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I started cryingg when he said “it’s okay with you though, if it’s just me and you it feels fine”😭😭💕💕💕 happiest bday Stephiancé. You’re a true gem the world is a better place with you in it!
I’ve been here for 3 years now and honestly, I could confidently say that MMB is the nicest and most kindhearted man. He deserves the most! Happy Birthday, MMB!! 🎉🎉🎉
We don’t celebrate birthdays but I 100% get his point of view, specially when he said that his family aren’t expressive and “it’s ok with you though” I feel the exact same
Growing up, I have never received explicit love from my family, and I can totally understand where he’s coming from. I get a couple happy birthdays on my birthday from my family and friends, and sometimes they forget. I’ve also never celebrated my birthday on my birthday, bc it is the day after my mum’s so we celebrate together. I don’t enjoy big birthday parties for me because I’m not used to receiving or expressing affection so it just puts me in an extremely awkward situation in front of people that I have never been that open with. It feels so strange when I see my friends being so openly loving with their family…
Never stops impressing me how wise and caring Mr. Mangobutt is tbh, you can hear in his voice he's such a kind person. Wishing him a healthy life always
I genuinely see the change in mmb since the first vlog to this more recent one. Stephanie and her family really opened him up and changed him in the most beautiful ways possible. He's grown so much as a person alongside the fam and I'm getting so emotional just thinking about it. Happy 30th birthday and Ty Stephanie for this wholesome and honest vlog 🥺🥰
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MISTER MANGOBUTT!!!! …To the always responsible, always sharing “in China” stories, and always wearing black shirts!! Here’s to 30, and many more 🐼 🎉
It’s so weird to see how far MMB has come, especially from the very first video of Stephanie’s. That’s character development right there, and Stephanie has been through every bit of it with him.
Watching this video made me realize that I was not the only one feeling weird when people get together because of my birthday. Stephiance really hit the mark of explaining why he was feeling that way, and I just want to tell him that its okay and thank you, because I now also understand why I act this way. Also, maybe its because I know that not people are genuinely happy for me and it just feels forced. Ps. Thank you Stephiance, really. And happy birthday. We understand what you are feeling. Love you both stephanie !
i can totally relate to him my family isn't expressive with their emotional sometimes I wish I can tell my mom or any family member that "I love you" but I really cant and its just stuck at my throat..
MMB making me emotional every time - he is so wise, humble and just an overall wonderful person. You both are so lucky you found your soul mates - it's so rare to see and it makes my heart so warm and happy and hopeful ❤❤❤
Dear Stephiancé I GET IT, you described how I feel about affection from family perfectly. When my parents praise me, it feels too wrong and I don't know what to make of it. I didn't receive that kind of love growing up and receiving it now feels wrong. Anyway, Happy birthday! You're a wonderful man and I look up to you a lot
i know exactly how stephiance feels about his birthday because i feel the same and its so warming to know that i'm not alone in that sense. and i'm glad he has people like you who respect what he wants for his birthday, i hope i can find people like that someday too.
I know exactly how he feels. I never actually ever been surprised by anyone in my family or anyone around me. I always feel super lonely when my birthday rolls around.
BROOO I am literally crying bc I literally felt like no one could relate to how exactly overwhelming it is for me on my birthday, I am relieved to know that other people struggle with it. HAPPY BIRTHDAY MR.MANGOBUTT!!!🥳🥳🥳🥳😭
Happy Birthday Stephiance! In a way, I get the trauma. It's like the saying, we accept the love we think we deserve. Stephanie is such a loving woman to not push you into something you are uncomfortable with but also try and understand and help you work through it. I know we only see snippets of your life together, but I genuinely think that you are so good to each other, and I wish you good health and happiness. So HBD to both of you 🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂
as a fellow scorpio i agree with him lmao it feels super awkward to me to be celebrated in any way and i just enjoy doing something small with my loved ones 😩
Happy Birthday MMB!!🎉 I love how understanding Stephanie is. I totally get how he feels about his own birthday. I dislike when people are fake nice to me on my birthday, also and don’t particularly like the extra attention (other than my SO).
