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I like xqc, but these are absolutely the last two people I would listen to for any advice on relationships
Fr dude! Only people to ask relationship advice are the ones who are in one for more than 10 years.
true, especially an onlyfans model who has an addams apple
@@Rogueixpresents least deranged xqc commenter
@@Rogueixpresents wym adams apple amouranth is not a guy right?
common cope
Lil bro is not watching chat, he watching his obs preview. You know it.
He cant even form a coherent sentence today.
Yeah, because usually XQC is known for coherent sentences
he has already busted all up in that eh
That’s him everyday
lmaoo
Lil bro need his bathroom break ASAP
Bro is trying to be her best friend💀
Ain't no way 💀
💀nauur
So? 💀(skull emoji so funny)
@@s1ckboirarido you know why the whale hasn't sued her like nixxy ? Cuz she knows amou has a lot of money to defeat her easily at the court
you see that shirt? bro i'd wanna be best friends too
Friendship will only work if neither person has romantic feelings for each other.
If one person develops feelings, well, better buckle up because you're in for a rough ride!
So what about the many people who get friendzoned? Does that not imply that they will stay friends?
@@brentthompson1607 but, the person still has those feelings? let's say that your girlfriend or wife is still friends with a guy who had interest in her but she turned her down. people fail to understand friendship is something between two people not just one if your intentions are straight but it doesnt mean other person has the same intentions. its only natural i've seen a lot of guys and girls and known them personally lying to themselves thinking this is friendship when really they are falling in love.
@@C4ncy not really. That means you have rejection issues that you need to work through yourself. No means no. If you are still trying to be with someone after they rejected you then that is an obsession not a friendship.
@@brentthompson1607 If someone gets friendzoned after that person showed interest, then it will be very difficult to maintain a friendship because that person is very much likely only clinging to the friendship in hopes that one days she changes her mind. It's actually very self-toxic to put yourself through that because you'll have to suffer wanting more and watching her enter her own relationships which is actually very painful emotionally to endure.
Essentially, if you get friendzoned, get the fuck out and don't waste your time pursuing something that highly likely is never going to amount to anything.
Friend zone is not friends Brett.. technically, because if a person is interested and the other isn't, they get friendzoned.. but then being friend zoned is previously not what the person interested wanted so that person is not seeing the relationship as friends anymore.. only the one who did the rejecting
I’m married and worked at a bar a while back, had plenty of female co worker friends. They all met my wife, loved her, and it was never weird. Honestly I think the fact that I was married made them more comfortable around me, kinda like a brother.
Edit: I realize there’s a difference between Co-workers and friends, but you can be both. We hung out outside of work and all still hangout to this day when I haven’t worked there in over a year.
I heard the second you get a ring on your finger that’s when other women become more flirty
@@ThatNerdKaizen think it just depends on the woman and where they’re at in life tbh. From experience that is true, but they typically stop when they realize how into my wife I am.
Are you no longer together?
@@smusic6537 oh whoops, I edited the comment lol. We‘re coming up on 5 years married, didn’t mean it as past tense.
we said guys not married men.
Can guys and friends truly be friends. yes. yes they can.
He had Forsen in his mind
@@douglasflores41 Hopefuly not Forsen's Forskin
At that point answering No will just confirm she stays with Xqc because she likes him
Or maybe because of a business relationship?
@@MonkeyDLuffy60073 You're making too much sense. Let the children enjoy their parasocial delusions.
TrollDespair mclaren incident season 2
Parasocial🤙
@@joshi897 you're funny
lil bro you’re NOT SLICK. 🤣
Been best friends with a girl I met in college for 8 years now. I was originally attracted to her, but after a while we just liked hanging out as friends more and stuck with it.
But if she tried to jump your bones, you would still do it
Had the exact same thing. Me and my best friend went on a few dates and found that we would be better off as friends.
