“For me, life is beginning at ninety.” - Seymour Bernstein

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  • Опубліковано 19 лют 2018
  • Living the Classical Life: Episode 52
    Coaxed into public life again by actor Ethan Hawke after a 37-year hiatus, maestro Bernstein plays, in his own words, "better than I ever did." At age 90, Seymour is full of humor, charm, enthusiasm, and fascinating observations about music, psychology, and creativity.

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  • @andream6533
    @andream6533 Рік тому +79

    When he said what he loves best about teaching is “I love the feeling of making a pupil feel good about themselves”, that is the most wholesome thing ever ❤️

  • @federicoramirez8175
    @federicoramirez8175 5 років тому +222

    “Doing something for someone else distracts you from your own vulnerability... the ego ceases to exist... you’re no important”. What a teacher!!

    • @susannabonke8552
      @susannabonke8552 4 роки тому +3

      outstanding and true, the same lesson I heard from a jewish doctor.

    • @martinehamon3818
      @martinehamon3818 2 роки тому +2

      So true but I only discovered this myself years after I gave up playing the piano paralysed with stage fright in advance of playing publicly. Launched into a banking career instead! and now that I know, can’t get back to the piano due to Dupuytrens in both hands! I suggest that every teacher need to speak to their pupils about this.

    • @raduacuceu
      @raduacuceu Рік тому +1

      Amazing !

  • @ReneClementCruz
    @ReneClementCruz 3 роки тому +232

    Hahahahahaha. He's so funny. But I'm crying. Because he's such an honest, articulate, wise, kind, encouraging human being. What a privilege to hear you speak, Seymour Bernstein.

    • @patabantecalisura
      @patabantecalisura 2 роки тому +6

      To be honest in every way...talk about your fear and limitations is very in itself very liberating...

    • @letitsnow8518
      @letitsnow8518 Рік тому +2

      I cried too, i wish everyone is like him in his or her profession.

  • @RosannaDAgnillo
    @RosannaDAgnillo 8 місяців тому +4

    I am joyfully addicted to Seymour Bernstein's videos. So grateful that our classical elder is taking so much time to share heartful wisdom and music guidance!!! GRAZIE

  • @jonathanidiagbonya1103
    @jonathanidiagbonya1103 2 роки тому +52

    Every time I hear Seymour speak, I feel like I’m not only learning so much about music, but also learning about life.

    • @GimbalLocksOnly
      @GimbalLocksOnly 2 роки тому

      I know right? I learned more about life than piano from my teacher.

  • @peterpike8887
    @peterpike8887 3 роки тому +112

    How refreshing to learn something new at 76.I still have 14 years to improve.

    • @LivingtheClassicalLife
      @LivingtheClassicalLife  3 роки тому +25

      We're never done learning. Thanks for watching and commenting, Peter Pike!

    • @arlettehellemans2117
      @arlettehellemans2117 2 роки тому +2

      I am 4 years older than Peter Pike and 10 years younger than this wonderful man. But the the evolution of what is actually considered as "classical music" worries me.

    • @deadmanswife3625
      @deadmanswife3625 Рік тому +1

      13

    • @VisiblyJacked
      @VisiblyJacked Рік тому +1

      @@deadmanswife3625 lol

    • @michaelcolen1137
      @michaelcolen1137 8 місяців тому

      In what way?

  • @emlynjessen2957
    @emlynjessen2957 2 роки тому +39

    Being a brilliant performer doesn’t mean that you can teach. He has the mark of a great, inspiring teacher - caring for his students and being delighted when they improve.

  • @carolanncortese7176
    @carolanncortese7176 11 місяців тому +10

    Seymour gives a brilliant answer to the final question, “how would you like to be remembered when you die? And he replies, “as a person.”❤

    • @Bailey2006a
      @Bailey2006a 11 місяців тому

      Yes! It is a consummation devoutly to be wished …

  • @jordanm2984
    @jordanm2984 9 місяців тому +3

    I wish I had a grandfather like Seymour. What a wise and gentle soul.

  • @kennethcarlsen8920
    @kennethcarlsen8920 7 місяців тому +2

    He is an international treasure and a total gem! Thank you for sharing❤❤❤

  • @louisgottlieb3148
    @louisgottlieb3148 Рік тому +9

    Unbelievable that Seymour is in his nineties. He is so youthfull.
    Very wise suggestions about stage fright, delvering public service by being truly creative.
    "If you do something for someone else it temporarily distracts you from your own vulnerability." That is wisdom.

