Men don't belong in the kitchen. [Hello Counselor/ENG, THA/2019.04.22]
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Hello Counselor EP. 409
Guests : Kwanghee, Lee Seokhoon, Oh Jeongyeon, Naeun, Jinsol
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This isn’t a habit....this is a relationship without consent...
You cant think that just because youre married youre allowed to touch eachother everywhere....
They need serious counselors, not TV show
He flipped over a table because his eggs weren't cooked the way he likes... enough said.
Just when you think you can't be surprised by the weird shit people do, Hello Councellor comes in and surprises you with every new episode.🤣🤣💀
pink girl - honestly 😂😂
i know right? :))) i just can't-
omg poor woman
To be honest I would have cussed every second if I had a husband like that😤
Of course she’s going to cuss him out and be mad. He’s been like that for a long time and the wife is getting exhausted and tired of his behavior
I normally don't disagree with the hosts/guests on the concern level...but I do think this is still a concern. He doesn't sound like he really values her as a person let alone as a woman. She is his pillow and his maid and better damn well do it all with a smile. She gets up, cares for the kids, goes to work, comes home, cooks, serves him, cleans, helps with homework, and has to be harassed by him at night on top of god knows what else all without a single thank you. So she takes two nights out of the week for herself to let off steam and remember that she is someone of value (probably so she doesn't do something regrettable to her husband) and curses when, exhausted and under appreciated, he gives her nothing but complaints ...AND SHE IS THE ONE THAT HAS TO CHANGE?!?! no...no no no no no. He needs to change first. Pure and simple. She will stop cursing and yelling at him the SECOND she actually feels appreciated.
I can only hope that he didn't just say what he thinks they wanted to hear and then makes 0 changes once they get home.
Also...kinda ticked at the one girl from April putting any of the responsibility on the daughter to serve as peace maker. She's a teenager with her stresses (thanks Korean educational system) who does NOT need to be worrying about how her parents are doing things....
toti chipman Everyone here is chill, sis.
Put it that way (haven't watched the ep yet), sounds to me that what she has is an all-day *job* and *NOT a marriage.* If she put out her frustrations and he's not willing to seriously listen and compromise, then he's not really a husband, more like a client or a boss.
I'm totally agree with you. 👍
please God don't let me marry a man like this and please don't let me become like her ...
Gloxx 30012 amenamenamen
It's okay if you by bad luck got married with this kind of guy. You just have to divorce him real fast as soon as he showed you his true color. Dont give him second chance or try to change him because those shits wont change that easily.
Before married, let the man know what kind of person you are, show him your flaws & analyse what type of person he is. But don't do it if you love him 100% coz you'll be hypocrite & only see the good side of him
If I were her, I'd get divorced when it started!! This a pervert!!
he's really immature, WHAT IS WITH THE 7 SIDES???? LIKE???? after she expressed her feelings and wants and needs.....HE'S JUST FOCUSED ON THE FOOD?????
SuJu_Mimi the guy thinks a wife is a slave 😂
Go find one on the street than marry her instead
The husband living like a king while the wife suffers from demands.
don't forget that hef kids don't care either
I too feel like this is too serious
This is literally harassment if she doesn’t consent
She should divorce him i bet she deserves better than being in this sort of a relationship
I can't watch this, seriously. How old is this guy?
Irk? So embarrassing 😒
Ikr? Why do they even take these concerns
You don't need to understand why she hates it, just respect her wishes! Have some integrity for gods sake 😑
Also: this is not love wtf.. this is an abusive relationship. Abuse is not romance hhh
shes not just beautiful but also has a soft voice..
Literally nothing went through his head. Of course she's going to cuss him out if she's spending all this time, every day, to make a huge meal and he's still complaining. I think they do love each other but they don't have the same level of respect for each other at all.
Clearly she is disgusted of her husband's presence, she doesn't love him anymore after all those years together. Best is to divorce.