Yeah alright but if she throw it you catching
@@deucetrue46 projecting
Sounds like you’re a cuck lmao
my best friend is a girl from 9 years ago haha, and we're JUST friends. not a single time did a weird convo of some sort come up cause neither of us is interested really
She's 🐳 isn't she
By the thumbnail alone, I think I know the answer😂
Most definitely you can be friends with the opposite sex people who say otherwise just can't see the other in a platonic way or haven't became friends with someone who feels the same way
I’ve noticed all the guys I’ve met in my life who talk about how men can’t be just friends with women are also guys who have sex on their mind 24/7. Like, yeah, of course *you* can’t, but that’s *you.* Because you’re going to inevitably make it weird. But if you’re friends with a girl that you have no interest in getting with, what’s the difference between that and just being friends with a guy, you feel me?
this is not a nuanced take bro you are ignoring all the complexities and reducing it simply to "guys only view women as sex objects"
@@javlin8506 no, the "cannot be friends" side does that. they somehow cannot fathom the idea that a guy does not have to view every woman he comes across as a potential romantic interest
The exception is not the rule. Generally speaking guys and girls don't make good friends because it complicates a lot of things, we're built to be attracted to the opposite sex.
So are guys and girls friends? Sure, but not often. Plenty of funny videos where they ask the girl to call a guy friend and ask them to hook up and they immediately say yes.
I have many female friends -- all of whom are wives/girlfriends of my male friends. Every girl that I was a friend with in my late teens through my early 20s before I met my wife, either had a thing for me or I had a thing for her.
Men and women ON AVERAGE have incredibly different likes/dislikes/hobbies/interests. Sure, a guy and a girl might both like gaming, but 95% of women hate gaming and 95% of men hate going for walks through the park. So the odds of you finding a female friend who shares similar interests as you but also you BOTH have no sexual interest in each other is exceptionally rare.
It happens, but not really.
In school I never dated and the question of whether or not I could be friends with a girl never crossed my mind, I had many girls who I still consider friends. Granted I never talk to anybody from those days now but that’s neither here nor there.
Yeah I agree with her. You can still be friends but the bond won’t be as strong, unless he’s simping. In high school I had this scenario play out exactly as she said lol. That’s when I learned it better to be alone, then to be a simp.
lol bro screen sharing and shadowplaying the discord sounds got me
Youre so fast mr. editor
Reading this comment section is so fucking weird to me since having friends/best friends regardless of their gender is super fuckig common here where i live 😂
Ur probably like a feminine guy or a masculine woman or just more fluid in general then.
Bro I live in a muslim country and these comments still weird to me like wtf
It can be done. I have known women in the past I was attracted to, talked to them, and found we didn't share those feelings. For me, I have been able to drop "romantic" feelings and stay friends without issues. One of my closest friends, we went through that talk, and 5 years later we are still best friends, and the romantic feelings I had back then never returned.
You're a gigachad and you don't even realize it. The girls aren't friend zoning you. You're friend zoning the girls.
Naw those feelings are there you just locked them away.
@@NobleSavvy those feelings are just lust most of the time tho if u know were yall stand with eachother and have boundaries yall can be chill
would you fuck her tho
@@wedoalittlemonkeybusiness6545 Some people really don't know how to let go of feelings. I have never had issues being friends with people, but it's very hard for me to like anyone enough to want to 'be with them'. I don't expect people to understand it, as many just cannot get past their attraction. When people are like "you locked the feelings away" - no...I understand psychology well enough, I don't hold on to feelings. letting go is not the same as locking away.
It’s almost impossible unless you’re childhood friends like brother and sister or you both are responsible people who set boundaries and can respect it. Realistically not gonna happen in 99% cases.
even if youre childhood friends one of em is still gonna fall in love. Opposite genders can never have best friends of each other
Nah after a while you kinda realize that your getting too comfortable around eachother. The perfect match is when you're able to express yourself 100% to a young one and not put on some fake persona where you just dont act like urself even 10%. If you can be 100% around a bird shes the one. Bit cringe but is what it is
I think you definitely grow out of this mentality for sure, I personally don't think you can be friends with Exs in a platonic way but there are people who you have a laugh with where you dont want anything more. But not until you're at least 24-25 in my experience (I'm 31 btw)
no boundries in Alabama
Lmao almost impossible unless you both set boundaries? So entirely possible? Don't project your insecurities or inability to view the opposite gender platonically to everybody else.