  • @radovanlorkovic3562
    @radovanlorkovic3562 Рік тому +3

    In three weeks. I am reaching 90 and I am impatient to start life once more too.

  • @efraingarcia1969
    @efraingarcia1969 2 роки тому +65

    This is a masterclass about being human. Lovely interview, a wonderful human being. How much truth in each of his words, how much passion in the exciting art of teaching.

    • @bruce_c_in_nz
      @bruce_c_in_nz 5 місяців тому

      SB is an amazing human, and I agree with almost all the comments about him. "Lovely interview" involves two people. The younger of the two is not out of place.

  • @tvctoni
    @tvctoni 9 місяців тому +3

    “I don’t intend to be gone.
    But what do you want me to do when you’re gone? 😂”
    How do you want to be remembered, as a pianist, as a teacher…?
    Seymour: As a person.
    I love his immortal spirit. What a treasure this beautiful person is. Thank you for sharing this touching interview with us ❤

  • @fclpjg
    @fclpjg 2 роки тому +37

    What honesty and awareness of self! Am 57 and I thought I was too old to retrain myself in my piano playing. But I persevered and it was serendipitous to come across this video.. there’s hope for me…

    • @bobsteiner9209
      @bobsteiner9209 Рік тому +6

      You're a youngster. I'm almost 80 and just started taking lessons again. My teacher says I'm talented!

  • @juliberk
    @juliberk 5 років тому +13

    He is VERY sharp for a 90 year old.

    • @susannabonke8552
      @susannabonke8552 4 роки тому +2

      Absolutely. Brain training IS better than Body exercise to be healthy and lucky and getting older ....

  • @robertmuncaster3510
    @robertmuncaster3510 2 роки тому +5

    In helping slow readers I found the technique of making the child feel good about themselves almost always yielded success.

  • @jylqz
    @jylqz 3 роки тому +24

    "Nothing helps stage fright, except two things: preparation and performing experience. "

  • @ThePianoenergy
    @ThePianoenergy 2 роки тому +3

    Incredible, he looks about 70!!

  • @elijaguy
    @elijaguy 2 роки тому +13

    34:12 soooo beautiful! "when you do something for someone else, it temporarily distracts you from your own vulnerability"

  • @LornaKellyZim
    @LornaKellyZim 8 місяців тому

    At 81 having been a professional singer all my life I am finally learning how to sing and enjoying a new dimension of my music life! You are amazing and so inspiring!

  • @PhillipLWilcher
    @PhillipLWilcher Рік тому +6

    I have always believed that the cycle of Life is a circle of Love. Seymour Bernstein, both as a man and a musician, personifies this belief for me. What glorious, glorious man! I love him!

  • @robertoa.m.3984
    @robertoa.m.3984 2 роки тому +12

    Wonderful human being!
    So marvelously Jewish as well!!

  • @susanvaughan4210
    @susanvaughan4210 4 роки тому +5

    What a teacher he is. And I'm not talking about piano!

  • @p5ri3o
    @p5ri3o Рік тому +2

    "I Want To Be Remembered In Terms Of Human Relationships": Seymour Bernstein💪

  • @graziacavasino8884
    @graziacavasino8884 5 років тому +39

    What a life lesson! What a touching wisdom! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

  • @MsTwiggy28
    @MsTwiggy28 4 роки тому +31

    Love him!!!!! and look at how honest some people are, not worried about talking about their vulnerabilities. these are the good people.

  • @colinyoungscot
    @colinyoungscot 2 роки тому +6

    It's amazing that the section at about 20:30 where they're talking about Kissin and how he talks about Kissin writing and playing as part of his recitals. There was an article recently saying that Kissin is getting back in to composing. I can't wait to hear what comes from him.

  • @Zagginair
    @Zagginair Місяць тому

    “We want to give the best of ourselves to other people, and make them feel good about themselves. That’s what I want to be remembered about doing.” 😭❤️

  • @cbross100
    @cbross100 6 років тому +47

    This is a riveting interview. Seymour's wisdom and candor, as well as his sense of humor kept me glued to screen. I laughed aloud at the "omelette" story and the doctor story, but moreover was deeply affected by the insights into stage fright.

  • @rhodemb
    @rhodemb 10 місяців тому +1

    I will remember you always ,because of you kindness, sweetness, wisdom,,... etc , .... and for that fantastic ,wonderful, softness of your playing .

