I DATED OLDER MEN to fill the void of my absent biological father

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  • Опубліковано 25 лис 2024

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  • @DailyMeaghan
    @DailyMeaghan 11 днів тому +39

    Lebo I am so proud of you, you really are improving your interview skills. You are a better listener in this episode. I am so proud of you mama. Keep it up 🤍 re na Le wena

  • @molatelochokoe1867
    @molatelochokoe1867 11 днів тому +56

    There’s a lot of improvement. I love it here

    • @MyJourneybyLeboKeswa
      @MyJourneybyLeboKeswa  11 днів тому +20

      One foot step at a time, we’ll fully get it eventually!😊

    • @seipatimoleleki2222
      @seipatimoleleki2222 11 днів тому +4

      I'm proud of you my role model ❤❤❤

    • @lebokeswa1804
      @lebokeswa1804 11 днів тому +2

      Thank you☝🏽. We learn all learn all the time🙏🏽

  • @Lee-hp5hc
    @Lee-hp5hc 11 днів тому +22

    its so unfortunate what happened to him. I can't help but love Lebo's reactions. Am literally just here for that

  • @nothandonxumalo4460
    @nothandonxumalo4460 11 днів тому +15

    im loving this podcast. People go through a lot and previously they didn't have a platform that solely focuses on them telling their story and venting . Thank you giving ordinary people (non celebrities) the platform to vent as they navigate their journey

  • @nomangesinthala8948
    @nomangesinthala8948 11 днів тому +18

    You're on the ball, Lebza. Keep those episodes coming❤😊

    • @MyJourneybyLeboKeswa
      @MyJourneybyLeboKeswa  11 днів тому +5

      If you can get the family to subscribe, we’ll definitely go far
      #AWHOLEUS!

  • @AshleyBee444
    @AshleyBee444 11 днів тому +22

    😂madafakha you can't help but love Lebo

  • @LeomProjects
    @LeomProjects 7 днів тому +2

    Well done sis' Lebo, your interviewing skills have improved. Well done and may your podcast continue to grow.

  • @letlhogonolondhlovu6691
    @letlhogonolondhlovu6691 11 днів тому +6

    That part where he said he doesn't have any friends & Lebo cut him short offering her friendship 😂 As an introvert I laughed and said what if he doesn't want friends Lebo😂 Bless the hearts of extroverts, and she enjoys people, bless your heart Lebo😂

    • @kabelomalema9078
      @kabelomalema9078 5 днів тому

      Yes, cos I find it difficult to dsy yes to a friendship request... 😂It feels weird

  • @SpigadoMakoloi
    @SpigadoMakoloi 11 днів тому +5

    This woman is great

  • @GuguMthenbu-ce2fj
    @GuguMthenbu-ce2fj 9 днів тому +3

    Kancane kancane kuyalunga. IMPROVEMENT
    You have my heart Lebo

  • @sisiphonqwane2500
    @sisiphonqwane2500 9 днів тому +3

    Shortest 38 minutes ever. The episode was that good. Lebo is such a funny and gentle host at the same time. Kudos Sisi 🙏👌👌👌

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb 11 днів тому +13

    This is my first time getting ads.. congratulations 🥂 ❤️❤️❤️

    • @lebokeswa1804
      @lebokeswa1804 11 днів тому +4

      Thank you so much👏🏽👏🏽. You guys made this possible💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @fulufhelotshisevhe685
    @fulufhelotshisevhe685 10 днів тому +2

    Lebo you are glowing. We love to see this.

  • @letlhogonolondhlovu6691
    @letlhogonolondhlovu6691 11 днів тому +3

    Cheers to the people who comment, we see the changes. Love that you went straight to the point

  • @TshiamisoMocumi
    @TshiamisoMocumi 8 днів тому +2

    This podcast ❤❤❤is where I will always be❤❤

  • @senzelokuhlenkabini6004
    @senzelokuhlenkabini6004 10 днів тому +1

    Thank you Lwanda for sharing your story. Even though people will forever be judgemental, I do believe you've changed someone's life through talking about your blessings & hardships ❤.

