Level Up Your Social Circle

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  • Опубліковано 19 лис 2024

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  • @samanthaLwellness
    @samanthaLwellness 3 роки тому +63

    if there’s one thing that I personally learned in 2020, it’s to no longer minimize myself for others ✨ great content!

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  3 роки тому +5

      Thank you. Yes We Stepping on Their Neck all 2021. Grow & Flourish Beautiful

    • @ajohonly3721
      @ajohonly3721 3 роки тому

      Same here SW.
      Your learned it later in life but! So much better.

  • @TRUECRIMEKEN
    @TRUECRIMEKEN 3 роки тому +61

    I love saying “condense” rather than “cutting people off”

  • @goldengirl7625
    @goldengirl7625 3 роки тому +53

    Sis, this is the content I need! I just relocated to a new city , a place where I don't know anybody and although I'm scared, I know this is the perfect opportunity to get aligned with new people. I want be aligned with more classy, feminine, goal-oriented, and business minded women; dare I say, women who are even "better" than me because I just really need people who will motivate and inspire me to continue to level up. Don't get me wrong, I do love my current friends, but a lot of them are stuck in old/stagnant patterns.

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  3 роки тому +8

      Omg yess i totally understand I think it's great that you want to make relationships with women who motivate you and I totally understand what you mean as I have don't the same

    • @TashaWashington
      @TashaWashington 2 роки тому

      Facts!

  • @Relevnt
    @Relevnt 3 роки тому +29

    I’m probably the only guy here but love your videos, amazing advice and energy !!

  • @MzZophia
    @MzZophia 3 роки тому +28

    This was sooo good! I've had to let go of certain friends because they held me back or were manipulative/setting me up to lose, energy vampires, basically not friendly. It's so important to cultivate rewarding friendships that elevate you/help you grow in different areas of your life.

  • @yeahaboutthatthough3656
    @yeahaboutthatthough3656 3 роки тому +6

    I agree. I've gone as far as to disable my personal social media accounts in an effort to effectively remove superficial social interactions. It really helped me identify the most worthwhile connections in business and the most genuine connections with friends and family. I'm great with having a much smaller circle. It has allowed me to focus more on my career and other important life projects in play. Love this video, Jocelyn!

  • @imanbell2827
    @imanbell2827 3 роки тому +2

    I have one consistent genuine boss lady friend and I just love our friendship. I’ve been there for her. She’s been there for me. We met through a leadership forum. I saw her strut down a hallway looking badass with a leather jacket, black boots, and I saw her put on her red lipstick. And the day before I saw her dominant with me in this discussion our leadership forum was having. We are just both queens and I think all your advice was A1. It’s great to have at least one genuine friend who you can vibe with, who wants the best for you and you want the best for them. I am blessed to have more than one friend like this but she surpasses them all and I just thought of this because of what you said at 16:27 I agree.

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  2 роки тому

      ♥️ thank you for watching the video

  • @Charoletta77
    @Charoletta77 3 роки тому +15

    Yes that is what I did I unfriend and blocked a lot of people including family and love from afar , a lot are narcs they get mad but I'm going to be happy

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  3 роки тому +1

      Yes I had to do this too

    • @kali18
      @kali18 3 роки тому

      I agree. In 2019 I blocked so many fake friends and it was the best decision ever. I felt free and after that I was able to level up both my life mentally and physically and I am so happy now. 🥰

  • @CinemaDoll137
    @CinemaDoll137 6 місяців тому

    Coming back to this because I want to level up my social circle and improve my odds of the kind of men I meet! My first step has been getting a second nursing job so that I can afford to move out of my parents home and into a wealthier side of town to have better access to luxury

  • @natishamoseley6054
    @natishamoseley6054 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks for the advice. It always makes me sad because I can never find a friend like me but I recently got married and my husband is just like me lol so I’m no longer the loner.

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  3 роки тому

      Sorry to hear that. but at least you have your forever best friend and partner now aka your husband

  • @waterstosify
    @waterstosify 3 роки тому +5

    Jocelyn this came at the perfect moment. I have a friend who I like but is inconsistent with communication and tries to SCHEDULE facetimes. when she randomly called me today, she said she was "nervous" to talk to me because she didn't have any internships or big news and how she "knows" I always have a lot going on so in essence, she apparently feels a type of way. I am extremely private and dont post or talk about my accomplishments unless its with people I am motivated by and I trust so for her to say this made me feel as if I come across boastful when I only use my experiences to cheer on my likeminded, ambitious friends. The Facetime got cut off so while I was reassuring her she should never feel intimidated to talk with me, I didn't even get an explanation or call back from her.
    I have a few friends I've given advice to that have had situations like this so I gave one a call, completely unannounced like I'm accustomed to. This friend told me I cant let someone else's insecurities make me want to minimise myself because you're not boasting if you're simply giving people progress reports on what you are and arent trying to accomplish. We then ended up talking about so much about how we want to end our semesters, spirituality v religion, and so much more.
    The stark contrast is making me revisit whether I should be calling the first girl a friend or an acquaintance because I'm really trying to avoid any evil eye if that's the case.
    Anyways, as always, thanks for the video and loved your live today!

