My father tried to reprimand me for speaking disrespectfully of my MIL. I looked at him and said “I don’t respect her. Do you want me to lie? I think that’s enough of a visit for today. GoodBYE Dad.” And I left his house.
That last time MIL said, “I’m sorry” it reminded me of a conversation I overheard at lunch yesterday. This girl was arguing with somebody on speakerphone and whoever was on the other end said “I’m sorry!!!How many times do I have to say it?” The girl responded, “Be sorry quietly, b-ch. Don’t call me anymore!” 😂
Ahh my soul sister lol. Reminds of the time someone was spouting literal nonsense, complaining about me apparently in the parking lot of my work. People were staring at me while I was staring at him. After a moment of confused silence on my part, I looked at him and said "There's a whole lot of shut up in your future." About 20 ppl started laughing.
If i was Tom, this is what I would say to my mom if she was rude to my wife: "If you can't treat my wife like family, I'm not coming over nor talking to you agian. Have a nice life."
"I am married, mother. She and I are a couple. If one of us is not welcome, then NEITHER of us are welcome. Since WE are not welcome, WE will not be returning. Goodbye, Mother."
I will never understand why you wouldn't immediately tell your spouse the real reason you're not spending time with them? At some point you're asking for abuse. Keeping secrets is never healthy for a marriage, especially about abuse from your MIL. Tom literally did absolutely nothing about the issue until he couldn't deny it anymore.
I think they meant if you're being abused why not ask for help instead of saying nothing. Though sometimes it's hard to reach out in bad situations like these, victims feeling like they won't be believed or feeling shamed for needing help.@@annied1827
@@annied1827 well, she was told in no uncertain that if she showed up she would be physically and mentally abused. She decided that she would go anyway. What else would you call it, besides asking for abuse?
Musical references here: 0:00 🎵Strangers in the night / they treat each other just like strangers in the night / even though Mia and Tom have been married now three years🎵 (Frank Sinatra) 37:55 🎵You're a monster / Madison / your heart's a big black hole / your brain is full of spiders / you've got rat poison in your soul / Madison / I wouldn't touch you with a / 39 1/2......MILE.....pole🎵 (The Grinch)
Sophia's jealousy is sounding a big bell. The fact that she felt that her actions were justifiable even after finding out that her DIL was pregnant says a lot. What was Sophia's biggest motivation? Accusing Mia of trying to seduce her FIL. Her own daughter is not on her side.
Ted got remarried to a rich single newly divorced woman close to his age but loved him despite their economic differences. They fell in love and happily got married. Meanwhile outside the church, the wicked ex-wife, toothless and homeless with newspapers for clothes angrily trashed the wedding banners outside doors, and finding out where the venue was through a dropped card invitation, marched undetected into the reception hall and tried put chemicals into the wedding cake using a toothpick laced with a strong poison, her features angrily contorted like the she-devil she was, even cackling like a mad woman. But the staff saw her through video camera and she arrested by the police. She was arrested wailing and screaming, even laughing from the 3 champagne bottles she downed as she was dragged away in cuffs. She wailed her ex-husband's name, "TEEDD! TEDDY BEARRR! TEDDYDY---hic-MY TEDDYAAYY!--" Before Ted's new wife sucker punched the selfish wicked sophia---. The entire family and her ex-friends each signed a restraining order against Sophia for life, with her own SON declaring her a 'B****'and she would never see any of them again. Sophia passed away from the cold but her soul was despicable that even Hell didn't want her. Sophia's lonely ghost now wanders the earth for eternity in solitude as punishment for being the way she was when she was still alive.
Ted got remarried to a rich single newly divorced woman close to his age but loved him despite their economic differences. They fell in love and happily got married. Meanwhile outside the church, the wicked ex-wife, toothless and homeless with newspapers for clothes angrily trashed the wedding banners outside doors, and finding out where the venue was through a dropped card invitation, marched undetected into the reception hall and tried put chemicals into the wedding cake using a toothpick laced with a strong poison, her features angrily contorted like the she-devil she was, even cackling like a mad woman. But the staff saw her through video camera and she arrested by the police. She was arrested wailing and screaming, even laughing from the 3 champagne bottles she downed as she was dragged away in cuffs. She wailed her ex-husband's name, "TEEDD! TEDDY BEARRR! TEDDYDY---hic-MY TEDDYAAYY!--" Before Ted's new wife sucker punched the selfish wicked sophia---. The entire family and her ex-friends each signed a restraining order against Sophia for life, with her own SON declaring her a 'B****'and she would never see any of them again. Sophia passed away from the cold but her soul was despicable that even Hell didn't want her. Sophia's lonely ghost now wanders the earth for eternity in solitude as punishment for being the way she was when she was still alive.
Sophia says that Mia is a "stranger," then in the next breath says she's the Mother-In-Law and deserves respect? How does THAT work? MIL implies family, which means NOT strangers...right? Maria needs to just block Madison. Their conversation is going in circles, and she needs to report Madison to the police for defamation and assault.
