16 Personalities Getting Ghosted
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- What happens when the 16 Myers-Briggs Personality Types get ghosted by someone?
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Ghosting, if you didn't know, is when someone abruptly and without explanation cuts off all communication with someone else with whom they had a personal relationship.
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The 16 Personalities of the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator are INFJ, INTJ, INFP, ISFP, INTP, ISTP, ISFJ, ISTJ, ENFP, ENTP, ESTP, ESFP, ENTJ, ESTJ, ENFJ, ESFJ
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Timestamps:
0:00 INTP
0:12 ENFJ
0:30 INFP
0:45 ESFP
0:54 ESFJ
1:20 ENTP
1:32 ISFP
1:50 INTJ
1:58 ESTJ
2:24 ESTP
2:32 INFP
2:49 ISTJ
3:04 ENTJ
3:21 ISTP
3:28 ISFJ
3:42 ENFP
4:01 ESTJ
4:22 INFJ
4:54 INFP
Gotcha
When u not fast enough to be the first 😔
@@tika24e2 ikr
I think that a video about mbti' personalitys reaction about mbti' test might be funny jaja
Timmy did him so wrong. Timmy is a huge idiot.
As an INFJ, I totally felt that. LOL
fr
Same xD
with ya on that one
I didn’t until the little text at the end and then I was like ok now it makes sense
same
You should do 16 personalities choosing a Halloween costume as a Halloween special
GREAT idea!!!!
YESSS
Yesssss
Intp - ghost
Entp - clown
ExTJ ladies - something with a stick
i bet guessed them😎
Yes!!!!
As an INFJ I felt personally attacked. And completely represented 🤭
Better than paying for a co-worker to have a nice date with the girl you had a crush on. Good work timmy.
@@HerKnightable Yeah... He really did us ESTJ's bad on this one...
@@cottoncandy1860 It WAS a bit petty. He had it coming to him. We all have that moment that we get our just desserts. I am an ENTP and uh... have done that kinda thing too... not specifically THAT but things just as petty. With just as bad results... though hopefully one day he matures enough to just be happy for them and washes his hand of the whole problem and finds a girl who WILL appreciate him.
We all knew Timmy was going to mess up the masterful plan of the ESTJ and he did not disappoint.
Timmy is to ESTJ what Flanders is to Homer from the Simpsons
@@AlexRodriguez-po4sd Better adjusted and a better human being? Homer is a pretty awful guy. It makes him funnier sure, but...
That's what you get for trusting TIMMY ✊
@@mollusckscramp4124 100%. ESTJ are supposed to plan better. Seriously. MARS. Motivation, Ability, Role definement, and Situation. Timmy has no motivation or ability to spy on someone. He can't get his role correct. And situationally... he's desperate(presumably), single(presumably), and stupid enough to date a girl that the ONLY thing he initially knows about is that she ghosts people. ESTJ could not have picked a worse person. All in all, he deserves that.
This hits home for me as an infp. Whenever my crush takes too long to respond and even if it ended well, I overthink a lot of what I said and ruminate our past conversations.
YUP
Haha same and then I start to be like I don’t care I can life without him even tho I feel terrible - infj
Exactly, then I ask them a million questions and they typically get annoyed haha - entj
Ditto
Very infp to fall into dangerous nostalgic cycles when something hurts us
INTJ - I once was in a relationship where we had been dating for about a year. I think both of us knew this relationship was starting to go downhill. He dropped me off on our last date and we both said, "See you later." We never contacted each other ever again after that. Best / Cleanest break-up ever.
I wish all my relationships could end like this hahaha
Hahaha, INTJs and your no-BS attitude are literally the best 👌
-ENFP
I mean I guess if you have a mutual understanding that neither one of you wants to proceed in the relationship, then I guess it's okay. I don't like it when the other person just randomly ghosts when you don't understand what you did wrong I suppose
@@AlexRodriguez-po4sd Yeah, I would have just said. It is over. Have a nice day.
Beautiful.