happy birthday! I’ve watched you guys for nearly 2-3 years and you are one of my favorites UA-camrs! You guys create a lot of good content and they’re alway so funny and cute.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE MOST RESPONSIBLE HUMAN. I feel like Mr. Mangobutt and I have a similar sense of humor but I also relate to Stephanie so much. I've been watching you for so long, even before he appeared on your videos, I love how Stephiancé has come so far, because he's so much more open, affectionate and vulnerable. I'm proud of him and sure all of us are. You're such a great couple
I love how far out of his shell being in you and your families lives has brought him. He seems like a wonderful man that is very deserving of warmth and laughter. I hope the two of you have many years of happiness and success ahead. Very deserving hard working couple. Your banter has given me a smile on many lonely moments in my own life. So thank you both. Happy Birthday MMB
This is literally a Shy Boy - Outgoing Girl trope right here and where we see the shy guy becoming more outgoing as time goes by. That's MMB right there! Happy birthday MMB, stay healthy and keep on investing in stocks and in your happiness!! 🎉🎉🎈🎈
Aww happy birthday Mr. Mangobutt! I completely understand where you’re coming from. Not growing up with that affection makes it so weird for you to receive it once you’re an adult. I appreciate you and Stephanie. You guys are such good people and you really have a heart. You have aloud your personality to come through so much and it’s beautiful to see.
i feel for him😭 i also hates my birthday cz when i was a kid, i had never celebrated my birthday bcs i grew up very poor😂. every year, i feel the most awkward on my birthday.
I've never related to someone as much as I did to MMB on this vlog when it comes to birthdays. Thank you Steph and MMB for sharing this because now I don't feel alone in not wanting to make a big deal out of my birthday, and HBD MMB!
HBD Mistermangobutt! I relate so much to your story. I come from a Chinese family, and we’ve never been an openly lovey family. To the point that it makes me uncomfortable. My birthday was yesterday and I honestly hate celebrating it. I would ignore it altogether but my dad’s birthday is one day before so it’s always a tradition for us to go out to eat w the fam. I’m so happy that Stephanie has brought openness to your love language but also respects your preference for a low key birthday. Not every one is sensitive to that need. Hope you had a lovely birthday 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I can exactly relate to how he feels. I have been brought up in a family where we never expressed each other’s feelings so even a HBD text feels weird. Happy birthday Stephaince.
I completely understand why he feels that way because when I was about to do my concert I was just so overwhelmed and started crying and having everyone look at me and try and help me out just made me cry even more and i was so embarrassed but I do hope he has an amazing birthday!
Mr Mangobutt is just like me. I hate my birthdays for so many reasons especially the pity part I can’t stand it. The feeling of everyone caring for you just for one day sucks it makes me feel worse so I understand him and he explained it perfectly :)! I’m a bit late but happy belayed birthday Mr Mangobutt
Oh my gaaa... 🥺🥺 I completely relate. But rather than trauma or anything, I guess birthdays is just... another day for us really. We feel you love. I think it is more meaningful if people remember your birthday than a party... (coming from someone who don’t really have a party for birthdays besides cake, noodles, and food)
Happy birthday Mr MangoButt!!!!🎂🎉 Wishing you good healthy and happiness four years to come💖💕 You and Steph always finds a way to brighten my day, love y’all so much💅🏽😇
This relationship is goals 🥰 it’s like they found the missing parts to their life. MMB is the calm one that will ease Stephanie’s mind when she needed (queue in JungKook’s song ‘Seven’ lyrics rn..‘I’ll kiss your waist and ease your mind’). And how bubbly Stephanie is brings out the extrovert in him 🤩
HBD!! totally agree bout the day that everyone like obligated to be nice to you. i usually pretend to be busy or sick. after few years, no one drops any wishes anymore... which is alrite. life goes on...
HBD!!! 🎉 I keep hearing 30’s is when life gets good, 20’s is hectic a lot of idk what I’m doing then 30’s is more chill I got this energy. May luck and happiness always smile upon you :)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MMB!!!!! everyone can tell how good of a person you are and don’t let your past get in the way of what is in store for you. we all love you!❤️
Honestly, I totally relate to MMB. My birthday is in March and my parent's birthdays are also in March, so all our birthdays tended to get lumped together. Since mine was at the beginning of the month, my dad's is in the middle, and my mom's is at the end we all kind of split the difference and celebrate around my dad's birthday. Growing up, we would just buy a cake and not give presents. But after a while we stopped even doing that. Bad things also tend to happen on my birthday: having to take standardized tests, getting my braces tightened, and getting stuck in an elevator for 2 hours! At this point, I don't even want people to know it's my birthday for fear something bad will happen. I think it's so special Steph was able to get him to come out of his shell and feel the joy of celebrating warmly with people and hope in the future we will both be able to kick our b-day related traumas!