All i can think is - your country has a serious problem with sexualising women, sex education and misogyny all of which is being showcased to the world -- this ability to dismiss the concern is a concern.
Congratulations it’s true but the way you’ve put it says volumes about you
You dumb.. If Koreans watch Jerry Springer Show....they will freak out...
Hey hey, it’s not just Korea, what about America? China? England? Everywhere has these problems, the public just doesn’t know because it’s not as exposed to the media
@simpleteastoriez5592 idk about china but rest of the countries don't adamantly stand against feminism, but in korea, whether the earth breaks open and you are sucked in, these men still won't give feminism a chance in, if u don't believe me you can google, that's how misogynist korea is, im myself a kpop, kdrama, and korean culture enthusiast but i absolutely hate how korea works and their treatment towards women
I just watched a documentary about stalkers in Japan where the men say ''she is my property so I can treat her however I want'' and now this video as well......I think that's enough internet for today.
Link pls
This dude has some serious mommy issues..
I was literally just gonna type that until i seen this smh he needs to understand she ain't his mama
They’re both very abusive towards each other, they need a real councillor to help solve their relationship issues 🤦♀️
Because the anger and stress man. I wouldve kill the husband if i were the wife 😌🙄
how is she abusive towards him? she's justifiably angry. this concern is 90% the husbands fault, stop making seem like it's 50 / 50
loona la révolution loona la révolution it is also her fault as she chooses to uses violence against whenever she’s angry at him which makes her just as bad as him, regardless of what disgusting things he’s done to her violence is never the answer in a relationship and it should not be ignored either so Yes she is at fault too , plus I did say they are BOTH abusive NOT only her soooo ?
@@blackpinkistherevolution4148 Red Velvet Have you ever heard of self-defense? if he keeps touching her and won't take no for an answer then her violence is justified. If he doesn't want to get kicked or pushed away then he should stop groping her.
Like I said, how is she abusing him? her only real fault in this is being a little mean to the kids sometimes, the rest is on him. So no, they're not 'both' abusive towards each other.
Why is the girls group fight over them? Red velvet and Loona? 😆😆
Sorry
she married a spoiled mama boy who doesnt know the words of consent (sounds harsh but that's how i see it)...
you need to treat your wife like she's your queen if you want to be treated like a king.
iPheaw w factss!!!👏🏾
Kwanghee says it's not going to be like "that", and it turns out to be exactly like "that".
I’m just shocked she made ALL of those dishes and food in ONE hour!!!
They like to play devil's advocate but really, in situations like this, it's pretty close to to black and white. He's wrong, he needs to do better. It's not that complicated.
I feel so bad for their kids. Both of them need to grow up. The husband needs to stop acting like a spoiled brat and the mother needs to stop being petty. They either need professional help or should just get a divorce because 17years of this is behavior would drive anyone insane
The celebs that say it's not a serious concern but if they were put in that position I think they'd feel the same as the wife. Just him saying the kitchen is her territory is a problem. The kids suffer from this and the mom is so stressed and frustrated. Only so many complaints you can take. She feels used and unappreciated while he thinks of how many perfectly made side dishes he should have and how he should sleep peacefully. Gosh. Even at the end he still talking about side dishes till the hosts told him to say something nice. It is a concern.
This is the reason why I am still single. Getting married is a punishment for us women.
Not if u find a kind, caring husband... Mine does everything I ask him to do without complaint
@@DavidSmith-ki2we why do you ask him to do why can't he do it on his own
When the husband say something about his wife (for example, her cussing) the interviewers always invalidate the another argument. This is so wrong, that man is obviously wrong no matter what!!
Some of yall saying how they are equally at fault. What? Someone explain why you think it's equal because in my eyes it is his fault and 2 percent hers
7 dishes!!! At home max of 4 dishes and that is rare too. 2 is norm, 3 is pleasant and 4 is luxury!!! He sure is very spoiled. I don't like people who are extremely fuzzy eater... I won't even have them as my friend.