Frank perfectly channeling the scariest type of ghost for the Halloween season
i try to keep it #relatable
Yes, the text ghost is the most vile and despicable of all. Especially, when you don't know what you did wrong or if the ghoster was not ready for a relationship. It really sucks
@@FrankJames #itisrelatable
@@AlexRodriguez-po4sd worse when the person was the first to hit on you and they make it obvious to everyone else that they are desperately looking for a relationship, but dont even have the decency to explain why they changed their mind about you and would not date you no matter what. Am I some kind of a monster that everyone runs away from me if I show them some affection?!? What's so repulsive about me that I'm not even worthy to be friendzoned?!? I literally asked this the last guy. His response was that he won't comment on that. Like wtf?! Just plainly say your reasons, I wont get offended, I just want you to be honest with me. 🙁
Man carrying thingy!!!
As an INFP this has 100% happened to me. Had a friend who ghosted then unfriended me. My mind went spinning. I was analysing each line of text to see where I messed up.
ENFP here. Affects me the same way.
Same 😭
It's not just when we're ghosted. I panic similarly when replies are delayed. (INFP)
@Hazel Trudey. yeah, most likely didnt. They're just a pile of sh*t to behave that way. Unfortunatelly, that doesnt stop me from desiring the person.
Ah yes. My best friend started ignoring me out of the blue at age 10. I just stopped existing to her. For years I kept wondering what I did to her to make her act that way. I just found peace about that when I met her by coincidence on the street 26 years later and I realized, she's just a selfish person who used me as long as I was entertaining and when she found someone more interesting replaced me.
0:00 INTP
0:12 ENFJ
0:30 INFP
0:44 ESFP
0:54 ESFJ
1:20 ENTP
1:32 ISFP
1:50 INTJ
1:59 ESTJ
2:26 ESTJ
2:31 INFP makes a comeback
2:50 ISTJ
3:05 ENTJ
3:21 ISTP
3:27 ISFJ
3:42 ENFP (hey that’s me :D)
4:01 ESTJ makes a comeback
4:23 INFJ
4:54 INFP and their crippling anxiety make a comeback
The dedication
What about me?
@@thecube844 IM DEAD
@@adilbek.ermekov 4:23
i’m an enfp too!!
As an INFP, I don't usually get ghosted, but I would ghost people once in a while & when I come back they would treat me like I just returned to the realm of the living.
Soo true for me as well.I don't recall ever being ghosted but i do know that every once in a while i do that to people .Its necessary to do so just to gain all of that energy spent.
Just happend to me, they were like "Welcome backkkk, we missed you, tell us stories"... wait, was I gone for ages? it's just couple of months lol
And why aren't they mad at me for ghosting them??
Te-doms: *plans future revenge*
Ti-doms: *doesn't even care*
Ni-doms: *had a plan to ghost anyways*
*Me, an INFP, wondering how people even get to the stage of arranging a date before being ghosted* 🙃
I am an Infp, and would definitely cry if I was ghosted.
ENFP here, I'd totally cry with you. Ghosting sucks and is probably the cruelest thing to do to someone else.
fellow infp here. I've been ghosted before and it sucks. ;-;
@@rhdrewable (ENTP) I am sure at some point during my life I have been ghosted... statistically.
How did I respond? No idea cannot remember when it happened. I am sure some part of me was feeling bad... somewhere.
Infps are often the ones that ghost though
~ Intj sometimes getting ghosted by Infp friends because they don’t know what to write
@@rhdrewable sorry dude we can cry together
“Where did that youtuber go!?” has happened to me more than once as an ISFP haha don’t leave us without warning, Frank! 😅
you mean " don't leave us ever or else!"
The INFJ one was hilarious because that’s kind of what happened to me and my husband after our first hook up - we both “blamed” each other for not reaching out … married about 12 years so I think we’re good now 😂
haha amazing story!
And what's your husband's mb type?
@@wisteria1739 that I’m not entirely sure of! He’s way more extroverted than me and not into MBTI at all 😆
@@deannascorner8112 oh I see
Wow, I hope it will end the same way in my "dating" situation T.T
As an Intj I can assure you that if you ever ghost me I am probably not gonna realise that.
