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  • Dainá speaks to Adeola about opening up online about ending her marriage, dealing with trolls during her relationship, life after 'couple goals' and inspiring women by keeping it real about divorce.
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  • @BBCSounds
    @BBCSounds  Рік тому +24

    Listen to the full Pressed episode with Dainá on BBC Sounds: www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m001jr3s

    • @Jonesybabie
      @Jonesybabie Рік тому +2

      Thanks for featuring Daína... I love the healing (and revenue) being generated from such a traumatic situation. Major love to that BBC from America 😜🇺🇸

  • @sweetytweety0011
    @sweetytweety0011 Рік тому +665

    I really like Daina. I hope she makes a podcast or series about self love after ending a long term relationship or something. She’s the OG black british IT girl.

    • @Only1Sosa.
      @Only1Sosa. Рік тому +13

      I hear you and agree but to be fair, she is showing just that! Look at her glow Trust me, this is self love in effect

    • @asia036
      @asia036 Рік тому +13

      She definitely has a podcast check her channels out 😊

    • @Chellesz101
      @Chellesz101 Рік тому +9

      Shes done some already check her youtube!

    • @Only1Sosa.
      @Only1Sosa. Рік тому +1

      Her youtube is what im referring to 💪🏾

    • @Poeticfloetic
      @Poeticfloetic Рік тому

      She has one

  • @Miracle-ms9hu
    @Miracle-ms9hu Рік тому +333

    This level of honesty is unheard of, so I'm grateful Daina has the confidence to share the reality of what she went through. Women are the prize!!!

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes Рік тому +4

      actually that is not true, plenty of women talk about and have been talking their partenrs, boyfriends and husband infidelities. What has changed is that society as a whole and particularly the in the black community and the new generation and in this new era is that women are tired of always doing their best to make things work and not get their investment back. BTW I am 42, I have had plenty of examples of healthy happy marriages but it is listening to women like her that at 15, i gave up on love and marriage. however, my view changed when at the same age, I met a boy who worshiped the ground I walked on. After asking my father permission to date, we dated for a whole year.

    • @Kharris6
      @Kharris6 Рік тому +10

      @@RDCFemmes a year… a year??? A WHOLE year? Lmao

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes Рік тому

      @@Kharris6 at 15 1 year is a lifetime. BTW, I wasn't born in the UK so dating in Congo was and still is a lot different. Plus my family relocated to a whole different continent.

    • @sivialove475
      @sivialove475 Рік тому

      IKTR. Especially if you’re a genuine good women!!! Intentions are in the right place. You’re ALWAYS gonna be the prize.

  • @mi3helle707
    @mi3helle707 Рік тому +147

    This is the problem with us women, sometimes we forget our own sauce, how amazing we are, and what we've built. Smh. We shall rise.

  • @sianaLW
    @sianaLW Рік тому +119

    I’m so proud of Daina, I feel like she was so misunderstood but now that everyone is able to see her true self.. everyone has realised how lovely she is.

  • @mahaliabarnes8195
    @mahaliabarnes8195 Рік тому +145

    I remember seeing them on don't tell the bride and thinking the ex is too sexual around other women - pretty boy mentality. Glad that her new chapter is free of her ex and can't wait to see how this journey unfolds. Peace blessings and joy😊

    • @MarshasJourney
      @MarshasJourney Рік тому

      Pretty boys always think they can do anything and get away with it

  • @elmatt4496
    @elmatt4496 Рік тому +121

    Respect her honesty so much

  • @bluereign
    @bluereign Рік тому +77

    Daina's creativity and entrepreneurship is unmatched. We watch for you! Genuine singer song writer, DIY everything. He couldn't have done UA-cam without you. The numbers are us viewers being nosey. I'm glad you're free. Aim high and keep creating.

  • @karmellla
    @karmellla Рік тому +99

    I’m so proud of this woman ❤

  • @milano888
    @milano888 Рік тому +26

    Why isn’t this video format available ? Why go the trouble of staging it to end up voice only podcast ?

  • @jasminenoaladdin2768
    @jasminenoaladdin2768 Рік тому +53

    It’s the linkin up of my fav British girlies 👌🏾😭🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾 so happy for Daina but also just happy this moment happened

  • @CrownAndBloomExoticHair
    @CrownAndBloomExoticHair Рік тому +41

    I was always there for Dainá. Bad b from EARLY.

    • @Ysmami
      @Ysmami Рік тому +3

      Period!!!