I can complete relate. Im assuming he has Capricorn placements on his big 3 He is a Scorpio, Scorpios a are resentful when they hurt or are hurting and if he does have Capricorn placements he probably has condition himself to not validate his desire and feelings. I completely get it , because I don’t celebrate my birthday as well because it trigger sad childhood memories. Ive learned to validate and allowed those emotions on that day, but still allowed my inner child to heal with the desires that I couldn’t have either before or after. Happy Birthday 🐼
HBD STEPHIANCE 🎉🎉we're the same age! 🥰 My family doesn't celebrate birthdays I remember how I felt sad about myself when I go to kids' parties and bring them gifts.. I got my first birthday surprise at 20 by my new friends and I cried a lot I wasn't used to the attention and felt embarrassed for my overreacting lol but this year was special as I wanted they took me out and gave me all the attention and gave me lots of gifts, and I bought myself a cake and forced my family to celebrate with me and I enjoyed it to the fullest without crying because I deserve it 🙈✨ Hope Stephiance will overcome his trauma and enjoy the love you guys give him 💕💕
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MMB!! TbH, I'm also traumatized by my bday too but I'm like Stephanie who will feel sad if no one says happy bday. Never had a big bday party organized by my parents and so it was just a "bday dinner" at home just like you. Mom died right before I turned 16, friends ditching me to go to the club on my 21st, spent my 30th alone because of lockdown, etc..when I turned off the fb notification for my bday reminder, you'll be amazed on how many people actually remembers your bday. I disabled it also cuz i was tired of the "empty" bday wishes.. MMB, just remember that all these people love you and see how special you are! ❤️ Happy 30!
Happy Belated Birthday Mr Mango Butt!! 🎉 ✨ You guys are the sweetest, I swear 🥰 As usual, your videos brighten up my day. Thank you Stephanieeeee and fam. I love you! ❤️
Happy birthday Mr Mango Butt!!! I’ve been watching you guys for years now and you both have been such a wonderful part of my life, thank you so much for existing❤️
Today is my Birthday and I can totally relate wo what you're feeling! I feel like everyone is just pretending when I know they genuinely just wanna celebrate my birthday. Happy Birthday! You are very lucky to have Stephanie understand you! I hope to find my own Stephanie one day
I feel for MMB. I feel the same. I never had a birthday celebration except my 1st bday which I could never recall. I only saw it from old pictures. Now that I am a parent, my sons bday is only a day apart from mine and now everyone in my partners family celebrates my bday on my sons bday. They would get me my own cake and gifts and I am not used to it. Makes my wanna cry how these people love me more than my parents hahaha
Happy Birthday, Mr. Mango !! Thank you so much for making me laugh and cry at the same time, there's so much I relate with you and that gave me a sense of not being alone. Best wishes to you and stay healthy
Nooo because I completely understand MMB because I've been feeling this way about mine for 3 years. Somehow for the last 3 years, I felt detached to my own birthday and celebrating it is so foreign, and I feel almost gross celebrating it.
I can relate to not being used to being super loving with family. My family is the same way. I feel like MMB is so honest and relatable. Love you guys and happy birthday!
hbd mr.mb!! I feel weird getting too much attention on my birthdays as well 😅. Thanks for all the bits of advice over the years, especially the finance series and making annual plans for yourself. Having a little discipline grants you the luxury of enjoying a stress-free life and taking care of the people you love. I hope u have many more years of happiness and good health!
hbd mmb ! also, i feel very in-between the both of you when it comes to my birthday. i'm like stephanie where i'm secretly looking to check if anyone texts me or mentions my birthday or says something and when they do it because it makes me feel loved and like people care about me but at the same time i don't like when others feel obligated to care about me. even for other people's birthday's including my own i don't like giving or receiving gifts, i prefer to give/get spontaneous gifts because the ones on specific holidays tend to be obligatory things and not a gift that is meaningful or shows care. it's harder to tell genuine actions from insincere ones with a big celebration or "special" attention. i guess my childhood environment didn't give me the trauma that stephiance has but it does show me what i'm not used to & also what i have always craved. i truly just want to know that the people i care about, care about me too
I agree with Stephiance, I don’t like birthdays because I feel overwhelmed by the love I get on that day. It feels forced and wrong, so I don’t like celebrating. Happy birthday to him btw!!