The married glasses guy who sings great songs said great points at the last. I respect .
They both need to seek help from a real therapist. I personally think that hello counselor was able to help with some issues on the surface only but there is a much deeper concern about the couple as an individual that needs to be worked on so they can function well as a happy couple and as a happy family. 😊
I hope they can at least give 1 real psychologist or therapist for this show.
Hear directly from the professional can help people there to trust it more and not sided and think deeper of their problem, also the solution can be out of the box too.
Sel Sel this show is a competition on worries where the winner recieve money no a visit to a psycologist. people really need to understand that this show is called just "Hello" no hello concelor. It's a competition not a therapy.
Why are they so concerned about how much she curses? Saying things toward people with the right inflection without any curse words can be even more hurtful. ie “What are YOU doing here” or “How can you be THAT incompetent” - at least cursing is just a way to get the angry feelings out.
I think the bigger issue here is that the guy treats his wife as an object, literally just needs her to cook and lay in bed with him? Imagine how lucky he is that he got a wife who cooks that much for him, I mean seriously how can you find a person like that in the world...
The rest of the stuff he brought up was basically just a distraction from her issue. I mean, he was so smug and satisfied every time he admitted what she said was right - he sees nothing wrong with what he’s doing??!?!
Cursing in Korea is seen differently as it is in western countries such as Germany. I'm hearing here so many times curse words were I can just roll my eyes. But in Korea they have the honorifics with different stages on how to talk to elders, which I really envy. Also the husband is older, so that's why they might be so shocked too
exactly. Her behavior is just a symptom of his treatment towards her. _He_ needs to cut out his bs in order for her to stop cursing, etc. - and not the other way around. It's so dismissive when people nitpick her and focus more on her wrong doings than his.
7 sides!!! He would have to eat whatever I put on the table or starve. Or better yet, get in that kitchen and cook his own meals.😡🤬
They need a marriage counsellor to be able to work on their differences as a couple. Both are at fault in this situation and it sucks that their kids are at the centre of it all. The husband is a caveman like Jack Moon from last weeks episode of Wife Swap. Any man who says that the Kitchen is a woman's job should be single for the rest of his life and needs to starve. You should never sweat for such men; they don't deserve it.
Cooking is an art he must learn.
He is very spoiled, that's the problem. He still won't help with any kitchen work.
I saw the title and I got mad without even watching the video.
Seokhoon: Buy a portable stove!
Jihyun's Husband: I don't have one.
Me: That's why he said to buy one!
The daughter fears her parents will divorce, which is understandable. I felt the same about my parents. However, sometimes a relationship is just so toxic, it is irreconcilable. There needs to be boundaries made for the sake of the children.
The wife is used to retaliating to the stubbornness and childlike behavior the man is displaying, which is unfortunate. To think the wife married young and had thought her husband would be a dependable man with some level of maturity being 6 years her senior, is what saddens me. This society is so patriarchal that we have a woman like her working to support her family then coming home to take care of all the needs of a healthy adult man, yet we question her when she has something to say against it. An enabler when she gives in, abusive when she retaliates, attention seeker when she complains, a failure if she leaves. Maybe I am sympathetic to her position because of what I saw what happened to my family. When a woman is abused in various ways without her consent having married at a young age, don't attack her for her callousness after she spent years building up a wall. One's thoughts become irrational and defensive in the later years. She will need counseling. Even individuals who have outstanding upbringings and great emotional intelligence can break under certain conditions.
Amen. How can people expect her to act rational, considerate, "mature", and all these adjectives while dealing with someone like him, who refuses to resolve the issues verbally (when the wife brings up a complaint and he dismisses it), is beyond me. She's been reasonable, if you ask me. In fact, she's been more than kind & considerate considering she continued to cook him the 7 side dishes despite not wanting to. Homegirl should just throw in the divorce papers and have him come home to no food on the table. Men like that act like they can't be bothered to cook ("oh, but I don't know how to"), but as soon as they're separated and alone, suddenly they have these skills (cough cough my father). people like that are just manipulative and trying to get off doing stuff. There's no reason for the wife to be bending over backwards just to change his behaviour, like some people commented. I'm glad to find a comment that's compassionate and understanding of the wife.