Can only say this from my personal experience but I've had crushes on quite a few of my female friends at different points in my life. I've never let that ruin things between me and the girl and I usually never told them about it because I knew it wouldn't work out but I was able to keep being friends with them without any problem. From speaking to other guys about it I genuinely think it's a male-specific thing, I think men just visualise relationships and attraction differently than women do. I think women look at a guy and are thinking whether that relationship would work out in the long term whereas men are thinking whether the relationship would work in the short term and because of this girls can write a guy off instantly whereas guys will hang on to a girl they think might work out. I think this means overall that men and women can't truly just be 'friends' I think there's always a high chance the guy might have or catch feelings so that would put it outside the boundaries of 'just friends'. But from personal experience that does not and should not stop you from trying to be friends, every relationship whether romantic or non-romantic has complications so its not as big of an issue as you maybe think it is
i was following your reasoning but your conclusion is completely unfounded.
Guys aren’t “destined” to catch feelings for a girl especially if he is in a relationship
@@NithinJune Same. Everyone who's been in a friends with benefits type situation knows it's typically the woman who ends up catching feelings and then shit gets complicated. Typically, not always but the trend is there.
I honestly don't know how they even came to that conclusion since it's common knowledge that women are the ones who are more in tune with their feelings way more than a guy will be in a relationship sense. So to come to a conclusion that there's a high chance the guy would be the one to catch feelings is kinda confusing.
@@Sephiroso. I think he means that the guy will catch "feelings" fast because men, by absolute nature on a hormonal level, simply think about pro-creation sooner. Whereas female first thoughts may be more geared towards "how will this guy treat me and my kids in the future?" Of course I'm not saying it's all that black and white. If men see a female they are attracted to, they are now chemically attracted to them. If they become friends or not friends, that thought will be there and will be hard to get rid of. I mean.. it comes down to we are all sexual beings.
@@Sephiroso. i don't think we're talking about "friends with benefits" though, i'm pretty sure we're talking about strictly platonic relationships. at that point that relationship would not be considered platonic anymore, by definition.
it goes both ways honestly. Over half of the girls I became friends with over the course of my life later admitted they liked me at some point or had a crush on me.
it's something you have to be careful with though. one of my best friends, we had no romantic feelings towards each other, but were out partying once and got pretty drunk. led to flirting/body contact and got to the point where we started making out and kissing, but didn't lead to sex because we stopped ourselves. If you get drunk and both of you aren't ugly, shit can happen lol.
That crumpled tissue to the side... is the real MVP.
male/male relationships are very different from female/female I highly doubt you’ll be able to feel that same type of closeness than the one you feel with your gender but you can 1000% be friends
Way lower tier of friendship. I dont even call it friendship they're more like aquintances
Idk I'm a guy and I generally feel more closer to women than I do with guys. Sometimes there is interest from one person but it's like 5% of the time. Having said that, I'd say my friendship with guys is definitely different and we relate in different ways than I do with women
@@sugetsumillenium2112 gay
@@Siikayy I'm not gay lol it's just about not getting drowned by your desires. Like okay you feel attracted to a woman why does that mean you can't talk to her for any other reason than for the purpose of sleeping with her?
@@sugetsumillenium2112 because you have a partner
I like how theres a replay spike at 0:30 because of the discord sound lmao
yeah haha
For me, the case could be said for guys trying to just become friends with girls bc most girls always have an assumption that every guy is automatically sexually attracted to them if they just wanna talk or hangout when that's not the case.
I've had girls talk with me who were looking for something extra when in reality, I was just happy with being friends with them. Just look at Jerry and Elaine from Seinfeld
yes lets use a sitcom as a reflection of real life relationships
@@MyNameIsSalo Its from a show it must be real
Can guys and girls be friends? Yes of course if they're both genuine about it. Knowing when someone steps over the line is the big thing and even if it seems harmless at first it's always unhealthy. If you have certain emotional needs that are usually fulfilled by partners get those fulfilled by partners don't buy into getting them from people who are confused about a "friendship" because you can never truly trust someone who's hiding their intentions / have different expectations for your future.
nice
i think guys and girls can be friends if both are lucky enough to not be attracted to each other in the first place.
as soon as one is attracted to the other, does not matter who it is, a friendship will not work, at least not longer term.
i have two girls i call "friends" and one i also see on a regular basis and it never was weird between us.
we even went some time ago away whole weekends to some events that interest us both, we slept even in one double bed and there was not ONCE a single weird moment. literally just friends.
though i can say i did not think this was possible for me, i never had that until this girl and before i met her i probably would've said that guys and girls cant be friends, period.