You knew that your in-laws were shifty and crazy AF. Why bother associating with them?? Block them, don't visit them, and if she barges in your house call the police and change the locks
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In the second story, I think it will come to light at a later date that Maria’s husband might have been having a mental health crisis when he left his job in a way that was previously out of character. The fact that he then tried to make money scamming others, however, is simply because he wanted to make money the easy way; with a wife who was as much into “status” as he apparently was, I am not surprised.
Story 1: No repercussions for Tommy-boy and ol' Teddy? Ha ha ha, no. "Well, Tommy dear, since you insisted on putting me and my unborn child in a dangerous situation, get ready to pay out your nose in child support. Oh, and don't think you'll be able to see the baby! And Teddy, you can pay for the house on your own. Or put Sophia to work to pay it. Oh, and I'll be getting with my lawyer to demand immediate repayment for the money I lent you."
What ?? 😳 what did Tom do ?? He didn't do anything wrong, no one knew she would be punched. He didn't put anyone in danger, if anything she went there herself , she wasn't forced to go, she wasn't dragged there kicking and screaming, no she went there of her own free will. Neither of them expected the mother to act that way so the only person to blame is the mother and no one else. 🙄
Why not just let tom go to his parent's house alone.. she doesn't want you there!.. you shouldn't even want to be around her in the 1st place.. I wouldn't care what tom or his dad wanted. Why would I go some where I'm not wanted, respected, appreciated, treated like family or even tolerated?.. that's just crazy.. the lady hasn't liked you in the 3yrs since you married her son, she's never kept that a secret... she's NEVER going to like you. I think it's odd DIL didn't just straight up tell tom I don't want to be around your bytch of a mother.. I would've told Ted, your miserable bytch of a wife doesn't want me to come.. why is she keeping MIL bullying a secret?. Honestly at some point these DIL's have to take accountability.. they are ALLOWING the disrespect and bullying, all while paying these MIL's to be treated like dog crap on the bottom of their shoes... why didn't she punch MIL back?.. what she did was an assault. DIL have a right to defend herself. I would've knocked her dentures down her throat..
When a person is toxic towards you, and try to pretend differently around others, then always record your conversions with them and show it to the other family members so they can see what kind of a character this person is. If the person hates you then show no sympathy towards them and don't worry about embassening them. Don't even lie to your spouse about how their family members treat them. Being nice to toxic people and keeping their actions a secret just enables those toxic people. Husband is a dumb*ss insisting on wife coming with him when she's pregnant and knowing his other doesn't like her, a MIL that toxic might try to hurt the wife if she finds out about her being pregnant.
Ted got remarried to a rich single newly divorced woman close to his age but loved him despite their economic differences. They fell in love and happily got married. Meanwhile outside the church, the wicked ex-wife, toothless and homeless with newspapers for clothes angrily trashed the wedding banners outside doors, and finding out where the venue was through a dropped card invitation, marched undetected into the reception hall and tried put chemicals into the wedding cake using a toothpick laced with a strong poison, her features angrily contorted like the she-devil she was, even cackling like a mad woman. But the staff saw her through video camera and she arrested by the police. She was arrested wailing and screaming, even laughing from the 3 champagne bottles she downed as she was dragged away in cuffs. She wailed her ex-husband's name, "TEEDD! TEDDY BEARRR! TEDDYDY---hic-MY TEDDYAAYY!--" Before Ted's new wife sucker punched the selfish wicked sophia---. The entire family and her ex-friends each signed a restraining order against Sophia for life, with her own SON declaring her a 'B****'and she would never see any of them again. Sophia passed away from the cold but her soul was despicable that even Hell didn't want her. Sophia's lonely ghost now wanders the earth for eternity in solitude as punishment for being the way she was when she was still alive.
Lmao @ 19:20 when she goes "well if i asked you to not use the bath that would make me look like the bad person!" So punching someone unprovoked doesnt?.....freaking nut job 🤣
Madison has a screw loose. U can’t accuse someone of something that u have no proof & punching that person. She needs to go to jail. Madison is no celebrity.
Thomas is a pri@k, if he cannot understand that his mom is that unhinged he needs to go by himself and go back to living with mommy. He put his wife into a position he knew was purposefully difficult, based upon a game, without considering his wife nor the vengeful manners of the mother. Who might elevate her animosity by possibly poisoning the DIL.
"If I had asked you not to use the bath then I would have looked like a bad person, so I punched you instead, which made me look like a bad person! It's all your fault!" What a piece of work.
1) check into one of the nicest hotels in town. 2) order room service. Make sure she finds out you are in town and don't need her. 3) Invite FIL and SIL and go out to dinner. 4) post it all over social media. Have a family get together at your house. As per her wishes, she should not expect to be welcome. But all the remaining family is welcome.😊
I had to wait to the end of the first story to find out that no one called the police on the first mother-in-law. The mother in law should be in prison not jail, but prison.
There was a question on you ask, what’s the difference with children in prison because they were not from here they didn’t know. So here since is the answer as best as I can describe it. in the US jail is usually in a local county within the state. Most jails were only hold someone for a pre-trial or a very short sentence under a year. If you go to prison, the conditions are normally a little more harsh in the sentence will most definitely be over a year. In some county jails will only haul people if the sentence is 90 days or less. In the US every state has several counties or provinces, and they govern themselves within the states rules.