The husband is acting just like my 1 yo baby... my baby only needs my milk specifically
Can kwanghee be a permanent host please
If the husband treat her nicely sure his wife not treated him rudely🤦♀️🤬
Hello Counselor: the program that makes people realize, “Maybe I shouldn’t try to stay in a toxic relationship.”
she's too patient for a man like him, how can she not cuss when someone behaves like that?
This is sexual assault
Very heart breaking. Remind me when my parents would always fight.
This relationship is def a concern. Seems like it's already broken.
Every time they show the husband's face I get angry. This outright sexual harassment and he is not the least bit considerate of his wife🤬
My father are really like this man. When my family went to a restaurant, it has to be my father's choice. If its up to us and he didn't like it, he won't eat. He always make the situation like make us felt guilty, its your fault cz I can't enjoy it, gave unpleasant reaction (nasty gaze) about the food.. even if that's my mother who made it, if he don't like it (just by staring at it, not even taste it), he'll make that gaze. Me and my sibling are also can eat anything, but bcz of my father who can't eat certain food, we need to deal with it. My father often went to other town, and when he come home, me and my sibling just said, mom, your youngest son are home.
Well its not all about food. Anger management, self center, selfish, arrogant. At least I can learn how to deal with every negative habits from one person.
is it only me who thinks, she looks like sandara park, she speaks like sandara too.
ok maybe i guess its only me,who thinks that.
They love each other so much but show it in special way😉
This is the first time I have been so early. NO NOTIFS NO ANYTHING JUST ME TRYING TO SEARCH FOR HELLO COUNSELOR AND DISCOVERING THAT THEY UPLOADED JUST MINUTES AGO
same😆 i've been waiting for their new videos.
Sending my prayers for everyone affected by the earthquake!! Stay safe❤❤
@@ppopcorn3174 Yes. I love Hello counselor a lot
@@fatima4304 Thank you very much! Let us stay safe and pray all the time
Sending love and positive thoughts your way ... 💜🙏
KWANGHEE!!!!! He’s back!!! Kwang-hee...kwang-hee....Kwang-hee!!!!! Woo hooo. Congratulations!!!!!!!
Wow, the wife is pretty... she has a resemblance from Sandara Park.
As 18 yrs this is why I don't want to get married at all i am scared I might end up getting treat like this because of my soft personality
I mean he's persisting and she claims she dont want to.. He shouldnt do that w/o her consent because thats called rape.
This guy is so selfish. The poor wife. I don’t blame her for losing her temper with him.
He will still expect what he wants and how he wants it. I don’t think he will change
What I don’t understand is how not everyone in the audience thought this is a concern, it get me on my nerves, poor wife I would cuss every second too wtf, I would divorce him too tf, he is also a sexist. He really needs to change, if he doesn’t I’m worried about the daughter’s and son’s future.
You know there is so much irony in that title considering that some of the greatest chef's alive are men
The wife eyes are soooo pretty
I need kwanghee in this show🤣🤣🤣
They should also bring counselors.
Damn..im getting high blood pressure from reading the title 😤😤
Note: kwanghee seems gaining some weight. He looks good 🖤
Is nobody else worried for Kwanghee??? He is basically just skin and bones 😱😱😱 His face is so sunken in 😱
Not get married if you don't have the idea of secrificing and understanding each other!!!!!
They need actual counselors on the show maybe in that way physical and mental problems aren't just dismissed...
I wanna know which swear words she uses that they all get so shocked..😂
Whenever they pan back to the wife with the anger thought bubbles it looks like she’s ready to divorce him and hit him with a frying pan. This is outrageous, the guy doesn’t know nor does he appreciate the kind of wife he has.