  • @uniquetee8341
    @uniquetee8341 Рік тому +41

    I ain’t Gna lie, I feel like HE was one of the trollz that made fake accounts to get to you 😒

  • @Mscarter952
    @Mscarter952 Рік тому +61

    Love herrr! So glad she’s getting a chance to tell her story. ❤❤💐💐

  • @acoupleofkays
    @acoupleofkays Рік тому +17

    I had never heard of her, her music or her couple's channel. I discovered her through her divorce story series and she's such a good story teller and has such a dope vibe, I became hooked to the series. I'm glad her tragic love story turned into a positive healing process and growing her coins & her brand.

  • @beckat7975
    @beckat7975 Рік тому +46

    I’ve ALWAYS watched your vlogs for you. Nothing but Love, blessings, positivity and prosperity sis x

  • @That_AMG_girl
    @That_AMG_girl Рік тому +51

    Dainá deserves every bit of success she’s earned!! This girl is inspiring… making me want to divorce my husband and solo date myself 💯💪🏼💁🏼‍♀️

    • @millymiss1671
      @millymiss1671 Рік тому +6

      Don’t divorce him if it’s saveable because being single is being glamourised and some people secretly wish they had that companionship. I’m not talking about Diania just in general

    • @karmellla
      @karmellla Рік тому +10

      @@millymiss1671 you can have companionship without being married though…

    • @nizia7z
      @nizia7z Рік тому +5

      Do it babes if he's toxic

    • @zainabibraheem
      @zainabibraheem Рік тому +1

      Erm..

  • @PositiveWomenTV
    @PositiveWomenTV Рік тому +36

    You will face many defeats in life, but never let yourself be defeated. -Maya Angelou

  • @phyliciablack2545
    @phyliciablack2545 Рік тому +24

    Girl we will stand with you!

  • @cynthiahoyi3925
    @cynthiahoyi3925 Рік тому +11

    She’s so beautiful and I absolutely love her style, though I don’t think I can pull it off. I can’t believe people used to say she’s not attractive enough for him 🙄🙄.
    Rooting for you Daina ❤️❤️

  • @lejeanteturner1064
    @lejeanteturner1064 Рік тому +32

    Wow! This is such an amazing interview. Daina is so well spoken and bold for speaking her truth. She was made for this. Wish you all the best.

  • @nataliajones9333
    @nataliajones9333 Рік тому +5

    Exactly!!! I started watching just for Daina and she is the reason I keep watching.

  • @IndigenousExotical
    @IndigenousExotical Рік тому +24

    I only watched Tootsie Time tbh! So excited for Daina to continue to flourish moving forward ❤️

  • @leahmcdermott4189
    @leahmcdermott4189 Рік тому +26

    Unrelated but Adeola looks like such a cutie with her bare face and that hairstyle. It’s giving young and adorable & I love it! So gorgeous! 🥺💕

  • @charm_comomagick
    @charm_comomagick Рік тому +13

    Aht aht no way he said that smut?? The Vlogs got more views cos folks like vlogs and behind the scenes, her regular life so ofc more tuned in not cos of him but cos we get to see Dainás daily life! Im so glad shes free of that toxic mess!! ❤❤

  • @ednaidatipote5602
    @ednaidatipote5602 Рік тому +11

    I love Daina..she keeps it so real 💯🙏🏾 May God heal you, you are such a beautiful soul and you deserve the best in this world 🌎 ❤

  • @domthagoddess
    @domthagoddess Рік тому +2

    Man been watching all of Daina uploads thru this cuz it’s so transparent and refreshing

  • @lindajanet
    @lindajanet Рік тому +22

    Good for you hun, yes your in your prime. Love it for you ❤

  • @prosperwilliams
    @prosperwilliams Рік тому +7

    Great strength shown! ~ Prosper Williams ❤

  • @stacyjaytv
    @stacyjaytv Рік тому +12

    LOVED the full episode❤ I would love to see Daina on Shan’s Lovers & Friends podcast🤩

  • @tigress3003
    @tigress3003 Рік тому +9

    Waiting for Ahmet to post a comeback video from all this. “My side” 🤣🤣🤣

  • @TheeTage
    @TheeTage Рік тому +12

    I love Daina so much!

  • @estadje
    @estadje Рік тому +9

    I'm so proud of this girl💛

  • @ninanegedu
    @ninanegedu Рік тому +12

    Love you, Dainá❤️

  • @gulfpearls
    @gulfpearls Рік тому +10

    Dainá finally love u …
    It’s about damn time

  • @HD-eu3zg
    @HD-eu3zg Рік тому +22

    I'm in my priiiiime. Well said Daina. You are gurlfrendddd. I'm in my prime this time he knows I'm so damn fine. 😎😎😎

  • @chrissytapu8253
    @chrissytapu8253 Рік тому +3

    I wish it was a full video 😍😍😍 Love the podcast!