@@sherridanjReally, prison ?? You do realise that in the real world that people who assault people don't always go to prison unless they stab them, shoot them or beat them within a inch of their life so their life is truly in danger !! , even if the police are involved the most that would happen is they would get a warning. After all when I was assaulted resulting in my spine been fractured in five places all the police said to the person who did it was "next time try not to leave bruises". So if someone didn't even get charged with assault even after leaving someone with life long disability and chronic back pain, I very much doubt anyone will go to prison just for punching someone. I would be beyond shocked if they did go to prison just for punching someone once 🤣🤣
Story 1. Better idea. Invite father in law and sister in law over. Husband and dad watch the game and girl time for the two sisters in law. Win win all round. Mother in law stays at home having marked her territory.
I guess a woman or even man in a situation like this would put up with it because they don't want to come between their partner and their mother, thry wouldn't want to be the reason why their partner doesn't talk to their mother or family anymore and be the reason that relationship is ruined. I would do the same and just put up with it, however I love my partners parents, I love them more than my own parents lol so I'm very lucky in case 😊 but I do understand why someone would just deal with it and put up with it, especially if they dont see each other very often and they dont have to put up with them very often. After all been called a few names isn't too much of a big deal and having someone send nasty text to you again you can just ignore them, yes they would be annoying and may make you feel a bit stressed or even upset etc but they are just texts and words. Unless it's physical abuse its easy enough to just ignore that person and stay out of their way therefore its not something worth destroying someone's life over and destroying a relationship between a mother and their child, especially as they wouldn't want put their partner in a situation where they may feel like they must choose between the person they love and their parents. At least I wouldn't want to do that, but saying that I've been through far, far worse than just having someone call me names so in comparison been called names and having some nasty text sent to me isn't really that much of a big deal. Maybe I'm just weird for thinking that way, but if I was in that situation, I would never make my partner choose between me and his parents because that's just unfair to them, I'd just put up with getting the nasty messages and stay out of their way. But as I said that's just me and the way I see things 😊
@@soxpeeweeReally, prison ?? You do realise that in the real world that people who assault people don't always go to prison unless they stab them, shoot them or beat them within a inch of their life so their life is truly in danger !! , even if the police are involved the most that would happen is they would get a warning. After all when I was assaulted resulting in my spine been fractured in five places all the police said to the person who did it was "next time try not to leave bruises". So if someone didn't even get charged with assault even after leaving someone with life long disability and chronic back pain, I very much doubt anyone will go to prison just for punching someone. I would be beyond shocked if they did go to prison just for punching someone once 🤣🤣
If they didn't "talk" to each other, then the audience would never know the background as to how & why the daughter-in-law was punched. "We" would also not know the repercussions and how everyone else in the house reacted. I blame Tom for all of this. His wife clearly stated that she did not want to go over there and explained why. Tom was dismissive about his mother's behavior and gulited her into going. I am baffled that after THREE YEARS, neither Tom nor Ted had any inkling about how horribly Sophia was treating Mia. Talk about clueless 🙄😒
13:49 - If you’re breaking down that horribly and your spouse STILL tries to convince you to go with him, it’s time to divorce. At that point it’s clear Tom gives less than a f*ck about his wife or his kid if a game is more important than his family’s physical and mental well-being.
"Don't tell to my husband what I said to you or he may think (correctly) that' I'm the problem". I'd be sharing the conversation with the whole family a second later.
When i was a child, my mother told me " Always show respect to everyone, irrespective of who they are or their station in life, and that respect will come back to you" Looking around me now at how people, especially young people respect me now, she was right!!
First story was bad enough but the second one was even worse. Not enough words to describe what I can say. Tom should have seen all the messages from his mother & maybe he’d would have realized the extinct of his mother’s hatefulness.
Madison just because you have a nose up Posh English accent, doesn't make you better than ANYONE. In American society we have more R.E.S.P.E.C.T. for someone who WORKS for what they have.
Why isn't OP saving MIL's hateful messages and fwding them to FIL when FIL "insists" DIL come to see him. Usually long married couples act like a matching pair. I suspect FIL knows and approves of MIL's actions and hostility! Fwding messages to him will remove any ambiguity.
She's isn't showing everyone the messages because she doesn't want to be the reason for the family falling apart and doesn't want to make her partner choose between her and his family. After all she would be possibly destroying a family over some text messages, text messages that can be ignored, yes they may be nasty and upsetting but at the end of the day they can be ignored she could elven block the number so she doesn't get them at all. And she could also just stay away from the mother and avoid her
What is it with all these mother-in-law's acting like they're the queens of the world? I've been married twice and neither mother-in-law was toxic like this.
Even though the MIL was so bad at the end I would have helped her find a place to stay after she realized how evil she was. I heard of the worst people waking up and changing even become Saints. The son could help her to a certain extent.
