I try to tell my boyfriend the same thing, I guess it’s a good thing that I like to walk. He does too, but not for errands or to pick something up. I’m trying to convince him to at least walk with me when we do date nights (nearby outdoor restaurant dining, picnics, etc).
Yoooo you actually have to do this in college lmao. I starved freshman year because I get cold so easily and wouldn’t leave my dorm to get food ahahahaha.
Lol that's the same method I use when I crave junk food or junk convenience store food. I like staying indoors a whole lot more than to leave my house and spend money on something I eventually decide that it's just better to make it at home. I love to cook and cooking my favourite junk food makes me automatically make it a healthier version of that food that suits to my personal taste which is easy to figure out when you're the one cooking. Ever since I learned to cook, junk food lost it's hold on me....the only thing it has going for it is probably the convenience of somebody else making it for you, but with proper prep it gets easier to make your own food.
Weight Watchers, tho not my fav plan, relies on you being a responsible. If you eat a pint of ice cream and chicken nuggets, but count the points properly and do not make it an everyday thing, you WILL still lose weight. Weight Watchers isn't at fault for her terrible food choices.
Fr I’ve gained some weight recently but at my skinniest (47kg) I cooked with tons of oil. She doesn’t need to restrict that. It’s the 5000 calories of fat that’s the problem and she’s deluding herself.
@Valentina Here for the majority of people, healthy portions are ideal. Bulk eating stretches your stomach making you require more food to feel full... I'm not sure it's wise to encourage people to normalize eating huge portions regardless of their caloric content.
@@SaltySeaWitch3 right. It should be a balance, with stopping eating when you feel hungry- not force feeding. But high volume low calorie foods are always a good choice for anyone trying to lose weight.
the ‘squish face’ isn’t something people actually do on tik tok, those challenges are supposed to show a glow up, usually after putting on makeup or getting ready. amberlynn squishes her fat together because she looks the same with or without makeup and she thinks that is the only way to make herself look ‘unattractive’ so the ‘glow up’ will be surprising.
Hopefully she was just being a smartass about not getting it. She's basically saying there is no difference between her fat face and her glow up fat face lol
Ooh thanks, I thought this was the trending that shows that you are not ugly, you have to find the right camera angle. Cuz I saw a few girl that also do the same with the face and them Bam, their are not fat is just the angle.
@@TimoteoDeBaum honestly, I don't see her as having a pretty face. I have seen a lot of obese women who are really pretty, but I think she looks barely average.
@@evenstar34 I don't think anyone of us can actually tell. Her face is so warped from her lifestyle, she could actually have the worst bonestructure under the fat. Or the best.
Michelle, I really appreciate that you aren't one of those who have lost a bunch of weight and now says, "I don't even like sugary foods anymore!" When you talk about oreo shakes and hot cheetos and how you still struggle and still want them, it is much more relatable.
Hint: when a friend gets one, have ONE spoonful & make it last by eating it extremely slowly. Plus, ain't there a rule, "your plate, your calories. So, go ahead eat off someone else's plate."?? 😂😂😂 Stay strong! 💖
@@tjmoudy That's not how it works for everyone. Some people can't eat certain things "in moderation" and, for them, having a single cheeto could trigger a binge, so it's better to abstain - just like former alcoholics often can't "drink in moderation", so they stop consuming alcohol entirely. There is no "one size fits all" approach.
I’m obese and I’ve decided this year to get my shit together and I’ve started losing weight and eating healthy. It’s extremely hard and difficult. I’m tempted a lot to eat unhealthy. But in these three months I’ve lost 12 kgs (26 pounds) so I’m very happy and I’m hoping to get to my goal weight at the end of this year 😊 My weight does fluctuate but I try not let it get me down and keep going. (I went from 103 kgs (227 pounds) to 91 kgs (200 pounds)) Edit: I totally went off the bandwagon and gained way more weight than I would have liked. I’d like to blame it on my stress eating because it was my last year of high school but I can’t blame anyone else but myself. At the beginning of this year I was 113 kg (249 pounds) and now in February I am now 107 kg Although it is less than I’d like I have still lost and I am determined to lose it all. One of the reasons why I am on a exercise challenge with a personal trainer with a set diet and I will be starting to take Ozempic prescribed by my doctor 😊
I am a parent of a teen who is overweight and your calling me out has made me stop buying things that are bad for my family. Well, less things. Lol but I am continuing to bring better food and reduce unhealthy food into the house. We’ve also bought things for exercising at home, and I’m in the process of getting vaccinated so I can get back to the Y! You being a former binger who understands how hard it can be makes it so much better! You know the excuses, and the struggle. You make us laugh, think, and talk about creating a healthier life for our whole family!
This is amazing, your family will be really thankful in the long run. When I asked my parents to stop buying unhealthy stuff to help me loose weight, they only always said that I should have the self control not to eat it.
Like, I am seriously changing my lifestyle for the first time. I could weasel in a pint of ice cream too! Or I could eat a moderate amount of frozen, low sugar yogurt (Or sorbet, which I love). Still nice, still refreshing, don't miss out on anything, just better choice for a long healthy life! Amberlynn... Wants a miracle, she wants a diet that will change her lifestyle, her mentality and make the pounds drop real fast.
She's still the type who expects instant results after eating right for a day and if there's no difference she quits. Like girl nothing is instant. Even though it's tiring and frustrating, We work for it. There's nothing more satisfying then seeing the changes, how much our minds change once we get used to it and setting goals up for ourselves.
My husband hatessss when I watch your channels. He’s like “why does she just talk about fat people why does she care she should just let them live their lives”. My reply: her channel is called my thoughts will probably offend you..and sir ..you sound offended. But you can leave her a comment and tell her why you’re offended. Lmao 😂
You know, as a fat girl I've never been offended by your videos. They actually help me hold myself accountable and remember what I don't want my life to become. After my 2nd baby I was up to 310lb and I'm now down to 269. Progress is slow but your channel helps. ❤️ Just thought you should know.
I’m 5’2 and a few years ago I weighed 300+lbs, now I’m 126lbs. The whole fat positive group kills me. When I was fat I felt like shit and now I have more energy and I’m more active. Thank you for all your videos.
I still dont understand breading wings and frying them like she could have gone to a bbq place and got smoked wings that are so much better tasting and healthier. Or atleast get normal hot wings that arent freaking breaded.
It’s all filters and lighting. When you see her skin in bright sunlight or fluorescent lighting it’s jarring how pitted and rough and gross it looks. She also has said in the past she doesn’t wash her face and routinely falls asleep with makeup on.
@@meganm2550 Oh, damn. I haven't watched her videos so I didn't know that. Well, I guess that figures that she doesn't take care of her skin. I used to be lazy like that and would fall asleep with makeup on until I found out how damaging that is.
there's a whole saga with her skincare she just rubbed cetaphil face wash on saying you don't have to wash it off or she was using hair leave in treatment as a moisturiser and defending her stupidity "I know more than you"
Our gorl literally did a mukbang on top of a board game called "Box of Lies"...we're really living in a simulation and the head programmer is on vacation
So...she just realized there was a whole untapped audience of people who probably have never heard of her and is just repeating everything on there lol
Her personality changes platform to platform; she plays a bad bish on TT, then turns around and says she hates herself, can't stand what she sees, etc on YT.
@@starr2shine738 I give her credit where it's due, she's not a quarter the idiot people want her to be. Insufferable, yes. Stupid, not nearly so much as people think.
@@MissKitae People make fun of her there though, Tiktok is full of teens, she had to disabled the comments because they went all out on her like *Dude, I was eating* *How old are you?* There was more but that's the most that I can remember
@@alexandersmith4731 That's her fault for being 30 going on 13 with a ruthless audience. Those kids give zero Fs. She still plays at being a baddie with the comments disabled.
I learned that if I screwed up & caught myself I didn't "restart the next day". No, you start, The. Very. Next. Bite! Attempt to make 1 oreo cookie last 30 minutes to eat. Or a single bite of cheesecake.... Hint: freeze it.🤯😂😂😂 Heck a small bowl of frozen corn is loaded some kinda sugar that cuts cravings. You gotta eat one kernal at a time though. Make it last.😉
My parents didn't want me to have chips, soda, fastfood and candy as a kid. Then as a teen, when I had a job I'd buy whatever junk food I wanted. I got burnt out on all of it, and now eat healthy. My parents were right for once, which is rare. 😂😆🤣
Identical experience . Never had it growing up (too poor) . Started buying all the junk as a teen . Got fat . Got sick of it . Got fit again at 22, was easy because I grew up on hone cooked meals and fruit .
Good for you. My parents was always away and would stack up foods like that for us to eat. Though I didnt end up looking like Hamberlyn. In fact I'm still fit and after college and having a work I just remove it in my system and stop eating chips, soda, best decision in life. It made my skin a lot better
My mom would manage my food intake by reminding me like “do you really need another brownie?” Or “are you really still hungry or just eating because you’re bored?” I really think that helped me because when I wanna overeat I think about what my mom told me
@@metalsuppository That happens though, binge eating when your board. I try to listen to music instead or grab a flavored seltzer water as a substitute. Ice cream is my weakness, though.