I have friends who i find attractive and they find me attractive but we are just friends. it all depend on the person. if you want to stay non sexual or not.
It really depends on the person, lots of people can't handle it, I've been friends with a woman now for 5 years and I see her as a sister to me, some people are able to have platonic connections whereas others find it way harder to separate platonic and romantic which leads to this spilt of people not understanding the other side can actually be friends with the opposite gender without romance etc
You also have the problem were people just lie that they want to be friends even when they are romantically interested because they are scared if they admit feelings you will cut contact, this literally happens en mass. This then leads to the misconception that it's impossible because there is so many people faking.
Maybe you have no real feelings for them, but If one of them offered to milk you with their mouth.....yeah
Yes they can. It can get complicated, but just be real with them and try to avoid saying or doing anything that could come off as creepy
i have a lot of guy friends but ngl I feel like if I didn't have a bf idk if it would be possible, feels like no matter what you do someone catches feelings if you get too close. being in a relationship is a great way to stop them 🙏
My best friend is a girl i met at 5 years old. We are now in our 30s, she is married with a kid, i'm single, and nothing has really changed much.
If you grow up with someone, gender isn't a factor, but i know why this is a debated topic because i've had girlfriends i could never be friends with.
depends on the maturity level of each person. its like 50/50. my best friends wife is a really good friend of mine shes a really good person you can count on, but my neighbor is a 35 year old woman with 5 kids who is on social assistance and smokes weed in her car all day. that girl cannot have a guy friend without sleeping with him.
its all on the individuals maturity.
Ofc if you meet someobe from the context of "best friend's wife" you'll be cool as friends dude💀.
that discord sound sent me down a spiral, I thought I'd been in a call without knowing
I like the part where he said he always thinks instead of looking at it like this he looks at it backwards at this dynamic so he looks like in the end if he's gonna try it at one point the whole fabric is like disintegrating.
I can say with 100% certainty that if a girl was into my interests and participated in my hobbies just like my other guy friends, I would find 0 difference.
I once confessed to my friend that i like her and she wasn't interested but i wasn't asking her out because i myself wasn't ready
But then things got awkward and we talked less
But after sometime everything came back to normal
I act like a friend and not hit on her because itll ruin the friendship
if it blossoms it blossoms and if it doesn't there's millions out there bud
@@porks8947 billions*
Average male female friendship 👆
@@Siikayy average male simp. Keep simpin' for her bruh. Keep being her emotional tampon.
They can be friends as long as boundaries are established and respected. This includes respecting the boundaries of the other person's significant other. EG never text your friends girlfriend/boyfriend unless you told him/her you were about to for an accepted reason.
Guys often accidently adhere to the Nash Equilibrium like in A Beautiful Mind, but there are outliers who just go for take-take-take. On the other hand, women are more like Zenyatta where they give buffs and debuffs, yet usually don't actively spear-head the battle.
That answer Amo gave is so spot on.
I would say in 99% the answer is no. In my country the "friend" means a lot more than a person who i met a few times. Not like in US when is your coworker or a classmate is automatically your friend. This is a person with whom you not only spend time, but whom you can really rely on. I think if you find such a friend of the opposite sex, then you will inevitably have romantic feelings for him/her. And if this romantic relationship does not work out, then indeed you can remain good friends. Quite a rare scenario.
What country are you from?
look up the defintion of a friend
Why not, I mean it's not like you want to be in a romantic relationship with any other person of the gender you are attracted to, unless you are desperate. You can enjoy hanging out with someone AND not being interested into having sex with them.
Yes and no depends on the individual people. Of course, if one likes the other more than friends it's a bit more complicated.
I think they can. I had a crush on my female friend, but my female friend didn't feel the same back so I just accepted it and moved on, and we've been buds nearly 2 decades and she's happily married now with a friend of mine. When I think about it now, I would rather be friends with that person, then go into a relationship with a friend I had a crush on, and risk losing not just the relationship but also the friendship. I mean you can be best friends with that person you're involved with, but the risks are still pretty high from any potential fallout if it goes south.
Aware
@@GriffinTwo Denial. Lil bro got friend zoned.
@@clarencedonovan231 cap 🧢
So you got friendzoned and were forced to accept it. It wasn't your choice to be rejected like that.