Fr
Lies intjs notice and care they just don’t show it
@@Just-99me Hey!
@@Just-99me Yup, but sometimes we're also grateful.
Absolute 🧢 INTJs do NOT give out their contact info to just anybody. Every person on an INTJ's phone serves a professional/personal purpose. So if you were ghosted, you were PAINFULLY AWARE of the fact that you just got played, and you didn't see it coming.--A REAL INTJ
As an intj, I recently had this experience 😅 I wasn't necessarily _planning_ on ghosting this one but I was trying to figure out how best to make it clear I wasn't interested in taking the relationship where they wanted it to go... And then I let a few weeks go by in silence before realizing that they were ghosting me and honestly that takes all the pressure off! I love it when I get ghosted by the target of my ghosting tendencies!
How best to make it clear... Just say it, plain and straight. Most people appreciate honesty even though it may hurt them, than beating around the bushes. It is cruel to disappear without explanation because it leaves the person doubting themselves and their human worth (like am i not worthy enough to get some honesty or am i a monster that others are scared of me?). But it is also cruel to keep a slightly open door which shows them that you possibly treat them just as a backup plan.
I like that you finally started giving ISTJs a personality and sense of humor. We're not robots.
You were the funniest ones!!--INTJ
My ISTJ literally refused to let me break up with him, in a way that was kind of pointing to the "Terms and Conditions", which according to some conversations we had had early on in dating indicated that breaking up after an argument without allowing the dust to settle is not allowed. Today we are married.
He was right about the ghosting, you win some you lose some
Us INTP's got our priorities straight!
Dude if my monitor started doing that you'd better believe that within twenty minutes I'd have 30 chrome tabs open, cables everywhere to try different monitor ports, tried every setting in the monitor's menus...
@@raddaks2039 It happened to me and i tried every possible solution everything you've just counted included. I left an afk farm in a game overnight and i forgot to lower the brightness. Im so f#@*ing stupid. 🤦
As an INTP + INTJ, yes, we do.
As an INTP that’s bold of you to assume I didn’t ghost them first. Not on purpose though. Never on purpose😅
Lmao... 😂 I mean in my case, i just probably lazy to reply text or showing up in a group chat from some junior or highschool peers except for something urgent (which probably unlikely)... So it kinda like i ghosted them on purpose but not so intentionally, does that make sense?... Because i'm not intended to personally cut ties with them, it just happened because i'm getting overwhelmed to reinterract with them
Agreed. Never on purpose, because image ghosting is a real big issue.
Acquaintence: "Whatever happened to that friend you used to hang out with all the time?"
Me: "Oh, well, they stopped talking to me so I completely forgot they existed."
I loved the way ENFP took it to an off the wall extreme. Hilarious.
We don’t care to be ghosted cuz we’re like “meh they were probably too busy to get back to us and that’s fine cuz I have a life too and realize how busy that can get”
@@TT35109 Also, aliens could have abducted them. So yeah, they're busy.... we get it.
‘16 Personalities in a haunted house’ could be a fun video!
good idea!
INTJ easily the scariest thing there
Yeeeeeeees
@@nikolabubanoski4392 Correct. We scare the ghosts...
I knew ISTP would be dropping some truth bombs. I feel like we're one of the very few types who genuinely don't take it personally.
me neither, i just think myfriends r just busy cus i stay busy all day without doing anything- intp
It's extremely accurate. I always say you're born alone, you die alone...
with the same reasoning of course
Exactly. I'm an ISTP and was ghosted by an ex a few years ago. Sure it was sad, but it made sense and I never blamed her for it
bruh i once ghosted a whole group of 100+ people 💀💀
As an INFJ this is scary accurate. Frank u always hit the spot🤣🤣
Ah yes, the chronic overthinking of things you’ve said. I see you, fellow INFP.
As an INFJ I live in perpetual fear of encountering the not insubstantial number of people I have unintentionally ghosted. I literally have nightmares about it. Lucky I don't venture outside much!