  • @jeffwolinski2659
    @jeffwolinski2659 4 місяці тому

    I just discovered this wonderful human being in the last week, and my life is absolutely better for it. Great interview!

  • @m.a.3322
    @m.a.3322 3 роки тому +20

    Youth is wasted on the young, and Seymour is a prime example of this! What a wise man.

    • @letitsnow8518
      @letitsnow8518 Рік тому

      What does it mean youth is wasted on the young

    • @GH-oi2jf
      @GH-oi2jf Рік тому +1

      @@letitsnow8518 - It means that youthful people have energy, but not the wisdom to make the best use of it.

    • @skobywankenobi
      @skobywankenobi Рік тому +2

      Patently false. Youth is for accumulating experience and making mistakes. That's why young people have so much energy and can recover so quickly.
      The sunset years are for sharing knowledge and improving the next generation using the experience you gained. The mistakes you help prevent others from making lead to further progress, which is the incremental procees that has brought us to be the closest things to God incarnate.
      It's no use deriding the young because you feel like you could do it all somuch better, you were once them and one day they'll be you. Also this quote is a personal peeve of mine because Wilde was an absolute degenerate.

  • @VisiblyJacked
    @VisiblyJacked Рік тому +1

    With all of the world's problems these days, I'm very concerned about the kind of world we will be leaving to Seymour Bernstein.

  • @gabrelconner9146
    @gabrelconner9146 11 місяців тому +1

    This was so lovely…tears…..beautiful… 🥹

  • @TenderRage
    @TenderRage Рік тому +2

    May you live to be one hundred... and God bless Ethan Hawke. Such loving wisdom... and articulation beyond the scope of my imagination.

  • @elenirum2020
    @elenirum2020 3 роки тому +23

    What a great interview and a beautiful person and artist.

  • @poetmale
    @poetmale 2 роки тому +8

    "As a person!" What a beautiful human being. I am touched and inspired. Thanks for sharing ❤️

  • @aaronjensen2054
    @aaronjensen2054 4 роки тому +7

    Seymour is a true gem

  • @slowpeaceful
    @slowpeaceful 5 років тому +10

    I watch this again and again. So moving!!

  • @victoriasylenko9382
    @victoriasylenko9382 3 місяці тому

    What a beautiful human being!❤
    Thank you !❤️

  • @GiuseppinaCiarlaHarp
    @GiuseppinaCiarlaHarp 2 роки тому +6

    I love him ❤️ re-creative and creative!

  • @jamesneilsongrahamloveinth1301
    @jamesneilsongrahamloveinth1301 4 роки тому +12

    Seymour Bernstein's story about the violinist, Michael Raban, dropping his bow on purpose is superb. It suggests that when we face our fears, when we allow 'the worst' to happen (and we find that it is not the end of the world) old doubts fall away . . .

  • @joelkatz8729
    @joelkatz8729 4 роки тому +34

    Thank you so much for this moving interview with Seymour, a truly inspiring human being. He radiates wisdom, love and good humour... and teaches us to be kinder to ourselves

    • @susannabonke8552
      @susannabonke8552 4 роки тому +1

      I am really blessed to see this. Speechless ...

  • @sheana2005
    @sheana2005 Рік тому +3

    I just love this man. What a gift he is to the world, not only as a premier pianist and educator, but as a human being. I am so fortunate to hear you and learn from you.

  • @charlesdavis7087
    @charlesdavis7087 2 роки тому +8

    Amazing! This interview with Seymour Bernstein was a transcendent experience for me. It was one of the finest, most illuminating and, humane interviews I've ever seen. And Seymour was perfectly right about Evgeny Kissin making that next step into becoming a composer. I asked Evgeny the same thing, "When are we going to hear some of your compositions?" (No answer, yet.)

  • @catherinelittlebear9863
    @catherinelittlebear9863 2 роки тому +3

    Mr. Bernstein is absolutely charming!

  • @carnivalcruiserbill
    @carnivalcruiserbill 5 років тому +8

    Happy Birthday, Seymour. What an inspiration you are to so many people!

  • @fortissimoX
    @fortissimoX 4 місяці тому

    Thank you Seymour for all your online videos, they help me so much!

  • @chgone5034
    @chgone5034 Рік тому +7

    I truly adore him as a person. He has all the wisdom and brilliant insights about being human and living a gift of life.