@@burntasparagus Of course it was. If I wanted to force the issue it would have ruined the friendship. How is it being "forced" into being friendzoned? I've found other relationships since then so.. what? Once I found out it wasn't a bad thing because I I knew I didn't have to waste my time waiting and wondering. Just moved on with my life but didn't lose a good friend. Holy shit these are the sort of dumb comments reserved for chat.............
smart of xqz to ask his female "friend" if guys (him) and girls (her) can be friends
It really comes down to if you consider a friendship held together by sexual attraction a real friendship. In some occasions men and women can be friends like knowing each other since childhood or your friends wife/girlfriend, but even that can be complicated.
“Lets just enjoy this person” ☕️
0:22 contemplating how to shoot HIS shot properly 😂
I had a female friend in HS. I was attracted to her, but it still worked out. Our friend groups would intermingle and I would end up getting with her friends and she would get with mine. I went to prom with one of her friends and hooked up with her sister. It was an odd dynamic looking back on it but we were good friends and it worked out for both of us.
"HS"
@@diilerk1287 ?
@@unimagin2ble he was a kid back then when he had this encounter. the fact he mentioned highschool totally makes his point basically pointlesss
@@GigaChadTheSecond how is hs the thing that invalidates it? I’ve had female friends since high school and we are still very good friends years after we both graduated.
Bro was friendzoned hard
They can be if there are social consequences, like for example im friends with my boyfriends best friend because he is my boyfriends best friend, but if he isnt then i dont have any business talking to him
okay but like this wasn't xqc asking if two guys can be friends
@@xPOWERx-ne1jr That wasn't what this commenter said lol
They can if the internet doesn't poison your mind enough. It used to be common, and now it's nearly impossible for so many reasons
its pretty simple if theres no romantic feelings on either side then yea boom friends. if theres feelings involved then obviously you dont just see them as a friend anymore.
I think the people who are saying "no" are the ones with little to no contact with the opposite sex. Treat them as regular humans first, not seeing them as love partners. Don't project your own loneliness and insecurities on every person you meet of the opposite gender, you may end up losing potentially important friends that could've been part of your life because of those projections. Most of my best friends are from the opposite sex, and I'm grateful to have them as friends who I know I can count on anytime.
Thanks for coming to my ted talk
Bro you need friends your own gender, our brains work different and you'll hardly grow as much
I think its quite the opposite. An opposite gender relationship wont last because one of them will catch feelings. Unless you dont care about peoples feelings, then i suppose go ahead ,but i dont become friends with an opposite gender person.
Agreed, I actually think girls are better friends than guys in a lot of ways. More guys would benefit from having platonic friendships with girls.
its a loaded question, like yes guys and girls can be "friends" but what people are saying is there will always be some sort of attraction from one side so then its like are you just friends because you like being friends or are you just waiting for the opportunity to present itself
I just hope that the ppl saying no are kids. Im actually concerned for grown dudes saying no to this common sense
I wouldn't know
nope only ur friend to wait for a chance
they can but there is always a slight feel "what if" from both sides. this is just natural instinct and nobody will say otherwise.
Guys and girls can 1000% be friends and I’ve seen great platonic friendships first hand.
I feel bad for anybody that doesn’t believe in that because ultimately you’re just neglecting the possibility of platonic friendship with half the human population.
For this to happen, you need to turn off all the hormones, and maybe then friendship (in a sense) is possible, and friendship is also possible when you have a common cause (working relationship). But if you are just hanging out, there is always a chance that everything will go according to a well-known scenario. I can call a girl a close acquaintance, a colleague, but not a friend in the full sense of the word.
@@olegts1674 Idk maybe you’re just too animalistic to be able to keep your hormonal desires contained but I know of plenty of people who are fully capable of that and have no issues with female best friends.
@@Corzappy I'm not arguing, it's just my experience, nature itself has made friendship between a man and a woman more complicated, we have different brains, different types of hormones and chemical processes in the body. I was friends with a girl for 4 years, and then I found out that she just liked me. That's why you never know what's in your "friend's" head.