(ENTP) I am sure at some point I was ghosted in my life. Statistically, IF I have been ghosted by an INFJ and found out that they actually feared encountering me again I would have to wonder... Will they ever realize... I keep WAY to large of a social circle to notice people leaving in my life? IF I wanted to ghost them a few savage burns and stating my intention works just fine for me.
I'm an ISTP and i've just been ghosted. And tbh I'm relieved bc as much as I like them the moment the conversation started I was thinking about how to end it. Now I don't have to feel guilty for avoiding their text messages anymore.. it's like they took a weight out of my back
Why did you want to end the conversation as soon as it started? I sometimes have the same « issue » I’m intj. Person might even be interesting and stuffs, good vibe, but I just can’t be bothered , don’t wanna allow more time for someone else. Especially when I’m in "project" mode.
Love your pp btw😏
@@priskasama thanks! it's the same for me, there's just a thousand things I rather do in my free time than texting another human being, also I might have an emotional block lol, if it's not in person I don't feel the need to make contact at all.
Real samee
Yesssss lollll
I'm infj who ghosted 3 people cuz they didn't reached out to me....but one of them was entj and I'm scared....😂🤣😂🤣
As an INTJ I would never ghost someone. Ghosting is against my moral because it creates pain to other people and I want the best for humanity in general. It also shows a lack of confidence on the one that ghosts others
Yes it is a piece of crap. But. Imagine a person who is deadly toxic. And you don't really like he person. And you suggest you are not happy to have a lot of contact and he sometimes calls every day messing your day and taking your time and energy (because he makes people tired. All people.) And if you don't answer the phone he makes guilt trip the next time about it. I get panic attack whenever I see he's calling... so what to do if ghosting is so bad and the person doesn't accept NO or any gentle rejection as an answer and is manipulative and energy draining when you talk to him (or her)? I think ghosting is awful but I have no idea how to work it out... communicating my feeligs wasn't working, really.
@@Izabela-ek5nh Okay in this scenario I would ghost the person. But the last message I would write would be a direct explanation why I do so, like you did before.
I mean yes, you already did it before, but before ghosting him I would say it again as a last message. Because then at least the person knows what is happening. I mean if you don't answer your phone you could be dead or something, who knows.
Me, an INTJ: The only reason we get ghosted is when someone beats us to the punch.
FJ: * nails it *
Me: And this is why we love you, FJ. 🙂
(ENTP) I legitimately cannot understand "ghosting" people. If I never want to see them again. I inform them of that fact and then painstakingly prove my point. People do not question my intentions just if I am in fact being sarcastic or not.
Wow! FJ portrayed your type very accurately. I think ghosting is childish, too, but you seem triggered!--INTJ
I'm an INTJ. Never ghosted. Always made a very clean break.
@@BombshElle_7 i mean, sometimes it can get tiresome for some people to get of their way in order to properly tell people they want to cut ties with them, so yeah... Just leave, they'll move on, everyone do... You'll face a sudden dissapearing of something or moment without any alert anyway...
@@safirah.maghfiro1008 True
Bro, as an INFP this hit home for me. Bro, literally anytime someone doesn’t respond, gets sad or angry, or starts ignoring me, I replay what I said recently with a very worried, confused look on my face. Asking “Is it because I said _____?” “IM SORRY!” “PLEASE FORGIVE ME! I DIDNT MEAN ANYTHING RUDE”
Then the person is like “I’m just sad cuz my dog died, u didn’t do or say anything. Don’t worry about it. And stop saying sorry all the time, what were you even trying to apologize for anyway?”
“MY WHOLE FRIKIN EXISTENCE!!!!” *storms off
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I laughed so hard at INFJ. It's sad but true. Even when I actually like you I will not bother you. Which I know gives off mixed signals, but that's how it goes.
Same😂😂😆
I feel like I'm bothersome to everyone. I try to respect their decisions and hold back and not write if it's their turn to respond, trying to persuade myslef that i dont feel what I feel towards them. But i eventually cant stand it anymore, so I try to reach out again...to no success anywa,
Glad to see Timmy getting back at the ESTJ for once!!