I've never been overweight but I do struggle with wanting to overeat... reflecting on how you feel after overeating is the best way to stop this behavior! Michelle nailing it again
She talks about the weight watchers like it’s supposed to literally stop her from eating what she wants. She said “they LET ME eat ice cream and McDonald’s” Like someone is supposed to be there taking the food away from her and saying no😂😂 like wtf is wrong with her. That’s what offended me today
I feel bad for Amber's dog Twinkie. She doesn't deserve that kind of abuse. There are many videos of her neglecting her dog's health and her dog is morbidily obese. I hope twinkie escapes
she is a great example of toxic positivity in regard to her weight “loss” journey. lost weight? great! gained weight? great! Everything is great either way!
Last week I had an 'American style pizza' for the first time in my life and I was shocked, because it was very fluffy, cheesy and really greasy. Naturally I can't be sure if that's the case for real American pizzas, but it made me understand better how can you gain weight quickly because of that. The classic Italian ones aren't the healthiest either, but the difference is huge
Fluffy cheesy, and very greezy Definitely in the real American style… I’m allowed to say that: I’m American; born and breed… further evidence? My spelling is atrocious… thank you spell check!
@@heidievans8634 oh! School cafeteria pizza is the worst… almost as bad as they’re really dry chicken: at least with that I could covertly spill some water in my lunch tray and eat the rest of my food and let it soak in and it wasn’t that bad I know I sound like a total loser but it really does work a little bit… it works enough for me to choke it down at least
Michelle talking about Amber walking to her car and getting DQ and I'm just like "oh my sweet summer child, she gets that delivered or brought to her, she's not expending the energy to walk to the car after standing for a 30 second tik tok"
Always just go, I've never regretted just going when I've contemplated it but have ALWAYS regretted not going. I struggled with that for soooo long!! Proud of you!
I remember being an overweight little girl and my brother and sister would make fun of me, calling me fat names and my dad would always step in and say " she's not fat, she's just healthy!" That is the worst thing to put into a fat kids head. It's not healthy and parents need to tell their children "NO!!"
Similar, I wasn't overweight as a kid because I was a very active kid, but I was never taught to mind my food, and then when I stopped being so active I started gaining weight quite quickly and I kept getting excuses by my family that has a saying "health comes in through the mouth" Which, yesh, it is true, but not what it originally means, they took it as "eat as much as you can". And even nowadays, i dont know what they think, on one hand they keep asking me why i havent lost weight, and on the other hand whenever i eat with them i get a lecture how i am eating too little, starving myself bla bla blha
I'm sorry, but your argumentation is pretty short sighted. That is NOT the worst thing to put in a fat kids head. Your dad should step in and defend you! And then actively help you. Just saying "NO!" will do nothing but hurt the kid.
@@hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195 holy shit, I can relate too much. When I was twelve, I was a fat kid. I lost around 25 pounds over 6 months (I worked really fucking hard because I had an emotional eating problem and it was extremely hard to build willpower) my dad told me the truth about my weight and if it weren’t for his encouragement I would’ve weighed 200 by now. On the other hand, my mother didn’t encourage me, she refused to tell me the truth and when I reached my goal weight (after over 6 months of eating healthy and working out, it wasn’t total hell because I paced myself) she called me anorexic and shamed me! I felt so betrayed. Dammed if you do, damned if you don’t. Just love your body Y’all!!
If her biggest issue is saying no to food, I think that she would really benefit from cognitive behavioral therapy. I myself used to have this sort of disciplinary issue. Willpower doesn't just magically appear out of nowhere, its a mental exercise we all have to work for.
I lost my 24 year win, with my weightloss.... all due to this F*%&$*NG civid $hit!! 🤬🤬🤬 Thanks to you, posting your comment, I know what I must do now.🤗 BTW, just for an fyi, 12lbs is _awhole lotta weight_ once you enter your 40's.😣 Boo-hiss to this funk I'm in, BOO FARKIN' HISSY, I say!!😂😂
She doesn't want to say no or "deprive" herself. She finds ANY excuse to quit a diet, including misrepresenting what a weight loss doctor told her HAD saying that her Optivia diet had too few calories. TOO FEW CALORIES. Like, I don't think too few calories is something someone her weight needs to worry about. But.. if she REALLY felt that way, she could have, you know.. eaten one more extra meal or whatever to put her at the Dr No 1200 calories that was probably on her mind. She even SAID she was looking for a reason to quit the diet.
@@joannapatterson4625 I was craving sweet cream cheese filled pretzels this morning. Know what I did? I DID NOT BUY THEM. Now, I admit, I would have had a hard time if I had them in my house, so more easily accessible... And sure, I could have ordered some and got them delivered. Know what I did? Nothing. Am I still craving them? Yes. Will I get over it without eating them? Yes. Just because I want something, doesn't mean I have to have it. Sure I give into cravings now and then. I love pineapple fried rice. I love tom kha. I'm pretty sure neither of them are low calorie, lol. But I limit myself, I restrict myself, and she doesn't WANT to do either. I think I recall her saying she doesn't want to have restrictions (but that could have been Chantal).
@@labella9291 same. There are days when I’ll enjoy and eat what I want. But usually I don’t keep tempting food in the house. I just don’t buy it. There really is no secret to weight loss or weight maintenance. Sometimes you just say no. But she never wants to do that.
Even as someone struggling with an ED that causes weight loss, hearing other people's journeys and success inspires me so much. Regardless of the ED, we're all struggling
I like how you brought up how your parents never told you no. My parents were the opposite, they were very mindful of the quality of food that they put on the table because my parents grew up very poor. I mean we weren’t that much well off but we were better than what they had they growing up (pretty much a shack on a rocky farm... outport Newfoundland). My dad actually had Ricketts when he was a child he was so malnourished because they didn’t have any food. My dad told me once that my grandmother would make cabbage soup often because that’s all they had. I believe my Dad was quite fearful that because he malnourished as a child that we would be as well, because even though he had more money than growing up, he still didn’t have enough for the five of us. My Mom planned every single meal down to how much bread we needed and she would make her own bread as well. The only sugar we were allowed was on Fridays when we had our allowance, which was probably three dollars. Or if we went to our grandmothers and she’d gave us some of those hard ass cookies that you had to dunk into milk or tea in order to eat. But having that structure when I was young came in handy when it was time for me to lose weight (my weight gain was due to undiagnosed PCOS and trauma caused by the military; when you’re in the darkness it’s very easy to give up you could say) but because I had that structure as a child I knew what foods I needed to eat, and I knew how to tell myself no. Self-control is a major factor in weight loss.; and I’m a firm believer that if you yourself cannot tell yourself no, then you need to seek a professional to help you with that self control and breaking down why you can’t tell yourself no.
I relate on this on so many levels, thanks for sharing. When my 5 year old complained I didn't let him have more treats I explained to him that no one watched out for me like that and someday he will be grateful when he has a healthy relationship with food. That's what I want for my kids.
well now i understand a little bit as to why its hard for me to stop myself. My family never limited me on anything & my dad mainly kept me alive by feeding me fast food. Im 24 & struggling but im trying
I grew up similar enough as in my parents regulate what food i can eat as much as i can (fruits & veggies) and which food is restricted (no soda, no empty calorie snacks, selective type of carbs. Cookies & cakes are precious, precious treats). I went off the rails a bit when i got my first job as in i ate instant noodle and/or junk snacks more than once per week. Plus unfortunately that job got me work overtime a lot and the only food available past 12pm is fast food. My freshman 15 finally appears then lol. It now has been stabilized though. Since my body never got used to those, fast food and soda made me feel awful afterwards so it's limited to once per 3 months or if i'm feeling ravenous, once a month. I'm thankful for my parents for instilling such a healthy habit.
@@leilanim7338 Girl, we used to sprinkle slices of wonder bread with piles of sugar. Crunch it between our teeth....I had so many cavities as a kid. My mom also brought home a lot of mcdonalds from work. We had little neighborhood candy shops with sugary icy's and tons of Mexican candies. We could go whenever we wanted and no one said a thing. I don't know how I wasn't overweight as a kid. Probably cause I was also super active growing up in socal...but it certainly caught up to me later once I settled into my sedentary job and lower metabolism. Good thing we're not kids anymore though right? We can make our own choices now
My parents were super strict on food and my brothers and I had the opposite response to you. We all put on heaps of weight when we left home because we sucked at restricting ourselves when the control was given to us. We all eventually sorted it out but it was a long process!