30s are the new 20s so tell your Stephiance to wild out 💯 HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!🐼 Its such a interesting thing not liking a day that’s centered around you- I really hate my birthday as well and feeling attention from those who love me (which often times makes me feel bad but I can’t stop it). The comment about about feeling pitied I FELT THAT, my pet peeve is being asked stuff like “are you okay?” or constantly being give compliments about small things that I don’t even notice. I know it comes from a loving place even if at times if feels fake but due to my own self esteem issues I have it becomes a very complex thing being able to accept gestures of love. People like us always need someone like you Stephanie, I like to call people like you “little sunshines” cause you warm up everyone’s heart !!
Wow, your fiancé thinks about birthdays the same way I have. I haven’t had a big birthday party since I was nine years old, and it was one of the most traumatic birthdays I’ve ever had, and I remember after that just crying every time I had a birthday. But recently I’ve had a lot of people in my life who really value birthdays and really made it fun to me. Love y’all and love this vlog❤
To the first birthday party i went to i was so overwhelmed too. I barely held onto till the end I just felt like crying. I still remember that feeling till this day. But I still like celebrating my birthday but still I can understand him.
happy birthday stephiance!!!!!! live your life and stay well 🥳 love your humor and you as a person :) I can’t wait to see what you and Stephanie are going to be up to in the near future 🫶🏻
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MR.BEUTTS AND HOPEFULLY WE CAN HELP HIM BE UNTRAUMATIZED lol
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY MR. STEPHIANCÉ MANGOBUTT!🎉🎉🎉
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MR. MANGO BUTTOX 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Happy birthday MR.MANGOBUTT🎉!!! Many more happiness to come he Lucky to have Stephanie I love videos
HAJSHAJSH HAPPY BDAY STEFIANCE!!
Happy Birthday Mr. Mangobutt! God bless you! Hope you had a great day! 🥳🎉🎈🎁🎂🎊
STOPPPP your fiance is literally the wisest and most responsible person in the world
Not really. He hasn't uploaded on his channel for a while. Lol
@@kiablis4371 OH NO TRUE 😭 😭 😭
Let’s not be too dramatic, wisest is a stretch
@@charlieg3041 be so fr. He has 3 decades of wisdom
@@charlieg3041 fym he is the wisest????
I started cryingg when he said “it’s okay with you though, if it’s just me and you it feels fine”😭😭💕💕💕 happiest bday Stephiancé. You’re a true gem the world is a better place with you in it!
So true 🤧
Because he knows her love is genuine All the time 😭😭😭🤧
PLEASE I CRIED TOO
I cried too
I’ve been here for 3 years now and honestly, I could confidently say that MMB is the nicest and most kindhearted man. He deserves the most! Happy Birthday, MMB!! 🎉🎉🎉
We don’t celebrate birthdays but I 100% get his point of view, specially when he said that his family aren’t expressive and “it’s ok with you though” I feel the exact same
Growing up, I have never received explicit love from my family, and I can totally understand where he’s coming from. I get a couple happy birthdays on my birthday from my family and friends, and sometimes they forget. I’ve also never celebrated my birthday on my birthday, bc it is the day after my mum’s so we celebrate together. I don’t enjoy big birthday parties for me because I’m not used to receiving or expressing affection so it just puts me in an extremely awkward situation in front of people that I have never been that open with. It feels so strange when I see my friends being so openly loving with their family…
Never stops impressing me how wise and caring Mr. Mangobutt is tbh, you can hear in his voice he's such a kind person. Wishing him a healthy life always
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MR MANGOBUTT!!! I HOPE YOU’RE ALWAYS HAPPY AND HEALTHY!!! 🎉🎊🎂
I genuinely see the change in mmb since the first vlog to this more recent one. Stephanie and her family really opened him up and changed him in the most beautiful ways possible. He's grown so much as a person alongside the fam and I'm getting so emotional just thinking about it. Happy 30th birthday and Ty Stephanie for this wholesome and honest vlog 🥺🥰
I love how he actually is charge of the investment for the baby 😂
The "with you it feels fine" made me cry
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MISTER MANGOBUTT!!!!