I once thought I got ghosted by someone I had very fun conversations with on Discord. Decided to check our chat again years later and it turns out I was the one who accidentally ghosted them the whole time. SO i really feel the infj one
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I can smell the depression, regection, inadequacy and hint of rage and regret all in one video.
ENFP here, I have never related so much to INFP ever. That's exactly what happened when I started online dating. My first crush ghosted me and deleted her profile before we were going to chat on the phone. Oddly enough, my INFP friend went through a similar situation with his own crush. Maybe I'm a secret INFP... 😳
Nah the ENFP one is just unfitting for us. As a fellow ENFP, I too strongly relate to the INFP one.
@@hmwith yeah for sure. Tbf the aliens did ghost us but I care more when my crush ghosts me
FUN FACT: INFPs also thinks about aliens ghosting, so that's interchangeable!
@@hmwith As another ENFP here, I have personally experienced both. WHEN ARE THESE ALIENS GOING TO ACTUALLY LAND???
@@brunovleals Yessss bro! ENFP-INFP dynamic is one of my favorites!
I've been ghosted once as an ENTJ. Well, one time that it bothered me at least. I basically sent him a scathing review making it pretty clear that it wouldn't have bothered me that much if he just said he didn't want to talk to me anymore, but that wasting my time and energy not knowing was extremely inconsiderate. He apologized immediately.
as an intp i’d only notice if they’re close to me and then i’d start overthinking everything
Exactly this.
would you notice if you were going through the darkest of times/depression? asking for a friend
@@_Celine_26 I went through depression and struggled with it for a few years. I knew something was wrong, but I didn't know how to fix it, so it took me way longer than it would have if I had the right guidance.
If you think you're going through depression or your friend is, seek a professional that is willing to help(and not just take your money, I found a few of those). Surrounding yourself with people that want what's best for you also helps. Don't be afraid to push people away if they're harming you.
That ENTJ segment is SPOT ON! 😂 my thought process is, it’s your loss if you ghost me, I got bigger fish to fry my man
I just wanna give infp a big hug 😟 he deserves better! The acting for each personality is on point, so goood 😂🤩
Hey can we take a moment to appreciate how frank reads the comments and then uses the feedback to make more accurate videos? A true legend, that man!
I’m an Infj but in my experience I can really relate to Infp situation so much. They ghosted me for no reason and I felt like I had done something wrong or was not good enough.
The INTJ one was totally on spot lmao, it's so weird when we're not the ones ghosting so when someone beats it we can't do anything but respect that
As an ISTJ I fully approve of that reaction. Who needs the time wasted by negative emotions after being ghosted... time to move on and plan for the next dates!!! Deadline and milestones to be further discussed
Yep, fully agree! I know my personality changed, but I forgot what it was before. Now I am an ISTJ and oh boy, I don't have time or resources for people who ghost me. Better off without them. The reaction "just go **** yourself" is spot on.
As an INFJ I'd have literally hid under the fruit stand to avoid that confrontation.
I love these videos! Maybe do one for "the 16th Personalities in therapy"
Omg yes
As an INFP, I take it personally how perfectly displayed was the catastrophic mix of anxiety and paranoia that come along a delay in response/realization you've been blocked or unfriended. 😂 Way too relatable, man, I physically responded with a rush of anxiety.
You're definitely getting better and better with your videos, Frank! Great to see how far you've come! 😊💕
Hi! It was funny to watch! INTJ and INTP are practical as always haha
if an INFJ finds out you are a bad person they will ghost you to your face. Like they'll look through you like you're not even there, I've seen it happen to a mutual acquaintance who abused his girlfriend. INFJ never spoke to him again. I've never seen anything so savage... and I LOVED it
I ghost people that I'm incompatible with, I don't think anyone is necessarily bad, just some people are good for your life and others aren't, same goes for them. If I'm wasting time spending time with them socially and I don't like them, then I'm wasting the time they could have spent with someone who could have truly valued them for the people they are and actually enjoy their company.