Remember that time Patrick ate his chocolate bar and immediately forgot and bit his hand? I feel like ALR has done that too...including accusing someone else of eating her stuff 😂💀
Ha, I never get offended either! I'm grateful to have found someone with a public platform to express my thoughts. It's hard to disagree with someone so fit, smart, beautiful, funny, talented and RIGHT ON!
**INFO ON THE FACE SQUISH** So the trend is to “glow up” during the video. So the first have you’re not supposed to look good, and then the second have is with makeup and your hair done. So she’s squishing up her face to make herself look worse and then when she relaxes it’s supposed to look better when she relaxes
@@idalarsen2540 I know it's been 3 years but I hope you realized since then that "half" may have just been a typo. we hear what we are about to say before we type it, through our inner voice. people make these kinds of mistakes all the time.. it is embarrassing to get that bent out of shape
Dont have too much hope for Amberlynn anymore. A lot of people dont take their health seriously and end up paying the price... it's just sad to see someone monetizing their own demise.
@@GabbiEatsDonuts exactly. *insert Tyra voice here* I was rooting for her!! It's just like watching someone slowly die at this point and feels morally wrong a little bit.
I think I'm the only one who has never rooted for her cause the way I was introduced to her was that she was said to be manipulative and terrible, glad I'm lucky to not be disappointed.
the face squishy thing she is doing is similar to the trend where people would be looking their worst and then they’d put their hand over the camera and reveal themselves all fixed up, looking attractive, pretty, handsome (or whatever) and they’d basically look like a completely different person.
“Reminisce on how you feel after you have eaten the thing you didn’t need. Did you feel good? No. “. Oh my god, one simple phrase that hits a home run. Thank you Michelle. Xxxxxx
@@Orangecatenergy um actually she’s a size four🙄she just gets size six☝️ 🤚 (!!not six ☝️🤚 xl!!!) because she likes extra flowy clothes 👗👕👚smh 😒😣 it’s more flattering for her body 🥳💃🕴🕴
Pretty soon she'll be a mini cooper & _we're all_ just so jealous of her? I think we are cause look _she_ doesn't gag around _all_ that fat & grease!😂😂😂 That's not even food!
Michelle, my weight went down again. Thank you for redirecting my mindset from trying to achieve unrealistic body standard, to making sure I am healthy and able to move, hike, ride a bike, run, walk, play basketball and paddle. I needed that.
I remember finding your channel a year ago and you inspired me to stop drinking soda. It's been a year now since I stopped drinking soda and I've felt a lot better. I've lost close to 40 lbs and I've been overall much happier! I'm still trying to lose a lot of weight I still have around 60-80 more lbs before I'm where I want to be, but you showed me its possible!!! Thank you so much Michelle ❤
As someone who used to be and extremely picky eater (I still kind of am) I wish my parents had taught me to manage my food. But instead, when I was 3 they decided to let me choose what I want to eat. That pretty much fucked me up and now 11 years later I’m only now finally learning to manage my food right and eat healthy.
i can’t wrap my mind around allowing a 3 YEAR OLD to choose what they want to eat....i don’t get why some people choose to become parent if they’re not going to be invested in their child’s well-being (no offense to your parents but man, that’s rough)
You will probably improve your food management. You're only 14. When I was 14 I ate too much sugary food and cereals, and drank too much soda. Tbh I had an ED from 17 yo until my mid-twenties. But actually I eat very well and healthy. Just to say that you're young, you will do better later, trust me. Do your best, I believe in you :)
@@xdandychiggins from what I have seen on family vlog. It’s like they given up on feeding their children meal and went with “whatever they can put on their mouth that’s what they eat.”
In my Latino household, you will eat whatever was cooked, being picky is not an option, and if you throw away the food you didn't finish, you'll get punished lol Cuz uh, we ain't rich, we can't afford to waste food like that.
Our. Gorl. Needs. Professional. Help. That’s the first step. Once she gets her mental health sorted, she will be able to lose a significant amount of weight.
But when she saw the weight loss doctor she was "disheartened" because they said she needs to figure out why she binges first before weight loss surgery becomes an option, plus she has refused to go to an inpatient treatment centre (the best option for her imo) and I think that is because she has no intention of losing weight and her "weight loss journey" is just lip service at this point
@@Aspie_Aunty exactly! She doesn’t care, and doesn’t want to do the work to get healthy. She just wants to play the victim and blame everyone and everything else for her problems
Her squishing her face like that.... IF she loses weight, she's gon have some crazy looking wrinkles. The closer I get to 30 the more I'm like MAINTAIN HEALTH, MAINTAIN YOUTH 🥶
@@imjustapancake3188 exactly! 31 this year, amazing hubby,beautiful 4 month old, brilliant friends. Yeah I'm a little wrinkly and have a few post partum pounds still to go, but this beats the heck out of my 20s!
As much as parents monitoring their child's food is a good thing, my parents were so insistent on being skinny and eating healthy and basically being attractive that I now have a horrible relationship with food and developed an ED. Obviously it isn't all because of my parents, but the way I was raised had a huge effect on my current situation.
I'm the same way. I would either fluctuate from feeling guilty about being hungry and eating an apple or just binging. Thankfully I'm finally starting to find more of a balance.
@@christinabrenneman7641 Yeah I'm still struggling, quarantine having been especially tough, but I'm progressing, albeit slowly. I'm glad you're doing better, it's so hard to get out of that thought process.
@@daevae2784 it really is! I just started finding the littlest things that I did a good job on and would write them down. I don't know about you..but my inner critic can be aweful! Yea covid is so crazy. It's definitely taken a toll on everyone's mental health. I hope today goes well for you and that you can be gentle with yourself.❤ This is a weird time that we are living in..so it's totally normal to feel a little weird or off. Just the fact that you are still trying is a huge thing to be proud of! You are tough and strong! You can do this! :) ❤❤
I actually used to watch her in the very start of her youtube career when she was genuinely trying to lose weight. I remember her being so energetic, somewhat active and agile for someone her size and she would actually post videos of her on the elliptical, dancing, exercising ..etc. Seeing how she is now is so sad.
I heard this many years ago and that is, "we are what we eat." As harsh as that sounds, what we consume and put into our bodies, says a lot about our health and the shape of our bodies.
You should do a video talking about V-Shred and his diet pill “burn” and his “women’s weight loss secret” Like seriously I see him everywhere and it makes me rage to see people believing himmm
My mom was the no parent, but my dad would always undermine her (he’s the 4th child from the youngest of 18 children. My grandparents were rabbits. And the whole family was obese. The Children’s lives were a cycle of religion ( they’re Jehovas whiteness) and abuse brought on by their father. So they turned to food for comfort ( Terrible coping mechanism) Sorry for the saga but this plays in my struggle with obesity as an adult. Also I was born 1991, back then sonic the hedgehog rolled in Chilli Cheese Dogs😄. But I’ve vowed to beat my obesity, not there yet but everyday it’s getting better.
It's nice to meet you, Michelle. Thanks for the extra ab work out as I laughed for an entire 15 minutes. I do love that you point out that you don't have to be skinny to be healthy. As someone with fibromyalgia, I've learned that doing a little goes a long way and builds your confidence to do more, but the only way to truly face a weight loss challenge is to be honest about it. What you put in your mouth matters.
If Amber really wants to lose weight, she needs to ditch the social media presence and submit herself to a weightloss center. A big part of treating any addiction is admitting when you do not have control and need help and until Amber realizes she has lost control and needs help, she will continue this cycle.
There is speculation that a lot of the money she made via her channel, may have been wasted away. She has done massive amounts of shopping hauls over the years and attempted to make some money selling her cheap earrings on Depop. Overall, it is quite possible that she essentially squandered all, if not most, of her money.
Michelle, I start watching your channel 3 years ago. Since I dropped 50 pounds, changed careers, and finished college. Getting in shape gave me the confidence to achieve my goals. Trust me guys if I can do it anyone can. I was able to completely change my body as well as my lifestyle. That includes overcoming a life threatening addiction.
Amber's girlfriend has told her no to going out for food, or picking up food-- Amber has admitted to getting loud and aggressive to the point of abuse to get her way. She's flat admitted to bullying her girlfriend into submission when it comes to food.
How the actual trend works: film yourself at a "bad" place (just woke up,after crying,ya know) then reveal yourself in a pretty outfit, makeup,hair done. Show of your outfit How she does it: squeeze her chin onto her chest,reveal that she indeed does have a spine,no special makeup,no special hair,no outfit,no showing of the fit
I haven't been eating well recently, but I've definitely kept a bit of it under control just by not driving to a fast food restaurant and buying a 1000 calorie dessert ffs.
Amberlynn has literally said herself she's trolling. She does it all for money. It's sad that she's basically putting her life at risk for money when she can't even enjoy that money because it's not like she's using it to travel or do fun stuff, she's just using it to fuel her addiction and shorten her life even more.
i actually really appreciate how real you are about your struggle with binging, i was so scared to start watching your channel as someone who is kinda chubby and starting to lose weight but you're so cool!