…To the always responsible, always sharing “in China” stories, and always wearing black shirts!! Here’s to 30, and many more 🐼 🎉
It’s so weird to see how far MMB has come, especially from the very first video of Stephanie’s. That’s character development right there, and Stephanie has been through every bit of it with him.
Love how you’ve made him so comfortable with being open and honest with you. ❣️
been here since 2018 and Mr. Mango butt is a jackpot. You both are a jackpot for each other. Happy birthday!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MR. MANGOBUTT THANK YOU FOR ALL THE LAUGHS YOU BRING US!!!! THANK YOU FOR LOVING STEPHANIE AND KEEPING HER SAFE. WE LOVE YOU
Watching this video made me realize that I was not the only one feeling weird when people get together because of my birthday. Stephiance really hit the mark of explaining why he was feeling that way, and I just want to tell him that its okay and thank you, because I now also understand why I act this way.
Also, maybe its because I know that not people are genuinely happy for me and it just feels forced.
Ps. Thank you Stephiance, really. And happy birthday. We understand what you are feeling. Love you both stephanie !
Gotta love Stephanie because she’s been feeding us lately with these vids 😭❤️
i can totally relate to him my family isn't expressive with their emotional sometimes I wish I can tell my mom or any family member that "I love you" but I really cant and its just stuck at my throat..
MMB making me emotional every time - he is so wise, humble and just an overall wonderful person. You both are so lucky you found your soul mates - it's so rare to see and it makes my heart so warm and happy and hopeful ❤❤❤
Dear Stephiancé I GET IT, you described how I feel about affection from family perfectly. When my parents praise me, it feels too wrong and I don't know what to make of it. I didn't receive that kind of love growing up and receiving it now feels wrong. Anyway, Happy birthday! You're a wonderful man and I look up to you a lot
i know exactly how stephiance feels about his birthday because i feel the same and its so warming to know that i'm not alone in that sense. and i'm glad he has people like you who respect what he wants for his birthday, i hope i can find people like that someday too.
I’m gonna play this video every time someone asks me about my birthday
He described the feeling so well, and i have never been able to do that.
are u okey ?
girll sameee
@@lialiiii yeah until someone decides to throw me a party that’s where i feel icky 😕
I agree😊
I know exactly how he feels. I never actually ever been surprised by anyone in my family or anyone around me. I always feel super lonely when my birthday rolls around.
Thank you for allowing Stephanie to love you even on hard days ! Happy birthday MMB 🎉
1:33 Stephanie's like a 5 year old at the dentist for the 1st time 😂
the most adorable 💛💛💛💛💛
IKR she is honestly so cute
BROOO I am literally crying bc I literally felt like no one could relate to how exactly overwhelming it is for me on my birthday, I am relieved to know that other people struggle with it. HAPPY BIRTHDAY MR.MANGOBUTT!!!🥳🥳🥳🥳😭
Happy Birthday Stephiance!
In a way, I get the trauma. It's like the saying, we accept the love we think we deserve. Stephanie is such a loving woman to not push you into something you are uncomfortable with but also try and understand and help you work through it. I know we only see snippets of your life together, but I genuinely think that you are so good to each other, and I wish you good health and happiness. So HBD to both of you 🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂🎂
Also I hope you gave that Cigarettes After Sex Vinyl a listen. They are my favorite band!!! So so good
your comment is so heartwarming ❤😭
as a fellow scorpio i agree with him lmao it feels super awkward to me to be celebrated in any way and i just enjoy doing something small with my loved ones 😩
Happy Birthday MMB!!🎉 I love how understanding Stephanie is. I totally get how he feels about his own birthday. I dislike when people are fake nice to me on my birthday, also and don’t particularly like the extra attention (other than my SO).
happy birthday! I’ve watched you guys for nearly 2-3 years and you are one of my favorites UA-camrs! You guys create a lot of good content and they’re alway so funny and cute.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE MOST RESPONSIBLE HUMAN.
I feel like Mr. Mangobutt and I have a similar sense of humor but I also relate to Stephanie so much. I've been watching you for so long, even before he appeared on your videos, I love how Stephiancé has come so far, because he's so much more open, affectionate and vulnerable. I'm proud of him and sure all of us are. You're such a great couple
I love how far out of his shell being in you and your families lives has brought him. He seems like a wonderful man that is very deserving of warmth and laughter. I hope the two of you have many years of happiness and success ahead. Very deserving hard working couple. Your banter has given me a smile on many lonely moments in my own life. So thank you both. Happy Birthday MMB
Your smile is so beautiful, it reflet how gentle heart you're!