It’s not illegal to buy things then sell them for a higher price. Or every store, restaurant, or other shop that sells goods in the world would be doing illegal things.
The DIL kept putting up with it and not letting everything out in the open is on her bc both her fil and husband had her back. Hopefully now she'll learn not to stop hiding what's going on and actually tell what's going on.
I would have told husband and FIL immediately and showed them BOTh the texts. Enabling a narcissist includes keeping throat abuse in the dark. Always shame the narcissist in the light of day.
I love the way that the people that get their butts kicked a lot and are always crying for help are the same ones saying that violence is never the answer. Yeah, Sweden thought that way until they got tired of being conquered over and over by different countries. They learned to defend themselves. Now they have peace and freedom. The Amish still ask for help. They refuse to defend themselves. You're always going to be a victim if you don't learn how to defend yourself. Whether its hand to hand like in martial arts training or more protection like a conceal n' carry. You can call 9-1-1 but by the time the cops get to the house they'll be looking at your body. You have to learn to defend yourself.
Omg🤦😠 just tell everyone truth about what goes on & why she don't go to the in laws & then its all out in the open & quit hiding it for her mother in law & if she gets in trouble its her fault for being such an evil witch & they all need to see how the mother really is & she needs to quit being afraid of her mother in law & stand up for herself🤦😠😠😠
It took 40 minutes to finish that first story and I ended up skipping through a lot of that pointless fluff. There is such a thing as too much fluff and too long of a video. Pointless arguing makes it boring
Story idea. Horrible MIL gets dementia and treats her child the way she treated their spouse. The child always insisted their partner was in the wrong.
This whole mess was infuriating.. Like hell i wouldnt tell her husband or mine about her ugly behavior... Why the hell do they make the dumbest choices and prolong the issue... Smh op should of told her husband and FIL immediately every message ever...
I'd l to ask 19:00 Would punching someone while their naked cause it happened in a private space like a bathroom be grounds for sexual assault even though there both women?
Both the MIL and Tom are being complete toads. MIL for obvious reasons and Tom for putting his wants instead of his wives. He's hoping for that 'change' which won't happen but refuses to put her needs in front of him wanting to watch a ball game.
Why would you have to make up any excuse not to come You show your husband all these text messages you show your father-in-law and forward him all these text messages it's that simple you don't lie You don't make up excuses why would you protect this lunatic
She owes you respect because you are her MIL, but you show her none? Wake up lady, respect is EARNED it's not a right.
My thoughts exactly
My father tried to reprimand me for speaking disrespectfully of my MIL. I looked at him and said “I don’t respect her. Do you want me to lie? I think that’s enough of a visit for today. GoodBYE Dad.” And I left his house.
That last time MIL said, “I’m sorry” it reminded me of a conversation I overheard at lunch yesterday. This girl was arguing with somebody on speakerphone and whoever was on the other end said “I’m sorry!!!How many times do I have to say it?” The girl responded, “Be sorry quietly, b-ch. Don’t call me anymore!” 😂
Bruh 😂 we legit need a story just based on this!
“Be sorry quietly,” is everything 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ahh my soul sister lol. Reminds of the time someone was spouting literal nonsense, complaining about me apparently in the parking lot of my work. People were staring at me while I was staring at him.
After a moment of confused silence on my part, I looked at him and said "There's a whole lot of shut up in your future."
About 20 ppl started laughing.
That's fucking brilliant
Tom should have said something about his mother and he is lucky that his wife didn’t leave him and I bet Sophia is going regret her actions
If i was Tom, this is what I would say to my mom if she was rude to my wife:
"If you can't treat my wife like family, I'm not coming over nor talking to you agian. Have a nice life."
"I am married, mother. She and I are a couple. If one of us is not welcome, then NEITHER of us are welcome. Since WE are not welcome, WE will not be returning. Goodbye, Mother."
@@nachtwaya8721yes.
These stories are almost funny.
I will never understand why you wouldn't immediately tell your spouse the real reason you're not spending time with them? At some point you're asking for abuse. Keeping secrets is never healthy for a marriage, especially about abuse from your MIL. Tom literally did absolutely nothing about the issue until he couldn't deny it anymore.
Erm what do you mean by " at some point you're asking for abuse" ?? Am I missing something ?? as I'm pretty sure no one asks to be abused 🤔
That's how they keep the story going Otherwise it would be only 2 minutes long!😅
I think they meant if you're being abused why not ask for help instead of saying nothing. Though sometimes it's hard to reach out in bad situations like these, victims feeling like they won't be believed or feeling shamed for needing help.@@annied1827
THis stories are mostly from Japan and South Korea where tight living spaces make privacy and minding your own business are very important
@@annied1827 well, she was told in no uncertain that if she showed up she would be physically and mentally abused. She decided that she would go anyway. What else would you call it, besides asking for abuse?