@olegts1674 I agree with you but at the same time I don't. One of my best friends now is a girl and I think our relationship is how it is today is due to the fact that she already has a bf and her bf is one of my closest friends today. So the fact that she already has a bf means that in my head I'm already turning off the switch of anything possibly romantic\sexual happening between us. Therefore, any sort of interaction that we had over the past 10 years have been purely platonic. But at the same time this girl is my only female I truly call my friend. As for others girls. Not so much
I have lots of girl friends I'm not interested in. The trick is to have common interests. Only about 20% of my female friendships ever get weird when I'm seeing someone else romantically.
My guy is silently clawing his way out the friendship zone.
"This is hard" *points to his juicer*
Amouranth's answer so accurate.
"Can guys and friends, truly be friends" ~ xQc
This question has always baffled me. I have/had multiple female friends in the last 6 years of my life (am 25) and I only feld attracted to 2 of them and only after I was friends with them for 2 years. I am still friends with one of them and have 2 friends that Ive known for all 6 years and Ive never felt attracted to either of them. And its not like theyre not pretty. Theyre just my friends and that's all. There is so much more than appearance that plays into a relationship and whether you or I atleast see it as a potential one. Friendship, physical attraction and romantical attraction are the 3 corner stones. I can be friends with a girl I find physically attractive, but if its not clicking romantically for whatever reasons then you just aren't considering it. One of them is a lesbian so I will never feel romantical attraction to her, the other is all about open relationships which isnt my thing so I will never feel romantical attraction to her either. There are multiple examples like this, like you wanting kids but her wanting none, hard disagreements on how you'd raise a child, and the BIG one, mental maturity. You can be friends with someone and find them physically attractive and still think theyre a doofus mentally and don't find that attractive.
guys and girls can be friends but it is incredibly more rare than people think
Yeah it takes certain types of people to make it work.
Best friends? Absolutely NOT.
It's human nature. If you get too close to someone of your opposite gender it's because you felt attracted, you are going to generate sexual tension no matter what. Unless you are truly gay.
Just simple friend? Like those classmates you see here and there after a while and hang out with some others. YES. That kind of friendship is actually common. But never more than that.
Only they don't find each other physically attractive
Maybe if you don't have any social skills. It's very normal to have friends of the opposite gender
@@spaghettigal depends on what you consider friendship! A lot of girls claim they have male friends but those male friends don't have pure intentions so to clarify what i'm saying a TRUE friendship between a guy and a girl is a lot harder to achieve/maintain than ppl think
The answer is yes, but it's rare cuz the guy and girl both have to be willing to just be friends and that doesn't happen too often with how much either someone wants a gf/bf or is just so horny they wanna sleep with someone and favor that over a casual friendship.
True
Casual friendship can also include sex, most people just can't handle it.
when did he stream? i never got a notif
BOMBASTIC SIDE EYE FROM XQC
What are u guys then ?
I think they can’t be friends, but rather acquaintances. There’s always bound to be some intimacy when both genders get close to each other and show vulnerability (the further they get to know each other).
I wholeheartedly disagree with you, as long as you have your heart in the right place and hold the intent of strictly being friends I highly doubt you’d like them romantically. You’d have to be extremely desperate to fall in love with any women who are nice to you 💀
@@honeydewof7975 I respect your opinion.
thats not true though, not everyone looks at every person they meet of the opposite sex as some prospect for intimacy and its not like every person you meet is going to be compatible with you in that way. being physically attracted to someone doesn’t automatically mean you’re interested in being more than friends. if you’re mature socially, its definitely possible to have a platonic friend of the opposite sex
this just in: gay people don't exist
I agree with Amo. No point in overthinking it
0:20 he snuck a peek LMAO
They can be friends, but it won't be the same dynamic as a same sex friendship.. that's just how it is. She may find you attractive, you may find her attractive.. especially if both are straight, it's only natural. They can be friends, but there's always that aura... mature people can usually deal with it, younger peeps or immature peeps at times can't control it.
Guys and girls can definitely be friends. I had a great friend (girl) from middle school who told me she had a crush on me and I laughed it off as some immature boy would do at that age. She's very pretty and and got married. I'm super happy for her and we still talk. I honestly don't understand this concept of how boys and girls cannot be friends.
You were more than a friend to her though. The whole dynamic changes. It's actually mind numbing how some people can't understand this.
Thats not a fcking friend holy shit u ppl are retarded 💀
I mean I had a crush on one of my female friends and I asked her out... She wasn't interested and my feelings went away as well.... I thought it would be awkward after that... But she's one of my best friends now...