As an INFJ I agree xD esspecially regarding "ghost you to your face"
As an INFP, I relate to over-analyzing the last thing I sent lol. Especially when I try to be forward with people and I regret it right away.
I love how he has Timmy as 'Idiot Timmy' (4:04)
ISTP went unexpectedly deep. I approve 🌚
As an INFP, I don't always get ghosted. But when I do, I overanalyze the relationship from the start many times over
I saw the thumbnail and thought even INTPs aren't that head in the clouds (believe me we do notice but often we don't push ourselves to be bothered about it) but the actual video is very accurate. Well done. I must say Frank James has improved a lot.
I feel like it's more so that we don't push ourselves to be so bothered, that we allow it to poison every other aspect of our lives. Like, we love you very dearly, but no partner we have will ever be worth sabotaging our current or future quality of life for; when those have far more permanent consequences attached to it, than whatever relationship we have with our current partner does.
@@chipsahoy6289 Agreed. I think that's why INTPs can come across as uncaring. It's also why a lot of INTPs are either unmarried or marry at an older age than most types. Lately, I feel this aspect is something we need to improve on.
@@JasonLaw29 I feel like the aspect that we should work on is learning how to not get as worried about not hearing from our partners after an extended amount of time, than to be worried about not showing as much outward emotion. I think this because even though we won't act like we care when in front of others, when we're by ourselves or with our partners directly, we start expressing how worried we are or how angry we are because of how long it was since the last time we heard from them, even with the fact that we most likely know that our partner had a good reason for it.
My boyfriend for example, works a job that gives him very little days off, if ever, and so we get lucky if we can even talk once a month now. I have never gotten mad at or blamed him for why it's that way; but I've also never hidden that it doesn't make me happy either. Not because he can't give me any attention mind you, but because he has admitted that his job causes him a lot of stress in his life to the point of being hospitalized from being overworked. So when I don't hear from him for a long time, I start assuming the worst might have happened to him. So, even though I don't allow that to cripple other parts of my life, that doesn't mean that I don't (or won't) go out of my way to send him messages from time to time to let him know that I'm worried about him, hoping that he'll respond back soon. Because then I know that he's ok.
@@chipsahoy6289 That's a fair point
Before I clicked I said "I'd probably be the one doing the ghosting." Sure enough, INTJ has deadly accuracy
INFPs don’t get ghosted. We’re the ghostees alongside our neighbors: the INFJs
... But when we get ghosted, we hole up in our rooms and listen to “Somebody That I Used To Know” on loop while mentally reviewing every bad scenario that led up to it
Yes, literally!
Top tier comment and 100% accurate 😂 - infp
Sso far I got ghosted by every single one of my crushes, no matter if I was the first one to reach out or they. And then I wallow in selfpity and sad songs for ages before gaining the courage to develop a new cruch (which would inevitably end up the same way). A vicious cycle
Jeez
I like how the ISTP spends like 5 seconds complaining. That’s all being ghosted is worth 5 seconds acknowledging and the moving on.
That INFP hit WAAAAAAY too close to home 😭
Excuse me while I go cry in a corner now
Finally the big reveal we all waited for
Timmy actually deserved it all this time
5:28 Idk why but Frank laughing at his own sketches inmediatly after is hilarious and very wholesome
the infj conversation was a great representation of me talking to myself
I once ghosted a friend for 2 years. But she thought she ghosted me. Apparently we were mutually ghosting …. so now we’re friends again 😂
Love that Light the World sign in the stock image behind ENTJ!
As an ENTP, ghosting makes me extremely anxious. Especially because I myself would never ghost anyone on purpose. So when someone ghosts me, I literally freak out and google tons of stuff in hope of solving the issue without getting into an emotionl argument with the other person. You heard me right, healthy ENTPs don't actually want to hurt other peoples feelings. We try to avoid serious discussions as best as we can in fear of getting into uncomfortable situations with other people. In case of ghosting, or similar situations with friends in real life, we will try to get around the emotional part by pretending to be clueless about the situation. We will literally put on an overly nice naive persona (stereotypical ENFP) in hope that you'll get over it so that trouble can be avoided. I know this sounds manipulative and also passive agressive, and yes, we are a little mad at you for not telling us what we can do better, but don't want to let this anger out on you.