  • @DimakatsoNtshweng-gw9py
    @DimakatsoNtshweng-gw9py 10 днів тому +1

    The first podcast that m watching advert till the end,i love this woman

  • @tanatswataruvinga
    @tanatswataruvinga 10 днів тому +2

    Your an inspiration to everyone Lebo

  • @asandakhathi
    @asandakhathi 11 днів тому +2

    Omg I love Lebo. She seems so sweet man like she has alot of love to give

  • @AnnastaciaSibeko
    @AnnastaciaSibeko 11 днів тому +4

    Thank you Lebo ❤

  • @MarylinK.Z
    @MarylinK.Z 9 днів тому +1

    True. She is improving by the day.kudos to her.👏👏👏👏

  • @MrsNkala-z7b
    @MrsNkala-z7b 11 днів тому +5

    Keep it up Lebo because am addicted everytime i log into UA-cam i check if you posted anything ❤❤❤❤

  • @MpendulenhleZikhali-wm3hn
    @MpendulenhleZikhali-wm3hn 11 днів тому +5

    The consistency is beautiful..Syabonga Lebo

  • @thobekilezindela5316
    @thobekilezindela5316 6 днів тому

    I love that at the end she offers a solution to help with their mental health 🤍

  • @NteboMo
    @NteboMo 7 днів тому +2

    Oh Lebza, because show. Loving the growth. I'm a whole subscriber now. ❤❤❤

  • @ladybee1909
    @ladybee1909 7 днів тому +3

    I'm here to like all the comments of true Lebo Kheswa supporters. 🥰😍

  • @Nunec
    @Nunec 10 днів тому +2

    When someone mentions that their parents or loved one passed on u do not remain quiet Lebo, u acknowledge by passing your condolences or say words of comfort no matter how long ago it was

    • @michaelsithole7392
      @michaelsithole7392 9 днів тому +1

      Deputy Principal Evelina ka Bolpene e Red... Retla Dira di corrections ne

    • @Nunec
      @Nunec 9 днів тому

      @michaelsithole7392 Tsek

    • @Nunec
      @Nunec 9 днів тому

      @michaelsithole7392 Tsek

  • @asandakhathi
    @asandakhathi 11 днів тому +5

    Dear: guest. You're absolutely gorgeous 😍

  • @bathandiwebingwa214
    @bathandiwebingwa214 11 днів тому +5

    So much improvement Lebza

  • @phutilegodi5939
    @phutilegodi5939 5 днів тому

    refreshing! you are a very warm spirit and come across as someone who is easy to talk to. i love this space❤❤💘

  • @phutilegodi5939
    @phutilegodi5939 5 днів тому

    I thoroughly enjoyed this conversation, Lebo as a host!!!! ❤❤❤ it was too short,

  •  11 днів тому +3

    I love you sis Lebo❤

  • @lepinamogorosi5372
    @lepinamogorosi5372 11 днів тому +5

    I like the consistency 😊❤❤❤

  • @aqua_virginia6635
    @aqua_virginia6635 11 днів тому +4

    Wow I enjoyed this

  • @AshleyBee444
    @AshleyBee444 11 днів тому +14

    Lebo has our backs asking ubatholaphi😂

  • @mapoloberthamokgoro3594
    @mapoloberthamokgoro3594 11 днів тому +2

    You are cluein me in Sis lebo❤

  • @nkosivilekhumalo298
    @nkosivilekhumalo298 11 днів тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤ Wow Lebo doing very well congrats

  • @portiatshabane8056
    @portiatshabane8056 11 днів тому +3

    I like the fact that Lebo after everything she is willing to assist nam nditsho this guy must be a prisoner

  • @BathOfMercyWithLucas
    @BathOfMercyWithLucas 9 днів тому +1

    Beautiful watch ❤❤

  • @spicefaith7419
    @spicefaith7419 5 днів тому

    Lawanda such a beautiful name.u are well spoken

  • @malefasalemane
    @malefasalemane 11 днів тому +3

    That “Madafakha!” I felt it, I understand where it comes from

  • @SonOfGodRSA
    @SonOfGodRSA 11 днів тому +4

    I grew up without a dad and was raised by a single mother who worked piece jobs, we slept on hunger, sometimes without electricity and I was forced to be a parent at 8 years old to my second younger brother who was 5 years old at the time(whose dad was not around too)..to this day we never knew our dads and I don't care about knowing them, I have never felt a void mom's love always filled us, today I am studying Computer Sciences and my younger brother Bachelor of Education, we never drank, smoked or slept around blaming it on the absenteeism of our dads, I have met phony people like this dude who blamed their actions and consequences for strange appetites on absent fathers, which I know its crap, I know some loser will think "ohhh but our situations are different, we are different as people.." , NO they are not and we are not different! and most times you find out individuals like these had better privilege, he is not a special case or an exception, I don't feel pity for people like this sorry(or rather I am not even sorry). I had to grow up so fast that I missed having a girlfriend and do what normal teens did, when I look back I do not regret anything, I wrote 3 hours matric exam papers on a hungry stomach for Physical Sciences and Life Sciences, I know what suffering is, what excuses does this phony dude has!?