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for your message and your friend is right you should never minimize yourself just so someone else can feel better. your accomplishments should be celebrated by your friends it shouldn’t make them jealous.

  • @Nkeabands
    @Nkeabands 3 роки тому +6

    I love that you spoke on this! As I’m currently leveling up, I’ve reflected on some of my current and previous friendships and I’ve noticed that a lot of our interests just don’t align anymore which i know comes with growth. I’m excited to level up my social circle!

  • @BDLwithNG
    @BDLwithNG 3 роки тому +4

    Yes this! I just posted a video on my channel about something similar to this! Friendship has to be 50-50!
    Thanks for posting 👏🏾✨

  • @bigla4897
    @bigla4897 3 роки тому +4

    Very intelligent, well spoken Queen. Giving great advice. God bless you sis

  • @Charoletta77
    @Charoletta77 3 роки тому +6

    Wow I was just thinking about this and singing that song level up , and I see this video God is good

  • @mirandahollman
    @mirandahollman 3 роки тому +2

    This message resonates with me so deep because I'm going through a transition with a friend of mine for the past 10 plus years.

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  3 роки тому

      I know that must be difficult but you’ll pull through stronger

  • @sandracrump
    @sandracrump 3 роки тому +2

    I love this topic. Thank you for sharing and your so on point I highly agree with everything you said. Make that circle small and worthy of your time and energy.

  • @MercisJourney
    @MercisJourney 3 роки тому +2

    Ooh, you are in my bag Jocelyn! Can’t wait to watch this. Xo

  • @jDunnFIT
    @jDunnFIT 3 роки тому +5

    This message came in time for me 😍

  • @lovelysosweet8386
    @lovelysosweet8386 3 роки тому +1

    People who are jealous are insecure! Great video!❤💕

  • @monicadrew4701
    @monicadrew4701 3 роки тому +2

    This video is exactly what I needed to hear right now, thank you Jocelyn!

  • @mirandahollman
    @mirandahollman 3 роки тому +1

    Watching your video has really helped me put things into perspective. Thank you so much for sharing this message!!!

  • @dianntoney139
    @dianntoney139 3 роки тому +1

    You are so amazing!. Great advice!. I will be passing this along .

  • @a.shuntele7866
    @a.shuntele7866 3 роки тому +6

    F I R S T one girl 😍🙌🏼 I been waiting on you ♥️

  • @yaasantewa2235
    @yaasantewa2235 3 роки тому +1

    Hey I love your videos, I've been watching you for years now and I've always viewed you like a big sis! I'm 20 and getting into my feminine journey, I would love for you to do a video on how to level up in your romantic life. Like what are your best tips on what standards a girl should have for men and herself or what should she be seeking in dating high value men? Also your affirmations video was so helpful with making my vision board, can you do a video on what it is that you do to maintain the flow of self-love and what might you do for selfcare?

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  3 роки тому +1

      Yes Yes & more Yesses I will definitely do a video on those topics very soon. thank you so much

  • @Corsica17
    @Corsica17 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this video🙏🏻🔥❤ just what I needed to hear right now!!!

  • @yaravaz8572
    @yaravaz8572 3 роки тому +8

    Girl don't get me wrong,you look like Kim Kardashian😳...like the black version of her
    They try so hard to look like us(black girls) and I think you would be the perfect representation of her if she could get there,but anyways...You're really gorgeous and I loved your channel❤

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  3 роки тому

      Oh wow I haven't heard that in a while however I really do appreciate your comment

    • @Onlyprevious
      @Onlyprevious 3 роки тому

      Even sounds like Kim abit it’s crazy

  • @haddymaxnjie3685
    @haddymaxnjie3685 3 роки тому

    i really liked this video Jocelyn! very well said. I completely agree to every single thing you said! Also, love love books&vino - keep it up!

