closer and like u grew..
Really good points! And Exactly zero fighting/arguing isn’t good..
I was so eager to check this guy out because of his name.
But this is a REALLY bad video.
Chemistry is just that, chemistry.
It doesn't guarantee a relationship won't last, it doesn't guarantee a relationship WILL last.
Its JUST initial attraction.
What matters in a long term relationship is a number of things
Compatibility
Long term attraction
Shared Values
Common goals
Understanding / Good Communication
And good circumstances, meaning, that nothing is getting in the way of you being together
I would like to mention that being explosive and very attached is only a issue if one or both are immature. I feel super this explosive attraction and it’s amazing since we both won’t let the other forget themselves. When I see my partner give in too much or forget their hobbies I will remind them and we do enjoy alone time too.. but when we are together it’s super intense.. and yes we get effected strongly from each other’s emotions but again there’s open communication and the emotions just pass pretty quickly . If he’s in bad mood I will become that too but not in bad way no bad feelings or guilt. It’s simply feeling along since we share similar dna and way of expressing and feeling. We’re same temperament