I honestly hate putting on this "dumb child" persona, but I just don't know how to deal with situations like this in a proper manner.
Maybe you can relate, or maybe you have adivce on how to handle these situations better. I'd be happy to listen.
No you are right...
Thanks ! I was scrolling throught the comment section for a message like this !
You're not alone 😅
Yep I do that.
I love entps
I am LIVING for the ESTJ-Timmy continued character development arc
I've come close to perfecting the art of ghosting people that I'm in the same room with almost every day.
As an ENTJ I can say this is EXACTLY how I think. And yea they sometimes end up lonely or in a toxic relationship and guess whose number they suddenly remember.....
Same. -ENTJ
The INFP made me sad. I'm an INFP and so is my son. He got his heart shattered last year in the most cruel way and is still suffering. When she texted him out of the blue about 6 months later he had a panic attack, but he also felt some relief and said, "At least now I know I didn't do anything wrong." Rejection can be so traumatizing.
Infp is accurate. Someone doesn't answer and I'm going down. Big reason why emails are hell, no "Message read" feature
Ohh the pain of being an INFJ and never being able make a solid connection with anyone ever😔 INFJ was just relieved to not have been ghosted , one less thing to ruminate over. On a lighter note that taco T-shirt was too funny 🤣
I was totally expecting the INFJ one to be 'ghosted' by someone who didn't even know them - 'cause we tend to invent relationships in our heads with people we don't know, lol!
Can we just appreciate the ESTJ putting “Idiot Timmy” as his least favorite co-worker’s contact name 🤣🤣🤣
I have had that EXACT scenario! INFJ's RULE! lololol
As an infj who got chatty boyfriends in the beginning of the relationship but then later only got responses like "okay/yes/hmm" from these boyfriends (like actually dating for a period of months to a year), and eventually i reduced texting them because i knew there was no convo going to go forward, i understood this on another level. But flash forward, been with an istj whom i know since 10 years but dating since 5 of those :) we text the same way we did when we were friends. Lengthy and chatty. I wouldn't have it any other way
As an INFJ I can totally relate to this. I'm probably the Queen of Ghosting 😄
I loved the addition of the "Bye Felicia part"😂 -INFJ
Aww, and I was hoping the INFJ would rise above. Oh well...😂 I loved the droll barista. Hilarious! And that Brian better get his own dang Disney + ! 🤣💜
1:08 the dude taking the Esfj order is probably an Intj
As an INFP who has been ghosted many times, I can't help but wonder if Frank somehow knew this was common for the type & intentionally sprinkled INFP's screentime throughout the video. Also that last bit hit so hard it hurt. Ouch.
Hey! I started watching your videos months ago and was pretty sure that I'm a fully introvert. But then I saw on your clips how much introverted people could be, also read the comments and didn't agree with them, often, also saw how much introverted my houseates really are. I discovered that I also have extrovert parts and that I like to talk with people, I'm just too shy and distrustful to feel comfortable in a new group. So now since I found out that I'm an ambivert (still in the introvert sprectrum, but not that much) I go out to meet new people, take phone calls, a.s.o.. Yesterday I adopted an introvert for the first time in my life and it felt really strange, but I was also happy.
Thanks a bunch, you're videos were one of the first signs for me✨
As an INFP I can definitely relate HAHAHAHA 🤣🤣
INFJ always makes me laugh. Recently told my best friend that he better not ghost me when he meets someone because then I'll have to call his parents and make sure he's ok. He was so confused, if I meet someone he wants me to ghost him. I asked if he wouldn't be worried I'd died or something. Nah, he'd rather not know. 🤦
As an INFP, I feel this too much, it's kinda embarrassing you guys are exposing us. 😂 Quite recently, I had a chat with someone (my crush, lol), and we replied to each other after minutes, even hours lol, and it was me who sent the last reply after about 10 hrs, and he did not even click my message after that for about 3 days. I was overthinking a lot, but I also thought that probably he was way too busy with balancing work and school at the same time (which is extremely hard, tbh). I was also just thinking that he (whom I think is an INTJ) probably just doesn't think that I really would care or be hurt (which is completely untrue as an INFP huhu).
