6 Simple Ways to Make People Like You
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- Опубліковано 26 чер 2024
- Despite what some macho men claim, we all want to be liked. It's part of the human condition. Here are six non-manipulative techniques you can use to make the people around you like you more, all while enriching their lives too.
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Erin Watley here!! Definitely do NOT remember this. LOL. But happy to be a part of a memory/lesson that gets new meaning in the present. Goes to show you never know what impression you're leaving, even in kindergarten!!
Woah hey Erin! I'm so glad you don't remember this haha 😂
I have nothing but warm, fond memories of you and your family. You all left a very positive impression on me (and my fam too). I hope you're all doing well!
@@BrockMcGoff The fond memories are mutual. My family is doing good. Peace & blessings to you and yours as well!
That "be around" rule brought back some happy memories. My family would spend several nights a week at our local diner. The older guys, who were mostly WW2 veterans, would sit around the bar (food bar, no alcohol) and have a great time. It was always the same guys and they were always happy! They really left an impression on me as a young boy. I'm 40 and classic diners still hold a special place in my heart.
5:22 is an amazing easter egg because he’s being vulnerable with the viewer when he explains that
Love your longer videos Brock!
More to come!
Really like the new style Brock! And the subject matter is quite new for your channel, big fan of that too!
One more technique I would add is touch. Nothing complicated, just a good handshake or arm around the shoulder. I basically do it when it feels natural and not try to overthink it. I think it makes a big difference.
Love your videos Brock!!
I'm glad you're doing a longer video again! 👍
Hope you enjoyed it!
That’s such a lovely video!
Every tip there is so true and I think that at this day and age, the last tip is actually the most important and beneficial - yet tricky to implement at the social media era when people will prefer the comfort of home.
Wonderful tips, Brock! 've been watching your videos for years now, and I like the direction you're headed. Thank you for your efforts
Awesome, thank you!
Love this new format Brock!
Thank you!
Great video Brock!
Appreciate it!
you gave us 5 tips, not 6 l0l
1. when you're having a conversation with someone, don't talk about yourself, talk about them
2. smile, with your eyes+mouth, wait until they start talking to you
3. give a compliment, about appearance, but not something they cant easily change
4. be vulnerable (by either self deprecation, or asking for advice)
5. be around
I don’t know how that happened haha, must be the lack of sleep lately 😂😵💫
A new tactic that worked for me. I watched the video three times looking for that 6th tip. 😬
Late to this, but wanted to say, the arrangement of this post is all kinds of Wes Anderson amazing. Different to what we typically see, I feel like it will look just as good a decade from now as it does today. Great for such a timeless topic.
That was some great advice right there. 👍🏻
Please make more of such videos covering such topics. 🙂
Be around is a tricky one as turnover is so high. Certainly getting to know the owner, family members (if it’s a family-run business, or higher level staff makes sense, besides being pleasant to the rest of the workers that actually interact with you. However I’ve noticed that there are places I go that the people I saw for months or years just vanished-and no one will say a thing!
been ages since you made a video! glad to see it :)
Hope you enjoyed it!
@@BrockMcGoff Very much! Loved the over-the-shoulder post-it note shots. Keep up the great work, sir!
Great video 🫡
Great video, ideas, and format! Let’s get Erin Wattley on the channel
Thank you sir! I need to track Erin down 😏
Love the almost cinematic-like style with this video! The tips are also really versatile and grounded in reality which is unfortunately not common enough in most social advice videos. Great stuff!
One tip for vulnerability is to be open about the things you like unironically. Lots of people try to be cool/popular by trying to project the attitudes and interests they think they should, rather than the ones that they actually do. Its very refreshing to connect on things you really like and often bond over your enthusiasm, even if they don't share the same interest. Don't pretend to like sports or cars (or whatever) because thats a masculine hobby but if you do love sports (or cooking, or watches, of Taylor Swift etc...), talk about it with enthusiasm and without shame.
Solid, well written advice!
I see what you did there with the opening story :)
It’s interesting because, right as I was thinking about commenting that I liked your overhead Post-It shot (as I was watching your video), you made your remark about not being sure about the overhead Post-It shot. Regardless, I liked the Post-It shot 😉
Thanks! I’m going to be experimenting with different formats and shots for a while.
Lmfao at that intro story
Honestly 😂
That shirt is great.
Solid advice here, Brock. Thank you.
Video idea: creating a yearly clothes budget. I think most men,(myself included) acquire clothes two ways; out of necessity,(somebody died and I need a black suit tomorrow,) and through Christmas and birthday gifts. This creates a very hodgepodge wardrobe with big gaping holes that leave you with a black suit, a big intense cardigan and some ratty jeans and clothes with stains that are generally of low quality. Creating a clothes budget takes a proactive approach.
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Thank you Brock for discussing this without judging while being neutral and humble fashion.
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That’s five not six. What is the sixth tip?
Welcome back Brock
Thanks!
I sent this to Erin W … lol
Am sorry for me the ideal of wearing sandals is for your feet to breathe to wear socks its like you are confused.To put socks on are you hot or cold you need to choose don’t wear it just because its trending
Here first
I am good at everything except facial expressions. I always look like a criminal. Most people see me like this even though I am tolerant, peaceful, helpful and smiling.
How do you know that most people see you like that?
@@BrockMcGoff They tell me like my friends, and they also show expressions of fear and want to stay away from me and talk less to me, especially girls.
No thanks. I'm done being a doormat.
There’s gotta be some middle ground between jerk and door mat, right?
No need to overcorrect, my man
Anyone else send this to creepy DeSantis? Lol