You both deserve all the love you receive from your family and community.
This is literally a Shy Boy - Outgoing Girl trope right here and where we see the shy guy becoming more outgoing as time goes by. That's MMB right there! Happy birthday MMB, stay healthy and keep on investing in stocks and in your happiness!! 🎉🎉🎈🎈
That's what I am saying mmb really out here making us all cry
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO HIM WISH HIM MANY MORE YEARS AHHH❤️❤️
Aww happy birthday Mr. Mangobutt! I completely understand where you’re coming from. Not growing up with that affection makes it so weird for you to receive it once you’re an adult. I appreciate you and Stephanie. You guys are such good people and you really have a heart. You have aloud your personality to come through so much and it’s beautiful to see.
I relate to ur kind husband,Ms. Stephanie. I understand the feeling behind it. I,it's just a real different feeling.
i feel for him😭 i also hates my birthday cz when i was a kid, i had never celebrated my birthday bcs i grew up very poor😂. every year, i feel the most awkward on my birthday.
I've never related to someone as much as I did to MMB on this vlog when it comes to birthdays. Thank you Steph and MMB for sharing this because now I don't feel alone in not wanting to make a big deal out of my birthday, and HBD MMB!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MR. MANGOBUTT!!! I HOPE YOU FEEL MUCH BETTER!
I swear there are these steph vids where you dont know if youll laugh or youll cry along with them😭
both
awwweee .. Stephanie is the sweetest personnn on earth
Lol but honestly that’s how I feel too. You’ve put it into words for me. Very relatable. As I get older I hate celebrating more and more.
The story perfect for my rainy morning. Love you biss, and more power!
HAPPIEST BIRTHDAY TO THE ONE AND ONLY MR. MANGOBUTT! I wish him all the best and more birthdays to come!
HBD Mistermangobutt!
I relate so much to your story. I come from a Chinese family, and we’ve never been an openly lovey family. To the point that it makes me uncomfortable. My birthday was yesterday and I honestly hate celebrating it. I would ignore it altogether but my dad’s birthday is one day before so it’s always a tradition for us to go out to eat w the fam.
I’m so happy that Stephanie has brought openness to your love language but also respects your preference for a low key birthday. Not every one is sensitive to that need.
Hope you had a lovely birthday 🎉🎉🎉🎉
hbd to u as well!! 🎉
@@cam6110 thank you
I can exactly relate to how he feels. I have been brought up in a family where we never expressed each other’s feelings so even a HBD text feels weird. Happy birthday Stephaince.
"all of october thats what I was doing" that's why they're married 😂
Oh this is gonna be an emotional ride, I just know it.
Love you guys
I completely understand why he feels that way because when I was about to do my concert I was just so overwhelmed and started crying and having everyone look at me and try and help me out just made me cry even more and i was so embarrassed but I do hope he has an amazing birthday!
I FEEL THE SAME WAY OMG. When he explained how he feels I was like yes that's it. I've been trying so hard to explain why
Mr Mangobutt is just like me. I hate my birthdays for so many reasons especially the pity part I can’t stand it. The feeling of everyone caring for you just for one day sucks it makes me feel worse so I understand him and he explained it perfectly :)! I’m a bit late but happy belayed birthday Mr Mangobutt
man i can relate to stephiance so much cuz i also grew up in a family like that
Thank you MBB for being open to share us everything you said in the closet 💛 you two are perfect for each other and have grown together 😭👏
Oh my gaaa... 🥺🥺 I completely relate. But rather than trauma or anything, I guess birthdays is just... another day for us really. We feel you love. I think it is more meaningful if people remember your birthday than a party... (coming from someone who don’t really have a party for birthdays besides cake, noodles, and food)
Happy birthday Mr MangoButt!!!!🎂🎉 Wishing you good healthy and happiness four years to come💖💕 You and Steph always finds a way to brighten my day, love y’all so much💅🏽😇
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This relationship is goals 🥰 it’s like they found the missing parts to their life. MMB is the calm one that will ease Stephanie’s mind when she needed (queue in JungKook’s song ‘Seven’ lyrics rn..‘I’ll kiss your waist and ease your mind’). And how bubbly Stephanie is brings out the extrovert in him 🤩
Just started watching but happy birthday MMB!! I had my Invisalign consultation a week ago so only 2 more weeks to get my trays. So excited!