Anyway, I made an excuse to message him after that during a time when I was sure he was active HAHA, and he did see my message and replied. I just gave an angry reaction on his reply after that (as a joke), and didn't reply too. Hahahaha 😂
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Looks like I really am an INFJ. 4:22 It’s pretty much the summary of my latest attempt to “get to know” someone and this scenario was last year. 😅
As a single guy in his early to mid 30's - and an INFP - I've got to give you props for this- your impression of INFP's is SO spot on. On the one hand, I commend you, Sir. Well done. On the other hand, man I wish i was something other than an INFP - I think dating is the probably most difficult for people with this personality type. If women aren't waging war on us for unique personalities when we're together, then we, INFP's, are likely waging war on ourselves, internally and psychologically. I've never been married, with only a handful of relationships that lasted maybe a year tops before I got dumped - and no, I've never cheated on anyone. Usually, it's something about my unique personality - whether it be me being caught up in my own head, overthinking, overanalyzing, worrying. It's hard enough to put myself out there - most times I wear a shield outside while being lost in my own little world inside. I don't let many people it - it's difficult for me to do. Then, it doesn't help when, after you finally let someone in, they pull out the knife and put it right in my back. The result being psychological devastation - partially from the sadness of the breakup, partially from feeling alone, partially from the 'betrayal' from someone we care deeply about breaking up with us. The worst part is my mind seems to kick the shit out of me on top of that - replaying things over and over again. And each time the betrayal happens, the exterior wall grows stronger, the likelihood of another person getting past my exterior defenses decreases, and I trust less and less. All the while, suppressing the deep loneliness you feel inside - as the pain of feeling lonely doesn't compare to the pain of getting hurt. It's a really bad, self-perpetuating cycle which I desperately want to get out of.
The sad thing too is, although INFP's are unique in this regard, we are some of the most loving, honest, loyal, trustworthy, caring, compassionate, selfless, hard-working, intelligent, wise, and warm personalities of them all. We long for true love - and all entails. We can be some of the BEST guys out there - yet most women won't give us that chance or take the time to understand how our unique minds and personalities work. INFP's are the good guys all the girls SAY they want but who lose to the assholes and dickheads. It's sad and incredibly frustrating at times. Hopefully, I'm just on my journey to find my partner in life; I hope I find her - or maybe this is it. In which, case: SHIT.
Well, I guess you are overestimating INFPs. Certainly we have our strenghts, but we aren't superhumans or something
@Mark Bauer Well said
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Minnesota represent! Woohoo! Great video! Clearly INFP feels the most pain being ghosted.
As an INFP I can say you nailed it!
"The best revenge is success" - ENTJ
Timmy is the hero 😂👌
INFJ's and jumping to conclusions 🤦♀
This is fantastic 😂 each scenario is better than the other 😂
Yaaaas I was looking for a new video and this masterpiece shows up real quick, love you Frank!!! You da best 😌
As an intj, i really do respect that
As an ENTJ, being ghosted does indeed motivate us to become the best of the best and make them regret ghosting us when they need our help. You couldn't portray us better
"Who looks forward to meeting people?! Serial killers!"🤣🤣
3:06 james with ENTJ vibes, the music and his low voice is just so cool
Frank, you are SPOT ON with these descriptions! P.S. You are ADORABLE!
As an INFJ friend of an INFJ those are our daily conversations XD
Also with our INTJ friend when he ghost us we usually tell each other "he's just doing more important things" .... And that's how no one talks in the group in weeks... Except for my occasional reminder message to drink water.
As an enfp You just took me out of that moment that happens sometimes when I really feel down. Thank You :3
:0 Hey, the Spoon and Cherry! I can't believe you used it as a background!
been wanting to use it as a background for awhile haha
I'm an INFJ and that was hilarious! I can see it for sure!