Of course it is possible, but not for everyone. Also, it depends on people's definition of friends.
Why doesnt he grow a pair and ask her out
Maybe bcs shes married ?
@@dragoseak She still is? No divorce news yet?
@@mygamechannel2300 You havent seen the leaks did you ?
@@infinitygauntlet101 what?
@@dragoseak lol loremaster
To be honest i never even wanted to be friends with women. For me its mostly sexual interest that drives me to them. If its about hanging out, smoking weed/drinking or sports I always rather chose my buddys because its much easier, lesss drama and just overall more fun.
I'm also 99% sure that in most of these "just friends" scenarios theres at least one part that wants more
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misogynistic ahh comment
@@Orange2Timess He has a batchest pic bro what did you expect 💀
@@Orange2Timess Everything I don't like is misogynistic or incel. God, you zoomers are pathetic.
You can, you definitely can.
of course they can.
one of my best mates is a girl, and i treat her like i’d treat any of my guy friends.
we hang out in group and alone, nothing weird.
it’s so odd to say guys and girls can’t be friends, like, are some of you donny’s so desperate you can’t even be friends with a woman without developing romantic/intimate feelings?
would about bi people who are attracted to both can they not have any friends then lol
That’s the things, people will evolve into being more accepting about these matters, but nowadays it turns into heated debates which is unnecessary because progress will never stop
@@mr-xoxoxomka6614 wtf is going on
I'm pan personally and it's totally possible to be friends with both parties no problem. Of course I personally have had a crush for the occasional friend from both genders but at the end of the day I'm able to just see them as that. A friend. Just trying to say not everything is so black n white and that everything has nuance. Moreso than you'd "think/expect" I guess. Anyways anyone watch scream 6
@@who___________________________ dam you like bread that much?
@@V---L 🍞?
We all checked that discord sound didnt we
I think that's a scuffed way of seeing things
First we were friends with my gf before we discovered mutual attraction and got together
And later we're still closest friends
Imo good partner will also be a good friend no matter what
And good friend can remain such no matter what other bonds or interests they have with you or without you
My cousin had a bit different way of it - he and his gf of the time were also friends first then got together
THEN after two years they realised they won't work as a couple
And are friends to this day
In my experience, I have yet to see a guy be actual friends with a girl. For example, my sister, she would always be excited to make new friends and she would make some guy friends. However, those guy friends all ended up being dropped by her because they ALL confessed their feelings to her after a while of hanging out together. Then again, this is high school and we all know how high school guys are. So maybe it is possible as adults and maturity.
It is probably maturity, also a lot of guys just can’t see clear signs a girl wants to stay friends
That's simply being a women tho, 99% of men are not interested in actually being friends, but they will lie that they are, with the plan to try and make it romantic. Like all men do this because they are scared to admit their feelings in case she cuts contact. Men can easily be friends with women if they really want to they just don't it's simple.
It makes sense. Why would guys want to hang out with women if not to have a dating relationship or to have sex? Guys would rather just hang out with other guys, we have more in common and share interests. Other than dating/having sex, there's no benefit to being friends with women, we'd rather just be friends with men.
maybe your sister wasn't clear enough about her intentions, but I don't want to throw shade on your sister, men are just like that sometimes
@@mikerobertson8540 I have two female friends that I've known for years, men aren't all just a hivemind that only like talking to other men
Best friends? Absolutely NOT.
It's human nature. If you get too close to someone of your opposite gender it's because you felt attracted, you are going to generate sexual tension no matter what. Unless you are truly gay.
Just simple friend? Like those classmates you see here and there after a while and hang out with some others. YES. That kind of friendship is actually common. But never more than that.
My best friend was a girl at one point and I'm bi
they can be friends but not close friends if theyre already in relatioships cuz they will eventually catch feelings since close friends spend lots of time together. its basically a guarantee
That discord sound scared the shit outta me. Jesus...
There are 3 scenarios where a guy and girl can friends:
1. If they've known each other since they were a couple of innocent kids and they grew up together then they would most likely view each other as a brother/sister relationship.