Also, I really appreciate that you've had previous experience with binge eating to relate with your clients and those you're reviewing. As a someone who has struggled with BED in the past and lost 100 pounds after getting to the root cause. You're appreciated!
Omg the parody of the pizza client had me rolling laughing. I work in a different field but know all too well how clients twist advice and blame others for bad results
She's a year and some months older than me--and it might be because I'm baby-faced--but it's surprising that she does look way older despite being close in age.
Honestly Michelle, thank you for being such an honest person and being yourself. This year I decided to really change and I've been eating so much healthier. I make extremely healthy smoothies, make most of my food at home now, and have started doing home workouts. I'm approx 280-290 pounds, so I have a long way to go, but I've already noticed a huge difference in my energy, stomach and mindset. I haven't bought chocolate or candy I think in weeks (I did make homemade vegan brownies, didn't even finish three from the whole batch). I had tacos last night, BIG mistake. I even made my own taco spice and I have major heartburn this morning. First time I've had heartburn in awhile and I haaaaate it, so not doing that again. Next up is smoking, because 1. I coughed up a speck of blood yesterday 2. I kinda need to be able to like, breathe while working out I CAN DO UP TO 4 PLANKS NOW DURING MY WORKOUT AND HOLD THEM FOR 30-40 SECONDS! I could barely do one for 15 seconds when I first started. Go meee
Normally I skip through videos to get to the point. I’m pretty sure this channel is the ONLY channel I sit and watch through the whole video every time 😊
What Michelle said about parents teaching kids by limiting their sugar intake is so true. My brother and I learned most of our good food habits from our mom who almost never bought ice cream or sweets into the house unless it was a special occasion. Our dad on the other had always had ice cream and a personal candy stash so we learned by slowly not eating what he bought.
I have this rule that if i want something unhealthy, i have to walk to the store to get it. Turns out I like napping more than eating.
Thanks I’m using this
I try to tell my boyfriend the same thing, I guess it’s a good thing that I like to walk. He does too, but not for errands or to pick something up. I’m trying to convince him to at least walk with me when we do date nights (nearby outdoor restaurant dining, picnics, etc).
That would so be my mindset lmfao
Yoooo you actually have to do this in college lmao. I starved freshman year because I get cold so easily and wouldn’t leave my dorm to get food ahahahaha.
Lol that's the same method I use when I crave junk food or junk convenience store food. I like staying indoors a whole lot more than to leave my house and spend money on something I eventually decide that it's just better to make it at home.
I love to cook and cooking my favourite junk food makes me automatically make it a healthier version of that food that suits to my personal taste which is easy to figure out when you're the one cooking.
Ever since I learned to cook, junk food lost it's hold on me....the only thing it has going for it is probably the convenience of somebody else making it for you, but with proper prep it gets easier to make your own food.
"I don't want to do weight watchers. It teaches you to eat unhealthy." *proceeds to do a fast food mukbang.*
Which is crazy. Ive been doing weight watchers now for 2 weeks and lost 11 pounds. I eat just fine.
And even if it did, be an adult and use common sense. Don't do it just cuz you want someone to blame later, y'know
Weight Watchers, tho not my fav plan, relies on you being a responsible. If you eat a pint of ice cream and chicken nuggets, but count the points properly and do not make it an everyday thing, you WILL still lose weight. Weight Watchers isn't at fault for her terrible food choices.
@@jessigirlrae1688 and isn't weight watchers just counting calories? How is it unhealthy? She's from an alternate universe.
@@rebeccaspratling2865 yep. I thought I was really eating light until I started this program..... and wow was I wrong lol
That awkward moment when you realize that Michelle's thoughts have never offended you 🤣🤣
yeah fr. thought she was gonna be like uber conservative
I may not always agree with her, but I am not offended by her. I like her.
*Ha*
Frfr...
Yeah i totally agree with this!
Tip to lose weight: Before eating or ordering out, ask yourself, “Would Amberlynn eat this?”
💀😭✋
I've lost it 😭😭😭💀⚰️
omg bro. love it.
Yes, but more so portion sizes
Yes she would eat it
Amberlynn Reid and Nickocado Avocado are the UA-camrs who are willing to eat till they die in front of the camera as long as someone's watching
Hungry fat chick too
Foodiebeauty would too
It’s so sad 😩😩😩😩
And they'll keep at it. People typically gravitate towards negative things, so people would obviously watch people slowly eat themselves to death.
They are the new snuff 🤷♀️ literally eating to death
I like how she doesn't want to cook with oil because of the calories, but she eats enough food to feed a family of 4 for a day..
Or two days
It's the delusion of a food addict
Fr I’ve gained some weight recently but at my skinniest (47kg) I cooked with tons of oil. She doesn’t need to restrict that. It’s the 5000 calories of fat that’s the problem and she’s deluding herself.
@Valentina Here for the majority of people, healthy portions are ideal. Bulk eating stretches your stomach making you require more food to feel full... I'm not sure it's wise to encourage people to normalize eating huge portions regardless of their caloric content.
@@SaltySeaWitch3 right. It should be a balance, with stopping eating when you feel hungry- not force feeding. But high volume low calorie foods are always a good choice for anyone trying to lose weight.
the ‘squish face’ isn’t something people actually do on tik tok, those challenges are supposed to show a glow up, usually after putting on makeup or getting ready. amberlynn squishes her fat together because she looks the same with or without makeup and she thinks that is the only way to make herself look ‘unattractive’ so the ‘glow up’ will be surprising.
She relies on her pretty face way too much.. the fat has ruined it tbh
Hopefully she was just being a smartass about not getting it. She's basically saying there is no difference between her fat face and her glow up fat face lol
Ooh thanks, I thought this was the trending that shows that you are not ugly, you have to find the right camera angle. Cuz I saw a few girl that also do the same with the face and them Bam, their are not fat is just the angle.
@@TimoteoDeBaum honestly, I don't see her as having a pretty face. I have seen a lot of obese women who are really pretty, but I think she looks barely average.
@@evenstar34 I don't think anyone of us can actually tell. Her face is so warped from her lifestyle, she could actually have the worst bonestructure under the fat. Or the best.
Michelle, I really appreciate that you aren't one of those who have lost a bunch of weight and now says, "I don't even like sugary foods anymore!" When you talk about oreo shakes and hot cheetos and how you still struggle and still want them, it is much more relatable.
Hint: when a friend gets one, have ONE spoonful & make it last by eating it extremely slowly. Plus, ain't there a rule, "your plate, your calories. So, go ahead eat off someone else's plate."?? 😂😂😂 Stay strong! 💖
I love that about her videos too
Or just don't be restrictive and eat things you want in moderation cause being restrictive is not sustainable and how binging happens.
@@tjmoudy That's not how it works for everyone. Some people can't eat certain things "in moderation" and, for them, having a single cheeto could trigger a binge, so it's better to abstain - just like former alcoholics often can't "drink in moderation", so they stop consuming alcohol entirely. There is no "one size fits all" approach.
it's true tho, once you get used to little to no sugar, your body doesnt crave it anymore
I’m obese and I’ve decided this year to get my shit together and I’ve started losing weight and eating healthy. It’s extremely hard and difficult. I’m tempted a lot to eat unhealthy.
But in these three months I’ve lost 12 kgs (26 pounds) so I’m very happy and I’m hoping to get to my goal weight at the end of this year 😊
My weight does fluctuate but I try not let it get me down and keep going.
(I went from 103 kgs (227 pounds) to 91 kgs (200 pounds))
Edit: I totally went off the bandwagon and gained way more weight than I would have liked. I’d like to blame it on my stress eating because it was my last year of high school but I can’t blame anyone else but myself.
At the beginning of this year I was 113 kg (249 pounds) and now in February I am now 107 kg
Although it is less than I’d like I have still lost and I am determined to lose it all. One of the reasons why I am on a exercise challenge with a personal trainer with a set diet and I will be starting to take Ozempic prescribed by my doctor 😊
Congratulations!!! You can do it!
Totally normal to weight fluctuate as well. Great job!!
Weight fluctuations are normal, as long as there’s an overall downwards trend it’s all good. You’re doing an amazing job
Good job! You can do it!
You got this!!!!!!💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
God Michelle is so cool. She’s a gymrat cosplayer who’s gorgeous and owns pugs.
And a chihuahua!
And she sings
@@sunsundks3891 yesss and her voice is BEAUTIFUL 😍
She is a MOTHER of a pug.
owning pugs isn't cool tho
She doesn't drive anywhere. She doesn't leave the house. Her personal assistants/"girlfriends" bring her the contraband.
Lmfao
not the contraband 💀
She doesn't even burn the calories she would if she went buying the things she eats.
And no shade to Becky she could stand to lose a few pounds too
She also uses doordash ubereats and such.