Congratulations to stephiance for turning 30!! Heres To many years and more to come 🎉 🥂
HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYY at first I thought you’d just be Stephanie’s fiancé, but you’re a whole MAIN CHARACTER im so glad you guys are happy
i love watching stephanie after a bad day 💕
HBD!! totally agree bout the day that everyone like obligated to be nice to you. i usually pretend to be busy or sick. after few years, no one drops any wishes anymore... which is alrite. life goes on...
HBD!!! 🎉 I keep hearing 30’s is when life gets good, 20’s is hectic a lot of idk what I’m doing then 30’s is more chill I got this energy. May luck and happiness always smile upon you :)
Felt that pain this year too. Hopefully it get’s better for him!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MMB!!!!! everyone can tell how good of a person you are and don’t let your past get in the way of what is in store for you. we all love you!❤️
Honestly, I totally relate to MMB. My birthday is in March and my parent's birthdays are also in March, so all our birthdays tended to get lumped together. Since mine was at the beginning of the month, my dad's is in the middle, and my mom's is at the end we all kind of split the difference and celebrate around my dad's birthday. Growing up, we would just buy a cake and not give presents. But after a while we stopped even doing that. Bad things also tend to happen on my birthday: having to take standardized tests, getting my braces tightened, and getting stuck in an elevator for 2 hours! At this point, I don't even want people to know it's my birthday for fear something bad will happen. I think it's so special Steph was able to get him to come out of his shell and feel the joy of celebrating warmly with people and hope in the future we will both be able to kick our b-day related traumas!
I can complete relate. Im assuming he has Capricorn placements on his big 3
He is a Scorpio,
Scorpios a are resentful when they hurt or are hurting and if he does have Capricorn placements he probably has condition himself to not validate his desire and feelings.
I completely get it , because I don’t celebrate my birthday as well because it trigger sad childhood memories.
Ive learned to validate and allowed those emotions on that day, but still allowed my inner child to heal with the desires that I couldn’t have either before or after.
Happy Birthday 🐼
HBD STEPHIANCE 🎉🎉we're the same age! 🥰
My family doesn't celebrate birthdays I remember how I felt sad about myself when I go to kids' parties and bring them gifts.. I got my first birthday surprise at 20 by my new friends and I cried a lot I wasn't used to the attention and felt embarrassed for my overreacting lol but this year was special as I wanted they took me out and gave me all the attention and gave me lots of gifts, and I bought myself a cake and forced my family to celebrate with me and I enjoyed it to the fullest without crying because I deserve it 🙈✨
Hope Stephiance will overcome his trauma and enjoy the love you guys give him 💕💕
HBD MMB!
I can relate to what he said so much, it's nice to hear someone put it into words and to know other people feel like that too.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MMB!!
TbH, I'm also traumatized by my bday too but I'm like Stephanie who will feel sad if no one says happy bday. Never had a big bday party organized by my parents and so it was just a "bday dinner" at home just like you. Mom died right before I turned 16, friends ditching me to go to the club on my 21st, spent my 30th alone because of lockdown, etc..when I turned off the fb notification for my bday reminder, you'll be amazed on how many people actually remembers your bday. I disabled it also cuz i was tired of the "empty" bday wishes..
MMB, just remember that all these people love you and see how special you are! ❤️ Happy 30!
You know he is SOOOO into business when he manages his sister in-laws babies finance account
Happy Belated Birthday Mr Mango Butt!! 🎉 ✨
You guys are the sweetest, I swear 🥰
As usual, your videos brighten up my day. Thank you Stephanieeeee and fam. I love you! ❤️
By the intro I know I'm going to be sobbing. Happy birthday stephiance ❤️🎉❤️🎉❤️🎉🎉
I hope Stephanice had an amazing birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉. I am sure Stephanie gave him all the ❤️ .
Happy birthday Mr Mango Butt!!! I’ve been watching you guys for years now and you both have been such a wonderful part of my life, thank you so much for existing❤️
I totally get how you feel about your birthday, I hope you spent it being happy :) Happy Birthday!!!