    • @SpigadoMakoloi
      @SpigadoMakoloi 11 днів тому

      your story n mine are almost similar..

  • @rachelmakutu6865
    @rachelmakutu6865 10 днів тому +1

    I love Lebo’s energy 😂😂😂she has an active inner child

  • @ndihvhuwo
    @ndihvhuwo 9 днів тому +1

    GREAT GREAT IMPROVEMENT!✅✅✅✅
    Keep going. Love it👌

  • @SizweMhlana
    @SizweMhlana 6 днів тому

    I love lebo

  • @mafungwashekumkanikazi2656
    @mafungwashekumkanikazi2656 10 днів тому +1

    I couldn't watch the previous episode about that rape. I tried 3 times and eventually just deleted it. I'm tempted to try this one now.

  • @ntombenhleNtombenhle-x8m
    @ntombenhleNtombenhle-x8m 7 днів тому

    Lebo we love you.

  • @lebogangmaponya2224
    @lebogangmaponya2224 7 днів тому

    Well done Bitso, you did so well

  • @Wanguicathy
    @Wanguicathy 7 днів тому

    Love you loads Lebo 🇰🇪🇰🇪

  • @success1304
    @success1304 6 днів тому

    We love you Lebo

  • @helenikauses9753
    @helenikauses9753 11 днів тому +4

    ❤❤❤

  • @samkelolatha2897
    @samkelolatha2897 10 днів тому +2

    Moddaphakka 😭 10:25

  • @SurpriseAphane-pl9gb
    @SurpriseAphane-pl9gb 2 дні тому

    Lebo wa mpolaya hlee 😂❤❤

  • @lmkleafintheforest3997
    @lmkleafintheforest3997 11 днів тому +1

    Keep it up 🎉🎉I'm even watching the adds🎉

  • @tammy5272
    @tammy5272 11 днів тому +1

    Love it here mami❤❤

  • @michaelsithole7392
    @michaelsithole7392 9 днів тому +1

    Lebo Nna Kego Rata Gao Raasa Maaan... Ntsha Bo Straatmaid bola.... A Whole you this Calm... Aowaaa Maan... Don't Liiiiieeeeeeeeeeeeyyeeeeeeeeeeeeee😂😂😂

  • @olabuk2000
    @olabuk2000 11 днів тому +2

    What is wrong with us in SA. So many women 'married' at R300 with a promise of a continued stipend only to be 'dumped' after the first R300.

  • @Rhulaninkome-np3ux
    @Rhulaninkome-np3ux 7 днів тому

    Lebo your the best🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @phumzamkhuli3809
    @phumzamkhuli3809 7 днів тому

    Oh maarn u Lebo unothando yazi😢😢😢

  • @NtombiDube8498
    @NtombiDube8498 10 днів тому +1

    Oh wow , look at God 😅 #AWholeUs getting ads🎉 congratulations are in order Lebo❤

  • @emilymolaudzi5206
    @emilymolaudzi5206 10 днів тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mvelo2062
    @mvelo2062 11 днів тому +9

    Semhle uLebza today

  • @gwuministries2895
    @gwuministries2895 9 днів тому +1

    It is Lwanda Mbulawa not Bulawa. We went to the same school.

  • @pulengmoatshe9985
    @pulengmoatshe9985 11 днів тому +2

    Ijo bathong she's improved no more disbelief and fucked up people screaming tjo it was a lot.

    • @michaelsithole7392
      @michaelsithole7392 9 днів тому

      It's quite funny I miss her screaming, facial expressions, I m not used to a calm Lebo... No no Not Under my Watch 🫥

  • @KamogeloMabe-wd4gv
    @KamogeloMabe-wd4gv 9 днів тому +1

    But Lebo is Cute shame ❤️

  • @kgomotsotlhapane2076
    @kgomotsotlhapane2076 11 днів тому +6

    Ous Lebo i think there is a lot of improvement, however you can do better please did dipper when interviewing your guest i feel like this interview was very light you could have gone deeper and asked more questions , Also please dont speak over your guests allow them to tell their stories without interrupting them. Otherwise i think your cool, you show a lot of empathy to your guests and throw in a bit of humour here and there which is good in this way the guest becomes comfortable sharing.