2. If the girl is unattractive
3. If the guy is able to easily attract women then he won't be as desperate to try and get with one of the girls that considers him a friend because he already has plenty of other good options.
my best friend (female) was a girl I originally was dating/sleeping with, it never worked out, BUT we enjoyed each others company so we become good friends after and we do a lot together. there is odd moments where we're out drinking and we become touchy touchy with one another and flirty, which doesn't seem strange at all as we clearly have some sort of sexual attraction, just not relationship and deeply in love. you can be friends, but you damn well will always feel something as men are wired that way, unless she set boundaries and vice versa or she's not good looking or attractive, 9/10 boy and girl mates, one or the other is usually gay/lesbian I have noticed though.
My brain can't comprehend a relationship like this
@@Bittles pretty common to have two friends that find one another attractive, but don’t feel the type of feelings you would want to have a relationship and be together. If you can’t comprehend that I’d probably say you’re still a little boy what still has a whole lot to learn and experience 👍🏻
Friends With Benefits position is both a blessing and a curse. :Aware
@@gambigambigambi absolutely, it’s a lot more common than people think though and it’s very manageable if you both have boundaries. I don’t sleep with her, I was stating we both get flirty with one another when drinking which again is common if you both previously dated and or find each other attractive. If you’ve been there and done it, you know what I’m trying to explain 👍🏻
@@ElectroNamii Oh I thought you mentioned you do slept with her, which what I meant by "blessing" lol
Yeah can be friends if u aren't aware or emotionally attracted to them. Basically u stop being friends when u develop feelings - wanting to be together as a couple
She basically just friend zoned him right then and there but without having to explaining it to him just awnsering his question 🤣
She still married I’m pretty sure but she did say she would smash him.
If you answer No to this question you're just an immature person.
I'm bisexual and literally have no problems being friends with guys and girls and let it stay like this.
🤓☝️ I’m bisexual that means I know everything about relationships which have been innately constructive forever and now I want to be friend zoned believing it’s normal - CLM take
@NANA-hf9gc I like dick 🐢
@NANA-hf9gc WHY ?
Yes because the best way to show your maturity is to act like your experience is the same as literally everyone elses, you're so inspirational wow
@@wednesdeity What?
Being incapable of being befriended with the opposite gender without it getting sexual is what I call immature.
I think its funny how i and every other guy know that if you are single and have an decently attractive girl friend, that if you had a chance you would DEFINITELY shoot your shot lol and then its funny seeing the guys that deny this fact even though we all know its true
0:11 MEE TOO FELIX
0:30 editor i swear you better stop making me panic like that
Edit: its 2023 and 0:30 got me again dude
No they can't.
lmao yes they can
speak for yourself
no way
@@tactu666 they cant, you say they can becaure you're 100% friendzoned
@@ppppw2 they definitely can, yall are weirdos lol
also projection much?
Friends doesn't mean ya can't still make love...friend love!
Bro's trying to put himself in the friend zone, lord ball dropper, only our juicer
He sounds like That Blonde guy from the. Flintstones When he mumbles, No wonder.
It did happen to me but I had to reject her and she did the same at some point, now she doesn't love me anymore and neither do I but the truth is that this friendship is rare and she's the only one I know I won't love or be attracted but I can't say the same about my other "friends" that are girls
You both rejected eachother? That seems weird. You both lost interest at some point?
@@sharpieman2035 Damn this is old... She loved me first and I rejected her. After leaving one of my ex some years later, we saw each other waiting for the bus, we talked and then the bus came, we both got in, "weird" we said right ?! Well from that day on we were about to take the same bus for the next 3 years and I didn't knew that. Talk here, talk there, I lost interest for my ex and without seeing it come I fell in love with her. More years to come, I now grown up took some courage and said " I know you have a man atm but I can't keep this to me bla bla bla I love you" type of shit... She gently said "I loved you for almost 5 years and now it is too late, I love someone else". Then I suffered etc...Healed up and saw that her and I wouldn't never make a good couple anyways but only friends. I've had some gold chances to try it again if I really wanted but the thing is, even tho she has a beauty and is a nice girl, I can't cuz I simply don't love her or fell attracted, I like other girls tho but this one It's like my mind blocked her
Yes, but they will rarely chat on social media 😂
bro said he cant focus we know he is watching the preview lol
if you genuinely think that's even a question that to you the answer for you is no
Ok, but I have had friends where we were attracted to one another and remained friends for a long time. I don’t think attraction alone can ruin friendships.
I can’t with this XQC chat 😂😂