Today is my Birthday and I can totally relate wo what you're feeling! I feel like everyone is just pretending when I know they genuinely just wanna celebrate my birthday. Happy Birthday! You are very lucky to have Stephanie understand you! I hope to find my own Stephanie one day
I feel for MMB. I feel the same. I never had a birthday celebration except my 1st bday which I could never recall. I only saw it from old pictures. Now that I am a parent, my sons bday is only a day apart from mine and now everyone in my partners family celebrates my bday on my sons bday. They would get me my own cake and gifts and I am not used to it. Makes my wanna cry how these people love me more than my parents hahaha
Happy Birthday, Mr. Mango !! Thank you so much for making me laugh and cry at the same time, there's so much I relate with you and that gave me a sense of not being alone. Best wishes to you and stay healthy
HBD STEPHFINANCE!! YOU DESERVE ALL THE LOVE THAT PEOPLE ARE GIVING YOU!!
Nooo because I completely understand MMB because I've been feeling this way about mine for 3 years. Somehow for the last 3 years, I felt detached to my own birthday and celebrating it is so foreign, and I feel almost gross celebrating it.
He described the feeling so well 😭
im honestly so happy you guys have each other. i hope you can be happy like this forever 💕💕💕
I can relate to not being used to being super loving with family. My family is the same way. I feel like MMB is so honest and relatable. Love you guys and happy birthday!
hbd mr.mb!! I feel weird getting too much attention on my birthdays as well 😅. Thanks for all the bits of advice over the years, especially the finance series and making annual plans for yourself. Having a little discipline grants you the luxury of enjoying a stress-free life and taking care of the people you love. I hope u have many more years of happiness and good health!
hbd mmb !
also, i feel very in-between the both of you when it comes to my birthday. i'm like stephanie where i'm secretly looking to check if anyone texts me or mentions my birthday or says something and when they do it because it makes me feel loved and like people care about me but at the same time i don't like when others feel obligated to care about me. even for other people's birthday's including my own i don't like giving or receiving gifts, i prefer to give/get spontaneous gifts because the ones on specific holidays tend to be obligatory things and not a gift that is meaningful or shows care. it's harder to tell genuine actions from insincere ones with a big celebration or "special" attention. i guess my childhood environment didn't give me the trauma that stephiance has but it does show me what i'm not used to & also what i have always craved. i truly just want to know that the people i care about, care about me too
I agree with Stephiance, I don’t like birthdays because I feel overwhelmed by the love I get on that day. It feels forced and wrong, so I don’t like celebrating. Happy birthday to him btw!!
Happy birthday, Mr. Mangobutt! Thank you so much for existing. Stay beautiful inside and out!
They're literally my comfort couple/family
i love watching Stephanie's videos!!! They bring me so much joy!!
happy birthday MMB!!! 💗💗💗
30s are the new 20s so tell your Stephiance to wild out 💯 HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!🐼
Its such a interesting thing not liking a day that’s centered around you- I really hate my birthday as well and feeling attention from those who love me (which often times makes me feel bad but I can’t stop it). The comment about about feeling pitied I FELT THAT, my pet peeve is being asked stuff like “are you okay?” or constantly being give compliments about small things that I don’t even notice. I know it comes from a loving place even if at times if feels fake but due to my own self esteem issues I have it becomes a very complex thing being able to accept gestures of love. People like us always need someone like you Stephanie, I like to call people like you “little sunshines” cause you warm up everyone’s heart !!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MR. MANGOBUTT!! Sending loves to you, Stephanie and the whole family!! 🎂🥳🤍
Happy Birthday stephfiance. May god bless you. Stay healthy. Hope you and Stephanie always be happy and loved 😍
Happy birthday Stephiancé, the most responsible man in the Soo residence and love you both! Stay in love! ❤
Wow, your fiancé thinks about birthdays the same way I have. I haven’t had a big birthday party since I was nine years old, and it was one of the most traumatic birthdays I’ve ever had, and I remember after that just crying every time I had a birthday. But recently I’ve had a lot of people in my life who really value birthdays and really made it fun to me. Love y’all and love this vlog❤
To the first birthday party i went to i was so overwhelmed too. I barely held onto till the end I just felt like crying. I still remember that feeling till this day. But I still like celebrating my birthday but still I can understand him.
happy birthday stephiance!!!!!! live your life and stay well 🥳 love your humor and you as a person :) I can’t wait to see what you and Stephanie are going to be up to in the near future 🫶🏻