I am a parent of a teen who is overweight and your calling me out has made me stop buying things that are bad for my family. Well, less things. Lol but I am continuing to bring better food and reduce unhealthy food into the house. We’ve also bought things for exercising at home, and I’m in the process of getting vaccinated so I can get back to the Y! You being a former binger who understands how hard it can be makes it so much better! You know the excuses, and the struggle. You make us laugh, think, and talk about creating a healthier life for our whole family!
This is amazing, your family will be really thankful in the long run. When I asked my parents to stop buying unhealthy stuff to help me loose weight, they only always said that I should have the self control not to eat it.
Good Parenting! I wish my parents would have done that for me. I have kids, I get how challenging it is.
I’m glad you took the initiative to make a change in your family. Props to you! Wishing you and your family the best of luck :)
Dont make too many changes too quickly, proud of you!
awesome!
“It was allowing me to weasel in a pint of ice cream.”
No Amber, YOU allowed yourself to weasel in a pint of ice cream 🙄
Like, I am seriously changing my lifestyle for the first time. I could weasel in a pint of ice cream too! Or I could eat a moderate amount of frozen, low sugar yogurt (Or sorbet, which I love). Still nice, still refreshing, don't miss out on anything, just better choice for a long healthy life!
Amberlynn... Wants a miracle, she wants a diet that will change her lifestyle, her mentality and make the pounds drop real fast.
She's still the type who expects instant results after eating right for a day and if there's no difference she quits. Like girl nothing is instant. Even though it's tiring and frustrating, We work for it. There's nothing more satisfying then seeing the changes, how much our minds change once we get used to it and setting goals up for ourselves.
That is exactly why weight loss surgery won't do shit for her
“I am actually glad I gained just 50 lbs. It could have been way worse - like 100.”
Way to stay positive, Amberlyn.
I had heard 5 🤡 omg
My husband hatessss when I watch your channels. He’s like “why does she just talk about fat people why does she care she should just let them live their lives”.
My reply: her channel is called my thoughts will probably offend you..and sir ..you sound offended. But you can leave her a comment and tell her why you’re offended. Lmao 😂
Maybe tell him to actually watch some of her videos. Then he might understand why she makes videos like this.
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Uhhhh... I hope he will comment 😹
😂😂😂best comment ever
Because fat people talk about skinny People all the time too 😂
I'm offended that my biceps don't look like Michelles. Cause they are serious goals
Dude literally I think about her arms 4-5 days a week in the gym.
If you or anyone you know needs help with your fitness goals just ask. There are so many people in the fitness industry who are willing to help.
I'm a guy and her biceps are twice as big as mine
I have nice biceps, but not as nice as hers lol
The best part of waking up in “my thoughts will probably offend you” in my cup
tbh the channel name would be a good mug design
That would be hard to put on a coffee can label. 🤣😆😂
@@reese3805 especially as a hiring manager lol
@@mouse1919 what's your last comment?
You know, as a fat girl I've never been offended by your videos. They actually help me hold myself accountable and remember what I don't want my life to become. After my 2nd baby I was up to 310lb and I'm now down to 269. Progress is slow but your channel helps. ❤️ Just thought you should know.
Slow weight loss is sustainable weight loss!
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So for anyone that's seen this and cares. I'm now down to 236. ☺️
@@katywithani nice job
@@katywithani you’re doing great 🎉
I’m 5’2 and a few years ago I weighed 300+lbs, now I’m 126lbs. The whole fat positive group kills me. When I was fat I felt like shit and now I have more energy and I’m more active. Thank you for all your videos.
"got a bunch of wings" PULLS OUT A WHOLE 2 BIRDS WORTH OF MEAT!!!!
There were enough wings to feed a whole family
Yes and even worse, with about 10 lbs of FRIED BATTER on those wings. It looked like a lot more fried batter than chicken on those wings.
They looked like regular a** pieces of chicken to me, and I got confused! 😂
I still dont understand breading wings and frying them like she could have gone to a bbq place and got smoked wings that are so much better tasting and healthier. Or atleast get normal hot wings that arent freaking breaded.
My stomach hurt watching it. My first thought went to the small kinda wings. Not a whole batch of fried chicken from the store deli.
Congrats Michelle, because you’ve given amberlynn constructive criticism, you’re now considered a “haydur”
Welcome to the club Michelle!
Hater nation yeeeeiii 🎉🙌😹😹
I date Shrek to do a react video to this. She’s scared lol
Asking Amberlynn for diet-tips is like asking a fish for fishing-tips lmao
Is she the foodt
Lmao
Only thing I'm legit surprised about with Amberlynn is how her skin looks decent with her garbage diet. Legitimately surprised.
It’s all filters and lighting. When you see her skin in bright sunlight or fluorescent lighting it’s jarring how pitted and rough and gross it looks. She also has said in the past she doesn’t wash her face and routinely falls asleep with makeup on.
@@meganm2550 Oh, damn. I haven't watched her videos so I didn't know that. Well, I guess that figures that she doesn't take care of her skin. I used to be lazy like that and would fall asleep with makeup on until I found out how damaging that is.
@@darianrose2195 yeah, she doesn’t take care of any part of her life. Her hygiene is no different.
Honestly though.
I slacked on my skincare routine for like 2 days and it's been a shit show.
there's a whole saga with her skincare she just rubbed cetaphil face wash on saying you don't have to wash it off or she was using hair leave in treatment as a moisturiser and defending her stupidity "I know more than you"
Our gorl literally did a mukbang on top of a board game called "Box of Lies"...we're really living in a simulation and the head programmer is on vacation
How fitting for her🤣
I can't tell if shes trolling sometimes but she makes me laugh I'm not gonna lie
So...she just realized there was a whole untapped audience of people who probably have never heard of her and is just repeating everything on there lol
Her personality changes platform to platform; she plays a bad bish on TT, then turns around and says she hates herself, can't stand what she sees, etc on YT.
@@MissKitae
As much as I dislike her, she is good at marketing herself in that sense.
Know your audience after all.
@@starr2shine738 I give her credit where it's due, she's not a quarter the idiot people want her to be.
Insufferable, yes. Stupid, not nearly so much as people think.
@@MissKitae People make fun of her there though, Tiktok is full of teens, she had to disabled the comments because they went all out on her like
*Dude, I was eating*
*How old are you?*
There was more but that's the most that I can remember
@@alexandersmith4731 That's her fault for being 30 going on 13 with a ruthless audience. Those kids give zero Fs.
She still plays at being a baddie with the comments disabled.
All these people say "It'll work this time"
But what they forget is
_✨consistency✨_
I learned that if I screwed up & caught myself I didn't "restart the next day". No, you start,
The. Very. Next. Bite!
Attempt to make 1 oreo cookie last 30 minutes to eat. Or a single bite of cheesecake....
Hint: freeze it.🤯😂😂😂 Heck a small bowl of frozen corn is loaded some kinda sugar that cuts cravings. You gotta eat one kernal at a time though. Make it last.😉
@@Digitalhunny great advice!
My parents didn't want me to have chips, soda, fastfood and candy as a kid. Then as a teen, when I had a job I'd buy whatever junk food I wanted. I got burnt out on all of it, and now eat healthy. My parents were right for once, which is rare. 😂😆🤣
Identical experience . Never had it growing up (too poor) . Started buying all the junk as a teen . Got fat . Got sick of it . Got fit again at 22, was easy because I grew up on hone cooked meals and fruit .
Good for you. My parents was always away and would stack up foods like that for us to eat. Though I didnt end up looking like Hamberlyn. In fact I'm still fit and after college and having a work I just remove it in my system and stop eating chips, soda, best decision in life. It made my skin a lot better
My mom would manage my food intake by reminding me like “do you really need another brownie?” Or “are you really still hungry or just eating because you’re bored?” I really think that helped me because when I wanna overeat I think about what my mom told me
@@metalsuppository That happens though, binge eating when your board. I try to listen to music instead or grab a flavored seltzer water as a substitute. Ice cream is my weakness, though.
@@jonasabry9099 yeah I usually just watch videos so I don’t think about eating
I've never been overweight but I do struggle with wanting to overeat... reflecting on how you feel after overeating is the best way to stop this behavior! Michelle nailing it again
Same boat
I lost a goal weight of 80lbs because I was CONVINCED I could loose it faster than her and I did 😂 thanks amber
She talks about the weight watchers like it’s supposed to literally stop her from eating what she wants. She said “they LET ME eat ice cream and McDonald’s” Like someone is supposed to be there taking the food away from her and saying no😂😂 like wtf is wrong with her.
That’s what offended me today
Hand out of nowhere slaps the fork out of alr's grasp. That's gonna cost a lot more money when you signup with weight watchers.
@@naps4all 🤣😂🤣
She's just like Tammy in that way!
She also said "restrictive" diets make her binge, so she went looking for a plan where she could eat what she wanted.
I am just bored of her. She needs to rebrand.