  • @kittyandthekatz8046
    @kittyandthekatz8046 Рік тому +1

    So happy to be aware of this wonderful human being. ( And just look at his beautiful hands - the fluidity!). Bless you Seymour. ❤️

  • @firebearva
    @firebearva 6 місяців тому

    What an amazing maestro, an American treasure.

  • @Bailey2006a
    @Bailey2006a 11 місяців тому +1

    It is a blessing that this treasure still walks amongst us sharing his invaluable insights. So many have left us and we will not see their like again. Seymour is a bright light in an ever darkening world.

  • @carol622
    @carol622 Рік тому +1

    Great interview. Thank you for posting it. There is so much to learn from elderly people, and in music the musician of his age. Yes. You improve with age if you continue to play your instrument. I was in too big a hurry in my youth as I played the piano hurriedly
    Technique and strength provide pianistic control bur also enhance ability to articulate expression.
    I'm 73. We didn't have thrse you tube interviews years ago and few musicians spoke of dealing with stage fright. I had belly laughs over his effort to combat stage fright with egg whites.
    I will remember him as a person of a great heart with tremendous talent also.

  • @hanshartmann8205
    @hanshartmann8205 3 роки тому +13

    Wonderful to listen to this man. I have read his book "with your own hands" and it did miracles for me. After a short time I took up piano lessons at the age of 68 and I am profiting so much of his message that practicing can be already joy. I still have 20 years when I will be able to "give" instead to "take". Right now I am the taker: from the knowledge of my teacher and of many inputs otherwise.

    • @LivingtheClassicalLife
      @LivingtheClassicalLife  3 роки тому

      Thanks for watching, and for sharing your experience, Hans Hartmann!

    • @rogerparton8572
      @rogerparton8572 3 роки тому

      Mr. Hartmann, I was incredibly glad to read your post here. Wonderful!!

    • @SeaDrive300
      @SeaDrive300 2 роки тому

      Just to clarify (for people who might be interested in reading the book you refer to), the title is "With Your Own Two Hands", not "With Your Own Hands". Great book, highly recommended!

  • @minibeing4809
    @minibeing4809 Рік тому +5

    Love this! Such a spirited man with a mischievous glint in the eyes.

  • @puputintin5296
    @puputintin5296 Місяць тому

    This brings me to tears

  • @andrevicente5995
    @andrevicente5995 2 роки тому +1

    Wonderful !

  • @Norman68623
    @Norman68623 Рік тому +3

    I bought his book like 25+ years ago. Such a pleasurable read! It is absolutely delightful to see him now in this interview, and how his written words are somehow reverberating in this video. Truly outstanding!

    • @Norman68623
      @Norman68623 Рік тому

      @@michellemonet4358 The title is:" With Your Own Two Hands: Self-Discovery Through Music"

  • @tdtrecordsmusic
    @tdtrecordsmusic Рік тому +1

    I gotta say, his advice for stage fright is pretty good. In a prior life of mine I was a full time DJ. =Many times a week + many different audience types from formal weddings / big events in the Hollywood area to small private events like a little kid's birthday.
    Of all the techniques to rid of stage fright, I think the best is >> Make a mistake early on. Try to have fun with it. Best to show the audience that you are a real person. This also has an added benefit that the audience will be more forgiving. When you show them you are human they seem to be less judgmental towards your performance. This is probably more evident for a DJ caz we are supposed to get people to dance and participate.
    So, I would make a mistake which was very obvious. A show stopping / music stopping / vibe stopping moment. Then say something on the mic/ ask to accept my apologies >> something like >> Well, I guess we are all human.I promise not to do that again, if you promise to have the best night of your lives

  • @KAFNOR
    @KAFNOR Рік тому +3

    What an unexpected inspiration I got from this wonderful man and interview!

  • @johntravena119
    @johntravena119 2 роки тому

    Love the man!

  • @jordanstephens95
    @jordanstephens95 6 років тому +3

    Really enjoyed this one! Thanks!

  • @8beef4u
    @8beef4u 2 роки тому +1

    This is such a great conversation

  • @naecarol.1988
    @naecarol.1988 2 роки тому

    Thank you.

  • @yardrail3432
    @yardrail3432 Рік тому +1

    What a gem! Loved every minute of this amazing conversation. Many thanks to whoever made this possible.

  • @gryffynda1
    @gryffynda1 2 роки тому

    Wonderful! And what lovely long fingers!

