WHY ARE WE SO ADDICTED TO VLOGS / SOCIAL MEDIA ? | Mindful Consumption.

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  • @donniemdluli7287
    @donniemdluli7287 10 місяців тому +1

    My advice is focus on the niches or the type of content that you want to channel in that season of your life.
    I have found that faith based content has grown my relationship with God.
    OGs who used to used affordable makeup tutorials taught me makeup, I no longer consume more makeup videos. I have the skill and the technique works for me (that's good enough) so I am not watch GRWM and new products in the makert
    My finance people have taught me a lot and it's through those videos I have payday routines and understanding of finances. TRUST ME IT'S BEEN REFLECTIVE IN MY SPENDING, SAVINGS AND INVESTMENTS.

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому +1

      I would be lying if I said UA-cam has not taught me some of the best skills I have. I actual started watching UA-cam a lot in lockdown when I wanted to learn how to braid my own hair and after that it was skin care research when I struggled with adult acne so this is so true!! In fact I’m pinning this comment, thank you for sharing Donnie! 🌻

  • @siveswartbooi
    @siveswartbooi 10 місяців тому +6

    I thought vlogs are the most useless form of content emhlabeni. Watching someone live instead of living. But when I moved and lived alone, it was so helpful. When someone is vlogging cooking, I would cook with them. If they doing a "clean with me" I would literally clean with them. It made me feel less alone while living alone , like you have a buddy while doing mundane tasks. I think as long as you're being productive while watching them it's fine. Maybe while gyming, while cleaning etc.

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      Wow! I love this perspective, thanks for sharing. 🌻 There’s someone else who mentioned that they also watch vlogs while doing something else. For me it’s when I’m cooking cause Im usually alone and can use the company. I think as long as the level of consumption is healthy and you not overly invested to the point where you are no living then it’s absolutely fine!

  • @Rosey-Dik
    @Rosey-Dik 9 місяців тому +1

    Andiswa m a new subbie here 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
    Okay i watch vlogs simply bcz i live alone, i kind of feel i hv company when watching them. Secondly its bcz i dont hv friends. Lastly i learn abour trendy stuff going around bcz i know i hardly cud ever be exposed and learn. So i can say i m keeping in touch of the world through vlogs
    Thank you❤❤❤

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  9 місяців тому

      That makes a lot of sense, I think the most important thing is that you are getting some good positives out of the consumption and it sounds like you are.

  • @Naizabae
    @Naizabae 10 місяців тому +2

    Thats why I enjoy watching vlogs while im busy with something else, sitting and concentrating is for movies/series.
    This year the plan is to take weekly breaks off socials 🤞

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      More and more people are just taking time off and I get it. I hope you enjoyed your break and can't wait to see your come back 🙂

    • @Naizabae
      @Naizabae 10 місяців тому

      Im enjoying my time off and my break is coming to an end 💞@@AndiswaMojapelo

  • @masedimoshe2969
    @masedimoshe2969 10 місяців тому +1

    I used to love a well known wellness Podcaster in the country. And a colleague said "She reads books and regurgitates what she reads. Go and read a book".
    Also my debt-free journey is another reason I stopped watching other people live their best life. It was weighing me down emotionally. And ever since I stopped, there has been a difference in my spending and how I attach my worth to material possessions

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      Shuuu!! Simple but so profound. We really need to take the time to go and get the information ourselves sometimes Nostradamus of relying on other people to share their interpretation. So proud of the decision you took, you discovered what your triggers were and nipped it in the bud.

  • @VuyokaziManyamalala
    @VuyokaziManyamalala 10 місяців тому +2

    After a couple of videos a moment to scroll I see this video.
    Shuu I’ve been enjoying this time off the mindless scrolling. Big take out about it is that I’m having less FOMO, I’m not too invested in what’s happening in other people lives it’s soo great.
    I deleted the famous apps just as I was commenting on an influencer Yho I realised no man I can’t “know” so much about this person.

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому +1

      I agree, It’s really refreshing. We sometimes take the impact of hoarding all these lives and emotions lightly but it all adds up to be honest. All the best on your detox.

  • @joeydlaminivlogs
    @joeydlaminivlogs 10 місяців тому +1

    Bathong Mr M lol. Sometimes when I am watching vlogs m family will be asking what am I really watching 😅. And I will be honest that is because I'm supporting. I was telling Naiza today that the are certain things I don't want to ue my attention to. I was never really a vlog person until being a youtuber. I'm still not really a lifestyle person but I'm learning how to enjoy different perspectives. This year I want to be intentional about eha I watch.

    • @joeydlaminivlogs
      @joeydlaminivlogs 10 місяців тому

      I think you are right sometimes we get over invested in people's life. I still have areas to work on with what I consume I am doing a lot of inner work. Last year I felt that iu was spending too much time on social media while my wish was to spend time offline. So this year I am working on it

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      Being a UA-camr makes it worse honestly but Here’s to mindful consumption in 2024. 🙌🏾 It’s also still a work in progress for me too.