I feel bad for Amber's dog Twinkie. She doesn't deserve that kind of abuse. There are many videos of her neglecting her dog's health and her dog is morbidily obese. I hope twinkie escapes
I hope her cats escape, too
#freetwinkie
Poor doggy
Dogs not being abused..it's just Fat..
@@AutumnBRreeze making your dog gain that much and neglecting it can be considered abuse :/
Okay but remember when Amberlynn and the Slaton sisters were beefing lol💀
Whattt tell me everyyythinggg
@@goodbye7236 basically ALR shaded them in a video and then Amy responded by making a parody of ALR
Whaaaat whereeeee
Nikocado and ALR beefing was hilarious too lol
@@iceicetina5876 Yeah Niko's parody videos were hilarious! But it was over way too quickly, Amber more or less ignored the whole thing :(
As a fat person struggling to overcome binge eating and sugar addiction, I really appreciate the bits of advice you add in these videos!
she is a great example of toxic positivity in regard to her weight “loss” journey. lost weight? great! gained weight? great! Everything is great either way!
"Toxic positivity" that word is toxic😂
Amberlyn has been on her weightloss journey for 7 years and still hasn't been able to find the time to buy new shoes that actually fit her lol 🤡
7 years & the only time she lost weight was when she had cancer.
But the 89 lbs!!! Lol
You know when Dio Brando actually takes the time to notice you and call you out on your shit, you’ve fucked up.
@@Hi-kq1vi I would argue it doesn’t count if you gain it all back and then some
Leave that girls feet outta this hahahaahah 😂😂
Lol the fact that she already quit “curvy calories”, and it hasn’t even been 2 days.
Off topic, but I love your PFP! 😍
@@annabellee8459 thx ^^ but you have the queen on yours,so..👀
So, your client told you that YOUR PIZZA was too GREASY but it wasn’t YOUR PIZZA, it was from COSTCO. Make it make sense 🙃
Last week I had an 'American style pizza' for the first time in my life and I was shocked, because it was very fluffy, cheesy and really greasy. Naturally I can't be sure if that's the case for real American pizzas, but it made me understand better how can you gain weight quickly because of that. The classic Italian ones aren't the healthiest either, but the difference is huge
Fluffy cheesy, and very greezy
Definitely in the real American style… I’m allowed to say that: I’m American; born and breed… further evidence? My spelling is atrocious… thank you spell check!
@@brittanybales715 Same though especially the pizza in school cafeterias
@@heidievans8634 oh! School cafeteria pizza is the worst… almost as bad as they’re really dry chicken: at least with that I could covertly spill some water in my lunch tray and eat the rest of my food and let it soak in and it wasn’t that bad I know I sound like a total loser but it really does work a little bit… it works enough for me to choke it down at least
@@brittanybales715 I down all of my milk after I eat school chicken because of how dry it is
Michelle talking about Amber walking to her car and getting DQ and I'm just like "oh my sweet summer child, she gets that delivered or brought to her, she's not expending the energy to walk to the car after standing for a 30 second tik tok"
I was debating going to the gym today.... no more - my ass is going
Get it honeyyyy!
Always just go, I've never regretted just going when I've contemplated it but have ALWAYS regretted not going. I struggled with that for soooo long!! Proud of you!
Imagine being able to go to the gym 😯
I remember being an overweight little girl and my brother and sister would make fun of me, calling me fat names and my dad would always step in and say " she's not fat, she's just healthy!" That is the worst thing to put into a fat kids head. It's not healthy and parents need to tell their children "NO!!"
Similar, I wasn't overweight as a kid because I was a very active kid, but I was never taught to mind my food, and then when I stopped being so active I started gaining weight quite quickly and I kept getting excuses by my family that has a saying "health comes in through the mouth"
Which, yesh, it is true, but not what it originally means, they took it as "eat as much as you can". And even nowadays, i dont know what they think, on one hand they keep asking me why i havent lost weight, and on the other hand whenever i eat with them i get a lecture how i am eating too little, starving myself bla bla blha
I'm sorry, but your argumentation is pretty short sighted. That is NOT the worst thing to put in a fat kids head. Your dad should step in and defend you! And then actively help you. Just saying "NO!" will do nothing but hurt the kid.
@@hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195 holy shit, I can relate too much. When I was twelve, I was a fat kid. I lost around 25 pounds over 6 months (I worked really fucking hard because I had an emotional eating problem and it was extremely hard to build willpower) my dad told me the truth about my weight and if it weren’t for his encouragement I would’ve weighed 200 by now. On the other hand, my mother didn’t encourage me, she refused to tell me the truth and when I reached my goal weight (after over 6 months of eating healthy and working out, it wasn’t total hell because I paced myself) she called me anorexic and shamed me! I felt so betrayed. Dammed if you do, damned if you don’t. Just love your body Y’all!!
To be fair, fat BABIES are healthy, overweight adolescents are not.
@@SynterraSteen That's right.
If her biggest issue is saying no to food, I think that she would really benefit from cognitive behavioral therapy. I myself used to have this sort of disciplinary issue. Willpower doesn't just magically appear out of nowhere, its a mental exercise we all have to work for.
I lost my 24 year win, with my weightloss.... all due to this F*%&$*NG civid $hit!! 🤬🤬🤬 Thanks to you, posting your comment, I know what I must do now.🤗 BTW, just for an fyi, 12lbs is _awhole lotta weight_ once you enter your 40's.😣 Boo-hiss to this funk I'm in, BOO FARKIN' HISSY, I say!!😂😂
She doesn't want to say no or "deprive" herself. She finds ANY excuse to quit a diet, including misrepresenting what a weight loss doctor told her HAD saying that her Optivia diet had too few calories.
TOO FEW CALORIES.
Like, I don't think too few calories is something someone her weight needs to worry about. But.. if she REALLY felt that way, she could have, you know.. eaten one more extra meal or whatever to put her at the Dr No 1200 calories that was probably on her mind.
She even SAID she was looking for a reason to quit the diet.
I could easily eat 2500 calories of junk every day. I don’t. Health is more important. We all gotta say no. That’s life.
@@joannapatterson4625 I was craving sweet cream cheese filled pretzels this morning. Know what I did? I DID NOT BUY THEM.
Now, I admit, I would have had a hard time if I had them in my house, so more easily accessible... And sure, I could have ordered some and got them delivered.
Know what I did? Nothing. Am I still craving them? Yes. Will I get over it without eating them? Yes.
Just because I want something, doesn't mean I have to have it. Sure I give into cravings now and then. I love pineapple fried rice. I love tom kha. I'm pretty sure neither of them are low calorie, lol.
But I limit myself, I restrict myself, and she doesn't WANT to do either. I think I recall her saying she doesn't want to have restrictions (but that could have been Chantal).
@@labella9291 same. There are days when I’ll enjoy and eat what I want. But usually I don’t keep tempting food in the house. I just don’t buy it. There really is no secret to weight loss or weight maintenance. Sometimes you just say no. But she never wants to do that.
I was 300 lbs once because of a lack of self-control, it's not impossible, I'm now 160 and can walk more than 5 minutes without suffocating.
Congratulations. We're proud of you ❤️
Even as someone struggling with an ED that causes weight loss, hearing other people's journeys and success inspires me so much. Regardless of the ED, we're all struggling
I like how you brought up how your parents never told you no. My parents were the opposite, they were very mindful of the quality of food that they put on the table because my parents grew up very poor. I mean we weren’t that much well off but we were better than what they had they growing up (pretty much a shack on a rocky farm... outport Newfoundland). My dad actually had Ricketts when he was a child he was so malnourished because they didn’t have any food. My dad told me once that my grandmother would make cabbage soup often because that’s all they had. I believe my Dad was quite fearful that because he malnourished as a child that we would be as well, because even though he had more money than growing up, he still didn’t have enough for the five of us. My Mom planned every single meal down to how much bread we needed and she would make her own bread as well. The only sugar we were allowed was on Fridays when we had our allowance, which was probably three dollars. Or if we went to our grandmothers and she’d gave us some of those hard ass cookies that you had to dunk into milk or tea in order to eat. But having that structure when I was young came in handy when it was time for me to lose weight (my weight gain was due to undiagnosed PCOS and trauma caused by the military; when you’re in the darkness it’s very easy to give up you could say) but because I had that structure as a child I knew what foods I needed to eat, and I knew how to tell myself no. Self-control is a major factor in weight loss.; and I’m a firm believer that if you yourself cannot tell yourself no, then you need to seek a professional to help you with that self control and breaking down why you can’t tell yourself no.