Musical references here:
0:00 🎵Strangers in the night / they treat each other just like strangers in the night / even though Mia and Tom have been married now three years🎵 (Frank Sinatra)
37:55 🎵You're a monster / Madison / your heart's a big black hole / your brain is full of spiders / you've got rat poison in your soul / Madison / I wouldn't touch you with a / 39 1/2......MILE.....pole🎵 (The Grinch)
Two good songs 👍 Have a great day!! 👋🤗🦃
Sophia's jealousy is sounding a big bell. The fact that she felt that her actions were justifiable even after finding out that her DIL was pregnant says a lot. What was Sophia's biggest motivation? Accusing Mia of trying to seduce her FIL. Her own daughter is not on her side.
Ted got remarried to a rich single newly divorced woman close to his age but loved him despite their economic differences. They fell in love and happily got married. Meanwhile outside the church, the wicked ex-wife, toothless and homeless with newspapers for clothes angrily trashed the wedding banners outside doors, and finding out where the venue was through a dropped card invitation, marched undetected into the reception hall and tried put chemicals into the wedding cake using a toothpick laced with a strong poison, her features angrily contorted like the she-devil she was, even cackling like a mad woman. But the staff saw her through video camera and she arrested by the police. She was arrested wailing and screaming, even laughing from the 3 champagne bottles she downed as she was dragged away in cuffs. She wailed her ex-husband's name, "TEEDD! TEDDY BEARRR! TEDDYDY---hic-MY TEDDYAAYY!--" Before Ted's new wife sucker punched the selfish wicked sophia---. The entire family and her ex-friends each signed a restraining order against Sophia for life, with her own SON declaring her a 'B****'and she would never see any of them again. Sophia passed away from the cold but her soul was despicable that even Hell didn't want her. Sophia's lonely ghost now wanders the earth for eternity in solitude as punishment for being the way she was when she was still alive.
Ted got remarried to a rich single newly divorced woman close to his age but loved him despite their economic differences. They fell in love and happily got married. Meanwhile outside the church, the wicked ex-wife, toothless and homeless with newspapers for clothes angrily trashed the wedding banners outside doors, and finding out where the venue was through a dropped card invitation, marched undetected into the reception hall and tried put chemicals into the wedding cake using a toothpick laced with a strong poison, her features angrily contorted like the she-devil she was, even cackling like a mad woman. But the staff saw her through video camera and she arrested by the police. She was arrested wailing and screaming, even laughing from the 3 champagne bottles she downed as she was dragged away in cuffs. She wailed her ex-husband's name, "TEEDD! TEDDY BEARRR! TEDDYDY---hic-MY TEDDYAAYY!--" Before Ted's new wife sucker punched the selfish wicked sophia---. The entire family and her ex-friends each signed a restraining order against Sophia for life, with her own SON declaring her a 'B****'and she would never see any of them again. Sophia passed away from the cold but her soul was despicable that even Hell didn't want her. Sophia's lonely ghost now wanders the earth for eternity in solitude as punishment for being the way she was when she was still alive.
Respect goes both ways Sophia
Great story. I love it. FYI, the saying is, "The straw that broke the camels back".
Sophia says that Mia is a "stranger," then in the next breath says she's the Mother-In-Law and deserves respect? How does THAT work? MIL implies family, which means NOT strangers...right?
Maria needs to just block Madison. Their conversation is going in circles, and she needs to report Madison to the police for defamation and assault.
You knew that your in-laws were shifty and crazy AF.
Why bother associating with them??
Block them, don't visit them, and if she barges in your house call the police and change the locks
'she', not 'they'.
The FIL and SIL love her.
Amen!
Hitler daughter should stay in the bunker 😅
Mom probably needs more time, (my daughter's words as she listens to this) Dude, you've been married for 3 years!
This was the absolute best story I ever heard keep up the good work the sound and talking was clear and to the point love it
The second Tom said we should stay the night. I would have asked for a divorce. He is a dog s*** husband
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Send all the screen shots to FIL and DH. That would tell MILs family all they need to know.
If someone would have done that to my wife's baby, she would not be standing upright. Most likely she would not be conscience for a week.
Sophia: Come back and help them understand that it's okay for me to be a garbage human being!
In the second story, I think it will come to light at a later date that Maria’s husband might have been having a mental health crisis when he left his job in a way that was previously out of character. The fact that he then tried to make money scamming others, however, is simply because he wanted to make money the easy way; with a wife who was as much into “status” as he apparently was, I am not surprised.
Story 1: No repercussions for Tommy-boy and ol' Teddy? Ha ha ha, no. "Well, Tommy dear, since you insisted on putting me and my unborn child in a dangerous situation, get ready to pay out your nose in child support. Oh, and don't think you'll be able to see the baby! And Teddy, you can pay for the house on your own. Or put Sophia to work to pay it. Oh, and I'll be getting with my lawyer to demand immediate repayment for the money I lent you."
What ?? 😳 what did Tom do ?? He didn't do anything wrong, no one knew she would be punched. He didn't put anyone in danger, if anything she went there herself , she wasn't forced to go, she wasn't dragged there kicking and screaming, no she went there of her own free will. Neither of them expected the mother to act that way so the only person to blame is the mother and no one else. 🙄
That loan should have had a lien on it.