  • @chantebennett
    @chantebennett Рік тому +16

    Every time she speaks about being trolled I can’t stop thinking that it’s probably her ex husband behind it the whole time.

    • @Poeticfloetic
      @Poeticfloetic Рік тому +1

      She was being trolled by bad mind girls also.

  • @aliamichelle_
    @aliamichelle_ Рік тому +4

    It has always been you, Dainá!!! We came for you and stayed for you! Don’t ever forget that!

  • @user-gm2ix2ii3k
    @user-gm2ix2ii3k Рік тому +6

    Daina We support you all the way ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @rozloc21
    @rozloc21 Рік тому +9

    So Prada you, Dainá!👏🏿🥰💖

  • @Only1Sosa.
    @Only1Sosa. Рік тому +8

    Man iwish more of us spoke up about how much we prefer Daina on her own, because I sure did. I even unsub'd because of him
    Daina is what we call not Daina & X - you are more than enough Queen

  • @karenfletcher2954
    @karenfletcher2954 Рік тому +6

    ❤❤❤ Daina!!! Strong black woman who is so talented. Keep growing and glowing Gurl.

  • @EBB505
    @EBB505 Рік тому +3

    I listened to the whole episode, the only thing I didn't like was when Adeola said she wouldn't recommend therapy. I get that it's from her own experience but girlllll I definitely think Daina would benefit from it simply because she's coming from a whole public marriage that she was being emotionally abused in for 12 years.

  • @nayatarot777
    @nayatarot777 Рік тому +7

    YESS DAINA. who knew we’d get this collab? 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @TBUK292
    @TBUK292 Рік тому +7

    Couldn't click on this fast enough, subscribed to Daina for years, 2 of my favourite Women (Love you too Mariam) on the same platform, Loving the growth, well done Ladies.

  • @samiatbk
    @samiatbk Рік тому +1

    The honesty was refreshing! It reminded us all that things will be okay in the end! ❤

  • @BeautyOfFat
    @BeautyOfFat Рік тому +2

    I can’t even lie I never use to watch their couples channel but her solo channel was my ish lol loved her DIYs and story times x

  • @Laura-sg6ss
    @Laura-sg6ss Рік тому +8

    Yes DAINA🌟🥰 she needs to really leverage this time and get on it, on it 🥰🌟 I wanna see her on shows, Channel 4.0 and them tings deeeeeehh

  • @happyhappy5829
    @happyhappy5829 Рік тому +1

    Love you Daina and Adeola ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @doristhomas1801
    @doristhomas1801 Рік тому

    Oh I was definitely always watching for Daina

  • @h6955
    @h6955 Рік тому +6

    Love this

  • @merrygold1998
    @merrygold1998 Рік тому +5

    Dainá 🖤

  • @itsyaboyjdubz
    @itsyaboyjdubz Рік тому +6

    Love her! ❤

  • @jadethomas9744
    @jadethomas9744 Рік тому +8

    Dianá (Tootsie) is an inspiration foreal ❤️

    • @tayzjahm.522
      @tayzjahm.522 Рік тому +2

      Yess tootsie omg the memories that brings uppp❤😂.

  • @justshe_6618
    @justshe_6618 Рік тому +5

    Ooh yes Daina ❤

  • @emuyetube
    @emuyetube Рік тому +1

    I ooh and I aah! I love me some Pressed!!

  • @ehnylatiye
    @ehnylatiye Рік тому +1

    This is such a vibe and you got a vibrational woman on your set! Dopeness!! ♥️🔥🔥🔥😍

  • @EmmaLouiseHamilton
    @EmmaLouiseHamilton Рік тому +9

    Here to support ❤. p.s minority voices always the loudest, majority just watch and support. A good reminder to be more active in comments and showing support.

  • @Leira6267
    @Leira6267 Рік тому +1

    On the part she said she felt people didn't like her, that is true because on Lipstick Alley. They comments were vile against her. I am not sure if things have changed now that she is single. I haven't gone back there in years.

  • @andye.3960
    @andye.3960 Рік тому +5

    I love daina but The ageism here offended me. I am in my early 40s and life has never been better. I am in my prime!!😎

  • @Graceugox
    @Graceugox Рік тому +2

    I love daina

  • @SummerTyme2023
    @SummerTyme2023 Рік тому +4

    Yes girl.

