Stress huh, ya think? Chronic understaffing, ever increasing task loads, HUGE responsibility with no organizational accountability, hostile patients, families, hospital administrators. BSN, RN here, worked for 3 years, would go to selling pencils in the street before I would go back to nursing. Oh, and am a man. Maybe these women need to stand up and walk away from this shitty "career" too.
You will NEVER see an owner of a facility’s family in a nursing home ! These owners KNOW the unbelievable horrors they so readily inflict on everyone’s family members. Just for a handful of silver ! There is a special place in hell for these gouls !!!
Somebody told me nobody asked me to be a nurse. You have to align yourself to a career that values your self worth. Learning this now after wasting my youth & beauty for 12 years bedside nurse in Detroit. I feel really bad how I've treated myself and what it has made me. 😕 🙏🙏🛐🛐
Thank you for caring for us. And putting this out there. I know personally I’ve had fear of sharing my story for many reasons. I know I am not alone in this. Unless you’ve been a HCW. You never will understand the battles we fight internally within our minds.
Pausing to breath. Talking to the ones you trust. If you have found. Fellow nurse or whatever position you hold to empathize with you. Then try to change your perspective and look at what you have. I’ve recently shared and not everyone will understand or support you. And know that you are not alone in your pain and suffering. Suicide hotline too. Easy to find in Google
Honestly I've stabbed Myself quite a few times and what made it worse is my family found a knife in my room but didn't speak about it till later on in the year my mum asked me about but I don't really think she cares so Ive tried bending my fingers to break them and I've bitten myself and drawn blood BC of me bitting myself
A year later but....I how you're ok. I'm feeling that way now. I've never hated my life more. I've never wanted to not be here and do this as much as I do now.
Some of my thoughts are that women are more likely to seek mental health help than men, and also that one of the potential side effects of antidepressants is suicidality..also certain environments like the ER seem toxic, lots of mean doctors and nurses there
? They have bills to pay…they also are likely going through ptsd for all they have seen and gone through. Just quitting doesn’t heal you after the constant trauma. I say this with all respect. Sometimes it’s tough to understand unless you’ve been through it. Also, they have been quitting, which increases the load for those who can’t.
@@Victor-it6bvpeople who are suicidal think people around them don't care when they do yet they can't see it they also think it's the only way to remove mental pain by physical pain
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Stress huh, ya think? Chronic understaffing, ever increasing task loads, HUGE responsibility with no organizational accountability, hostile patients, families, hospital administrators. BSN, RN here, worked for 3 years, would go to selling pencils in the street before I would go back to nursing. Oh, and am a man. Maybe these women need to stand up and walk away from this shitty "career" too.
Is it that bad?
Don't you get paid like $8k a month though. Take a vacation here and there if you're burnt out.
@@jamalraja9157 you clearly do not have a clue!!
@@denise331 Lol, yeah, I'm just kidding 😂.
@@jamalraja9157 👍🏽 sorry buddy! I’m a little edgy lately as u can imagine needing prayers buddy 🙏🏽
You will NEVER see an owner of a facility’s family in a nursing home ! These owners KNOW the unbelievable horrors they so readily inflict on everyone’s family members. Just for a handful of silver !
There is a special place in hell for these gouls !!!
Somebody told me nobody asked me to be a nurse. You have to align yourself to a career that values your self worth. Learning this now after wasting my youth & beauty for 12 years bedside nurse in Detroit. I feel really bad how I've treated myself and what it has made me. 😕 🙏🙏🛐🛐
Thank you for caring for us. And putting this out there. I know personally I’ve had fear of sharing my story for many reasons. I know I am not alone in this. Unless you’ve been a HCW. You never will understand the battles we fight internally within our minds.
Already underlying MH issues, who else would attempt to work in such an impossible work place.
I’m feeling the feelings akin to suicide myself. What has been your guys coping mechanism
cutting tbh
@@kaecaeru oh I’m so sorry
To hear this. I completely understand. I am sending you some virtual hugs right now my sweet colleague. I’m so sorry
Pausing to breath. Talking to the ones you trust. If you have found. Fellow nurse or whatever position you hold to empathize with you.
Then try to change your perspective and look at what you have.
I’ve recently shared and not everyone will understand or support you.
And know that you are not alone in your pain and suffering.
Suicide hotline too. Easy to find in Google
Honestly I've stabbed Myself quite a few times and what made it worse is my family found a knife in my room but didn't speak about it till later on in the year my mum asked me about but I don't really think she cares so Ive tried bending my fingers to break them and I've bitten myself and drawn blood BC of me bitting myself
A year later but....I how you're ok.
I'm feeling that way now. I've never hated my life more. I've never wanted to not be here and do this as much as I do now.
Some of my thoughts are that women are more likely to seek mental health help than men, and also that one of the potential side effects of antidepressants is suicidality..also certain environments like the ER seem toxic, lots of mean doctors and nurses there
Why dont they just quit?
? They have bills to pay…they also are likely going through ptsd for all they have seen and gone through. Just quitting doesn’t heal you after the constant trauma. I say this with all respect. Sometimes it’s tough to understand unless you’ve been through it. Also, they have been quitting, which increases the load for those who can’t.
@@elizabethcombs9724 True but quitting a job is much more logical then quitting life.
@@Victor-it6bv this is true victor. never become a nurse, ever. but I would not kill myself for nursing
@@Victor-it6bvpeople who are suicidal think people around them don't care when they do yet they can't see it they also think it's the only way to remove mental pain by physical pain