Why not just let tom go to his parent's house alone.. she doesn't want you there!.. you shouldn't even want to be around her in the 1st place.. I wouldn't care what tom or his dad wanted. Why would I go some where I'm not wanted, respected, appreciated, treated like family or even tolerated?.. that's just crazy.. the lady hasn't liked you in the 3yrs since you married her son, she's never kept that a secret... she's NEVER going to like you. I think it's odd DIL didn't just straight up tell tom I don't want to be around your bytch of a mother.. I would've told Ted, your miserable bytch of a wife doesn't want me to come.. why is she keeping MIL bullying a secret?. Honestly at some point these DIL's have to take accountability.. they are ALLOWING the disrespect and bullying, all while paying these MIL's to be treated like dog crap on the bottom of their shoes... why didn't she punch MIL back?.. what she did was an assault. DIL have a right to defend herself. I would've knocked her dentures down her throat..
Nothing infuriates me more than when the abuser expects their victim to not tell anybody about the abuse.
Why does Tom want to subject his wife to this bullying
He is a terrible husband to put her through that, he forced her to go where she felt uncomfortable he is a piece of shit in my opinion.
When a person is toxic towards you, and try to pretend differently around others, then always record your conversions with them and show it to the other family members so they can see what kind of a character this person is. If the person hates you then show no sympathy towards them and don't worry about embassening them. Don't even lie to your spouse about how their family members treat them. Being nice to toxic people and keeping their actions a secret just enables those toxic people. Husband is a dumb*ss insisting on wife coming with him when she's pregnant and knowing his other doesn't like her, a MIL that toxic might try to hurt the wife if she finds out about her being pregnant.
Ted got remarried to a rich single newly divorced woman close to his age but loved him despite their economic differences. They fell in love and happily got married. Meanwhile outside the church, the wicked ex-wife, toothless and homeless with newspapers for clothes angrily trashed the wedding banners outside doors, and finding out where the venue was through a dropped card invitation, marched undetected into the reception hall and tried put chemicals into the wedding cake using a toothpick laced with a strong poison, her features angrily contorted like the she-devil she was, even cackling like a mad woman. But the staff saw her through video camera and she arrested by the police. She was arrested wailing and screaming, even laughing from the 3 champagne bottles she downed as she was dragged away in cuffs. She wailed her ex-husband's name, "TEEDD! TEDDY BEARRR! TEDDYDY---hic-MY TEDDYAAYY!--" Before Ted's new wife sucker punched the selfish wicked sophia---. The entire family and her ex-friends each signed a restraining order against Sophia for life, with her own SON declaring her a 'B****'and she would never see any of them again. Sophia passed away from the cold but her soul was despicable that even Hell didn't want her. Sophia's lonely ghost now wanders the earth for eternity in solitude as punishment for being the way she was when she was still alive.
mia does not want to listen to sophia but keeps up the conversation continuously. if you dont wanna talk, STOP ANSWERING!!!!
I can see Sophia actually spitting her words.
Lmao @ 19:20 when she goes "well if i asked you to not use the bath that would make me look like the bad person!" So punching someone unprovoked doesnt?.....freaking nut job 🤣
She should tell the rest in laws I'm sorry but not going since my mother in law doesn't want me there and show them their text as proof.
Madison has a screw loose. U can’t accuse someone of something that u have no proof & punching that person. She needs to go to jail. Madison is no celebrity.
Treat people with respect everywhere you go. You never know...
Most eloquent DIL in history. Most would’ve simply asked when MIL’s monthly haircut is scheduled. Then visit her FIL during that window.
I’m positive a judge would be the best person to decide the right and wrong.
Thomas is a pri@k, if he cannot understand that his mom is that unhinged he needs to go by himself and go back to living with mommy. He put his wife into a position he knew was purposefully difficult, based upon a game, without considering his wife nor the vengeful manners of the mother. Who might elevate her animosity by possibly poisoning the DIL.
Jealous mother in law with deep emotional issues with her own son.
"If I had asked you not to use the bath then I would have looked like a bad person, so I punched you instead, which made me look like a bad person! It's all your fault!"
What a piece of work.
Violence isn’t an answer. It’s a question. Sometimes the answer is “yes”.
1) check into one of the nicest hotels in town. 2) order room service. Make sure she finds out you are in town and don't need her. 3) Invite FIL and SIL and go out to dinner. 4) post it all over social media.
Have a family get together at your house. As per her wishes, she should not expect to be welcome. But all the remaining family is welcome.😊
Not being rude but the saying is not the straw on the camel's back it's the straw that broke the camel's back just saying this was a good one❤❤❤❤
I had to wait to the end of the first story to find out that no one called the police on the first mother-in-law. The mother in law should be in prison not jail, but prison.
There was a question on you ask, what’s the difference with children in prison because they were not from here they didn’t know. So here since is the answer as best as I can describe it. in the US jail is usually in a local county within the state. Most jails were only hold someone for a pre-trial or a very short sentence under a year. If you go to prison, the conditions are normally a little more harsh in the sentence will most definitely be over a year. In some county jails will only haul people if the sentence is 90 days or less. In the US every state has several counties or provinces, and they govern themselves within the states rules.