  • @princessblin3356
    @princessblin3356 Рік тому +6

    You got your power back

  • @alaneofmyown
    @alaneofmyown Рік тому +12

    30 is the new 20 💁🏽‍♀️

  • @gia4408
    @gia4408 Рік тому +4

    It's daina 🙌🏾💕💪🏾

  • @funsizedazzy6708
    @funsizedazzy6708 Рік тому +1

    American fan I followed for you😊

  • @jeannilsamuel1448
    @jeannilsamuel1448 Рік тому +1

    Go Daina 💎✨

  • @CandidG6
    @CandidG6 Рік тому

    I love this conversation, and hate to be that guy, but I need to know where Adeola got this cardigan!! 😍😍🥰

  • @abimbolavera8027
    @abimbolavera8027 Рік тому

    Daina you're the queen

  • @nh782
    @nh782 Рік тому +6

    I stopped watching the couples channel because I did not like him lol she has always been the star...

  • @jazzknowsbest
    @jazzknowsbest Рік тому +3

    Also Diana the algorithm may have been only catering to videos with both of you guys.

  • @MarshasJourney
    @MarshasJourney Рік тому +6

    People will always make good looks cloud their judgement. Look at the pretty prisoner guy turned model. If he wasn't handsome he would be somewhere rotting in prison today.

  • @TheDeckiller
    @TheDeckiller Рік тому

    We love you daina ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nanaafriyieee
    @nanaafriyieee Рік тому

    CMON LINK UPPPP

  • @23ahndra
    @23ahndra Рік тому +1

    DIANIA!!!! 🧨🧨🧨

  • @salome8559
    @salome8559 Рік тому +1

    DAINA PRIIIIIIIIME

  • @KellW2012
    @KellW2012 Рік тому +1

    I really only watched tootsie time tbh. So thats crazy.

  • @sunshine-xh9tp
    @sunshine-xh9tp Рік тому +4

    🥰

  • @preti1990
    @preti1990 Рік тому +3

    I loveeeeeeeeee Dxinx..... that's my fav🥰🥰🥰

  • @amark8786
    @amark8786 Рік тому +1

    Omg it was tootsie tiiiime

  • @melinatural
    @melinatural Рік тому +29

    I’m so happy to see this talk about

  • @Jas-ly5fz
    @Jas-ly5fz Рік тому +4

    I stopped watching Daina when she started only making videos with her ex. I bet a lot of tootsie time viewers also did.

  • @dansamdan99
    @dansamdan99 Рік тому

    I'm so proud of the bbc shining a light on divorce instead of shining a light on successful marriages!
    Nice to see them promoting single life!
    Next, I would like to see the bbc shine a light on onlyfans and how anyone can start! 🤔

  • @amark8786
    @amark8786 Рік тому +1

    Dammm she way over here

  • @cynthianorwood7346
    @cynthianorwood7346 Рік тому +1

    Am I tripping or do we have 2 new tattoos on the face? 😊

  • @user-yz1lb3cm7z
    @user-yz1lb3cm7z Рік тому +10

    I’m so glad she’s in the process of divorcing Ahmet. Now she can finally come out the closet and Ahmet can too

  • @charlie.1001.
    @charlie.1001. Рік тому +6

    Lol this uk black dating scene 🤧, rule no1 never put your business out there

    • @FortunaFavored
      @FortunaFavored Рік тому +62

      Nah. Thats domestic abuse tactic number one. Air that scene out. Let the light in.

    • @hurlscoutss
      @hurlscoutss Рік тому +21

      ​@@FortunaFavored Thank you for this! There's definitely people watching and relating, possibly helping them leave.

    • @macpeter1321
      @macpeter1321 Рік тому +1

      @@kaymsov “stop making excuses” abusive relationships involve violence people are afraid to leave because people get killed for leaving first off, the mental toll it takes on people is also a big part. With things like manipulation and gaslighting you should blame the people who abuse others not people who are victims of abuse.

    • @macpeter1321
      @macpeter1321 Рік тому

      @@kaymsov people like you act like it’s so easy to avoid men like this when men like this are master manipulators. They are literlal psychopaths sometimes. The fact is men will pretend to be who women want and then change colors slowly while mentally confusing the people that are with them. Women are not mind readers and they shouldn’t have to be.

  • @vtara5394
    @vtara5394 Рік тому

    Adeola doesn’t look right

    • @kelsb6262
      @kelsb6262 Рік тому +4

      Just because she’s not wearing makeup? Comments like this make people feel like they always need to be wearing makeup.

  • @tam8197
    @tam8197 Рік тому +2

    how progressive...