  • @keakhumza3399
    @keakhumza3399 10 місяців тому +1

    😂😂I’m laughing because I was thinking about this on Saturday and then deleted my social media apps except for WhatsApp . Ai I don’t miss watching vlogs or reels that are not educational

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      What a co incidence. I think we all find ourselves in need of a detox at some point..

  • @TheWonderBearRSA9632
    @TheWonderBearRSA9632 10 місяців тому

    😂😂😂😂 bendithi ndi ndedwa been having this conversation with myself 😂😂😂 night made thank you Andiswa

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      You are not alone, my pleasure 😂😂

  • @maitemogelocorporatesoluti3093
    @maitemogelocorporatesoluti3093 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you Andiswa for this. 🙏🏽

  • @maitemogelocorporatesoluti3093
    @maitemogelocorporatesoluti3093 10 місяців тому +1

    So Profound ❤

  • @ratibamohale
    @ratibamohale 10 місяців тому

    I think we have gotten ourselves in the loop. For me personally, I struggle to sit in a quiet space. My mind races, and I end up needing to play something. My wife even said I can't sit in silence. 😢
    A mind is easily distracted by things that are not useful to us. We spend time on them shem. Our attention span on things that will be valuable and important to us is less

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      I was watching a podcast and they were talking about our inability to sit in silence and how we refuse to entertain our thoughts. I felt like he was preaching to me. Hubby is much worse so there’s that grace 😅

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      I agree and the fact that we only have 24 hours and a limited attention span means we really ought to focus on the things that matter

  • @lograciaekstein
    @lograciaekstein 10 місяців тому

    Hey cuz,
    I’ve been avoiding this video because I am going to write a lot 😂😂
    I’ve massively cut down on the amount of content that I watch or consume on all these apps.
    Last year when I needed to spend less money, I watched less unboxing content. And it is content I love, but I had to dig deep and realize that just because someone has it, doesn’t mean that I need to have it too.

    • @lograciaekstein
      @lograciaekstein 10 місяців тому

      10:27 🤌🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥 I’m so glad you said this!!

    • @lograciaekstein
      @lograciaekstein 10 місяців тому

      Biggest lesson of 2023 as a
      creator, you have to create more than you consume. And that helps me look for content that I will learn from and adds value instead of just watching.
      I have so much more to say, but I won’t hog your comment section 😂

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому +1

      lol at avoiding only to eventually return. ❤️ Well done to you n making the change, nothing beats self awareness, only great things follow after that!

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому +1

      This statement was for all the content creators out there who feel like people are invading in their space as well as for the people who don’t realise there’s a line..

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому +1

      Yeeeep. Create more than I consume is the tip I’m on too. 🔥🔥

  • @phumezafetumani7509
    @phumezafetumani7509 10 місяців тому +1

    😂😂😂😂 Mna ndizthandela ndaba zabantu nje sana .like Of my wifi is on ,my charger nje both phones and laptop I'm done hlala ndlini whole day😂😂😂 I'm sure nani senindaz because wow ndyapitizela kwesi strato si red mna😂😂😂😂.even at work andinalo xesha labantu😂😂😂

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому +2

      And uphakathi inside , ndimane ndithi gqi ngawe kuFreeway 😂😂 But that means I’m also there moss neh ? 🙈🙈

    • @VuyokaziManyamalala
      @VuyokaziManyamalala 10 місяців тому

      Siyakuthanda

    • @phumezafetumani7509
      @phumezafetumani7509 10 місяців тому

      @@AndiswaMojapelo caba siyafana ke sana speed sam nawe snye kwesi strato🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @phumezafetumani7509
      @phumezafetumani7509 10 місяців тому +1

      @@VuyokaziManyamalala ❤️❤️❤️❤️ loads ke sana nonkeeee niyazaz

  • @phumezafetumani7509
    @phumezafetumani7509 10 місяців тому +1

    😂😂😂haayke I don't waste time on things that I don't relate ,I don't even follow people that I don't enjoy their content.

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      Exactly! And that’s my thing, watching is fine as long as you leave happier, entertained or having learnt something. Not ukmosha ixesha on things that deplete you…

    • @VuyokaziManyamalala
      @VuyokaziManyamalala 10 місяців тому

      Ungandishiyi hamba ubuye

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      😂😂😂

  • @ncuminkilitshana1049
    @ncuminkilitshana1049 10 місяців тому

    Decided to stop watching fitness girlies because i clearly am into, so why not be one of them🎉

  • @phumezafetumani7509
    @phumezafetumani7509 10 місяців тому

    😂😂😂😂 I choose read others questions and answers because I don't want to be angry when that person didn't answer me the way I wanted😂😂😂😂 .so I read what is written don't care much about information that is not given .if ke I ask sometimes it's when I see ba that person is comfortable to answer because ke as much as we never met or know each other but syanazi ba anitandi ezinye questions😂😂😂😂

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      Aaaaaand the president of UA-cam Subscribers is….Phumeza 👏🏽😂

    • @phumezafetumani7509
      @phumezafetumani7509 10 місяців тому

      @@AndiswaMojapelo 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Rosey-Dik
    @Rosey-Dik 9 місяців тому

    Hey andiswa
    Kindly share the titles of your book collection

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  9 місяців тому

      Hi Rosey, I have quite a a lot of books, the ones you see are just the ones on display. Maybe I will do a video to talk about some of my all time favorite reads, thank you for the idea!