@@sherridanjReally, prison ?? You do realise that in the real world that people who assault people don't always go to prison unless they stab them, shoot them or beat them within a inch of their life so their life is truly in danger !! , even if the police are involved the most that would happen is they would get a warning. After all when I was assaulted resulting in my spine been fractured in five places all the police said to the person who did it was "next time try not to leave bruises". So if someone didn't even get charged with assault even after leaving someone with life long disability and chronic back pain, I very much doubt anyone will go to prison just for punching someone. I would be beyond shocked if they did go to prison just for punching someone once 🤣🤣
Apparently in japan the police don't get involved in "family issues".
Story 1. Better idea. Invite father in law and sister in law over. Husband and dad watch the game and girl time for the two sisters in law. Win win all round. Mother in law stays at home having marked her territory.
If you don't tell your husband the truth, you become the problem. You don't trust your husband, that's a real shame
I guess a woman or even man in a situation like this would put up with it because they don't want to come between their partner and their mother, thry wouldn't want to be the reason why their partner doesn't talk to their mother or family anymore and be the reason that relationship is ruined. I would do the same and just put up with it, however I love my partners parents, I love them more than my own parents lol so I'm very lucky in case 😊 but I do understand why someone would just deal with it and put up with it, especially if they dont see each other very often and they dont have to put up with them very often. After all been called a few names isn't too much of a big deal and having someone send nasty text to you again you can just ignore them, yes they would be annoying and may make you feel a bit stressed or even upset etc but they are just texts and words. Unless it's physical abuse its easy enough to just ignore that person and stay out of their way therefore its not something worth destroying someone's life over and destroying a relationship between a mother and their child, especially as they wouldn't want put their partner in a situation where they may feel like they must choose between the person they love and their parents. At least I wouldn't want to do that, but saying that I've been through far, far worse than just having someone call me names so in comparison been called names and having some nasty text sent to me isn't really that much of a big deal. Maybe I'm just weird for thinking that way, but if I was in that situation, I would never make my partner choose between me and his parents because that's just unfair to them, I'd just put up with getting the nasty messages and stay out of their way. But as I said that's just me and the way I see things 😊
Even when she did tell him he begged her to go anyways.
Respect is earned.
Why can't FIL go to their place to watch the beloved game? That'd mean that OP and MIL would never have to meet again.
Not allowed to use the bathroom, then pee on the floor 😂 just tell your husband what she says
Or, there is a sink in the kitchen?
I wonder what "dear" MIL thinks SHE was to her husband's family? Was she similarly excluded?
MIL has a basket full of negative issues going on there.
A restraining order is the only thing she deserves.
Nah prison time for assault and a fat lawsuit
@@soxpeeweeReally, prison ?? You do realise that in the real world that people who assault people don't always go to prison unless they stab them, shoot them or beat them within a inch of their life so their life is truly in danger !! , even if the police are involved the most that would happen is they would get a warning. After all when I was assaulted resulting in my spine been fractured in five places all the police said to the person who did it was "next time try not to leave bruises". So if someone didn't even get charged with assault even after leaving someone with life long disability and chronic back pain, I very much doubt anyone will go to prison just for punching someone. I would be beyond shocked if they did go to prison just for punching someone once 🤣🤣
MIL needs time in jail for assault.
How can you talk too the person who assaulted you for long periods of time,jeez how pathetic 🥱🙄😔😤😏😡
If they didn't "talk" to each other, then the audience would never know the background as to how & why the daughter-in-law was punched. "We" would also not know the repercussions and how everyone else in the house reacted.
I blame Tom for all of this. His wife clearly stated that she did not want to go over there and explained why. Tom was dismissive about his mother's behavior and gulited her into going.
I am baffled that after THREE YEARS, neither Tom nor Ted had any inkling about how horribly Sophia was treating Mia. Talk about clueless 🙄😒
Being ugly to others and thinking you're superior to others is so sad.
This story brought me to tears. Its so sad😢
She should invite Ted and SIL to their place, leaving MIL home alone.
13:49 - If you’re breaking down that horribly and your spouse STILL tries to convince you to go with him, it’s time to divorce. At that point it’s clear Tom gives less than a f*ck about his wife or his kid if a game is more important than his family’s physical and mental well-being.
"Don't tell to my husband what I said to you or he may think (correctly) that' I'm the problem". I'd be sharing the conversation with the whole family a second later.
"Oh, i can't use the bath? Okay"... proceeds to pee on the carpet...
Does Sophia not realize that punching someone unprovoked makes her the bad guy regardless.
When i was a child, my mother told me " Always show respect to everyone, irrespective of who they are or their station in life, and that respect will come back to you" Looking around me now at how people, especially young people respect me now, she was right!!
First story was bad enough but the second one was even worse. Not enough words to describe what I can say. Tom should have seen all the messages from his mother & maybe he’d would have realized the extinct of his mother’s hatefulness.
Madison just because you have a nose up Posh English accent, doesn't make you better than ANYONE. In American society we have more R.E.S.P.E.C.T. for someone who WORKS for what they have.