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  3 роки тому

      Thank you Haddy I really appreciate your comment and you being apart of books & vino ❤️❤️

  • @Nicole_Gillian
    @Nicole_Gillian 3 роки тому

    This video was all around amazing, eye opening, and sooo helpful thank you!

  • @Aberdeen-we4ew
    @Aberdeen-we4ew 3 роки тому +1

    thanks for sharing your level up tip

  • @soyangelina_
    @soyangelina_ 3 роки тому

    I'm here for this content ! Love love love!!!

  • @crimsonblackheart8095
    @crimsonblackheart8095 3 роки тому

    What a beautiful vibe you have 🌸

  • @JessicaSoMarie
    @JessicaSoMarie 3 роки тому

    She’s back! Yes.

  • @Damnsaburna
    @Damnsaburna 3 роки тому +1

    Would love more info on networking m! Great vid will be joining ur book club

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much I will be doing a video on that soon

    • @Damnsaburna
      @Damnsaburna 3 роки тому

      @@jocelynpartee can’t wait! Love ur videos 💜

  • @shenaaz2419
    @shenaaz2419 3 роки тому +2

    You look stunning J😭🥺

  • @sonyawilliams2204
    @sonyawilliams2204 3 роки тому +1

    love this video! btw what lashes are you wearing? so beautiful

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  3 роки тому +1

      They are from Royaltyhair_extensions in the style Malibu

  • @Maimuna_joy
    @Maimuna_joy 3 роки тому

    This was GREAT ADVICE!!

  • @FashionstylistDallas
    @FashionstylistDallas 3 роки тому

    This Video was so needed , thank you girl .

  • @JessicaSoMarie
    @JessicaSoMarie 3 роки тому

    We’re on the same page.Happy 2021.

  • @Aryhesi
    @Aryhesi 3 роки тому

    I needed this video!! Thanks gorgeous ❤️

  • @Venise.A
    @Venise.A 3 роки тому

    Great video with great points.♥️

  • @dreamydesignsbyalia
    @dreamydesignsbyalia 2 місяці тому

    Wonderful video

  • @blackbeautytrending7032
    @blackbeautytrending7032 3 роки тому

    Great content!! Currently leveling up 🥰🥰✨✨👸🏽👸🏽💅🏽💅🏽

  • @LordLex
    @LordLex 3 роки тому

    Loving this series 💕💕

  • @erica2696
    @erica2696 3 роки тому

    love the hair and makeup please do a tutorial xoxo

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  3 роки тому

      Actually this is the same makeup from my last makeup tutorial I just added a brown liner in my waterline and muted out the colors a bit so it could look a bit different.

  • @clauaome25
    @clauaome25 Рік тому

    You're so pretty!!! :)

  • @CalledForSuchA7imeAs7his
    @CalledForSuchA7imeAs7his 3 роки тому

    Love your talks

  • @MargaritaNji
    @MargaritaNji 3 роки тому

    Love this video & you’re looking gorgeous!

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor 2 роки тому

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @itsmedcmc
    @itsmedcmc 3 роки тому

    Hello. What lip color are you wearing?

  • @shenaaz2419
    @shenaaz2419 3 роки тому

    My all time favorite 🥺💞

  • @ajohonly3721
    @ajohonly3721 3 роки тому

    I joined in 5 seconds new Subs over here 🤘

  • @lolamaven3971
    @lolamaven3971 3 роки тому +1

    Vibe is veryyy important

  • @betty3tes
    @betty3tes 3 роки тому

    You are amazing✨✨

  • @kabriadenise
    @kabriadenise 3 роки тому

    I would love to join your book club. May
    you give me the link please? :)

  • @gaynettawilliams437
    @gaynettawilliams437 3 роки тому

    💛

  • @luciad6588
    @luciad6588 3 роки тому

    I feel like I dont know were to find people with my vibe

    • @jocelynpartee
      @jocelynpartee  3 роки тому

      start with social media and following people who make you feel good

    • @luciad6588
      @luciad6588 3 роки тому

      @@jocelynpartee omg thank u so much girl!! your videos help a lot and u r amazing

  • @matachilds8563
    @matachilds8563 3 роки тому

    👍

  • @Letaarellaa
    @Letaarellaa 3 роки тому

    💫💫

  • @blkbarbi6311
    @blkbarbi6311 3 роки тому +1

    💋❤

  • @ntebalengsefahamela5851
    @ntebalengsefahamela5851 2 роки тому

    You are so beautiful girl

  • @christosstefanidis7662
    @christosstefanidis7662 3 роки тому

    ❤ she is so beautiful so gorgeous sweet kisses from Paros your friend Chris!!!!! ❤