  • @shirlstravels
    @shirlstravels 10 місяців тому

    When I saw the thumbnail I was like, look at my friend throwing us content creators under the bus 😅

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому +2

      Speaking purely from a subscriber point of view lol. I also mention time and time again how much I enjoy the people I watch. So there is a promotional element here that we must not overlook 😅😂

  • @Naizabae
    @Naizabae 10 місяців тому +1

    Aka shady Mr M LMAO

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому +1

      The quiet ones are the worst I tell you 😅

  • @nompumelelomfeka590
    @nompumelelomfeka590 10 місяців тому

    OMG,I can so relate, I always find it weird how I can sit and watch someone chopping onions ,like why😅

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      When you find the reason let me know as well because wow 😅

  • @VuyokaziManyamalala
    @VuyokaziManyamalala 10 місяців тому +1

    I skipped some cooking content namhlanje I was like no man this vlog is long coz this said person is cooking. 😂😂😂 Yhoo when I get to that moment I close that vlog tab.
    I’ve also looked at my own content ndibone no man Vuyo you don’t have to “deliver” every week.

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      Mr M killed me that day shame but we gotta love these people for flagging these things. You don’t have to nyani and sometimes you want to and that’s okay too, just wish we’d go with how we feel more than what’s on demand.

    • @VuyokaziManyamalala
      @VuyokaziManyamalala 10 місяців тому

      I’ve recently been pushed by the revenue I’ve made but is it worth it? Nope coz I spend more time editing to make 0.20c per hour of video watched hayi

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      Compare that with the hourly rate of your 9 to 5 ke… Woah 🚮

  • @phumezafetumani7509
    @phumezafetumani7509 10 місяців тому

    😂😂😂😂 once I notice ba I don't gain anything from this content creator o delete sana whenever u tube suggest I press not interested quick😂😂😂😂 because sana I really don't hve time to waste on someones Content that I don't relate

  • @shirlstravels
    @shirlstravels 10 місяців тому +2

    I think for some, it sometimes starts off with being nosy ... 😅, wanting to be in the loop as to what goes on in more known content creators life's.
    And for others, it is living vicariously through other individuals.
    Lol, I never understood or watched vlogs until I became a UA-camr myself. Now I watch certain vlogs to show support and because I like the personality or there is something inspiring in the person. I do, however, watch while doing something else as well.

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      Being nosy will be the death of us but that’s true. It could also be inspirational which I think is completely fine. AS long as there is something there for you and you not leaving depleted.
      I’ve also paired Vlogs with chores like cooking now then at least you getting more out of the time.

  • @phumezafetumani7509
    @phumezafetumani7509 10 місяців тому

    Asozeeeee😂😂😂😂 how do you watch someone doing something that u don't like ?never😂😂😂😂😂

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому +1

      Bayabukela sisi and even have the energy to leave a paragraph to explain how much they dislike what they’ve been watching for an hour 🤦🏽

    • @phumezafetumani7509
      @phumezafetumani7509 10 місяців тому +2

      @@AndiswaMojapelo sies bamdaka abo ntlizio ezi. Because hurting someone's feelings ufumanan??because that's discouraging

    • @VuyokaziManyamalala
      @VuyokaziManyamalala 10 місяців тому

      If there’s anyone who’ll tell us when they don’t like something nguwe sisi 😂😂😂 ndikuthembile kakhulu futhi

    • @phumezafetumani7509
      @phumezafetumani7509 10 місяців тому

      @VuyokaziManyamalala 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the fact that I still follow you ladies that means nenza konkeee endkutandao😍😍😍😍.

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому +1

      There’s really no need. Ngaske umntu ashiye phantsi xa engasathandi and fight the urge to be rude.

  • @VuyokaziManyamalala
    @VuyokaziManyamalala 10 місяців тому

    “When are you and Mr planning on having a baby?”
    Ngaske ndithi please get pregnant on my behalf in the meantime. Coz ain’t no way I’m running out of time marni it’s ridiculous 😂😂😂

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      Xa sekhona owokqala then it’s “when are you having another one?”. Then when there are 2, “are you just going to have 2?” Then when there are 3, “when are you guys getting a bigger car or house”?? Saze salithwala Idombolo.

    • @VuyokaziManyamalala
      @VuyokaziManyamalala 10 місяців тому

      @@AndiswaMojapeloHayke the car chat has entered the conversation. Are you getting a family car 😂😂😂 in which economy people

    • @AndiswaMojapelo
      @AndiswaMojapelo  10 місяців тому

      🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️