Goodness I can relate to many of your points but so proud of my 2023 self. The biggest change has to be getting out of my "comfort" zone, and trying out things that aren't guaranteed to work out, no longer "boxing" myself
There's no greater feeling than being proud of the work you've done on yourself and for yourself - well done! 🙌🏽 You've taken the biggest step, being our on the internet for the world to see is no joke so it can only get better from here!!
I can relate to your points especially 1 & 2. I used to make excuses but oneday I was like hai no let me tell them and I told them (my friends) that ‘I won’t be available for this and that because of lifestyle change I am not saying our friendship must end but I’m tired of lying and making excuses’. I was tired of going to places I didn’t wanna go. I have been to restaurants alone and I think I am comfortable now and I enjoy it. I went to my first concert alone 🙆🏽♀️🫣Thank God fest it was not easy yoh but I met good people there then after that I have been to social events/concerts alone it’s still hard because I have to convince myself before I actually go 😅…Next is solo traveling I wanted to do Cape Town alone this year but I didn’t 😅🫣 maybe next year.
Wooooow!! A whole concert - that's another level. Solo traveling is definitely one for the brave. My friend did it for an international trip this year and I was sp proud of her! Also could you please share your email address with me via DM on Instagram - I'd like to invite you to something early next year. 🙂
@@AndiswaMojapelo yeah solo traveling is really for the brave yoh international futhi she really did well. I will start local then international later😆. Ok sure will send you 🤗🙏🏽thanks
High expectation one its hard one for me especially when it comes to friendship I just walk away i dont have time and energy 🚶🚶 I actually enjoy my alone time doing things by myself when i want to .
It's actually watching people like you and my friend Shirley ( who's also your ntanga actually 😂 ) that motivates me to prioritise me time and not be scared to try things alone..
Lol I saw a primary school friend when I went home and instead of lying about catching up I remembered your Insta post 😂😂. So I enjoyed seeing her and didn't make any promises.
I enjoy doing things alone .like my husband knows I'm fine being dropped and left alone because amadoda ayadikwa sith sngena zonk shops skhangel specials ezi less nge R2😂😂😂😂
A life partner really does spoil you nyani. Mna ke I've always had friends person so this is a complete first but I'm really enjoying the experience...
Yours is not that bad though because it's with good intentions. The only thing is it can be financially straining sometimes. Mna it's not necessarily that I want them to experience but that I need them to be a social cushion of some sorts...
I like the actioning things/ speaking when there’s a 90% chance of winning. I get you no one wants to lose. Also like that you’ve taken action when the chances are lower.
Such a tricky one to balance that one cause like you said no one wants lose and losing constantly is demotivating.. I've dropped it to 70% now - not going below that 😂
It's going to feel awkward at first. Sometimes, in the beginning, I would even follow up with the reason why I said no days later but ke when you finally get it. You will feel so much relief.
Goodness I can relate to many of your points but so proud of my 2023 self. The biggest change has to be getting out of my "comfort" zone, and trying out things that aren't guaranteed to work out, no longer "boxing" myself
There's no greater feeling than being proud of the work you've done on yourself and for yourself - well done! 🙌🏽 You've taken the biggest step, being our on the internet for the world to see is no joke so it can only get better from here!!
Wow Andiswa you make sense man.❤❤
That's always my aim 🙏🏾
I can relate to your points especially 1 & 2. I used to make excuses but oneday I was like hai no let me tell them and I told them (my friends) that ‘I won’t be available for this and that because of lifestyle change I am not saying our friendship must end but I’m tired of lying and making excuses’. I was tired of going to places I didn’t wanna go. I have been to restaurants alone and I think I am comfortable now and I enjoy it. I went to my first concert alone 🙆🏽♀️🫣Thank God fest it was not easy yoh but I met good people there then after that I have been to social events/concerts alone it’s still hard because I have to convince myself before I actually go 😅…Next is solo traveling I wanted to do Cape Town alone this year but I didn’t 😅🫣 maybe next year.
Wooooow!! A whole concert - that's another level. Solo traveling is definitely one for the brave. My friend did it for an international trip this year and I was sp proud of her!
Also could you please share your email address with me via DM on Instagram - I'd like to invite you to something early next year. 🙂
@@AndiswaMojapelo yeah solo traveling is really for the brave yoh international futhi she really did well.
I will start local then international later😆.
Ok sure will send you 🤗🙏🏽thanks
The asking for help part is difficult,have a great holidays love
We'll keep trying. Thank you hun and the same to you! 🌻
Doing things alone🔥🔥🔥
Yebooo 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
High expectation one its hard one for me especially when it comes to friendship I just walk away i dont have time and energy 🚶🚶
I actually enjoy my alone time doing things by myself when i want to .
It's actually watching people like you and my friend Shirley ( who's also your ntanga actually 😂 ) that motivates me to prioritise me time and not be scared to try things alone..
I love how well articulated you are❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much, practice makes perfect ☺
Lol I saw a primary school friend when I went home and instead of lying about catching up I remembered your Insta post 😂😂. So I enjoyed seeing her and didn't make any promises.
Ah man - this is music to my ears and nyani just enjoy the present fully so without the little white lies! Love it!!
@@AndiswaMojapelo lol
Binge watching❤
Appreciate you 🤗
I enjoy doing things alone .like my husband knows I'm fine being dropped and left alone because amadoda ayadikwa sith sngena zonk shops skhangel specials ezi less nge R2😂😂😂😂
You absolutely killed me with the R2 part and I'm laughing because it soooo true and udikwa finish 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Beautiful book shelve
Thank you so much. I DIY'd it in a vlog on the channel ☺️
Big up to you for charging People !!! ❤❤❤❤❤You can’t work for free in these life everything is costly
Singafa ntombi yoh! Alot of effort goes into creative work, not only effort and time but money too!!
I used to be able to go to restaurants alone, now I’ve just gotten used to going with Mr M I need to revisit going out alone
A life partner really does spoil you nyani. Mna ke I've always had friends person so this is a complete first but I'm really enjoying the experience...
Having high expectations i stopped that too
I have no doubt that it will be one of the best decisions we have ever made
I used to be lazy to drive and let Mr do it for me.. 2023 I say NO
Nice!! I'm also in that whatsapp group 😅
Number 2 my issue is that I feel guilty for leaving others behind especially if I know they will enjoy it too. But I want to stop that
I am so proud of you for all the work you have done. They resonate with me. Well done on putting a price on your services
Yours is not that bad though because it's with good intentions. The only thing is it can be financially straining sometimes. Mna it's not necessarily that I want them to experience but that I need them to be a social cushion of some sorts...
The was no ad on the whole video even at the end please check if you enabled ads
Thank you Joey! The thought of becoming who I want to be really excites. me. I'm not a fan of "That's just who I am."
@@AndiswaMojapelo we are the same that statement actually annoys me🙈
Hey Andiswa❤
My unlearning Queen. 🥰
I like the actioning things/ speaking when there’s a 90% chance of winning. I get you no one wants to lose.
Also like that you’ve taken action when the chances are lower.
Such a tricky one to balance that one cause like you said no one wants lose and losing constantly is demotivating..
I've dropped it to 70% now - not going below that 😂
❤❤❤❤❤
2024 we meeting neh?! 😀
@@AndiswaMojapeloplease for my sake 😂😂😂😂😂😂
💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Next year I need to say no without explaining myself because i still say no but still explain myself. Going forward no qha qwaba🫣
It's going to feel awkward at first. Sometimes, in the beginning, I would even follow up with the reason why I said no days later but ke when you finally get it. You will feel so much relief.