  • @chestertonlewis2867
    @chestertonlewis2867 Рік тому +1

    One of the next interviews I ever watched. Absolutely priceless! Thank you teacher! Thank you.

  • @Lorec1
    @Lorec1 2 роки тому

    Thank you, Seymour.

  • @quaver1239
    @quaver1239 4 роки тому +6

    Love this, every minute of it! Thank you very much for sharing the remarkable Seymour Bernstein with us. Your programmes impart great wisdom at times.

  • @ednaquintana6201
    @ednaquintana6201 4 роки тому +6

    I enjoyed the interview. Mr. Bernstein is an amazing person.

  • @Redlabel0
    @Redlabel0 11 місяців тому

    gorgeous interview. Thank you kindly

  • @noshirm6285
    @noshirm6285 2 роки тому +2

    Amazing, wonderful Seymour!

  • @susannabonke8552
    @susannabonke8552 4 роки тому +2

    I feel honored to listen and admire. Came here bc. music is very intense perception for me.

  • @claudioviteri8113
    @claudioviteri8113 2 роки тому +2

    Great maestro, artist & person !

  • @szegedification
    @szegedification 4 роки тому +6

    Delightful interview. Thank you.

  • @BeStillandKnow0000
    @BeStillandKnow0000 Рік тому

    He is so wonderful ❣Thank you for your wisdom.

  • @carolasandrakaty
    @carolasandrakaty 2 роки тому +3

    The most inspirational one!

  • @071949
    @071949 4 роки тому +7

    It was just two days ago that I watched *Seymour, An Introduction* on DVD and thoroughly enjoyed it. Now today this interview appeared in the "Recommended for you" videos that You Tube put up. Great timing...almost makes me think someone is watching me. Seymour Bernstein has an engaging personality and this interview really drew it out. Thank you!

  • @SergioValenzuela
    @SergioValenzuela 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for this, so, SO moving, this man is pure light, a pearl of interview.

  • @josht130
    @josht130 2 роки тому +1

    I love this man

  • @christophersurnname9967
    @christophersurnname9967 2 роки тому +1

    Man I love Seymour so much.

  • @ahimsainternational3361
    @ahimsainternational3361 2 роки тому +2

    Inspiring! What bliss to have stumbled upon this lovely interview and to laugh and love almost simultaneously.

  • @denise2169
    @denise2169 3 роки тому +4

    I would have loved to have studied with Bernstein. It would have been fun!

  • @WigbertTraxler
    @WigbertTraxler 3 роки тому +3

    Simply stunning!!!!

  • @ElzaRitterPianoStudio
    @ElzaRitterPianoStudio 2 роки тому

    Brilliant human and pedagogue and musician! It’s so inspiring! Thank you, Maestro!

  • @LibraryofMusic
    @LibraryofMusic Рік тому

    What a pleasure to listen to him. He is like an open book.

  • @michaelmiller641
    @michaelmiller641 Рік тому

    Wow that was amazing!

  • @user-nm7cf5ou4k
    @user-nm7cf5ou4k 4 роки тому +1

    How inpressive interview it is! I WATCHED THE EHTHAB HAWK'S FILM and it brought me here.

  • @bachplayer13
    @bachplayer13 4 роки тому

    love you seymour!

  • @pakhavaj
    @pakhavaj Рік тому

    Such a wonderful Person. I love listening to him!

  • @denise2169
    @denise2169 Рік тому +1

    What a wonderful interview! I wish I could have studied with Bernstein! Thank you! You have made my day!

  • @joelin5887
    @joelin5887 4 роки тому +1

    Heroic responses from Bernstein.

  • @tombennettband1485
    @tombennettband1485 Рік тому +1

    this guy is amazing.

  • @quaver1239
    @quaver1239 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for giving us this interview again! I love Mr Bernstein’s personality, his humour, friendliness and wisdom. Enjoyed this even more than the first time I saw it.

  • @fredx94
    @fredx94 2 роки тому +2

    Always a lot to learn listening to this guy

  • @leongfongonn6968
    @leongfongonn6968 2 роки тому +1

    What a lovely person. God Bless you!

  • @roysmallian2046
    @roysmallian2046 Рік тому +1

    What a wonderful man.

  • @Ahopeinmoon
    @Ahopeinmoon 9 місяців тому

    May u always be blessed Mr seymour...u r such an amazing person

  • @victoriafernandes5599
    @victoriafernandes5599 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for the interview and thank you to the beautiful pianist, for being so humble and kind, for teaching with his heart🌹