Is it considered so insulting to see a relationship/family therapist in Korea? I'm trying to understand how the societal system is structured..
I don't know if I'm missing something that they do afterwards and somebody let me know if they do but I don't really see any great counseling. Is this just a show for entertainment sake? Because they needed to say here's what you need to change and here's what you need to change for both parties and they never do that
😡 this husband if I was the wife I'd probably be at my breaking point. She's just fed up with his behavior. I know I would
lmao what a man huh. omg she need to divorce him immediately. he will never change his behavior and his attitude. this is reality of korean-men. always and forever mum's baby. ugh
Never been this early. Need to comeback later to check interesting comments 😂
Nurisa Inyol 😂😂😂😂😂
if this guy was my husband things wouldn't just end at cussing...
hello counselor didn't really give them any real solution.... Seokhoon seem to have made the some point towards the end, the couple needs real therapy sessions to tune in.
I think the biggest issue here is that he doesn‘t really understand what a partner/ wife i, he keeps mentioning his mother ( when he was little he slept next to her, how his mother cooked his eggs yada yada) and because of that I feel like he didn‘t really searched for a wife, but a woman that can replace his mother. But since she isn‘t his real mum he also doesn‘t show any respect for boundaries or whatsoever
That was so uncomfortable to watch
Dis is a bit inappropriate to be aired on television but it is a pretty serious concern😔
I will just left him and hire him a house assistant and a chef who can cook for him every time. Rather than having a wife and husband for accessory better just hire people.
I hope things get better for the wife. I feel so bad for her
How can someone put this problem on a TV show..? I mean how? They need medical and psychological help rather than TV show...! This is a real Cultural shock for me...!
I read the title and was like
*Gordon Ramsay has entered the chat*
that man is sick, i felt so sorry for the wife
its kinda annoying how the panel was having so much fun and laughing about it while the whole time the wife was soooo sad looking...hes obviously just a misogynist.
I love Kwanghee💖
I'm weak but I know I won't be as nice as her to tolerate all those nonsense demand. I'm not a good speaker nor cook but I've learned to say NO to request after getting married
ใครรู้บ้างทำไมถึงมีซับไทย เพราะเนื้อหาไม่เกี่ยวไรกับไทยเลย
It went from stop him from touching my beast to a whole couple problem lol
If she kicks you MAYBE SHE ISNT IN THE FCKIN MOOD OMG.
NOT EVEN HALF WAY THROUGH THE EPSIODE AND IM SO DONE WITH THE MINDSET
Where's Freud when you need him 😅😂
So many parents fighting in front of their kids. These kids will grow up traumatized and end up on this show years later.
her wife is beautiful 😍 and kwanghee we wait for your wedding you can be a good husband and dad too
"IS THIS THE JOSEON ERA?" LMAOOOOOO
Kitchen work is the wife's duty....? Then why doesn't HE bring home enough money so that she can be a housewife? I'm Korean so I understand the weird cultural nuances here but it's so strange seeing the kind of behavior that's still acceptable. Some may bash America's high divorce rate but at least there wouldn't be a stigma about divorcing someone like this. (Although both sides here seem to be clueless and abusive in his/her own way. They're enabling each other!)
It sounds like he’s replacing his mom with his wife
It's so frustrating 😤
I know this unrelated but this lady really reminds me of jungook is it just me?
kwanghee is so funny loool i love him
I was so annoyed I kept pausing to keep my cool
wow this show keeps disappointing me THANKFUL ITS STOPPED AIRING, this was such a legit concern yet they dissipated this so easily which clearly shows the misogynistic mindset of the people, really disappointed !! The show needs real professionals and not comedians
This guy is so annoying to the end and so out of touch of reality, what does he think of himself!
weirdo
I would curse his ass out too. That's sexual harassment, by the way. He isn't entitled to her breasts just because they're married.