Why isn't OP saving MIL's hateful messages and fwding them to FIL when FIL "insists" DIL come to see him. Usually long married couples act like a matching pair.
I suspect FIL knows and approves of MIL's actions and hostility! Fwding messages to him will remove any ambiguity.
She's isn't showing everyone the messages because she doesn't want to be the reason for the family falling apart and doesn't want to make her partner choose between her and his family. After all she would be possibly destroying a family over some text messages, text messages that can be ignored, yes they may be nasty and upsetting but at the end of the day they can be ignored she could elven block the number so she doesn't get them at all. And she could also just stay away from the mother and avoid her
What is it with all these mother-in-law's acting like they're the queens of the world? I've been married twice and neither mother-in-law was toxic like this.
If I had texts like this from my MIL I would hope my husband would stand up for me. Especially with so much proof on text
Why keep arguing with insanity??
MIL don't want you there then she needs to tell the family. Not her!
She gave birth a few months later That's 2 to 3 months she just found out she's pregnant so she's only 2 to 3 months You've got 5 months missing
Even though the MIL was so bad at the end I would have helped her find a place to stay after she realized how evil she was. I heard of the worst people waking up and changing even become Saints. The son could help her to a certain extent.
Oh man that one in the first story
If she won't let you use restroom, drop a deuce in the living room
Yeah that's the exact opposite way of how you should act if you want someone to do something for you
Stunned 14:00 his wife is traumatised by MIL and he is more worried about missing the game. I hope by the end she has divorced him as well
“If I told you not to use the bath it would have made me seem like the bad guy!” Whereas punching her was heroic…?
I've heard this story on another channel already
I wouldn't gave that Madisonthe the time of year 🙄🙄
Prison time for punching someone? Really?
Were hubby and father-in-law so entranced in the game that they didn't notice the ruckus that was going on?
Why wasn’t Tom the first one on the phone when his wife left?
I've had an earache for a few weeks now and the high pitch voice in the Sophia story hasn't helped 😂😂
Why can't the father come to their house?
It’s not illegal to buy things then sell them for a higher price. Or every store, restaurant, or other shop that sells goods in the world would be doing illegal things.
After 30 times of complaining about using her bath, I fell asleep. Repeat Repeat Repeat.
The DIL kept putting up with it and not letting everything out in the open is on her bc both her fil and husband had her back. Hopefully now she'll learn not to stop hiding what's going on and actually tell what's going on.
I would show my husband exactly what his mother sent me, and stay home.
Just forward all the conversations to your husband and hers.
I would have told husband and FIL immediately and showed them BOTh the texts. Enabling a narcissist includes keeping throat abuse in the dark. Always shame the narcissist in the light of day.
I love the way that the people that get their butts kicked a lot and are always crying for help are the same ones saying that violence is never the answer. Yeah, Sweden thought that way until they got tired of being conquered over and over by different countries. They learned to defend themselves. Now they have peace and freedom. The Amish still ask for help. They refuse to defend themselves. You're always going to be a victim if you don't learn how to defend yourself. Whether its hand to hand like in martial arts training or more protection like a conceal n' carry. You can call 9-1-1 but by the time the cops get to the house they'll be looking at your body. You have to learn to defend yourself.
Omg🤦😠 just tell everyone truth about what goes on & why she don't go to the in laws & then its all out in the open & quit hiding it for her mother in law & if she gets in trouble its her fault for being such an evil witch & they all need to see how the mother really is & she needs to quit being afraid of her mother in law & stand up for herself🤦😠😠😠
This mother is selfish and disrespectful! I would let the whole family read her texts and be done with it! Enough of taking this crap!!
You need a wash cloth to keep wipe in your face from all the spit
Moving around for two so she's pregnant and they're all going to go drinking He wants to spend the night so she can drink too
It took 40 minutes to finish that first story and I ended up skipping through a lot of that pointless fluff. There is such a thing as too much fluff and too long of a video. Pointless arguing makes it boring
Story idea. Horrible MIL gets dementia and treats her child the way she treated their spouse. The child always insisted their partner was in the wrong.
Only an idiot would not show this conversation to husband and his father.
Why can't she show the MIL texts?
Nice fantasy story.
This whole mess was infuriating..
Like hell i wouldnt tell her husband or mine about her ugly behavior...
Why the hell do they make the dumbest choices and prolong the issue...
Smh op should of told her husband and FIL immediately every message ever...
I'd l to ask 19:00 Would punching someone while their naked cause it happened in a private space like a bathroom be grounds for sexual assault even though there both women?
Both the MIL and Tom are being complete toads. MIL for obvious reasons and Tom for putting his wants instead of his wives. He's hoping for that 'change' which won't happen but refuses to put her needs in front of him wanting to watch a ball game.
why is she still talking to her i would have blocked her
Why would you have to make up any excuse not to come You show your husband all these text messages you show your father-in-law and forward him all these text messages it's that simple you don't lie You don't make up excuses why would you protect this lunatic
What kind of accent was mil meant to be?
British I think
I don't want to be look at as a bully so I punched you instead??????