I relate on this on so many levels, thanks for sharing. When my 5 year old complained I didn't let him have more treats I explained to him that no one watched out for me like that and someday he will be grateful when he has a healthy relationship with food. That's what I want for my kids.
well now i understand a little bit as to why its hard for me to stop myself. My family never limited me on anything & my dad mainly kept me alive by feeding me fast food. Im 24 & struggling but im trying
I grew up similar enough as in my parents regulate what food i can eat as much as i can (fruits & veggies) and which food is restricted (no soda, no empty calorie snacks, selective type of carbs. Cookies & cakes are precious, precious treats). I went off the rails a bit when i got my first job as in i ate instant noodle and/or junk snacks more than once per week. Plus unfortunately that job got me work overtime a lot and the only food available past 12pm is fast food. My freshman 15 finally appears then lol. It now has been stabilized though. Since my body never got used to those, fast food and soda made me feel awful afterwards so it's limited to once per 3 months or if i'm feeling ravenous, once a month. I'm thankful for my parents for instilling such a healthy habit.
@@leilanim7338 Girl, we used to sprinkle slices of wonder bread with piles of sugar. Crunch it between our teeth....I had so many cavities as a kid. My mom also brought home a lot of mcdonalds from work. We had little neighborhood candy shops with sugary icy's and tons of Mexican candies. We could go whenever we wanted and no one said a thing. I don't know how I wasn't overweight as a kid. Probably cause I was also super active growing up in socal...but it certainly caught up to me later once I settled into my sedentary job and lower metabolism. Good thing we're not kids anymore though right? We can make our own choices now
My parents were super strict on food and my brothers and I had the opposite response to you. We all put on heaps of weight when we left home because we sucked at restricting ourselves when the control was given to us.
We all eventually sorted it out but it was a long process!
Remember that time Patrick ate his chocolate bar and immediately forgot and bit his hand? I feel like ALR has done that too...including accusing someone else of eating her stuff 😂💀
Um yeah... she yelled at her girlfriend for eating her cereal. Lol
@@carolynw8614 will always remember. The fact that Eric caught it on camera.
Reminds me of that time she claimed she ate fast because strangers in restaurant would come and eat her food off her plate
@@squidsxtiddies I know. It was a scandal. 😂😂
@@kimberleyvdw4 lol😂
I’m offended that you never offend me... those vocals girl. Hot danm!
Ha, I never get offended either! I'm grateful to have found someone with a public platform to express my thoughts. It's hard to disagree with someone so fit, smart, beautiful, funny, talented and RIGHT ON!
It's all common sense. I'm never offended either, because she presents all sides of the argument.
Her vocals are *liiiit*!!!!
You can’t get offended with common sense.
Yeah, I've never been offended...guess I have to watch more vids.
I need just you yelling "YOU DON'T NEED IT" as an alarm tone.
**INFO ON THE FACE SQUISH**
So the trend is to “glow up” during the video. So the first have you’re not supposed to look good, and then the second have is with makeup and your hair done. So she’s squishing up her face to make herself look worse and then when she relaxes it’s supposed to look better when she relaxes
its redundant. shes fat already
*Half, please omg. Not "have". *HALF.*
@@idalarsen2540 I know it's been 3 years but I hope you realized since then that "half" may have just been a typo. we hear what we are about to say before we type it, through our inner voice. people make these kinds of mistakes all the time.. it is embarrassing to get that bent out of shape
Dont have too much hope for Amberlynn anymore.
A lot of people dont take their health seriously and end up paying the price... it's just sad to see someone monetizing their own demise.
@Helen Voss I wonder how she’s still alive
I don't either. I thought she would take her health seriously when she had uterine cancer but, nope 😒
@@GabbiEatsDonuts exactly. *insert Tyra voice here* I was rooting for her!!
It's just like watching someone slowly die at this point and feels morally wrong a little bit.
@@bluemoonblackthunder it’s not really watching it’s just watching in anger or disappointment. Which is why I RARELY watch her videos.
I think I'm the only one who has never rooted for her cause the way I was introduced to her was that she was said to be manipulative and terrible, glad I'm lucky to not be disappointed.
That's funny; it took me to watch a few of Michelle's videos to seriously get my shit together. 😂😭
(I used to weigh almost 240, now I'm at under 190.)
good job!!!! amazing !!!
You go girl!
Please keep going !!!! Your amazinggg 🥺
Amazing! How are you doing now?
@@stantxt9723 So far I'm feeling great. I am almost under 170lbs. Im currently 184lbs
the face squishy thing she is doing is similar to the trend where people would be looking their worst and then they’d put their hand over the camera and reveal themselves all fixed up, looking attractive, pretty, handsome (or whatever) and they’d basically look like a completely different person.
Amber thinks she is gorgeous and that those videos prove that.
@@itsmackenzie
Delusionalynn
Her rants blaming “hayders” for why she can’t lose weight are my favorite!
“Reminisce on how you feel after you have eaten the thing you didn’t need. Did you feel good? No. “. Oh my god, one simple phrase that hits a home run. Thank you Michelle. Xxxxxx
“Only to reveal that you still have multiple chins.” Lmaoooooooooo I CAN NOOOOOOT 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Watch out... She's going to blame you for putting all that food in her mouth.
Hamburgerlynn is obviously a skinny queen and you're just a hay-dur Michelle 😠. How dare you say she is unhealthy 😜
She's so skinnnntyyyyy that she fits into torrid 6XL
HAMBURGERLYNN 😂😂 I’m dying
@@Orangecatenergy correction - she uses a Torrid 6XL dress as a shirt because it’s not long enough to wear properly
@@Orangecatenergy um actually she’s a size four🙄she just gets size six☝️ 🤚 (!!not six ☝️🤚 xl!!!) because she likes extra flowy clothes 👗👕👚smh 😒😣 it’s more flattering for her body 🥳💃🕴🕴
Pretty soon she'll be a mini cooper & _we're all_ just so jealous of her? I think we are cause look _she_ doesn't gag around _all_ that fat & grease!😂😂😂 That's not even food!
Michelle, my weight went down again. Thank you for redirecting my mindset from trying to achieve unrealistic body standard, to making sure I am healthy and able to move, hike, ride a bike, run, walk, play basketball and paddle. I needed that.
I remember finding your channel a year ago and you inspired me to stop drinking soda. It's been a year now since I stopped drinking soda and I've felt a lot better. I've lost close to 40 lbs and I've been overall much happier! I'm still trying to lose a lot of weight I still have around 60-80 more lbs before I'm where I want to be, but you showed me its possible!!! Thank you so much Michelle ❤
I switched to diet and it’s doing the same. But I only have it when I crave soda 🥤 lol
As someone who used to be and extremely picky eater (I still kind of am) I wish my parents had taught me to manage my food. But instead, when I was 3 they decided to let me choose what I want to eat. That pretty much fucked me up and now 11 years later I’m only now finally learning to manage my food right and eat healthy.
i can’t wrap my mind around allowing a 3 YEAR OLD to choose what they want to eat....i don’t get why some people choose to become parent if they’re not going to be invested in their child’s well-being (no offense to your parents but man, that’s rough)
You will probably improve your food management. You're only 14. When I was 14 I ate too much sugary food and cereals, and drank too much soda. Tbh I had an ED from 17 yo until my mid-twenties. But actually I eat very well and healthy. Just to say that you're young, you will do better later, trust me. Do your best, I believe in you :)
At least you are doing something about now. Stay focused on your healthy eating and don't give up!
@@xdandychiggins from what I have seen on family vlog. It’s like they given up on feeding their children meal and went with “whatever they can put on their mouth that’s what they eat.”
In my Latino household, you will eat whatever was cooked, being picky is not an option, and if you throw away the food you didn't finish, you'll get punished lol
Cuz uh, we ain't rich, we can't afford to waste food like that.
Our. Gorl. Needs. Professional. Help.
That’s the first step. Once she gets her mental health sorted, she will be able to lose a significant amount of weight.
"my mental is so bad right now"
But when she saw the weight loss doctor she was "disheartened" because they said she needs to figure out why she binges first before weight loss surgery becomes an option, plus she has refused to go to an inpatient treatment centre (the best option for her imo) and I think that is because she has no intention of losing weight and her "weight loss journey" is just lip service at this point
@@Aspie_Aunty exactly! She doesn’t care, and doesn’t want to do the work to get healthy. She just wants to play the victim and blame everyone and everything else for her problems
My friends are trying to convince me to download tiktok. This really makes me not want to.
don’t, especially if you have issues with self-esteem and/or body dysmorphia. it’s a petri dish for degeneracy.
@@xdandychiggins no don’t download it :( cause you won’t have time watching Michelle’s videos
TikTok makes me stabby and I swear I am not a violent person
I mean, this side of it sucks. But the skits and anime stuff is pretty amazing. But addicting ha
After having it for a few months I had to undownload it, it gets addicting and really didn’t help my self esteem either
,,5 years from now, me and amberlynn, we're the same size''- i laughed so hard, golden:))))
“Only to reveal that you still have multiple chins” omg I died! I love how honest you are.
Her squishing her face like that.... IF she loses weight, she's gon have some crazy looking wrinkles. The closer I get to 30 the more I'm like MAINTAIN HEALTH, MAINTAIN YOUTH 🥶
FACTS.