    • @lebokeswa1804
      @lebokeswa1804 11 днів тому +5

      Thanks for the feedback. I only engage people on what they are comfortable to talk about. It’s already difficult for them to put their lives out there so I need to create a safe space for them. Let’s be considerate🙏🏽

  • @NompumeleloDhlamini-f6o
    @NompumeleloDhlamini-f6o 10 днів тому +1

    Well done Lebo, inteviewing skills improved, However stop adding your Letoya story all the time,,,,

  • @LeratoHatlile
    @LeratoHatlile 9 днів тому +2

    You know what in as much as the story is hurting me to my deepest core and Lebo being so of a beautiful soul i don't get this gay story..its not giving "true story thing"

  • @criticallyspeaking
    @criticallyspeaking 11 днів тому +5

    Lebo stop interrupting

    • @lebokeswa1804
      @lebokeswa1804 11 днів тому +4

      Please stop criticising for the sake of criticising🙄

    • @NonhleZikalala
      @NonhleZikalala 10 днів тому

      ​@lebokeswa1804 you awesome sis Lebo nd we thank you soooooo much for this podcast ❤ you really improving more nd more everyday 🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @mpumemtebeni979
      @mpumemtebeni979 5 днів тому

      Lwanda,uwenumuntu,owawtholimali nje mahhala.❤

    • @mpumemtebeni979
      @mpumemtebeni979 5 днів тому

      Don't go through a lot Lwanda❤ try and make friends.
      Well done Lebo!

    • @mpumemtebeni979
      @mpumemtebeni979 5 днів тому

      You can act as his father Lebo

  • @unathinibe8089
    @unathinibe8089 7 днів тому

    I know this guy from Queenstown

  • @Moosa_Qubinkomo
    @Moosa_Qubinkomo 7 днів тому

    Mina I want to be the guest's friend hle

  • @happymnguni6284
    @happymnguni6284 11 днів тому +4

    lol Lebo 😂😂 character

  • @MsMousy82
    @MsMousy82 7 днів тому +1

    You can see the healing in you Lebo, I come from something similiar.
    There was no rooftop HIGH enough! 🤣 I wanted the UNIVERSE to know my pain!
    But I'm glad you are rising through the brokenness to emerge as the best version of you.
    While it took me some time to get over it all. I know now how deep my love is, so very deep! I suspect the podcast may come to an end because it served it's purpose now. However, if you continue to go forward with it, I hope you use your experience to pour into others some light and hope for a long time coming.
    Light and Light...

  • @mosamokoena5979
    @mosamokoena5979 8 днів тому

    "I dont eat fish" that is such a rude statement omw!!!! what is it supposed to mean?

  • @Moosa_Qubinkomo
    @Moosa_Qubinkomo 7 днів тому

    Bathi siyi fish 😭😭😭😭

  • @hlumilekunjana8686
    @hlumilekunjana8686 11 днів тому +5

    No contexts provided in the intro...they just begun by talking about a sextape...so confusing for the viewer.

    • @lebokeswa1804
      @lebokeswa1804 11 днів тому +13

      Some people are just born to complain yazi yeses🙄🙄🙄

    • @nthabee
      @nthabee 11 днів тому

      ​@@lebokeswa1804yhoooo imagine... He is here to tell us about this man and some people want to hear about childhood... Singenaphi became we want the breaking news... Abantu baya bora shem🤢🤢🤢🤮

    • @sisiphoB
      @sisiphoB 10 днів тому

      Its true we need a background

    • @michaelsithole7392
      @michaelsithole7392 9 днів тому +1

      Abo Principal Magongwa Bak Lendawo Yoh... Safa Madoda

    • @michaelsithole7392
      @michaelsithole7392 9 днів тому

      ​@@lebokeswa1804yesessessssssssss🤧

  • @houseofmeadow
    @houseofmeadow 10 днів тому +2

    Looks like the bala boys

  • @Ngunikaz
    @Ngunikaz 11 днів тому +2

    Lebo can just let the person introduce themselves and then tell their own story

  • @NehandawaChaminuka
    @NehandawaChaminuka 11 днів тому

    Why are most Xhosa men like him?