Thanks for sharing your story. Must be very difficult for you but I’m glad you put your son first. After all, he did not deserve to be abandoned. Thank you.
Koj hais yog lawm os tus txiv tsev aw. Kuv xav kom peb cov txiv neej hmoob muaj kev xav li Koj es ho qhib siab thiab paj hlwb mus rau counseling. A lot of men don’t believe in therapy or they’re embarrassed and have too much pride. I’m glad to hear you were able to overcome this ordeal in life. Thanks for sharing and all the best to you and your wife.
Zoo kawg lawm os tej menyuam no nws tsis txhaum os mog nws tug los nws tsuas pom thiab paub koj xwb txhob ua rau tej me nyuam tag kev cia nws kawm tag Dr los nws yeej yog koj tus tub xwb mog cav cuag tejlaus tseem mus cawm coj tejtub ntsuag los ua luag tub mas me txiv tsev aw!!! Ua zoo ces tau zoo xwb os
It such a sad story😢 but you did the right thing. It’s really not the kid fault n he’s already so sick if you abandon him again it’s nothing good to come out of it except just adding another sad and devastating to your older kid. Just remember this, he might not be your blood but kids these day, even your own blood, we might gave them blood but we might not gave them heart. Some people even gone and adopted kid. Never know, this kid might love you more than your own kids. Have a big heart, even though she cheated on you but hope she learned her lesson and take her irresponsible behavior in the future. Love him as your kid. If he’s going to become a doctor he will find out someday so love him and make him tearful of joy when he found out that your love for him is no different than your own blood line. Good luck
Poj niam tso rau lwm tus deev 1 teg es txiv neej mob chim yuav tuag li no....cas txiv neej es mus tham hluas nkauj deev lwm tus forever ho tias tsis ua cas thiab kom poj niam uvsiabntevntev xwb mas
Kuv yeej ntseeg li koj hais os! Yus lub neej yus mam kho yus with professional help if ob willing to seek lawv kev pab xwb thiab zaum tsu lub txim xwb os..
If she told you the truth when the kid was born, then ok to forgive. If you didn’t find out, she would never have told you. It’s not so much about her cheating on you, but it’s about her lying to you for 14 years. It’s not a small secret. How can you trust her again? Well, if you choose to forgive her then you have to forget what happened. I am not sure if people like you are strong to forgive liars or just simply naive. Well, I hope she will be faithful to you because cheaters have a wandering heart.
This is so sad. Your wife knew deep down all along that he isn’t yours but she’s not being honest. It’s her karma for betraying you. People who look innocent like your wife are the worst.
You forgave her. Many wouldn’t have the courage to. God will forgive you. Women and money are the two greatest roots of evil. Most girls will not just give their body to anyone they just met. There is more to that but your wife will not reveal it to you.
Thanks for sharing. Wow, you’re a better person than me. You have a big heart.
Thanks for sharing your story. Must be very difficult for you but I’m glad you put your son first. After all, he did not deserve to be abandoned. Thank you.
Thank you so much!
Yes, he’s making the right decision to see consulting. Hmong people needs to learn from him.
Koj hais yog lawm os tus txiv tsev aw. Kuv xav kom peb cov txiv neej hmoob muaj kev xav li Koj es ho qhib siab thiab paj hlwb mus rau counseling. A lot of men don’t believe in therapy or they’re embarrassed and have too much pride. I’m glad to hear you were able to overcome this ordeal in life. Thanks for sharing and all the best to you and your wife.
Glad your marriage worked out. Your child is innocent and deserves both of your love and support. God bless you and your family.
Zoo kawg lawm os tej menyuam no nws tsis txhaum os mog nws tug los nws tsuas pom thiab paub koj xwb txhob ua rau tej me nyuam tag kev cia nws kawm tag Dr los nws yeej yog koj tus tub xwb mog cav cuag tejlaus tseem mus cawm coj tejtub ntsuag los ua luag tub mas me txiv tsev aw!!! Ua zoo ces tau zoo xwb os
Koj yog ib leej txiv thiab ib tus txiv tsev siab dawb kawg. Thov vaj tswv foom koob hmoov rau koj.
Zoo siab uas koj lub siab dawb zam txim rau koj pojniam os brother aw💕
Nws yog ib leeg tub, Ces cov laus tias koj tau lawv txwv feej lawm.
Yog leej twg nplua nuj, muaj nyiaj neej zoo mas lawv yeej cai vim ntshai tsam txwv feej mus yug rau luag li no nkaus xwb o brother aw..
Kev sib hlub yeej txhuav yam, bonne continuation pour votre famille est soit heureux avec votre famille 😊
Brother, you are a good father
good call all around! u have a kind and unselfish heart.
Happy for you but such a betrayal love
It such a sad story😢 but you did the right thing. It’s really not the kid fault n he’s already so sick if you abandon him again it’s nothing good to come out of it except just adding another sad and devastating to your older kid. Just remember this, he might not be your blood but kids these day, even your own blood, we might gave them blood but we might not gave them heart. Some people even gone and adopted kid. Never know, this kid might love you more than your own kids. Have a big heart, even though she cheated on you but hope she learned her lesson and take her irresponsible behavior in the future. Love him as your kid. If he’s going to become a doctor he will find out someday so love him and make him tearful of joy when he found out that your love for him is no different than your own blood line. Good luck
Koj mas yog ib tus txiv zoo tiag li os❤
Thaub aw tsi muaj hnub yuav zam txim tau li nrauj tsi tau ca ho mus kuaj nai maum dab tsi
Poj niam tso rau lwm tus deev 1 teg es txiv neej mob chim yuav tuag li no....cas txiv neej es mus tham hluas nkauj deev lwm tus forever ho tias tsis ua cas thiab kom poj niam uvsiabntevntev xwb mas
Kuv yeej ntseeg li koj hais os! Yus lub neej yus mam kho yus with professional help if ob willing to seek lawv kev pab xwb thiab zaum tsu lub txim xwb os..
Ua cas ib cov ntxhais yuav yooj yim ua luaj li pom thawj zaug xwb los yuav cia li muab yus lub cev rau twb tsi paub xyov yog caj ces phem los zoo li.
Tus poj niam no ma yoojyim kawg li thiab.
Thaub aw... yog koj poj niam twb tsis kam qhia koj ces nws txawm hlub tus hmoob ntawd os thiab teb zaum nws twb nyob ze2 ntawm koj os yog tsis xav paub ces cas tsis nyob twj ywm nawj
That's the ultimate betrayal!
If she told you the truth when the kid was born, then ok to forgive. If you didn’t find out, she would never have told you. It’s not so much about her cheating on you, but it’s about her lying to you for 14 years. It’s not a small secret. How can you trust her again? Well, if you choose to forgive her then you have to forget what happened. I am not sure if people like you are strong to forgive liars or just simply naive. Well, I hope she will be faithful to you because cheaters have a wandering heart.
This is so sad. Your wife knew deep down all along that he isn’t yours but she’s not being honest. It’s her karma for betraying you. People who look innocent like your wife are the worst.
You forgave her. Many wouldn’t have the courage to. God will forgive you. Women and money are the two greatest roots of evil. Most girls will not just give their body to anyone they just met. There is more to that but your wife will not reveal it to you.