Same lmaooo I refuse be 30 and still like 40 lbs overweight nope nope nope!!!
But 30 isn't even that old eye-
@@nahicorua thank you!! People act like wrinkles and being 30 is the worst thing in the world.... wait till they’re 60 lmao.
@@imjustapancake3188 exactly! 31 this year, amazing hubby,beautiful 4 month old, brilliant friends. Yeah I'm a little wrinkly and have a few post partum pounds still to go, but this beats the heck out of my 20s!
As much as parents monitoring their child's food is a good thing, my parents were so insistent on being skinny and eating healthy and basically being attractive that I now have a horrible relationship with food and developed an ED. Obviously it isn't all because of my parents, but the way I was raised had a huge effect on my current situation.
I'm the same way. I would either fluctuate from feeling guilty about being hungry and eating an apple or just binging. Thankfully I'm finally starting to find more of a balance.
@@christinabrenneman7641 Yeah I'm still struggling, quarantine having been especially tough, but I'm progressing, albeit slowly. I'm glad you're doing better, it's so hard to get out of that thought process.
@@daevae2784 it really is! I just started finding the littlest things that I did a good job on and would write them down. I don't know about you..but my inner critic can be aweful!
Yea covid is so crazy. It's definitely taken a toll on everyone's mental health.
I hope today goes well for you and that you can be gentle with yourself.❤ This is a weird time that we are living in..so it's totally normal to feel a little weird or off.
Just the fact that you are still trying is a huge thing to be proud of!
You are tough and strong! You can do this! :) ❤❤
@@christinabrenneman7641 Thank you so much! I hope you have a wonderful day!
@@daevae2784 thank you! You too!🙃☺
I actually used to watch her in the very start of her youtube career when she was genuinely trying to lose weight. I remember her being so energetic, somewhat active and agile for someone her size and she would actually post videos of her on the elliptical, dancing, exercising ..etc. Seeing how she is now is so sad.
The fact that she CAN’T drive and somehow gets SOMEONE to drive to McDonald’s or Dairy Queen is honestly astonishing🤯
I heard this many years ago and that is, "we are what we eat." As harsh as that sounds, what we consume and put into our bodies, says a lot about our health and the shape of our bodies.
You should do a video talking about V-Shred and his diet pill “burn” and his “women’s weight loss secret”
Like seriously I see him everywhere and it makes me rage to see people believing himmm
I lost 25lbs on weight watchers. The only time I gain weight is when I'm not holding myself accountable. :/ she needs therapy and a new life.
I have the obese, but I've lost 29 lbs since 1/2/21. Thanks for helping to keep me motivated and laughing! Happy Easter!
That's so awesome! Keep it up!:)
My mom was the no parent, but my dad would always undermine her (he’s the 4th child from the youngest of 18 children. My grandparents were rabbits. And the whole family was obese. The Children’s lives were a cycle of religion ( they’re Jehovas whiteness) and abuse brought on by their father. So they turned to food for comfort ( Terrible coping mechanism) Sorry for the saga but this plays in my struggle with obesity as an adult. Also I was born 1991, back then sonic the hedgehog rolled in Chilli Cheese Dogs😄. But I’ve vowed to beat my obesity, not there yet but everyday it’s getting better.
You got this!!!!
You will do great.
What an interesting story.... wow.. and that was just a few lines!
It's nice to meet you, Michelle. Thanks for the extra ab work out as I laughed for an entire 15 minutes. I do love that you point out that you don't have to be skinny to be healthy. As someone with fibromyalgia, I've learned that doing a little goes a long way and builds your confidence to do more, but the only way to truly face a weight loss challenge is to be honest about it. What you put in your mouth matters.
Lost over 120 pounds in two years. Watching a while, thank you for the motivation!
Thank you!!!! I have been on an ALR binge while having COVID. This is just what I needed!!!!
If Amber really wants to lose weight, she needs to ditch the social media presence and submit herself to a weightloss center. A big part of treating any addiction is admitting when you do not have control and need help and until Amber realizes she has lost control and needs help, she will continue this cycle.
With the money she has, she can afford a nutritionist and personal trainer rather than keeps with her 'concept' of weight loss.
There is speculation that a lot of the money she made via her channel, may have been wasted away.
She has done massive amounts of shopping hauls over the years and attempted to make some money selling her cheap earrings on Depop.
Overall, it is quite possible that she essentially squandered all, if not most, of her money.
@@pinkprincessinthecity1177 she also door dashes fast food multiple times a day, so that definitely adds up lmao
Michelle, I start watching your channel 3 years ago. Since I dropped 50 pounds, changed careers, and finished college. Getting in shape gave me the confidence to achieve my goals. Trust me guys if I can do it anyone can. I was able to completely change my body as well as my lifestyle. That includes overcoming a life threatening addiction.
"I'm gonna go watch cartoons with my oreos" lmfao if that wasn't me 6 years ago 🥴
Amber's girlfriend has told her no to going out for food, or picking up food--
Amber has admitted to getting loud and aggressive to the point of abuse to get her way. She's flat admitted to bullying her girlfriend into submission when it comes to food.
How the actual trend works: film yourself at a "bad" place (just woke up,after crying,ya know) then reveal yourself in a pretty outfit, makeup,hair done. Show of your outfit
How she does it: squeeze her chin onto her chest,reveal that she indeed does have a spine,no special makeup,no special hair,no outfit,no showing of the fit
There is nothing worst than the guilt after eating something that you know you shouldn’t had.
ALR: “If you want to lose weight, I recommend” -
No, no, no no dammit no.
I haven't been eating well recently, but I've definitely kept a bit of it under control just by not driving to a fast food restaurant and buying a 1000 calorie dessert ffs.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She doesn't either. She orders it dropped off.
Amberlynn has literally said herself she's trolling. She does it all for money. It's sad that she's basically putting her life at risk for money when she can't even enjoy that money because it's not like she's using it to travel or do fun stuff, she's just using it to fuel her addiction and shorten her life even more.
So true. It's aad that she literally do risk her life for money. I'm speechless
1:16 It's kind of sad how I looked at her old photo and thought "she's so skinny!"
i actually really appreciate how real you are about your struggle with binging, i was so scared to start watching your channel as someone who is kinda chubby and starting to lose weight but you're so cool!
Also, I really appreciate that you've had previous experience with binge eating to relate with your clients and those you're reviewing. As a someone who has struggled with BED in the past and lost 100 pounds after getting to the root cause. You're appreciated!
Omg the parody of the pizza client had me rolling laughing. I work in a different field but know all too well how clients twist advice and blame others for bad results
I don't think being on a diet half-assedly for 4 days and giving up qualifies as "trying and failing". I wish her the best though...😔
I think her shortest diet was 2 hours.
But it was YT that made her quit.
She's 29, she's 5 years younger than me yet looks older than me 😳
She turned 30 back in December
She's a year and some months older than me--and it might be because I'm baby-faced--but it's surprising that she does look way older despite being close in age.
Nah, i don't think you look any younger, even with the filters.
@@ismt9390 I'm not sure exactly which of us you're talking to, I don't have any filters but I dunno if you think I do.
@@themorbiddoll I meant the original poster, Siobhan Seymour.
Honestly Michelle, thank you for being such an honest person and being yourself. This year I decided to really change and I've been eating so much healthier. I make extremely healthy smoothies, make most of my food at home now, and have started doing home workouts. I'm approx 280-290 pounds, so I have a long way to go, but I've already noticed a huge difference in my energy, stomach and mindset. I haven't bought chocolate or candy I think in weeks (I did make homemade vegan brownies, didn't even finish three from the whole batch). I had tacos last night, BIG mistake. I even made my own taco spice and I have major heartburn this morning. First time I've had heartburn in awhile and I haaaaate it, so not doing that again. Next up is smoking, because 1. I coughed up a speck of blood yesterday
2. I kinda need to be able to like, breathe while working out
I CAN DO UP TO 4 PLANKS NOW DURING MY WORKOUT AND HOLD THEM FOR 30-40 SECONDS! I could barely do one for 15 seconds when I first started. Go meee
Normally I skip through videos to get to the point. I’m pretty sure this channel is the ONLY channel I sit and watch through the whole video every time 😊
Even if Amber walked to the places she got food from, she could see some progress
She's blaming Weight Watchers for the fact that she ate 20 piece nuggets at McDonald's and ice cream...*CRICKETS CHIRPING*...
🎶 *IT'S ANOTHER FAT CHICK VIDEO!*🎶 You kept the theme song! 😂 😂 😂 😍
Hahaha I literally love you. When you said "Pudgy little hands" that shit had me rolling 😂😂😂😂😂😂
What Michelle said about parents teaching kids by limiting their sugar intake is so true. My brother and I learned most of our good food habits from our mom who almost never bought ice cream or sweets into the house unless it was a special occasion. Our dad on the other had always had ice cream and a personal candy stash so we learned by slowly not eating what he bought.